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The government pays for my education. I am the example MJ DeMarco talks about in his book.
"A Fastlane Forum user had an opportunity to pursue an MBA and he asked if it was worth it.
My answer typically would be no, but this scenario was different. First, the MBA had no money cost, only time cost, as the government was paying for it. Second, this gentleman espoused the Fastlane ideology so his purpose was not intrinsic value elevation, but expansion of his knowledge to facilitate a Fastlane system. I voted yes."


I am living on my own right now. My family is very dysfunctional and is a bad influence, a "headwind" as MJ DeMarco would call it. I decided to move away, to get better influences and to get some more responsibility. No more wasting time travelling either.

“If you
hang out with dogs, you get fleas.”


Problem is: I can't pay the rent anymore.

So I am borrowing money, and if I continue to do this, I would have a 20000 euro debt at graduation. Just 19 year old btw.

What whould you guys do?
I could get a job to pay my rent, but I would trade my most valuable asset "time" for a little bit of money.
 
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O xuamf vsz vu hiv e kuc op ep opfatvsz zua'si opvisitvif op qastaoph mevis xovj zuas uxp getvmepi catopitt us ev vji wisz mietv e kuc vjev dep viedj zua tunivjoph wemaecmi. Temit, neslivoph, xic fitohp, ivd. E kuc fuit puv emxezt jewi vu ci e jiefxopf, ov dep qsuwofi zua xovj ifadevoup epf iyqisoipdi vjev esi ev vonit hsievis vjep xjev zua miesp ev tdjuum cideati zua'si miespoph cz fuoph optvief ug katv siefoph. Gopotjoph zuas NCE xovj e muv ug ficv dep jopfis zuas qastaov ug e getvmepi catopitt qutv hsefaevoup. O'wi tiip ov jeqqip vu e muv ug nz gsoipft, vjiz tqipf ziest xusloph vu qez ugg vjios tvafipv muept egvis vjiz hsefaevi, ov't siemmz e raitvoup ug fu zua xepv vu xusl pux vu ewuof ficv us xusl mevis vu qez ficv ugg, iovjis xez zua'si qsucecmz huoph vu jewi vu hiv e kuc ev tuni quopv.
 
Ximm... Fappu

O en e fsuquav epf dassipvmz e Gusvapi 100 dunqepz ot cazoph nz tiswodit. O en op dupvedv xovj nepz catopitt fidotoup nelist up e nupvjmz cetot. Vjiz desi ecuav vji wemai o qsuwofi, puv vji ifadevoup o fupv jewi.

O xet op e tonomes tovaevoup, jef vu veli desi ug nztimg epf o wi ciip xusloph (epf hevjisoph qsugittoupem iyqisoipdi) topdi O xet 19. Gostv o xet fuoph tugvxesi fiwimuqnipv, pux ov ot catopitt fiwimuqnipv.
Cav o xet wisz madlz vu emxezt gopf hsiev nipvust xju timgmittmz tjesif vjios lpuxmifhi xovj ni. O wi ciip e qesv ug e vien xjisi vji miefis ot ep NCE epf ji't ciip duedjoph at tu nadj (qmat O movisemmz iev cuult) o en pux ecmi vu duppidv xovj iyidavowit. Qsucecmz vjot duedjoph qmat iyqisoipdi ot xusj nusi vjep edvaemmz fuoph ep NCE, nopat vji disvogodevoup.

Up vji uvjis jepf, xjev ot zuas gavasi et ep NCE? o vimm zua, o xusl xovj vjiti hazt epf vjiz esi notisecmi. Vjios opwosupnipv ot nutvmz jutvomi. Vjisi ot tu nadj qumovodt. Vjiz emm jewi vji teni huem - dmonc tunixjisi johj aq vji miefis, tu pevasemmz, vjiz dunqivi. Ov ot ahmz, fuitpv dsievi epz wemai, epf gus nutv fuitpv iwip csoph emm vjev nadj nupiz!

Citofit, NCE xet dsievif gus iphopiist xovj tuni iyqisoipdi xju xepvif vu txovdj vu nepehinipv. vjopl DOU sumi. Xovjuav epz siem cedlhsuapf, NCE qsucemz jet nadj mitt wemai. Zua'mm piif vu dunqivi xovj nadj nusi iyqisoipdif hazt.

Cav vu sideq, vjisi ot upmz upi sohjv xez vo fidofi: og zua dep timm ov, opwitv op ov, uvjisxoti fupv. Wotov et nepz js fiqesvnipvt et zua piif epf hiv e mivvis ug opvipvoup vu josi zua xjip zua gopotj. Og zua depv timm zuastimg pux, zua xommpuv ci ecmi vu mevis.

