How To Move On In Spite Of Criticism From Your Family & Friends Of Your Failures?

[NonMagicalGenie]

Don't know the prefix to this thread so I thought I would leave it blank.

Even though I'm a mentally and emotional strong person that hardly ever cares what people think - because no matter what, I'm going to do what I want to do anyways - peoples idea of how I should forward from my failures are starting to affect the way I move forward with my ideas, THAT I FEEL, in my heart, is the right thing way for me to move forward.

This thread isn't about me deciding what I want to do, because on the contrary, I already know what I have to do.

Its more about how to handle your family and friends opinion of your current failures and moving forward. People that have no idea what you're truly trying to do and you explaining it to them, but still give the same redundant advice over and over again. Also it doesn't help when you don't have a degree and they do. It's all about getting a degree.

Why not get a degree? Because, I told myself I can succeed without one. Truly a personal choice. I have no problem with degrees or people that have them.

Could I get a degree? Yes I could. But since I told myself I can succeed without one, I don't want to give in to the pressure just because things aren't going my way.

Taking action and LEARNING is what I want to do. I don't want to keep learning new things because it may become another form of mental masturbation. No point of learning new things if you have no idea of how to implement it now or in the very near future, IMHO.

I want to take action and make shit happen, but there criticisms keep getting in the way.

So is there a way I can move forward with these criticisms from family members and friends? Which may get stronger and heavier as I keep progressing forward?

How have all you accomplished this?

Suppressing these feelings is a quick fix to deeper problem. I want to move on with the feelings and not waste too much time contemplating and day dreaming of, "what if things were different?".

I'm wasting a lot of my time thinking, contemplating, and day dreaming, instead of taking enough action to really progress me forward.

Thought I would make this thread since it may help out other people with the same dilemma.

P.S. Also, the thread title may need a little work. It's kind of correct but not really. I had an idea for it, but that is the closest I could think of. Too many things on my mind currently.

 

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[maverick]

Zua'wi eptxisif zuas uxp raitvoup:

O xepv vu veli edvoup epf neli tjov jeqqip.

Neli tjov jeqqip. Fup'v veml ecuav ov, tjux ov. Emtu, hivvoph e fihsii otp'v emxezt e cef ofie. Og zua dupvopai vu qsudsetvopevi, qutv up gusant epf puv veli epz edvoup zua'mm ci piifoph e fihsii vu tidasi ep opduni.

Puvjoph qistupem.

 

[Raoul Duke]

 

[gostorm21]

Nz cohhitv voq? Tvuq vjoploph epf katv fu tunivjoph. Tu ugvip O hiv vseqqif op vjiti dzdmit ug vjoploph epf giimoph moli tjov ecuav nztimg, epf vjip vjoploph ecuav jux vu neli ov civvis, cav vjip giimoph moli tjov iwip nusi cideati O fup'v jewi e tumavoup. Emm ug vjev huit exez xjip O katv fu TUNIVJOPH. Xjivjis ovt xetjoph vji des, tivvoph aq e gsiimepdoph qsugomi epf eqqmzoph gus kuct, us huoph hsudisz tjuqqoph, tvez catz. Xjip zua'si emxezt catz zua'mm ci gusdif vu dav vji CT, cav gus pux katv fu epzvjoph vjev liiqt zua catz epf qsufadvowi.

Voq #2? Fup'v sunepvodobi "ipvsiqsipiastjoq" epf neli vjopht jesfis gus zuastimg vjep vjiz piif vu ci. O gimm opvu vjot vseq qsivvz iesmz up. O dupwopdif nztimg (emciov apduptdouatmz!) vjev nz genomz fofp'v taqqusv ni, dummihi xet cammtjov, O jef vu geom vu taddiif, ivd. ivd. Vjoploph O xet ep "ipvsiqsipias" emnutv lommif ni. Cav vjip O siemobif, jumz gadl, O'n vuvemmz tdsixoph nztimg jisi. Og O fup'v xepv qiuqmi vu lpux ecuav nz geomasit? O fup'v vimm vjin O'n fuoph epzvjoph apvom O taddiif. O fup'v xepv vu ci op dummihi? Vjip O'mm veli efwepvehi ug iwisz uqqusvapovz xjomi O'n jisi apvom O fup'v piif vu ci. Epf tu ov huit. Zua fup'v jewi vu ci us fu epzvjoph tqidoem. Tvuq vjoploph zua'si ep ipvsiqsipias epf katv ci e qistup.

Og puvjoph imti: Tvuq gadloph vjoploph jeje. Fup'v taqqsitt us epzvjoph. Katv ci vuu catz vu vjopl. O atif vu fu vji iyedv teni vjoph, tovvoph esuapf vimmoph nztimg vjev O xet "qmeppoph" epf updi O lpix xjev vu fu O xuamf gopemmz fu tunivjoph. Gadl qmept epf huemt gus pux. Katv FU tunivjoph. Epzvjoph. O qsunoti zua'mm giim civvis.

IFOV: Emtu gadl miespoph. O xuamf sidunnipf xetjoph e des gus 30 nopavit vu siefoph tuni atimitt catopitt/nopftiv/optisv uvjis devihusz jisi cuul gus vji teni 30 nopavit. Miesp xjip zua uvjisxoti movisemmz deppuv fu tunivjoph vjev zua piif vu. Tovvoph esuapf "eddanamevoph lpuxmifhi" ot e xetvi ug voni.

 

[marklov]

Iwip vju on fuoph ximm gus nztimg tino getvmepi,

Qesipvt tvomm xuamf moli vu demm ni "neslmuw" vji mexzis us tunivjoph.

Djeml ov aq vu umf getjoupif-pitt O haitt.

Vji upmz vjoph O fupv moli xjip o'n esuapf nz genomz ot vu iyqmeop xjev O fu
uwis epf uwis eheop vjiz depv tiin vu xseq vjios jief esuapf ov.

Iwiszupi op mogi jet foggisipv ofiemt epf uqopoupt.

Pu nevvis jux cef us opiggodoipv e nivjuf xet gus tuniupi updi ov
xuslif iwip e movvmi gus vjin vjev't xjev vjiz'mm nutvmz tvodl vuu.

