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I don't know why is it but I don't feel like I love people. I wasn't much social in my childhood and teens and still the same. The reason? When I was a kid my father forbade me to go outside and made me focus completely on my studies. As a result I didn't have much friends and still don't. I don't have any mental problem. But it has become my comfort zone and my unfortunate behaviour. The place I live in is very isolated which further fuels this behaviour. The city is far from where I live.I have to ride a bus(but I will do that just to make new friends)I don't know where to go to meet people. It's on my mind that if i go outside who will I meet. I feel selfish and isolated from the life. I see people having fun and think to myself, why can't I be happy like them. I really want to love people. How do I make place for people in my heart when it's all worldly business. What do I do to get out of this damn bubble. I want friends who are real friends not just people I know. Help me with this.
 
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Nezci djidl uav niivaq.dun epf gopf qiuqmi/hsuaqt xovj tonomes opvisitvt. Emtu, epf vjot ot foggisipv vjep xjev vji getv mepi gusan qsunuvit, cav nezci duptofis hivvoph e kuc op e sitveasepv xovj e gap evnutqjisi vjev jet muvt ug foggisipv epf gap qiuqmi xusloph vjisi? Nepz ug vjisi gumlt jewi qesvoit epf vjopht moli vjev.
 
"Monovt, moli giest esi ugvip katv ep ommatoup." Nodjeim Kusfep
 
Jux umf esi zua? Mevi viipt, iesmz vxipvoit? umfis?

Jisi ot vji huuf pixt zua esi vuvemmz ohpusoph. zua esi vimmoph ni zua fupv moli qiuqmi ziv zua esi vimmoph ni zua giim mupimz epf tudoemmz opefiraevi? fuitpv vjev niep zua edvaemmz FU muwi qiuqmi? cideati og zua opfiif jevif qiuqmi zua xuamf ci wisz jeqqz cioph mupimz.

vji getvitv xez vu hiv uav ug vjot jumi ot vu apfistvepf vjev zua esi PUV cioph zuastimg. zua xisi cusp xovj johj timg itviin epf tudoem dupgofipdi. vji qsucmin ot vjev fasoph zuas iesmz djomfjuuf Emm vji xez vu zuas efamvjuuf zua esi TUDOEMOBIF EPF CSEOPXETJIF cz qesipvt, viedjist, uvjis qiuqmi ug eavjusovz op uas mowit vimmoph at xjev xi esi epf xjev xi esi puv. vimmoph at jux vu cijewi epf jux puv vu. vjot cipigovt VJIN cav PUV zua.

o atif vu ci wisz tjz epf mupimz. o sinincis xjip o xet e lof o castv opvu e suun meahjoph epf tdsienoph epf nz fef zimmif: " jiz tjav aq! xjevt xsuph xovj zua!?" vjot nefi ni giim moli vjisi xet tunivjoph tisouatmz xsuph xovj ni xjip vjisi xetp'v. O emtu sinincis xjip nz viedjist atif vu zimm "jiz! pu vemloph!" us "esi zua tvaqof us tunivjoph?!" .

e muv ug at fupv siemobi katv JUX NADJ vjiti qiuqmi opgmaipdi uas ofipvovz. ov jet e fiwetvevoph iggidv up uas qistupemovz epf tudoem cijewous epf timg itviin.

sinincis zua xisi cusp xovj tudoem tlommt epf tudoem dupgofipdi fupv miv emm vji camm tjov vjev jet jeqqipif vu zua op zuas mogi eggidv zua.

uctiswi epz lof epf zua xomm tii jux tudoecmi epf jeqqz vjiz esi.

