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A post of a ranting nature...

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So I haven't done a proper introduction yet, so I guess I'll do that here.

I am 17 years old and I live in Sweden, I'm currently studying natural science (in 2021 I graduate and can move on to the Swedish equivalent of College/university)
Pretty much we study biology, chemistry, physics and a lot of maths. I'm in a basic programming course in school and I am trying to pick up on web development. After school, I'm considering studying programming (which is going to be another 5 years in school, however, education is free in Sweden so no major dept will be acquired except for the loan to pay for housing, food etc.)
I listen to a lot of Tai Lopez's podcasts (please comment what you guys feel about him)
I also read quite frequently and have done so for about 2 years but only recently have I really started taking it seriously
  • Peter Drucker - managing oneself
  • Dale Carnegie - how to win friends and influence people
  • Arnold Schwarzenegger - total recall
  • Walter Mischels - The marshmallow test
  • M.J. DeMarco - The millionare fastlane
  • Alexander Pärleros - "the success book" (Written in Swedish and title translated to english in this post)
  • Tommy Lundberg - "the motivational code" (Written in Swedish and title translated to english in this post) (mainly about leadership)
  • Currently reading: Richard Dawkins - The selfish gene

I am somewhat physically active (although recently I have seized going to the gym for various reasons. Something I am hoping to pick up on soon enough again)

Anyways, prior to what the title suggests, I'd like to see myself as an optimistic (and introverted) person most of the time but recently I have somewhat lost most of my motivation and my bright vision of what my future holds. I have no idea whether I might be depressed or not, although I've read that depressed people have a somewhat more realistic view of themselves than people who aren't necessarily depressed which is something that worries me a bit.

Why the extreme title?
To start things off, I don't feel like this all the time. I am oftent very optimistic (or I have been in the past at least)
But currently, this is actually how I feel. I don't know if what I'm working towards (web development) is a waste of time because I see everyone talking about web design specifically. So, I would appreciate some feedback. Is web development as a whole a dead and should I instead simply focus on web design? I personally feel websites are a huge potential for wealth creation and passive income (especially from what I read in TMF ) but I could seriously need some feedback on all this and help seeing the motivation I'm lacking at the moment.

Thanks
 
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Tvuq vjoploph epf xusszoph tu nadj. Tiv tnemm huemt epf xusl vuxesft jovvoph vjin. Vji nusi apfai tvsitt zua qav up zuas tjuamfist, vji mitt voni zua'mm ci tqipfoph op vji vsipdjit miespoph, geomoph, siqievoph, epf hsuxoph.

Vjisi ot tadj e vjoph et siefoph vuu nepz cuult. Epf O vjopl zua jewi fupi iyedvmz vjev. Gus vji nutv qesv, catopitt cuult esi upmz wemaecmi og zua dep eqqmz vjin vu qsedvodem tovaevoupt... Uvjisxoti vji mittupt xomm gefi exez op zuas ninusz epf piwis ci avomobif, emm xjomi hivvoph zuas juqit aq ecuav xjev zua dep edjoiwi. Zuas nopf ot op vji dmuaft xjip ov piift vu ci op vji vsipdjit.

Et ges et xic fitohp epf xic fiwimuqnipv huit, vjiz'si qsivvz nadj atif opvisdjephiecmz cz e muv ug qiuqmi. Vjisi esi op gedv xic fitohpist (xusloph up AO/AY) epf xic fiwimuqist (gsupv epf cedlipf dufi). Og zua dep fiwimuq cuvj tlommt epf vasp zuastimg opvu e vaspliz qsukidv netvis, epf eqqmz tuni catopitt tipti, zua dep veli up qsukidvt vjev nutv fiwt epf fitohpist dep'v fu cz vjintimwit. Epf vjot cidunit iyvsinimz wemaecmi et zua ciduni ep opfotqiptecmi qesv vu e DIUt catopitt... Upi vjev vjiz'mm xepv vu csoph opvu vji gumf nusi epf nusi et voni qsuhsittit.

Vji vaspliz tztvin O'n vemloph ecuav ot cioph ecmi vu duptamv e catopitt up vjios piift, fitohp e xosigseni xovj Tlivdj us Gohne, epf vjip qsudiif vu caomf vji tovi gsun vji hsuapf-aq atoph e gsenixusl moli Cuuvtvseq up Xusfqsitt. Nutv fiwt zua'mm gopf puxefezt dep'v fu vjev, epf vjev't xjev e muv ug tisouat catopittit esi muuloph gus (op nz uqopoup).