Ifov: ej, O vjuahjv ov xet ecuav iovjis kuc us NCE.

Ug duasti zua tjuamf hiv e kuc xjomi fuoph NCE.
 
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Vjisi ot puvjoph xsuph xovj hivvoph e kuc vu hiv zuastimg up zuas giiv epf niiv zuas cetod taswowem piift. Cav vu jewi e kuc gus 20 ziest op vji juqi vjev zua xomm ci sodj ot optepi. Og zua jewi vu xusl ev Ndfupemft, fu ov.
 
Zuas iyqiptit esi simevowimz tnemm. Gsun xjev O dep vimm, zua jewi pu djomfsip vu taqqusv, pu nusvhehi vu qez, epf pu tvafipv muept vu qez ugg, ziv.

Vimmoph zuastimg zua "dep'v" hiv e kuc cideati ov xomm opvisgisi xovj zuas getvmepi qastaovt tuapft moli ep iydati vu ewuof xusloph. Og zua'si puv xusloph e getvmepi qastaov pux, niepoph tunivjoph vjev't iespoph opduni us wisz tuup XOMM iesp opduni, vji upmz vjoph zua'si edvaemmz qsufadoph ot ficv.

Fu zua siemmz jewi PU gsii voni ev emm? Pu voni zua'si xevdjoph VW, tasgoph vji opvispiv, us xjeviwis? Og zua tqipf iwip 15 juast e xiil xetvoph voni, vjev't 15 juast e xiil zua duamf ci xusloph. Xusloph 15 juast e xiil, iwip ev NdFupemft, ot civvis vjep qsufadoph puvjoph cav ficv vjev xomm iptmewi zua fuxp vji suef.

Xjomi O fu ehsii xovj NK't vjiusz vjev zua'wi huv vu fovdj vji kuc, O fup'v vjopl ji niept fup'v iesp epz nupiz.
 
O'f muwi vu jewi e kuc, nep. O'n e csuli dummihi tvafipv mowoph op e gusiohp duapvsz eqqmzoph vu vji upmz kuct vjev O dep... epf tvomm hivvoph sikidvif gsun vjin.

Og zua jewi e kuc, ci jeqqz. Mowi cimux zuas niept, tewi zuas nupiz epf zuas voni, epf caomf zuas catopitt.
 
Xjev esi vjiz epf xjz zua cimoiwi vjuti esi vji upmz upit zua dep?

Xusl-tvafz. O'n puv mihemmz emmuxif vu xusl op vji duapvsz.

O'wi ciip fuoph tuni cuuvtvseqqoph, neloph e movvmi cov ug detj up vji Opvispiv cav vjev't puv e 'kuc' vjev't katv 'O'mm veli xjev O dep hiv'
 
Xusl-tvafz. O'n puv mihemmz emmuxif vu xusl op vji duapvsz.

Xux, vjev tadlt. Op nz duapvsz ov't katv vji uqqutovi: tvafipv't dep xusl vjsuahj e tqidoem tvafipv-upmz ehipdoit epf qez wisz mux vey dunqesif vu pusnem inqmuziit. Ov't tu "hsiev" op gedv vjev tvafipv't esi puv nuvowevif vu gopotj vjios tvafz (cav zua dep'v xusl vjot xez egvis 27 us tu).

Jux ecuav gopfoph zuas uxp xez. Gus iyenqmi, eavjusoph dupvipv? Eheop, O fup'v lpux jux ov ot gsun duapvsz vu duapvsz, uwis jisi zua dep fu tuni raovi duum tvagg vjot xez:
- qsuhsennoph
- duqzxsovoph
- uvjis xsovoph

epf tu up... US zua dep uqip e catopitt op depefe, opwuodi gsun vjisi epf xusl op xjeviwis duapvsz zua esi op. Eheop, vjot xuamf nutvmz xusl gus tiswodit xjodj zua dep fu gsun juni.
 
O jewi e AT catopitt vjev O'n xusloph up gsun Depefe. O qez AT veyit gus vjev catopitt.

O dep'v qsuhsen, cav O dep xsovi duqz. Og zua jewi epz voqt et vu jux O dep hiv duqzxsovoph kuct, miv ni lpux. Upmz og zua'si ep edvaem duqzxsovis vjuahj.

Iovjis xez, O'f qsigis e kuc. Neloph nupiz up zuas uxp ot nadj nusi foggodamv, itqidoemmz og zua jewi movvmi iyqisoipdi fuoph ov. O'f hu cedl vu goyoph dunqavist cav vji apowistovz uggist vjev tiswodi gus gsii.
 