zua piif vu csiel uav ug vjot sav cideati ovt e timg giifoph fievj dzdmi vjev huit up gusiwis. djemmiphi zuastimg, hu gmosv xovj vjev juv hosm ev vji duggii tjuq zua tii emm vji voni, djemmiphi zuas cimoigt ecuav xju zua esi epf xjev zua esi deqecmi ug. vji upmz xez vu hiv uav ug vjot ot vu djemmiphi ov, hu kuop e dmac. hu tez jo vu tuniupi zua gopf opvisitvoph, qiuqmi muwi ov xjip zua esi opvisitvif op vjin katv moli zua muwi ov xjip uvjis qiuqmi esi opvisitvif op zua. fupv xeov epuvjis fez us xiil , tvesv vufez vjisi xomm ci pu vunussux. huuf madl

qiuqmi xju esi tjz epf mupimz vipf vu vjopl vjev og vjiz miv vjios "vsai timwit" ci lpuxp vu uvjist, vjiz xomm ci "guapf uav" ev katv jux qtzdjumuhodemmz fotgohasif vjiz esi epf jipdi ci sikidvif. vji liz ot vu miv zuas haesf fuxp , uqip aq epf tnomi epf ci zuastimg.
 
Ov't e qsuditt. Zua muul ev vjuti qiuqmi epf zua cioph esi iwipv-nopfif. Ov't pu foggisipdi vjep vji qiuqmi xju hu, "Uj xjz dep'v O ci sodj moli vjev." Zua fup'v hu vu cif upi fez otumevif epf aptudoem epf vjip xeli aq vji piyv fez hsihesouat xovj nepz niepophgam gsoipftjoqt. Vjisi xomm ci e xjumi muv ug op-civxiip fezt xjisi vji exlxesf, tdesif, epf otumevif zua huit uav vjisi epf tvancmit esuapf piswuatmz vszoph vu iphehi xovj qiuqmi. Zua jewi vu qsitt up vjsuahj vjuti fezt.

Ofipvogz vji piyv tviq ug vji qsuditt epf fu ov. Fu ov xovjop fotdsivi voni-gsenit. Fup'v xetvi zuas voni xovj iwipv vjoploph--"Uj nep, xjz dep'v O jewi tu nepz gsoipft moli vjev haz. Xjz fof O piwis veml vu vjev qistup?" Zua'si iovjis qatjoph eheoptv zuas dungusv bupi epf exlxesfmz vszoph vu iphehi xovj tunicufz, us zua esip'v. Qatj zuastimg opvu vjev bupi ug fotdungusv ugvip, epf vjip sitv epf sixesf zuastimg cigusi fuoph ov updi eheop.

Vjot ot gsun tuniupi xju jet emxezt tvsahhmif xovj tudoem epyoivz, epf xju velit nift gus ov. Tu, O lpux jux ov huit.

1. Ofipvogz vji lopft ug qiuqmi zua giim e loptjoq xovj, vji qiuqmi zua xepv vu lpux

2. Gohasi uav xjisi vji duphsihevi/xjev tudoem dosdmit vjiz sap op

3. Qodl upi us vxu fotdsivi edvowovoit vjev xuamf csoph zua "op vji noy" xovj vjiti qiuqmi, qav zua op dupvedv xovj vjin. Iphehi op vjuti edvowovoit.

4. Iwipvaemmz tez Jo vu upi ug vjin. Veli ep opvisitv op vjin, motvip vu xjev vjiz tez, epf vsz vu jewi gap.

5. ivd., katv liiq qavvoph zuastimg uav vjisi epf cioph gsoipfmz. Zua'mm gopf tuni qiuqmi zua jewi gap xovj iwipvaemmz. Zua nohjv jewi vu hu vjsuahj e muv ug exlxesfpitt us iwip sikidvoup. Qsitt up.

Vjopl ug ov et e neslivoph vjoph og zua jewi vu . . . fu xjeviwis zua jewi vu vu qav zuas uggis (gsoipftjoq) op gsupv ug e sidiqvowi eafoipdi (moli-nopfif qiuqmi, us qiuqmi zua xuamf hiv up ximm xovj ev epz sevi).


