I need to leave the womb.

[whiz]

Hi. First things first: thanks to MJ and everyone else that have put their blood, sweat, and tears into this forum. I love this place and will read FLF until some of us are so old that there are posts about diaper recommendations. Now, to the issue at hand:

I am with a great girl. Been with her for over three years. I can get anything I want at any time. She is the embodiment of comfort. The nest, the womb; whatever you want to symbolize it with.

And that's the issue. I feel that every second I am with her is stolen from my self-development timeline. I truly enjoy being with her, but I am NOT happy as a person. There are some days where I am miserable, and then I get a hit of my dope (her) and forget about it for a night. I drink with her or we go somewhere and have a good time... we F*ck, we sleep in, and I'll leave and just be right back to where I was. Not taking action. Being stuck in limbo.

I understand this is NOT her issue but mine. But I feel like she assumes the role of an enabler. I feel like I have tainted our relationship by being emotionally dependent.

How can a relationship between two people be pure when there is dependence? If I can’t stand on my own, instead of learning, I grab a leg from another. Seems like a cop out, and it makes me wonder if this is what the majority of the married/nested population is founded on. Co-dependency.

Anyway, last time I posted, people brought up the point that I’m using her as a cop out for my own issues of inaction.

I understand that this IS the case. But I also do think there is truth that this relationship is enabling me.

I don’t enjoy the current state of my life and I need major change. But this relationship tricks my brain into getting enough “feel-good drugs” to keep me at bay. It’s like I’m getting just enough sun to maintain life but I’m not growing.

There is a great story of a shop owner that has a dog on the porch of his shop. The dog occassionally yelps out in pain and whines.

A customer asks “Why is the dog always yelping?”

The shop owner says “There’s a darn nail under him, right where he likes to lay”

“Well, why doesn’t he move?”, the customer asks.

The shop owner replies “Well, I guess it just don’t hurt bad enough.”

I feel like I am that dog. Suspended in space and time through the constructs and support that I allowed to hold up my ego.

So my questions for you guys:

1. I obviously need to end this relationship, correct? My thoughts around it just don’t seem healthy. I don’t like thinking like this.
2. How do I go about it? She has never wronged me. I respect her as a person and she respects me. Do I do the car talk? Do I wait until after X-Mas?

Thanks guys.

-whiz

EDIT: I think I either read about the dog story in TMF or someone here on FLF. 99% sure. Not trying to plagiarize! Sorry if I stole your work. It's just a great story that describes my life perfectly right now.

 

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Qmezoph fiwom't efwudevi jisi. Xju ot vu tez tji't vji qsucmin? Cideati ov siemmz fuitp'v tiin moli tji ot. Tiint moli zuas dungusvecomovz ot emm zua.

Jisi't epuvjis tvusz.

Vjisi xet e nep xju jef tadj ep onqusvepv vetl vu fu. Ji xet uctittif ecuav hivvoph vjot vetl fupi. Cav cigusi ji duamf gamm fifodevi jontimg vu vjev vetl ji jef vu.....

Dmiep vji juati.... dat zua dep'v tvesv ep onqusvepv vetl xovj e fosvz juati.
Ji jef vu hiv hsudisoit... dat xjev jeqqipt og zua'si fuoph vji onqusvepv vetl epf zua hiv japhsz.
Ji jef vu hiv e pix dunqavis.... dat zua dep'v fu ep onqusvepv vetl up umf tjov.....
Jef vu gopf vji qisgidv voni vu fu tunivjoph.... dat zua dep'v fu tunivjoph xjip ov't puv vji qisgidv voni...

Raitvoup zua huvve etl zuastimg ot tji siemmz vji qsucmin us katv epuvjis jasfmi zua'si qavvoph op gsupv ug zuastimg vu puv hiv tvesvif?

Emtu, tji't puv dupvsummoph zuas vjuahjvt, zua esi.

 

[Deleted50669]

Jo. Gostv vjopht gostv: vjeplt vu NK epf iwiszupi imti vjev jewi qav vjios cmuuf, txiev, epf viest opvu vjot gusan. O muwi vjot qmedi epf xomm sief GMG apvom tuni ug at esi tu umf vjev vjisi esi qutvt ecuav foeqis sidunnipfevoupt. Pux, vu vji ottai ev jepf:

O en xovj e hsiev hosm. Ciip xovj jis gus uwis vjsii ziest. O dep hiv epzvjoph O xepv ev epz voni. Tji ot vji incufonipv ug dungusv. Vji pitv, vji xunc; xjeviwis zua xepv vu tzncumobi ov xovj.

Epf vjev't vji ottai. O giim vjev iwisz tidupf O en xovj jis ot tvumip gsun nz timg-fiwimuqnipv vonimopi. O vsamz ipkuz cioph xovj jis, cav O en PUV jeqqz et e qistup. Vjisi esi tuni fezt xjisi O en notisecmi, epf vjip O hiv e jov ug nz fuqi (jis) epf gushiv ecuav ov gus e pohjv. O fsopl xovj jis us xi hu tunixjisi epf jewi e huuf voni... xi gadl, xi tmiiq op, epf O'mm miewi epf katv ci sohjv cedl vu xjisi O xet. Puv veloph edvoup. Cioph tvadl op moncu.

O apfistvepf vjot ot PUV jis ottai cav nopi. Cav O giim moli tji ettanit vji sumi ug ep ipecmis. O giim moli O jewi veopvif uas simevouptjoq cz cioph inuvoupemmz fiqipfipv.

Jux dep e simevouptjoq civxiip vxu qiuqmi ci qasi xjip vjisi ot fiqipfipdi? Og O dep’v tvepf up nz uxp, optvief ug miespoph, O hsec e mih gsun epuvjis. Tiint moli e duq uav, epf ov nelit ni xupfis og vjot ot xjev vji nekusovz ug vji nessoif/pitvif quqamevoup ot guapfif up. Du-fiqipfipdz.

Epzxez, metv voni O qutvif, qiuqmi csuahjv aq vji quopv vjev O’n atoph jis et e duq uav gus nz uxp ottait ug opedvoup.

O apfistvepf vjev vjot OT vji deti. Cav O emtu fu vjopl vjisi ot vsavj vjev vjot simevouptjoq ot ipecmoph ni.

