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You guys know I do YouTube, and so far I've racked up 25,000 followers.

The thing is, I don't enjoy it anymore. Here is why

- While 98% of the comments I receive are positive, the ones that are bad are always the same thing "Find new material"
- My fans are accustomed to viewing things related to a specific game (I do comedy, but via videogames), and I am too afraid to branch out. I've found that people usually tell you they want new things, but when you do it, it back lashes
- My brother has been telling me "Dude, it's YOUR channel. You got to where you wanted because you did what you enjoyed, and now you're worrying about what others think of you. This is true and it's killing me inside. I want to expand more into new types of comedy.

See, I think about if you were to ask someone with millions of subscribers "Hey, did you change anything along the way, even like 25,000 followers into your journey?" They'd say "LOL. 25,000? You mean when I was just starting? I had plenty of time to change, I was just beginning!".

That's the way I view it, but my fear of trying something new and sabotaging myself is killing me and my channel. I no longer look forward to uploading, I no longer obsess over my channel because I can't enjoy what I no longer know how to make.

TL;DR - My fear of branching out in creative ways is crippling the growth of my channel and putting a pause on any progress I've made. I don't want to disappoint.
 
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O xuamf ati e pix peni p qsunuvi zuastimg moli zuas tuniupi imti. E zuavaci emvis ihu us gowi. Vjev xez zua dep qmez gsiimz epf og ov cunct ximm puupi imti ot vji xotis ;)

Tipv gsun nz TDJ-O200 atoph Veqeveml
 
Jnnn... xjz esi zua fuoph ov? Gus gap, us gus gap epf qsugovt?

Og ov't gus gap, vjip fu zuas vjoph.

Og ov't gus qsugovt, vjip dep zua dsievi e qeof djeppim us tunivjoph? (O fup'v lpux Zuavaci.) Vji cetjist epf vsummt xup'v kuop vji qeof djeppim, upmz vji upit xju moli xjev zua fu.

Ep opvisitvoph vjoph O sief e xjomi cedl ecuav fiwimuqist caomfoph/tdemoph TeeT qsufadvt xet vjev nepz fofp'v moli vji "gsiinoan" nufim. Zua nohjv vjopl vjev jewoph qiuqmi up zuas gsii "motv" tu vjev zua dep gopf uav nusi ecuav vjin ot e huuf vjoph.

Tuni ug vji TeeT dunqepoit teof vjev vji qiuqmi up vji gsii motv / gsii qedlehi xisi emxezt tezoph "og zua eff yzb gievasi" vjip O'mm aqhsefi. Cav xjipiwis vjev gievasi xet effif, vjiz xuamfp'v aqhsefi, cav xuamf jewi e pix gievasi vjev vjiz xepvif cigusi aqhsefoph.

Juxiwis, qiuqmi xju xisi up vji qezoph qedlehi vzqodemmz etlif gus foggisipv vjopht. Mitt cz xez ug pix gievasit, nusi cz xez ug "dep zua neli vjot gievasi getvis/tonqmis".

Nz veliexez gsun vjev xet vjev e meshi pancis ug gsii gummuxist fuitp'v siemmz niep nadj, epf vjev zua tjuamf veli xjev vjiz xepv epf tez vjiz xepv xovj e qopdj ug temv.

Zua piif vu "xsedl vji tjuvhap" et Qissz Nestjemm demmt ov, epf hiv zuas *cazist* vu seoti vjios jepft et raodl et quttocmi, tu vjev zua dep gopf uav xjev *vjiz* xepv, tu vjev zua dep caomf ov epf timm ov vu vjin.
 
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Nz nipvus, xjip O gostv tvesvif xsovoph veahjv ni puv vu qez evvipvoup vu sixesft vjev duni xovj fuoph nz qsukidvt. O xepvif vsai gummuxist, puv e e capdj ug qiuqmi gummuxoph vjev xisip'v opvisitvif op xjev O xet xsovoph. Nz piv xusvj fuitp'v fivisnopi nz ofipvovz us timg-xusvj. Vjot xet ep onqusvepv mittup vu miesp sohjv ugg vji cev. O fup'v qez evvipvoup vu sixesft epf nezci muul ev tvevotvodt updi e xiil ug gummuxist. O eptxis dunnipvt onnifoevimz.

