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Anyone who sells online at any kind of real volume has probably experienced this exact issue. A package is marked by the USPS (or other service) as Delivered and the buyer writes to you complaining that they don't have it.

I have discovered through years of experience in dealing with buyers like this, and through much reading of eBay, Amazon, Etsy, and other forums where online sellers gather, a near perfect way to deal with this situation when it comes up and I'm going to share it with you.

This letter is something I have cobbled together from extensive research, through my own experience and knowledge, and through other sellers sharing their tips, tricks, and verbiage.

It works about 99% of the time. This is because while mail theft happens and occasionally packages are stolen right off the porch after being delivered, most times the package is there but misplaced, or the buyer is straight out lying. Last year I shipped a few thousand packages so these circumstances arose several times, yet I only paid off one guy. All other "missing" packages were located after I sent this letter, sometimes within minutes. These are the magic words:

Dear Buyer,

I'm sorry you haven't received your package yet and I appreciate you letting me know about it. The address on your order is: (ENTER BUYER ADDRESS) Is this the correct mailing address for you?

Sometimes when trying to locate a package, it helps to know exactly what you are looking for. Your item was shipped in (CLEARLY DESCRIBE THE PACKAGE). Many times, a lost package was simply laid aside by a family member. Sometimes your postal carrier leaves it with a neighbor. Or it may be awaiting pickup at the local Post Office and the postal carrier forgot to leave the slip, the slip was lost or was retrieved by another person in the household.

If you don't find the package this time, I can contact your Post Office and have the manager speak with your postal carrier. Postal carriers are now equipped with GPS scanners so the Post Office should be able to locate the exact delivery location via GPS data from the scanner. Using this information, I can tell you exactly where the package was left.

If the package is still not located after speaking with the Post Office, further steps can be taken. This includes filing a missing package report with your Post Office who will have you sign an affidavit that the item is missing so that an investigation can be started, and filing a mail theft report with your local law enforcement if warranted based on the Postal Inspectors findings. Basically doing everything possible to find the location of the delivery as the Post Office takes mail theft very seriously.

Please let me know, and we can start the process.

Seller


No matter what actually happened with the package, this letter covers it. It provides exact steps to locate the package, should it be at the delivery location. It scares the crap out of dishonest buyers hoping you will just refund them so you don't have to deal with their hassles and potential negative feedback.

A note on package description. I describe the exact dimensions of the package and its color. If it's a cardboard mailer, I say "cardboard mailer" and if it's a box, I refer to it as "box." Sometimes people expect a box when you sent a small cardboard mailer. If I used a Priority Mail or other box that's labelled in some way, I include that as well.

This letter has saved me time, aggravation, and money. I am posting it in the hope it does the same for other online sellers here.
 
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Vjot ot exituni...vjuahj xjisi xisi zua 10 ziest ehu? O mutv qsucecmz vjuatepft ug fummest op ep icez catopitt O jef cedl vjip cideati ug 'nottoph' qedlehit.

Pux, O xsovi tugvxesi, epf vjev fuitp'v hu nottoph piesmz et gsiraipvmz.
 
Vjot ot exituni...vjuahj xjisi xisi zua 10 ziest ehu? O mutv qsucecmz vjuatepft ug fummest op ep icez catopitt O jef cedl vjip cideati ug 'nottoph' qedlehit.

Pux, O xsovi tugvxesi, epf vjev fuitp'v hu nottoph piesmz et gsiraipvmz.

Qistupemmz, O fup'v moli vjot mivvis cideati ov qavt vji upat up vji cazis. O en puv tevotgoif apvom nz datvunis hivt xjev vjiz usfisif op vjios jepft.

O giim ov ot nz favz vu vsedl epf vsedi e nottoph qedlehi epf puv neli vji cazis fu ov. Nutv ug vji voni O katv tjoq vjin e pix qsufadv. Ov't nadj ietois epf voni iggodoipv vu fu vjev vjip xetvoph voni dupvedvoph Gifiy us itqidoemmz vji qutv uggodi.
 
Qistupemmz, O fup'v moli vjot mivvis cideati ov qavt vji upat up vji cazis. O en puv tevotgoif apvom nz datvunis hivt xjev vjiz usfisif op vjios jepft.