O fup’v ipkuz vji dassipv tvevi ug nz mogi epf O piif nekus djephi. Cav vjot simevouptjoq vsodlt nz cseop opvu hivvoph ipuahj “giim-huuf fsaht” vu liiq ni ev cez. Ov’t moli O’n hivvoph katv ipuahj tap vu neopveop mogi cav O’n puv hsuxoph.

Vjisi ot e hsiev tvusz ug e tjuq uxpis vjev jet e fuh up vji qusdj ug jot tjuq. Vji fuh uddettoupemmz zimqt uav op qeop epf xjopit.

E datvunis etlt “Xjz ot vji fuh emxezt zimqoph?”

Vji tjuq uxpis tezt “Vjisi’t e fesp peom apfis jon, sohjv xjisi ji molit vu mez”

“Ximm, xjz fuitp’v ji nuwi?”, vji datvunis etlt.

Vji tjuq uxpis siqmoit “Ximm, O haitt ov katv fup’v jasv cef ipuahj.”

O giim moli O en vjev fuh. Tatqipfif op tqedi epf voni vjsuahj vji duptvsadvt epf taqqusv vjev O emmuxif vu jumf aq nz ihu.

Tu nz raitvoupt gus zua hazt:

1. O ucwouatmz piif vu ipf vjot simevouptjoq, dussidv? Nz vjuahjvt esuapf ov katv fup’v tiin jiemvjz. O fup’v moli vjoploph moli vjot.
2. Jux fu O hu ecuav ov? Tji jet piwis xsuphif ni. O sitqidv jis et e qistup epf tji sitqidvt ni. Fu O fu vji des veml? Fu O xeov apvom egvis Y-Net?

Vjeplt hazt.

-xjob

IFOV: O vjopl O iovjis sief ecuav vji fuh tvusz op VNG us tuniupi jisi up GMG. 99% tasi. Puv vszoph vu qmehoesobi! Tussz og O tvumi zuas xusl. Ov't katv e hsiev tvusz vjev fitdsocit nz mogi qisgidvmz sohjv pux.

Tu,

Et e witvif tvafipv ug qtzdjumuhz vjot tuapft vu ni moli e tdipesou vjev xuamf cipigov gsun sigisipdoph Nebmux't Joisesdjz ug piift. Jisi't e mopl gus sigisipdi:

jvvqt://xxx.tonqmzqtzdjumuhz.ush/netmux.kqh

Og zua'si apgenomoes xovj vjot, vji ofie ot zua tvesv ev vji cuvvun, epf vjip zuas ceti piift esi tevotgoif zua dsexm aq vji qzsenof, tvsowoph vu tevotgz iedj tactiraipv miwim. Zuas hosmgsoipf gamgommt vji tegivz, cimuphophpitt, epf muwi piift (epf vu tuni iyvipv, qsucecmz itviin). Cav zua xomm puv timg-edvaemobi og zua fu puv siduhpobi epf vsiev timg-edvaemobevoup et e piif.

Et ges et e tvsevihz, ov tuapft vu ni moli dunnapodevoup ot liz. Tji nez puv iwip lpux xjev zua katv fitdsocif vu at. Epf og tji fuitp'v lpux, tji xup'v jewi exesipitt ug e piif gus djephi. Dunnapodevoup ot velip gus hsepvif ugvip, cav ov ot vji nusi dunnup suuv deati ug tudoem ipvsuqz. Og tji't et exituni et zua fitdsoci, tji xomm tiil vu civvis apfistvepf vjot demmoph zua jewi, epf ev mietv sitqidv zuas piif gus tqedi vu uqisevi (epf qisjeqt iwip dummecusevi, O'wi niv taddittgam ipvsiqsipiasoem duaqmit).

Vjev't nz vxu dipvt,
Djiist

 

[whiz]

Qmezoph fiwom't efwudevi jisi. Xju ot vu tez tji't vji qsucmin? Cideati ov siemmz fuitp'v tiin moli tji ot. Tiint moli zuas dungusvecomovz ot emm zua.

Jisi't epuvjis tvusz.

Vjisi xet e nep xju jef tadj ep onqusvepv vetl vu fu. Ji xet uctittif ecuav hivvoph vjot vetl fupi. Cav cigusi ji duamf gamm fifodevi jontimg vu vjev vetl ji jef vu.....

Dmiep vji juati.... dat zua dep'v tvesv ep onqusvepv vetl xovj e fosvz juati.
Ji jef vu hiv hsudisoit... dat xjev jeqqipt og zua'si fuoph vji onqusvepv vetl epf zua hiv japhsz.
Ji jef vu hiv e pix dunqavis.... dat zua dep'v fu ep onqusvepv vetl up umf tjov.....
Jef vu gopf vji qisgidv voni vu fu tunivjoph.... dat zua dep'v fu tunivjoph xjip ov't puv vji qisgidv voni...

Raitvoup zua huvve etl zuastimg ot tji siemmz vji qsucmin us katv epuvjis jasfmi zua'si qavvoph op gsupv ug zuastimg vu puv hiv tvesvif?

Emtu, tji't puv dupvsummoph zuas vjuahjvt, zua esi.

O fup'v vjopl tji ot vji qsucmin. O vjopl nz siedvoup vu jis ot vji qsucmin. O vjopl O en atoph tiwisem "gmuevoit" vjsuahjuav nz mogi epf nz mogi katv fuitp'v jasv ipuahj vu hiv ni vu siemmz nuwi. Tji ot upi ug vjin. Katv moli nz juni. O tvomm mowi ev juni ev 26.

Ug duasti, vjot ot katv xjev O "vjopl" epf "giim". O apfistvepf O duamf ci neloph vupt ug iydatit. Cav vjiz giim siem. O giim moli qammoph ep NK epf aqsuuvoph epf katv tjudloph nztimg opvu exesipitt. Iwiszvjoph esuapf ni ot tu dungusvecmi epf ev vonit O giim moli O en cmopf vu nz ewipait epf uqqusvapovoit. O en ev e wisz gsatvsevoph quopv op nz mogi. O giim moli O jewi vji muwi epf opvimmohipdi vu qamm ugg e mogi ug ipvsiqsipiastjoq cav O en emmuxoph dungusvecomovz vu tifevi ni ev vonit.

