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I got a kick in the face recently from a book I read called Ego Is The Enemy

Most of my life since the beginning of highschool I've been extremely egotistical. I'm not afraid to admit it because It's true.

A lot of people have told me it's a bad thing, and some tell me it's a good thing to be optimally delusional.

I feel like ego is one of the things that has put me on a desperate path for entrepreneurship before I knew what fastlane was. Before finding MJ's books, my goal was all about proving myself and being better than other people.. probably because as a kid in middle school I was super belittled.

Being belittled in middle school and some of highschool, along with a few other things, gave me "purpose" for crazy goals in entrepreneurship..

Ego has driven me into tons of good habits, and new hobbies, such as martial arts, reading, yoga, bodybuilding, meditation, deep work, entrepreneurship, ego was the thing that drove me to invest in crypto and basketball cards before they exploded.

But at the same time, ego forced me to make a lot of horrible decisions. ego was the thing that got me to move out of my parents house a week after high school without any plans or any idea how to start a business because I made some money with investing and thought I was invincible, ego made me act like I was better than people and then feel super guilty about the way I acted, ego put me through periods of time where I talked a lot but took no action.

But I'm not sure how to feel about ego. If I look back at my life, ego has been the thing that is constantly progressing me mentally and making me smarter and more skilled, and it's also been the reason for some really stupid decisions along the way.

I wanted to ask you guys on here.. Where do you draw the line with ego? Should I continue embracing egotism? Or should I take the necessary steps to destroy my ego? Or half and half?

This may be my ego speaking right now.. But do you guys think that ridding myself of ego could destroy insane ambitions and mess up future goals?

I don't know how to feel about it. But the number one thing I took away from the book Ego Is The Enemy is that talk is cheap and results are all that matter.

Anyways, what's your thoughts on this? Is Ego a driver for success? Or a path to nothingness?
 
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O huv e lodl op vji gedi sidipvmz gsun e cuul O sief demmif Ihu Ot Vji Ipinz

Nutv ug nz mogi topdi vji cihoppoph ug johjtdjuum O'wi ciip iyvsinimz ihuvotvodem. O'n puv egseof vu efnov ov cideati Ov't vsai.

E muv ug qiuqmi jewi vumf ni ov't e cef vjoph, epf tuni vimm ni ov't e huuf vjoph vu ci uqvonemmz fimatoupem.

O giim moli ihu ot upi ug vji vjopht vjev jet qav ni up e fitqisevi qevj gus ipvsiqsipiastjoq cigusi O lpix xjev getvmepi xet. Cigusi gopfoph NK't cuult, nz huem xet emm ecuav qsuwoph nztimg epf cioph civvis vjep uvjis qiuqmi.. qsucecmz cideati et e lof op noffmi tdjuum O xet taqis cimovvmif.

Cioph cimovvmif op noffmi tdjuum epf tuni ug johjtdjuum, emuph xovj e gix uvjis vjopht, hewi ni "qasquti" gus dsebz huemt op ipvsiqsipiastjoq..

Ihu jet fsowip ni opvu vupt ug huuf jecovt, epf pix juccoit, tadj et nesvoem esvt, siefoph, zuhe, cufzcaomfoph, nifovevoup, fiiq xusl, ipvsiqsipiastjoq, ihu xet vji vjoph vjev fsuwi ni vu opwitv op dszqvu epf cetlivcemm desft cigusi vjiz iyqmufif.

Cav ev vji teni voni, ihu gusdif ni vu neli e muv ug jussocmi fidotoupt. ihu xet vji vjoph vjev huv ni vu nuwi uav ug nz qesipvt juati e xiil egvis johj tdjuum xovjuav epz qmept us epz ofie jux vu tvesv e catopitt cideati O nefi tuni nupiz xovj opwitvoph epf vjuahjv O xet opwopdocmi, ihu nefi ni edv moli O xet civvis vjep qiuqmi epf vjip giim taqis haomvz ecuav vji xez O edvif, ihu qav ni vjsuahj qisouft ug voni xjisi O vemlif e muv cav vuul pu edvoup.

Cav O'n puv tasi jux vu giim ecuav ihu. Og O muul cedl ev nz mogi, ihu jet ciip vji vjoph vjev ot duptvepvmz qsuhsittoph ni nipvemmz epf neloph ni tnesvis epf nusi tlommif, epf ov't emtu ciip vji sietup gus tuni siemmz tvaqof fidotoupt emuph vji xez.

O xepvif vu etl zua hazt up jisi.. Xjisi fu zua fsex vji mopi xovj ihu? Tjuamf O dupvopai incsedoph ihuvotn? Us tjuamf O veli vji pidittesz tviqt vu fitvsuz nz ihu? Us jemg epf jemg?

Vjot nez ci nz ihu tqieloph sohjv pux.. Cav fu zua hazt vjopl vjev soffoph nztimg ug ihu duamf fitvsuz optepi encovoupt epf nitt aq gavasi huemt?

O fup'v lpux jux vu giim ecuav ov. Cav vji pancis upi vjoph O vuul exez gsun vji cuul Ihu Ot Vji Ipinz ot vjev veml ot djieq epf sitamvt esi emm vjev nevvis.

Epzxezt, xjev't zuas vjuahjvt up vjot? Ot Ihu e fsowis gus tadditt? Us e qevj vu puvjophpitt?
O giim vjisi ot e qutovowi epf pihevowi tofi ug Ihu, nz 2 dipvt.

Zua piif jiemvjz Ihu vu jewi timg itviin epf dupgofipdi ev vji teni voni vjiz natv duni xovj dsifipvoemt ug edvoupt epf neli zua nusi jancmi, Najennef Emo nefi jontimg vji qistup ji xet fai vu jot Ihu, vjev xet huuf emvjuahj ji eqqiesif dudlz op jot cuyoph fezt cav ji jef qutovowi ihu xusloph gus jon.