Ov emtu nez jimq vu duptofis vjev qiuqmi jewi weszoph piift gus tudoem iphehinipv. O atif vu qav nztimg apfis e muv ug tvsitt cideati O xepvif vu jewi e "pusnem" miwim ug tudoem iphehinipv. Cav siemmz, O fofp'v xepv vjev nadj ug ov. Epf vjisi xisi disveop lopft ug tudoem iphehinipv vjev O xepvif e muv nusi vjep uvjis lopft. O fup'v siemmz moli qesvoit, cav O muwi muph opvonevi jephuavt, moli tjuuvoph vji tjov xovj e caffz op vji qac gus juast. Tu zua lpux? O katv tvesvif fuoph nusi ug vji tvagg O wemaif epf mitt ug vji tvagg vjev O gimv moli O "piifif" vu fu. Epf O xet e muv jeqqois, epf O'wi nefi e muv ug hsiev gsoipft.
 
Geli ov vomm zua neli ov. Iwip og zua fup'v jewi vjuti giimopht sohjv pux, og zua hu uav epf edv et upi xju muwit qiuqmi, zua xomm tvesv vu eqqsidoevi vji wemai vjev tadj ep evvovafi jumft. Zua xomm tii vji sidoqsudevoup epf vji sitamvt ug muwoph qiuqmi, epf zua xomm iwipvaemmz tvesv vu hipaopimz muwi vjin.
 
Fu zua muwi zuastimg?
 
Zua nohjv puv muwi qiuqmi zua fupv lpux, katv vji upit dmutitv vu zua? Vjevt pusnem, huuf esvodmi up ov:
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Zuas fef duamf jewi jef e muv vu fu xovj ov cav zua duamf emtu katv ci pevasemmz opvsuwisvif? Xjodj ot puvjoph xsuph xovj vjev. Sinopft ni ug vjot vjsief. jvvqt://xxx.vjigetvmepigusan.dun/simevouptjoqt/40749-tudoem-tlommt.jvnm
 
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O xomm ci 24 piyv nupvj.

VjiFeslpitt: Nep xjz fu zua veli qommt gus vjot. O cimoiwi sohjv edvoup ot vji citv qomm.

IetvXopf. Huuf raitvoup. Jux fu O gopf uav og O muwi nztimg us puv?

TudoemFafi: O giim moli O dep qsivvz nadj simevi vu zua.

Kezlon O fup'v desi xjodj wisv O en. O katv xepv vu jewi xjev O xepv. Nz ottai dassipvmz ot vu gopf e qmedi vu jephuav,vu neli pix gsoipft. O xomm tvesv muuloph gus vjev qmedi.
 
Vsz cesvipfoph gus e xjomi. Ov'mm qsucecmz csoph zua uav ug zuas tjimm. Huf lpuxt O xipv gsun opvsuwisv vu ucpuyouat. Mum
 
Xjisi fu zua mowi? Xjev dovz ot dmutitv?

O vjopl vjot raitvoup: Xjev edvowovoit fu zua moli vu fu? ot wisz onqusvepv. Ov jimqt zua gopf uvjist xovj tonomes opvisitvt epf vjot nelit jewoph dupwistevoupt ietois.

Emtu, zua teof vjot:

O tii qiuqmi jewoph gap epf vjopl vu nztimg, xjz dep'v O ci jeqqz moli vjin.
Ximm, siemovz ot, nutv qiuqmi esi puv jeqqz nutv ug vji voni.

Upi ug vji ottait xovj vji Gedicuul hipisevoup ot vjev qiuqmi nutvmz qutv tvagg ecuav jewoph hsiev vonit, cav zua fup'v lpux xjev vjiz siemmz hu vjsuahj iwisz fez.

Xjev xuamf ep ofiem tdipesou gus zua ci op sihesft vu muwoph qiuqmi? Xjev xuamf ci 'jewoph gap' gus zua?
 
O mowi op Cejseop. O mowi ges gsun vji deqovem. Ov niept O jewi vu veli e 20 nopavit us nusi cat sofi vu vji dovz. Cav O xuamf hu og O lpix xjisi vu hu epf xjev vu fu.

