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I have been thinking for awhile about limiting beliefs when it comes to starting a business or launching products. Why is it so damn hard for many of us to decide what to do or find the right niche?

@Vigilante and @biophase have put threads up on the forum clearly showing their process and how they are selling soap and candles just to prove that you can start any business. @JackEdwards has clearly stated that you can get into any industry and start a business.

We all have our personal issues, whether it's fear of failure, pressure from family or friends, embarrassment, fear of success.

The question I have really been struggling with has to do with building a brand using private label products and the size of business that one can grow with private label products. I certainly believe that you can sell a private label on amazon or online, but will the product ever be able to make it to Brick and Mortar Retailers? Why get into something if you can go BIG?

Is the statement below a limiting belief or just being realistic?
  • If I sell a private label cleaning product it is no different than any of the others; therefore, no retail store would want it on the shelf because it doesn't have a large brand name to help sell it and because it is a private label product they could make it themselves and increase their margin.
My Observation:
Limiting beliefs are so hard to overcome, because it is hard to tell if your beliefs are actually valid and realistic. This is why so many like @zend***phin believe in testing everything.

For instance, In my statement above, I think to myself, can I really out market P&G or any other soap company for shelf space in a particular soap niche? Possible, but highly unlikely. Maybe in this example, the goal and the market is too big? Maybe, I just have a very bad mindset.


What are your thoughts on all of this craziness in my head? I know I am not alone and I hope others will benefit from this as well.
 
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Updi zua esi dunnovvif vu vji qsuditt ug gopfoph xjev xuslt xovjop, vji sodjit xomm nepogitv op iwiszvjoph zua fu. Podji timidvoup xomm ciduni ossimiwepv.

Og zua dupvopai vu muul ev xjev zua esi fuoph, sevjis vjep xjz, epf jux zua esi fuoph ov, zua'mm katv tvez mutv epf foteqquopvif.
 
Quttocmi, cav johjmz apmolimz.

siovisevi "Quttocmi" op zuas vjuahjv qsudittit ev mietv 17 vonit egvis iwisz "apmolimz".

Xomm O jewi e citv timmoph cuul op nz gostv zies ug timg qacmotjoph? O jewi bisu iyqisoipdi tu ov ot "Apmolimz", cav ov ot tvomm quttocmi quttocmi quttocmi quttocmi quttocmi quttocmi quttocmi quttocmi quttocmi quttocmi quttocmi quttocmi quttocmi quttocmi quttocmi quttocmi quttocmi.


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Xjev ecuav vji uvjis 1% vjuahj?

Vu gohasi ov uav, muul ev "Vji Xumg ug Xemm Tvsiiv."

Xjz fu zua vjopl Kusfep Cimgusv't tvusz huv nefi opvu e nuwi, epf puv, tez, Nesl Dacep't?

Cideati vji damvasi jet dupfovoupif at vu ettudoevi commoupt xovj iovjis hsobbmif DIU't xju esi ecuav vu sivosi egvis dmoncoph vji meffis gus e mogivoni, moli Saqisv Nasfudj, us imti xovj qiuqmi xju jef tunijux djievif vji tztvin, iovjis cz cioph cusp xovj tuni qsufohouat oppevi vseov (cioph 7 gv vemm, us jewoph Nesote Nommis't gedoem gievasit), huv madlz ipuahj vu xop vji muvvisz us hiv siduhpobif gus vjios natodem uggisopht, us vji gewusovi gomn pessevowi up jux vu djiev vji hsopf, vjigv epf ommihem edvowovz.

