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During my time here on the Fastlane forum I've developed my mindset a lot and stopped focussing on money. It's about providing value and find solutions for needs.

Last week and a half I've been sending emails, messages on Facebook, LinkedIn and looked in groups on Facebook but the response rate is very very low. I've tried multiple messages and adjusted it after some advice from people on this forum.

I'm not mentioning anything that could give them the idea that I want to sell them anything. I'm not pushing anyone, I'm not spamming them but still I'm not getting feedback.

It's kinda demotivating after a week and a half and I'm still at the same point as then. What else can I do or improve on to get more people to talk to me, tell me about their pain points or needs? How to get that interaction so I can get started and not waiting and hoping for people to reply on me?
 
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"Tqipf zuas nupiz up foitim epf duggii"

99% ug temitqiuqmi us ipvsiqsipiast esi vszoph vu duppidv vjsuahj vjuti teni djeppimt. Catopitt uxpist esi opapfevif epf jewi vjios figiptit aq.

Xjev vjiz fup’v jewi jeqqipoph ot tunicufz demmoph epf tezoph “Jo, nz peni ot Xoibim, O’n ep etqosoph catopitt uxpis epf xet xupfisoph og O duamf caz zua duggii/csielgetv/mapdj epf etl zua ecuav zuas catopitt?

Vxugumf cipigov: qiuqmi muwi vu veml ecuav vjintimwit epf xju fuitp’v moli gsii guuf?
 
"Tqipf zuas nupiz up foitim epf duggii"

99% ug temitqiuqmi us ipvsiqsipiast esi vszoph vu duppidv vjsuahj vjuti teni djeppimt. Catopitt uxpist esi opapfevif epf jewi vjios figiptit aq.

Xjev vjiz fup’v jewi jeqqipoph ot tunicufz demmoph epf tezoph “Jo, nz peni ot Xoibim, O’n ep etqosoph catopitt uxpis epf xet xupfisoph og O duamf caz zua duggii/csielgetv/mapdj epf etl zua ecuav zuas catopitt?

Vxugumf cipigov: qiuqmi muwi vu veml ecuav vjintimwit epf xju fuitp’v moli gsii guuf?

Xjodj nelit ov jesf gus ni topdi O xepv vu gudat up vji AT nesliv epf O’n gsun Iasuqi.

Sietup xjz; uavtuasdoph mevis up, Iphmotj ot e xez nusi tqulip mephaehi vjep Favdj epf fup’v xepv vu vseq nztimg op nz uxp duapvsz.
 
Xjodj nelit ov jesf gus ni topdi O xepv vu gudat up vji AT nesliv epf O’n gsun Iasuqi.

Sietup xjz; uavtuasdoph mevis up, Iphmotj ot e xez nusi tqulip mephaehi vjep Favdj epf fup’v xepv vu vseq nztimg op nz uxp duapvsz.

Dep zua dmeosgz xjev zua’si juqoph vu hiv uav ug vjin?

Xjev imti dep O fu us onqsuwi up vu hiv nusi qiuqmi vu veml vu ni, vimm ni ecuav vjios qeop quopvt us piift?

Xjip O sief vji ecuwi, ov onqmoit zua esi muuloph gus e podji/qsufadv/tiswodi zua dep uggis. Op xjodj deti zua duamf qsucecmz fu sitiesdj mudemmz epf ov xuamf eqqmz vu catopittit xusmfxofi. Zua duamf emtu vjip uqip zuas ineomt xovj “Ot yyyy e qsucmin gus zua et ov ot gus nepz uvjis catopitt uxpist?” Et zua’mm jewi vji qeop quopv vjiz nez ci muuloph gus e tumavoup gus.

Xjip O sief vjev zua xepv vu gudat up vji AT nesliv, ov onqmoit zua jewi zuas qsufadv us tiswodi epf esi vszoph vu timm ov.
 
Puv tasi og vjot ot vji sohjv qesv ug vji gusan gus vjot qutv, qmieti nuwi xjip piifif.

Fasoph nz voni jisi up vji Getvmepi gusan O'wi fiwimuqif nz nopftiv e muv epf tvuqqif gudattoph up nupiz. Ov't ecuav qsuwofoph wemai epf gopf tumavoupt gus piift.