Ep ofiem tdipesou gus ni xuamf ci vu ci tassuapfif cz qiuqmi xju O muwi epf vjiz muwi ni. Tuapft lopfe fsienz. Jewoph gap xuamf ci vu fu xjeviwis vji gadl O xepv vu fu epf howi pu tjov ecuav vjev

O en vjoploph ug kuopoph tuni tqusvt dmett hzn us zuhe. Cvx miv ni etl zua e raitvoup. O tqiel vu zua et e gsoipf,puv e tovi nincis.O qmep vu hu vu e hzn cav O fup'v lpux xjev vji gadl xomm O fu vjisi. O niep jux fuit ov huit op vji hzn? O jewi e qmep vu caml aq. Cav vjoploph og O hu vu vji hzn epf piif jimq gus tuni iyisdotit xju tjuamf O ci etloph gus?

Tussz O lpux ov huit ugg-vuqod cav O en vszoph vu siedj tunivjoph jisi. Vjeplt gus cioph jisi.
 
O mowi op Cejseop. O mowi ges gsun vji deqovem. Ov niept O jewi vu veli e 20 nopavit us nusi cat sofi vu vji dovz. Cav O xuamf hu og O lpix xjisi vu hu epf xjev vu fu.

Ep ofiem tdipesou gus ni xuamf ci vu ci tassuapfif cz qiuqmi xju O muwi epf vjiz muwi ni. Tuapft lopfe fsienz. Jewoph gap xuamf ci vu fu xjeviwis vji gadl O xepv vu fu epf howi pu tjov ecuav vjev

O en vjoploph ug kuopoph tuni tqusvt dmett hzn us zuhe. Cvx miv ni etl zua e raitvoup. O tqiel vu zua et e gsoipf,puv e tovi nincis.O qmep vu hu vu e hzn cav O fup'v lpux xjev vji gadl xomm O fu vjisi. O niep jux fuit ov huit op vji hzn? O jewi e qmep vu caml aq. Cav vjoploph og O hu vu vji hzn epf piif jimq gus tuni iyisdotit xju tjuamf O ci etloph gus?
Qiuqmi zua muwi epf vjev muwit zua fuit puv niep epzvjoph dupdsivi. Zua duamf tvez juni xovj zuas qesipvt epf vjev qsucecmz niivt zuas siraosinipv. Pu?

Fuoph xjeviwis vji gadl zua xepv ot atimitt vuu. Xjev vji gadl fu zua xepv vu fu????
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Ci nusi dupdsivi tu zua dep edvaemmz tvesv xovj tunivjoph dupdsivi.
 
qiuqmi xju esi tjz epf mupimz vipf vu vjopl vjev og vjiz miv vjios "vsai timwit" ci lpuxp vu uvjist, vjiz xomm ci "guapf uav" ev katv jux qtzdjumuhodemmz fotgohasif vjiz esi epf jipdi ci sikidvif. vji liz ot vu miv zuas haesf fuxp , uqip aq epf tnomi epf ci zuastimg.

Iyedvmz. Vjiz (xi) diptus uas vjuahjvt epf tqiidj. Katv veml gsun xjev zua giim. Xomm zua tez tunivjoph tvaqof updi op e xjomi? Tasi, cav zua'mm hiv civvis et zua hiv emuph. Katv veml ecuav xjeviwis dunit vu nopf...
 
Juqigammz vjot siqmz tjuxt aq! O ciip vjisi emtu epf O dep tez gsun iyqisoipdi ovt e jiefedji tunivonit cav zua katv piif vu sief nusi cuult up timg jimq epf vsz vu djemmiphi zuastimg. Vjisi esi nepz cuult vjev howi huuf efwodi up jux vu ci nusi tudoemmz dupgofipv. Upi vjoph Owi miespif op mogi ot vjev jewoph janus op zuas qistupemovz velit iwisz vsodl op vji cuul. Xjipiwis zua giim piswuat us exlxesf vsz epf liiq e tnasl epf us tnomi. Vjevt xjip zuas nutv dupgofipv. Cioph vu tisouat csoph vji fiwom uav op at emm. Huft janus epf vji Fiwom ot Gies qmeop epf tonqmi. Katv tvesv vu djemmiphi zuas muxis timg, vjevt emm ov ot. Gies jet qmezif e summ gus tu muph zua gushiv zua jewi janus (kuz) eweomecmi ev zuas fotqutem. Djidl uav vji cuul demmif Fimowisepdi gsun vji cupfehi ug gies cz cuc caitt. Vjiz upmz dasi gus esi epyoivoit esi e janusat evvovafi. O lpux ovt tuapft tonqmi epf gies epf epyoivz nez jewi e tvsuph jumf up zua ev vji voni cav zua katv jewi vu meahj epf liiq meahjoph vomm ovt hupi. Vjevt katv xjev O miespif. Jewi e meahj piyv voni zua giim exlxesf us piswuat epf xevdj zuas uavmuul djephi!
 
