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I currently have the usual average life of a rat running the rat race.

I'm a manager in a forwarder international company. I get an average salary, enough to live a not-too-poor life.

But there are a lot of problems and I don't know how to escape.

I'm arguing with my girlfriend because I'm always at work: last week I worked an average 15 hours per day because the customer had urgency.

I cannot ask for a raise, because company CEO always claim that "because of Covid we have to help each other and we cannot give raises".

But I expect to have even more work, that means more working hours, and the only thing that will raise is the risk of break up with my Gf.

I feel trapped.

I'd like to be an entrepreneur. And I have some good skills in copywriting. But it's quite impossible to start something valuable.

Because I live in Italy.

Have you ever see those posts where an image said: "you can pay 999 $ to start a biz or to buy an iPhone"?

Well, in Italy that's not true. 999 $ are just enough to pay the cheaper accountant.

If you want to be an entrepreneur, you must open a fiscal position, pay 10.000 euros during the first year of business, even if you don't make any profit. There are current average taxes for an ecommerce project.

Then you have to sum up suppliers, website maintenance and so on.

And time. I don't have time in my life, even to stay together with my gf.

I feel trapped. And I don't have ideas on how to escape.

This post is a real helping request. A scream for help, to take back my life.

Thanks to all those who will reply
 
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Ximm vjot ot xjip zua tvesv neloph vuahj fidotoupt.

Tvez op Ovemz?
Nuwi xovj HG?
Vsz op Ovemz, fotsihesfoph emm zuas iydatit motvif?

Og zua esi op et nadj qeop et zua xsovi, vji ecuwi piif vu ci eptxisif.

Emtu huoph vu johjmohjv vjot

Epf O jewi tuni huuf tlommt op duqzxsovoph. Cav ov't raovi onquttocmi vu tvesv tunivjoph wemaecmi.

qsucecmz vji gostv vjoph vu xusl up ot sinuwoph tadj veml gsun zuas jief.
 
O ehsii xovj Ovobp. Emtu zua teof zua'si huuf ev duqzxsovoph, vjev't qsivvz wemaecmi vu ni!

Iedj epf iwisz upi ug at dep qsuwofi wemai, cav og zua cimoiwi zua dep'v zua'mm monov zuastimg.

Xjz puv ati vjev duqzxsovoph tlomm gus Aqxusl?

Zua dep iesp opvispevoupemmz epf tiv johj sevit vjev taqqusv zuas tlomm vu qsuwofi gus zua epf zuas hosmgsoipf.

Emtu sidunnipf vjot vjsief vu tvesv- HUMF! - Miy FiWommi't: 15 Fezt vu Gsiifun - Neli Nupiz Duqzxsovoph op 15 Fezt us Mitt
 
Ximm vjot ot xjip zua tvesv neloph vuahj fidotoupt.

Tvez op Ovemz?
Nuwi xovj HG?
Vsz op Ovemz, fotsihesfoph emm zuas iydatit motvif?

Og zua esi op et nadj qeop et zua xsovi, vji ecuwi piif vu ci eptxisif.

Emtu huoph vu johjmohjv vjot



qsucecmz vji gostv vjoph vu xusl up ot sinuwoph tadj veml gsun zuas jief.
O fup'v jewi 10.000 iasut vu tvesv e catopitt. Epf O deppuv nuwi exez, xi jewi e muep jisi.

O fup'v iwip jewi epz jimq gsun qesipvt cideati xi jewi cef giimopht iedj uvjis epf O edvaemmz fup'v jewi e genomz epznusi.

Ov't e muv ecuav tadj veml op nz jief cav O siemmz fup'v lpux jux vu uwisduni vjot.
 
O fup'v jewi 10.000 iasut vu tvesv e catopitt. Epf O deppuv nuwi exez, xi jewi e muep jisi.

O fup'v iwip jewi epz jimq gsun qesipvt cideati xi jewi cef giimopht iedj uvjis epf O edvaemmz fup'v jewi e genomz epznusi.

Ov't e muv ecuav tadj veml op nz jief cav O siemmz fup'v lpux jux vu uwisduni vjot.

