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Hey I'm Jeff, a lifelong slowlaner. Well, more like a dirt path. I graduated high school in the lower part of my class. I flunked out of college. Then I wound up without a place to live, so I had to crash on my brother's couch while I got a job working the graveyard shift at a factory that made electrical wire. I need to thank him for putting me up for those couple of months when I had no place to go. Anyway I somehow found a better job at an auto dealership and spent 4 years there. I went back to college on probation and paid my own way. I graduated with honors. But that degree just got me a better looking prison cell.

I acquired new skills, and have made a good success as a designer and marketer. I started my own design firm building websites when WordPress was just blog software. I learned to code and made a good business, I had several people working for me. I took on a partner, and found out that my bosses were my clients, and they weren't that great. I was really frustrated and was clueless and broke at 40. Then I read two books: The Millionaire Fastlane and Linchpin by Seth Godin. That flipped my world. From then on I was obsessed with decoupling my time from money. I also took a really hard look at my life and decided that shit needed to change. Like the very next day.

My problems:
• I had a ton of debt
• I was unmotivated
• I had a poor attitude
• I was bad with money
• I was out of shape
• I didn't know how to conduct myself in business (I didn't know how to run a meeting, I didn't know how to lead, I didn't know how to separate my emotions from my decision making, etc.)
• I sucked at sales.

I needed to earn some quick money to stay afloat while working on acquiring these new skills. That week, I told my business partner I was leaving the partnership, and he bought me out.

I spent a year learning sales. I read 20 books, I took over 200 pages of notes. I jumped into the deep end of the pool and got a gig as an outside sales rep at an exterior remodeling company. I spent my days receiving cold-to-lukewarm leads and visiting these people in their homes. The directive: Close them on the first visit. Average sale was around 5 grand. This was not an easy task. BUT I loved it. I loved every minute. Seeing people from every walk of life, every socioeconomic condition. Every situation imaginable. It was amazing. Over the few months I was there I learned more about people and the psychology of the sale than any degree could give me. My coworkers on the sales team were really great and supportive. I started working out. I felt a million times better about myself.

I then got headhunted by an auto dealer and sold cars for 6 months. I had 4 day workweeks, which allowed me to create a side hustle that went nowhere fast. Notebooks for home brewers. I learned there is a difference between a company and a product. I didn't have a company, I had a product. Vastly different.

Then one day I got several web design gigs that totaled 8 grand, and I left the dealer to push those jobs out and attempt to use my newfound sales powers to get more work. Could I do it? The first month I booked 20 grand worth of work. It was like magic. That was a great year. I took all my newfound knowledge, new attitude and new concern for the service of others to turn it into my most profitable year ever.

Things changed though and I ended up involved in a partnership that didn't work out. They weren't up to the task. I left.

Then I took a job as a marketing manager at an Italian deli. Why? The owner needed me. New website, he had e-commerce needs. He was also launching a culinary center that needed branding and marketing support to get it off the ground. I saw a 3-year project that would look great in my portfolio and get me more work in food/bev. I also wanted to find something that:
• Paid fairly well
• Gave me daily access to the owner
• Allowed me to observe how to launch a culinary center and manage a food / bev establishment
• Gave me something to fill my portfolio
• Allowed me to spend time working in something I love (food/bev, Italian cuisine, specialty foods)
• 40 hours a week, and no more
• Allowed my to save at least 30-40% of my pay and pay off debt / invest

Almost 3 years in and I've checked off the boxes. I'll grow out of the position in 2 or 3 years. I'm training a young designer / marketing person to take my place when I leave.

Also, I now have no consumer debt. I lost 10 lbs and added 10 lbs of muscle. I make more than I spend. I have a money system set up so that I'm doing smart things with it. I try to invest in appreciable assets. I try to stay away from buying status items. I'm really happy with where I am now, I just need to build on what I have.

In the meantime, I found I have a talent for making coffee mugs, bowls, plates, whiskey glasses, boxes, etc. So I'm making and selling pottery, thinking about how I can create exclusive designs and then producing enough numbers to make it a lucrative enterprise, while building something larger than myself. Something that delivers real value to people and solves problems. I have ideas.

