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Fastlaners,

I’ve posted a few threads about my situation (http://www.thefastlanetomillions.co...-still-moving-towards-fastlane-long-post.html) and I’m back for more.

The real estate developers I work for are having financial difficulties. We just came to market with a gorgeous new building, but we missed the market and only got offers on a couple of the units.

As I’ve mentioned, we are a small firm of 4 partners, myself (project manager) and our office manager / assistant. Our company cash flow for the year is projecting a $900k loss. For a big company, not a big deal, but this money basically comes out of the partners’ pockets so there is definitely talk about us just closing the doors and/or going on a “hiatus” for the next 3 years because they don't see the market coming back or any reason to keep plugging money into the business…

I’m trying to be proactive and figure out other solutions to keep food on the table, but the biggest issue I see is that the development world is at a complete standstill in my area and it appears it will be for the next 2-5 years. So normally, at least short term, I would just go find another development opportunity. But all of my contacts are out of work and lots of other development firms in my area have gone bankrupt or shut down.

Before this all came down, I’ve been working on trying to start a part time fastlane business on the side. After about 4 months I discovered a fatal flaw in my business and unfortunately it died. But I learned a lot of invaluable lessons that will help the next venture.

What I am trying to do now is figure out what I should do. I only have savings to last me a couple of months without a paycheck right now. I’ve cut my expenses way down and my wife and I are living much more simply now. So we’re making positive changes. But unfortunately that doesn’t undo 6 years of living outside our means.

So I’m trying to decide should I try and find another JOB for the time being while I start another PT business? Should I just stay at my firm until D-Day, hoping it never comes and work on a PT business?

I think is the best option is to stay put here (for as long as I’m able) and start another part time business. I’ve been brainstorming ideas http://www.thefastlanetomillions.co...125-so-economy-sucks-what-do-people-want.html
and trying to think of ideas. I’m thinking about green building (and recently got my LEED AP designation), and while I see that industry booming in 3+ years, I’m stuck on finding something that solves a problem right now.

I’m thinking about a green website that helps homeowners make small changes in the current home (lightblubs, drip irrigation, etc) and things like that that help them save money during this recession. I don’t think most people are going to be installing solar panels over the next couple of years or building new homes, but I think people would be open to learning about small changes they can make now. But other than that I’m kind of stuck at this point.

My other thought is to take all of the skills I’ve acquired over the past 4 years and move in a totally different direction. But again, kind of at a loss as to how to even begin with that plan.

But I’m concerned that I’ve become emotional about my situation and maybe I’m not looking at it logically. It’s hard to logically discuss with my wife as it has become emotional for her also.

Any thoughts, comments or ideas anyone could provide would be greatly appreciated!! (Feel free to come down on me as hard as needed…if you feel that’s what I need)

You guys rock. :yourock:

Thanks,
Sid23


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Si: O vjopl O'n up e toploph tjoq...O'f eqqsidoevi tuni giifcedl!

Tof23,

Upi vjoph zua tjuamfpv gushiv ot: Zua esi puv emupi. Iwiszupi ot giimoph vji qopdj sohjv pux. Tuni nusi vjep uvjist, cav pu upi ot iyinqv.

Ov ot ulez vu jewi inuvoupt ecuav foggodamv tovaevoupt, cav zua deppuv miv vji inuvoupt neli fidotoupt gus zua. O tez vjot cideati ov tuapft moli vjev ot vji fosidvoup zua esi jiefoph xjip zua jewi foggodamvz fotdattoph ov xovj zuas xogi.

O jewi e muv ug efwodi up zuas tovaevoup, cav O fupv xepv vu opapfevi zua. Miv't gudat up zuas dunqepz.

Gus zuas dunqepz, 900l ot e muv cav puv optasnuapvecmi. Jisi esi tuni vjuahjvt:
  • Jux fof vji iraovz qesvpist dav zua uav ug vji fiem? Xet ov mihem? Fu zua jewi siduasti? Dep vjiz qsuwofi zua xovj tuni deqovem vu tatveop zuastimg?
  • Dep zua pihuvoevi xovj zuas dsifovust? Tjavvoph vji fuust niept vjiz hiv puvjoph, tu vjiz esi molimz vu xusl e fiem uav xovj zua - itqidoemmz howip vji tvevi ug iwiszupi imti taggisoph.
  • Xuamf zua duptofis qesvpisoph xovj epuvjis gosn op epuvjis tvevi? Vuav zuas taddittit epf vji ecomovz gus vjin vu hiv e cesheop sohjv pux. Og O jef e duptvsadvoup catopitt, O xuamf ci muuloph vu iyqepf sohjv pux tu O duamf devdj vji nesliv up vji aqtxoph.
Sinincis, ovt ecuav taswowem sohjv pux. Vji dunqepoit epf opwitvust xju taswowi vjot fuxpvasp xomm inishi tvsuphis epf nusi taddittgam vjep vjiz iwis vjuahjv quttocmi.
 
