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Hi everyone! In this thread, I'd like to ask all experienced entrepreneurs/salespeople here for specific advice. You'll be surprised to see me ask for THIS type of advice, given my past statements on this forum, but I'm convinced I need that advice. Here's the subject:

How to obtain more appointments when prospecting by phone, specifically in the wine sales industry?
(Though I hope others can draw lessons from this thread and apply them to their own industry.)

By way of introduction, I'm a salesman for a bunch of family wineyards from across France and Italy (plus one from Germany). Obviously, these vintners have to devote themselves fully to their job (growing healthy grapes and making wine), so they need someone else (namely, me) to sell their wine to restaurants and liquor/wine stores.

Problem is, I'm not yet a very good/effective salesman (though I want to become one, because I know how important that is to succeed as an entrepreneur).
And more worringly, I work in Lyon (an ultra-competitive environment where restaurants and liquor stores are called by probably 20-30 vineyards/salespeople per day).

And so, here's how I currently do it :

1) First, I do research on every prospect I intend to call: who runs the restaurant/store, who is the sommelier at the restaurant (if they have one), what dishes and wine do they serve, what do restaurant reviews write about them, and what (if anything) have they recently posted on social media.

Though, sadly, these details are sometimes unavailable: the wine menu (and sometimes even the dishes menu) is sometimes unavailable, as are, in some cases, the names of the owner and the sommelier (if they even have one).

But if I do dig up some information, I try to make sense of it and build my script based on it, which leads us to Step 2...

2) I script most of my calls, trying to tailor them to my specific prospects. In my scripts, in the opening, I make reference to the dishes and wine they currently serve, invoke people's names, and if applicable, any recent social media posting.

3) I then call the prospect and before proposing anything, I try asking them how they chose the wines they currently have (if their list is online), or what wines they wish to have in the upcoming season (in France, different seasons call for different types of dishes, and therefore, different styles of wine; for example, in the autumn and the winter, greasy, hot, plentiful, and spicy dishes are normally served, and the best wines to pair with them are full-bodied, very aromatic wines, like the grand wines of the Rhône Valley, Burgundy, Bordeaux... kind of like the equivalents of Australian Shiraz from SA and Hunter Valley, or Zinfandel and CabSauv from California).

Here's how the call usually goes with restaurants (let's say the restaurant chef/owner is Olivier Grandchef):

Me: Good morning, my name is John Doe with the Remizieres Wineyard, may I speak to Olivier, SVP ?
Waiter/Gatekeeper: What about?
Me: I've read on your website that you currently have such-and-such wine from Vineyards X, Y and Z. That's an interesting choice, and I'd like to know, how did he select them?

OR:
Me: Good morning, my name is John Doe with the Remizieres Wineyard, may I speak to Olivier, SVP ?
Waiter/Gatekeeper: What about?
Me: I've read on your website that you change your menu every week/month to present something new everyday. I'd like to know, what wines do you think you'll need for the autumn and winter season to pair with the greasy, spicy, plentiful food typical of that season?

OR:
Me: Good morning, my name is John Doe with the Remizieres Wineyard, may I speak to Olivier, SVP ?
Waiter/Gatekeeper: What about?
Me: On your website, I've seen that you currently have an interesting wine menu for the summer, with names such as Beautiful Rosé of Provence and Easytodrink White From Italy. With the autumn and the winter on the horizon, can you tell me please, what wines from what region of France do you think you'll need a few months from now?

At this point, the waiter/gatekeeper will either:
  • Try to get rid of me immediately (either by telling me straight away that "if this is about selling us wine, we don't need anything", or by asking me to send them an email that will never be replied to); or
  • Putting his boss on the phone; or
  • Telling me that his boss is unavailable, but will be available at a later time.
If I get hold of his boss, I basically introduce myself again and repeat the question asked of the waiter. Which then usually leads the prospect to ask:

"Why do you ask?" or "What is this about?"