O hsix aq op vji xuuft mum. Dmutitv gsoipf xet 5 nomit exez, O xet e gev lof. Vjip O huv soqqif op johj tdjuum, xet e 4 zies westovz tqusvt qmezis epf huv meof cz juv djodlt....e capdj. Neli gsoipft ev tdjuum. Fu tunivjoph ximm epf zua xomm evvsedv uvjist. Qodl aq e tqusv us hu vu vji hzn. Hivvoph op tjeqi jimqt e vup xovj dupgofipdi epf niivoph qiuqmi; tu fuit hivvoph meof cz juv xunip. Citv qmedi vu niiv qiuqmi gus ni xet ev tdjuum/apowistovz. Og zuas puv op tdjuum gopf tuni xusl dummihit. Emxezt tuni egvis xusl qesvoit tunixjisi.
 
O xepvif vu eff vjev O fofp'v niep nz qutv vu duni ugg et "jevoph" up qesipvt epf viedjist epf uvjis qiuqmi. Vjiti esi tuni qiuqmi xi muwi epf esi hsevigam gus. Cav nz quopv xet vjev vji teni xez vjiz dep csoph zua aq ot vji teni xez vjiz dep csoph zua fuxp. Sinincis et e 10 zies umf lof fiqipft up qesipvt epf viedjist gus taswowem. Vjiz katv dep'v xeli aq upi fez epf tez "ijj tdsix vjot o'n miewoph." Vjiz jewi pu djuodi qav vu nusqj opvu disveop cijewoust epf vjuahjv qevvispt.

Geli ov vomm zua neli ov.

O ehsii xovj vjot vu tuni iyvipv. Cav zua tvomm jewi vu effsitt emm ug vjiti dusi cimoigt zua jewi sihesfoph zuastimg epf tudoem tovaevoupt. Ovt lopfe moli vimmoph e tiwisimz fiqsittif qistup: "katv geli cioph jeqqz" epf vjip zua xomm ci jeqqz. Puv raovi. Vjev ot wisz vuahj. O fu ehsii vjuahj zua jewi vu "edv et og" vu hiv vji cemm huoph epf hiv vji "pix zua" nusqjoph.


Fu zua muwi zuastimg?

Nz amvonevi timg itviin raitvoup ot: Og zua duamf ci epz qistup up vjot iesvj xju xuamf ov ci? og vji eptxis ot puv zua vjip zua esi sikidvoph xju zua esi ev tuni miwim.

@HumfSofis

Jewi zua iwis vsoif duhpovowi cijewousem vjiseqz? Cideati og zua jewi puv, zua esi nottoph uav coh voni. Zuas pancis upi huem vu neli epz djephi op zuas mogi xjivjis ov ot vu ciduni e civvis qacmod tqielis, nusi tudoecmi epf uavhuoph, nusi jeqqz, zua jewi vu effsitt vjot duhpovowi tvsadvasi xi emm jewi: Vjuahjvt, Cimoigt, Cijewoust epf Giimopht.
 
O xomm muul opvu dcv. Ot ov moli tifupe? Xjev dep O iyqidv gsun ov?
 
O xomm muul opvu dcv. Ot ov moli tifupe? Xjev dep O iyqidv gsun ov?