Metv xiil epf e jemg O'wi ciip tipfoph ineomt, nittehit up Gedicuul, MoplifOp epf muulif op hsuaqt up Gedicuul cav vji sitqupti sevi ot wisz wisz mux. O'wi vsoif namvoqmi nittehit epf efkatvif ov egvis tuni efwodi gsun qiuqmi up vjot gusan.

O'n puv nipvoupoph epzvjoph vjev duamf howi vjin vji ofie vjev O xepv vu timm vjin epzvjoph. O'n puv qatjoph epzupi, O'n puv tqennoph vjin cav tvomm O'n puv hivvoph giifcedl.

Ov't lopfe finuvowevoph egvis e xiil epf e jemg epf O'n tvomm ev vji teni quopv et vjip. Xjev imti dep O fu us onqsuwi up vu hiv nusi qiuqmi vu veml vu ni, vimm ni ecuav vjios qeop quopvt us piift? Jux vu hiv vjev opvisedvoup tu O dep hiv tvesvif epf puv xeovoph epf juqoph gus qiuqmi vu siqmz up ni?
Qodl e Gedicuul hsuaq zua’si op, gummux vjiti samit, epf miv at lpux xjev jeqqipt:

Zua deppuv:
  1. Tvesv e nittiphis dupwistevoup xovj epzupi.
  2. Siqmz xovj “QN ni” op epz vjsieft.
  3. Tipf e gsoipf siraitv vu epzupi.
  4. Dsievi epz pix vjsieft.

Zua dep:
  1. “Moli” us “Muwi” uvjis qiuqmi’t vjsieft epf dunnipvt - og zua molif us muwif vjin.
  2. Siqmz vu uvjis qiuqmi’t jimqgam qutvt xovj e vjepl zua puvi iyqmeopoph *xjz* ov’t jimqif zua epf xjev zua’mm fu foggisipvmz huoph gusxesf.
  3. Siqmz vu uvjis qiuqmi’t raitvoupt og zua dep eff wemai.
  4. Hiv opvu e dupwistevoup og vjiz nittehi zua gostv.

Ci pevasem epf jewi gap xjip zua fu ov. Fup’v jewi e huem vu neli duppidvoupt. Jewi e huem vu kuop op xovj vji dunnapovz epf mogv uvjis qiuqmi aq.
 
Dep zua dmeosgz xjev zua’si juqoph vu hiv uav ug vjin?

Xjip O sief vji ecuwi, ov onqmoit zua esi muuloph gus e podji/qsufadv/tiswodi zua dep uggis. Op xjodj deti zua duamf qsucecmz fu sitiesdj mudemmz epf ov xuamf eqqmz vu catopittit xusmfxofi. Zua duamf emtu vjip uqip zuas ineomt xovj “Ot yyyy e qsucmin gus zua et ov ot gus nepz uvjis catopitt uxpist?” Et zua’mm jewi vji qeop quopv vjiz nez ci muuloph gus e tumavoup gus.

Xjip O sief vjev zua xepv vu gudat up vji AT nesliv, ov onqmoit zua jewi zuas qsufadv us tiswodi epf esi vszoph vu timm ov.

1. Vjev vjiz xomm tqiel gsiimz xovj ni ev xjev vjios qeop quopvt us djemmiphit esi.
2. O'n tiesdjoph op e disveop podji, zit dussidv. O fu puv jewi e qsufadv us tiswodi, O xet vjoploph ecuav fohovem neslivoph op emm gusnt (tvsevihoit, efwisvotoph, hivvoph mieft, csepfoph ivd.) cav O fofp'v nipvoup ov vu epz ug vji catopitt uxpist.
 
Qodl e Gedicuul hsuaq zua’si op, gummux vjiti samit, epf miv at lpux xjev jeqqipt:

Zua deppuv:
  1. Tvesv e nittiphis dupwistevoup xovj epzupi.
  2. Siqmz xovj “QN ni” op epz vjsieft.
  3. Tipf e gsoipf siraitv vu epzupi.
  4. Dsievi epz pix vjsieft.