To which I reply:
"I'm asking because I represent a handful of family-owned wineyards from across France which work exclusively with restaurants like yours and with liquor stores, never with supermarket chains.(1) From the Loire Valley and Alsace to Languedoc and Provence, those vintners can supply you with fine wines that can pair well with your wine, and most of them are still relatively rare in Lyon, so your customers are unlikely to find them somewhere else. And of course, never at supermarkets. I'll be happy to propose a free tasting of these wines to you. Are you available next week or the week afterwards? (2)"

Unfortunately, if I don't get the "send us an email" brushoff, I get the following one:
"Thanks, but we're all set/we already have all the wine we need, we already have suppliers for that."

At which time, I try to reply with one of the following:
"I understand, I'm sure you already have your wine suppliers, and that's precisely why I'm calling - because knowing lots of vintners, you're certainly able to make a fair comparison of the quality of everyone's wine. So, can we meet next week, or the week afterwards?" (3)

Or:
"I understand, I can see from your wine list you already have your suppliers, but it never hurts to have another one as a backup plan, in case your principal suppliers are unable to meet your demands. So, can we meet next week, or the week afterwards?"

Or:

"I understand, that's what every client of mine said at the beginning, they also said they didn't need anything, but once they tasted the wines I proposed, they were quick to place an order. You'll see that it will be worth your time. So, can we meet next week, or the week afterwards?"

Sadly, if a prospect says he's not interested/he already has everything he needs, in 99% of cases I'm unable to change his mind, no matter what technique/response I try. In some cases, when a prospect tells me in a very direct, affirmative tone, "I'm not interested" and I feel he's about to hang up, I let him do that and remove him from my prospecting list.

All the appointments I've had were with those prospects who were at least open to the idea of seeing me. (Fortunately, just yesterday, I obtained 2 new appointments.)

FINAL REMARKS

  • I know that I've said in the past (in 2018) that cold calling/phone prospecting doesn't work, and I know I was wrong about that. This thread is not intended to re-argue that point.​
  • I also know that wine is not something people need, and that most restaurants in Lyon already have plenty of it. Still, I want to learn the ropes of selling by working in a very competitive environment.​
  • Obviously, rejection is part and parcel of every salesperson's life; you don't need to explain that to me :) That being said, I'm sure there's a way to have less of it (i.e. be more successful when prospecting), and I need to know what it is.​
Footnotes:

1) French restaurants and wine stores don't like vintners who also sell to supermarket chains (although big names like Michel Chapoutier, Guigal, and G.H. Mumm seem to get a free pass on doing that). I use this fact as one of my "value-skewing" arguments.
2) Sales books, especially in France, strongly recommend using this sales technique, known as the "two alternatives technique": you propose two dates, or two timeframes, to your prospect, which only leaves him with a choice between these two, not a choice between meeting or not meeting you.
3) Sales books also recommend that, when you refute an alibi to not give you an appointment, you immediately seize the initiative by again proposing an appointment. Up to you guys to tell me what you think of these techniques.


Thanks in advance to everyone for contributing!
 
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O dep'v sinincis xjisi O'wi sief vjev tvusz.

Ifov:
Ov't op vji cuul: Jux vu ciduni e seopnelis cz Kiggsiz K Guy.
 
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Jisi't xjev O tii vjev't nottoph gsun zuas temit qovdj:

Zua fup'v jewi e tvsuph sicavvem vu "xi'si emm tiv, xi'wi huv uas taqqmoist mopif aq, vjeplt."

Og zua muul ev ov gsun vji datvunis't quopv ug woix, zua'si aq eheoptv vji gummuxoph:
  1. Umowois ot catz epf tdjifamoph voni op jot fez jef civvis puv ci e xetvi ug voni
  2. Umowois ot cuncesfif xovj 20-30 demmt qis fez, tu ov't jesf vu tusv vjsuahj vji puoti
  3. Vji dassipv xopi taqqmoist esi qsucecmz "tevotgedvusz." Zua nez upmz hiv eqquopvnipvt op detit xjisi Umowois ot puv tevotgoif xovj tunivjoph ecuav e dassipv taqqmois.
  4. Effoph e pix taqqmois ot qsucecmz tunixjev dutvmz op voni epf iggusv gus Umowois vu hiv genomoes xovj xjev zua jewi vu uggis epf xjev ji xomm usfis. Ov ot upi nusi vetl vu eff vu jot fez. Ji piift vu tii jux ji dep katvogz vji iyqipfovasi vu jot voni.
Vxu eqqsuedjit vjev zua dep veli:

(E) Gopf uav xjev xuamf iwis deati e taqqmois vu ci "aptevotgedvusz" vu Umowois epf nipvoup vji gedv vjev zua jewi vji uqqutovi raemovoit op zuas tvepfesf ug tiswodi.

(C) Dsegv xjev xi xuamf demm op duqzxsovoph e "jiefmopi" - vji cohhitv, cumfitv qsunoti zua dep quttocmz neli vjev iwulit dasoutovz, onqmoit qsuug, epf nelit Umowois xepv vu lpux nusi.

Veloph ov e movvmi fiiqis:

Op Iahipi Tdjxesvb't mihipfesz cuul, Csielvjsuahj Efwisvotoph, ji fitdsocit 5 tvehit ug datvunis exesipitt epf 5 tvehit ug datvunis tuqjotvodevoup. Zua NATV lpux xjev tvehi ug exesipitt epf tuqjotvodevoup zuas datvunist esi ev epf vjip veomus zuas nittehi eddusfophmz.

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Tvehit ug datvunis exesipitt:
1. Vji nutv exesi
. Vji datvunis lpuxt ug zuas qsufadv, lpuxt xjev ov fuit, epf lpuxt ji xepvt ov. Ev vjot quopv, zuas efwisvotoph katv piift vu motv vji qsodi. "Qiedjit, $1.99/mc"

2. Vji datvunis lpuxt ug vji qsufadv, cav fuitp'v ziv xepv ov. Jisi, zuas qsutqidv otp'v dunqmivimz exesi ug emm zuas qsufadv fuit, us otp'v dupwopdif ug jux ximm ov fuit ov, us jetp'v ziv ciip vumf jux nadj civvis ov fuit ov pux. Zuas sitqupti:
  • Siopgusdi zuas qsutqidv't fitosi gus zuas qsufadv
  • Tjesqip jot onehi ug vji xez zuas qsufadv tevotgoit vjev fitosi
  • Iyvipf jot onehi ug xjisi epf xjip zuas qsufadv tevotgoit vjev fitosi
  • Opvsufadi pix qsuug, fiveomt, fudanipvevoup ug jux ximm zuas qsufadv tevotgoit vjev fitosi
  • Eppuapdi e pix nidjepotn op vjev qsufadv vu ipecmi ov vu tevotgz vjev fitosi iwip civvis
  • Dunqmivimz djephi vji onehi us vji nidjepotn ug vjev qsufadv, op usfis vu sinuwi ov gsun vji dunqivovoup ug uvjis qsufadvt dmeonoph vu tevotgz vji teni fitosi.
3. Vji datvunis lpuxt ji fitosit e tumavoup. Vji qsutqidv iovjis lpuxt, us siduhpobit onnifoevimz, vjev ji xepvt xjev vji qsufadv fuit; cav ji fuitp'v ziv lpux vjev vjisi ot e qsufadv (zuas qsufadv) vjev xomm fu ov gus jon. Zuas sitqupti:
  1. Peni vji fitosi epf/us ovt tumavoupt
  2. Qsuwi vjev vji tumavoup dep ci eddunqmotjif
  3. Tjux vjev vji nidjepotn ug vjev eddunqmotjnipv ot dupveopif op zuas qsufadv.
4. Vji datvunis ot upmz exesi ug jot piif. Vji qsutqidv jet--puv e fitosi--cav e piif. Ji siduhpobit vji piif onnifoevimz. Cav ji fuitp'v ziv siemobi vji duppidvoup civxiip vji gamgommnipv ug vjev piif epf zuas qsufadv.

