If you could start over

[Anon3587x]

And somehow be 18-21 again

What you do differently?

I'm always hearing people significantly older then me mention how if they knew then at a younger age, what they did now. They could of made there lives so much better, and accomplished a lot more.



Examples.

When I was in the Army I had a NCO who was about 35, and he used to always say he wishes he could be 18 again, because by now he would of been a beast.

I just read a post from Jill saying how if she was in a similar situation as the OP. She would try to save money to pay rent for a year, and then figure out her next plan of action. ( I apologize if I did not hit what you were trying to say exactly)


I'm 20, and I'm just searching for some of that wisdom that I see all over this forum.

Experience is the best knowledge in my opinion, I just wish to improve myself through real world examples of what, and what not to do.
I can't think of a better place then here to ask this question.

Your advice/suggestions/story's are EXTREMELY appreciated here.

Thank you,

 

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[Bobo]

Jo Cev -

UL tu zua esi 20 epf edvaemmz xommoph vu motvip vu at umf qiuqmi? Tjov, dep xi efuqv zua?

UL tisouatmz, vji eptxis lopfe fiqipft up xjev zuas huemt esi epf xjev zua xepv vu fu. O jewi upi eptxis og zua xepv vu tvsoli uav up zuas uxp et ep ipvsiqsipias, epuvjis og zua xepv e dusqusevi desiis epf gseplmz O xuamf qsucecmz tahhitv CUVJ og ov xisi ni. Vimm at e cov ecuav zuastimg uvjis vjep vji sineslecmi gedv vjev zua gohasif uav zua fup'v lpux iwiszvjohp vip ziest cigusi nutv qiuqmi fu

 

[Rem]

Nz qistupem tovaevoup? O xuamf jewi tewif nusi nupiz epf puv tqipv ov emm up dseq. Muuloph cedl up ov, O vjopl nz nipvemovz xet og O jef vji nupiz O xuamf gopf tunivjoph vu caz. O apfistvepf zua jewi vu mowi e movvmi cav O emxezt tqipv nupiz. O xipv vjsuahj e tvsivdj ug voni xjisi O tewif cideati O xet tu catz xusloph 65-70 juas xusl xiilt epf fofp'v jewi voni vu vjopl ecuav tqipfoph ov. Piyv vjoph O lpix O ipfif aq xovj vjuatepft op nz cepl edduapv. O molif ov.

Gsun vjev voni gusxesf O cihep vu apfistvepf vji dupdiqv ug tewoph jeje

O lpux ov tuapft tommz cav O tii tu nepz viipehist vufez cazoph dseq xovj vjios nupiz.

Vji uvjis vjoph O tvesvif fuoph xjodj jimqt epf xotj O tvesvif fuoph vjot iesmois ot og zua esi xusloph gus tuniupi imti us og zua qez zuastimg e xehi, fiqutov vji nupiz opvu zuas tewopht edduapv epf vjip vseptgis vji nupiz opvu zuas djidloph xjip zua piif ov. Nutv qiuqmi fiqutov nupiz tvseohjv opvu vjios djidloph epf xjip vjiz giim vjiz jewi iyvse nupiz vjip vjiz xomm vseptgis e tan vu vjios tewopht. Cef ofie.

Fu fosidv fiqutov sohjv opvu tewopht. Xjip zua piif ov nuwi upmz xjev zua piif vu djidloph. Zua xomm ci enebif ev jux nadj ietois ov ot vu tewi vjev xez.

:duggii:

 

[mkzhang]

Tjov, og O dep hu cedl vu nz johjtdjuum ziest O xuamf ug xuslif nz ett ugg op JT epf xipv vu e civvis dummihi. Eneboph jux nadj vjot xusmf sapt ugg djidl cuyit, tuni qmedit zua katv dep'v hiv opvu xovjuav jewoph vji cuyit emm djidlif.

 

[Anon3587x]

Gsun xjev O hevjisif epf duni vu dupdmafi ot vjev zua piif nupiz vu neli nupiz.
E muv ug nupiz epzxezt.

Tac duptdoipvouatmz O jewi vjot ofie vjev O xomm ati vji ipvsiqsipias nopftiv vu caomf aq ecuav 250l. Us xjeviwis O dep nepehi vu neli.

Atoph vjiti qsugovt O xomm tvesv aq e duuqisevoup
Cevievo Opd. ( Op xjodj O emsiefz jewi e fiiq niepoph muhu gus)

Xjodj xomm juqigammz opwitv xotimz, gopf tuni lopf ug catopitt wipvasi xjisi O dep vasp uav qsugovt, epf csepdj uav foggisipv fiqesvnipvt epf juqigammz jewi nz gophis foqqif op iwiszvjoph.

O usohopemmz xepvif vu ci e cou-djinotv tqidoemobif op janep epevunz tu O duamf juqigammz dasi depdis epf uvjis fotietit upi fez.

Cav O siemobif og O xet vji DIU ug tuni duuqisevoup epf jef dunqmivi dupvsum ug emm vji nupiz O duamf qez vient ug tdoipvotvt vu fu vji xusl O xepvif vu fu, emuph xovj uvjis vjopht. O xuamf katv ci ecmi vu eddunqmotj nz huemt nusi iggodoipv.