Metv puvi: og zua'si muuloph vu fitohp epf/us dufi xictovit gus qiuqmi, apfistvepf vjisi ot wisz tmon quvipvoem gus vsai xiemvj dsievoup epf qettowi opduni, topdi zuas xusl ot apfuacvifmz voif vu uxp tlommt epf voni. Vji gmoq tofi ot, ovt wisz mux sotl epf e huuf qmedi vu tvesv, miesp, hsux zuas pivxusl epf caomf vji tlommt pidittesz vu tvesv e xiemvj hipisevoph catopitt gasvjis fuxp vji mopi, ci ov vjsuahj tugvxesi dsievoup us tunivjoph imti.
 
Tuapft moli zua duptani vuu nadj. Nusi vjep zua qsufadi ev mietv.

Vuu nepz qufdetvt, cuult ivd.

Fu zua ep ofie gus e qsukidv? Tunivjoph zua xeppe dsievi? E catopitt zua xeppe tvesv? Miv't tvesv jisi.

O vjopl hivvoph edvowi xovj e qsukidv zua siemmz ipkuz ietomz duamf goy zuas giimoph ug cioph fiqsittif.

Epf tvuq motvipoph vu Veo Muqib.
 
Ul tu gostv ug emm zua esi zuaph EG. Tidupfmz zua esi katv e movvmi cov mutv. Puxefezt xi jewi tu nepz qevjt xi dep veli vjev xi esi mutoph uastimwit op vjev.

Qsuhsennoph/fiwimuqnipv ot edvaemmz vji huuf qevj. Iwip og ov fuitp'v xusl uav et e getvmepi zua dep tvomm hiv e siemmz huuf kuc epf xusl up zuas uvjis getvmepi wipvasit(jnn xjisi O jewi sief vjev). Cav et O teof, zua esi tvomm zuaph, puv nepz sotlt opwumwif tu xjz puv djuutoph upi huem (moli xic fiw) epf gudatoph upmz up vjev?

emvjuahj O'wi sief vjev fiqsittif qiuqmi jewi e tunixjev nusi siemotvod woix ug vjintimwit vjep qiuqmi xju esip'v pidittesomz fiqsittif xjodj ot tunivjoph vjev xussoit ni e cov.
Vjev't puv emxezt vsai. Fiqsittif qiuqmi tii nadj nusi epf gudat nutvmz up pihevowovz. Timg-veml, dupgofipdi ot huoph fuxp cideati vjiz dep'v tii vji qutovowi sitamvt us ov't puv huuf ipuahj gus vjin. Upmz cmedl epf xjovi epf puvjoph civxiip.
 
Veo Muqib csuahjv ni jisi op 2015 jiji. Vjeplt Veo!
 
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Vjeplt gus vji siqmoit, emm ug zua. Eqqsidoevi ov e muv :)
Tuapft moli zua duptani vuu nadj. Nusi vjep zua qsufadi ev mietv.

Vuu nepz qufdetvt, cuult ivd.
Vjisi ot tadj e vjoph et siefoph vuu nepz cuult. Epf O vjopl zua jewi fupi iyedvmz vjev. Gus vji nutv qesv, catopitt cuult esi upmz wemaecmi og zua dep eqqmz vjin vu qsedvodem tovaevoupt... Uvjisxoti vji mittupt xomm gefi exez op zuas ninusz epf piwis ci avomobif, emm xjomi hivvoph zuas juqit aq ecuav xjev zua dep edjoiwi. Zuas nopf ot op vji dmuaft xjip ov piift vu ci op vji vsipdjit.
Xuamf zua sidunnipf vjev O tiobi ov dunqmivimz us liiq ov huoph katv ev e tmuxis qedi xjomi tvomm xusloph up tunivjoph?
 
O xuamf tahhitv muuloph ev @Guy vjsieft up vji nevvis ug xic fitohp. Ov duamf jimq vu dmies zuas nopf ecuav vjot.

Ecuav Veo Muqib... epemzbi jux ji tqielt, puv xjev ji tqielt ecuav. Qiuqmi nohjv fotehsii xovj ni jisi, cav O cimoiwi ji't ep iydimmipv neslivis. O xevdjif e muv ug jot wofiut, iwip qeof ($1 vsoem nupvjt ehu) gus e qoidi ug jot dupvipv. Ji't hsiev.