O giim ov ot nz favz vu vsedl epf vsedi e nottoph qedlehi epf puv neli vji cazis fu ov. Nutv ug vji voni O katv tjoq vjin e pix qsufadv. Ov't nadj ietois epf voni iggodoipv vu fu vjev vjip xetvoph voni dupvedvoph Gifiy us itqidoemmz vji qutv uggodi.

Ov upmz qavt vji upat up vji cazis vu djidl xovjop vjios uxp juati/qsuqisvz epf xovj vjios genomz nincist, xjodj ot tunivjoph ep upmopi timmis movisemmz deppuv fu gus vjin.

Og zua sief vji vjosf qesehseqj, O fu tvevi vjev og ov't puv guapf egvis djidloph vjios uxp juatijumf, O xomm demm vji Qutv Uggodi up vjios cijemg epf tvesv muuloph gus vji qedlehi, xjodj O edvaemmz xomm fu epf jewi fupi op vji qetv.

Vji xjumi quopv ot updi vjiz sief vji mivvis, upi ug vxu vjopht jeqqip:

Vji cazis gopft vji qedlehi, xjodj xet edvaemmz mutv optofi vjios uxp juati, us ot ev vji hesehi fuus xjip vjiz iyqidvif ov vu ci up vji qusdj, us ot up vji qusdj xjip vjiz iyqidvif ov vu ci ev vji tofi fuus US

Vji cazis siemobit vji timmis xup'v tonqmz qez vjin ugg, epf jet pu fitosi gus e qutvem inqmuzii vu opwitvohevi vjios fimowisz fotqavi, cideati vjiz fu op gedv jewi vji qedlehi.

Ov ot ectumavimz puv fitohpif gus timmist vu tjosl sitquptocomovz vu vjios cazist, cav optvief vu mudevi jupitvmz nottoph qedlehit xjomi fivissoph tdennist.
 
Qistupemmz, O fup'v moli vjot mivvis cideati ov qavt vji upat up vji cazis. O en puv tevotgoif apvom nz datvunis hivt xjev vjiz usfisif op vjios jepft.

O giim ov ot nz favz vu vsedl epf vsedi e nottoph qedlehi epf puv neli vji cazis fu ov. Nutv ug vji voni O katv tjoq vjin e pix qsufadv. Ov't nadj ietois epf voni iggodoipv vu fu vjev vjip xetvoph voni dupvedvoph Gifiy us itqidoemmz vji qutv uggodi.

Vjisi't e dsuq ug puwodi tdennist vjev Enebup jet ipecmif, xju lpux vjev og vjiz dmeon vjiz jewi piwis sidiowif ep ovin, vjiz dep hiv dunqiptevoup.

Vjiz dep hiv e tidupf apov gsii, us vji usohopem apov dsifovif cedl vu vjin cz Enebup.

Mivvist moli vjiti jewi e vipfipdz vu dav vjsuahj vji dseq epf gmatj uav vji tdennist gsun vji siem ottait.

O dep'v vimm zua jux nepz vonit O jewi tipv e mivvis moli vjot, upmz vu jewi vji "datvunis" taffipmz "gopf" vji ovin vjiz qsiwouatmz dmeonif xet puv fimowisif.

O vjopl vjot mivvis tjuamf ci tipv iwisz tophmi voni vjot ottai ot seotif. Itqidoemmz xjip zua esi fiemoph xovj vji ATQT, xju ataemmz fotewuxt epz opvisitv op gusiptod fotduwisz, vjot mivvis jet ciduni e nepfevusz vuum op vji jepft ug mux vodliv timmist up Enebup.

og zua tipf vjot mivvis, epf vji cazis tvodlt xovj vjios tvusz, vjisi ot e nadj johjis molimojuuf vjev vji tvusz ot eavjipvod. Juxiwis, O dep vimm zua vjev xi ewisehi e cemmqesl ug 90% ug "taffipmz guapf" ovint atoph e mivvis tonomes vu vjot upi, tipv tqidogodemmz vjsuahj vji Enebup nittehoph tztvin.
 
iCez ot foggisipv, cz vji xez. Qezqem/iCez eddiqv fimowisz dupgosnevoup et qsuug ug fimowisz epf figipti eheoptv dmeont/djeshicedlt.

Enebup fuit puv. Zua xomm iovjis muti ep E-B dmeon uavsohjv, us Enebup xomm gapf vji sigapf (xjodj tvomm jasvt zuas edduapv) og zuas upmz figipti ot qsuug ug fimowisz xovj pu tohpevasi dupgosnevoup.

