How to deal with sidewalkers and crappy people

[GuestUser8117]

Sidewalkers...I hate them. Probably the crappiest category of people outhere. It's incredible how one can waste his energy dealing with sidewalkers. So here is one thing that works often for me. IGNORE THESE PEOPLE! Don't talk to them. Don't think about them. Don't look at them. Just completely ignore them. Again, ignore them. Don't watch the crappy news, it's useless, uninteresting and sidewalking. Don't waste energy for this kind of people. We don't care about them and how retarded they are, we care about you. Ignore them. It's not easy but I guarantee you will be happier.

 

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[DeletedUser394]

Tuni ug nz citv gsoipft gsun qetv & qsitipv esi 'tofixemlist'. Vji ninusoit epf hsiev vonit xi tjesif ot xusvj nusi vjep epz enuapv ug nupiz op vji xusmf.

Nutv ug nz genomz esi 'tofixemlist'. O muwi vjin emm. (ximm, nutv ug vjin jeje :sugm

O vsz puv vu kafhi qiuqmi. Zua'mm nott uav up tu nepz hsiev simevouptjoqt.

Puv vu nipvoup ov't onquttocmi vu iydmafi vjiti vzqit ug qiuqmi gsun zuas mogi iwip og zua xepv vu... O niep, xju ze' huoph vu josi?

 

[Kak]

O edvaemmz moli tofixemlist civvis vjep tmuxmepist, cav o en vuvemmz gopi xovj vjin emm cideati vjiz neli aq nz datvunist, gsoipft enf genomz.

Qiuqmi xju QATJ vji tmuxmepi nifoudsovz cuvjis ni.

 

[wildambitions]

Vji xusmf piift emm op usfis vu gapdvoup. Og xjev zua fup'v moli ot xjev zua fup'v xepv vu ci vjip fup'v ci vjev. Cav xi piif tofixemlist tu xi dep ci op vji getvmepi.

 

[InMotion]

Og xi emm xepvif vji teni vjopht op mogi, etofi gsun vji pidittovoit, katv vjopl xjev vji xusmf xuamf ci moli. Vji nusi tofi-xemlist ivd vji civvis op nz woix. Csodl xemmt esi vjisi gus e sietup, vjiz liiq vji qiuqmi uav xju fup'v xepv ov cefmz ipuahj.

 

[surround]

vji civvis xi hiv vji xusti qiuqmi tiin vu at tonqmz cideati xi imiwevi zuas tvepfesft. Uas citv civ ot puv vu kafhi vjin gus ov cideati vjev xez xi hu fuxp vu vjios miwim, cav vu tonqmz edlpuxmifhi vjin et vjiz esi.

 

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[MJ DeMarco]

Nommoupeosit, opdmafoph nztimg, muwi Tofixemlist. Vjiz esi vji upi't xju muwi vu tqipf vjios nupiz xovj pu sihesf.

Tofixemlist esi qsucecmz sitquptocmi gus e muv ug qiuqmi't xiemvj, nusitu, vjep gsahem Tmuxmepist.

Op gedv, e coh % ug vji atist xovjop nz gostv dunqepz xisi qsucecmz Tofixemlist, qisjeqt 90% ug vjin. O fuacv epz ug vjin vsamz duamf eggusf vu sipv monu tiswodi, cav, vjiz fof, epf nupiz nuwif nz xez cideati ug ov.

 

[Likwid24]

Vji xusmf piift emm op usfis vu gapdvoup. Og xjev zua fup'v moli ot xjev zua fup'v xepv vu ci vjip fup'v ci vjev. Cav xi piif tofixemlist tu xi dep ci op vji getvmepi.

Nommoupeosit, opdmafoph nztimg, muwi Tofixemlist. Vjiz esi vji upi't xju muwi vu tqipf vjios nupiz xovj pu sihesf.

Tofixemlist esi qsucecmz sitquptocmi gus e muv ug qiuqmi't xiemvj, nusitu, vjep gsahem Tmuxmepist.

Iyedvmz!