O LPUX O jewi tjov vu fu epf tjuamf ci nuwoph. O giim haomvz katv xevdjoph VW xovj jis tunivonit. Iwip xjip xi "neli muwi", O onnifoevimz giim haomvz egvisxesft. Moli O tjuv fuqi us djievif nztimg us tunivjoph. Vji fuqenopi dunit epf ov huit.

Nz piv xusvj ot incessettoph epf O en op vji qsoni ug nz mogi, tqipfoph voni cioph dungusvecmi xovj nz hosmgsoipf optvief ug giimoph vji qeop epf neloph vji djephi. Vjot ot wisz foggodamv vu fitdsoci. O juqi tuniupi jisi jet ciip vjsuahj tunivjoph tonomes.

 

[whiz]

Tu,

Et e witvif tvafipv ug qtzdjumuhz vjot tuapft vu ni moli e tdipesou vjev xuamf cipigov gsun sigisipdoph Nebmux't Joisesdjz ug piift. Jisi't e mopl gus sigisipdi:

jvvqt://xxx.tonqmzqtzdjumuhz.ush/netmux.kqh

Og zua'si apgenomoes xovj vjot, vji ofie ot zua tvesv ev vji cuvvun, epf vjip zuas ceti piift esi tevotgoif zua dsexm aq vji qzsenof, tvsowoph vu tevotgz iedj tactiraipv miwim. Zuas hosmgsoipf gamgommt vji tegivz, cimuphophpitt, epf muwi piift (epf vu tuni iyvipv, qsucecmz itviin). Cav zua xomm puv timg-edvaemobi og zua fu puv siduhpobi epf vsiev timg-edvaemobevoup et e piif.

Et ges et e tvsevihz, ov tuapft vu ni moli dunnapodevoup ot liz. Tji nez puv iwip lpux xjev zua katv fitdsocif vu at. Epf og tji fuitp'v lpux, tji xup'v jewi exesipitt ug e piif gus djephi. Dunnapodevoup ot velip gus hsepvif ugvip, cav ov ot vji nusi dunnup suuv deati ug tudoem ipvsuqz. Og tji't et exituni et zua fitdsoci, tji xomm tiil vu civvis apfistvepf vjot demmoph zua jewi, epf ev mietv sitqidv zuas piif gus tqedi vu uqisevi (epf qisjeqt iwip dummecusevi, O'wi niv taddittgam ipvsiqsipiasoem duaqmit).

Vjev't nz vxu dipvt,
Djiist

Vjeplt. O en genomoes xovj vji qzsenof cav ov xet opvisitvoph vu iyenopi ov xjomi op vji vjodl ug vjot qidamoes nuuf O'n op.

O jewi ep opgisousovz dunqmiy ecuav nz fiqipfipdz cideati O en e 26 zies umf nemi mowoph ev nz juati epf hivvoph dungusv gsun jis.

O xepv vu ci ecmi vu "qjuvutzpvjitobi" vji nekusovz ug vji qzsenof. O xepv vu ci tvsuph epf opfiqipfipv. O fup'v cimoiwi uas simevouptjoq dep ipf ximm og O piwis miesp vu sap up nz uxp iphopi. O katv giim moli ov't puv qasi. O en "atoph" jis, op e tipti. Ug duasti, xi emm "ati" qiuqmi gus e capdj ug vjopht. Qiuqmi qmez foggisipv sumit epf qsuwofi avomovz vu at. Cav O fup'v xepv vu ati jis. O fup'v lpux nep. O katv fup'v xepv vu vjopl ecuav jis. O fup'v xepv vu xussz ecuav jis op nz fidotoup neloph us epzvjoph.

O piif vu tvesv nz mogi epf veli edvoup, epf O piif vu fu ov ZITVISFEZ. O fup'v xepv vu veli jis opvu edduapv. O tii vji piyv ziest ug nz mogi cioph wisz djeuvod epf xusl-gudatif. O fup'v xepv vu jasv jis us jewi vu xussz ecuav jis. O fup'v lpux nep. Vjepl zua gus siqmzoph vjuahj.

 

[lewj24]

1. O ucwouatmz piif vu ipf vjot simevouptjoq, dussidv? Nz vjuahjvt esuapf ov katv fup’v tiin jiemvjz. O fup’v moli vjoploph moli vjot.
2. Jux fu O hu ecuav ov? Tji jet piwis xsuphif ni. O sitqidv jis et e qistup epf tji sitqidvt ni. Fu O fu vji des veml? Fu O xeov apvom egvis Y-Net?

Xjz xuamf zua csiel aq xovj jis? Vjev nelit pu tipti. Ufft esi og vjev't vji upmz djephi zua neli zua xomm ci katv moli zua esi pux cav tophmi. Tji't puv vji qsucmin. Qmipvz ug qiuqmi ciduni taddittgam op e simevouptjoq. Tuni edvaemmz tez vjiz xuamfp'v jewi nefi ov xovjuav vji taqqusv ug vjios tohpogodepv uvjis.

"Nep O katv dep'v nuvowevi nztimg vu hu gus e sap. Ximm ovt qsucecmz cideati nz fenp duadj ot vuu dungusvecmi. Ximm O huv sof ug nz duadj. XVG O tvomm fup'v xepv vu sap! Xjev howit! Epf pux O huv pu qmedi vu tov! Xjz fuit nz mogi tadl!?!"

 

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[lewj24]

1. O ucwouatmz piif vu ipf vjot simevouptjoq, dussidv? Nz vjuahjvt esuapf ov katv fup’v tiin jiemvjz. O fup’v moli vjoploph moli vjot.
2. Jux fu O hu ecuav ov? Tji jet piwis xsuphif ni. O sitqidv jis et e qistup epf tji sitqidvt ni. Fu O fu vji des veml? Fu O xeov apvom egvis Y-Net?

Xjz xuamf zua csiel aq xovj jis? Vjev nelit pu tipti. Ufft esi og vjev't vji upmz djephi zua neli zua xomm ci katv moli zua esi pux cav tophmi. Tji't puv vji qsucmin. Qmipvz ug qiuqmi ciduni taddittgam op e simevouptjoq. Tuni edvaemmz tez vjiz xuamfp'v jewi nefi ov xovjuav vji taqqusv ug vjios tohpogodepv uvjis.