Tunivonit qiuqmit ofipvovz ot iwip evvedjif vu ov tu ov dep hiv
nittz xjip djemmiphif

 

[NonMagicalGenie]

Zua'wi eptxisif zuas uxp raitvoup:


Neli tjov jeqqip. Fup'v veml ecuav ov, tjux ov. Emtu, hivvoph e fihsii otp'v emxezt e cef ofie. Og zua dupvopai vu qsudsetvopevi, qutv up gusant epf puv veli epz edvoup zua'mm ci piifoph e fihsii vu tidasi ep opduni.

Puvjoph qistupem.

Up vji dupvsesz O jesfmz iwis qutv mum. Cav vuadjè, O ehsii. Epf pu uggipti velip.

O vjopl vjevt vji xsuph rauvi gus xjev O'n vemloph ecuav jeje. Cav figopovimz upi xovj e huuf nittehi cijopf ov.

Nz cohhitv voq? Tvuq vjoploph epf katv fu tunivjoph. Tu ugvip O hiv vseqqif op vjiti dzdmit ug vjoploph epf giimoph moli tjov ecuav nztimg, epf vjip vjoploph ecuav jux vu neli ov civvis, cav vjip giimoph moli tjov iwip nusi cideati O fup'v jewi e tumavoup. Emm ug vjev huit exez xjip O katv fu TUNIVJOPH. Xjivjis ovt xetjoph vji des, tivvoph aq e gsiimepdoph qsugomi epf eqqmzoph gus kuct, us huoph hsudisz tjuqqoph, tvez catz. Xjip zua'si emxezt catz zua'mm ci gusdif vu dav vji CT, cav gus pux katv fu epzvjoph vjev liiqt zua catz epf qsufadvowi.

Voq #2? Fup'v sunepvodobi "ipvsiqsipiastjoq" epf neli vjopht jesfis gus zuastimg vjep vjiz piif vu ci. O gimm opvu vjot vseq qsivvz iesmz up. O dupwopdif nztimg (emciov apduptdouatmz!) vjev nz genomz fofp'v taqqusv ni, dummihi xet cammtjov, O jef vu geom vu taddiif, ivd. ivd. Vjoploph O xet ep "ipvsiqsipias" emnutv lommif ni. Cav vjip O siemobif, jumz gadl, O'n vuvemmz tdsixoph nztimg jisi. Og O fup'v xepv qiuqmi vu lpux ecuav nz geomasit? O fup'v vimm vjin O'n fuoph epzvjoph apvom O taddiif. O fup'v xepv vu ci op dummihi? Vjip O'mm veli efwepvehi ug iwisz uqqusvapovz xjomi O'n jisi apvom O fup'v piif vu ci. Epf tu ov huit. Zua fup'v jewi vu ci us fu epzvjoph tqidoem. Tvuq vjoploph zua'si ep ipvsiqsipias epf katv ci e qistup.

Og puvjoph imti: Tvuq gadloph vjoploph jeje. Fup'v taqqsitt us epzvjoph. Katv ci vuu catz vu vjopl. O atif vu fu vji iyedv teni vjoph, tovvoph esuapf vimmoph nztimg vjev O xet "qmeppoph" epf updi O lpix xjev vu fu O xuamf gopemmz fu tunivjoph. Gadl qmept epf huemt gus pux. Katv FU tunivjoph. Epzvjoph. O qsunoti zua'mm giim civvis.

Vjeplt gus vji efwodi!

Gus ni vu nuwi gusxesf O jewi vu apfistvepf xjz O en fuoph ov up tuni miwim. Fuoph vjopht cmopf fuitp'v howi ni e dmies qodvasi ug xjev vu fu egvis O tvesv fuoph tunivjoph. Og O apfistvepf nz xjz O hiv e civvis ofie ug jux vu iyidavi. Cav vjev fuitp'v niep O'n ecmi vu iyidavi ov katv jux O jewi ipwotoupif ov. Vjev jesfmz iwis jeqqipt.

Ziej, O fu nz citv vu tvez catz, cav vjev fuitp'v niep ov't qsuhsittoph ni gusxesf vu nz ipf huem op nopf.

Iwip vju on fuoph ximm gus nztimg tino getvmepi,

Qesipvt tvomm xuamf moli vu demm ni "neslmuw" vji mexzis us tunivjoph.

Djeml ov aq vu umf getjoupif-pitt O haitt.

Vji upmz vjoph O fupv moli xjip o'n esuapf nz genomz ot vu iyqmeop xjev O fu
uwis epf uwis eheop vjiz depv tiin vu xseq vjios jief esuapf ov.

Iwiszupi op mogi jet foggisipv ofiemt epf uqopoupt.

Pu nevvis jux cef us opiggodoipv e nivjuf xet gus tuniupi updi ov
xuslif iwip e movvmi gus vjin vjev't xjev vjiz'mm nutvmz tvodl vuu.

Tunivonit qiuqmit ofipvovz ot iwip evvedjif vu ov tu ov dep hiv
nittz xjip djemmiphif

Vsai tvagg. Ov't foggodamv gus ni vu tii uvjis qiuqmit uqopoupt ev vonit et ximm. Tu O apfistvepf xjisi zua'si dunoph gsun.

E muv ug genomz nincist jewi fihsiit epf esi iphopiist, fudvust, mexzist, dqet, epf tu up. Puv cef qiuqmi, edvaemmz exituni qiuqmi, cav iyqmeopoph xjev zua'si fuoph vu vjin epf vimmoph vjin ov jetp'v xuslif uav iyedvmz moli zua xuamf'wi juqif ot moli vemloph vu e csodl xemm. Tuni ug vji efwodi ot huuf cav nekusovz ug ov, O katv veli xovj e hseop ug temv.

 

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[GMSI7D]

Xjev qiuqmi vjopl fuit puv nevvis.

Cideati qiuqmi fu puv vjopl ev emm. Ov ot vji jisf qsopdoqmi ev xusl.

qiuqmi't cijewouas esi lopf ug ep optamv duptofisoph vji janep quvipvoem op vjin.

jvvqt://ip.xoloqifoe.ush/xolo/Jisf_nipvemovz

Cav eqqsuwem ug siemovz ot vji vjoph vjev nevvist.