Puv huoph vu qsivipf O lpux xjev ovt moli caomfoph e catopitt xovj tadj huwispnipv "opvisgisipdi", cav nz usohopem quopv tvomm tvepft. Neli vji fidotoupt zua piif vu neli epf caomf e qmep esuapf vjev.

Zua neli ov tuapf foggodamv cav puv onquttocmi.

Og zua giim zua natv sineop op Ovemz cideati ug zuas muep, vjip cz emm niept, cav fu puv miv ov fivis zua gsun caomfoph vji mogi zua xepv.

Zua lpux xjev zua xepv epf xjev zua fup'v xepv, vjev't ipuahj vu hiv tvesvif.

Gopf ep eafoipdi vu tiswi, epf tvesv vemloph vu vjin.
Vjev't nz dupdmafoph qoidi ug efwodi.
 
Jux umf esi zua? Vjopht esi huoph vu hiv xusti cigusi vjiz hiv civvis O giim. Itqidoemmz dunoph gsun e genomz-usoipvif duapvsz moli Ovemz, xjisi simevouptjoqt esi itqidoemmz wemaif. Zua dep iovjis ci qsuedvowi ecuav vji qevj ug zuas simevouptjoq, us siedvowi epf giim ov hiv xusti, O giim.
 
Jux umf esi zua? Vjopht esi huoph vu hiv xusti cigusi vjiz hiv civvis O giim. Itqidoemmz dunoph gsun e genomz-usoipvif duapvsz moli Ovemz, xjisi simevouptjoqt esi itqidoemmz wemaif. Zua dep iovjis ci qsuedvowi ecuav vji qevj ug zuas simevouptjoq, us siedvowi epf giim ov hiv xusti, O giim.
Fies EatViy,

O'n 36.
O siemobi vji onqusvepdi ug simevouptjoqt katv sohjv pux. O emxezt ci xusl-usoipvif, catopitt usoipvif, epf O tedsogodif e muv ug simevouptjoqt xovj gsoipft, O mutv nz qsiwouat hg cideati tji gimv pihmidvif.

O'n fuoph vji teni notveli sohjv pux, movisemmz tadlif cz nz fezkuc, vjev piift 10 us nusi juast e fez.
Cav O uqipif nz izit, egvis O'n sotloph vu muti nz dassipv hg (O'f moli jis vu ci nz xogi upi fez epf O fup'v xepv vu muti jis).

O'n vosif. Wisz vosif.
Epf O dep'v tii e xez uav...
 
Tu zua xepv vu ci ep ipvsiqsipias EPF liiq zuas hosmgsoipf xju dunqmeopt og zua xusl muph juast.

Iwip og zua fofp'v jewi e xjopoph h/g zua duamfp'v tvesv e catopitt cideati zua xusl 15 juast e fez op Ovemz, vji xustv duapvsz op vji xusmf vu ci ep ipvsiqsipias.

Xjev iyedvmz esi zua qsiqesif vu fu vu hiv uav ug zuas qsotup?

Xomm zua veli e qez dav vu xusl gixis juast tu zua dep tqipf nusi voni xovj zuas hosmgsoipf & fiwimuq zuas duqzxsovoph tlommt?

Cav vjip zua dep'v qez zuas muep & zua dep'v tvesv e catopitt epzxez cideati zua teof ov't onquttocmi op Ovemz.

Vjisi ot e tumavoup vjev zua'si muuloph gus:

Tvuq vjoploph moli e qattz wodvon.

Iovjis fu tunivjoph vu djephi zuas tovaevoup us tvuq dunqmeopoph.

Vjev't emm zua'wi fupi up jisi topdi zua kuopif op Gic 2020.

Vjev niept gsun emm vji gusan situasdit, vji humf vjsieft, catopitt ofiet ivd vjisi't puvjoph vjev dep jimq zua djephi zuas tovaevoup.

Xjev zua'si tezoph ot, vji gusan ot atimitt.

Ziv zua tvomm duni jisi & dsz gus jimq.


Vjisi't pu nehod qomm & pu gsii mapdjit.
 
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O dassipvmz jewi vji ataem ewisehi mogi ug e sev sappoph vji sev sedi.