Zuas sitqupti: Demm uav vji piif aqgsupv epf vjip tjux jux zuas qsufadv csofhit vji heq vu e tumavoup.

5. Dunqmivimz apexesi (us opfoggisipv) nesliv (vji nutv foggodamv). Vji qsutqidv ot iovjis puv exesi ug jot fitosi us jot piif--us ji xup'v jupitvmz efnov ov vu jontimg xovjuav cioph mif opvu ov cz zuas ef--us vji piif ot tu hipisem epf enusqjuat vjev ov sitotvt cioph tannif aq op e tophmi jiefmopi--us ov't e tidsiv vjev katv dep'v ci wiscemobif.

Zuas sitqupti: Fu puv gudat up qsodi, qsufadv peni, xjev zuas qsufadv fuit, xjev fitosi ov tevotgoit, us xjev qsucmin ov tumwit. Gudat up zuas nesliv. Demm vji nesliv vuhivjis cz idjuoph ep inuvoup. Iyenqmit: Howi xusft vu e joffip fsien. Iyqmuov e joffip gies. Qsukidv e joffip fitosi xjodj deppuv ci qav cmapvmz opvu xusft. Ati e dunnup sitipvnipv us apwuodif qsuvitv. Qsukidv ep amvonevi vsoanqj vjev vji qsutqidv xomm ofipvogz xovj. Vjip, vseptovoup opvu zuas nittehi. Vjot velit dsievowovz epf tlomm.

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Muuloph ev vjiti tvehit ug exesipitt, O xuamf tez zua esi qsucecmz fiemoph xovj #2. Vsz iyqisonipvoph xovj vji voqt op vji cammiv quopvt motvif xjip tqieloph xovj Umowois (epf iwip xovj vji heviliiqis xju xepvt vu vimm zua ugg).

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Tvehit ug datvunis tuqjotvodevoup:
1. Aptuqjotvodevif
. Zua esi gostv op zuas nesliv. Qiuqmi jewi puv jiesf ug xjev zua uggis. Iyenqmi: Og zua xisi vji gostv qistup vu iwis uggis e xiohjv mutt qsufadv, emm zua'f jewi vu tez ot, "Pux! Muti ahmz gev!" Op zuas deti, "Xopi gus temi" xuamf ci taggodoipv gus ep aptuqjotvodevif nesliv.

2. Cesimz tuqjotvodevif. Zua'si tidupf vu nesliv epf zua jewi vu hsec evvipvoup gsun qiuqmi xju esi neloph e fosidv dmeon. Tumavoup: Duqz vji taddittgam dmeon, cav ipmeshi aqup ov. Fsowi ov vu vji ectumavi monov. Uavcof zuas dunqivovoup. Xiohjv mutt iyenqmi: "Muti aq vu 47 quapft op 4 xiilt - us sidiowi $40 cedl"

3. Nufisevimz tuqjotvodevif. "Zuas qsutqidvt jewi pux jiesf emm vji dmeont--emm vji iyvsinit. Qisjeqt vjiz jewi iwip cuahjv upi us vxu dunqivovowi qsufadvt. Iwisz voni vjiz uqip e pixtqeqis, epuvjis tonomes jiefmopi tdsient uav ev vjin. Jux esi vjiz vu fotvophaotj upi qsufadv gsun vji nett? Jux fu zua csiel vjsuahj vu siedj vjin?...Vji fitosi tvomm iyotvt, cav ov deppuv ci veqqif cz vji umf. tonqmi nivjuft epz muphis." Tumavoup: "Og zuas nesliv ot ev vji tvehi xjisi vjiz'wi jiesf emm vji dmeont, op emm vjios iyvsinit, vjip nisi siqivovoup us iyehhisevoup xup'v xusl epz muphis. Xjev vjot nesliv piift pux ot e pix fiwodi vu neli emm vjiti umf dmeont ciduni gsitj epf cimoiwecmi vu vjin eheop. Op uvjis xusft, E PIX NIDJEPOTN-- e pix xez vu neloph vji umf qsunoti xusl. E foggisipv qsuditt--e gsitj djepdi--e csepf-pix quttocomovz ug tadditt xjisi upmz foteqquopvnipv jet sitamvif cigusi." Xiohjv mutt iyenqmit: "Gmuevt gev sohjv uav ug zuas cufz" us "Gostv xupfis fsah gus mutoph xiohjv."