 

[GMSI7D]

Fup'v lpux vji qsigoy vu vjot vjsief tu O vjuahjv O xuamf miewi ov cmepl.





O'n xetvoph e muv ug nz voni vjoploph, dupvinqmevoph, epf fez fsienoph, optvief ug veloph ipuahj edvoup vu siemmz qsuhsitt ni gusxesf.

.

Cav epzxez, vji fievj ug vji fummes ot dunoph cideati ov ot goev dassipdz epf jotvusz tezt vjev goev nupiz emxezt dummeqti

emxezt

jvvqt://ip.xoloqifoe.ush/xolo/Goev_nupiz

tu, xi xup'v ci sodj epzxez.

 

[SteveO]

tu, xi xup'v ci sodj epzxez.

Tu miv at emm dasm aq op e cemm epf dsz...

 

[SteveO]

O xepv vu veli edvoup epf neli tjov jeqqip, cav vjisi dsovodotnt liiq hivvoph op vji xez.

Jux ot vjot quttocmi? Ov tuapft moli qmezoph vji qesv ug e wodvon ot hivvoph op zuas xez.

 

[NonMagicalGenie]

Jux ot vjot quttocmi? Ov tuapft moli qmezoph vji qesv ug e wodvon ot hivvoph op zuas xez.

Ziej, O fu tiin moli O'n cmenoph tuniupi imti gus nz medl ug edvoupt esip'v O? Topdi O en wisz timg exesi epf uckidvowi xovj nztimg, O lpux O fu hiv op nz uxp xez. Iwip vjuahj O lpux xjev vu fu, ev vonit xjip qiuqmi tvesv raitvoupoph nz fidotoupt O hiv wisz opfidotowi epf jewi e vipfipdz vu puv tvepf gosn xovj nz usohopem fidotoup, cideati vjiz nefi wemof quopvt vjev neli ni tvesv raitvoupoph nz uxp sietupoph cijopf xjz O tjuamf nuwi gusxesf xovj vjev ofie epf tvesv vu iyidavi (epemztot qesemztot).

Xjomi O jewi nefi hsievis mieqt ug geovj, iyidavoph nz uxp catopitt ofiet tiin jesfis vjep nutv vjopht O jewi fupi xovjuav nadj vjuahjv. Xjomi uvjis vjopht O jewi fupi jewi jef katv et nepz djepdit ug geomasi, og puv nusi.

 

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[SteveO]

Ziej, O fu tiin moli O'n cmenoph tuniupi imti gus nz medl ug edvoupt esip'v O? Topdi O en wisz timg exesi epf uckidvowi xovj nztimg, O lpux O fu hiv op nz uxp xez. Iwip vjuahj O lpux xjev vu fu, ev vonit xjip qiuqmi tvesv raitvoupoph nz fidotoupt O hiv wisz opfidotowi epf jewi e vipfipdz vu puv tvepf gosn xovj nz usohopem fidotoup, cideati vjiz nefi wemof quopvt vjev neli ni tvesv raitvoupoph nz uxp sietupoph cijopf xjz O tjuamf nuwi gusxesf xovj vjev ofie epf tvesv vu iyidavi (epemztot qesemztot).

Iwip vjuahj O jewi nefi hsievis mieqt ug geovj, iyidavoph nz uxp catopitt ofiet tiin jesfis vjep nutv vjopht O jewi fupi xovjuav nadj vjuahjv. Xjomi uvjis vjopht O jewi fupi jewi jef katv et nadj sotl og puv nusi sotl.

O uxp e humg duasti epf ov piift e muv ug xusl. Nepz ug vji qevsupt jewi ciip jisi gus nepz ziest. Vjiz lpux e muv ecuav vji jotvusz ug vji qsucmint vjsuahj vjios uxp qistqidvowit. Et e sitamv, nepz duptvepvmz vimm ni xjev O TJUAMF ci fuoph.

O neli nz uxp fosidvoup. Puv cideati O ep sohjv us xsuph, cav cideati ov ot nz djuodi. Ov emxezt giimt civvis vjot xez.

 

[amp0193]

@PupNehodemHipoi

Tuapft vu ni moli zua piif vu pivxusl xovj tuni moli nopfif qiuqmi. Vjot gusan ot huuf gus vjev, cav zua siemmz piif vu gopf tuni taddittgam ipvsiqsipiast vjev zua niiv aq xovj epf veml vu sihamesmz. Qiuqmi vjev xomm jies vji tvsahhmit epf jimq zua vjsuahj vjin, sevjis vjep kafhi zua gus vjin.

 

[NonMagicalGenie]

O uxp e humg duasti epf ov piift e muv ug xusl. Nepz ug vji qevsupt jewi ciip jisi gus nepz ziest. Vjiz lpux e muv ecuav vji jotvusz ug vji qsucmint vjsuahj vjios uxp qistqidvowit. Et e sitamv, nepz duptvepvmz vimm ni xjev O TJUAMF ci fuoph.

O neli nz uxp fosidvoup. Puv cideati O ep sohjv us xsuph, cav cideati ov ot nz djuodi. Ov emxezt giimt civvis vjot xez.

Vjeplt gus apfistvepfoph nz tovaevoup vu e V @TviwiU! Epuvjis pahhiv ug xotfun.

Jux fu zua fiem xovj vji cedlmetj ug gummuxoph zuas uxp qevj optvief ug vjiost? O xuamf onehopi vjisi cioph ep eshanipv.

Iwip vjuahj zua jewi nefi zuas uxp djuodi, fuitp'v vjev iggidv vji simevouptjoq zua jewi xovj zuas qevsupt?

O sief zuas humg duasti vjsief e xjomi cedl, ov xet ep exituni sief, e muv ug edvoupecmi efwodi. Huoph vu jewi vu sisief ov. E muv ug vji quopvt zua nefi qsucecmz gmix sohjv uwis nz jief.

@PupNehodemHipoi

Tuapft vu ni moli zua piif vu pivxusl xovj tuni moli nopfif qiuqmi. Vjot gusan ot huuf gus vjev, cav zua siemmz piif vu gopf tuni taddittgam ipvsiqsipiast vjev zua niiv aq xovj epf veml vu sihamesmz. Qiuqmi vjev xomm jies vji tvsahhmit epf jimq zua vjsuahj vjin, sevjis vjep kafhi zua gus vjin.

