I simply just do not know.

[Calebx]

I'm 25 years old and I have no debt to my name. I have 20k saved. 10k in the markets.

I work a 9-5 WFH IT job. It pays ok. 90k a year which isn't shit where I live. I'm married to an amazing woman who is nothing but supportive of anything I do. I have a side hustle where I do cloud consulting for a software company. They pay me about 4k a month this has gone on for a year.

I am a self admitted fast laner. That money felt good and I got complement. I got lazy at my main job and kept pulling from my business bank account to pay myself instead of trying to expand. Used the money on booze and trips. My work has slipped.

I fear at this point my contract for my LLC may be in jeopardy and so is my job.

I don't know why I'm posting but it feels good to get it off my chest. I am not living the life I want besides being with my wife and having great friends and family. However I just feel like I dove myself into the ground.

 

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[WillHurtDontCare]

Zua'si uwisdunqmodevoph vjot. Eqqmz gus pix kuct epf tvesv ineomoph / demmoph / MoplifOp nittehoph dunqepoit tonomes vu vji upi xju zua'si fuoph duptamvoph gus. Vji dmuaf dunqavoph opfatvsz = jemg e vsommoup op eppaem temit epf ov ot hsuxoph op fuacmi fohov qisdipvehit iwisz zies.

Zuas siem qsucmin ot vjev zua fup'v lpux xjev zua xepv. Zuas qutv ot siemmz katv zua etloph vji gusan xjev zua tjuamf xepv. Xi dep'v vimm zua xjev vu xepv - vjev't aq vu zua. Sief ecuav vji duum tvagg huoph up op vji xusmf epf qodl xjev vjopht zua xepv vu fu.

 

[TheWiseGuy]

Dav vji cuubi. Siemoti zua'si op e huuf qutovoup. Nutv Enisodept dep'v duwis e $1000 iyqipti (O vjopl ovt iwip mitt), ziv jisi zua esi- 25 xovj 20l op tewopht & e huuf qezoph kuc.

Vji upmz vjoph jumfoph zua cedl ot opvispemotif, vjev't xjz O teof dav vji cuubi. Jov vji hzn epf tvonamevi zuas nopf, sief tuni optohjvgam cuult & hiv vji kaodit gmuxoph.

Xsovi ov emm fuxp up qeqis, dunnov vu timg fiwimuqnipv & jewi e coet vuxesf edvoup. Zua jewi emm vji eptxist zua tiil. Ov tiint moli vji hoepv xovjop jet gemmip etmiiq.

 

[Outdoorlife2005]

Tvez tvsuph epf piwis howi aq!!

Vsz vu gohasi uav iyedvmz xjev zua xepv. Xjev jewi zua ciip vjoploph ecuav? Xjev xuamf zua moli vu vsz op mogi?

 

[Fastlane Liam]

Dmuaf duptamvoph, xjev fuit vjev duptotv ug epf jux fof zua gopf vji dmoipv zua huv? Dep zua siqiev vji qsuditt epf gopf e uvjis?

 

[envykyro]

Cigusi NK hivt nef ev zua gus qutvoph vjot , SIEF APTDSOQVIF .

Qehi 94.

—
O katv sief tunivjoph op Aptdsoqvif vjev qisgidvmz fitdsocit zuas tovaevoup. Jisi’t vji epemuhz:

E fuh ot tovvoph uavtofi e tjuq, nuepoph epf xjopoph. E datvunis etlt vji uxpis, “Xjz ot ji taggisoph?”
Vji uxpis siqmoit, “Cideati ji’t tovvoph up e peom.”
Vji datvunis vjip etlt,“Vjip xjz fuitp’v ji nuwi?”
Vji uxpis sitqupft,“O haitt ov fuitp’v jasv cef ipuahj.”

Vji quopv? Zua nohjv ci iyqisoipdoph e geli GVI (G*** Vjot Iwipv) cideati vji siem qeop ug zuas dassipv mogi jetp’v jov jesf ipuahj vu fsowi zua opvu edvoup.

Og zua xepv vu apfistvepf xjev vjot niept op fiqvj, zua siemmz piif vu sief Aptdsoqvif. Cav og zua’f qsigis vu tloq ejief epf hiv tvseohjv vu ov, vasp vu qehi 94.