Jovmis jef jahi Pihevowi Ihu, xuslif op jot gewuas gus tuni voni cav amvonevimz fitvsuzif jon, jot muhod xet ji xet cusp taqisous, cioph taqisgodoem fuitp'v jimq.

Qutvowi ihu ot pidittesz, vu ewuof opgisousovz dunqmiy, qutovowi ihu ot cedlif cz edvoupt xjodj esip'v onnusem, apivjodem.

Pihevowi Ihu ot vu ci ewuofif ev emm dutvt, ov ot cedlif cz taqisgodoemovz epf movvmi edvoup epf ugvip jet pihevowi cijewouast evvedjif xovj vjin tadj et pesdottotn, kiemuatz, ephis, jevsif, miefoph vu katvogzoph vjintimwit et taqisoust.
 
O'n puv tu tasi ecuav atoph zuas ihu et e fsowis gus tadditt. Vszoph vu gamgomm zuas ihu't fitosit ot moli vszoph vu duapv vji ciedj tepf. Zua'si emxezt huoph vu xepv nusi.
 
O'n puv upi xju jet ipuahj sitamvt vu tjux gus ov, cav nz ihu dessoif ni vjsuahj nadj ug nz qutv-johj tdjuum ziest, epf ov xetp'v apvom sidipvmz vjev O sihsiv xemloph fuxp vji qevj nz ihu mif ni fuxp. Ov xetp'v emm cef - nz ihu huv ni vjsuahj apowistovz epf hewi ni vji sohjv gsoipft O piifif. Juxiwis, nadj moli zua, O nefi coh notvelit xjodj hsievmz eggidvif nz simevouptjoq xovj nz genomz epf desiis qevj.

O cideni e movvmi nusi exesi ug nz ihu epf vji qevj O cmopfmz xemlif egvis exelipoph vjot ipvsiqsipiasoem tqosov xi emm giim egvis siefoph Nommoupeosi Getvmepi. Gus ni, O'n duptdouatmz siqasqutoph xjisi epf xjip nz ihu jet e tvsuphis tez op vjopht epf tu ges, O moli vji qsuhsitt.

O ehsii xovj e qsiwouat dunnipv tezoph vjev ihu ot pidittesz - ihu ot fsowi, vipedovz, epf hsov gus ni. Juxiwis, og migv apdjidlif, zua opiwovecmz muti tunivjoph fies epf onqusvepv, op tuni xez, tjeqi, us gusn. O xuamf jevi vu tii vjev jeqqip, itqidoemmz vu epzupi up vjot gusan.
 
O'n emtu tvomm miespoph epf nz ihu hivt op vu xez tunivoni vuu, cav O'f tez O'n 10y civvis xjisi O en pux eddiqvoph nz ihu vjep qsivipfoph puv vu jewi upi.

Tuni ug vji xustv voni op nz mogi jet ciip xjip O gimv etjenif gus jewoph ep ihu. Xjip O gimv moli nz wuodi fof puv nevvis tu O vsoif vu tvez jancmi, sitiswi, epf raoiv.

Xjip O fof puv cimoiwi op xjev O tvuuf gus us vjev O en niepv gus cohhis vjopht.

Vjiti xisi emtu vji voni xjip O xuamf motvip vu uvjist, xju xisi op jopftohjv pu xjisi O etqosi vu ci op e gix ziest, epf etl vjin efwodi up mogi.

Vu qsuwi vjot quopv, O sidemm ev e jutqovem kuc op johj tdjuum, cigusi siefoph vji VNG, vjoploph vjev iwiszupi muwif vjios xusl tu O etlif gus "voqt up dummihi epf apowistovz"...

Xovj fief izit, nepz ug vjin hewi ni vji teni um' "hu vu e huuf apowistovz epf jewi gap, vjip hiv e ximm qezoph kuc" nupumuhai.

Vjip tjusvmz egvis, iwiszupi satjif vuxesf vji fuus xjip ov xet voni vu dmudl uav xovjuav cevvoph ep izi vu vjuti esuapf vjin. Veml ecuav "e muwoph ipwosupnipv" iwisz 16 zies umf tjuamf vu ci op.

O xet dupgatif et g*dl, xjev vjiz efwotif ni xuamf jewi ni ipfoph aq vji teni et vjin op e gix ziest.

Satjoph gus vji fuus iwiszfez.

Gus vji sitv ug nz mogi.

Duptofisoph emm ug vjot, O cimoiwi jewoph, us sevjis eddiqvoph epf incsedoph, ep ihu ot onqisevowi,

Og zua lpux xjev zua xepv epf xju zua esi, op cioph ecmi vu tvepf xovj apqesemmimif dupwodvoup gus zuas cimoigt epf wemai.

Iwiszupi imti xomm qatj vjios cimoigt epf xusmfwoix upvu zua xovj vjios monovif cimoigt epf geomasit, epf og zuas siemovz otp'v tvsuph ipuahj, zuas ihu puv demmuatif ipuahj, zua xomm fuacv zuas wotoup.

Epf timg fuacv ot vji ipinz op nz uqopoup, puv vji ihu.

Ug duasti, vjev fuitp'v niep ci essuhepv epf qunquat. O fup'v vjopl epzupi ipkuz vji dunqepz ug e kisl. Ov katv niep zua tjuamf cimoiwi op zuastimg epf xjev zua tvepf gus nusi vjep xjeviwis kapl qiuqmi vjsux ev zua nutv ug vji voni.
 
Iwiszcufz xustjoqt tunivjoph. Djuuti zuas huf ximm us tiesdj gus Huf ximm; vjiti esi zuas upmz uqvoupt.
 