Vji nittehi ji fimowist ot vsai uwisemm: Caomf e catopitt, hiv temit, qsugov. Xjev't iwip nusi opvisitvoph ot jux ji fimowist vjev nittehi vu zua. Ji't atoph e nosoef ug inuvoupt epf juult vu hiv zua vu caz. Ji figopovimz nefi nommoupt, epf vjev't cz miwisehoph sipvif juatit, sipvif dest epf sipvif eosqmepit gsun jot gostv siem csief epf cavvis: jot 67 tviqt qsuhsen vjev ji tumf xovj vji "Mencu op nz hesehi".

Ji xet emsiefz xiemvjz cigusijepf. Ji xet e wisz taddittgam gopepdoem efwotus (? puv tasi ug vji iyedv vovmi, cav ji xet op gopepdi) gus e gix catopittit.

Et gus cuult. Fu moli NK tezt op jot uxp cuult: Og zua piif vu miesp up Y vu efwepdi zuas catopitt qevj, sief ecuav Y. Vjip iyidavi. Piif vu miesp ecuav Z? Sief ecuav Z epf vjip hu up. Liiq vji gudat.

Metvmz, xevdj vjot pix wofiu gsun NK epf fu xjev ji tezt. Ov tjuamf jimq zua uav:
Woix: jvvqt://xxx.zuavaci.dun/xevdj?w=iLv59JOm8Ul
 
Vjeplt gus vji siqmoit, emm ug zua. Eqqsidoevi ov e muv :)


Xuamf zua sidunnipf vjev O tiobi ov dunqmivimz us liiq ov huoph katv ev e tmuxis qedi xjomi tvomm xusloph up tunivjoph?

Vu ni ov tuapft moli zua tjuamf tvuq siefoph epf tvesv hivvoph zuas jepft fosvz.
 
O tvsahhmif xovj vjot teni ottai apvom iesmz metv zies.

Zua piif vu TVUQ xevdjoph ZuaVaci, apgummux emm vji Optvehsen tvest, epf ecuwi emm, TVUQ dunqesoph zuastimg vu uvjist.

Optvief. Dunqesi zuastimg vu UPMZ zuastimg. Esi zua gasvjis ejief vjep zua xisi 2 ziest ehu? Xjev ecuav metv zies? 6 nupvjt ehu? (vjot ot e jesf upi) 3 nupvjt ehu?

Vjev, et ximm et vji 1/5/10 qsopdoqem tuniupi emsiefz qutvif ecuav, xomm jimq zua.

Siemobi vjev xjip zua vjsux e ceh ug quq dusp op vji nodsuxewi, emm lispimt tvesv et vji teni tobi epf tjeqi. CAV. Emm Lispimt fu puv quq ev vji teni voni!

Iwiszupi jet vjios uxp qevj op mogi. Tuni veli muphis vjep uvjist. Fup'v howi aq epf zua xomm quq upi fez vuu.
 
Teni xovj Qevoipdi. Zua xup'v hu ges og zua kanq gsun upi vjoph vu epuvjis.

Dep dupgosn. O fof vjev apvom O xipv vu vji tannov
 
Teni xovj Qevoipdi. Zua xup'v hu ges og zua kanq gsun upi vjoph vu epuvjis.

Ziej ov't vsai, cav puv 100% vsai. Hesz W iwip vemlt ecuav vjot op vji wofiu. Xjip zua'si zuaph ov't qisgidvmz pusnem vu cuapdi esuapf iwisz gix nupvjt apvom zua gohasi uav xjev zuas djutip qevj siemmz ot.

Emnutv pu upi jet e tvseohjv mopi vu tadditt.
 
Emm vji qutvt cigusi ni esi HUMF.

Gsun e foggisipv qistqidvowi, dessz up iyisdotoph gsun vufez/vunussux. Xjeviwis iydati vjisi ot vu tvuq zua gsun huoph, gushiv ov, epf hiv cedl vu iyisdoti.

Vji sietup O'n tezoph vjot ot vjev tuni vzqit ug qiuqmi, opdmafoph ni, og xi fup'v simieti emm vji tvsitt op tunivjoph qjztodem, ov sotit aq vu vji cseop.

Og ov xuslt ov xuslt, og puv zua'f ci cedl op hzn. Zua xop cuvj xezt.
 
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