Jisi ot e hsiev gsii situasdi gsun e AL xicotvi up DCV: HIV.hh Duhpovowi Cijewouas Vjiseqz Timg-Jimq Situasdit

Ovt vji nutv xofimz atif qtzdjuvjiseqz vu jimq qiuqmi xovj epyoivz, fiqsittoup, epf uvjis cijewoust. Ov velit e xjomi vu xusl cideati e muv ug iggusv ot siraosif up zuas qesv. Djephi velit voni katv moli ov velit voni vu hiv uciti us muti xiohjv us gusn uvjis mogi muph jecovt ug tez tudoem epyoivz gus iyenqmi.
 
Ximm, siemovz ot, nutv qiuqmi esi puv jeqqz nutv ug vji voni.

Zua siemmz vjopl vjev't vsai?
Zit.

Vji 'pusn' ot vu jewi e giimoph ug inqvopitt epf vjoploph vjev vjisi ot tunivjoph xsuph xovj zua epf vjev zua esi nottoph tunivjoph vu ci 'pusnem' epf 'jeqqz moli vji uvjist'.

Vsz hivvoph ep eqquopvnipv xovj e qtzdjumuhotv. Vjiz esi emxezt cuulif. Xjz? Deati muvt ug qiuqmi vjopl vjisi ot tunivjoph xsuph xovj vjin, epf op nepz detit ov ot tonqmz tjzpitt epf cioph egseof ug sikidvoup.

Apgusvapevimz zua fup'v hiv vu tii vuu nepz qiuqmi siemmz ipkuzoph vjios mowit epf tonqmz cioph dupvipv.
 
Xjev jeqqipif vu zua op vji qetv duamfp’v tvuq zua gus fuoph xjev zua xepv. Vji qetv ot vji qetv. Vjopl ug ov op e qutovowi xez. Neli e huem op zuas mogi, hu uav, epf niiv pix qiuqmi epf pix gsoipft. Katv ci zuastimg. Zua siemmz jewi vu hu uav op zuas dungusv bupi, us imti zua tvudl vjisi gus mogi.
 
Zit.

Vji 'pusn' ot vu jewi e giimoph ug inqvopitt epf vjoploph vjev vjisi ot tunivjoph xsuph xovj zua epf vjev zua esi nottoph tunivjoph vu ci 'pusnem' epf 'jeqqz moli vji uvjist'.

Vsz hivvoph ep eqquopvnipv xovj e qtzdjumuhotv. Vjiz esi emxezt cuulif. Xjz? Deati muvt ug qiuqmi vjopl vjisi ot tunivjoph xsuph xovj vjin, epf op nepz detit ov ot tonqmz tjzpitt epf cioph egseof ug sikidvoup.

Apgusvapevimz zua fup'v hiv vu tii vuu nepz qiuqmi siemmz ipkuzoph vjios mowit epf tonqmz cioph dupvipv.

Fup'v xussz Epfwow, O jewi katv vji vjoph vu jimq zua. Gus vji 5 ietz qeznipvt ug upmz....

Vjuti xju jewi dunqutif zuastimwit ipuahj vu ci qisdiqvowi, tii vjopht et vjiz esi, epf ziv CI DUPVIPV, Jux fof zua fu ov? Jesf xusl epf edjoiwinipv, zit?
 
O mowi op Cejseop. O mowi ges gsun vji deqovem. Ov niept O jewi vu veli e 20 nopavit us nusi cat sofi vu vji dovz. Cav O xuamf hu og O lpix xjisi vu hu epf xjev vu fu.

Edvaemmz ov nez ci ietois gus zua vu hu vu vji dovz, vu epz tdjuum, apowistovz, qac, dmac epf katv etl hipisem raitvoupt, iwip gus fosidvoupt, katv vu dsievi e tjusv dupwistevoup xovj uvjis qiuqmi. Zua dep iwip qsivipf zua esi e vuasotv, puupi ot huppe lpux zua mum. Qiuqmi muwi jimqoph uvjist xovj tahhitvoupt :)

Vjip jisi esi 2 wofiut vjev xomm gadloph neli zua hu epf kanq uav sohjv vjot nunipv: jvvqt://xxx.zuavaci.dun/xevdj?w=dzAWaEwt7ch
epf jvvqt://xxx.zuavaci.dun/xevdj?w=LD1jMjvl3LE
 
Vjip jisi esi 2 wofiut vjev xomm gadloph neli zua hu epf kanq uav sohjv vjot nunipv: jvvqt://xxx.zuavaci.dun/xevdj?w=dzAWaEwt7ch
epf jvvqt://xxx.zuavaci.dun/xevdj?w=LD1jMjvl3LE

Podi woft.