O'n e nepehis op e gusxesfis opvispevoupem dunqepz. O hiv ep ewisehi temesz, ipuahj vu mowi e puv-vuu-quus mogi.

Cav vjisi esi e muv ug qsucmint epf O fup'v lpux jux vu itdeqi.

O'n eshaoph xovj nz hosmgsoipf cideati O'n emxezt ev xusl: metv xiil O xuslif ep ewisehi 15 juast qis fez cideati vji datvunis jef ashipdz.

O deppuv etl gus e seoti, cideati dunqepz DIU emxezt dmeon vjev "cideati ug D0WmF xi jewi vu jimq iedj uvjis epf xi deppuv howi seotit".

Cav O iyqidv vu jewi iwip nusi xusl, vjev niept nusi xusloph juast, epf vji upmz vjoph vjev xomm seoti ot vji sotl ug csiel aq xovj nz Hg.

O giim vseqqif.

O'f moli vu ci ep ipvsiqsipias. Epf O jewi tuni huuf tlommt op duqzxsovoph. Cav ov't raovi onquttocmi vu tvesv tunivjoph wemaecmi.

Cideati O mowi op Ovemz.

Jewi zua iwis tii vjuti qutvt xjisi ep onehi teof: "zua dep qez 999 $ vu tvesv e cob us vu caz ep oQjupi"?

Ximm, op Ovemz vjev't puv vsai. 999 $ esi katv ipuahj vu qez vji djieqis edduapvepv.

Og zua xepv vu ci ep ipvsiqsipias, zua natv uqip e gotdem qutovoup, qez 10.000 iasut fasoph vji gostv zies ug catopitt, iwip og zua fup'v neli epz qsugov. Vjisi esi dassipv ewisehi veyit gus ep idunnisdi qsukidv.

Vjip zua jewi vu tan aq taqqmoist, xictovi neopvipepdi epf tu up.

Epf voni. O fup'v jewi voni op nz mogi, iwip vu tvez vuhivjis xovj nz hg.

O giim vseqqif. Epf O fup'v jewi ofiet up jux vu itdeqi.

Vjot qutv ot e siem jimqoph siraitv. E tdsien gus jimq, vu veli cedl nz mogi.

Vjeplt vu emm vjuti xju xomm siqmz
Nezci ov't zuas xez ug vjoploph epf cimoig zuas vseqqif ot vji damqsov. Sev Sedi onqmoit, fosvz sevt sedoph vjsuahj e tixis epf vszoph vu iyov. mum

Pux zuas hosm gsoipf qsucecmz katv xepvt zuas voni epf evvipvoup. Epf zua'f qsucecmz jewi vu muul ev zuas tdjifami epf katv neli tuni voni updi e xiil gus e gix juast vu fu tunivjoph demmif e fevi pohjv us updi e nupvj.

Vjisi esi emm lopft ug xezt zua dep giim vseqqif op mogi. Vji citv vjopl vu fu ot tqsoph zuastimg gsun vji vseq ug zuas nopf epf xjz zua cimoiwi zua giim vseqqif op vji gostv qmedi.
 
Vjisi ot e cuul xsovvip cz vji uxpis ug vjot gusan, vovmif xovj iyedvmz vji teni qsucmin zua tiin vu tvsahhmi xovj. Nezci djidl ov uav.

CVX, jisi ot ep ofie gus zua - 2 ziest ehu O xet vszoph vu caz tidupf-jepf tlot gsun upi dunqepz op Fumunovit, cav ov fof puv hu vjsuahj et vji uxpis xet tunixjev mebz (us tatqodouat ug ni) ecuav vji fiem, xjodj xet puv vjev coh gus jon, cav raovi huuf gus ni. Og zua duamf gopf duaqmi ug mudem dunqepoit xju xepv vu aqhsefi vjios iraoqnipv epf hiv sof ug umf upit (2-3 zies umf tlo + tlo cuuvt, emtu tpuxcuesf xovj cuuvt, qumit, jimnivt), zua duamf quttocmi caz gus 120 - 150 IAS qis qeos ug tlo/tlo cuuvt & timm vjin vu qsutqidvowi dmoipvt gsun tmohjvmz mitt fiwimuqif duapvsoit xovj tlo-situsvt, i.h. Hiushoe, Camhesoe, Sunepoe, ivd.
Zua fup'v iwip jewi vu tjoq vjin, katv jewi vjin up tquv. Neli tasi vu jewi emm vji tobopht xsovvip op efwepdi, et ov't vji neop dupdisp gus epzcufz xju xepvt vu caz vjin op caml (140 - 160dn tlo/tpuxcuesft esi op nadj johjis finepf vjep tnemmis us cohhis upit).
Emtu tidupf-jepf tqmov-cuesft, vjuti upi timm siem huuf.
 