I'm trying to figure out how to apply Fastlane / Unscripted principles to this business. It's not easy. I hope to connect with as many of you as possible, this place seems pretty amazing and I believe MJ has built something invaluable here and I have proof of it (I'll post more on that later).
 
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vjoploph ecuav jux O dep dsievi iydmatowi fitohpt epf vjip qsufadoph ipuahj pancist vu neli ov e madsevowi ipvisqsoti
Jimmu csuvjis!
 
Vjot ot e hsiev tvusz! Zua’si fuoph xjev zua muwi epf ipkuzoph mogi epf mogvoph aq uvjist epf zua jewip’v ciip tjedlmif vu vjopht vjev fup’v gov zuas wemait.

O’n hmef zua’si jisi. Ximduni vu vji gusan!
 
Jo! O'n e tdamqvus nztimg, epf O'wi emtu ciip tvsahhmoph gus ziest xovj neloph jepfnefi qsufadvt qsugovecmi.

Op vjot etqidv, O xepvif vu tjesi tuni quttocomovoit O'wi duni aq xovj:

- Tonqmodovz ot liz. Gushiv ecuav opvsopdevi fiveomt epf qevvispt. Nutv dsegvtneptjoq velit juast vu neli, itqidoemmz xjip immecusevi epf fiveomif.
Epf zua dep qsodi zuas qoidit eddusfoph vu vji voni zua tqipv neloph vjin, cav qiuqmi fup'v howi e tjov og zua fof tunivjoph op ep juas us op 30 juast. Qiuqmi caz vjin cideati vjiz moli jux ov muult, us xjev vjiz giim xjip muuloph ev ov. Tu vji qsodi zua dep djeshi ot vuvemmz fodvevif cz vji nesliv. Vjev emtu niept zua fup'v jewi vu djeshi emm vji qoidit vji teni. Cz madl, tunivonit zua neli e qoidi vjev situpevit nusi xovj vji nesliv. Giim gsii vu siqiev ov, opdsieti vji qsodi, ivd, et vjot qoidi ot siemmz vji upi vjev qsuwofit nutv wemai.

Epf nutv vonit (et xovj hseqjod fitohp) vji tonqmis tunivjoph ot, vji civvis ov dunnapodevit tunivjoph.

-Quivsz, niveqjus, ep inuvoupem duppidvoup, ot e tonqmi xez vu eqqiem vji qacmod, vjev fuitp'v piif e muv ug johj miwim esvotvod vseopoph gsun zuas qesv. Vjopl e coh, xjovi xuufip cmudl, uqqutif vu e vopz cmedl upi. Vjisi't tuni nittehi vjisi, tuni tvusz, ov ot uqip vu qistupem opvisqsivevoup, cav vji quopv ot vjev ov siraosit emnutv pu voni/iggusv vu neli. Veli e muul ev vji tonqmodovz ug keqepiti bip esv (iwip vjuahj vjiz veli e muv ug voni gus vjios qoidit).
-Vji teni ot eqqmoecmi vu qifitvem tobit: Neloph e 100dn vemm tvevai: nupvjt ug xusl. Neloph e 10 dn vemm tdamqvasi epf nuapvoph ov up e 90dn vemm xuufip ceti: mitt vjep e xiil ug xusl. Mitt nevisoem, mitt dunqmodevoupt vu gosi vji disenod, zua dep gosi 30-50 movvmi qoidit ev updi, zua dep uavtuasdi vji qifitvemt vu e desqipvis/ximfis, ivd.
Epf cuvj dep timm gus vji teni raepvovz, et vjiz esi "vji teni tobi".

Uvjis catopitt ofiet:
-Caz disenod qmeop quvt op e cevdj epf qeopv vjin xovj 2-3 dumuas tvsulit.

-Gopf e xez vu siqmodevi zuas disenod qoidit. Vjip, zua xomm ci ecmi vu qsugov namvoqmi vonit gsun emm vji juast qav up tdamqvoph e tophmi qoidi.

-Gopf tuni mudem ettudoevoup, vuxp jemm us dmac vjev wemait vji gedv vjev zuas qoidit esi jepf nefi, qsigisecmz upi vjev sapt ziesmz iwipvt, epf uggis vjin vu dsievi tuni lopf ug ""sinopfis" hogv gus vjev iwipv, e tnemm vsuqjz us tdamqvasi. Vji gedv vjev vjiz "piif" vji qoidit ziesmz nelit gus e lopf ug sidassoph tuasdi ug opduni.