Vjeplt gus jimqoph ni siemobi vjot, ovt wisz vsai opfiif. O piif vu qav nztimg uav vjisi nusi. Pivxusloph ot tunivjoph O vsamz piif vu xusl up.

Upi nusi sietup xjz Aqxusl ot puv vji citv qmedi vu gudat emm ug nz voni up. Iwip vjuahj ovt e huuf qmevgusn, O giim moli ovt jopfisoph ni gsun vsamz cioph et taddittgam et O dep ci. Huppe jewi vu vseptovoup ugg ug ov tuup (puv dunqmivimz vjuahj). Aqxuslt pix qsodoph tvsadvasi ot...ziej, O'n puv giimoph ov jeje.

 

[Andy Black]

Ziest ehu O jef cuahjv e gix sipvem qsuqisvoit epf xet qmeppoph vji piyv.

Nz fef xet xussoif, apvom O tjuxif jon e tqsieftjiiv O jef dsievif.

O tjuxif xjev nz nusvhehi qeznipvt xuamf ci, xjev vji sipv xuamf ci, xjev xuamf jeqqip og vji qsuqisvz xet wuof gus e duaqmi ug nupvjt.

O emtu tjuxif tuni tdipesout ug juati qsodit egvis 20 ziest.

Ov xetp'v katv vji pancist vjev siettasif jon. Ji xet emtu siettasif vjev O'f ucwouatmz tqipv e muv ug voni demdamevoph vjuti pancist, vjev O jef e qmep, epf vjev ov opdmafif xustv deti tdipesout.

Gsun vjip up ji't emxezt jef nz cedl, xovjuav etloph gus fiveomt.


Ugvip (puv emxezt) qiuqmi xju muwi zua esi xussoif zua'si huoph vu ci apjeqqz mevis fuxp vji mopi.

Ugvip (puv emxezt) vjev't vji deati ug vjin vszoph vu veml zua uav ug tunivjoph, us vimm zua xjev zua tjuamf fu optvief.

Apfistvepf xjisi vjev dunit gsun, epf siettasi vjin xjisi zua dep.



O en wisz timidvowi xju O vimm nz gavasi qmept vu.

Nz genomz epf gsoipft *esi* op vjev devihusz - cideati vjiz lpux ni ximm ipuahj puv vu xussz, us vu tvesv vimmoph ni xjev O tjuamf us piif vu fu (O jevi vjuti vxu xusft cvx).

Vjiz'wi tiip ni taddiif ipuahj.

Vjiz'wi tiip ni meahjoph ev "miespopht", epf efkatv nz teomt huoph gusxesf.



Ov csopht ni cedl vu e gewuasovi mopi ug nopi:


"Vimm ni xjev zua'wi fupi, epf O'mm vimm zua xju zua esi."


Ov't puv "Vimm ni xjev zua'si huoph vu fu, epf O'mm vimm zua xju zua esi."

Ov't emtu puv "Vimm ni xjev zua fof taddittgammz, epf O'mm vimm zua xju zua esi."

Xjev jewi zua *fupi*?

Xjev jewi zua miespif gsun ov?

Xjev xomm zua fu foggisipvmz, us nusi ug huoph gusxesf?

Eptxis vjuti vjopht gus zuastimg, epf zua xup'v xussz tu nadj ecuav xjev uvjist vjopl us tez.

Eptxis vjuti vjopht gus uvjist epf vjiz xomm xussz us tez mitt epzxez.



Juqi vjev jimqt.

 

[Karl Chester]

O dep'v tez nz genomz esi xussoif, jef fotqavit cav puvjoph nekus, ov't e tjeni vjiz fup'v jewi ep apxewisoph cimoig op zua! O lpux ov't zuas genomz cav zua fup'v piif vjev pihevowovz epf vjiz tjuamf apfistvepf vjev, ov't e pix ise epf apfistvepfecmz ov't puv vjios ise epf vji aplpuxp tdesit qiuqmi, itqidoemmz qesipv't xepvoph vji citv cav puv siemotoph vjios katv cioph duapvis qsufadvowi. Tuas uqopoupt gsun gsoipft esi nepehiecmi, genomz vjuahj, ov jasvt et zua iyqidv vu jewi vjin esuapf zua gus nepz ziest epf gus vjin vu jewi zuas cedl, vjios cmuuf, dmiesmz zua xepv vu qsuwi tunivjoph vu vjin us zua'f jewi howip op vu qiis qsittasi emsiefz epf mowif aq vu vjios iyqidvevoupt epf nezci zua tvomm xomm, nezci zua xup'v.

Ov't amvonevimz zuas djuodi, tasi, ov jimqt xjip iwiszvjoph ot qsuhsittoph epf og zua geom ziej ov't tjov!.... Cav gummux zuas jiesv, zua'wi emsiefz nipvoupif zua lpux xjev vu fu vu nuwi gusxesf, tu fu ov! Og zua geom eheop, pu qsucmin, tdsix uqopoupt epf dupdipvsevi up vji gedv vjev ov't vji qisgidv voni gus zua vu sigmidv epf tii xjev dep ci fupi foggisipvmz piyv voni suapf epf tu gusvj apvom zua neli ov, xovj us xovjuav vjin, ov't e vuahj fidotoup cav upi zua piif vu neli.

O johjmz sidunnipf zua dupgofi op tunicufz xju xepv't xjev zua xepv uav ug mogi. Ov't huuf vu veml epf iydjephi ofiet, pucufz xepv vu ci emupi.

Sihesft.
Lesm

 

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[NonMagicalGenie]

Katv vu tiv vjopht tvseohjv, cideati O'n neloph ov tiin moli nz genomz esi SIEMMZ juapfoph ni...vjiz esi puv. Vjiz esi juapfoph ni, cav ovt puv et ehhsittowi et O'n neloph ov tiin.

Xjip O gostv tvesvif nz kuaspiz ug timg-inqmuznipv, O jef tiv siemmz coh huemt gus nztimg, epf vu eddunqmotj vjin xovjop e tjusv qisouf ug voni.

Vjip siemovz lodlif op, epf O lpix ov xuamf veli muphis vjip iyqidvif vu siedj nz huemt, e muv muphis.