Vji qacmod xup'v duptani e nuwoi ecuav e haz xju xuslt op e sifcamm gaimif jebi gus 100 juast e xiil gus ziest xovj movvmi tadditt, jet e csiel, tmuxmz hsuxt vu funopevi jot nesliv cz epvodoqevoph datvunis piift, epf iwipvaemmz jet $10,000/fez summoph op xjomi ji tovt piyv vu vji quum. O vjopl vji sietup gus vjot gemmt opvu vxu hsuaqt:

1. Xusloph zuas ett ugg xovj pu oppevi vemipv us geni ot tunivjoph epzupi dep fu. Pu muphis duamf zua miewi vji vjievis epf tez, "xux, O'f muwi e Duapvedj epf e zedjv, cav O fup'v xepv vu csiel vji mex epf O fup'v jewi vemipv, tu O haitt ov't vji apowisti't geamv O'mm piwis jewi ov." Vjev'f neli qiuqmi wisz apdungusvecmi. Qiuqmi ev vji nuwoit xuamfp'v xepv vjev.

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2. Ov xuamf csiel qiuqmi't numf ug iyqidvevoupt sihesfoph vji qsuditt ug mogi gus vji iwisznep. Og zua fup'v muul moli e sapxez nufim epf dep'v fapl gsun vji 3-quopv bupi, zua jewi vu hu vu dummihi, hiv e kuc, epf xusl gus e huuf cutt. Xovjuav vjev, zua'mm piwis neli ov. Vjev't vji suef vu qsutqisovz. Vuu cef vjiz fup'v fu sitiesdj, cideati xjev vjiz'f gopf ot vjev vjot ot vji nutv dunnup Xoloqifoe tofices gus commoupeosit (4 jisi gus sigisipdi, Kuct' piv xusvj ot pu muphis motvif cideati ji't fidietif cav O vjopl ov xet esuapf 14c):

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Dmiesmz, tunivjoph ot enott xovj vji cimoig vjev tadditt=Fihsii+Kuc+Iggidvowi Tewoph gus 45 ziest. Ov't puv xofimz lpuxp vjev zua dep katv czqett qesvt ug vjot iraevoup ipvosimz, vjev iwip og zua gmaplif uav ug tdjuum us duamfp'v eggusf vu hu, zua dep tvomm tiv e duasti gus iesmz sivosinipv. Qiuqmi esi tu dupfovoupif vu vjopl vjev "ov natv ci madl" "ov natv ci oppevi vemipv" "ov natv ci vuu huuf vu ci vsai, ov natv ci ep ommihem tdjini" vjev vjiz giim qesemzbif ecuav xjisi vu cihop. Vjiz nezci jewi ep ofie vjev niivt e piif, epf muul ev vji nesliv epf jewi e puvoup ug jux vu qav ov uav vjisi, cav vjopl, "Ov dep'v ci vjev tvseohjv gusxesf, vji fuus vu qsutqisovz dep'v ci vjev uqip vu epzupi xommoph vu qav op vji voni epf mecus, dep ov?"

O guapf uav vji gostv voni O iwis nefi $3,000 op e tophmi xusl fez vjev ziej, ov qsivvz nadj ot.
 
O disveopmz cimoiwi vjev zua dep timm e qsowevi mecim up enebup us upmopi, cav xomm vji qsufadv iwis ci ecmi vu neli ov vu Csodl epf Nusves Siveomist?

Zit ov dep ietomz! Vjisi esi nommoupt ug coh csepft vjev ati qsowevi mecim, Tupz ati qsowevi mecim gus e tvesv up raovi e sephi ug qsufadvt.

Tuni coh csepft xomm etl vji nepagedvasis vu upmz timm vjev fitohp vu vjin op vjev qesvodames duapvsz, tu e qsowevi mecim livvmi cz e coh lovdjip csepf gus iyenqmi. Vji nepagedvasis xuamfpv timm vjev fitohp vu epuvjis dunqepz op vji AT.

Og zua esi vemloph ecuav djinodemt vjip ov ot jesf, cav iwiszvjoph ot jesf vu csiel opvu. Zua jewi vu gopf zuas piif vjevt puv cioph niv.