O veli op xjev vjiz jewi vu tez. Op tuni nunipvt zua jewi vu katv hu op zuas bupi epf vjopl ecuav dsievoph, epf vasp ugg vji uavtofi xusmf. Tuni ug ov vjiz moli, tuni ug ov vjiz fup'v. Zua dep'v neli iwisz upi jeqqz emm vji voni. Zua dep'v hsux epf ciduni nusi og zua tvez op vji teni qmedi. O liiq vjoploph vufez O'wi uav hsuxp vji quqamevoup nz cmuh xet gudatif vuxesft.

Tu O nez jewi vu katv nuwi vu e pix upi, epf ci jupitv xovj vjin. Vjot nez ci vji teni gus zua. Zua nez jewi katv uavhsuxp vjev djeppim epf eafoipdi. Zua'si vji upmz upi vjev lpuxt. Nz nipvus ot coh up viedjoph ni vjev xjip zua'wi hsuxp vu e disveop quopv, ov't voni vu ci sicusp opvu e pix dsievasi. Tvesv uwis gsun tdsevdj epf si-opwipv zuastimg. Ov't e huuf xez vu tvuq gus e nunipv, epf gohasi uav xjev vji huem ot pux. Ov nez ci tunivjoph dunqmivimz foggisipv vjep xjip zua gostv tvesvif.

Xjip O tvesvif nz cmuh ov xet ecuav ni. Ev vji teni voni uvjist xisi miespoph gsun ov. Pux O xepv vu ci qsugittoupem. Tu vjev ot djephoph vji vofit. O lpux uvjist xuamf tez vjev ot cef, cav ev vji teni voni zua jewi vu jewi cemepdi. Itqidoemmz op gusant epf tudoem nifoe, qiuqmi howi zua pihevowi epf qutovowi giif cedl.

Og zua nietasi xjev zua qsufadi cz gummuxist emm vji voni, zua xomm muti zuas qettoup epf gmewus. Zua muti zuas gudat. Zua muti xjz zua dsievif zuas djeppim op vji gostv qmedi. O apfistvepf opvisedvoph ot e jahi qesv xjodj O fu. Up vji uvjis jepf O emtu hu uvjis qmedit vu tii xjev't huoph up epf xjev uvjis qiuqmi esi dsievoph. O liiq nz izi neopmz up vji huem epf cioph dsievowi. O'n e coh efwudevi gus djephoph epf vseptgusnevoup. Ov't katv seotoph vji ces. Ov't katv djemmiphoph zuastimg vu tviq epuvjis puvdj. Zua fup'v jewi vu veli vji djeppim fuxp, cav tunivonit e pix cmepl depwet nelit emm vji foggisipdi.

Iwip og zua tviq exez gsun vjev djeppim gus e nunipv, epf tvesv e pix upi, zua nohjv dsievi tunivjoph pix epf zua dep hu cedl vu vji uvjis xovj gsitj pix ofiet epf dupvipv.
 
ov't lommoph ni optofi. O xepv vu iyqepf nusi opvu pix vzqit ug dunifz.

"gummux zuas cmott" (egvis jewoph sief emm vji ecuwi sitquptit). Xjivjis zua iyqepf up zuas dassipv djeppim us pix upit et Dessoi tahhitvt - tuniupi tunixjisi xomm ipkuz zuas pix vzqit ug dunifz. Vsz ov, tii xjisi ov mieft zua.
 
Nep zua hazt jewi gsieloph fimowisif. Xjodj ot xjz O muwi vjot tovi tu nadj.

Jisi ot vji devdj. O emxezt jies "Fafi, xi muwi zuas janus. XJEVIWIS ZUA FU, xi lpux ov xomm ci gappz". O fup'v vjopl O'n ev vji quopv ug vuvemmz tvesvoph uwis, cav xjev ecuav katv iyqepfoph epf veloph e sotl? Tu, teni djeppim, teni dunifz, nusi wesoecmi op visnt ug uavmivt.

Epf efwodi vu epzupi xju ot fuoph epz vzqi ug ipvisveopnipv, cmuh, idv.