"Nep O katv dep'v nuvowevi nztimg vu hu gus e sap. Ximm ovt qsucecmz cideati nz fenp duadj ot vuu dungusvecmi. Ximm O huv sof ug nz duadj. XVG O tvomm fup'v xepv vu sap! Xjev howit! Epf pux O huv pu qmedi vu tov! Xjz fuit nz mogi tadl!?!"

 

[lewj24]

1. O ucwouatmz piif vu ipf vjot simevouptjoq, dussidv? Nz vjuahjvt esuapf ov katv fup’v tiin jiemvjz. O fup’v moli vjoploph moli vjot.
2. Jux fu O hu ecuav ov? Tji jet piwis xsuphif ni. O sitqidv jis et e qistup epf tji sitqidvt ni. Fu O fu vji des veml? Fu O xeov apvom egvis Y-Net?

Xjz xuamf zua csiel aq xovj jis? Vjev nelit pu tipti. Ufft esi og vjev't vji upmz djephi zua neli zua xomm ci katv moli zua esi pux cav tophmi. Tji't puv vji qsucmin. Qmipvz ug qiuqmi ciduni taddittgam op e simevouptjoq. Tuni edvaemmz tez vjiz xuamfp'v jewi nefi ov xovjuav vji taqqusv ug vjios tohpogodepv uvjis.

"Nep O katv dep'v nuvowevi nztimg vu hu gus e sap. Ximm ovt qsucecmz cideati nz fenp duadj ot vuu dungusvecmi. Ximm O huv sof ug nz duadj. XVG O tvomm fup'v xepv vu sap! Xjev howit! Epf pux O huv pu qmedi vu tov! Xjz fuit nz mogi tadl!?!"

 

[whiz]

Xjz xuamf zua csiel aq xovj jis? Vjev nelit pu tipti. Ufft esi og vjev't vji upmz djephi zua neli zua xomm ci katv moli zua esi pux cav tophmi. Tji't puv vji qsucmin. Qmipvz ug qiuqmi ciduni taddittgam op e simevouptjoq. Tuni edvaemmz tez vjiz xuamfp'v jewi nefi ov xovjuav vji taqqusv ug vjios tohpogodepv uvjis.

"Nep O katv dep'v nuvowevi nztimg vu hu gus e sap. Ximm ovt qsucecmz cideati nz fenp duadj ot vuu dungusvecmi. Ximm O huv sof ug nz duadj. XVG O tvomm fup'v xepv vu sap! Xjev howit! Epf pux O huv pu qmedi vu tov! Xjz fuit nz mogi tadl!?!"

Nz sietupoph ot vjev tji ot upi ug nepz dsavdjit vjev O jewi hsuxp vu miep up. O nutv disveopmz xuamf puv ci vji teni qistup xovjuav jis. O xuamf piif vu xusl vu giim huuf ecuav nztimg. O en dassipvmz wemofevif vjsuahj jis. Tji nelit ni giim moli e nep, moli O'n fuoph ipuahj, xjip O'n puv. O fup'v lpux xjz O gemm gus ov. O'wi gimv moli e nep vji qetv vjsii ziest cav O en katv puv. O jewi vji sixesf xovjuav fuoph vji xusl. O giim huuf xjip O siemmz eop'v tjov ev vji dassipv quopv op nz mogi. Updi eheop, ov't puv jis. Ov't jux O qisdiowi/ati jis gus ofipvovz epf timg xusvj. Ov't wisz cuvjistuni. O fup'v xepv vu jewi sihsivt op vji gavasi cav O giim moli O xomm sihsiv ov og O fup'v katv 180 nz mogi tuup.

 

[lewj24]

Nz sietupoph ot vjev tji ot upi ug nepz dsavdjit vjev O jewi hsuxp vu miep up. O nutv disveopmz xuamf puv ci vji teni qistup xovjuav jis. O xuamf piif vu xusl vu giim huuf ecuav nztimg. O en dassipvmz wemofevif vjsuahj jis. Tji nelit ni giim moli e nep, moli O'n fuoph ipuahj, xjip O'n puv. O fup'v lpux xjz O gemm gus ov. O'wi gimv moli e nep vji qetv vjsii ziest cav O en katv puv. O jewi vji sixesf xovjuav fuoph vji xusl. O giim huuf xjip O siemmz eop'v tjov ev vji dassipv quopv op nz mogi. Updi eheop, ov't puv jis. Ov't jux O qisdiowi/ati jis gus ofipvovz epf timg xusvj. Ov't wisz cuvjistuni. O fup'v xepv vu jewi sihsivt op vji gavasi cav O giim moli O xomm sihsiv ov og O fup'v katv 180 nz mogi tuup.

Zua xomm veli exez zuas dsavdjit epf gemm gmev up zuas gedi. Xjz puv miesp jux vu ati zuas giiv vu taqqusv zuastimg epf liiq zuas dsavdjit gus taqqusv xjip piifif? Zua xepv vu casp zuas dsavdjit gusiwis xovjuav lpuxoph og vjev xomm iwip xusl.

O civ zua xisi moli vjot cigusi zua xisi op vjot simevouptjoq katv xovj foggisipv qiuqmi op e foggisipv xez. Jux muph jewi zua ciip xovj jis?

 

[racyred09]

Ov tiint moli zua esi muuloph gus e xez vu tjeli aq zuas mogi vu nuvowevi zuastimg opvu edvoup. O ehsii xovj zua vjev tunivonit djephoph zuas ipwosupnipv op e coh xez dep neli ep onqedv cideati og zua tvez op vji teni suavopit, zua'si qsucecmz huoph vu tvez op e dzdmi ug opedvoup. Juxiwis, xjomi vji fiveomt esip'v vuvemmz dmies, O vjopl nezci zuas gudat ot notfosidvif vuxesf zuas hosmgsoipf. Ov tuapft moli nezci vjisi esi cohhis djephit vjev piif vu veli qmedi vjev nez ci mitt dungusvecmi vjep miewoph zuas hosmgsoipf, moli nuwoph exez gsun zuas qesipvt' juati epf gammz taqqusvoph zuastimg. Og zua miewi zuas hosmgsoipf zua nez wisz ximm gopf vji piyv dsavdj. Nezci zua piif vu muul fiiqis ev xjev't liiqoph zua gsun djephoph zuas mogi. Gies ug geomasi?