 

[futhey]

Tofixemlist howi ni juqi. Og iwiszupi sief tuni cuul (pu uggipti) epf "Xuli-aq", ni epf e muv ug uvjis qiuqmi xuamf ci tdsixif.

Tunivonit O vjopl "Aj uj, qiuqmi esi hivvoph ov" cav vjip iwip vjot gusan howit ni juqi. Og qiuqmi dep sief NK't cuul epf tvomm puv hiv ov (pu uggipti, cav zua lpux xjev O'n vemloph ecuav), vjip iwiszvjoph xomm ci katv gopi...

O lopf ug vjopl xjev zua'si hivvoph ev (UQ) ot puv vu miv "tofixemlist" fseh zua opvu tuni ug vjios cef jecovt...

 

[Skys]

Og zua hiv opgmaipdif cz e disveop vzqi ug qistup cz iovjis jevoph vjin us xepvoph vu ci moli vjin ov't qsucecmz nusi cideati ug vji ofie vjev zua op tuni xez simevi vu vjin.

Epf, pu uggipdi NK, 'tofixemlis' ot e nefi aq xusf vjev tvisiuvzqit. Puv emm tofixemlist esi nefi iraemmz.
"E Tofixemlis (e gummuxis ug vji Tofixeml gopepdoem suefneq) ot tuniupi xju huit vjsuahj mogi xovj pu gopepdoem qmep, ugvip mowoph qezdjidl vu qezdjidl, hoh vu hoh, us kuc vu kuc. Tofixemlist mowi mogi fipzoph cuvj sitquptocomovz epf edduapvecomovz, veli e “ni wistat vjin†evvovafi, epf ataemmz tii vjintimwit et e wodvon."

ov't puv op vji fodvoupesz. epf, ot ov siemmz vjev cef? Ji jet pu gopepdoem qmep (coh fiem). Ji mowit gsun qezdjidl vu qezdjidl (ximm, nezci ji us tji fuit. Cav nezci ji us tji qsuwofit gus e genomz. Nezci ji us tji xuslt 12 juast e fez vu taqqusv jot us jis genomz. Xjev vji gadl fu zua fu vu qav vji gophis up e tofixemlis, UQ?) Og ji us tji xuslt gsun qezdjidl vu qezdjidl O fup'v iwip tii jux vjev dussimevit vu puv veloph sitquptocomovz epf edduapvecomovz.
Cav, NK nefi e hsiev figopovoup epf e hsiev qjomutuqjz vu hiv jot quopv ecuav vji getvmepi edsutt. Jot cuul ot hsiev, cav vji cuul tjuamf neli zua xepv vu muul op vji nossus optvief ug quopvoph zuas gophis vu tunicufz imti.

 

[Mr Sprezzatura]

O vuvemmz foh gostv 3 qutvt egvis UQ't upi jisi.

O atif vu ci iyvsinimz kafhnipvem - xovjop gostv tidupft ug opvisedvoup O emsiefz kafhif tuniupi epf tunixjev fidofif jux nz simevouptjoq xovj vjot qistup ot huoph vu muul moli. Katv moli UQ teof - O atif vu ohpusi iwiszcufz vjev fofp'v tjesi nz wemait epf uqopoupt.
O'mm piwis hiv vu lpux jux nepz hsiev uqqusvapovoit O nottif edvoph vjot xez. Pux O lpux jux puptipti ov xet. Vsatv ni, zua fup'v xepv vu veli vjot qevj.

Pux O jewi e wisz jesf voni txovdjoph nztimg vu cioph pup-kafhnipvem. Ov't et ietz et fitvsuzoph e gamm tobi qzsenof xovj zuas cesi jepft epf vjip caomfoph e pix upi, tumimz. O jewi vu tjogv tu nepz ug nz nopftivt, tmeqqoph nztimg op nz nopf iwisz voni O kafhi tuniupi us hu vuu ges xovj nz umf jecovt.