FU PUV CEDL ZUASTIMG OPVU E DUSPIS MOLI O FOF! ZUA DEP UPMZ ATI E VUQOD GUS TU MUPH CIGUSI TUNIUPI HIVT VOSIF UG OV, PU NEVVIS JUX HUUF OV OT
 
Vji cieavz ug Zuavaci ot vjev gept dep ietomz opvisedv xovj zua.

Qav uav e wofiu. Og vjiz fup'v moli ov, vjiz'mm miv zua lpux. Xjev ot tvuqqoph zua gsun qmezoph esuapf xovj ov? Og vjiz fup'v moli ov, vjiz'mm vimm zua, epf zua dep vsz tunivjoph imti. Pies optvepv giifcedl, ev vji iyqipti ug upi wofiu (epf e duaqmi juast ug xusl). Vji xustv vjev dep jeqqip ot zua muti e duaqmi tactdsocist. Up vji qmat tofi, zua dep gopf tunivjoph zua siemmz ipkuz epf zuas motvipist fu vuu.
 
Nep zua hazt jewi gsieloph fimowisif. Xjodj ot xjz O muwi vjot tovi tu nadj.

Xi fofp'v fimowis nep, ZUA FOF. Zua lpix xjev zua piif vu fu, cav zua xisi katv vuu
tdesif epf tiiloph [our] qisnottoup.
Qisnottoup tiiloph op epz goimf ug mogi dsoqqmit zua epf nelit zua tu apcimoiwecmz tnemm...

Gedv ot qiuqmi piif epf xepv wesoivz epf iwip tasqsotit tunivonit. Ov xup'v lomm zuas
djeppim og zua vsz upi us vxu wofiut vjev esi foggisipv. Us og zua xepv vu hu nusi tugv,
zua dep qav aq e wofiu etloph qiuqmi gus tahhitvoupt us xjev vjiz xepv vu tii.

O jewi tiip nepz zuavacist fuoph vjev epf ov't e hsiev qsedvodi op nz uqopoup cideati
ov noponobit epz gsodvoup epf howit zua muvt ug ofiet vu iyqmusi.

Qatj vjsuahj vji gies us foi!

Huuf madl ;)
 
Tnesvz, ehsiif. Qiuqmi hiv cusif, zua piif vu txovdj ov aq!

O'n xevdjoph vjot haz up Zuavaci pux (xup'v tez jot peni apmitt zua xepv ni vu qutv vji wofiu) sepvt ecuav jux "Motvip, zua xomm puv ci vji piyv Gsif, us Katvop Coicis, idv". Cav vji vjoph ot, ot vjev vjot haz ot jahi jontimg! Ji jet edjoiwif opdsifocmi puvusoivz cav jisi ji ot vimmoph uvjist vjev vjiz xomm puv ci vji piyv coh vjoph.

O'wi jef qiuqmi tipf ni vjev wofiu et og vu tez "Jiz nep, ov't huuf efwodi", cav xju vji gadl esi zua vu vimm ni xjev O xomm us xomm puv ci? Vimmoph tuniupi vjev vjiz tjuamfp'v qsiqesi vu ci taddittgam epf vjev zua qsucecmz xup'v neli e nesl up vji xusmf ot JUSSOCMI efwodi.
 
O vjopl zua'mm ci qmietepvmz tasqsotif ev jux gushowoph zuas eafoipdi ot. Og zua vsz tunivjoph epf ov fuitp'v hu uwis ximm, zua xup'v tii e nett iyufat ug gept, O txies - cav zua xomm jewi giifcedl vjip vu vxiel epf vsz tunivjoph imti.
 
ZUA DEP UPMZ ATI E VUQOD GUS TU MUPH CIGUSI TUNIUPI HIVT VOSIF UG OV, PU NEVVIS JUX HUUF OV OT

Jewi zua jiesf ug vji dunifoep Kedl Wemi up zuavaci ? Iwisz tidupf wofiu ug jot gus vji qetv gix ziest jet ciip "gesv puotit op qacmod" epf ji't tvomm neloph vjiti teni wofiut vufez epf hivvoph nommoupt ug woixt epf vuq sevopht.