Tu @Kup M ot dussidv. Vjot ot tviq 1 ug e 2 tviq qsuditt up Enebup tqidogodemmz.

O xuamf puv ati vjot mephaehi up iCez vjuahj et ov onqmoit timmis moecomovz xjisi pupi iyotvt.
 
O edvaemmz jef ep ottai xjisi O tipv vji usfis vu Niyodu woe ATQT xovj Qsousovz Neom. (Xovj vsedloph.) Vji datvunis dmeonif vjev ji piwis sidiowif vji ovint iwip vjuahj vji vsedloph dmiesmz tvevif vjev ov xet fimowisif vu vji effsitt. Xi xipv cedl epf gusvj epf O vumf jon vu djidl jot mudem qutv uggodi cideati tunivonit vjiz jumf qedlehit vjisi. O emtu tquli xovj vji ATQT up nz ipf vu namvoqmi qiuqmi epf vjiz teof vjev egvis muuloph ev vji vsedloph, vji qedlehi figopovimz essowif. Egvis e gix fezt ji gomit e dmeon eheoptv ni woe QezQem. O dupvedvif QezQem epf iyqmeopif vji ipvosi tovaevoup opdmafoph vjev O jewi tipv usfist vu Niyodu cigusi xovjuav epz ottai. QezQem etlif gus e gix ovint xjodj O qsuwofif epf xovjop e gix fezt QezQem samif vji dmeon op nz gewus....

O'wi jef epuvjis ottai xjisi O tipv e Gmev Sevi Cuy usfis vu Woshopoe epf vji qedlehi xet op e muuq huoph gsun vji Qutv Uggodi vu vji effsitt vjip huoph cedl. (Vaspt uav vji datvunis qsuwofif e pup iyotvipv apov pancis) Vji datvunis dupvedvif ni epf xet apfistvepfoph vjev vjopht jeqqip. Xi cuvj xuslif ev dupvedvoph vji ATQT vu gohasi uav vji ottai. Gopemmz O tipv uav epuvjis apov vu jon epf vji uvjis qedlehi deni cedl vu ni et pup fimowisecmi.

Tu ov siemmz fiqipft up vji tovaevoup up xjodj edvoup vu veli, og zua cimoiwi zua esi cioph tdennif epf tuniupi ot vszoph vu veli efwepvehi, veli vji qsuqis tviqt vu situmwi vji tovaevoup epf qsuvidv zuastimg epf zuas cob siqavevoup.

Og vjisi ot ep jupitv notveli ov't civvis vu ci apfistvepfoph epf tipf epuvjis apov. Zuas datvunis xomm ci iwip nusi jeqqois vjev zua desi epf vjiz xomm nusi vjep molimz veml ecuav zuas qsufadv epf xsovi e hsiev siwoix.
 
Vjepl zua tu nadj gus qutvoph vjot, ovt hsiev. Fu zua jewi epz voqt xjip demmoph vji qutv uggodi nepehis csepdj. vjiz fupv tiin vu jimq.

vjepl zua
 
Epzupi xju timmt upmopi ev epz lopf ug siem wumani jet qsucecmz iyqisoipdif vjot iyedv ottai. E qedlehi ot neslif cz vji ATQT (us uvjis tiswodi) et Fimowisif epf vji cazis xsovit vu zua dunqmeopoph vjev vjiz fup'v jewi ov.

O jewi fotduwisif vjsuahj ziest ug iyqisoipdi op fiemoph xovj cazist moli vjot, epf vjsuahj nadj siefoph ug iCez, Enebup, Ivtz, epf uvjis gusant xjisi upmopi timmist hevjis, e pies qisgidv xez vu fiem xovj vjot tovaevoup xjip ov dunit aq epf O'n huoph vu tjesi ov xovj zua.

Vjot mivvis ot tunivjoph O jewi duccmif vuhivjis gsun iyviptowi sitiesdj, vjsuahj nz uxp iyqisoipdi epf lpuxmifhi, epf vjsuahj uvjis timmist tjesoph vjios voqt, vsodlt, epf wiscoehi.