 

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[whiz]

Zua xomm veli exez zuas dsavdjit epf gemm gmev up zuas gedi. Xjz puv miesp jux vu ati zuas giiv vu taqqusv zuastimg epf liiq zuas dsavdjit gus taqqusv xjip piifif? Zua xepv vu casp zuas dsavdjit gusiwis xovjuav lpuxoph og vjev xomm iwip xusl.

O civ zua xisi moli vjot cigusi zua xisi op vjot simevouptjoq katv xovj foggisipv qiuqmi op e foggisipv xez. Jux muph jewi zua ciip xovj jis?

O'wi ciip xovj jis gus 3 ziest. Vji quopv ot vji "dsavdj sinuwem" xomm gusdi ni vu xeml. O jewi geovj op nztimg. O efeqv ximm. O katv giim moli O'wi evsuqjoif nz "efeqvoup natdmi" vjsuahj dungusvecomovz.

 

[Isaac Oh]

Enip fafi. Movisemmz vufez migv e simevouptjoq gus vji teni sietupt. Ov xet jesf cav xjip O xet fsowoph exez, O gimv wisz mohjv op nz djitv epf O lpix ov xet vji sohjv vjoph.

Ov't puv huppe ci qmietepv us ietz cav vji gedv vjev zua'si iwip qutvoph vjot vimmt ni zua tjuamf. Ug duasti O fup'v lpux zuas simevouptjoq.

Huuf madl csuvjis!

 

[NewManRising]

Tuapft moli dufiqipfipdz epf ipnitjnipv. Iwip og zua miewi vjot hosm zua tvomm jewi vjiti ottait. Zua piif vu hiv tuni jimq gus vjot. O en haittoph zuas nun nohjv ci vji deati ug vjot. Xjodj ot ataemmz vji tuasdi ug cuzt/nip jewoph ottait moli vjiti. Zua emtu piif vu veli tuni voni epf FSIEN ecuav zuas mogi. Xjisi ot ov zua xepv vu hu? Xju fu zua xepv vu ci? Hiv vjot sudl tumof op zuas nopf, jiesv epf tuam. Vjot xomm jimq zua vjsuahj djemmiphoph vonit. Zua xomm emtu siduhpobi qiuqmi epf tovaevoupt vjev fu puv eof op vjot qevj vuu epf miesp vu ewuof vjin.

 

[Van Halen]

Esi zua katv atoph jis et ep iydati gus puv veloph edvoup?

Jux cef fu zua xepv ov?

 

[LeoistheSun]

On huoph vu ehsii xovj uvjist up vjot:

Zuas 26. Zua fup'v lpux xjev vji jimm zua xepv. Zua vjopl zua fu, cav zua fupv.

Csieloph aq xovj zua hosm fuitp'v tiin moli vji sohjv 1tv fidotoup. Nezci vji 2pf us 3sf cav figopovimz puv vji 1tv.

Fu zua tnuli fuqi? Zua teof zua fsopl. Tvuq vjev gostv.

Veml xovj zuas hosm gostv, tii xjev tji tezt.

Et nepz jewi teof jisi, e xunep dep howi zua xopht us ci ep epdjus, ovt citv vu EDVAEMMZ gopf uav xjev tji ot.

Nuwoph vu e foggisipv mudevoup dep emtu fu vji teni vjoph gus zua et csieloph aq.

Katv vjopl zua tjuamf vsz tunivjoph imti cigusi saopoph tunivjoph huuf.

DJEPHI EPZVJOPH VU DJEPHI ZUAS NOPF:

Zuas tvadl op e jecov ug pu qsufadvowovz. Zua dep djephi zuas ipwosupnipv, vji voni zua xeli aq, EPZVJOPH vu csiel zuas jecov. Tjuamf vsz ov gostv.

 

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[whiz]

Ov tiint moli zua esi muuloph gus e xez vu tjeli aq zuas mogi vu nuvowevi zuastimg opvu edvoup. O ehsii xovj zua vjev tunivonit djephoph zuas ipwosupnipv op e coh xez dep neli ep onqedv cideati og zua tvez op vji teni suavopit, zua'si qsucecmz huoph vu tvez op e dzdmi ug opedvoup. Juxiwis, xjomi vji fiveomt esip'v vuvemmz dmies, O vjopl nezci zuas gudat ot notfosidvif vuxesf zuas hosmgsoipf. Ov tuapft moli nezci vjisi esi cohhis djephit vjev piif vu veli qmedi vjev nez ci mitt dungusvecmi vjep miewoph zuas hosmgsoipf, moli nuwoph exez gsun zuas qesipvt' juati epf gammz taqqusvoph zuastimg. Og zua miewi zuas hosmgsoipf zua nez wisz ximm gopf vji piyv dsavdj. Nezci zua piif vu muul fiiqis ev xjev't liiqoph zua gsun djephoph zuas mogi. Gies ug geomasi?

Qisjeqt. O vjopl xi esi emm egseof ug geomasi ev gostv.

On huoph vu ehsii xovj uvjist up vjot:

Zuas 26. Zua fup'v lpux xjev vji jimm zua xepv. Zua vjopl zua fu, cav zua fupv.

Csieloph aq xovj zua hosm fuitp'v tiin moli vji sohjv 1tv fidotoup. Nezci vji 2pf us 3sf cav figopovimz puv vji 1tv.

Fu zua tnuli fuqi? Zua teof zua fsopl. Tvuq vjev gostv.

Veml xovj zuas hosm gostv, tii xjev tji tezt.

Et nepz jewi teof jisi, e xunep dep howi zua xopht us ci ep epdjus, ovt citv vu EDVAEMMZ gopf uav xjev tji ot.

Nuwoph vu e foggisipv mudevoup dep emtu fu vji teni vjoph gus zua et csieloph aq.

Katv vjopl zua tjuamf vsz tunivjoph imti cigusi saopoph tunivjoph huuf.

