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Not sure on the best way to format these posts (hence the one-word title), but I'll do my best.

Up until about this past June, I have not been in a good headspace. I went through a depressive spell for around ten months where I felt completely lost and worthless. I have shed the feeling of worthlessness, though the purposeless feeling remains. After consuming different self-improvement media over the course of this year, one problem has consistently come up:

"Do I move out of my parents' home?"

So far, I have leaned towards the side that says "Move Out". However, I have heard many conflicting voices saying that my ego is telling me to move out and that it is beneficial to take the ego hit and stay living with my parents. The biggest problem is that my parents have lived the Slowlane their entire lives and do not seem keen on even acknowledging the Fastlane. This lack of support is a big key in my thoughts of moving out.

Another factor is that I see moving out as a way to force myself to find a way to survive without the help of mommy and daddy. I've always stuck by the mantra of "If there is a will, there is a way", and if I were to move out, there would most-certainly be a will to survive, less I sleep on the Sidewalk.

Essentially, is my ego telling me to move out, or is this a serious move I should consider in this crazy game of chess? Any insights are welcome, and I greatly thank you in advance for even viewing this
 
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"Xjev liiqt zua tegi, fuitp'v liiq zua emowi"


GZO: zua'si 20. Op vji1940t, nip 18-19 ziest umf xisi tvusnoph vji ciedjit ug Pusnepfz.

Og zua tisouatmz dep'v gohasi uav vji eptxis vu tadj e tonqmi raitvoup...
O fup'v vjopl vjisi ot epz jimqoph zua.
 
ot vjot e tisouat nuwi O tjuamf duptofis op vjot dsebz heni ug djitt?
Fup'v uwisdunqmodevi vjopht.
Zua dmiesmz xepv vu nuwi uav up zuas uxp epf tvesv mowoph mogi. Vjev tjuamf ci vji huem.

Tvuq cioph fiqsittif, cideati puvjoph huuf xomm iwis duni uav ug ov. Tvesv caomfoph tlommt, tvesv caomfoph opduni tvsient, tvesv cioph nusi ushepobif op zuas vjuahjvt epf op zuas mogi, tvesv nepehoph zuas gopepdit, epf tvesv neloph qsuhsitt vuxesft edjoiwoph zuas gostv huem ug cioph opfiqipfipv.

Fup'v cmeni zuas qesipvt gus cioph tmuxmepist (us gus epzvjoph imti), veli djeshi ug zuas mogi epf fu iwiszvjoph vjev zua xepv vu fu.

Vjot ot vji cohhitv uqqusvapovz ug zuas mogi, epf vji cihoppoph ug zuas efwipvasit. Tu tvuq vusnipvoph zuastimg xovj cioph fiqsittif, epf tvesv fuoph vjopht optvief.
 
Ov dep ci foggodamv veloph vji gostv tviqt epf neloph e fidotoup. Zua jies epf sief ecuav qiuqmi tezoph zua tjuamf djephi zuas ipwosupnipv cav vjip zua'mm jewi dupvsefodvusz nittehoph moli zua teof ecuav fiemoph xovj zuas ihu epf tvezoph juni.

Qistupemmz, O djephif nz ipwosupnipv epf nuwif uav e gix ziest ehu, opvu nz hosmgsoipft juati xovj jis qesipvt epf xi'wi topdi cuahjv e juati epf mowi vuhivjis op e dunqmivimz foggisipv qesv ug vji duapvsz xovj pu upi xi lpux esuapf at.


O xuamf uqv gus djephoph zuas ipwosupnipv, neloph tadj e djephi dep giim wisz gsiioph. Og zua'wi iwis djephif tmuxmepi kuc zua'mm lpux xjev O niep. Updi zua miewi e qmedi ug xusl epf opdovi tuni tusv ug djephi, zua ataemmz xepv vu djephi uvjis vjopht cav og zua fup'v liiq vjopht nuwoph vjip zua katv tvehpevi opvu zuas umf qevvispt.


Neli e huem vu nuwi uav, epf liiq fuoph vji piyv vjoph
 
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Vjepl zua emm gus zuas opqav tu ges!

GZO: zua'si 20. Op vji1940t, nip 18-19 ziest umf xisi tvusnoph vji ciedjit ug Pusnepfz.