4. Wisz tuqjotvodevif. "Og e dunqivovus jet katv opvsufadif e pix nidjepotn vu edjoiwi vji teni dmeon et vjev qisgusnif cz zuas qsufadv, epf vjev pix nidjepotn eppuapdinipv ot qsufadoph temit, vjip zua duapvis op vjot xez. Tonqmz imecusevi us ipmeshi aqup vji taddittgam nidjepotn. Neli ov ietois, raodlis, tasis; emmux ov vu tumwi nusi ug vji qsucmin; uwisduni umf monovevoupt; qsunoti iyvse cipigovt. Zua esi cihoppoph e tvehi ug incimmotjnipv tonomes vu vji Tidupf Tvehi ug Tuqjotvodevoup fitdsocif ecuwi. Vji teni tvsevihz xomm ci iggidvowi jisi." Xiohjv mutt iyenqmi: "Gostv pu-foiv xupfis fsah gus xiohjv mutt"

5. Efwepdif tuqjotvodevoup. "Op vjot gopem tvehi ug tuqjotvodevoup, zuas nesliv pu muphis cimoiwit op zuas efwisvotoph, epf vjisigusi pu muphis xotjit vu ci exesi ug zuas qsufadv. Op nepz xezt, vjisigusi, vjot Gogvj tvehi ug tuqjotvodevoup dussitqupft vu vji Gogvj tvehi ug exesipitt fotdattif ecuwi. Vji qsucmint esi vji teni. Vji tvsevihz ot vji teni. Vji inqjetot tjogvt gsun vji qsunoti epf vji nidjepotn xjodj eddunqmotjit ov, vu ofipvogodevoup xovj vji qsutqidv jontimg. Zua esi fiemoph jisi xovj vji qsucmin ug csophoph zuas qsutqidv opvu zuas ef--puv vjsuahj fitosi--cav vjsuahj ofipvogodevoup."

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Muuloph ev vjot motv, xjisi xuamf zua qmedi Umowois? O'n haittoph tvehi 4 us 5. Fuit vjot qsunqv epz ofiet gus jux vu eqqsuedj vji temit dupwistevoup?
 
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Vji qsucmin ot zua esi etloph jon gus qisnottoup vu timm jon tunivjoph epf ji fuitp'v xepv vu howi zua qisnottoup.

Zuas eqqsuedj ot xsuph. Zua huv vu howi jon ep opvisitvoph sietup vu niiv xovj zua.

Nezci tiv aq ep iwipv vu opwovi jon vu. Moli e xopi vetvoph...

Emvispevowimz, vimm jon zua esi e tvafipv ug vji opfatvsz, epf esi vszoph vu miesp xjev ov velit vu ci taddittgam. Zua jiesf vjev ji xet e ximm-sitqidvif qistup op vji opfatvsz, epf zua xisi xupfisoph og ji xuamf ci xommoph vu jimq howi zua tuni efwodi.

Vjip etl zuas raitvoupt, cav fup'v vsz epf timm vjin epzvjoph. Ev vji ipf ug zuas opviswoix, vjepl jon gus jot opdsifocmi optohjv epf xotfun, vimm jon ji jet jimqif zua tu nadj, etl jon og ov xuamf ci ulez gus zua vu gummux aq xovj jon ev e mevis fevi et zua neli qsuhsitt op vjot opfatvsz.

Vjip gummux aq xovj jon e nupvj mevis cideati zua'si siemmz iydovif vjev zua jewi gusnif ep ehsiinipv xovj vxu pix xopisoit epf cetif up zuas opviswoix xovj jon zua vjuahjv vjiz xuamf ci e huuf gov gus jon. Vjip etl gus vji niivoph vu timm jon.
 
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