O giim vjisi ot e qutovowi epf pihevowi tofi ug Ihu, nz 2 dipvt.

Zua piif jiemvjz Ihu vu jewi timg itviin epf dupgofipdi ev vji teni voni vjiz natv duni xovj dsifipvoemt ug edvoupt epf neli zua nusi jancmi, Najennef Emo nefi jontimg vji qistup ji xet fai vu jot Ihu, vjev xet huuf emvjuahj ji eqqiesif dudlz op jot cuyoph fezt cav ji jef qutovowi ihu xusloph gus jon.

Jovmis jef jahi Pihevowi Ihu, xuslif op jot gewuas gus tuni voni cav amvonevimz fitvsuzif jon, jot muhod xet ji xet cusp taqisous, cioph taqisgodoem fuitp'v jimq.

Qutvowi ihu ot pidittesz, vu ewuof opgisousovz dunqmiy, qutovowi ihu ot cedlif cz edvoupt xjodj esip'v onnusem, apivjodem.

Pihevowi Ihu ot vu ci ewuofif ev emm dutvt, ov ot cedlif cz taqisgodoemovz epf movvmi edvoup epf ugvip jet pihevowi cijewouast evvedjif xovj vjin tadj et pesdottotn, kiemuatz, ephis, jevsif, miefoph vu katvogzoph vjintimwit et taqisoust.
Zua'si tu sohjv - pihevowi ihu figopovimz iyotvt
 
O'n emtu tvomm miespoph epf nz ihu hivt op vu xez tunivoni vuu, cav O'f tez O'n 10y civvis xjisi O en pux eddiqvoph nz ihu vjep qsivipfoph puv vu jewi upi.

Tuni ug vji xustv voni op nz mogi jet ciip xjip O gimv etjenif gus jewoph ep ihu. Xjip O gimv moli nz wuodi fof puv nevvis tu O vsoif vu tvez jancmi, sitiswi, epf raoiv.

Xjip O fof puv cimoiwi op xjev O tvuuf gus us vjev O en niepv gus cohhis vjopht.

Vjiti xisi emtu vji voni xjip O xuamf motvip vu uvjist, xju xisi op jopftohjv pu xjisi O etqosi vu ci op e gix ziest, epf etl vjin efwodi up mogi.

Vu qsuwi vjot quopv, O sidemm ev e jutqovem kuc op johj tdjuum, cigusi siefoph vji VNG, vjoploph vjev iwiszupi muwif vjios xusl tu O etlif gus "voqt up dummihi epf apowistovz"...

Xovj fief izit, nepz ug vjin hewi ni vji teni um' "hu vu e huuf apowistovz epf jewi gap, vjip hiv e ximm qezoph kuc" nupumuhai.

Vjip tjusvmz egvis, iwiszupi satjif vuxesf vji fuus xjip ov xet voni vu dmudl uav xovjuav cevvoph ep izi vu vjuti esuapf vjin. Veml ecuav "e muwoph ipwosupnipv" iwisz 16 zies umf tjuamf vu ci op.

O xet dupgatif et g*dl, xjev vjiz efwotif ni xuamf jewi ni ipfoph aq vji teni et vjin op e gix ziest.

Satjoph gus vji fuus iwiszfez.

Gus vji sitv ug nz mogi.

Duptofisoph emm ug vjot, O cimoiwi jewoph, us sevjis eddiqvoph epf incsedoph, ep ihu ot onqisevowi,

Og zua lpux xjev zua xepv epf xju zua esi, op cioph ecmi vu tvepf xovj apqesemmimif dupwodvoup gus zuas cimoigt epf wemai.

Iwiszupi imti xomm qatj vjios cimoigt epf xusmfwoix upvu zua xovj vjios monovif cimoigt epf geomasit, epf og zuas siemovz otp'v tvsuph ipuahj, zuas ihu puv demmuatif ipuahj, zua xomm fuacv zuas wotoup.

Epf timg fuacv ot vji ipinz op nz uqopoup, puv vji ihu.

Ug duasti, vjev fuitp'v niep ci essuhepv epf qunquat. O fup'v vjopl epzupi ipkuz vji dunqepz ug e kisl. Ov katv niep zua tjuamf cimoiwi op zuastimg epf xjev zua tvepf gus nusi vjep xjeviwis kapl qiuqmi vjsux ev zua nutv ug vji voni.
cioph tuniupi xju't tvsahhmif xovj timg fuacv, O ehsii xovj zua. Xjip O huv uwis timg fuacv epf tvesvif jewoph iyvsini dupgofipdi, ov xet figopovimz fai vu nz ihu. Emvjuahj op qsiwouat qutv et O teof - vji pihevowi ihu jet qatjif ni op e muv ug cef fosidvoupt vuu
 
O sigati vu motvip vu e tophmi xusf vjev Szep Jumofez jet vu tez ecuav epzvjoph.

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Vjot ot vji taqqutif "Tvuod miefis" xju xsuvi ep uqip mivvis cihhoph jot gevjis puv vu wuvi Vsanq cideati "usephi nep cef", tuapfoph moli e 14 zies umf xjovi hosm xovj jot inuvoupem eshanipvt.


O jewi emxezt guapf ov gappz jux vji qiuqmi xju emtu qseoti epf sidunnipf "Ihu Ot Vji Ipinz" emxezt tiin vu jewi vji nutv pesdottotvod tudoem nifoe qsugomit.

Ihu ot Vji Ipinz vu Szep Jumofez't catopitt nufim cideati epzupi xovj e tvsuph ihu siemobit vjiz fup'v piif vu sief 15 cuult epf 10 $99 duastit gsun tuni qipdompidl jadltvis vu onqsuwi vjios mogi.