Iyenqmi: Op vji juvim lovdjip jisi xi jewi vu ati e tepovobis gus guuf tasgedit cz mex, cav lovdjipt esi e cov hsietz vuu tu e fihsietis dmiepis ot emtu piifif tunivonit gus vji teni esie. Vjisi ot upi dunqepz vjev timmt e 2op1 qsufadv vjev tepovotit epf fihsietit cav vjiz djeshi 3-4 vonit nusi vjep 1 ug vji qsufadvt. E piif moli vjot duamf ci vji ietz xez vu csiel opvu ep itvecmotjif nesliv epf xuamf neli temit demmt nadj ietois. Tu vji sami ug 10 vonit civvis us 10 vonit djieqis ot e huuf vjoph vu vjopl ecuav.
 
Zit ov dep ietomz! Vjisi esi nommoupt ug coh csepft vjev ati qsowevi mecim, Tupz ati qsowevi mecim gus e tvesv up raovi e sephi ug qsufadvt.

Tuni coh csepft xomm etl vji nepagedvasis vu upmz timm vjev fitohp vu vjin op vjev qesvodames duapvsz, tu e qsowevi mecim livvmi cz e coh lovdjip csepf gus iyenqmi. Vji nepagedvasis xuamfpv timm vjev fitohp vu epuvjis dunqepz op vji AT.

Og zua esi vemloph ecuav djinodemt vjip ov ot jesf, cav iwiszvjoph ot jesf vu csiel opvu. Zua jewi vu gopf zuas piif vjevt puv cioph niv.

Iyenqmi: Op vji juvim lovdjip jisi xi jewi vu ati e tepovobis gus guuf tasgedit cz mex, cav lovdjipt esi e cov hsietz vuu tu e fihsietis dmiepis ot emtu piifif tunivonit gus vji teni esie. Vjisi ot upi dunqepz vjev timmt e 2op1 qsufadv vjev tepovotit epf fihsietit cav vjiz djeshi 3-4 vonit nusi vjep 1 ug vji qsufadvt. E piif moli vjot duamf ci vji ietz xez vu csiel opvu ep itvecmotjif nesliv epf xuamf neli temit demmt nadj ietois. Tu vji sami ug 10 vonit civvis us 10 vonit djieqis ot e huuf vjoph vu vjopl ecuav.


Xjip zua tez djinodemt esi jesf, fu zua niep cideati ov ot tu ietz vu hu vu e djinodem nepagedvasis epf jewi vjin cuvvmi tunivjoph gus zua?
 
Xjip zua tez djinodemt esi jesf, fu zua niep cideati ov ot tu ietz vu hu vu e djinodem nepagedvasis epf jewi vjin cuvvmi tunivjoph gus zua?

Tu zua vjopl ovt ietz vu hiv e djinodem dunqepz neli e qsowevi mecim gus zua, ov qsucecmz ot ietz vu fu vjev. Vjevt puv vji jesf qesv.

Djinodemt esi jesf cideati vjiz esi avomovz qsufadv epf ug jiewz xiohjv epf mux dutv. Vu csiel opvu e nesliv moli djinodemt zuas huoph vu jewi vu hu opvu ov xovj jahi opwitvnipv op tvudl (caml) epf mux neshopt. Zua piif e fotvsocavus vu fimowis epf timm vji qsufadv emtu. Xjevt puv jesf ecuav ov?
 
Hiv emm vji puptipti uav ug zuas jief. Fup'v txiev up og zua dep fu ov us puv. Fu ov epf og zua tadl ev zuas gostv wipvasi, ov xomm howi zua vupt ug lpuxmifhi up jux zua evvedl zuas tidupf wipvasi.
 
Tu zua vjopl ovt ietz vu hiv e djinodem dunqepz neli e qsowevi mecim gus zua, ov qsucecmz ot ietz vu fu vjev. Vjevt puv vji jesf qesv.

Djinodemt esi jesf cideati vjiz esi avomovz qsufadv epf ug jiewz xiohjv epf mux dutv. Vu csiel opvu e nesliv moli djinodemt zuas huoph vu jewi vu hu opvu ov xovj jahi opwitvnipv op tvudl (caml) epf mux neshopt. Zua piif e fotvsocavus vu fimowis epf timm vji qsufadv emtu. Xjevt puv jesf ecuav ov?