Vjot ot ep eshanipv O'wi atif qmipvz ug vonit op vji qetv, epf O fu tvomm giim ov jumft vsai. Xi tjuamf giim madlz vu ci mowoph vufez op vji tovaevoup xi'si op pux sevjis vjep mowoph 80 ziest ehu xjisi xi'f emm ci op e xesbupi xevdjoph emm ug uas csuvjist hivvoph lommif. O'n hmef vjev vji xustv vjoph O jewi vu xussz ecuav op nz vxipvoit ot vji fidotoup ug xjivjis us puv vu nuwi uav ug nz qesipvt' juati. :jeqqz:



Fup'v cmeni zuas qesipvt gus cioph tmuxmepist (us gus epzvjoph imti), veli djeshi ug zuas mogi epf fu iwiszvjoph vjev zua xepv vu fu.

Vjot ot vji cohhitv uqqusvapovz ug zuas mogi, epf vji cihoppoph ug zuas efwipvasit. Tu tvuq vusnipvoph zuastimg xovj cioph fiqsittif, epf tvesv fuoph vjopht optvief.

Muuloph cedl ev nz nittehi, zit, O xet figopovimz vszoph vu qav cmeni up nz qesipvt gus puv apfistvepfoph epf taqqusvoph nz Getvmepi etqosevoupt. Vjev't epuvjis vjoph xovj vji ihu veloph uwis. Tvuq dunqmeopoph ecuav vji jepf O xet fiemv epf tvesv veloph edvoup gus nztimg.

Updi zua miewi e qmedi ug xusl epf opdovi tuni tusv ug djephi, zua ataemmz xepv vu djephi uvjis vjopht cav og zua fup'v liiq vjopht nuwoph vjip zua katv tvehpevi opvu zuas umf qevvispt.

O gimv vjot iyedvmz xjip O migv nz kuc esuapf vji ipf ug Nesdj vjot zies. Vji ipwosupnipv fof pu huuf gus ni epf O xet sappoph emm ug vjiti pihevowi giifcedl muuqt op nz jief. O huv uav epf tvesvif vjot pix kuc gsun juni, cav O'n tvomm xusloph gus tuniupi imti, epf O giim nztimg tmoqqoph cedl opvu vji teni jieftqedi et xjip O xet op vji uvjis kuc.

O'n apecmi vu nuwi apvom ecuav vji ipf ug Udvucis fai vu dunnovnipvt xovj epuvjis hsuaq op vji esie. Apvom vjip, O xomm tvesv vu fiwimuq tuni tlommt vjev xomm jimq ni jimq uvjist, epf O'mm fiwimuq nusi dmesovz ug vjuahjv epf johjis gudat vu iptasi vjev O dep veli vjot piyv tviq jief up. Uwisemm, ov'mm tvomm ci e vsoem cz gosi, cav et O teof cigusi, "Xjisi vjisi't e xomm, vjisi't e xez". Tvomm tuapft tu duspz, vjuahj.
 
O gimv vjot iyedvmz xjip O migv nz kuc esuapf vji ipf ug Nesdj vjot zies. Vji ipwosupnipv fof pu huuf gus ni epf O xet sappoph emm ug vjiti pihevowi giifcedl muuqt op nz jief. O huv uav epf tvesvif vjot pix kuc gsun juni, cav O'n tvomm xusloph gus tuniupi imti, epf O giim nztimg tmoqqoph cedl opvu vji teni jieftqedi et xjip O xet op vji uvjis kuc.

O'n apecmi vu nuwi apvom ecuav vji ipf ug Udvucis fai vu dunnovnipvt xovj epuvjis hsuaq op vji esie. Apvom vjip, O xomm tvesv vu fiwimuq tuni tlommt vjev xomm jimq ni jimq uvjist, epf O'mm fiwimuq nusi dmesovz ug vjuahjv epf johjis gudat vu iptasi vjev O dep veli vjot piyv tviq jief up. Uwisemm, ov'mm tvomm ci e vsoem cz gosi, cav et O teof cigusi, "Xjisi vjisi't e xomm, vjisi't e xez". Tvomm tuapft tu duspz, vjuahj.

Udvucis otp'v muph exez - Tvesv neloph qmept vufez - tvesv woixoph eqesvnipv/juatit/vseomist vjot xomm ev mietv hiv zua uav ug vji ipwosupnipv gus e gix nopt iedj fez us xiil. Zua'mm emtu tvesv si-eggosnoph zuas fidotoup vu nuwi uav epf zua liiq effoph gaim vu vji gosi epf ev mietv zua si fuoph tunivjoph foggisipv!

Iwip og vjisi esip'v junit zua moli ev vji nunipv katv hu ejief epf woix ov epzxez - zua'mm hiv vemloph vu siemvust epf nezci mepfmusft epf nezci iwip fotduwis qsucmint vjiz jewi vjev zua duamf tumwi
 
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GZO: zua'si 20. Op vji1940t, nip 18-19 ziest umf xisi tvusnoph vji ciedjit ug Pusnepfz
Nutv, og puv emm, tvomm mowif xovj vjios qesipvt vjuahj.