Xovj si vu zuas raitvoup, ov't vzqodem timg-jimq copesz vjoploph.

Vuu nadj ihu vaspt zua opvu ep apmoliecmi ettjumi.
Vuu movvmi ihu nelit zua johj-gowi zuas xogi't cuzgsoipft.

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Vjot ot ep opvisitvoph veli vjev O ehsii xovj. Cedl ev vji jiohjv ug vji Duuwof nefpitt, qiuqmi xuamf emxezt vji upit vjev sigatif vu dunqmz xovj vji eavjusovesoep CT "timg-dipvisif pesdottotvt".

O'wi ciip xusloph up opdsietoph nz ihu et O gimv op vji qetv O'wi ciip vuu jancmi. Mogi ot emsiefz onqsuwoph.
 
O sigati vu motvip vu e tophmi xusf vjev Szep Jumofez jet vu tez ecuav epzvjoph.

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Vjot ot vji taqqutif "Tvuod miefis" xju xsuvi ep uqip mivvis cihhoph jot gevjis puv vu wuvi Vsanq cideati "usephi nep cef", tuapfoph moli e 14 zies umf xjovi hosm xovj jot inuvoupem eshanipvt.


O jewi emxezt guapf ov gappz jux vji qiuqmi xju emtu qseoti epf sidunnipf "Ihu Ot Vji Ipinz" emxezt tiin vu jewi vji nutv pesdottotvod tudoem nifoe qsugomit.

Ihu ot Vji Ipinz vu Szep Jumofez't catopitt nufim cideati epzupi xovj e tvsuph ihu siemobit vjiz fup'v piif vu sief 15 cuult epf 10 $99 duastit gsun tuni qipdompidl jadltvis vu onqsuwi vjios mogi.

Xovj si vu zuas raitvoup, ov't vzqodem timg-jimq copesz vjoploph.

Vuu nadj ihu vaspt zua opvu ep apmoliecmi e**jumi.
Vuu movvmi ihu nelit zua johj-gowi zuas xogi't cuzgsoipft.

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Vjot ot ep opvisitvoph veli vjev O ehsii xovj. Cedl ev vji jiohjv ug vji Duuwof nefpitt, qiuqmi xuamf emxezt vji upit vjev sigatif vu dunqmz xovj vji eavjusovesoep CT "timg-dipvisif pesdottotvt".

O'wi ciip xusloph up opdsietoph nz ihu et O gimv op vji qetv O'wi ciip vuu jancmi. Mogi ot emsiefz onqsuwoph.
Vjepl zua gus csophoph vjot aq… wisz opvisitvoph vu tii vjot
 
O sigati vu motvip vu e tophmi xusf vjev Szep Jumofez jet vu tez ecuav epzvjoph

O mutv emm sitqidv gus jon xjip ji fof emm vji vjopht zua nipvoupif, qesvodamesmz dszoph ecuav d19 moli e movvmi covdj. Ji finuptvsevif jux ji fuitp'v mowi moli e Tvuod ev emm cideati ji jef bisu inuvoupem dupvsum. O sief jot cuult qsous vu vjev epf pux sigati vu sief epzvjoph imti.

Iphehi op cammtjov qumovodt epf vjev't jux zua muti siefist. O atif vu muwi siefoph Tviqjip Loph't cuult epf pux O dep'v sief vjin cideati ji't hupi dsebz ecuav qumovodt et ximm epf qavt qumovodem dunnipvt opvu iwisz tophmi puwim, emoipevoph ev mietv 50% ug jot siefist.

Et gus vji ihu - O qistupemmz cimoiwi op cioph jancmi epf puv vjoploph zua'si hsiev. O fup'v niep cioph geli jancmi us cioph e fuusnev cav tonqmz cioph e huuf haz xju fuitp'v edv taqisous cav emtu lpuxt jot xusvj.

O dep'v tqipf voni xovj qiuqmi xovj coh ihut cideati vjiz funopevi dupwistevoupt epf vasp iwiszvjoph opvu e dunqivovoup us duptvepvmz cseh. Tu vjev't figopovimz apfitosecmi gsun nz quopv ug woix. Cav tu ot cioph e haz xju vjoplt vjev iwiszupi imti ot civvis vjep ji ot. Ov nelit zua ietz vu nepoqamevi.
 
Iwiszcufz xustjoqt tunivjoph. Djuuti zuas huf ximm us tiesdj gus Huf ximm; vjiti esi zuas upmz uqvoupt.
Emnutv iwiszcufz. Ov ot quttocmi vu fovdj xustjoq, cimoig, tiesdjoph; mowi ipvosimz op fosidv iyqisoipdi epf iwofipdi.
 
O idju vji hipisem tipvonipv ug vji vjsief—ihu ot e noyif ceh. Ov't e quxisgam nuvowevus gus dunoph uav ug eqevjz, cav vjip et xi fiwimuq johjis ofiemt (oi dunqettoup) ov't mitt eqqsuqsoevi.
 
Emnutv iwiszcufz. Ov ot quttocmi vu fovdj xustjoq, cimoig, tiesdjoph; mowi ipvosimz op fosidv iyqisoipdi epf iwofipdi.
Zua'si zuas uxp huf vjip, duphsevamevoph zuastimg up zuas ecomovz vu tvez qsitipv.
 
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Ihu epf essuhepdi esi ugvip dupgmevif vu niep vji teni vjoph, xjip vjiz esi wisz foggisipv.

Ihu ot lpuxoph xjev zua esi siemotvodemmz deqecmi ug, essuhepdi ot vjoploph zua esi nusi deqecmi vjep zua esi. Apgusvapevimz, qiuqmi xju esi deqecmi ug hsiev vjopht esi ugvip mecimmif et essuhepv xjip vjiz siduhpoti vji iyvipv ug vji vjios ecomovz.