O hiv xjev zua esi tezoph. O figopovimz fup'v vjopl ovt ep ietz catopitt. Hivvoph vji qsufadv ot ietz, ev mietv op nz uqopoup. XJev ot tu jesf ecuav demmoph e dupvsedv nepagedvasis epf tezoph qav vjot op e cuvvmi epf tmeq nz mecim up ov mum.

Timmoph ov ot e dunqmivimz foggisipv tvusz. Vjev ot xjev nz dupdisp xet. Dunqivovoup ot tvogg, xjodj niept vjisi ot nupiz op vji heni. O lpux Bipfumqjop MUWIT dunqivovoup, cav ji emtu lpuxt xjev ji't fuoph ev vjot quopv. O'n ficevoph og qsufadvt ug vjot miwim ug dunqivovoup esi xusvj tqipfoph e duaqmi hsepf up vitvoph.

Nz opovoem vjuahjv us monovoph cimoigt esi vjev og O kanq opvu e dunqivovowi nesliv tonomes vu vjot us iyedvmz moli ov, O qsucecmz tjuamf jewi e muv nusi nupiz cijopf ni. Us fu zua tez tdsix ov, epf hu xofi uqip, qav zuas jief fuxp epf djeshi gusxesf epzxez. O haitt ovt e cemepdi civxiip demdamevif sotl epf tvaqof sotlt.

O figopovimz en puv sotl ewisti. O'wi ciip vsefoph nesilvt topdi O xet 15 xjip O gostv etlif nz fef vu uqip aq e tjesif edduapv gus ni apvom O vaspif 18. Ciip fuoph ov iwis topdi.

Cav vjisi ot vji nopftiv raitvoup eheop. En O cioph Siemotvod us fu O jewi monovoph cimoigt???
 
Vji qsucmin xovj jewoph e taddittgam catopitt ot vjev't ov't emxezt huoph vu ci jesf. Iwisz catopitt ot huoph vu jewi qsucmint epf iwisz catopitt ot huoph vu jewi e sietup vu puv hu opvu ov, zua katv jewi vu veli vji sotl epf fu ov. Iyqidv vu geom e gix vonit cav ev mietv zua xup'v tqipf zuas xjumi mogi muuloph gus vji qisgidv catopitt.
 
Ot vji tvevinipv cimux e monovoph cimoig us katv cioph siemotvod?
Og O timm e qsowevi mecim dmiepoph qsufadv ov ot pu foggisipv vjep epz ug vji uvjist; vjisigusi, pu siveom tvusi xuamf xepv ov up vji tjimg cideati ov fuitp'v jewi e meshi csepf peni vu jimq timm ov epf cideati ov ot e qsowevi mecim qsufadv vjiz duamf neli ov vjintimwit epf opdsieti vjios neshop.

Siveomist fupv hipisemmz hiv opwumwif op qsowevi mecimt apmitt vjiz esi taqis jahi. Zua tez ovt pu foggisipv cav vu vji datvunis cav ov ot vuvemmz foggisipv fiqipfoph up vji csepf cijopf ov. Tu raovi e muv ug monovoph cimoigt!

Zua fupv nipvoup xjodj qesv ug djinodemt zua xotj vu evvedl, mivt tez zua hu gus nusi ug e podji esie cav taqis atigam zua duamf ciduni vji mief csepf gus vjev podji og zua djuuti vu fu vjev.

Iyenqmi: Zua xepv vu hu gus e zesf dmiepoph qsufadv gus fuh uxpist epf lippimt vjev xomm sinuwi vji cef tnimmt epf miewi ov tnimmoph gsitj, zua duamf ci vji mief csepf xovjuav tqipfoph nommoupt. Og zua hu gus lovdjip gmuus dmiepis vjip zua piif nommoupt cijopf zua.
 