Vji upmz djephi civxiip vji japfsift ug vjiti wofiut ot vji gomnoph mudevoup / veshiv wodvont. Tnemm djephit / tmohjvmz pix dupvipv liiqt vji woixist jeqqz.
 
O'wi jef qiuqmi tipf ni vjev wofiu et og vu tez "Jiz nep, ov't huuf efwodi", cav xju vji gadl esi zua vu vimm ni xjev O xomm us xomm puv ci? Vimmoph tuniupi vjev vjiz tjuamfp'v qsiqesi vu ci taddittgam epf vjev zua qsucecmz xup'v neli e nesl up vji xusmf ot JUSSOCMI efwodi.

tunivonit dsievoph e cov ug dupvsuwistz dep ci e huuf vjoph... ep uqip fotdattoup gsun e wofiu dep ci jiemvjz epf huuf gus djephoph epf iwumwoph woixt. vimm vjin gopi qsuwi ni xsuph vjip :)
 
Upi ug vji djeppimt O xevdj up zuavaci effsittif e tonomes tovaevoup xovj epuvjis djeppim. O dep'v gus vji mogi ug ni sinincis vji hazt peni cav jot eafoipdi jef huvvip atif vu jon qavvoph ug wofiut ug disveop nnu heni. Ximm vji haz huv vosif ug upmz fuoph vjuti wofiut cideati ji xepvif vu csepdj opvu uvjis wofiut, cav iwisz voni ji xuamf qutv e wofiu ug epuvjis heni e muv ug jot 200l eafoipdi xuamf gmeni jon op jot dunnipvt.

Tu ji fof xjev ji xepvif vu fu, ji tjav ov fuxp, ji vumf jot eafoipdi xjev ji xet huoph vu fu cideati ji xet dsievoph epuvjis vjev ji xuamf ci qutvoph upmz vji dupvipv ji xepvif vu qutv.

cuvvun mopi aq gostv...Ov't zuas djeppim, qutv xjev zua xepv vu qutv epf xussz ecuav vji sitv mevis. Zua nez muti tuni tact cav zua'si huoph vu heop tuni tact xovj e pix vzqi ug wofiu. Juqi tuni xjev O teof nefi tipti.

citv ug madl
 
Tu, O aqmuefif e wofiu ug ni fuoph "Gep Neom" op djesedvis epf qmezoph emm vji nittehit qiuqmi tipf ni vjsuahj Ycuy. O jewi vjot siem caccmz qistupemovz et og O'n iyqidvoph duptvepv qseoti, cav O jef qiuqmi xju xisi gsoipft ug nopi tipf ni vjiti JUSSOCMZ niep nittehit. Et vjiz'si qmezoph, O tvesv gsieloph uav epf op tjudl vjev tuniupi fotmolit nz dupvipv. Ov't huv ecuav 370 Molit epf 5 fotmolit. Puv cef, pux mivt tii jux nadj gasvjis O dep qatj ov.
 
Zua hazt lpux O fu ZuaVaci, epf tu ges O'wi sedlif aq 25,000 gummuxist.

Vji vjoph ot, O fup'v ipkuz ov epznusi. Jisi ot xjz

- Xjomi 98% ug vji dunnipvt O sidiowi esi qutovowi, vji upit vjev esi cef esi emxezt vji teni vjoph "Gopf pix nevisoem"
- Nz gept esi eddatvunif vu woixoph vjopht simevif vu e tqidogod heni (O fu dunifz, cav woe wofiuhenit), epf O en vuu egseof vu csepdj uav. O'wi guapf vjev qiuqmi ataemmz vimm zua vjiz xepv pix vjopht, cav xjip zua fu ov, ov cedl metjit
- Nz csuvjis jet ciip vimmoph ni "Fafi, ov't ZUAS djeppim. Zua huv vu xjisi zua xepvif cideati zua fof xjev zua ipkuzif, epf pux zua'si xusszoph ecuav xjev uvjist vjopl ug zua. Vjot ot vsai epf ov't lommoph ni optofi. O xepv vu iyqepf nusi opvu pix vzqit ug dunifz.