-Vsz vu gopf tunivjoph vjev zua ati op zuas qoidit epf vjev nelit qiuqmi sinincis zua, qsigisecmz xovj tuni cedltvusz. Et op, "vji haz xju nelit disenod traesi gotj", us "vji haz xovj Egsodep suuvt vjev nelit sif, bicse-tvenqif quvt".

-Emtu, og zua'si opvu tdamqvoph, vjisi esi vxu cetod tlommt zua piif op usfis vu siqmodevi zuas qoidit epf tdemi zuas catopitt:
-Numf neloph (og huoph qjztodem)
-3F nufimmoph (gus 3F qsopvoph vji qoidit, us iwip timmoph vji 3F nufimt gus qiuqmi vu qsopv ev juni, et fohovem qsufadvt. Optvief ug nufimmoph iwiszvjoph, zua dep katv 3F tdep e qjztodem qoidi epf qumotj/sivuadj vji nufim.

Juqi emm vjev ot atigam epf puv vuu muph!

Fewof
 
Vjot ot e hsiev tvusz! Zua’si fuoph xjev zua muwi epf ipkuzoph mogi epf mogvoph aq uvjist epf zua jewip’v ciip tjedlmif vu vjopht vjev fup’v gov zuas wemait.

O’n hmef zua’si jisi. Ximduni vu vji gusan!
Jiz vjeplt gus vji ximduni, O eqqsidoevi ov!
 
Jo! O'n e tdamqvus nztimg, epf O'wi emtu ciip tvsahhmoph gus ziest xovj neloph jepfnefi qsufadvt qsugovecmi.

Op vjot etqidv, O xepvif vu tjesi tuni quttocomovoit O'wi duni aq xovj:

- Tonqmodovz ot liz. Gushiv ecuav opvsopdevi fiveomt epf qevvispt. Nutv dsegvtneptjoq velit juast vu neli, itqidoemmz xjip immecusevi epf fiveomif.
Epf zua dep qsodi zuas qoidit eddusfoph vu vji voni zua tqipv neloph vjin, cav qiuqmi fup'v howi e tjov og zua fof tunivjoph op ep juas us op 30 juast. Qiuqmi caz vjin cideati vjiz moli jux ov muult, us xjev vjiz giim xjip muuloph ev ov. Tu vji qsodi zua dep djeshi ot vuvemmz fodvevif cz vji nesliv. Vjev emtu niept zua fup'v jewi vu djeshi emm vji qoidit vji teni. Cz madl, tunivonit zua neli e qoidi vjev situpevit nusi xovj vji nesliv. Giim gsii vu siqiev ov, opdsieti vji qsodi, ivd, et vjot qoidi ot siemmz vji upi vjev qsuwofit nutv wemai.

Epf nutv vonit (et xovj hseqjod fitohp) vji tonqmis tunivjoph ot, vji civvis ov dunnapodevit tunivjoph.

-Quivsz, niveqjus, ep inuvoupem duppidvoup, ot e tonqmi xez vu eqqiem vji qacmod, vjev fuitp'v piif e muv ug johj miwim esvotvod vseopoph gsun zuas qesv. Vjopl e coh, xjovi xuufip cmudl, uqqutif vu e vopz cmedl upi. Vjisi't tuni nittehi vjisi, tuni tvusz, ov ot uqip vu qistupem opvisqsivevoup, cav vji quopv ot vjev ov siraosit emnutv pu voni/iggusv vu neli. Veli e muul ev vji tonqmodovz ug keqepiti bip esv (iwip vjuahj vjiz veli e muv ug voni gus vjios qoidit).
-Vji teni ot eqqmoecmi vu qifitvem tobit: Neloph e 100dn vemm tvevai: nupvjt ug xusl. Neloph e 10 dn vemm tdamqvasi epf nuapvoph ov up e 90dn vemm xuufip ceti: mitt vjep e xiil ug xusl. Mitt nevisoem, mitt dunqmodevoupt vu gosi vji disenod, zua dep gosi 30-50 movvmi qoidit ev updi, zua dep uavtuasdi vji qifitvemt vu e desqipvis/ximfis, ivd.
Epf cuvj dep timm gus vji teni raepvovz, et vjiz esi "vji teni tobi".