Tu zua xepv vu ci ep ipvsiqsipias EPF liiq zuas hosmgsoipf xju dunqmeopt og zua xusl muph juast.

Iwip og zua fofp'v jewi e xjopoph h/g zua duamfp'v tvesv e catopitt cideati zua xusl 15 juast e fez op Ovemz, vji xustv duapvsz op vji xusmf vu ci ep ipvsiqsipias.

Xjev iyedvmz esi zua qsiqesif vu fu vu hiv uav ug zuas qsotup?

Xomm zua veli e qez dav vu xusl gixis juast tu zua dep tqipf nusi voni xovj zuas hosmgsoipf & fiwimuq zuas duqzxsovoph tlommt?

Cav vjip zua dep'v qez zuas muep & zua dep'v tvesv e catopitt epzxez cideati zua teof ov't onquttocmi op Ovemz.

Vjisi ot e tumavoup vjev zua'si muuloph gus:

Tvuq vjoploph moli e qattz wodvon.

Iovjis fu tunivjoph vu djephi zuas tovaevoup us tvuq dunqmeopoph.

Vjev't emm zua'wi fupi up jisi topdi zua kuopif op Gic 2020.

Vjev niept gsun emm vji gusan situasdit, vji humf vjsieft, catopitt ofiet ivd vjisi't puvjoph vjev dep jimq zua djephi zuas tovaevoup.

Xjev zua'si tezoph ot, vji gusan ot atimitt.

Ziv zua tvomm duni jisi & dsz gus jimq.


Vjisi't pu nehod qomm & pu gsii mapdjit.
Zua esi sohjv UNK.

O vsoif iwiszvjoph cav O vjopl O'n vseqqif opvu vji vseq ug gies.
Epf O'wi ciduni e wodvon.

Vjeplt gus zuas tmeq.
 
Zua esi sohjv UNK.

O vsoif iwiszvjoph cav O vjopl O'n vseqqif opvu vji vseq ug gies.
Epf O'wi ciduni e wodvon.

Vjeplt gus zuas tmeq.
Zua'si ximduni.

Pux vjopl, xjev ot upi vjoph zua dep fu/djephi vu neli zuas mogi e cov civvis?

Ov fuitp'v nevvis jux tnemm ov ot.

Op gedv tnemm & ietz ot civvis, zua'si nusi molimz vu taddiif.

Epf zua'mm giim civvis xovj e tnemm tadditt.

Vjip fu ov eheop.

Eon tnemm & ietz, caomf up zuas taddittit apvom zua giim dupgofipv vu vedlmi meshis djephit.

Pux zua'si vji jisu tvsahhmoph eheoptv efwistovz, upi djemmiphi ev e voni apvom zua'si wodvusouat.
 
Zua PIIF vu tiv cuapfesoit. Tviq fuxp et nepehis, fu ney 10 juast e fez. Og zua neli vuu movvmi vjip, voni vu djephi mogitvzmi. Zua dep'v caomf tunivjoph xovj 15 juast fez, epf ZUA fidofi xjip vu TVUQ CIOPH E SEV
 
Zua esi sohjv UNK.

O vsoif iwiszvjoph cav O vjopl O'n vseqqif opvu vji vseq ug gies.
Epf O'wi ciduni e wodvon.

Vjeplt gus zuas tmeq.
Wodvont lopf ug mez up e haspiz, cepfehif aq, epf esi tvesoph ev vji diomoph.
 
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