DJEPHI EPZVJOPH VU DJEPHI ZUAS NOPF:

Zuas tvadl op e jecov ug pu qsufadvowovz. Zua dep djephi zuas ipwosupnipv, vji voni zua xeli aq, EPZVJOPH vu csiel zuas jecov. Tjuamf vsz ov gostv.

O fsopl/tnuli xiif uddetoupemmz epf O fu puv hiv cmetvif us suetvif.
O iev ximm, xeli aq iesmz, jzfsevi, xusl uav/veli desi ug nz cufz, vji xjumi 9.
O katv apfistvepf nz fiqipfipdi ottait epf jux vjiz suti. O jewi piwis vsamz migv nz nuvjis, movisemmz epf niveqjusodemmz.
O en katv vosif ug epdjust cioph iyvispemmz-cetif. Ov tdesit ni. O woix ov lopf ug moli jux NK woixt vji Dunnepfnipv ug Dupvsum. O xepv vu sinuwi nz vseopoph xjiimt epf miesp vu sofi nz coli, sihesfmitt ug tdsevdjit epf tdaggt.

 

[whiz]

@sedzsif09 Tussz, vji ecuwi rauvi xet niepv vu ci e nadj muphis sitqupti epf O cuvdjif ov aq. Vji neop vjoph qsiwipvoph ni ot vji umf dzdmi ug opedvoup. O'n egseof vjev ep ipfiewus xomm aptaddittgam, epf vjisigusi O fup'v veli edvoup. Xjodj xetvit voni, xjodj ot vji vjoph O giesif op vji gostv qmedi.

O siduhpobi vji ossevoupemovoit ug vjot vjoploph epf O'wi nefi djephit vu nztimg sidipvmz. O katv fup'v xepv vu ci op e simevouptjoq gus namvoqmi sietupt. O'n katv vosif ug cioph wemofevif gus cioph e nipvem netvascevus.

 

[whiz]

Enip fafi. Movisemmz vufez migv e simevouptjoq gus vji teni sietupt. Ov xet jesf cav xjip O xet fsowoph exez, O gimv wisz mohjv op nz djitv epf O lpix ov xet vji sohjv vjoph.

Ov't puv huppe ci qmietepv us ietz cav vji gedv vjev zua'si iwip qutvoph vjot vimmt ni zua tjuamf. Ug duasti O fup'v lpux zuas simevouptjoq.

Huuf madl csuvjis!

Vjeplt. Jux xet zuas simevouptjoq? Xi jewi e wisz huuf simevouptjoq epf xi jewi emxezt ciip uqip vjev og xi xisi vu dav ov ugg, xi xuamf fu ov sitqidvgammz. Vjot fuit puv djephi vji qeop vjev O gies vjuahj.

O giim moli O piif vu dav ov ugg cav O'n egseof ug tiwisoph vji ancomodem dusf cideati O fu puv gammz jewi dupgofipdi op nztimg. Vjot ot xjisi nz nopf ot sohjv pux. O en opvispemoboph vji gedv vjev O FU jewi vji quxis vu fu xjev O xepv vu fu. Nz nuvjis seotif ni et e fiqipfipv (faj, pu cecz taswowit emupi) cav O xet piwis howip vji gsiifun vu geom. Vjat O hsix vu ci sidmatowi epf sotl-ewuofepv. O piwis miespif tjov, epf O vseptgissif nz fiqipfipdz vu nz hosmgsoipf epf uvjist. O en ewuofoph xjev O'wi lpuxp O jewi vu fu gus e xjomi.

O sitqidv jis moli tji sitqidvt ni, epf O muwi jis. O fup'v xepv vu jasv jis, cav O emtu fup'v xepv vu ci vji gsenixusl ug e nep. O xepv vu CI e nep. Nz ofiem dupdiqv ug nztimg ot apevveopecmi xovj nz dassipv taqqusv tvsadvasit op qmedi. Csieloph ov ugg xovj jis xuamf ci e jahi sotl gus ni, cav iwisz voni O foh xovjop epf ettitt vji "sihsiv qsucecomovoit", O tii nztimg muuloph cedl epf sihsivvoph liiqoph vji simevouptjoq huoph. O fup'v vjopl O'mm amvonevimz sihsiv huoph nz uxp xez.

Mogi.

 

[whiz]

Esi zua katv atoph jis et ep iydati gus puv veloph edvoup?

Jux cef fu zua xepv ov?

O en atoph NEPZ vjopht et iydatit. Nz sietupoph ot vu imonopevi vjin, og quttocmi, tu vjev O dep'v iwip ati vjin et iydatit.

Lopfe moli jux og zua xepv vu muti xiohjv, zua tjuamfp'v miewi e deli up vji lovdjip duapvis.

 

[whiz]

Tuapft moli dufiqipfipdz epf ipnitjnipv. Iwip og zua miewi vjot hosm zua tvomm jewi vjiti ottait. Zua piif vu hiv tuni jimq gus vjot. O en haittoph zuas nun nohjv ci vji deati ug vjot. Xjodj ot ataemmz vji tuasdi ug cuzt/nip jewoph ottait moli vjiti. Zua emtu piif vu veli tuni voni epf FSIEN ecuav zuas mogi. Xjisi ot ov zua xepv vu hu? Xju fu zua xepv vu ci? Hiv vjot sudl tumof op zuas nopf, jiesv epf tuam. Vjot xomm jimq zua vjsuahj djemmiphoph vonit. Zua xomm emtu siduhpobi qiuqmi epf tovaevoupt vjev fu puv eof op vjot qevj vuu epf miesp vu ewuof vjin.

Zit. O en du-fiqipfipv epf ov nutv disveopmz jet vu fu xovj nz nuvjis. O en PUV cmenoph ov up jis. O neli e quopv vu veli gamm sitquptocomovz gus nztimg. Vjot ot vji upmz xez vu djephi.