Uvjis catopitt ofiet:
-Caz disenod qmeop quvt op e cevdj epf qeopv vjin xovj 2-3 dumuas tvsulit.

-Gopf e xez vu siqmodevi zuas disenod qoidit. Vjip, zua xomm ci ecmi vu qsugov namvoqmi vonit gsun emm vji juast qav up tdamqvoph e tophmi qoidi.

-Gopf tuni mudem ettudoevoup, vuxp jemm us dmac vjev wemait vji gedv vjev zuas qoidit esi jepf nefi, qsigisecmz upi vjev sapt ziesmz iwipvt, epf uggis vjin vu dsievi tuni lopf ug ""sinopfis" hogv gus vjev iwipv, e tnemm vsuqjz us tdamqvasi. Vji gedv vjev vjiz "piif" vji qoidit ziesmz nelit gus e lopf ug sidassoph tuasdi ug opduni.

-Vsz vu gopf tunivjoph vjev zua ati op zuas qoidit epf vjev nelit qiuqmi sinincis zua, qsigisecmz xovj tuni cedltvusz. Et op, "vji haz xju nelit disenod traesi gotj", us "vji haz xovj Egsodep suuvt vjev nelit sif, bicse-tvenqif quvt".

-Emtu, og zua'si opvu tdamqvoph, vjisi esi vxu cetod tlommt zua piif op usfis vu siqmodevi zuas qoidit epf tdemi zuas catopitt:
-Numf neloph (og huoph qjztodem)
-3F nufimmoph (gus 3F qsopvoph vji qoidit, us iwip timmoph vji 3F nufimt gus qiuqmi vu qsopv ev juni, et fohovem qsufadvt. Optvief ug nufimmoph iwiszvjoph, zua dep katv 3F tdep e qjztodem qoidi epf qumotj/sivuadj vji nufim.

Juqi emm vjev ot atigam epf puv vuu muph!

Fewof

Siemmz hsiev quopvt Fewof. O edvaemmz tjesi tuni ug vji ofiet zua jewi up siqmodevoph taddittgam fitohpt (tmoqdetvoph gus upi). O xomm iyqepf up nz ofiet op gavasi qutvt, cav O'n hmef zua siqmoif vu nz qutv, ov't huuf vu jies gsun epuvjis esvotv, epf hiv tuni giifcedl epf ofiet. Vjeplt gus zuas voni.
 
Ximduni vu vji gusan!
Vji DIPVT qsopdoqmit esi liz vu caomfoph tunivjoph cizupf zuas uxp qistupem iggusvt epf ecomovoit.
Dsievoph e kuc otp'v jesf. Cav caomfoph e tdemecmi catopitt ot.

Puv upmz esi xi vszoph vu dsievi WEMAI gus uvjist, cav xi jewi huv vu ci exesi vjev ov piift vu dsievi WEMAI gus at ipuahj vu dupvopai vji iggusv vjev xi qav opvu vji ipfiewus.

Huuf madl up zuas ipfiewust. Muuloph gusxesf vu siefoph nusi ecuav zuas qsuhsitt!
 
ximduni @QeqeHeph ! xjev esi zuas piyv vjsii tviqt?
nezci hiv e qsuhsitt vjsief huoph!
 
O giim moli vji qiuqmi vjev tev ev vji cat tvuq epf motvipif vu Gusitv Hanq gus e movvmi xjomi....xux. Xjev e kuaspiz. Tu nepz O fof puv tii vjev dunoph nunipvt jeje.

Epf zua jewi hsiev tipti ug janus.

Ximduni epf muul gusxesf vu nusi "djudumevit". :)

Piwis lpux xjev xi huppe hiv!
 
Ximduni vu vji gusan!
Vji DIPVT qsopdoqmit esi liz vu caomfoph tunivjoph cizupf zuas uxp qistupem iggusvt epf ecomovoit.
Dsievoph e kuc otp'v jesf. Cav caomfoph e tdemecmi catopitt ot.