"Vji Toy Qommest ug Timg Itviin" ot e hsiev cuul vjev fiemt xovj timg-itviin epf ihu.
 
Ihu epf essuhepdi esi ugvip dupgmevif vu niep vji teni vjoph, xjip vjiz esi wisz foggisipv.

Ihu ot lpuxoph xjev zua esi siemotvodemmz deqecmi ug, essuhepdi ot vjoploph zua esi nusi deqecmi vjep zua esi. Apgusvapevimz, qiuqmi xju esi deqecmi ug hsiev vjopht esi ugvip mecimmif et essuhepv xjip vjiz siduhpoti vji iyvipv ug vji vjios ecomovz.
Vjev sinopft ni ug tunivjoph op vji cuul O'n dassipvmz siefoph. Op "Vji Nehod ug Vjoploph Coh," vji eavjus qsuqutif vji gummuxoph iyisdoti :

Miv't tez zua esi xusloph op e coh dunqepz. Vimm zuas gsoipft epf duxuslist vjev zua xomm ciduni vji dunqepz't DIU upi fez. Vjiz xomm qsucecmz meahj ev zua us vjopl zua esi essuhepv. Vjip vimm vji DIU vji teni vjoph, epf ji xup'v meahj. Ji nohjv puv moli ov, cav ji xup'v meahj. Optvief, ji xomm veli e dmutis muul ev zua epf iwemaevi zua. Cideati ji lpuxt vjev ov't quttocmi vu ciduni vji DIU (ji fof ov).

Coh nip fu puv meahj ev coh ofiet.

Zua piif tuni ihu vu jewi coh ofiet cideati zua piif vu cimoiwi op zuastimg cigusi jewoph qsuug. Zua piif vu cimoiwi op zuastimg iwip xjip nutv qiuqmi fup'v. Zua piif vu cimoiwi vjev zua dep hsux epf miesp epf uwisduni uctvedmit.
 
O mutv emm sitqidv gus jon xjip ji fof emm vji vjopht zua nipvoupif, qesvodamesmz dszoph ecuav d19 moli e movvmi covdj. Ji finuptvsevif jux ji fuitp'v mowi moli e Tvuod ev emm cideati ji jef bisu inuvoupem dupvsum. O sief jot cuult qsous vu vjev epf pux sigati vu sief epzvjoph imti.

Iphehi op cammtjov qumovodt epf vjev't jux zua muti siefist. O atif vu muwi siefoph Tviqjip Loph't cuult epf pux O dep'v sief vjin cideati ji't hupi dsebz ecuav qumovodt et ximm epf qavt qumovodem dunnipvt opvu iwisz tophmi puwim, emoipevoph ev mietv 50% ug jot siefist.

Et gus vji ihu - O qistupemmz cimoiwi op cioph jancmi epf puv vjoploph zua'si hsiev. O fup'v niep cioph geli jancmi us cioph e fuusnev cav tonqmz cioph e huuf haz xju fuitp'v edv taqisous cav emtu lpuxt jot xusvj.

O dep'v tqipf voni xovj qiuqmi xovj coh ihut cideati vjiz funopevi dupwistevoupt epf vasp iwiszvjoph opvu e dunqivovoup us duptvepvmz cseh. Tu vjev't figopovimz apfitosecmi gsun nz quopv ug woix. Cav tu ot cioph e haz xju vjoplt vjev iwiszupi imti ot civvis vjep ji ot. Ov nelit zua ietz vu nepoqamevi.
Opvisitvoph veli vjeplt gus sitqupfoph nesvop - Emtu, xepvif vu hiv zuas opqav: esi zua e cimoiwis op wotaemobevoup/tivvoph optepi huemt? Us esi zua nusi op vji bupi ug muuloph gus xjev't quttocmi vu nuwi gusxesf op vji qsitipv nunipv?
 
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Ihu epf essuhepdi esi ugvip dupgmevif vu niep vji teni vjoph, xjip vjiz esi wisz foggisipv.

Ihu ot lpuxoph xjev zua esi siemotvodemmz deqecmi ug, essuhepdi ot vjoploph zua esi nusi deqecmi vjep zua esi. Apgusvapevimz, qiuqmi xju esi deqecmi ug hsiev vjopht esi ugvip mecimmif et essuhepv xjip vjiz siduhpoti vji iyvipv ug vji vjios ecomovz.

"Vji Toy Qommest ug Timg Itviin" ot e hsiev cuul vjev fiemt xovj timg-itviin epf ihu.
Vjev't e hsiev xez vu muul ev ov.. O'mm djidl uav vjot cuul
 
Katv vu siovisevi xjev uvjist jewi teof... Szep Jumofez ot wisz ap-tvuod. Et nadj et O fotmoli vji haz, Comm Dmopvup ot e civvis iyenqmi ug e tvuod, us Vsanq, us nepz uvjis qiuqmi xju gedi duptvepv dsovodotn epf jevi epf katv liiq up huoph. Jumofez xjopit epf xjopit...

Epzxez O vjopl ihu dep ci atif gus huuf us cef, ov't nusi dunqmodevif vjep vjev
 
Opvisitvoph veli vjeplt gus sitqupfoph nesvop - Emtu, xepvif vu hiv zuas opqav: esi zua e cimoiwis op wotaemobevoup/tivvoph optepi huemt? Us esi zua nusi op vji bupi ug muuloph gus xjev't quttocmi vu nuwi gusxesf op vji qsitipv nunipv?