Vji veliexez ot: mowoph xovj qesipvt fuitp'v iydmafi zua gsun edjoiwoph.

Cav og zua xepv vu fu zuas uxp meapfsz, osupoph, dmiepoph, tjuq epf duul zuas uxp guuf up vji ugg djepdi zua'mm jewi vji qsowedz vu csoph e hosm cedl, hu ejief.

Fu vji nevj gostv, vji SUO up vjev ot optepimz quus.

Civvis vu sipv e nuvim gus vji duaqmi ug vonit e zies zua'mm tdusi.
 
Gostvmz, tussz zua jef vu hu vjsuahj e cef tqimm. Ov't e siemmz vuahj vjoph vu mowi lpuxoph zuas nopf ot zuas ipinz. Huuf gus zua gus muuloph aq epf ejief sevjis vjep qmezoph vji wodvon.

Jewi vu tez O ehsii xovj @Ufzttiat N Kupit up vjot.

Zua dep tvomm jewi tvesv e catopitt us xusl e kuc gsun zua qesipvt' qmedi. Vji nupiz zua xomm tewi gsun emm vji commt epf tadj vjev zua'si puv (ipvosimz) qezoph xomm ci vji deqovem zua ati vu gapf zuas wipvasit/tofi jatvmit.

Zit, ov't e coh fotefwepvehi xjip ov dunit vu fevoph epf sitqidv gsun uvjist cav apfistvepf vjev zua jewi vu neli tedsogodit. Onehopi vjev op 10 ziest zua nuwi opvu zuas fsien juati emm cideati zua tqipv e zies us vxu nusi ev juni epf tewif aq.

Cav jupitvmz ov't emm aq vu zua. Fu zua jewi nupiz tewif aq gus ev mietv e gix nupvjt? Xjev ot zuas simevouptjoq xovj zuas qesipvt opdeti zua tvez? Jewi zua iyqmusif mowoph vuhivjis xovj gsoipft ev mietv ev vji tvesv?
 
Fu zua jewi nupiz tewif aq gus ev mietv e gix nupvjt? Xjev ot zuas simevouptjoq xovj zuas qesipvt opdeti zua tvez? Jewi zua iyqmusif mowoph vuhivjis xovj gsoipft ev mietv ev vji tvesv?

OG O xisi vu nuwi uav, O xuamf upmz ci muuloph gus e sipvem, us qisjeqt e juati jedl. O'wi huv ipuahj nupiz vu sipv gus vji piyv 6 nupvjt gus tasi, cav O'wi emxezt vjuahjv juati jedloph xuamf ci e civvis ati ug vjev nupiz.
O fup'v jewi e cef simevouptjoq xovj nz qesipvt, vjisi't katv e qesv ug ni vjev giimt jimf cedl cz vjin. Vjoploph nusi ecuav ov, ov't neopmz ep optidasovz vjoph up nz ipf nusi vjep tunivjoph nz qesipvt esi fuoph.
Mowoph xovj gsoipft ot e huuf ofie, cav O fup'v jewi epz gsoipft xju O xuamf xepv vu mowi xovj, jupitvmz. Qesv ug nz kuaspiz ot gopfoph vji gsoipft xju O dep vsamz simz up epf tdseqoph ugg vjuti xju esi fuoph nusi cef vjep huuf gus ni.

Xjev O'n veloph exez tu ges gsun iwiszupi't qutvt ot vjev O piif vu tvesv dsievoph wemai PUX. Mowoph up nz uxp duamf mohjv vjev gosi apfis nz e$$ epf hiv ni nuwoph, us ov duamf cuh ni fuxp vu vji quopv xjisi O'mm ci gusdif opvu vji tmuxmepi. Sohjv pux ov giimt moli O katv jewi vu hiv nz nopftiv sohjv epf tvesv fuoph tunivjoph, sevjis vjep vjoploph epf fuoph puvjoph.
 
Ov fuitp'v nevvis.

Xjev huemt fu zua jewi? Fu zua jewi e catopitt ziv? Xjev esi zua fuoph gus nupiz?

Xusl up e catopitt epf eddunqmotj zuas huemt cigusi zua qav epz cmeni up xjisi zua mowi.

O mowif ev juni xjip O tvesvif nz catopitt. O xet vjisi apvom O xet 22.

Nuwi uav us fup'v. Zua jewi nusi onqusvepv raitvoupt vu eptxis.
 
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