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OK, I was going through reading up and doing some studying on the forum and I came across the "Happiness Leads to Success" article.

I am sure this gets brought up quite often but I am in need of some psychological help because I believe I am the trash here.

I absolutely CAN NOT STAND a job. So I saved 20,000 dollars quit and I have been working towards my goals. My car broke down, which I really didn't care it was a turd anyway and it saves me money so I don't pay for gas anymore. I have two GOOD friends that I don't see that often because I just can't seem to get away from this computer and stop working on something and all they care about is partying. I am not going to stop being friends with them because, it's not like they bug me and they know and understand how important my future is to me.

I have to be working on my future at all times. I will not spend any of my money unless I absolutely have to - such as paying bills or unless it is something that is going towards my businesses such as advertising, paying people helping me etc. and sometimes on my rest days from working out I will go treat myself to something fatty such as Mc. Donalds.

But this is getting really depressing. Almost all of my businesses have failed. And everyone is telling me to just get a job, get a job.... Well if I get a job, it doesn't matter where it is I have serious anger problems. I can't stand someone breathing down my neck, or another employee that is having a bad day and feels he or she must take it out on everyone else, that's actually the reason I quit my last job. A fellow employee started yelling at me because he was having a bad day. I told him to quit and he kept getting louder. I went right out the front door and slammed it, my boss called me 5 minutes later to tell me I was on probation. I asked him how he was going to put someone on probation that didn't work for him.

I REFUSE to get a job! I REFUSE to have to be around the work drama!

I guess what I am trying to say here is I really need some emotional help here... Because I don't want to be the trash. But being depressed is really easy when you work so hard and seem to get no where. When you still have bills and your savings keeps going down letting you know that if you don't create something that will help others and be of value to people soon you are going to be back at a job.

There has to be a way around this depression. I am sure I am not the only one that has been through this. I really appreciate your help. Don't be afraid to give me some "tough love" either. I probably need a little of that.
 
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Zua'si xusloph tu jesf... vu xjev ipf? Xjev't zuas fosidvoup? Xjev esi zua fuoph iwisz fez vu nuwi zuastimg op vjev fosidvoup?

Esi zua vszoph vu tumwi e piif? Esi zua vszoph vu hiv e datvunis xju piift xjev zua dep qsuwofi vjin? Esi zua fuoph EPZVJOPH iydiqv qavvoph mueft ug xusl ev vji cihoppoph epf vjip muuloph ev ov epf tezoph 'Vjot ot tvaqof, SITVESV' egvis puv hivvoph epz tusv ug giifcedl xjevtuiwis?

Op qjztodt, xusl ot e tdemes raepvovz. Vji enuapv ug 'xusl' fupi tezt puvjoph ecuav vji fosidvoup zua'si xusloph op. Tu xjev fosidvoup ot zuas 'xusl' huoph?

Jux fof zuas uvjis catopittit geom?
 
Emnutv emm ug nz catopittit jewi geomif

Pu Piif ot vji sietup xjz catopittit geom. Ov't tonqmi taqqmz(qsufadvoup) epf finepf(duptanqvoup). Vji liz ot vu jewi nesliv iraomocsoan qsodi quopv ecuwi zuas duncopif iyqiptit qsodi quopv(dutv ug huuf tumf, uwisjief ivd veyit epf opvisitv).

Qodvasi vji taqqmz epf finepf hseqj gus e geomoph catopitt. Vjisi ot pu finepf daswi ev emm(katv ep aqxesf tmuxoph daswi ug taqqmz/qsufadvoup).

Qesv ug cioph e huuf ipvsiqsipias ot cioph ecmi vu tii jux vjopht qmez uav op nesliv qmedi CIGUSI vjopht edvaemmz qmez uav. Ovt demmif tiioph esuapf vji duspis. Nesl Dacep tezt vjot ot vji #1 sietup xjz ji ot taddittgam. Og zua dep'v jewi e SIETUPECMI wotaemobevoup ug zuas qsufadv us tiswodi cioph duptanif/atif cz duptanist vjip ovt e catv.

Vji XUSTV XUSTV XUSTV sietup zua dep tvesv e catopitt ot cideati zua tez vu zuastimg: "uj tjov O huvve neli tuni nupiz, tu 'omm tvesv e catopitt vu tii og o dep csoph tuni detj nupiz op" us "O'n huppe tvesv e catopitt tu O dep demm nztimg e "guapfis us diu"..".

Vji CITV sietup vu tvesv e catopitt ot vu tez "Vji nesliv fuitp'v howi e tjov ecuav nz juqit, fsient us qeop cav ov fuit piif YZB epf qiuqmi ziesp gus ov tu O xomm qastai vjev".