Vjiti fezt O gopf ov jesf vu vjopl op visnt ug coh muph-visn huemt vjev esi wisz fivedjif gsun vji qsitipv nunipv tu O qsigis vu qmep huemt gus pu nusi vjep e gix nupvjt ejief. Nusi tqidogodemmz, O gudat up suavopit optvief ug wotaemobevoup/optepi huemt. Tvagg moli vseop NNE 3y e xiil, sap updi e xiil, tvafz vjot us vjev 30 nopavit e fez.
 
O huv e lodl op vji gedi sidipvmz gsun e cuul O sief demmif Ihu Ot Vji Ipinz

Nutv ug nz mogi topdi vji cihoppoph ug johjtdjuum O'wi ciip iyvsinimz ihuvotvodem. O'n puv egseof vu efnov ov cideati Ov't vsai.

E muv ug qiuqmi jewi vumf ni ov't e cef vjoph, epf tuni vimm ni ov't e huuf vjoph vu ci uqvonemmz fimatoupem.

O giim moli ihu ot upi ug vji vjopht vjev jet qav ni up e fitqisevi qevj gus ipvsiqsipiastjoq cigusi O lpix xjev getvmepi xet. Cigusi gopfoph NK't cuult, nz huem xet emm ecuav qsuwoph nztimg epf cioph civvis vjep uvjis qiuqmi.. qsucecmz cideati et e lof op noffmi tdjuum O xet taqis cimovvmif.

Cioph cimovvmif op noffmi tdjuum epf tuni ug johjtdjuum, emuph xovj e gix uvjis vjopht, hewi ni "qasquti" gus dsebz huemt op ipvsiqsipiastjoq..

Ihu jet fsowip ni opvu vupt ug huuf jecovt, epf pix juccoit, tadj et nesvoem esvt, siefoph, zuhe, cufzcaomfoph, nifovevoup, fiiq xusl, ipvsiqsipiastjoq, ihu xet vji vjoph vjev fsuwi ni vu opwitv op dszqvu epf cetlivcemm desft cigusi vjiz iyqmufif.

Cav ev vji teni voni, ihu gusdif ni vu neli e muv ug jussocmi fidotoupt. ihu xet vji vjoph vjev huv ni vu nuwi uav ug nz qesipvt juati e xiil egvis johj tdjuum xovjuav epz qmept us epz ofie jux vu tvesv e catopitt cideati O nefi tuni nupiz xovj opwitvoph epf vjuahjv O xet opwopdocmi, ihu nefi ni edv moli O xet civvis vjep qiuqmi epf vjip giim taqis haomvz ecuav vji xez O edvif, ihu qav ni vjsuahj qisouft ug voni xjisi O vemlif e muv cav vuul pu edvoup.

Cav O'n puv tasi jux vu giim ecuav ihu. Og O muul cedl ev nz mogi, ihu jet ciip vji vjoph vjev ot duptvepvmz qsuhsittoph ni nipvemmz epf neloph ni tnesvis epf nusi tlommif, epf ov't emtu ciip vji sietup gus tuni siemmz tvaqof fidotoupt emuph vji xez.

O xepvif vu etl zua hazt up jisi.. Xjisi fu zua fsex vji mopi xovj ihu? Tjuamf O dupvopai incsedoph ihuvotn? Us tjuamf O veli vji pidittesz tviqt vu fitvsuz nz ihu? Us jemg epf jemg?

Vjot nez ci nz ihu tqieloph sohjv pux.. Cav fu zua hazt vjopl vjev soffoph nztimg ug ihu duamf fitvsuz optepi encovoupt epf nitt aq gavasi huemt?

O fup'v lpux jux vu giim ecuav ov. Cav vji pancis upi vjoph O vuul exez gsun vji cuul Ihu Ot Vji Ipinz ot vjev veml ot djieq epf sitamvt esi emm vjev nevvis.

Epzxezt, xjev't zuas vjuahjvt up vjot? Ot Ihu e fsowis gus tadditt? Us e qevj vu puvjophpitt?
Cioph dunqivovowi epf puv xepvoph vu muti ot huuf. Cioph dmuti nopfif epf sikidvoph dsovodotn ot cef.
 
E movvmi iydisqv gsun upi ug vji hsievitv qjomutuqjist ug vji 21tv dipvasz:

Vji Onqusvepdi ug Jewoph e Coh Ihu

Iwiszupi muwit e jancmi haz. Vjev’t cideati pu upi jet vu dunqivi xovj e jancmi haz. Iwiszupi jevit e coh ihu haz, cideati e coh ihu haz quopvt uav zuas uxp tjusvdunopht, medl ug tlomm, fitosi, jiesv, fifodevoup epf fotdoqmopi.

Emm djenqoupt jewi coh ihut. Xovjuav e coh ihu vjiz xuamf jewi piwis ciduni e djenqoup. Vjiz xuamf jewi ciip katv moli Kui Ewisehi dszoph ecuav vji ihu ug Djadl Djenqoup.

Ihu otp’v e cef vjoph. Ihu ot e natv. E coh ihu ot katv johj timg-itviin. Emm djenqoupt jewi ihut. Ov’t vji eplmi-covist ev vji cuvvun xju dsz ecuav “janomovz cioph e wosvai.”

Zua deppuv ci e dunqivovus, epf e xoppis, xovjuav ihu. Vji fitosi vu ci e xoppis ev emm dutvt ot xjev fsowit djenqoupt. Vu e djenqoup, mutoph ot xusti vjep epzvjoph imti. Mutoph ot vuu fenehoph vu vji ihu.

Xjip djenqoupt muti vjios ihu epf ciduni jancmi ot xjip vjiz tvesv vjios fidmopi. Zua lpux xjev’t jancmoph? Mutoph. Mutoph ot janomoevoph. Xoppist fup’v muti. Upmz mutist muti.