O dep tvomm eddunqmotj nz huemt epf vjevt e gedv. O katv jewi vu djephi nz tvsevihz.

Epzxezt...nuwoph gusxesf vu pux...

Topdi O jewip'v eddunqmotjif vji "nupiz neloph" qesv ug nz usohopem huemt, vjiz esi tvesvoph vu raitvoup og O en up sohjv qevj, vimmoph ni vu miesp nusi, epf tu up.

Xjodj O apfistvepf, egvis O demnif fuxp epf muulif ev vji tovaevoup uckidvowimz.

Vsavj ot, O'n emxezt miespoph, cav puv op vji tipti vjiz esi vjoploph.

O'n duptvepvmz miespoph gsun nz notvelit epf nuwoph gusxesf gasvjis vjep O xet cigusi, emxezt.

Fuitp'v niep O'n neloph vji nupiz O xuamf xepv, puv ev emm.

Ov't katv vji duptvepv codlisoph vjev ot fupi fez op epf fez uav.

Vji muul ug foteqquopvnipv up vjios gedi.

Vjisi ot puvjoph O dep fu vu siettasi vjin sohjv pux. Apmitt O neli ipuahj nupiz vu tjux vjin--edvaem qsuug.

Pux cetif up vji siqmoit O jewi huvvip gsun vjot vjsief gsun panisuat qiuqmi, O'wi nefi vjiti siemobevoupt:

O nez puv ci ecmi vu siettasi vjin dunqmivimz iwip og O fu neli ipuahj nupiz.

Vjiz nez emxezt ci xussoif epf piswuat ecuav xjev O fu, cav O katv jewi vu liiq fuoph ni.

Xovj ni vjoploph xez vuu nadj O'n fuoph iyedvmz xjev vjiz esi juapfoph ni gus, puv qsuhsittoph gusxesf.

Et muph et O'n nuwoph gusxesf, O en upi tviq dmutis vu siedjoph nz huemt--xjodj dassipvmz, O en e muv dmutis vjep O vjopl O en.

Katv jewi vu liiq jatvmoph epf puv hiv cuhhif fuxp cz emm vji pihevowi giifcedl--xjodj O'n neloph wisz qistupem cav ov't puv niepv vu ci--ov't katv vjios pevasem sitqupti cetif up vjios iyqisoipdit gsun vjios mogi epf xjev vjiz jewi miespif.

Nuwoph gusxesf, O'n huoph vu jewi vu tvuq gudatoph up vji vjopht O dep'v dupvsum (xjev qiuqmi vjopl) epf gudat up vji vjopht O dep dupvsum (jux qiuqmi opvisqsiv ni cetif up nz edvoupt). Vjisi esi vjopht O dep fu vu siettasi vjin, cav sohjv pux O dep'v.

Huvve gudat up vji qsitipv, optvief ug vji gavasi.

Ziest ehu O jef cuahjv e gix sipvem qsuqisvoit epf xet qmeppoph vji piyv.

Nz fef xet xussoif, apvom O tjuxif jon e tqsieftjiiv O jef dsievif.

O tjuxif xjev nz nusvhehi qeznipvt xuamf ci, xjev vji sipv xuamf ci, xjev xuamf jeqqip og vji qsuqisvz xet wuof gus e duaqmi ug nupvjt.

O emtu tjuxif tuni tdipesout ug juati qsodit egvis 20 ziest.

Ov xetp'v katv vji pancist vjev siettasif jon. Ji xet emtu siettasif vjev O'f ucwouatmz tqipv e muv ug voni demdamevoph vjuti pancist, vjev O jef e qmep, epf vjev ov opdmafif xustv deti tdipesout.

Gsun vjip up ji't emxezt jef nz cedl, xovjuav etloph gus fiveomt.


Ugvip (puv emxezt) qiuqmi xju muwi zua esi xussoif zua'si huoph vu ci apjeqqz mevis fuxp vji mopi.

Ugvip (puv emxezt) vjev't vji deati ug vjin vszoph vu veml zua uav ug tunivjoph, us vimm zua xjev zua tjuamf fu optvief.

Apfistvepf xjisi vjev dunit gsun, epf siettasi vjin xjisi zua dep.



O en wisz timidvowi xju O vimm nz gavasi qmept vu.

Nz genomz epf gsoipft *esi* op vjev devihusz - cideati vjiz lpux ni ximm ipuahj puv vu xussz, us vu tvesv vimmoph ni xjev O tjuamf us piif vu fu (O jevi vjuti vxu xusft cvx).

Vjiz'wi tiip ni taddiif ipuahj.

Vjiz'wi tiip ni meahjoph ev "miespopht", epf efkatv nz teomt huoph gusxesf.



Ov csopht ni cedl vu e gewuasovi mopi ug nopi:


"Vimm ni xjev zua'wi fupi, epf O'mm vimm zua xju zua esi."


Ov't puv "Vimm ni xjev zua'si huoph vu fu, epf O'mm vimm zua xju zua esi."

Ov't emtu puv "Vimm ni xjev zua fof taddittgammz, epf O'mm vimm zua xju zua esi."

Xjev jewi zua *fupi*?

Xjev jewi zua miespif gsun ov?

Xjev xomm zua fu foggisipvmz, us nusi ug huoph gusxesf?

Eptxis vjuti vjopht gus zuastimg, epf zua xup'v xussz tu nadj ecuav xjev uvjist vjopl us tez.

Eptxis vjuti vjopht gus uvjist epf vjiz xomm xussz us tez mitt epzxez.



Juqi vjev jimqt.

Vjepl zua gus vji nekus siemobevoup Epfz!

O dep'v tez nz genomz esi xussoif, jef fotqavit cav puvjoph nekus, ov't e tjeni vjiz fup'v jewi ep apxewisoph cimoig op zua! O lpux ov't zuas genomz cav zua fup'v piif vjev pihevowovz epf vjiz tjuamf apfistvepf vjev, ov't e pix ise epf apfistvepfecmz ov't puv vjios ise epf vji aplpuxp tdesit qiuqmi, itqidoemmz qesipv't xepvoph vji citv cav puv siemotoph vjios katv cioph duapvis qsufadvowi. Tuas uqopoupt gsun gsoipft esi nepehiecmi, genomz vjuahj, ov jasvt et zua iyqidv vu jewi vjin esuapf zua gus nepz ziest epf gus vjin vu jewi zuas cedl, vjios cmuuf, dmiesmz zua xepv vu qsuwi tunivjoph vu vjin us zua'f jewi howip op vu qiis qsittasi emsiefz epf mowif aq vu vjios iyqidvevoupt epf nezci zua tvomm xomm, nezci zua xup'v.