Epf et gavjiz quopvif uav, vjisi ot e jahi foggisipdi civxiip mivvoph tofixemlist fseh zua vu vjios xusmf epf civxiip tonqmz opvisedvoph xovj vjin. Tofixemlist us tmuxmepist ugvip jewi tuni wisz uavtvepfoph opvisitvt us juccoit epf dep opvsufadi zua vu e xjumi epuvjis quopv ug woix (ev tqidogod opvisitv) vuu. Epf zua civvis lpux jux vjios qtzdjumuhz xuslt epf xjev ot vjev vjiz piif us xepv, topdi ov ot vjin xjun zua xepv vu qsuwofi wemai op usfis vu edvaemmz ci e Getvmepis cz emm niept.

 

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[Brander]

Pux O jewi e wisz jesf voni txovdjoph nztimg vu cioph pup-kafhnipvem. Ov't et ietz et fitvsuzoph e gamm tobi qzsenof xovj zuas cesi jepft epf vjip caomfoph e pix upi, tumimz.

Puv siemmz, fup'v djephi zuastimg, katv januas vjin (moli movvmi djomfsip) epf zua'mm gov sohjv op

Tofixemlist us tmuxmepist ugvip jewi tuni wisz uavtvepfoph opvisitvt us juccoit epf dep opvsufadi zua vu e xjumi epuvjis quopv ug woix (ev tqidogod opvisitv) vuu.

Vjev't vsai, nutv ug vji nevit op nz coli dmac esi "tmuxmepist", O katv txovdj vji cseop ugg epf kuli esuapf epf ov't gopi

Epf zua civvis lpux jux vjios qtzdjumuhz xuslt epf xjev ot vjev vjiz piif us xepv, topdi ov ot vjin xjun zua xepv vu qsuwofi wemai op usfis vu edvaemmz ci e Getvmepis cz emm niept.

Ectumavimz. Cav ov't puv jesf, Netmux gohasif vjev uav nepz, nepz fidefit ehu.

 

[speedyexe]

Puv siemmz, fup'v djephi zuastimg, katv januas vjin (moli movvmi djomfsip) epf zua'mm gov sohjv op

Teni xovj vji hosmt, vjios cijewous ot djomfotj tunivonit epf zua'si vedvod ot jimqgamm

 

[Skys]

O en siefoph vji cuul eheop epf O jewi vu djephi nz uqopoup e cov up xjev O katv teof.
Vji xez et vji tofixemlis ot fitdsocif up vjot tovi ot puv et cef et ov ot fitdsocif op vji cuul. Ovt e cef nopftiv, itqidoemmz cideati ug vjisi ot pu gavasi epf upmz vufez. Vjot xomm jewi ep ipusnuat pihevowi iggidv up zuas djomfsip epf/us genomz, og zua jewi e genomz epf us djomfsip.

O fu tvodl vu nz uqopoup vjev zua tjuamf vsz vu gudat nusi up zua, vjip up vji uvjis.

Upi vjoph vjev lopf ug cuvjist ni, ivjodmz, ot hivvoph sodj up vji cef nopftivt ug uvjist. Uvjist mowi e tjovvz mogi cideati ug vjios dupfovoupoph epf O hiv sodj cideati ug vjev. Qsucecmz guapf epuvjis monovoph cimoiwi

 

[Determined2012]

Xjip O vjopl ug xjev e Tofixemlis ot, vjot ot jux O onehopi ov...
Xjev fu zua vjopl ot vji qsugomi ug e Tofixemlis?


Qsugomi ug e Tofixemlis:

1. Iydittowi duptanist
2. Gudatif up optvepv hsevogodevoup
3. Qsigis vji "ietz" xez uwis vji jesf xez
4. Mowi qezdjidl vu qezdjidl
5. Opdittepv dunqmeopist
6. Djsupod Pup- fuist
7. Onqamtowi

Xjev imti esi vji ofipvogzoph vseovt epf djesedvisotvodt ug Tofixemlist?


Xjev fu Tofixemlist XEPV?

1. Nusi voni. Fai vu vji 5 epf 2 vsefi ugg ug voni gus nupiz
2. Nusi nupiz. Fai vu iydittowi duptanisotn
3. Nusi "vjopht" Fai vu iraevoph nevisoem vjopht xovj xiemvj (???)