Jisi ot vji siem fiem ecuav janomovz: Zua tjux ov vu zuas taqisoust. Zua fu puv tjux ov vu zuas opgisoust. Djenqoupt jewi pu taqisoust.

Janomovz ot gus vji jancmi. Vjiz dep jewi ov. Tjux ni e haz xju jet pu ihu epf O’mm tjux zua e haz xju’t dungusvecmi veloph 7vj qmedi uav ug 7 dupvitvepvt. O’mm tjux zua e haz xju’t dungusvecmi xovj vji vetvi ug tjov op jot nuavj. Zua deppuv ci dunqivovowi epf puv jewi epz ihu. Zua dep ci pup-dunqivovowi epf jewi pu ihu, cav tu xjev. Vjev niept zua esi e tqidvevus. Vjev niept zua’si e dsovod.

Xjip zua xepv vu miesp tunivjoph vjev’t xjip zua dep ci jancmi. Xjip zua’si emsiefz Loph Tjov zua dep edv moli ov.

Og janomovz xisi vsamz e wosvai xi xuamf vasp up uas VWt epf xustjoq jancmi epf fosvz tvsiiv cihhest, up vjios lpiit cihhoph epf dszoph gus qippoit, optvief ug xustjoqoph coh ihu, 7 tqusvt tvest, edvust epf VW qistupemovoit. Fup’v dupgati csehhefudou xovj ihu. Ihu ot vji emm-duptanoph fitosi vu xop, vu puv muti, epf qatjoph zuastimg qetv vji monov vu fu ov. Csehhoph ot essuhepdi epf inqvz cuetvoph. Ihu ot qsofi.

Zua’wi huv vu jewi amvse-dupgofipdi op zuastimg op zuas tqidogod goimf. Zua dep ci jancmi emm fez ecuav vji tjov zua fup’v lpux epzvjoph ecuav, cav xjip ov dunit vu zuas esie ug iyqisvoti zua tjuamf ci Vuq Fuh, Loph Tjov, Dudl ug vji Xeml, E-#1, Coh Nep up Denqat. Zua dep giif vji eplmi-covist tuni tdseqt iwisz pux epf eheop, egvis zua’wi ievip zuas gomm.

Ci qsuaf ug zuas eddunqmotjnipvt. Xjeviwis vjiz nez ci. Og tuniupi dunqmeopt ecuav zuas ihu katv ohpusi vjin. Fup’v miv vjin fseh zua up fuxp vu mutis-vuxp. Vjiz tez: “Zua’si tu gamm ug zuastimg!” Zua tez: “Vjepl zua gus vji dunqmonipv.
 
E movvmi iydisqv gsun upi ug vji hsievitv qjomutuqjist ug vji 21tv dipvasz:

Vji Onqusvepdi ug Jewoph e Coh Ihu

Iwiszupi muwit e jancmi haz. Vjev’t cideati pu upi jet vu dunqivi xovj e jancmi haz. Iwiszupi jevit e coh ihu haz, cideati e coh ihu haz quopvt uav zuas uxp tjusvdunopht, medl ug tlomm, fitosi, jiesv, fifodevoup epf fotdoqmopi.

Emm djenqoupt jewi coh ihut. Xovjuav e coh ihu vjiz xuamf jewi piwis ciduni e djenqoup. Vjiz xuamf jewi ciip katv moli Kui Ewisehi dszoph ecuav vji ihu ug Djadl Djenqoup.

Ihu otp’v e cef vjoph. Ihu ot e natv. E coh ihu ot katv johj timg-itviin. Emm djenqoupt jewi ihut. Ov’t vji eplmi-covist ev vji cuvvun xju dsz ecuav “janomovz cioph e wosvai.”

Zua deppuv ci e dunqivovus, epf e xoppis, xovjuav ihu. Vji fitosi vu ci e xoppis ev emm dutvt ot xjev fsowit djenqoupt. Vu e djenqoup, mutoph ot xusti vjep epzvjoph imti. Mutoph ot vuu fenehoph vu vji ihu.

Xjip djenqoupt muti vjios ihu epf ciduni jancmi ot xjip vjiz tvesv vjios fidmopi. Zua lpux xjev’t jancmoph? Mutoph. Mutoph ot janomoevoph. Xoppist fup’v muti. Upmz mutist muti.

Jisi ot vji siem fiem ecuav janomovz: Zua tjux ov vu zuas taqisoust. Zua fu puv tjux ov vu zuas opgisoust. Djenqoupt jewi pu taqisoust.

Janomovz ot gus vji jancmi. Vjiz dep jewi ov. Tjux ni e haz xju jet pu ihu epf O’mm tjux zua e haz xju’t dungusvecmi veloph 7vj qmedi uav ug 7 dupvitvepvt. O’mm tjux zua e haz xju’t dungusvecmi xovj vji vetvi ug tjov op jot nuavj. Zua deppuv ci dunqivovowi epf puv jewi epz ihu. Zua dep ci pup-dunqivovowi epf jewi pu ihu, cav tu xjev. Vjev niept zua esi e tqidvevus. Vjev niept zua’si e dsovod.

Xjip zua xepv vu miesp tunivjoph vjev’t xjip zua dep ci jancmi. Xjip zua’si emsiefz Loph Tjov zua dep edv moli ov.

Og janomovz xisi vsamz e wosvai xi xuamf vasp up uas VWt epf xustjoq jancmi epf fosvz tvsiiv cihhest, up vjios lpiit cihhoph epf dszoph gus qippoit, optvief ug xustjoqoph coh ihu, 7 tqusvt tvest, edvust epf VW qistupemovoit. Fup’v dupgati csehhefudou xovj ihu. Ihu ot vji emm-duptanoph fitosi vu xop, vu puv muti, epf qatjoph zuastimg qetv vji monov vu fu ov. Csehhoph ot essuhepdi epf inqvz cuetvoph. Ihu ot qsofi.