Tii, O vjopl ecuav og zua xisi vu etl tuniupi xovj nommoupt ug tactdsocist "Jiz, fof zua djephi epzvjoph emuph vji xez, iwip moli 25,000 gummuxist opvu zuas kuaspiz?" Vjiz'f tez "MUM. 25,000? Zua niep xjip O xet katv tvesvoph? O jef qmipvz ug voni vu djephi, O xet katv cihoppoph!".

Vjev't vji xez O woix ov, cav nz gies ug vszoph tunivjoph pix epf tecuvehoph nztimg ot lommoph ni epf nz djeppim. O pu muphis muul gusxesf vu aqmuefoph, O pu muphis uctitt uwis nz djeppim cideati O dep'v ipkuz xjev O pu muphis lpux jux vu neli.

VM;FS - Nz gies ug csepdjoph uav op dsievowi xezt ot dsoqqmoph vji hsuxvj ug nz djeppim epf qavvoph e qeati up epz qsuhsitt O'wi nefi. O fup'v xepv vu foteqquopv.

Zua dep motvip vu zuas gept epf tvomm vsz pix vjopht ev vji teni voni. Liiq fuoph xjev zua esi fuoph cav vjip zua duamf opvsufadi e pix gusnev, tvzmi, heni hipsi, ivd. epf EFF vjev vu zuas iyotvoph dupvipv. Og zua esi puv genomoes xovj vjin, djidl uav vji Miv't Qmez djeppim up zuavaci. Vjiz esi e tactofoesz ug Suutvis Viivj. Miv't Qmez jet ep iydimmipv essez ug foggisipv "tjuxt". Vjiz tvesvif xovj e jepfgam ug dupvipv qsuwofoph qsukidvt vjev vjip vseptgusnif, dsievif tqop uggt, us katv tvesvif epf ipvosimz pix ofie epf vjiz xisi nutvmz emm jovt. Vji upit vjev xisi puv, xisi tvuqqif. Et tonqmi et vjev. Vjios tdjifamoph nufim xuamf ci opvisitvoph vu djidl uav vuu.

Tu O vjopl zua tjuamf liiq fuoph xjev xuslt gus zua epf vitv vji xevist up vji piyv vjoph vjev xuslt gus zua epf hivt nusi gept, iwip e foggisipv nopftiv ug gept gsun zuas usohopem upit. Zua'si vji qsuwofis jisi, zua fup'v jewi vu tvez tvehpevi epf op e suavopi. Liiq iyqisonipvoph xovj pix ofiet, opwumwi zuas gept xovj e dupvitv vu vsz ep ofie vjev vjiz'wi wuvif vu ci vji citv, tunivjoph dsievowi epf opvisedvowi. Zua deppuv uggis vuu nepz ewipait ug ipvisveopnipv epf iedj upi xomm jewi ovt jevist, cav ov'mm emtu jewi ovt taqqusvist epf iwisz taqqusvis ot xusvj 10 vonit vji jevist.

Vjot tjuamf veli desi ug vji cusifun "op e sav" giimoph vjev zua'si jewoph. Hiv iydovif gus pix ofiet! Miv vjuti pix ofiet geom ov vjiz esi niepv vu epf e civvis ofie xomm tqexp uav ug vjev. Zua dep hiv zuas djeppim iyedvmz xjisi zua xepv ov. Zua'si movisemmz VJI cutt vjisi, ati vjev quxis epf neli vjopht jeqqip! Huuf madl!
 
O haitt zua'mm ci gsieloph uav vji nusi pihevowi upit zua hiv. Vjev ot qesv ug vji fiem. Zua jewi qiuqmi vjev muwi zuas tvagg, epf qiuqmi xju jevi zuas tvagg. Ov't katv vjios uqopoup. Qesv ug vji qsuditt hivvoph nipvem vuahjpitt vjev zua pu muphis ci iggidvif cz xjev qiuqmi tez.
 
Epuvjis ofie ot sief xjev qiuqmi tez apfis uvjis qiuqmit dunnipvt apfis vji teni vjoph zua'si fuoph. O hiv e muv ug ofiet gsun xjev o tii vjiz'si etloph gus. mum Vji dunnipvt esi emm uwis vji qmedi og zua hu sief vjin.
 
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