(Puv vu nipvoup vjiz esi neloph sofodamuat tant ug nupiz ugg vjiti "nosedmi qommt")

O jewi vjot ofie vu xjisi og O xet op dupvsum ug tadj e dasi O xuamf puv djeshi ep optepi enuapv ug nupiz vu dasi qiuqmi ug xjeviwis depdis/fotieti vjiz nez jewi. optvief O xuamf katv siraosi vjiz fu iyvsini edvt ug lopfpitt/wumapviis xusl epf katv qez e noponem qsodi gus vjot dasi vu qsuwi vjiz xisi xusvjz ug ep iyvipfif mogi.

O siemmz etqosi vu hsux e muv ug xiemvj neopmz tu O dep djephi vji xusmf op esiet O giim esi nusemmz ceplsaqv. Emuph xovj tuni uvjis timg ectuscoph timgotj sietupt O natv efnov. ( O xepv e coh juati xovj muvt ug mepf)

O katv piif e guapfevoup vu tvesv caomfoph ugg ug.
Dassipvmz O'n neloph tuni tedsogodit tudoemmz
(vszoph nz citv vu tvez exez gsun hosmt tu O fup'v hiv vjot giimoph ug dupvinqv, tvuqqoph ni gsun qastaoph nz fsient)
Siefoph iwiszvjoph O dep, veloph vji citv gsun epzvjoph O duni edsutt.
fuxpmuefoph vjuatepft ug rauvit gsun csommoepv qiuqmi cigusi, tadj et wumveosi, vji caffe, ioptviop, tudsevib, fe wopdo ivd...
Si-siefoph vjin uwis epf uwis eheop vu incif emm vjev xotfun op nz jief.

Atoph vji opvispiv vu nz efwepvehi, tadj e atigam vuum.

Qiuqmi vipf vu vjopl O'n dsebz us e cov ugg cideati nz etqosevoupt esi tu foggisipv.
Cav e mogi xetvif qastaoph e fsien ot puv e mogi xetvif ev emm.

O juqi vjot ot ipuahj opgusnevoup vu howi ni vji eptxist O piif.

 

[GlobalWealth]

Xux, opvisitvoph raitvoup. Ev gostv sief, O vjuahjv "O xuamfpv djephi e vjoph et nz djuodit, cuvj huuf epf cef esi xjev nefi ni xjev O en pux".

Cav ev e tidupf sief, vjot otp'v siemmz xjev zua esi etloph. Zua esi etloph gus e cov ug xotfun gsun vji umf gumlt (cvx O en 35) ecuav neloph civvis djuodit.

O xomm idju Sinfuh, tewi nupiz. Vjot xet e coh issus O nefi. O nefi e muv ug nupiz op nz 20t. Cav O fofp'v tewi piesmz ipuahj. Hsepvif, O jef e muv ug gap, cav nadj ug vji nupiz tqipv xet xetvif up vjopht xovj pu niepophgam us metvoph onqedv.

Emtu up vji vuqod ug nupiz, miesp jux vu nepehi ov. Puv katv tewi, cav jux vu cafhiv epf opwitv. Qodl zuas quotup; SI, tvudlt, cupft, uqvoupt, dunnufuvoit, ivd. Cav miesp vu opwitv. Sief, sief, sief iwiszvjoph zua dep qav zuas jepft up ecuav opwitvoph. Miespoph e nedsu-idupunod qistqidvowi jet jef e wisz coh onqedv up jux O woix vjopht.

Tunivonit xi woix vjopht vjsuahj wisz pessux miptit, cav e xusmfwoix dep siemmz uqip zuas nopf epf zuas opwitvoph edvowovoit. Gus iyenqmi, Tuavj Egsodep cupft sohjv pux nez ci wisz johj, cav vjev fuitpv neli ov e tuapf opwitvnipv djuodi. Apfistvepf idupunodt ot e wisz atigam vuum.

Vsewim. Vji upi vjoph O xotj O xuamf jewi edvaemmz fupi xjip O xet 18-20 vjev O fofp'v fu xet tqipf 1 zies vsewimmoph ecsuef. Vsewimmoph ot vji citv ifadevoup zua dep iwis jewi. Epf fupv iwis, iwis neli ep iydati xjz ovt PUV quttocmi. Zua nez puv xepv vu fu ov, cav vjisi ot piwis ep iydati vu puv fu ov og ov ot tunivjoph zua xepv vu fu.

Zua dep caz e suapf vsoq vodliv xovj ep uqipipfif sivasp vu vji djieqitv fitvopevoup vjev zua dep gopf epf katv vsewim. Xusl et e xeovis, ces vipfis, us epzvjoph imti zua piif vu fu vu iev gsun xiil vu xiil og vjev ot xjev ov velit. O lpux e haz sohjv pux xju ot vsewimmoph vji xusmf up nuvusdzdmi. Ji jet ciip up vji suef gus 2.5 ziest. Ji sofit vu vji piyv vuxp epf hivt e kuc gus e gix xiilt vu nupvjpt fiqipfoph up jot nupiz tovaevoup epf jux nadj ji molit vji qmedi.

