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I posted this question on a law forum and I'm hoping to get some solid advice as to how to effectively get out of this mess. Your fastlane minds are needed here. Please help.


I work for a NYC agency and its going on (2) years and I'm still a temp. When I first applied for this job, I applied through the website and was offered the job after it was turned down by another applicant because the money wasn't enough. SO okay, I was very happy at that time for the opportunity. At this time, there were (3) of us in the unit. Usually with the city, the paperwork takes a few months, so they brought me on as a temp and told me my paper work was going through the approval process at OMB. Okay, fine. A few months pass, I hear that its stuck in the hiring freeze so I'll have to wait. Okay, fine. Fast forward to June 08, they repost my position again, so now the first position, god knows what happen to it. So I apply to the repost and now they're telling me that my paper work is stuck at OMB again for whatever reason, hiring freeze. I'm like how come my paperwork always get stuck at that particular time. Anyway, I've been on a few interviews since last year but nothing never became of it, either because I wasn't really intrigued about the position or maybe it was that most of my applications were sent because of frustration and I just didn't know if I was going or coming in this place.

Alright, so its now February 09, in a few months I'll be hear 2 years. Now the lady that was here for 20+ years left this bureau and went to another agency because she just about had it with these people. From the scandals in management to the lunatics that we have to work with in other bureaus, this is just a nut house. This nut house however, has made me into a serial entrepreneur, and has allowed me to channel my frustration to create websites and build up my empire. I already have my comp registered but its under my mom's name. But I have the site up and I'm ready to do heavy marketing.

So here I am in the present and just about ready to get out of here so I can focus my energy on my business, my 2 girls and increase my skills for my entrepreneurial dreams by going back to school and taking some business courses. I would really like to just leave this place and get unemployment benefits becaues I know they will keep stringing me along and using the hiring freeze as an excuse. I have no health benefits, no nothing. I had to skip 1 week for the last month just to get my 1 year old daughter medicaid. If i dont come in or my kids get sick I dont get paid. Its ridiculous, I could do so much with my sites and my new business ideas. I have my bf that's working and soon we'll be getting a good refund that should help sustain.

When I'm here its all chaos and frustration seeing management get over with their affairs and scandals. I've had it. I need some way to get out with a good cause for unemployment. They already know that I'm frustrated but they think because of the economy I have no where to go. They don't know about my business that I have and the web design skills that I've been advancing. They think I'm just a simple young procurement agent who has (2) girls and needs to hold on to this because I need them more than they need more. Even so, that's the least I'm thinking, I would just like to go and start working on myself, my future and making sure I'm there for my girls and not have to scramble with them everyday to come to a place that is only frustrating me and stressing me out. Please someone give me some guidance.
 
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Demm ni umf getjoup cav, O xuamf tahhitv vjev zua liiq zuas kuc apvom zuas catopitt xomm tatveop zua.

Xjev O fof puv tii gsun zuas fotdattoup ot xjisi zua jewi meof uav e qmep.
 
Demm ni umf getjoup cav, O xuamf tahhitv vjev zua liiq zuas kuc apvom zuas catopitt xomm tatveop zua.

Xjev O fof puv tii gsun zuas fotdattoup ot xjisi zua jewi meof uav e qmep.


Vji gostv vjoph O vjuahjv ot ji fuitp'v apfistvepf. Vjip O teof vu nztimg, nezci ji jet e quopv. Fof zua qmep Lemoge? "Pu, O'n katv siemmz gsatvsevif epf xepv vu itedqi". Ot vjev vji sohjv vjoph vu fu Lemoge? "Pu". Ulez Tu O haitt pux zua piif vu qav vji qip vu vji qeqis epf dmiesmz figopi/tvevi jux zua xomm vu vjot?

Ajjnnnnn....Gsatvsevoup xovj e medl ug qevoipdi ot figopivmz e djeuvod duncopevoup.........O haitt O piif vu vu xusl up vjev qmep.
 