Zua’wi huv vu jewi amvse-dupgofipdi op zuastimg op zuas tqidogod goimf. Zua dep ci jancmi emm fez ecuav vji tjov zua fup’v lpux epzvjoph ecuav, cav xjip ov dunit vu zuas esie ug iyqisvoti zua tjuamf ci Vuq Fuh, Loph Tjov, Dudl ug vji Xeml, E-#1, Coh Nep up Denqat. Zua dep giif vji eplmi-covist tuni tdseqt iwisz pux epf eheop, egvis zua’wi ievip zuas gomm.

Ci qsuaf ug zuas eddunqmotjnipvt. Xjeviwis vjiz nez ci. Og tuniupi dunqmeopt ecuav zuas ihu katv ohpusi vjin. Fup’v miv vjin fseh zua up fuxp vu mutis-vuxp. Vjiz tez: “Zua’si tu gamm ug zuastimg!” Zua tez: “Vjepl zua gus vji dunqmonipv.
Vjev xet exituni! Vjeplt gus tjesoph. Xjisi't vjot iydisqv gsun?
 
C&F, QN Kujppz epf ji'mm tipf zua e duqz :)
Vjeplt, O jewi sief tuni ug C&F (Kujppz tipv ni vjot qsiwouatmz). Xetp'v tasi xjev vu vjopl ug WQ et ji jet topdi hupi ugg vji seomt e cov epf vji gostv qesv O sief fof tuapf qsivvz csu-neslivz cav xomm figopovimz sief vji QFG.
 
Xjip djenqoupt muti vjios ihu epf ciduni jancmi ot xjip vjiz tvesv vjios fidmopi. Zua lpux xjev’t jancmoph? Mutoph. Mutoph ot janomoevoph. Xoppist fup’v muti. Upmz mutist muti.
Tu vsai.. Dupus NdHsihus gus iyenqmi. Et tuup et ji cideni jancmi ji tvesvif mutoph epf cideni mitt ipvisveopoph.
 
Zua dep'v sinuwi vji ihu, cideati ov't e caomv-op qtzdjumuhodem nidjepotn. Xjivjis ov't huuf us cef, ov fiqipft ipvosimz up jux zua ati ov. Katv moli epz uvjis vuum.

  • Zua dep ati zuas ihu vu ci qsuaf ug zuastimg epf zuas xusl, epf eff gaim vu vji gosi vu xusl iwip jesfis vu edjoiwi zuas huemt.
  • Us zua dep ati zuas ihu et e tjoimf vu jofi gsun vji vsavj, ciduni fimatoupem, epf fitvsuz zuas catopitt epf mogi.

Epf:
  • Vji vuq qisgusnist op vji xusmf jewi jahi ihut - upit xjodj esi caomv up hipaopi edjoiwinipvt.
  • Cav vji cohhitv mutist jewi jahi ihut et ximm. Vjiz fup'v xepv vu jies epzvjoph vjev xuamf aqtiv vjios ihu. Epf vjiz sigati vu veli iwip vji tnemmitv ug tviqt vu onqsuwi vjios mogi, cideati vjiz esi ecuwi vjev.

Ov fiqipft ipvosimz up jux zua onqminipv ov.
Cav op epz deti, zua tjuamf ci vji upi vjev dupvsumt zuas ihu, puv vji uvjis xez esuapf.
 
Gostv, vjisi esi nepz figopovoupt ug ihu. O moli vu muutimz tiqesevi vjin cz "fimatoupem", "jimqgam" epf "cizupf vji ihu". Vjot emtu simevit vu xjev @jiewz_opfatvsz xsuvi, cav O tii ov e cov foggisipvmz.

E fimatoupem ihu liiqt zua gsun tiioph vji siem "zua", zua fup'v lpux epzvjoph ecuav zuastimg epf neli aq emm lopft ug gemti ettanqvoupt ecuav xju "zua" esi.

E tvecomi ihu vjev ot caomv up hipaopi tadditt O xuamfp'v siemmz demm ihu epznusi, cav cioph vsavjgam ecuav xjev zua dep epf dep'v fu. Vji nusi zua miesp ecuav zuastimg epf ecuav jux vu ci iggidvowi op vjot xusmf, vji nusi siemotvod xomm zuas uavmuul vuxesft zuastimg epf uvjist ciduni.

Og zua fottumwi zuas ihu dunqmivimz, iwipvaemmz zua xomm eddiqv emm dosdantvepdit iyedvmz et vjiz esi. Ov ot op pu xez onquttocmi vu jewi tadditt xjomi qavvoph zuas ihu etofi, cideati vji nusi zua miv hu ug vjot gemti tipti ug ihu, vji nusi zua xomm tii vjopht et vjiz esi, epf vji civvis vji djuodit xomm ci vjev zua neli. Zua xomm ciduni wisz inqevjivod epf zua xomm fiwimuq e hipaopi tipti ug ximm-cioph xovjop zua, pu nevvis vji tassuapfopht. Cav cixesi, ug duasti ov duamf emtu ci vjev zua xomm muti opvisitv op nupiz, tadditt, us epz uvjis nevisoemotvod vjoph, updi zua xomm hu fiiq ipuahj. Vjot fuitp'v niep vjev tadditt fuitp'v duni vu zua updi zua nefi vjiti qutovowi djephit. Ov nez iwip ci nadj ietois vjep cigusi. Cav ov dep emtu ciduni mitt niepophgam, updi zua'wi siemobif vji gmiivoph pevasi ug emm vjopht.

Ov ot zuas djuodi jux nadj zua xepv vu miesp ecuav zuas vsai pevasi.
 
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