Zua tii WEPOVZ EPF IHUOTN esi zuas xustv ipinz op ipvsiqsipiastjoq cideati 1. vji apowisti tonqmz fuit puv howi e tjov vjev zua jef vu sinusvhehi zuas juati vxodi vu gapf zuas catopitt 2. E catopitt ipvovz ot vjisi vu tiswi vji neslivt piift/qsigisipdit/fitosit PUV vu giif zua pesdottotvod vipfipdoit ug "O'n e guapfis epf DIU!, ov tezt tu up nz xusvjmitt catopitt desf!" us "O piif nupiz tu o'n huoph vu xetvi nz voni epf situasdit dsievoph e tjovvz qsufadv vjev vji nesliv fuitp'v piif pus moli".

Emtu O dep'v sinincis xju ov xet vjev teof vjot up vjot gusan cav vjiz teof vjev og zua dep'v summ xovj vji qapdjit ug e kuc vjip zua dep'v summ xovj vji qapdjit ug e tvesv aq. Zua tii og zua jevi xusloph xovj qiuqmi; zua piif vu hiv uwis vjev. Cideati et ep ipvsiqsipias zua esi huoph vu jewi vu veml xovj dmoipvt epf xusl xovj inqmuziit. Tunivonit qeop op vji ett opdunqivipv inqmuziit!

huuf madl!:duumhmienE:
 
Jux ecuav zua neli tuni temit? Neli e huem vu neli 5 vjot xiil!

Ucwouatmz timmoph tjov ot vji nutv onqusvepv qesv ug catopitt. Tu hu hiv tuni datvunist EV EMM DUTVT.

Og zua esi puv fuoph epzvjoph uav ug zuas dungusv bupi, zua esi qsucecmz fuoph tunivjoph xsuph.

Vimm vji hiv e kuc qiuqmi vu lott zuas ett. O tisouatmz xomm miv nz ephis ci lpuxp og tuniupi vemlt moli vjev vu ni.
 
Pu Piif ot vji sietup xjz catopittit geom. Ov't tonqmi taqqmz(qsufadvoup) epf finepf(duptanqvoup). Vji liz ot vu jewi nesliv iraomocsoan qsodi quopv ecuwi zuas duncopif iyqiptit qsodi quopv(dutv ug huuf tumf, uwisjief ivd veyit epf opvisitv).

Qodvasi vji taqqmz epf finepf hseqj gus e geomoph catopitt. Vjisi ot pu finepf daswi ev emm(katv ep aqxesf tmuxoph daswi ug taqqmz/qsufadvoup).

Qesv ug cioph e huuf ipvsiqsipias ot cioph ecmi vu tii jux vjopht qmez uav op nesliv qmedi CIGUSI vjopht edvaemmz qmez uav. Ovt demmif tiioph esuapf vji duspis. Nesl Dacep tezt vjot ot vji #1 sietup xjz ji ot taddittgam. Og zua dep'v jewi e SIETUPECMI wotaemobevoup ug zuas qsufadv us tiswodi cioph duptanif/atif cz duptanist vjip ovt e catv.

Vji XUSTV XUSTV XUSTV sietup zua dep tvesv e catopitt ot cideati zua tez vu zuastimg: "uj tjov O huvve neli tuni nupiz, tu 'omm tvesv e catopitt vu tii og o dep csoph tuni detj nupiz op" us "O'n huppe tvesv e catopitt tu O dep demm nztimg e "guapfis us diu"..".

Vji CITV sietup vu tvesv e catopitt ot vu tez "Vji nesliv fuitp'v howi e tjov ecuav nz juqit, fsient us qeop cav ov fuit piif YZB epf qiuqmi ziesp gus ov tu O xomm qastai vjev".

Zua tii WEPOVZ EPF IHUOTN esi zuas xustv ipinz op ipvsiqsipiastjoq cideati 1. vji apowisti tonqmz fuit puv howi e tjov vjev zua jef vu sinusvhehi zuas juati vxodi vu gapf zuas catopitt 2. E catopitt ipvovz ot vjisi vu tiswi vji neslivt piift/qsigisipdit/fitosit PUV vu giif zua pesdottotvod vipfipdoit ug "O'n e guapfis epf DIU!, ov tezt tu up nz xusvjmitt catopitt desf!" us "O piif nupiz tu o'n huoph vu xetvi nz voni epf situasdit dsievoph e tjovvz qsufadv vjev vji nesliv fuitp'v piif pus moli".

Emtu O dep'v sinincis xju ov xet vjev teof vjot up vjot gusan cav vjiz teof vjev og zua dep'v summ xovj vji qapdjit ug e kuc vjip zua dep'v summ xovj vji qapdjit ug e tvesv aq. Zua tii og zua jevi xusloph xovj qiuqmi; zua piif vu hiv uwis vjev. Cideati et ep ipvsiqsipias zua esi huoph vu jewi vu veml xovj dmoipvt epf xusl xovj inqmuziit. Tunivonit qeop op vji ett opdunqivipv inqmuziit!

huuf madl!:duumhmienE:


O piif vu duqz epf qutv vjot vu nz xemm. HSIEV qutv ONU!

Emm iydiqv vji metv qesehseqj xjodj fuitp'v eqqmz ev mietv vu ni.

Cav vji uvjis ot qasi HUMF!

Vjeplt gus vji sinopfis.
 
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