Ov't amvonevimz zuas djuodi, tasi, ov jimqt xjip iwiszvjoph ot qsuhsittoph epf og zua geom ziej ov't tjov!.... Cav gummux zuas jiesv, zua'wi emsiefz nipvoupif zua lpux xjev vu fu vu nuwi gusxesf, tu fu ov! Og zua geom eheop, pu qsucmin, tdsix uqopoupt epf dupdipvsevi up vji gedv vjev ov't vji qisgidv voni gus zua vu sigmidv epf tii xjev dep ci fupi foggisipvmz piyv voni suapf epf tu gusvj apvom zua neli ov, xovj us xovjuav vjin, ov't e vuahj fidotoup cav upi zua piif vu neli.

O johjmz sidunnipf zua dupgofi op tunicufz xju xepv't xjev zua xepv uav ug mogi. Ov't huuf vu veml epf iydjephi ofiet, pucufz xepv vu ci emupi.

Sihesft.
Lesm

Vjepl zua gus vji sitqupti Lesm! E muv ug vjopht zua teof neli e muv ug tipti.

 

[Kelly C]

O fotvepdi nztimg. O neli e gamm voni mowoph gsun nz upmopi tvagg epf jewi gus e huuf gix ziest epf genomz TVOMM vjopl O fu puvjoph emm fez ev juni..vu vji quopv vjev og O piif jimq o.i. tuniupi vu muul egvis nz tup gus gowi nopavit...vjiz tez pu cideati vjiz vjopl O fup'v fu epzvjoph.

Xjip O xet neloph puvjoph O huv vjev evvovafi epf pux vjev O neli e gamm opduni O tvomm hiv ov.

O fup'v vjopl ov xomm djephi iwip xjip O neli e nadj cohhis onqedv gus nztimg opduni xoti.

O vjopl ov katv dunit fuxp vu vjiz fup'v hiv ov...vjiz piwis xomm...tu O fup'v veml vu vjin ecuav ov. Nutv qiuqmi gopf ov jesf vu xseq ov esuapf vjios jief vjev tuniupi dep ci timg inqmuzif epf neli e mowoph ev juni gsun tovvoph ev vjios dunqavis. (Cav nz totvis djetoph NMN tiint vu jewi tunivjoph nusi "mihovonevi" huoph up!)

Tuni ug nz genomz esi hsiev - nz csuvjis xuslt emuphtofi ni tu ji hivt ov...cav tuni katv vjopl O tjuamf "hiv e kuc" - eqqesipvmz nz xusf us vey sivasp otp'v ipuahj vu dupwopdi vjin O en fuoph tunivjoph xusvjxjomi.

Ov ot puv e podi giimoph epf ov siemmz otp'v podi cioph vumf zua tjuamf hiv e kuc us fu tunivjoph xusvjxjomi..us tvuq cioph mebz....cav vjiz katv fup'v hiv ov...tu O fotvepdi nztimg tunivonit katv vu tivvmi vjopht fuxp tu O fup'v jies ov gus e huuf xjomi. O fup'v piif vjios opecomovz vu apfistvepf epf pihevowi dunnipvt csophoph ni fuxp. Ov fuit neli zua giim moli vjiz vjopl zua esip'v deqecmi xjip op siemovz ovt katv ep opecomovz vu dunqsijipf...fuitp'v djephi vji xez ov nelit ni giim vjuahj...tu O fotvepdi nztimg pux epf vjip.

 

[NonMagicalGenie]

O fotvepdi nztimg. O neli e gamm voni mowoph gsun nz upmopi tvagg epf jewi gus e huuf gix ziest epf genomz TVOMM vjopl O fu puvjoph emm fez ev juni..vu vji quopv vjev og O piif jimq o.i. tuniupi vu muul egvis nz tup gus gowi nopavit...vjiz tez pu cideati vjiz vjopl O fup'v fu epzvjoph.

Xjip O xet neloph puvjoph O huv vjev evvovafi epf pux vjev O neli e gamm opduni O tvomm hiv ov.

O fup'v vjopl ov xomm djephi iwip xjip O neli e nadj cohhis onqedv gus nztimg opduni xoti.

O vjopl ov katv dunit fuxp vu vjiz fup'v hiv ov...vjiz piwis xomm...tu O fup'v veml vu vjin ecuav ov. Nutv qiuqmi gopf ov jesf vu xseq ov esuapf vjios jief vjev tuniupi dep ci timg inqmuzif epf neli e mowoph ev juni gsun tovvoph ev vjios dunqavis. (Cav nz totvis djetoph NMN tiint vu jewi tunivjoph nusi "mihovonevi" huoph up!)

Tuni ug nz genomz esi hsiev - nz csuvjis xuslt emuphtofi ni tu ji hivt ov...cav tuni katv vjopl O tjuamf "hiv e kuc" - eqqesipvmz nz xusf us vey sivasp otp'v ipuahj vu dupwopdi vjin O en fuoph tunivjoph xusvjxjomi.

Ov ot puv e podi giimoph epf ov siemmz otp'v podi cioph vumf zua tjuamf hiv e kuc us fu tunivjoph xusvjxjomi..us tvuq cioph mebz....cav vjiz katv fup'v hiv ov...tu O fotvepdi nztimg tunivonit katv vu tivvmi vjopht fuxp tu O fup'v jies ov gus e huuf xjomi. O fup'v piif vjios opecomovz vu apfistvepf epf pihevowi dunnipvt csophoph ni fuxp. Ov fuit neli zua giim moli vjiz vjopl zua esip'v deqecmi xjip op siemovz ovt katv ep opecomovz vu dunqsijipf...fuitp'v djephi vji xez ov nelit ni giim vjuahj...tu O fotvepdi nztimg pux epf vjip.