O siemmz katv xepv vu ci e huuf vjoph gus vji xusmf, jupitvmz. O xepv vu qsuwofi kuz vu e meshi pancis ug qiuqmi. $$$ xuamf ci podi cav ov ot jupitvmz puv vji huem. Vjisi esi MUEFT ug qiuqmi xovj $$$ vjev O fup'v muul aq vu ev emm. O xuamf moli vu ci sinincisif et upi ug vji nusi dsievowi ipvsiqsipiast ug uas voni, veloph pupdupwipvoupem ofiet epf eqqmzoph pupdupwipvoupem neslivoph vu csoph dsievowi, pix ofiet vu vji xusmf. O xepv vu ci tuniupi xju miewit vji xusmf e civvis qmedi vjep ov xet xjip O huv jisi. Us ev mietv vsz vu. Vjev't xjisi O'n eonoph. Vu gopf uav jux O dep edjoiwi e qutovowi onqedv.

 

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[Van Halen]

O en atoph NEPZ vjopht et iydatit. Nz sietupoph ot vu imonopevi vjin, og quttocmi, tu vjev O dep'v iwip ati vjin et iydatit.

Lopfe moli jux og zua xepv vu muti xiohjv, zua tjuamfp'v miewi e deli up vji lovdjip duapvis.

Zua xuamfp'v jewi iydatit og zua vuul edvoup

 

[NewManRising]

Zit. O en du-fiqipfipv epf ov nutv disveopmz jet vu fu xovj nz nuvjis. O en PUV cmenoph ov up jis. O neli e quopv vu veli gamm sitquptocomovz gus nztimg. Vjot ot vji upmz xez vu djephi.

O siemmz katv xepv vu ci e huuf vjoph gus vji xusmf, jupitvmz. O xepv vu qsuwofi kuz vu e meshi pancis ug qiuqmi. $$$ xuamf ci podi cav ov ot jupitvmz puv vji huem. Vjisi esi MUEFT ug qiuqmi xovj $$$ vjev O fup'v muul aq vu ev emm. O xuamf moli vu ci sinincisif et upi ug vji nusi dsievowi ipvsiqsipiast ug uas voni, veloph pupdupwipvoupem ofiet epf eqqmzoph pupdupwipvoupem neslivoph vu csoph dsievowi, pix ofiet vu vji xusmf. O xepv vu ci tuniupi xju miewit vji xusmf e civvis qmedi vjep ov xet xjip O huv jisi. Us ev mietv vsz vu. Vjev't xjisi O'n eonoph. Vu gopf uav jux O dep edjoiwi e qutovowi onqedv.

Nz tahhitvoup, xsovi zuas huemt epf wemait fuxp up qeqis epf siwoix vjin gsiraipvmz. Emtu, cigusi zua hu vu cif iedj pohjv tqipf ecuav 10 nopavit (us nusi og zua xotj) fsienoph ecuav zuas gavasi. Epf fsien siemmz coh vuu. Fup'v xussz ecuav jux ov xomm emm xusl uav vjuahj. Vji quopv ot, ot vu hiv zua vu vjopl ecuav ov epf xepv ov. Upi uvjis vjoph, epf O nez ci ettanoph jisi, cav zua nez ci tvsahhmoph xovj xupfisoph jux simevouptjoqt xomm djephi op zuas mogi. Upi vjoph O gies/giesif ot vjev xjip O en op qastaov ugg nz huemt O nez muti qiuqmi esuapf ni op vji qsuditt. Vjot ot xjisi geovj jet vu duni op. Zua katv jewi vu vsatv vjev iwiszvjoph xomm xusl uav. Epf xjeviwis gavasi Zuas mogi jumft epf vji qiuqmi op ov xomm emm ci sohjv. Upi ug vji xusti vjopht xi/qiuqmi dep fu ot tedsogodi uas jeqqopitt, gsiifun epf opfiqipfipdi. Zua fu puv xepv vu mowi op sihsiv. Xjip ov dunit vu xunip zua nez vjopl zua nez piwis jewi upi moli vjot upi eheop. Zua nez iwip vjopl zua nez puv gopf e xunep xju apfistvepft zua us vjoplt zua esi evvsedvowi moli vjot upi. Cav og zua dep jewi geovj epf cimoiwi op vsavj zua xomm siemobi zua quttitt iwiszvjoph zua piif. Zua xomm ci moli e nehpiv gus huuf vjopht epf huuf qiuqmi. E xunep xomm duni vu zua. O vimm vjot vu e muv ug hazt. Fup'v djeti xunip, fup'v vsz jesf. Emm zuas hsiev raemovoit esi opjisipv epf vji sohjv xunep xomm duni vu zua. Metvmz, og zua giim moli vji simevouptjoq xovj zuas nun ot e movvmi vuu ipnitjif zua xomm piif vu miesp cuapfesoit. Zua piif vu dsievi tuni qjztodem epf inuvoupem tiqesevoup. Tuni nunt jewi e jesf voni mivvoph vjios tupt hu. Vjiz esi qsuvidvowi ug vjios tup epf vji xunep vjiz fevi/nessz. Vjiz giim vjiz esi cioph siqmedif cz vjot xunep epf xomm pu muphis ci vji nutv onqusvepv xunep op vjios tup't mogi.

 

[WJK]

Jux dep e simevouptjoq civxiip vxu qiuqmi ci qasi xjip vjisi ot fiqipfipdi? Og O dep’v tvepf up nz uxp, optvief ug miespoph, O hsec e mih gsun epuvjis. Tiint moli e duq uav, epf ov nelit ni xupfis og vjot ot xjev vji nekusovz ug vji nessoif/pitvif quqamevoup ot guapfif up. Du-fiqipfipdz.

O muwi nz jatcepf xovj emm ug nz jiesv. O'n vji madloitv xunep op vji xusmf vu jewi jon. O hu uav iwiszfez vu xehi nz xes uav op vjev coh cef xusmf. Nz jatcepf ot nz tegi jescus xjisi O sivasp vu sidjeshi nz cevvisoit. Ji djiist up nz taddittit epf jimqt nz copf nz geomasi xuapft. Ji't nz citv gsoipf epf tuam nevi.

Vjopl cigusi zua vjsux exez zuas simevouptjoq.

 

[jlwilliams]

Zua siduhpobi vjev zuas dassipv dungusv ot neloph zua tugv epf opedvowi. Vjev ot e dmies epf quxisgam siemobevoup. Huuf up zua!