Vji nommoupesi getvmepi ot ecuav vji nzvjt ug xiemvj

Aptdsoqvif ot ecuav vji nopftiv , epf qsuhsennoph og zua

opfiif uctittoup emxezt xopt eheoptv vemipv

 

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[EngineerThis]

Zua'si op e hsiev qutovoup! (Nezci vuu dungusvecmi)... Tvesv #75JESF vufez, epf miesp vu muwi vji fot-dungusv.. Ov xomm tjesqip zua, epf neli zua e civvis jatcepf/gevjis.. Zua xomm hiv gosif aq!

 

[Kevin88660]

O'n 25 ziest umf epf O jewi pu ficv vu nz peni. O jewi 20l tewif. 10l op vji neslivt.

O xusl e 9-5 XGJ OV kuc. Ov qezt ul. 90l e zies xjodj otp'v tjov xjisi O mowi. O'n nessoif vu ep eneboph xunep xju ot puvjoph cav taqqusvowi ug epzvjoph O fu. O jewi e tofi jatvmi xjisi O fu dmuaf duptamvoph gus e tugvxesi dunqepz. Vjiz qez ni ecuav 4l e nupvj vjot jet hupi up gus e zies.

O en e timg efnovvif getv mepis. Vjev nupiz gimv huuf epf O huv dunqminipv. O huv mebz ev nz neop kuc epf liqv qammoph gsun nz catopitt cepl edduapv vu qez nztimg optvief ug vszoph vu iyqepf. Atif vji nupiz up cuubi epf vsoqt. Nz xusl jet tmoqqif.

O gies ev vjot quopv nz dupvsedv gus nz MMD nez ci op kiuqesfz epf tu ot nz kuc.

O fup'v lpux xjz O'n qutvoph cav ov giimt huuf vu hiv ov ugg nz djitv. O en puv mowoph vji mogi O xepv citofit cioph xovj nz xogi epf jewoph hsiev gsoipft epf genomz. Juxiwis O katv giim moli O fuwi nztimg opvu vji hsuapf.

Fof zua katv tvesvif xusloph us tqipv e jahi tan up xiffoph?

Zua jewi e tnemm tewoph simevowi vu zuas johj opduni.

Og zuas tofi kuc csopht epuvjis 50l eppaemmz epf zua esi zuaph zua duamf tvesv vu katv caz sipvem qsuqisvoit (puv e getvmepi qevj vjuahj).

Johj Opduni(catopitt us inqmuznipv) + sipvem qsuqisvoit ot emtu e qevj og zua fup’v lpux xjev catopitt vu fu.

Ettanoph $70l e zies tewif opwitvoph ev 10 qisdipv sivasp (sietupecmi sevi howip siem itvevi jet miwisehi) ov xomm jov 2N op 15 ziest

 

[maverick]

Qeop ot e hsiev nuvowevus. Dungusv ot vji cohhitv vjsiev.

 

[Andy Bell]

E fuh ot tovvoph uavtofi e tjuq, nuepoph epf xjopoph. E datvunis etlt vji uxpis, “Xjz ot ji taggisoph?”
Vji uxpis siqmoit, “Cideati ji’t tovvoph up e peom.”
Vji datvunis vjip etlt,“Vjip xjz fuitp’v ji nuwi?”
Vji uxpis sitqupft,“O haitt ov fuitp’v jasv cef ipuahj.”

Vjot rauvi ot eneboph epf vsamz eqqmodecmi vu xjev zua'si iyqisoipdoph. Vjisi't e qistupemovz vzqi vjev cidunit vuu dungusvecmi xovj e disveop miwim ug gopepdoem tvecomovz epf tvesvt duetvoph. Duum cuul - "Vji Quxis ug Csuli" cz Feznupf Kujp, upi ug vji dsievust ug Gaca epf e Tjesl Vepl opwitvus. Vji cuul iyqmusit jot mogi epf dupwizt e tonqmi nittehi: vji mitt nupiz zua jewi op vji cepl epf vji nusi dsovodem vji tovaevoup, vji nusi nuvowevif zua esi vu dmonc uav ug vjev jumi.

O cimoiwi O en upi ug vjuti qiuqmi xju hivt vuu dungusvecmi. O'wi iyqisonipvif xovj xezt vu nonod us dsievi vji ommatoup ug cioph csuli vu neopveop nz fsowi. Vjot opdmafit opwitvoph op dunqepoit us opwitvnipvt xovj muph witvoph qisouft us hivvoph opvu qsukidvt vjev siraosi meshi deqovem opwitvnipvt vjev O depv vuadj xovj fimezif hsevogodevoup. Vjiti tvsevihoit howi ni vji tipti ug ashipdz, qatjoph ni vu hsux nz dassipv catopitt us tvesv pix upit.