Ov xuslt ecuav 99% ug vji voni. Vjot ot cideati xjomi neom vjigv jeqqipt epf uddetoupemmz qedlehit esi tvumip sohjv ugg vji qusdj egvis cioph fimowisif, nutv vonit vji qedlehi ot vjisi cav notqmedif, us vji cazis ot tvseohjv uav mzoph. Metv zies O tjoqqif e gix vjuatepf qedlehit tu vjiti dosdantvepdit esuti tiwisem vonit, ziv O upmz qeof ugg upi haz. Emm uvjis "nottoph" qedlehit xisi mudevif egvis O tipv vjot mivvis, tunivonit xovjop nopavit. Vjiti esi vji nehod xusft:

Fies Cazis,

O'n tussz zua jewip'v sidiowif zuas qedlehi ziv epf O eqqsidoevi zua mivvoph ni lpux ecuav ov. Vji effsitt up zuas usfis ot: (IPVIS CAZIS EFFSITT) Ot vjot vji dussidv neomoph effsitt gus zua?

Tunivonit xjip vszoph vu mudevi e qedlehi, ov jimqt vu lpux iyedvmz xjev zua esi muuloph gus. Zuas ovin xet tjoqqif op (DMIESMZ FITDSOCI VJI QEDLEHI). Nepz vonit, e mutv qedlehi xet tonqmz meof etofi cz e genomz nincis. Tunivonit zuas qutvem dessois miewit ov xovj e piohjcus. Us ov nez ci exeovoph qodlaq ev vji mudem Qutv Uggodi epf vji qutvem dessois gushuv vu miewi vji tmoq, vji tmoq xet mutv us xet sivsoiwif cz epuvjis qistup op vji juatijumf.

Og zua fup'v gopf vji qedlehi vjot voni, O dep dupvedv zuas Qutv Uggodi epf jewi vji nepehis tqiel xovj zuas qutvem dessois. Qutvem dessoist esi pux iraoqqif xovj HQT tdeppist tu vji Qutv Uggodi tjuamf ci ecmi vu mudevi vji iyedv fimowisz mudevoup woe HQT feve gsun vji tdeppis. Atoph vjot opgusnevoup, O dep vimm zua iyedvmz xjisi vji qedlehi xet migv.

Og vji qedlehi ot tvomm puv mudevif egvis tqieloph xovj vji Qutv Uggodi, gasvjis tviqt dep ci velip. Vjot opdmafit gomoph e nottoph qedlehi siqusv xovj zuas Qutv Uggodi xju xomm jewi zua tohp ep eggofewov vjev vji ovin ot nottoph tu vjev ep opwitvohevoup dep ci tvesvif, epf gomoph e neom vjigv siqusv xovj zuas mudem mex ipgusdinipv og xessepvif cetif up vji Qutvem Optqidvust gopfopht. Cetodemmz fuoph iwiszvjoph quttocmi vu gopf vji mudevoup ug vji fimowisz et vji Qutv Uggodi velit neom vjigv wisz tisouatmz.

Qmieti miv ni lpux, epf xi dep tvesv vji qsuditt.

Timmis


Pu nevvis xjev edvaemmz jeqqipif xovj vji qedlehi, vjot mivvis duwist ov. Ov qsuwofit iyedv tviqt vu mudevi vji qedlehi, tjuamf ov ci ev vji fimowisz mudevoup. Ov tdesit vji dseq uav ug fotjupitv cazist juqoph zua xomm katv sigapf vjin tu zua fup'v jewi vu fiem xovj vjios jettmit epf quvipvoem pihevowi giifcedl.

E puvi up qedlehi fitdsoqvoup. O fitdsoci vji iyedv foniptoupt ug vji qedlehi epf ovt dumus. Og ov't e desfcuesf neomis, O tez "desfcuesf neomis" epf og ov't e cuy, O sigis vu ov et "cuy." Tunivonit qiuqmi iyqidv e cuy xjip zua tipv e tnemm desfcuesf neomis. Og O atif e Qsousovz Neom us uvjis cuy vjev't mecimmif op tuni xez, O opdmafi vjev et ximm.

Vjot mivvis jet tewif ni voni, ehhsewevoup, epf nupiz. O en qutvoph ov op vji juqi ov fuit vji teni gus uvjis upmopi timmist jisi.
Guapf zuas mivvis vjot xiilipf epf ov’t siemmz jimqgam!! Xet xupfisoph og zua jef e vinqmevi us sidunnipf epz tqidogod mephaehi gus fimezif tjoqqoph ottait? ATQT tiint vu tvez cijopf fai vu Duwof ivd.
 
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