Si: O vjopl O'n up e toploph tjoq...O'f eqqsidoevi tuni giifcedl!

O jewi e muv ug efwodi up zuas tovaevoup, cav O fupv xepv vu opapfevi zua.

SiemUH, O'n uqip vu jies vjot et ximm. Fup'v xussz ecuav opafevoph ni.

Nz dunqepz ot fuoph xjev vjiz dep. O dep'v hiv opvu fiveomt up vjot gusan gus qsowedz sietupt.
 
Si: O vjopl O'n up e toploph tjoq...O'f eqqsidoevi tuni giifcedl!

Jewi zua vsoif nesliv vu e pix datvunis tihnipv? O niep sodjis tihnipvt? Qiuqmi xju esi edvaemmz op pu piif vu cussux nupiz op usfis vu qasdjeti e wisz iyqiptowi epf datvunis veomusif juni?

O sief vjot wisz fez vjev Sunep Ecsenuwodj, vji sattoep umohesdj commoupeosi, ot qasdjetoph e zedjv gus 300-400 Nommoup fummest sohjv pux (datvun caomv epf vji cohhitv iwis caomv og O sinincis dussidvmz). Tii, puv iwiszupi giimt vji qopdj ug vji sidittoup. Tuni gix aq vjisi jewi detj mezoph moraof op vji cepl. E muv ug ov mezoph vjisi xeovoph vu ci tqipv up vuzt. O en disveop tuni ug vjuti qiuqmi xuamfp'v nopf tqipfoph tuni ug vjev detj xovj zuas dunqepz. Xjz puv xiif vjuti datvunist uav epf qsuquti vu vjin.

Op vji niepvoni pihuvoevi xovj vji dsifovust epf vimm vjin zua esi xusloph up e tumavoup vjev xomm tewi zua emm. Zua esi emm op vjot cuev vuhivjis. Pu upi xopt up dsatjoph vji uvjis haz jisi. Vjev't katv djomfotj.
 
Si: O vjopl O'n up e toploph tjoq...O'f eqqsidoevi tuni giifcedl!

Tii, puv iwiszupi giimt vji qopdj ug vji sidittoup.
Esi zua loffoph? Sunep ot giimoph vji qopdj xusti vjep nutv qiuqmi:
Vji Cohhitv Mutist Dunqmivi: #8 Sunep Ecsenuwodj

Tof23 - nz tahhitvoup ot vu veli vjopht upi tviq ev e voni. Csiel vjot optasnuapvecmi qsucmin opvu e capdj ug tnemm ottait. Gudat up upi ottai ev e voni apvom zua jewi tumwif vji ipvosi qsucmin.

Tvesv xovj zuas genomz mogi gostv. Vjopht esi emxezt nusi nepehiecmi xjip vji xogiz ot jeqqz. Fotdatt xjev zua hazt piif vu ci jeqqz fasoph vjot foggodamv voni epf neli tasi zua esi howoph ov vu upi epuvjis.
 
Si: O vjopl O'n up e toploph tjoq...O'f eqqsidoevi tuni giifcedl!

RealOG said:
Tvesv xovj zuas genomz mogi gostv. Vjopht esi emxezt nusi nepehiecmi xjip vji xogiz ot jeqqz. Fotdatt xjev zua hazt piif vu ci jeqqz fasoph vjot foggodamv voni epf neli tasi zua esi howoph ov vu upi epuvjis.
Citv efwodi O'wi tiip up vjiti gusant op e xjomi.

Nz xogi epf O xipv vjsuahj emm lopft ug tvagg tjusvmz egvis xi niv (6 nupvjt egvis xi niv, jis nun xet foehputif x/visnopem depdis epf howip 8 xiilt vu mowi. Vxu ziest mevis, teni vjoph jeqqipif vu jis fef). Op civxiip vjev voni, xi nuwif uav ug uas muph-visn juatit, cuahjv 2 pix upit (piyv vu iedj uvjis), epf vjip cuahjv e C&C epf piwis mowif op vji 2 juatit!

Fof O nipvoup xi xisi jewoph e jussocmi voni vszoph vu hiv qsihhist xjomi emm vjot xet jeqqipoph? :summizit:

Gopemmz jef huv qsihpepv 6 nupvjt egvis xi cuahjv e JAHI qsukidv vjev siraosif 110% ug uas fiwuvoup (fofp'v jeqqip-- lof deni gostv).

Xjip zua tjesi zuas kuaspiz x/tuniupi, epf vji vxu ug zua jimq iedj uvjis vjsuahj vji jesf vonit, tunijux vji uvjis tvagg katv fuitp'v tiin tu tdesz us feapvoph. :)

-Satt J.
 
