I was going to post this in the Random Wisdom thread, but I decided the Speedway was better, so that it doesn't show up in Search Engines, etc. I was hesitant to post this at all, because it’s really my secret sauce. But it’s Christmas time and I <3 you guys. (Well most =P) So consider this my Christmas gift to the forum.
Okay, so. I have an amazing network of people. Some of the best artists, graphic designers, video editors, data scientists, programmers, Machine Learning experts. Like people who do mind-blowing work. Those are the fields what I work in, but your network can be custom fitted for whatever type of work you do. My network is full of famous authors, accomplished artists, and some of those who are the best in their fields. And these are people I can call on at any time. I can pay them to create something, or ask them for advice. Whatever.
So I’m going to show you how to build a mind-blowing network, and it’s way easier than you think. And this same practice has led to some amazing friendships and awe-inspiring collaborations. And it’s so simple that you may kick yourself for not doing it your whole life.
What do you do? Simply, whenever you admire someone’s work, find their email address and tell them. Google their email address, and shoot them an email so they know their work is appreciated. I’ve gotten emails like this about my work, and it’s amazing feedback to know that you’re helping someone’s life.
Doesn’t matter if the person is big and small. Rich or poor. Let’s say you come across an amazing YouTube video where you feel the editing is spectacular. Google that person’s email address and shoot them a message. “Hey, I really liked your work on _____. I really liked the part where you did _____. Do you have any tips on how to do _____.” And it often leads to conversations that will spark awesome collaborations. But people need to know their work is appreciated. Maybe they’re not sure if people really like their videos or talks or books. You just gave them feedback that will be helpful to them.
You will be surprised on how many respond. Even those who have international reputations.
But there are a few key things. Remember that you’re talking to a person. I hate the word ’networking.’ I prefer ‘friendship building.’ I don’t do this for networking purposes. I just started doing it to give people positive feedback on their work, or wanted advice on something. For example a pretty famous YouTuber... I really liked his video editing, so I shot him an email asking where he got his Stock Footage, and where I could get it. But it just so happened that in a number of cases it sparked a conversation that sparked a friendship that sparked a great collaboration. Again, I started doing this do this because I genuinely admired someone’s work, and wanted advice as well as wanting them to know their work is appreciated. If you have other motives, just do yourself a favor and leave them be.
I love the Kanye West line “If you admire someone you should go ahead and tell them, people never get the flowers while they can still smell them” - (Kanye West - Big Brother)
The next thing is, (and this goes for all relationships...) you have to be bringing something to the table. You have to add value. This goes back to one of the best threads on this forum:
GOLD! - A job isn't something you "get"...
These few things added together have led to amazing opportunities for me, and some of the most meaningful friendships and business collaborations of my life.
Okay, so. I have an amazing network of people. Some of the best artists, graphic designers, video editors, data scientists, programmers, Machine Learning experts. Like people who do mind-blowing work. Those are the fields what I work in, but your network can be custom fitted for whatever type of work you do. My network is full of famous authors, accomplished artists, and some of those who are the best in their fields. And these are people I can call on at any time. I can pay them to create something, or ask them for advice. Whatever.
So I’m going to show you how to build a mind-blowing network, and it’s way easier than you think. And this same practice has led to some amazing friendships and awe-inspiring collaborations. And it’s so simple that you may kick yourself for not doing it your whole life.
What do you do? Simply, whenever you admire someone’s work, find their email address and tell them. Google their email address, and shoot them an email so they know their work is appreciated. I’ve gotten emails like this about my work, and it’s amazing feedback to know that you’re helping someone’s life.
Doesn’t matter if the person is big and small. Rich or poor. Let’s say you come across an amazing YouTube video where you feel the editing is spectacular. Google that person’s email address and shoot them a message. “Hey, I really liked your work on _____. I really liked the part where you did _____. Do you have any tips on how to do _____.” And it often leads to conversations that will spark awesome collaborations. But people need to know their work is appreciated. Maybe they’re not sure if people really like their videos or talks or books. You just gave them feedback that will be helpful to them.
You will be surprised on how many respond. Even those who have international reputations.
But there are a few key things. Remember that you’re talking to a person. I hate the word ’networking.’ I prefer ‘friendship building.’ I don’t do this for networking purposes. I just started doing it to give people positive feedback on their work, or wanted advice on something. For example a pretty famous YouTuber... I really liked his video editing, so I shot him an email asking where he got his Stock Footage, and where I could get it. But it just so happened that in a number of cases it sparked a conversation that sparked a friendship that sparked a great collaboration. Again, I started doing this do this because I genuinely admired someone’s work, and wanted advice as well as wanting them to know their work is appreciated. If you have other motives, just do yourself a favor and leave them be.
I love the Kanye West line “If you admire someone you should go ahead and tell them, people never get the flowers while they can still smell them” - (Kanye West - Big Brother)
The next thing is, (and this goes for all relationships...) you have to be bringing something to the table. You have to add value. This goes back to one of the best threads on this forum:
GOLD! - A job isn't something you "get"...
These few things added together have led to amazing opportunities for me, and some of the most meaningful friendships and business collaborations of my life.
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