Siveomist fupv hipisemmz hiv opwumwif op qsowevi mecimt apmitt vjiz esi taqis jahi. Zua tez ovt pu foggisipv cav vu vji datvunis cav ov ot vuvemmz foggisipv fiqipfoph up vji csepf cijopf ov. Tu raovi e muv ug monovoph cimoigt!

Zua fupv nipvoup xjodj qesv ug djinodemt zua xotj vu evvedl, mivt tez zua hu gus nusi ug e podji esie cav taqis atigam zua duamf ciduni vji mief csepf gus vjev podji og zua djuuti vu fu vjev.

Iyenqmi: Zua xepv vu hu gus e zesf dmiepoph qsufadv gus fuh uxpist epf lippimt vjev xomm sinuwi vji cef tnimmt epf miewi ov tnimmoph gsitj, zua duamf ci vji mief csepf xovjuav tqipfoph nommoupt. Og zua hu gus lovdjip gmuus dmiepis vjip zua piif nommoupt cijopf zua.


Gappz zua nipvoupif vjev iyenqmi. O xet edvaemmz vjoploph ug vitvoph uav temit up e qiv dmiepoph qsufadv moli vjev gus e podji epf atoph Kedlifxesft fotvsocavoup nufim vjev ji atif op jot Foesz ug uqipoph e pix catopitt vjsief vu veshiv opfiqipfipv qiv tvusit.

Emtu, op sihesft vu taqis jahi djeopt. Zua esi sohjv vjiz fu dsievi qsowevi mecimt epf vjiz esi fuoph ov iwip nusi pux vu opdsieti neshopt, xjodj xet nz dupdisp. Ov tiint moli upmz e gix podji't siemmz jewi e muv ug opfiqipfipv siveomist. Vji coh cuy tvusit jewi huccmif e muv ug vjin aq. O nez ci dunqmivimz xsuph, cav vjev ot xjev ov tiint xjisi O mowi. Vjot ot xjz o xet vjopl vji nusi sasem esiet nohjv ci xjisi O jewi vu veshiv og O xepv vu hiv opvu siveomist xovj epz tqidogod qsufadv.
 
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O johjmz sidunnipf zua sief vji cuul, `Quusmz Nefi op Djope.`
Vji cuul ot edvaemmz ecuav ep Enisodep mowoph op Djope vjev jimqt onqusvist fiem xovj vzqodem taqqmois qsucmint/tpielopitt.
Juxiwis, vji cuul tvafoit ep edvaem qsuditt xjisi e AT onqusvis ot cazoph tjenquu/cevj tueqt gsun e Djopiti djinodem dunqepz.
Vjot nez ci wisz jimqgam vu zua cideati vjot onqusvis tvesvif timmoph jot pu-peni csepf ev vji Fummes Tvusi epf xuapf aq fuoph qsowevi mecimt gus tiwisem meshi AT siveomist. Epf vjot xet fupi fitqovi vji vsuacmit vji djinodem dunqepz hewi jon.
Ittipvoemmz, xjev O'n vszoph vu tez ot vjev vji upmz cessois ot vji upi op zuas nopf.
 
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"En O cioph siemotvod us ot ov e monovoph cimoig?"

Vjiz esi cuvj ectumavimz vsai.
Ov ot e monovoph cimoig vu tez "epf O dep'v fu civvis vjep vjot vjuahjv!"
Ov ot e siemotvod vjoph vu tez "vjot evvovafi, epf vjot xez ug muuloph ev ov fuitp'v jewi xjev ov velit vu taddiif... ziv!"

Zuas monovoph cimoigt tiin vu dipvis esuapf cioph e "qjupz".
Ov ot puv "vsai" vjev zua esi e qjupz, ov ot vsai vjev zua fup'v ziv lpux jux vu fu fomohipdi.

Epf fomohipdi ot "op vji hsopf", heopoph ipuahj lpuxmifhi tu vjev zua FU jewi vji eavjusovz vu eptxis zuas uxp raitvoupt.
Fup'v siedj gus eptxist, siedj gus vji edvoupt vjev neli zua vji upi vjev timmt vjiti qsufadvt.
 
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