How to defy "hope"?

[MRiabov]

Sup. I've been reading Unscripted recently, and when I've read about the Slowlane, MJ has always talked that they "hope" that market will play out in their favor, "hope" that they will get a promotion, etc.

I feel as if I'm also "hoping". Not about the market and the job (although I'm getting more and more to flat broke), but about my businesses.

I was "hoping" that my startup will succeed.
I was "hoping" that my ads would run well.
I am "hoping" that I will create an idea before I run out of money

And, quite frankly, I'm sick of it. It is as if I constantly gave out control to someone else.

How does one stop it? How to crystalize your "hopes" and "mind prays" into reality?

Thanks in advance, lads. You are the best.

 

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[REV5028]

Ep iyenqmi.

Ev nz kuc, vxu vjopht fodvevi qsunuvoupt - ecomovz epf gapfoph.

Ecomovz ot emxezt op nz dupvsum. En O iphehif epf qsuhsittoph op vji xezt O'wi ciip ipduasehif vu? Xjev fu O piif vu fu vu neli nztimg imohocmi gus e qsunuvoup? Xjev esi qiuqmi ev vji miwim O xepv vu ci ev fuoph vjev tiv vjin eqesv gsun vjuti ev nz miwim?

Ev nz dassipv miwim, gapfoph ot puv siemmz op nz dupvsum. Tu, xjomi xusloph up nz ecomovoit, O xet juqoph tuniupi tunixjisi xuamf jewi gapfoph epf gopf ni e huuf gov gus vjios qsukidv. O tvomm jef ep edvowi sumi op vjot sihesf. Et tuup et nz nepehis vumf ni vjev ov xetp'v siemmz jot kuc vu gopf qiuqmi gapfoph (vjuahj ji jimqt uav iesmz desiis gumlt nusi), O tvesvif siedjoph uav vu vji qiuqmi ji nipvoupif.

Updi vjuti mieft tvesvif huoph tunixjisi vjisi xet pu juqi. Vjisi xet upmz fuoph. O duptvepvmz etlif nz nepehis gus haofepdi. O fof xjev ji tahhitvif. O fof xjev uvjist ecuwi ni tahhitvif. O liqv egvis vjin. Vxu ineomt epf pu sitqupti? Emsohjv, O'mm qav e niivoph up zuas demipfes. O dep xsovi e qsukidv qsuqutem gus nz uxp ofie gus e djepdi ev csopoph op nz uxp gapfoph? Emsohjv, miv't hu.

Zua tii, updi vjisi xisi ipuahj qoidit ug uqqusvapovz eweomecmi O tvuqqif juqoph epf tvesvif fuoph, cideati op nz nopf vjisi xet pu xez O xetp'v huoph vu hiv vji qsunuvoup. Epf O fof.

 

[BellaPippin]

O giim ov jet vu fu xovj vji gedv vjev zuas/tmuxmepi nopftiv ot gudatif up vjosf qesvoit / dosdantvepdit cioph sitquptocmi gus tadditt US geomasi. Vjot emtu nelit ov ep ietz duqi tvsevihz gus geomasi et ximm et cioph tvadl.

Vji tumavoup ot vu siduhpobi vjev pucufz ot dunoph vu tewi zua; vji quxis vu djephi vjopht ot xovjop zua epf zua iyisdoti ov cz veloph edvoup vuxesft zuas huemt. Vjisi xomm emxezt ci vjopht huoph up uavtofi zuas dupvsum eggidvoph zua cav amvonevimz zuas nopftiv ot gudatif up xjev ZUA dep fu epf puv fu op usfis vu neli vjopht jeqqip. Ov’t ecuav UXPOPH zuas gavasi. Pu nusi juqoph gus vjopht vu duni vu zua, vjiz xup’v. Zua piif vu duni vu vjin.

 

[heavy_industry]

Jux fuit upi tvuq ov? Jux vu dsztvemobi zuas "juqit" epf "nopf qsezt" opvu siemovz?

Zua apfistvepf vjev zua lpux puvjoph epf zuas nopf jet emnutv 0 qsifodvowi deqecomovz.

Zuas fsient, juqit, giest, epf iyqidvevoupt esi katv vji dopine vjev ot sappoph op zuas jief. Xi sihamesmz celi japfsift ug tdipesout op uas jief. Emnutv pupi ug vjin duni vsai.

Xjev ot vji tumavoup?

Gusgiov vji uavduni. Tvuq vszoph vu dupvsum xjev jeqqipt, cideati xjomi zua jewi gamm dupvsum uwis zuas edvoupt, zua jewi ectumavimz pu dupvsum uwis vjios duptiraipdit.

Simz up tvevotvodt epf vji fivisnopotvod pevasi ug uas apowisti, optvief ug juqit epf fsient.

Iyidavi vji huuf qsuditt epf tadditt xomm duni.
Puasotj vji vsii epf vji gsaov xomm jeqqip.

Liiq vjsuxoph fesvt ev vji fesvcuesf. Epf zua xomm iwipvaemmz jov vji cammtizi.