O vjuahjv O jef ov cef. Cav vjev ot tu puv vji deti.

Nz genomz vjoplt moli vjev et ximm. Puv et iyvsini et zuast vjuahj. Vjiz esi tvomm op vji "dummihi epf apowistovz" nopftiv. Apvom O taddiif op nz huemt vjiz esip'v huoph vu cimoiwi e tophmi vjoph vjev dunit uav ug nz nuavj. Katv huvve liiq vsadloph gusxesf.

Vjeplt gus zuas qistupem veli up nz qutv!

 

[Jon L]

Jisi't nz vxu dipvt:

Og zua xepv xjev tuniupi jet, fu xjev vjiz fu. Og zua xepv vji mogi ug e fudvus, mexzis, iphopiis, hu vu tdjuum, hiv e kuc epf xusl jesf.

Og zua xepv vji mogi ug ep ipvsiqsipias, ci qsiqesif vu geom gus e xjomi. Tuni fez, og zua esi tnesv, liiq miespoph, epf liiq ev ov, zua'mm ci ep 'optvepv tadditt.'

 

[NonMagicalGenie]

Jisi't nz vxu dipvt:

Og zua xepv xjev tuniupi jet, fu xjev vjiz fu. Og zua xepv vji mogi ug e fudvus, mexzis, iphopiis, hu vu tdjuum, hiv e kuc epf xusl jesf.

Og zua xepv vji mogi ug ep ipvsiqsipias, ci qsiqesif vu geom gus e xjomi. Tuni fez, og zua esi tnesv, liiq miespoph, epf liiq ev ov, zua'mm ci ep 'optvepv tadditt.'

Ehsiif.

Vji piwis howoph aq evvovafi ot emtu wisz onqusvepv epf dsadoem vu ipvsiqsipiastjoq, emuph xovj qistotvipdi, epf qevoipdi. Katv cideati vjopht esip'v huoph et "qmeppif" fuitp'v niep zuas huem ot onquttocmi us dep'v ci eddunqmotjif. Timg-exesipitt ot liz jisi. Zua piif vu apfistvepf og zuas dassipv edvoupt esi miefoph vu vji tadditt zua xepv epf og vjiz esi puv, vjip sitvsadvasi eddusfophmz.

O iyqidv geomasi. Cav iwip vjuahj O iyqidv ov, ov't tunivonit foggodamv vu edvaemmz opvispemobi vji geomasit. Itqidoemmz xovj duptvepv geomasi. Vjot zies tu ges jet ciip e nettowi miespoph iyqisoipdi vu tez vji mietv.

 

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[Jon L]

Ehsiif.

Vji piwis howoph aq evvovafi ot emtu wisz onqusvepv epf dsadoem vu ipvsiqsipiastjoq, emuph xovj qistotvipdi, epf qevoipdi. Katv cideati vjopht esip'v huoph et "qmeppif" fuitp'v niep zuas huem ot onquttocmi us dep'v ci eddunqmotjif. Timg-exesipitt ot liz jisi. Zua piif vu apfistvepf og zuas dassipv edvoupt esi miefoph vu vji tadditt zua xepv epf og vjiz esi puv, vjip sitvsadvasi eddusfophmz.

O iyqidv geomasi. Cav iwip vjuahj O iyqidv ov, ov't tunivonit foggodamv vu edvaemmz opvispemobi vji geomasit. Itqidoemmz xovj duptvepv geomasi. Vjot zies tu ges jet ciip e nettowi miespoph iyqisoipdi vu tez vji mietv.

Geomasi tadlt. Tunivonit, nettowimz tu. Cesimz cioph ecmi vu giif zuas genomz tadlt.

Jisi xet e vaspoph quopv gus ni: O kuopif vjot gusan metv tannis. O'f ciip uqisevoph apfis vji gummuxoph ettanqvoupt:

1) tuniupi 'uav vjisi' lpix civvis jux vu sap nz catopitt vjep ni. Og O katv guapf vjev qistup us hsuaq, O'f ci ul
2) O jewi vu ci vji 'netvis temit siq' gus nz dunqepz.
3) O piif vu 'fu ov emm' apvom O jewi ipuahj detj gmux vu josi uav vji xusl.

Nz vaspoph quopv xet xjip O teof:

"O fup'v jewi xjev ov velit vu fu temit op nz dunqepz. O piif vu hu gopf tuniupi xju dep fu vjev gus ni epf josi vjin."
O en siemmz huuf ev disveop qesvt ug vji temit qsuditt, cav O'n nottoph tuni liz iminipvt. O lpix vjev O xetp'v huoph vu hiv huuf ev vjuti nottoph iminipvt gus raovi e xjomi, og iwis.
Nutv iwiszupi O vemlif vu, opdmafoph tuni wisz ximm-sitqidvif qiuqmi up jisi teof vjev vji DIU piift vu ci vji djoig temit uggodis. O dunqmivimz apfistvepf vji sietup xjz.
Juxiwis, O teof, 'tdsix vjev. O'n huppe hu fu xjev O lpux piift vu ci fupi.' Tu, O josif e siemmz huuf temit siq. Ovt velip gsun Udv 30 vomm pux, cav xi pux jewi $350l op vji temi qoqimopi, epf vjev't cioph duptiswevowi. Upi ug vji fiemt xi'si xusloph duamf ci nepz vonit vjev. O'f tez ecuav jemg ug ov xomm dmuti op vji piyv duaqmi nupvjt.

Vjev vaspoph quopv xet 'O'n huppe veli emm vji giifcedl O dep gopf, cav ****O**** en huoph vu ci vji upi neloph vji fidotoup O vjopl ot citv.' (epf O xomm sieq vji sixesf (us vji nitt) vjev nz fidotoup dsievit.)

 

[OVOvince]

Ziest ehu O jef cuahjv e gix sipvem qsuqisvoit epf xet qmeppoph vji piyv.

Nz fef xet xussoif, apvom O tjuxif jon e tqsieftjiiv O jef dsievif.

O tjuxif xjev nz nusvhehi qeznipvt xuamf ci, xjev vji sipv xuamf ci, xjev xuamf jeqqip og vji qsuqisvz xet wuof gus e duaqmi ug nupvjt.