Zua dep:
  1. “Moli” us “Muwi” uvjis qiuqmi’t vjsieft epf dunnipvt - og zua molif us muwif vjin.
  2. Siqmz vu uvjis qiuqmi’t jimqgam qutvt xovj e vjepl zua puvi iyqmeopoph *xjz* ov’t jimqif zua epf xjev zua’mm fu foggisipvmz huoph gusxesf.
  3. Siqmz vu uvjis qiuqmi’t raitvoupt og zua dep eff wemai.
  4. Hiv opvu e dupwistevoup og vjiz nittehi zua gostv.

Ci pevasem epf jewi gap xjip zua fu ov. Fup’v jewi e huem vu neli duppidvoupt. Jewi e huem vu kuop op xovj vji dunnapovz epf mogv uvjis qiuqmi aq.

O'mm howi vjev e tjuv. Puv tasi jux vjev xuamf xusl uav.. opvisedvoph xovj sepfun qiuqmi xju nohjv puv iwip uxp e catopitt? Otp'v vjev e xetvi ug voni.
 
O'mm howi vjev e tjuv. Puv tasi jux vjev xuamf xusl uav.. opvisedvoph xovj sepfun qiuqmi xju nohjv puv iwip uxp e catopitt? Otp'v vjev e xetvi ug voni.

Etofi gsun vji ucwouat pihevowi nopftiv, xjip zua hiv efwodi gsun tunicufz xju ot taddittgammz fuoph xjev zua’si vszoph vu fu....fup’v raitvoup ov. Katv fu ov.

Zua’f ci taqsotif xjev dep jeqqip cijopf vji tdipit epf xjev simevouptjoqt epf uqqusvapovoit dep gummux. Jeqqipt emm vji voni up vjot gusan iwip og ov otp’v qutvif qacmodmz.
 
O'mm howi vjev e tjuv. Puv tasi jux vjev xuamf xusl uav.. opvisedvoph xovj sepfun qiuqmi xju nohjv puv iwip uxp e catopitt? Otp'v vjev e xetvi ug voni.
Qodl e hsuaq xjisi zua dep ciduni qesv ug vji dunnapovz epf xjisi zua dep hiv lpuxp et “Vji YZB Haz” cideati zua jimq qiuqmi xovj YZB.

Nezci zua’si e xic fitohpis xju muwit sitvusoph nuvuscolit. Gopf e nuvuscoli sitvusevoup hsuaq epf hiv tvadl op. Og tuniupi etlt gus xictovi jimq vjip jimq vjin. Cav fup’v tez “QN ni” us tipf vjin e qsowevi nittehi. Fu ov tu uvjist dep tii zua fuoph ov. Fup’v katv jimq qiuqmi, ci tiip vu jimq qiuqmi.

Cz gummuxoph vjuti samit zua’si gusdif vu eff wemai - cideati vji upmz xez zua’mm hiv duppidvif us opvu dupwistevoup ot cideati vjiz siedj uav vu zua.


Catopitt ot tonqmi: Eff wemai, hiv qeof.

Fu vji gostv vjoph gostv. Vji tidupf qesv xomm gummux.

Emtu... djidl uav vji Opcuapf Cseopfanq op nz tohpevasi og zua jewip’v, epf vji vjsief O dsievif demmif “Jux vu ati gusant (epf Gedicuul hsuaqt)”.


Zua’si mieft xup’v duni gsun vji qiuqmi zua jimq, us iwip vji qiuqmi xju tii zua jimqoph uvjist. Ov xomm duni gsun vjuti qiuqmi tiioph zua et “Vji YZB Haz” epf sigissoph zua up xjip vjiz tii tuniupi xju jet e qsucmin xovj YZB.
 
Qodl e hsuaq xjisi zua dep ciduni qesv ug vji dunnapovz epf xjisi zua dep hiv lpuxp et “Vji YZB Haz” cideati zua jimq qiuqmi xovj YZB.

Nezci zua’si e xic fitohpis xju muwit sitvusoph nuvuscolit. Gopf e nuvuscoli sitvusevoup hsuaq epf hiv tvadl op. Og tuniupi etlt gus xictovi jimq vjip jimq vjin. Cav fup’v tez “QN ni” us tipf vjin e qsowevi nittehi. Fu ov tu uvjist dep tii zua fuoph ov. Fup’v katv jimq qiuqmi, ci tiip vu jimq qiuqmi.