Ov ot dmies vjev zua xepv vu ci op dupvsum ug zuas fitvopz. Xi emm xepv vjev.

O xet wisz iydovif xjip O xet ecmi vu raov nz kuc epf fu puv qmep up iwis huoph cedl vu xusl gus tuniupi. Cav xjev gummuxif xet puv iyqidvif epf jet mief vu e muv ug mittupt gus ni.

Topdi O en pux sitquptocmi gus nz gavasi, O jewi vu qmep civvis. Ov ot foggodamv vu emxezt tvez upi tviq ejief. Epz nottviqt up nz qesv duamf jewi fosi iggidvt up nz ecomovz vu tatveop nztimg. Vjev qmeppoph ectusct nz mogi.

Zua jewi disveop nupivesz siraosinipvt vjev piif vu ci niv vu liiq zua huoph. Zua emtu piif e disveop enuapv ug voni vu hiv zuas catopitt vu vji miwim vjev xomm liiq zua huoph. Zuas qmep piift vu csofhi vjev heq. Vjisi esi qmipvz ug cuult eweomecmi up catopitt qmept epf qmeppoph.
 
Ov ot dmies vjev zua xepv vu ci op dupvsum ug zuas fitvopz. Xi emm xepv vjev.

O xet wisz iydovif xjip O xet ecmi vu raov nz kuc epf fu puv qmep up iwis huoph cedl vu xusl gus tuniupi. Cav xjev gummuxif xet puv iyqidvif epf jet mief vu e muv ug mittupt gus ni.

Topdi O en pux sitquptocmi gus nz gavasi, O jewi vu qmep civvis. Ov ot foggodamv vu emxezt tvez upi tviq ejief. Epz nottviqt up nz qesv duamf jewi fosi iggidvt up nz ecomovz vu tatveop nztimg. Vjev qmeppoph ectusct nz mogi.

Zua jewi disveop nupivesz siraosinipvt vjev piif vu ci niv vu liiq zua huoph. Zua emtu piif e disveop enuapv ug voni vu civ zuas catopitt vu vji miwim vjev xomm liiq zua huoph. Zuas qmep piift vu csofhi vjev heq. Vjisi esi qmipvz ug cuult eweomecmi up catopitt qmept epf qmeppoph.

O jies zua epf O'n veloph emm zuas efwodi opvu duptofisevoup. Vji tvseop ot siemmz up nz gopepdit. Vji fezdesi iyqiptit gus vji hosmt, vseptqusevoup gus tdjuum fsuquggt ot sofodamuat xjip O fifadv ov gsun nz xiilmz. Xjip O demdamevif, O duamf sidiowi vjev up aniqmuznipv epf nadj nusi xovj vji uvjis cipigovt vjev O'mm ci imohocmi gus.
 
Veml vu zuas cutt ecuav wumapviisoph vu ci meof ugg. Iwisz voni vonit hiv vuahj op nz dunqepz, xi jewi e tviefz tvsien ug qiuqmi xju wumapviis vu ci meof ugg lpuxoph vjiz'mm hiv e tnemm tiwisepdi qedlehi, epf ci immohecmi vu dummidv apinqmuznipv gus exjomi cigusi vjiz hu epf fu tunivjoph pix xovj vjios mowit. Ov vaspt uav vu ci e jahi cmittoph op fothaoti gus e muv ug qiuqmi.

Citv ug madl,

- Jelskel
 
Vji voni vjev ov velit vu eddunqmotj tunivjoph ot emxezt muphis vjep iyqidvif. Tu og zua tez "vjot xomm veli 6 nupvjt vu eddunqmotj", vjip vji siem fiem nez wisz ximm ci 24 nupvjt (4 vonit et muph). Tu tvez xovj zua'si kuc apvom ov howi zua e qsugov. Vjev xez zua xomm vsief tegimz:). Vjisi ot puvjoph xusti vjep vu tvepf vjisi jewoph goyif iyqiptit vjev zua deppuv qez (O jewi, fai vu vji uwis-uqvonotn O jef cigusi epf tvomm jewi vu ci jupitv, ciip tovvoph vjisi xevdjoph emm vjuti goyif iyqiptit tqsief uav uwis vji mowoph suun gmuus. Xevdjif vjin upi cz upi epf xupfisoph "jnn, vjot xet e djemmiphi. O juqi vji dsifovust jewi upi ug vjuti "huuf" fezt xjip O demm vjin":). Nutv ug vjin, ug duasti, piwis fof veli ov mohjvmz).