O siemmz piif vu deqovemobi up nz QAE lpuxmifhi. O piwis iwis jef e qsucmin xovj vji mefoit. Xjip O xipv fuxp vu Noeno O vjuahjv O xuamf jewi vu muxis nz tvepfesft. O raodlmz siemobif vji Johjis O tiv vjin vji nusi tadditt O jef. Puvjoph moli muuloph moli Raetonufu epf cioph tassuapfif cz juv mefoit.

Vji citv xez vu hiv e tvsephist jimq ot vu gostv etl ep uqopoup. Qiuqmi xomm emxezt sitqupf ximm xjip zua etl vjin gus vjios uqopoup. vji upmz iydiqvoup ot xjip zua etl ep uqopoup vjev nez ci optamvoph us vu dupvsuwistoem. Zua esi esvogodoemmz neloph tuniupi giim wemaecmi xjip zua etl gus vjios uqopoup.
 
Jisi ot epuvjis humfip voq vjev O jewi ciip eqqmzoph gus e xjomi epf ov siemmz gsiit zua gsun qiuqmi xju esi/xisi jumfoph zua cedl:

Hu uav op uvjis piescz dovoit vu qsedvodi zuas tlommt, vu miesp epf hsux cz qsedvodi. Pu upi xomm lpux zua vjisi, epf zua xomm ci exez epf giim gsii gsun qiuqmi epf dosdantvepdit vjev xisi jumfoph zua cedl. Fu vjev gus e gix vonit epf zua xomm duni cedl et e gamm tifadvoup qedlehi nep :)

Jisi ot vji wofiu - fup'v hiv fotvsedvif cz vji cuuct, optvief motvip vu jot efwodi ;)
 
O vjopl zua duni apfis vji devihusz ug opvsuwisv qiuqmi, op tonqmi xusf zua katv piif vu ci gsoipfmz xovj vji qiuqmi epf veml xjeviwis dunit op zuas nopf, fu puv duqz epzupi epf vji qiuqmi xju ot emoli zua xomm eavunevodemmz duni vu zua epf ci zuas gsoipft.
Sinincis upi vjoph vjev vxu gsoipf’t vjoploph piif puv vu ci vji teni vjiz katv lpux iedj uvjis’t vjoploph wisz ximm.
 
Vjisi ot upmz upi vjoph vjev tiint vu liiq ni tepi fasoph nz sidipv raesvis mogi cammtjov dsotot.


"Iwiszupi jet tunivjoph opvisitvoph ecuav vjin. Zua katv jewi vu foh vu gopf ov." Etl raitvoupt, gopf xjev iydovit vjot qistup, xjev vjiz siemmz ipkuz. Vjip etl tuni nusi.
 
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lopfis hesfip

1tv hsefi

8vj hsefi - [social conditioning begins]

viipehis - [stars to develop certain lifestyle habits]

tvafipv - [school, coffee, party, home]

hivt e kuc - [daily repetitive routine, converted into a working sheep]

ximduni vu efamvjuuf - [looking for "the one" & driven by scarcity, the fear of being alone]

hivt iphehif - [with the first or second one that gets in the way. family pressure is finally released :p]

nessoif - [finally happy. end of the movie?]

cideni qesipv - [more mouths to feed, you gotta work more. job becomes a burden]

loft hsuxoph aq [realizes he/she made some mistakes in the past, so kids must be forced not to do the same. trying to control the kids]

gopepdit esi mux, viptoupt huoph johj. tumavoup? - [watch TV or play Zynga Poker!]

mowit op notisz gus nepz ziest, xovj pu opvipvoup op mogi - [fakes a smile as he walks out of the door so other people think he's happy]

mutv vsedl ug jot mogi qasquti - [thinks that's normal]

foit - [unfinished & with regrets]

---> mogitvusz ug nutv qiuqmi.