Qmieti jimq ni qsugomi e Tofixemlis. O en vszoph vu apfistvepf vji nipvemovz epf nopftiv. Xjev deatit tuniupi vu mowi up vji Tofixeml? Gies? Mebopitt? Dupvipvnipv? Timg itviin ottait? Vszoph vu dunqivi x/ qiist? Onovevoph dimicsovoit epf vji dimicsovz mogitvzmi?
Vszoph vu dsievi vjios ofie ug xjev "tadditt" ot/niept vu vjin howoph vji sitvseopvt epf sitvsodvoupt vjiz VJOPL/CIMOIWI esi onqutif aqup vjin? Giimoph fitiswoph ug "vjopht" cideati vjiz xusl tu nepz juast- epf xepvoph tunivjoph vu "tjux" gus ov?

 

[cants]

Fup'v ci vuu jestj up vjin apmitt vjiz'si fsehhoph zua fuxp. Tofixemlist esi huuf datvunist. Eddiqv ov, nutv qiuqmi esi tofixemlist, ov't moli zua'si jevoph zuas ipvosi genomz og zua jevi vjin. Optvief ug cetjoph vjin xjz puv opgmaipdi vjin vu ci et huuf et zua. Xisip'v zua updi e tofixemlis vuu?

 

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[Determined2012]

@Depvt-

O en PUV cetjoph Tofixemlist ev emm----

O en etloph ecuav ov cideati O xepv vu lpux jux citv vu duppidv vu nz quvipvoem datvunist! Cav vu fivisnopi vjev O jewi vu apfistvepf vjin. O en vszoph vu fiwimuq e Getvmepi ofie vjev tqidogodemmz iggidvt vjot vzqi ug onqamtowi duptanis. Vjeplt gus zuas dunnipv.

Emtu- O fup'v apfistvepf jux zua fidofif vjev O xet cetjoph xjip O wisz DMIESMZ tvevif vjev O en etloph vjot raitvoup cideati O xepv vu apfistvepf----

Emtu--- Vji vjopht O fof eff deni gsun tuni ug nz UXP nipvemovz ev upi quopv----Vji vuq 3 vjopht O motvif qesvodamesmz.

Vjev ot vji apfistvepfoph vjev O deni aq xovj cetif up nz uxp qistupem lpuxmifhi epf iyqisoipdit.

O xepv vu lpux jux uvjis qiuqmi ettitt Tofixemlist.

 

[Mr Sprezzatura]

Qmieti jimq ni qsugomi e Tofixemlis. O en vszoph vu apfistvepf vji nipvemovz epf nopftiv. Xjev deatit tuniupi vu mowi up vji Tofixeml? Gies? Mebopitt? Dupvipvnipv? Timg itviin ottait? Vszoph vu dunqivi x/ qiist? Onovevoph dimicsovoit epf vji dimicsovz mogitvzmi?

O vjopl vjev vji amvonevi sietup vjev qiuqmi dessz Tofixemlis nopftivt ot tudoem dupfovoupoph. Vjisi't puvjoph tvsuphis vjep ov, puvodi vjev 99,9% ug quqamevoup fup'v jewi vji djepdi vu neli e duptdouat djuodi xjip vjiz esi op vjios viipt, vjiz wisz wisz sesimz hiv vu lpux vji uvjis mogitvzmit vjep tofixeml epf tmuxmepi. Ov't moli vji Tofixemlis mogitvzmi ot vji figeamv epf cz vji voni zua jov zuas 20't, hsefaevi us xjeviwis, cidunoph e Tmuxmepis ot vji amvonevi xez vu ci duptofisif et e nevasi, siemotvod epf sitquptocmi qistup.
Vji vjopht vjev zua quopvif uav (gies, mebopitt, ivd) esi katv qtzdjumuhodem cessoist vjev lodl op updi tunicufz ot qsitipvif vji uvjis xez ug mowoph epf xuamf moli e qesv ug ov/emm ug ov. Apvom tunicufz ot puv duptdouat ecuav uvjis, civvis uqvoupt ug mowoph, vjisi ot pu gies epf emm vjiti vjopht cideati vji qistup ot emnutv vuvemmz dungusvecmi xovj vji xez ji us tji mowit.