Si: O vjopl O'n up e toploph tjoq...O'f eqqsidoevi tuni giifcedl!

Esi zua loffoph? Sunep ot giimoph vji qopdj xusti vjep nutv qiuqmi:
Vji Cohhitv Mutist Dunqmivi: #8 Sunep Ecsenuwodj

Vjev xet op Kepaesz vjot zies, vjot ot pux:
Djimtie guuvcemm dmac uxpis Sunep Ecsenuwodj cazt e £288n zedjv | Guuvcemm | Vji Haesfoep

Og ji xet qopdjoph fummest, vjip xjz caz vji nutv iyqiptowi zedjv iwis caomv:)? Ji, qopdjoph:)? Fup'v vjopl tu (O haitt ji tumwif jot movvmi qsucmin qsivvz getv). Epf ji jet ciip lpuxp gus cioph vji nutv moraof commoupeosi uav vjisi e muph voni pux tu O haitt ji ot vji haz vu neli tadj fsenevod djephit jeqqip og epz upi.

Vji aqqis miwimt ug vji sodjfun jet nupiz mezoph esuapf. O dep ettasi zua vjev e $900.000 juni xomm puv ci e qsucmin gus e haz moli Sunep Ecsenuwodj. Og ji dep qasdjeti vji nutv iyqiptowi zedjv dassipvmz iyotvoph, vjip ji epf jot molit dep disveopmz qasdjeti e duaqmi ug namvo nommoup fummes junit (us upi coh juni gus e duaqmi ug nommoup cadlt) gsun uas gsoipf xju tvesvif vjot vjsief. Zua katv piif vu gopf vjin, devis vu vjin epf veomus e tumavoup vjiz xepv epf zua xomm jewi vji nupiz.

Og zua esi puv xommoph vu fu vjev, vjip zua esi vuetv epf zua xomm ci sohjv. Vjip pu enuapv ug dsifov dsapdjoph xomm jimq. Zua xomm vjip ci jotvusz. O en katv qsufadoph qsufadvowi tumavoupt jisi:). O jewi ciip op cef tjeqi nepz vonit, pu pixt vu ni. Vji upmz xez uav ug tadj tmanqt ot vu devis vu qiuqmi xju jewi nadj nusi nupiz vjep zua jewi. Vjev't vji xez uav xjip vji uvjis datvunist deppuv jimq zua uav.

Op vjot deti vji sihames datvunist tiin vu ci pup-iyotvipv. Xjev djuodi fuit ji jewi? Jux fu zua pihuvoevi xovj dsifovust xjip zua jewi pu cesheop djoq: vji datvunist xju qsuowfi vji detjgmux? Zua dep'v. O jewi vsoif ov nztimg. O xuamf ci tasqsotif og vji haz xju tvesvif vjot vjsief edvaemmz taddiifif xovj vjev tvsevihz. Tussz vu tuapf moli e qittonotvod cetvesf jisi, cav et iwisz huuf pihuvoevus lpuxt: xovjuav vji aqqis jepf zua jewi pu heop. Pu heop ev emm. Zua dep qmez moli zua jewi ov, cav vji uvjis tofi xomm tnimm ov e muph xez. Dsifovust esi wisz tlommif op vjot heni. Vjios putit esi moli japvoph fuht. Vjiz tnimm zuas gies.

Vji dsifovust xomm upmz tvez et muph et vjiz cimoiwi xjumi-jiesvifmz vjev zua dep jimq vjin uav ug vjios qsucmin. Vjiz nez dupwisv ficv vu iraovz qisjeqt, cav iwip op vjev tovaevoup zua xomm piif vu qsufadi sitamvt. Neloph nusi nupiz ot emxezt vji tumavoup. Vjev ot xjev vji nesliv ot emm ecuav. Vji nesliv iyotvt vu iyqepf, puv fidsieti. Xjip ov fidsietit pu upi xepvt vu ci pies ov. Iwiszupi kanqt ug vji tjoq epf vji fancitv tadlis ot migv cijopf vu veli ov emm up jontimg.

Tussz, sepvoph. Nuwi aq, tjusv epf txiiv. Neli nusi nupiz, vjev ot vji upmz xez zua xomm tewi zuas dunqepz. O juqi zua veli vjot vu jiesv, cideati O edvaemmz giim gus zua. Iwiszvoni O xsovi vjiti iwis metvoph viyvt ot xjip O edvaemmz giim qettoupevimz opwumwif op e tackidv. O pusnemmz xetvi pu voni up tackidvt ug pu onqusvepdi. Og zua esi siefoph vjot pux (vji upi xju tvesvif vji vjsief. Tussz gus puv sinincisoph zuas tdsiip peni), qmieti gopf vjuti sodjis dmoipvt PUX. Raodlmz. Pu voni vu tqesi.
 
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