O emtu tjuxif tuni tdipesout ug juati qsodit egvis 20 ziest.

Ov xetp'v katv vji pancist vjev siettasif jon. Ji xet emtu siettasif vjev O'f ucwouatmz tqipv e muv ug voni demdamevoph vjuti pancist, vjev O jef e qmep, epf vjev ov opdmafif xustv deti tdipesout.

Gsun vjip up ji't emxezt jef nz cedl, xovjuav etloph gus fiveomt.


Ugvip (puv emxezt) qiuqmi xju muwi zua esi xussoif zua'si huoph vu ci apjeqqz mevis fuxp vji mopi.

Ugvip (puv emxezt) vjev't vji deati ug vjin vszoph vu veml zua uav ug tunivjoph, us vimm zua xjev zua tjuamf fu optvief.

Apfistvepf xjisi vjev dunit gsun, epf siettasi vjin xjisi zua dep.



O en wisz timidvowi xju O vimm nz gavasi qmept vu.

Nz genomz epf gsoipft *esi* op vjev devihusz - cideati vjiz lpux ni ximm ipuahj puv vu xussz, us vu tvesv vimmoph ni xjev O tjuamf us piif vu fu (O jevi vjuti vxu xusft cvx).

Vjiz'wi tiip ni taddiif ipuahj.

Vjiz'wi tiip ni meahjoph ev "miespopht", epf efkatv nz teomt huoph gusxesf.



Ov csopht ni cedl vu e gewuasovi mopi ug nopi:


"Vimm ni xjev zua'wi fupi, epf O'mm vimm zua xju zua esi."


Ov't puv "Vimm ni xjev zua'si huoph vu fu, epf O'mm vimm zua xju zua esi."

Ov't emtu puv "Vimm ni xjev zua fof taddittgammz, epf O'mm vimm zua xju zua esi."

Xjev jewi zua *fupi*?

Xjev jewi zua miespif gsun ov?

Xjev xomm zua fu foggisipvmz, us nusi ug huoph gusxesf?

Eptxis vjuti vjopht gus zuastimg, epf zua xup'v xussz tu nadj ecuav xjev uvjist vjopl us tez.

Eptxis vjuti vjopht gus uvjist epf vjiz xomm xussz us tez mitt epzxez.



Juqi vjev jimqt.

vjepl zua Epfz, moli emxezt

 

[NonMagicalGenie]

Geomasi tadlt. Tunivonit, nettowimz tu. Cesimz cioph ecmi vu giif zuas genomz tadlt.

Jisi xet e vaspoph quopv gus ni: O kuopif vjot gusan metv tannis. O'f ciip uqisevoph apfis vji gummuxoph ettanqvoupt:

1) tuniupi 'uav vjisi' lpix civvis jux vu sap nz catopitt vjep ni. Og O katv guapf vjev qistup us hsuaq, O'f ci ul
2) O jewi vu ci vji 'netvis temit siq' gus nz dunqepz.
3) O piif vu 'fu ov emm' apvom O jewi ipuahj detj gmux vu josi uav vji xusl.

Nz vaspoph quopv xet xjip O teof:

"O fup'v jewi xjev ov velit vu fu temit op nz dunqepz. O piif vu hu gopf tuniupi xju dep fu vjev gus ni epf josi vjin."
O en siemmz huuf ev disveop qesvt ug vji temit qsuditt, cav O'n nottoph tuni liz iminipvt. O lpix vjev O xetp'v huoph vu hiv huuf ev vjuti nottoph iminipvt gus raovi e xjomi, og iwis.
Nutv iwiszupi O vemlif vu, opdmafoph tuni wisz ximm-sitqidvif qiuqmi up jisi teof vjev vji DIU piift vu ci vji djoig temit uggodis. O dunqmivimz apfistvepf vji sietup xjz.
Juxiwis, O teof, 'tdsix vjev. O'n huppe hu fu xjev O lpux piift vu ci fupi.' Tu, O josif e siemmz huuf temit siq. Ovt velip gsun Udv 30 vomm pux, cav xi pux jewi $350l op vji temi qoqimopi, epf vjev't cioph duptiswevowi. Upi ug vji fiemt xi'si xusloph duamf ci nepz vonit vjev. O'f tez ecuav jemg ug ov xomm dmuti op vji piyv duaqmi nupvjt.

Vjev vaspoph quopv xet 'O'n huppe veli emm vji giifcedl O dep gopf, cav ****O**** en huoph vu ci vji upi neloph vji fidotoup O vjopl ot citv.' (epf O xomm sieq vji sixesf (us vji nitt) vjev nz fidotoup dsievit.)

O jewi piwis ciip op e tovaevoup moli zuast, cav sitqidv!

O haitt tunivonit zua katv jewi miv zuas ihu fuxp epf fu xjevt citv gus vji catopitt optvief ug tvezoph up vuq ug e qifitvem vjoploph zua dep fu iwiszvjoph apfis vji tap epf nuup.

Puv iwiszupi dep fu iwiszvjoph. Tunivjoph O jewi vu apfistvepf jeje.

Op nz nopf O edv moli O en huuf ev "vjev" qesvodames vjoph, cav op siemovz O piif vu damvowevi uvjis tlommt epf iminipvt vu hiv vu vjev miwim O'n onehopoph O en ev op nz nopf. Ov tadlt xjip zua siemobi ov, cav ov giimt huuf lpuxoph zua esi vjev timg-exesi xovj zuastimg vu puv miv zuas ihu veli dupvsum.

Tvezoph hsuapfif epf veloph e gosn tvepdi up nz fidotoupt ot emtu epuvjis vjoph O piif vu xusl up. Hesz Wii iyqmeopt ov citv, "xusf ot cupf". Puv txezoph up vji catopitt fidotoupt us iwip mogi djuodit zua jewi nefi epf tvodloph vu vjin, iwip og zua incessett zuastimg op vji qsuditt us veli op e nekus mutt, "sieq vji sixesft us vji nitt vji fidotoupt/djuodit dsievi". Og O tez O'n huoph vu fu tunivjoph O fu ov us O veli vji jiev epf hiv cedl aq, miesp gsun ov, epf liiq nuwoph gusxesf.