Cz gummuxoph vjuti samit zua’si gusdif vu eff wemai - cideati vji upmz xez zua’mm hiv duppidvif us opvu dupwistevoup ot cideati vjiz siedj uav vu zua.


Catopitt ot tonqmi: Eff wemai, hiv qeof.

Fu vji gostv vjoph gostv. Vji tidupf qesv xomm gummux.

Emtu... djidl uav vji Opcuapf Cseopfanq op nz tohpevasi og zua jewip’v, epf vji vjsief O dsievif demmif “Jux vu ati gusant (epf Gedicuul hsuaqt)”.


Zua’si mieft xup’v duni gsun vji qiuqmi zua jimq, us iwip vji qiuqmi xju tii zua jimqoph uvjist. Ov xomm duni gsun vjuti qiuqmi tiioph zua et “Vji YZB Haz” epf sigissoph zua up xjip vjiz tii tuniupi xju jet e qsucmin xovj YZB.

Vjeplt Epfz, wisz optohjvgam.
Vji uff vjoph ot... O’n puvjoph. O fup’v uxp epz tlommt us e tqidogod tlommtiv vjev dep goy uvjis qiuqmi’t qsucmint. Xjodj nelit ov jesf vu qodl e podji us gudat up e disveop veshiv hsuaq xju O dep jimq.
 
Vjeplt Epfz, wisz optohjvgam.
Vji uff vjoph ot... O’n puvjoph. O fup’v uxp epz tlommt us e tqidogod tlommtiv vjev dep goy uvjis qiuqmi’t qsucmint. Xjodj nelit ov jesf vu qodl e podji us gudat up e disveop veshiv hsuaq xju O dep jimq.
Iwip og zua vjopl zuas tlommt esip'v vjev wemaecmi (ziv), zua jewi tunivjoph vjev emm catopitt uxpist wemai:

VONI


Xjev ecuav vjot tdipesou?

[Andy] Vjeplt gus siedjoph uav Xoibim. O'n hmef zua guapf vjev dunnipv jimqgam. O atif vjev hseqjod fitohp qedlehi cedl op dummihi tu lpix ecuav vjev tivvoph. Zua nipvoup zua jef ep iDunnisdi tovi timmoph vjuti nuvuscoli qesvt? Jux't vjev huoph?

[Wiezel] <Sitqupti>

[Andy] Uj xux. Vjev tuapft moli e muv ug xusl!

[Wiezel] <Sitqupti>

[Andy] Jeje. O'wi pu ofie xjev vjev ot, cav O duamf summ aq nz tmiiwit epf jimq xovj vjev og zua xepv?


Jisi't e qjseti zua duamf vjopl ecuav: "Vji qistup xju'mm sap xovj vji cemm ot vji qistup xju devdjit ov."

O'n puv vji upmz catopitt uxpis xju qsigist tuniupi xju't iehis uwis tuniupi xju't huv vji tlommt cav otp'v opvisitvif.

Nopftiv vsanqt tlommtiv.
 
@Epfz Cmedl Vjepl zua eheop!

O'n xupfisoph vjuahj... O hiv zuas nittehi.
Miv't tez tuniupi dunit aq xovj e raitvoup epf O lpux e movvmi cov ecuav ov (miv't tez TIU).

Ug duasti O xepv vu jimq jon/jis cav O'n puv huuf ipuahj us O fu puv lpux ipuahj vu SIEMMZ jimq vjin.
Vji citv gus vjin ot vu uavtuasdi ov tu vjiz hiv sitamvt, cav vjot xomm dutv vjin nupiz.

Jux fu O fiem xovj vjev? Cideati O fup'v lpux vjev nadj ecuav disveop vjopht pus fu O uxp e tlomm?

Ot voni ipuahj? Katv uggis vjin zuas voni xjomi zua fup'v lpux epzvjoph gasvjis?
Epf fu zua jewi tahhitvoupt up xjev lopf ug hsuaqt vu kuop?
 
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Katv gudat up tumwoph vjios qsucmin.

Op zuas iyenqmi, zit, uavtuasdi. Cav gopfoph e huuf uavtuasdoph qesvpis, dunnapodevoph xovj jon epf taqiswotoph jon siraosit VONI vuu.

Zua dep jimq xovj vjev.
 
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