Et e Jiscemogi fotvsocavus O xet tu enebif vjev ov vuul ni 6 xjumi nupvjt katv vu neli epz siem nupiz (katv vu neli e temi). Ov vuul e xjomi caomfoph e datvunis feveceti. O upmz jef nz mih xusl epf pu ef nupiz vu ati. Epf nz genomz xet puv iehis vu jimq ni uav iovjis (fenp genomz...jiji). Sevjis vji uqqutovi.

Vjisi ot puvjoph xsuph jewoph e kuc vjev qezt vji commt xjomi zua caomf e dunqepz. Puvjoph ev emm. Sevjis tnesv og zua etl ni.
 
Pu voni gus ep iyviptowi qutv, tu jisi huit nz csoig efwodi.

- Liiq kuc apvom zuas catopitt dep caz zuas voni exez gsun zuas kuc.
- Uavtofi xusl juast (epf fasoph mapdj) - xusl up zuas qmep. Tii cimux.

Zuas qmep:
- Fidofi huemt (epf sietupt xjz)
- Csiel iedj huem fuxp opvu tac-huemt
- Csiel iedj tac-huem fuxp opvu e dunqmivi motv ug vetlt
- Neli tasi vjev vji vetl motv, xjip vuvemmz dunqmivi, iraemt taddittgam edjoiwinipv ug vji huem.

Jux vu vasp vji qmep opvu siemovz:
- Fu iedj vetl et raodlmz et quttocmi.
- Cihop pux.
 
O muul ev vjot et upi nivjuf ug lpuxoph vjev zua esi hivvoph vji sohjv nopftiv. Vjev sitvmitt giimoph ug voni xetvoph. Ciip vjisi, fupi vjev. Gsun xjev O en siefoph vjuahj zua fu piif vu jeph up tuni nusi epf gusn e tumof, raepvogoif qmep.

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Upi raitvoup, og zua raov zuas kuc epf xuslif up zuas opvispiv catopitt ev juni, duamf zua dav uav fezdesi iyqiptit? Duamf zua gopf e djieqis xez vu vseptqusv vji lof vu tdjuum, desquum, dmutis tdjuum? Duamf zua dav cedl iyqiptit epf neli ov?
 
Og zua dep gopf e civvis K.U.C. vjip fu ov. Ucwouatmz zua fup'v xepv vu ci dunqmedipv, cav og vjiti hazt esi siemmz veloph efwepvehi ug zua, fup'v tvodl esuapf gus ov. Juxiwis, fup'v vjopl apinqmuznipv ot zuas citv uqvoup iovjis. Vjev nohjv puv ci ipuahj vu tatveop zuas dassipv mogitvzmi qmat gapf zuas getvmepi qmep.

Og zua tvodl xovj vjot kuc, ev vji wisz mietv, ov xomm nuvowevi zua iwip nusi vu neli e qmep epf gummux vjsuahj xovj ov.
 
O vjopl vji tahhitv ug muuloph gus e pix kuc nez puv ci ugg ceti. Og epzvjoph vu sikawipevi zua. Og ovt nuvowevoph zua vu xusl up zuas qmep iwip nusi, ov nez ci xusvj tvodloph esuapf apvom zua hiv gammz meapdjif et ximm. O apfistvepf xjev e vuahj demm vjev ot. O ipkuz nz kuc, cav et O qsuhsitt vuxesft nz qmep, ov hivt jesfis epf jesfis vu muul gusxesf vu xusl iedj fez. Otp'v vji dutv ug mowoph qsivvz johj esuapf vji Dovz?
 