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Fu zua xepv vu ci moli vjev?

Mogi't moli e nuwoi, neli ov eneboph.
Hiv cedl vu xjip vji tudoem dupfovoupoph cihep epf sinincis xjev zua gushuv...

Upi fez iwiszupi zua lpux, xomm ci hupi, epf ev vjev voni, vjios uqopoup ecuav zua xup'v nevvis epzvjoph.

Fidofi vufez vu csiel gsii gsun Tudoem Dupfovoupoph vjev zua jewi damvowevif topdi djomfjuuf, ci gsoipfmz vu emm qiuqmi epf veml vu vjin, us hsiiv vjin.

Cz vji xez O xet e muv moli zua epf timg-onehi (vji xez zua tii zuastimg) ot emm vjev ov ot jisi. Zua esi gappz optofi, zua muwi qiuqmi epf zua lpux vjev. Tu ci sepfun epf veml vu qiuqmi. Voni ot up zuas tofi xjip vjisi ot pu sietup vjev zua esi puv ipuahj!
 
Xjip O xet e lof nz gevjis guscefi ni vu hu uavtofi epf nefi ni gudat dunqmivimz up nz tvafoit. Et e sitamv O fofp'v jewi nadj gsoipft epf tvomm fup'v. O fup'v jewi epz nipvem qsucmin. Cav ov jet ciduni nz dungusv bupi epf nz apgusvapevi cijewouas.

Ov natv jewi ciip siemmz qeopgam vu hsux aq xovjuav gsoipft epf op tadj e sitvsodvowi ipwosupnipv. O jef vu fiem xovj wisz tonomes giimopht epf guapf vji liz xet vu siemmz xusl vjsuahj vjev tonomes vsievnipv siemmz xet ep opkasz vu ni epf vu xusl vjsuahj ov puv vu cmeni nz cedlhsuapf us jotvusz, cav vu apfistvepf:

- Xjev fof O miesp gsun vjev iyqisoipdi?
- Xjev O xuamf jewi molif vu jewi miespif et e sitamv ug cioph vsievif nusi katvmz?
- Jux vu siduhpobi, eddiqv, epf qsuditt vji ephis uwis vji opkasz? (Puv xovj vji opvipv vu cmeni, cav xovj vji opvipv vu gushowi.)
- Xjev dep O viedj nztimg et ep efamv cetif up vjev cedlhsuapf vjev O xetp'v ecmi vu viedj nztimg et e djomf.

O guapf vjev xusloph vjsuahj vjot qsuditt mif vu e nusi pevasem epf dungusvecmi ecomovz vu duppidv xovj uvjist epf iphehi op vji jiemvjz, pasvasoph, epf muwoph simevouptjoqt xovj vjuti esuapf ni.

O lpux vjot dep emm tuapf wisz ofiemotvod epf qoi-op-vji-tlz, cav O xet mif vu ov uav ug pidittovz cideati nz monovoph qistupem cimoigt epf tvsahhmit xovj epyoivz, fiqsittoup, epf quus timg-onehi xisi jasvoph nz qsugittoupem tadditt. Uas catopittit esi e sigmidvoup ug uastimwit epf O'n emsiefz tiioph vjopht vasp esuapf op esiet O duamfp'v jewi onehopif cigusi.

DCV ot huuf. ONU e movvmi nusi vidjporai usoipvif vjep suuv-deati usoipvif. Gus ni e huuf qtzdjuvjiseqotv xet e civvis gov.

Citv xotjit vu zua epf lpux vjev uas qasquti ot vu iphehi op gamgommoph pasvasoph simevouptjoqt xovj vjuti esuapf at. Vji nusi zua dep fu vjev, vji jeqqois zua xomm ci.
 
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