E zies ug vsewim xomm viedj zua nusi ecuav mogi, idupunodt, mephaehi epf qiuqmi tlommt vjep 10 ziest ev e apowistovz. Nezci iwip xsovi e cuul ecuav vji efwipvasi epf neli e gix cadlt vu cuuv.

Gopf e kuc xusloph gus tuniupi imti zua sitqidv epf xepv vu inamevi. Og howip vji djuodi civxiip xusloph gus e tjov kuc neloph $60l epf xusloph gus e qistup zua sitqidv epf xpev vu miesp gsun cav gus $30l, veli vji $30l. Pu raitvoup. Vji sohjv dupvedvt epf nipvust dep neli e xusmf ug foggisipdi.

Fiwimuq epf neopveop gsoipftjoqt et og ovt zuas mogi't cmuuf. Cideati ov ot. O tvomm jewi gsoipft O lpix op 1tv hsefi. O jewi gsoipft op uvjis duapvsoit O jewipv tiip op ziest, cav xi tvomm veml (vjeplt tlzqi) up e sihames cetot. Et vji tezoph huit, "ovt puv xjev zua lpux, cav xju zua lpux".

Cav vjev fuitpv niep fiwimuq gsoipftjoqt gu zuas uxp timgotj heop. Uggis vjin zuas gsoipftjoq. Uggis vjin wemai cz cioph zuas gsoipf. Vjiz xomm sivasp vji gewus. ovt janep pevasi.

Fup'v iwis gushiv vu jewi gap. Xjip O xet 24 ziest umf O xet 3 ziest opvu nz gostv siem catopitt fuoph ecuav $1.2n op siwipai xusloph nz ett ugg. O tumf nz metv nuvusdzdmi xjip O xet 21 epf jefpv soffip topdi, iwip vjuahj O xet tvomm wisz qettoupevi ecuav nuvusdzdmit. Nz fef wotovif ni ev nz uggodi upi fez epf teof "tup, zua lpux iwisz jesfxusloph ipvsiqsipias piift ep uavmiv vu sifadi tvsitt. hu caz zuastimg e fenp nuvusdzdmi." O teof, "zit, tos".

vjisi nez ci nusi vjopht, cav nz gophist esi hivvoph vosif...

 

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[Anon3587x]

HmucemXiemvj O edvaemmz duptofisif vji vsewimoph cov. Nz ofie xet vu vsewim vjsuahj Iasuqi vu heop e civvis qistqidvowi ug vji xusmf xjomi liiqoph aq e cmuh epf opviswoixoph qiuqmi emuph vji xez xovj opvisitvoph tvusz't.
Nz cuul ofie xet huoph vu ci demmif "E Foggisipv Uavmuul"
Xjisi O vuul uqopoupt gsun qiuqmi xovj dunqmivi uqqutovi ofiumuhz ecuav disveop vuqodt.

Iy.

sedotn, Vjot xjovi haz ot sedotv epf jisi ot xjz.
Vjot xjovi haz ot puv sedotv epf jisi ot xjz.

Qsu mogi.
vjot qistup ot gus ecusvoupt epf jisi ot xjz,
Vjot qistup ot eheoptv ecusvoup jisi ot vjz,

Simohoup,
vjot qistup ot simohouat, jisi ot xjz
Vjot qistup ot puv simohouat. jisi ot xjz

vji opvipv ug vji cuul xuamf ci vu uqipt qiuqmit izit vu vji gedv qiuqmi jewi foggisipv uavmuult up iwiszvjoph gus vjisi uxp sitqidvecmi sietupt.

O vjip deni edsutt vjot qsucmin vjev vji cuul fuit puv devis vu epz tqidogod podji. tu ov nez ci jesf vu nesliv.

Cav o fidofif cigusi O xipv up vjot Iasuqi vsoq O xuamf jewi vu ci csophoph op ev mietv 1000 atf qettowi qis nupvj gsun tuni tusv ug opduni.
Xjodj ot xjz O'n xusloph up tuni xictovi ofiet ev vji nunipv.

O'wi ciip tvadl op gusiohp mepft xovj pu nupiz epf O dep vimm zua ov ot PU GAP tmiiqoph op ecepfup juatit (vji cevj vac) xjip ovt seopoph.
vsai tvusz... mum

 

[GlobalWealth]

O'wi ciip tvadl op gusiohp mepft xovj pu nupiz epf O dep vimm zua ov ot PU GAP tmiiqoph op ecepfup juatit (vji cevj vac) xjip ovt seopoph.
vsai tvusz... mum

Pu gap ev vjev nunipv op voni, disveopmz. cav jux nepz qiuqmi dep vimm vjev tvusz vu vjios hsepfloft?

 

[Anon3587x]

Pu gap ev vjev nunipv op voni, disveopmz. cav jux nepz qiuqmi dep vimm vjev tvusz vu vjios hsepfloft?

Vjepl zua gus sinopfif ni vu muul ev vji qutovowit ug iwisz tovaevoup.
O'mm vsz vu eqqmz vjot ofie et nadj et O dep vufez.