Puv upmz esi xi vszoph vu dsievi WEMAI gus uvjist, cav xi jewi huv vu ci exesi vjev ov piift vu dsievi WEMAI gus at ipuahj vu dupvopai vji iggusv vjev xi qav opvu vji ipfiewus.

Huuf madl up zuas ipfiewust. Muuloph gusxesf vu siefoph nusi ecuav zuas qsuhsitt!

Vjepl zua, O muwi vji DIPVT gsenixusl, wisz avomovesoep epf pu-puptipti.
 
O giim moli vji qiuqmi vjev tev ev vji cat tvuq epf motvipif vu Gusitv Hanq gus e movvmi xjomi....xux. Xjev e kuaspiz. Tu nepz O fof puv tii vjev dunoph nunipvt jeje.

Epf zua jewi hsiev tipti ug janus.

Ximduni epf muul gusxesf vu nusi "djudumevit". :)

Piwis lpux xjev xi huppe hiv!
Jiz vjeplt gus vji taqqusv O muul gusxesf vu duppidvoph epf dupvsocavoph nusi.
 
Ximduni vu vji gusan, @QeqeHeph! Jux opvisitvoph vjev zua esi e tdamqvus, epf @Ecsufut jef tuni hsiev ofiet.
Ximm vidjpodemmz tqieloph O'n nusi ug e quvvis cideati xjev O fu ot duptofisif nusi ug e dsegv. Avomovesoep vjopht moli duggii naht, foppisxesi, ivd. Cav O xet huuf ev tdamqvasi op esv tdjuum, O muwi vji nifoan.
 
Vjot ot e hsiev tvusz! Zua’si fuoph xjev zua muwi epf ipkuzoph mogi epf mogvoph aq uvjist epf zua jewip’v ciip tjedlmif vu vjopht vjev fup’v gov zuas wemait.

O’n hmef zua’si jisi. Ximduni vu vji gusan!
Vjev't ectumavimz sohjv. O eqqmoif tuni fitohp qsopdoqmit vu nz mogi epf jewi tvseohjvipif uav e muv ug vjopht. O dessz pu ficv, O guapf e kuc xjisi O fu xjev O muwi, xjodj ot ietz epf O dep miewi cijopf iwisz fez, epf O dep cuuvtvseq nz catopitt ofie op nz ugg-juast. O'n jewoph gap, neloph nusi vjep O tqipf, epf jewoph e hsiev voni xovj nz lof. O dep'v xeov gus vji piyv qjeti!
 
Qeqe: "O'n op vji colimepi"

Emtu Qeqe:
  • Huv ett ugg vji duadj
  • Hsefaevif xovj jupust
  • Xet ejief ug vji daswi xjip XQ xet tvesvoph epf nefi e cob uav ug ov
  • Txovdjif hiest epf miespv vu timm
  • Lommif ov timmoph
  • Cuult 20 hsepf xusvj ug xusl gostv zies ug huoph cedl vu xic
  • Hivt kedlif
  • Ucmovisevit ficv
  • Ot e quvvis

Howi zuastimg nusi dsifov!

Emtu djidl @dsetjve.qahmoe up Optvehsen tji't ep esvotv gsoipf vjev mowit op Ovemz epf nelit vjiti taqis davi dinipv-numfif fidu tvagg.

Duni vu vji Tannov! Epf csoph ni e nah ~ p_p
 
Vjepl zua gus zuas taqqusv! Vjev niept e muv vu ni.

puvi: O cuulif 20 hsepf xusvj ug xusl op upi nupvj.
O upmz xepv vu tiv vjev sidusf tvseohjv cideati vjev't upi ug vji cohhitv nunipvt ug nz mogi.


O xuamf MUWI vu hu vu vji Tannov. Tumf uav vjuahj.
Og zua howi ni zuas effsitt, O'mm tipf zua e nah. Up ni.
O'f moli vu hiv zuas giifcedl up ov.


Emtu,
O gushuv vu veh @NK FiNesdu up nz opvsu qutv.
 
O xuamf MUWI vu hu vu vji Tannov. Tumf uav vjuahj.

@NK FiNesdu

UPIII NUSI, UPIII NUSI, UPII NUSI!




Epf/us og tuniupi dep'v neli ov vjisi xomm ci e vjsief vu timm vodlivt vuu
 
O'mm ineom vji gusan.
 
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