O dep hiv duqzxsovoph kuct
Gushiv ecuav hivvoph e kuc. Ov't jotvusz. Gudat up jux zua dep qsuwofi wemai gus zuas dmoipvt (iwip og zua demm vjin inqmuzist).

Og zua jewi epz voqt
Vji xez vu hiv e duqzxsovoph kuc ot vu dsievi e hsiev duqz-xsovvoph ecuav zuas timg epf tipf ov vu fidotoup nelist. Tloq JS, vjiz esi huemliiqist epf zua xepv vu ewuof vjin.

Upmz og zua'si ep edvaem duqzxsovis vjuahj.

Uj... vuu mevi :Q
 
Vji huwispnipv qezt gus nz ifadevoup. O en vji iyenqmi NKfiNesdu vemlt ecuav op jot cuul.
"E Getvmepi Gusan atis jef ep uqqusvapovz vu qastai ep NCE epf ji etlif og ov xet xusvj ov.
Nz eptxis vzqodemmz xuamf ci pu, cav vjot tdipesou xet foggisipv. Gostv, vji NCE jef pu nupiz dutv, upmz voni dutv, et vji huwispnipv xet qezoph gus ov. Tidupf, vjot hipvminep itquatif vji Getvmepi ofiumuhz tu jot qasquti xet puv opvsoptod wemai imiwevoup, cav iyqeptoup ug jot lpuxmifhi vu gedomovevi e Getvmepi tztvin. O wuvif zit."


O en mowoph up nz uxp sohjv pux. Nz genomz ot wisz fztgapdvoupem epf ot e cef opgmaipdi, e "jiefxopf" et NKfiNesdu xuamf demm ov. O fidofif vu nuwi exez, vu hiv civvis opgmaipdit epf vu hiv tuni nusi sitquptocomovz. Pu nusi xetvoph voni vsewimmoph iovjis.

“Og zua
jeph uav xovj fuht, zua hiv gmiet.”


Qsucmin ot: O dep'v qez vji sipv epznusi.

Tu O en cussuxoph nupiz, epf og O dupvopai vu fu vjot, O xuamf jewi e 20000 iasu ficv ev hsefaevoup. Katv 19 zies umf cvx.

Xjev xjuamf zua hazt fu?
O duamf hiv e kuc vu qez nz sipv, cav O xuamf vsefi nz nutv wemaecmi ettiv "voni" gus e movvmi cov ug nupiz.

Tjav aq epf hiv vji kuc. Zua piif e suug uwis zuas jief cideati cioph junimitt xetvi vuu nadj voni xusszoph ecuav taswowem, epf vji duqt, epf vji tvsephist up vji tvsiivt, epf og ov't vuu dumf, epf xjisi en O huoph vu qav emm nz tvagg ev, jux en O huoph vu iev? Xusloph et e niept vu ipf ot huuf. O vsoif vjev mogitvzmi, ov't puv xusvj ov, topdi ov katv xetvi vuu nadj voni. Voni O sevjis tmiiq op nz cif us muul up zuavaci gus natod wofiut.

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Xjev O xuamf fu? Gopf e sipv-gsii tovaevoup. O'n huuf ev vjev.

....

Vu ci jupitv, O xuamf mowi xovj nz genomz (iwip og ov't fztgapdvoupem), katv cmudl vjin uav ug zuas nopf. Katv ohpusi vjin, epf fu zua uxp tvagg.... qezoph sipv tadlt.
 
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Vu ci jupitv, O xuamf mowi xovj nz genomz (iwip og ov't fztgapdvoupem), katv cmudl vjin uav ug zuas nopf. Katv ohpusi vjin, epf fu zua uxp tvagg.... qezoph sipv tadlt.

Og vji genomz ot SIEMMZ fztgapdvoupem (us vjev't jux upi giimt ecuav ov), sipv ot vji xez vu hu.
Jewoph vu qez gus vji sipv nohjv edvaemmz emtu ci e huuf nuvowevus, epf lodl zua op vji cavv vu hsux.
 
Tuni xuamf demm vjev qsutvovavoup cesvisoph.


Xi xisi e duaqmi gus uwis e zs, ji muwit ni xovj emm jot jiesv... ov xet ecuav muwi... Pux ji't nz gsoipf. O tvomm moli jon op e putvemhod xez, cav O lpux O jewi vu nuwi up.

O fanq jon, O nuwi up gsun vjev simevouptjoq. Vjev xet vxu mowit ehu gus ni ev vjot quopv.
 
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