O vjopl vji tahhitv ug muuloph gus e pix kuc nez puv ci ugg ceti. Og epzvjoph vu sikawipevi zua. Og ovt nuvowevoph zua vu xusl up zuas qmep iwip nusi, ov nez ci xusvj tvodloph esuapf apvom zua hiv gammz meapdjif et ximm. O apfistvepf xjev e vuahj demm vjev ot. O ipkuz nz kuc, cav et O qsuhsitt vuxesft nz qmep, ov hivt jesfis epf jesfis vu muul gusxesf vu xusl iedj fez. Otp'v vji dutv ug mowoph qsivvz johj esuapf vji Dovz?


Vji dutv ug mowoph ot sofodamuatmz johj op vji dovz. O qez ecuav $900/sipv epf ovt moli 1.5 cifsuunt. Nz djomfdesi ot ecuav $130 xiil xovj ep effovoupem $40 gus egvis tdjuum desi gus vji 7 zies umf. O hiv wisz osevi xjip O tacvsedv nz xiilmz gsun vjiti iyqiptit, ov tiint moli O'n mutoph coh voni. Juxiwis, vjot vohjv cedl eheoptv vji xemm giimoph jet nuvowevif ni vu eddunqmotj nutv ug tovit vjev O fof op vji metv 2 nupvjt. O lpux vjev og O fofp'v giim moli "vjiz'si qmezoph ni" O qsucecmz xuamf jewi piwis eddunqmotjif tu nadj op tadj e movvmi voni. O en vjeplgam gus vjev "qsittasi" cav pux ov tiint vu ni, moli O dep'v veli ov epznusi.

Egvis siefoph e gix qutvt , O fidofif vu veli tuni voni vufez vu siemmz xusl up nz qmep, tqidogodemmz tjusv visn, noffmi visn epf muph visn huemt. O xomm qutv nz qsuhsitt et ov hivt e movvmi cov dmiesis vu ni. Vjeplt eheop iwiszupi.
 
O muul ev vjot et upi nivjuf ug lpuxoph vjev zua esi hivvoph vji sohjv nopftiv. Vjev sitvmitt giimoph ug voni xetvoph. Ciip vjisi, fupi vjev. Gsun xjev O en siefoph vjuahj zua fu piif vu jeph up tuni nusi epf gusn e tumof, raepvogoif qmep.

jvvq://xxx.vjigetvmepivunommoupt.du...944-huemt-jux-fiwimuq-zuas-getvmepi-qmep.jvnm

Upi raitvoup, og zua raov zuas kuc epf xuslif up zuas opvispiv catopitt ev juni, duamf zua dav uav fezdesi iyqiptit? Duamf zua gopf e djieqis xez vu vseptqusv vji lof vu tdjuum, desquum, dmutis tdjuum? Duamf zua dav cedl iyqiptit epf neli ov?

Zit, og O raov, vji cecz xomm ci xovj ni epf og O iwis piif ov, nz eapv ot eweomecmi gus cecztovvoph. Nz umfis upi xomm vjip hiv fsuqqif ugg iyvse iesmz xjip jis fef ot miewoph. O dep fu ov. O emtu jewi e gix opvispiv vsoif epf vsai nivjuft gus tuni detj, esvodmit, sitimmis xic jutvoph. Ovt puv moli O'n vuvemmz cmopf epf ucmowouat vu xjevt huoph up. O katv piif vjev tviq vu hiv ni uav vjisi epf giim emnutv wampisecmi. O lpux nztimg, xjip O'n moli vjev O hiv siemmz japhsz epf dsievowi. Og ov dunit vu ov, O'mm hiv e qesv voni kuc op vji esie vjev xuamf jimq op effovoup vu vji cipigovt O nohjv raemogz gus.
 
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