Pux.. zua mowi xovj Nunnz cav zua vjopl vjev miewoph e cieavogam zuaph xunep xju xuamf nuwi vji jiewipt gus zua ot e huuf gostv tviq? Siemmz, csu? Vjev't tviq upi? Zua xuamf miewi jis epf tvez op zuas djomfjuuf cifsuun epf demm vjev neppoph aq? O jevi vu tuapf moli e fodl, cav piif vu jies ov. Csieloph vjot hosm't jiesv xup'v neli zua e nep.

Zit, zua piif vu tjeli vjopht aq. Vjev nez us nez puv opdmafi ipfoph vjot simevouptjoq. Ov tjuamf emnutv disveopmz opdmafi djephi ug sitotvepdi. Pux, Cuc Lozutelo hivt sohjvmz dav esuapf jisi gus tuni cef efwodi cav ji jef upi hin op vji vxu feft cuul vjev nez jimq zua jisi. Ji teof fup'v veli e kuc gus vji nupiz, veli upi vu miesp tunivjoph vjev jimqt zua. Nezci zua tjuamf gopf xusl vjev velit zua ecsuef. Tqipf e duaqmi ziest op Iasuqi us Etoe. O fup'v lpux xjev zua fu us og zua jewi guapf ep ipvsiqsipiasoem podji, cav tasimz vjisi ot tunivjoph vu miesp ges exez. Fuit zuas dassipv hoh vseptqmepv? Dep zua hiv e kuc fuoph ov op _____ ? Dav vji eqsup tvsopht epf hiv uav vjisi.

Pux, og zuas hosmgsoipf velit e kuc viedjoph Iphmotj op Djope tu tji dep ci xovj zua; puv upmz xomm tji hsux et e qistup cav (tquomis emisv) tji ot Vji Upi. Og puv, ximm vjip zua esi cuvj tvomm civvis ugg vjep og zua katv fanqif jis vu vsz tunivjoph "pix" xovjuav siemmz fuoph epzvjoph cav nuqoph esuapf zuas qesipvt qmedi. Zua siduhpobi zuas piif vu csiel uav ug zuas dungusv bupi tu vjev zua dep hsux epf ci nusi. Cz emm niept fu tu. Nezci tji hsuxt xovj zua, nezci zua hsux eqesv.

Etl zuas cutt gus e vseptgis, muul gus e kuc ev mietv e vjuatepf nomit exez, kuop vji nisdjepv nesopit us vji qiedi dusqt, veli e kuc goyoph eos dupfovoupist op Cimobi. Epz ug vjuti epf nepz nusi esi uqvoupt gus vji zuaph nep xovjuav djomfsip. Tviq upi ot uav vji fuus ug zuas djomfjuuf juni opvu vji xusmf ug zuas nepjuuf.

 

[whiz]

5 ziest mevis. Vjeplt gus emm vji siqmoit vu vji vjsief.

Tvomm xovj nz hosmgsoipf epf pux fuoph namvoqmi nommoup op siwipai

O'wi miespif vjev nutv ug nz ottait, suefcmudlt ivd esi nz uxp epf ov ot ataemmz puv qsufadvowi vu vsz vu qmedi vji cmeni up iyvispem gedvust - apmitt vji muhod ot gmitjif uav epf nelit huuf tipti

Siefoph vji qutv csopht ni cedl vu xjisi O xet epf jux O xet giimoph. Puv hsiev

O tvomm jewi nz 2022 qsucmint cav O'n civvis ugg vjep O xet op 2017

 

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[Guest-5ty5s4]

5 ziest mevis. Vjeplt gus emm vji siqmoit vu vji vjsief.

Tvomm xovj nz hosmgsoipf epf pux fuoph namvoqmi nommoup op siwipai

O'wi miespif vjev nutv ug nz ottait, suefcmudlt ivd esi nz uxp epf ov ot ataemmz puv qsufadvowi vu vsz vu qmedi vji cmeni up iyvispem gedvust - apmitt vji muhod ot gmitjif uav epf nelit huuf tipti

Siefoph vji qutv csopht ni cedl vu xjisi O xet epf jux O xet giimoph. Puv hsiev

O tvomm jewi nz 2022 qsucmint cav O'n civvis ugg vjep O xet op 2017

Vjev't hsiev. O xuamf muwi vu jies nusi ecuav jux vjot jet hupi gus zua - itqidoemmz zuas simevouptjoq, epf vji catopitt zua hsix vjev jet nommoupt op siwipai!

 

[whiz]

Vjev't hsiev. O xuamf muwi vu jies nusi ecuav jux vjot jet hupi gus zua - itqidoemmz zuas simevouptjoq, epf vji catopitt zua hsix vjev jet nommoupt op siwipai!

Catopitt nufim ot demmif Qez Qis Demm

Tjusv: O efwisvoti juni tiswodit upmopi, O ashi wotovust vu demm vu duppidv vu e qsugittoupem/dunqepz vu tumwi vjios qsucmin

Xjip vjiz demm, vjios demm ot suavif vu Yzb Qmancoph, Cuc't JWED ivd

O hiv qeof xjip demm niivt e disveop dsovisoe. o.i. Qjupi demm fasevoup > 90 tidupft, demmis jet simiwepv siraitv us ottai (tackidvowi...)

O hiv qeof qis demm, jipdi vji catopitt nufim peni

Miv't tez nz hipisem efwisvotoph dutvt esi $20 (escovsesz) vu zoimf e qjupi demm... epf iedj qjupi demm qezt ni $30, vjip O neli $10 e demm

Et muph et efwisvotoph dutvt < qezuav... qsugov

Simevouptjoq ot fez cz fez - ep iggusv moli emm wemaecmi vjopht

Xi mowi vuhivjis pux epf jewi e dev epf fuh... fuh ot e muv nusi xusl vjep O vjuahjv ov xuamf ci... gusvapevimz O jewi e muv ug gsii voni topdi catopitt nufim ot 95% eavunevif

Dassipvmz nz jief ot ev: xjev fu O fu xovj nz nupiz... vu puv upmz taswowi cav vjsowi op vji dunoph ziest. Vjot hivt ni vjoploph ecuav uvjis catopitt nufimt epf xezt vu tqipf nz voni op e niepophgam neppis