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Hey, I'm Artiom.
I've been a lurker here for some time. Through the past 2 years, I've been consuming a lot of posts, but still haven't produced anything reasonable. After so much action-faking, I realized that now is the best time to commit with a progress thread. My old strategy didn't work, so it's time to change it.
The Past
Most of my life, we were quite poor. My money making journey is one that started about 4 years ago at 14. It was a time when I started to feel some responsibility towards our finances. I really wanted to help my parents. Got tired of hearing "we / I don't have money". Back then, I often tried different things like micro-jobs, online surveys, freelancing, making YouTube content and more.
About 2 years ago, it got me so hard. I tried YouTube, freelancing, some other things too, and it got me down again. I started to dream a lot about a rich lifestyle. Where I was a millionaire and I didn't have to care about any other problems anymore. After that fail, I had no idea of what to do next, so I just started to search for a solution online (Reddit, Youtube, Twitter). Yes, tons of gurus, but that exaggerated and unrealistic promises never caught me.
After a lot of searching, I discovered MJ's books through James Jani's video about "The Untold Truth About Money". That concept felt so cool for me. It was like the best solution I could have possibly gotten. It got me thinking.
So after reading the books and getting familiar with everything in the Fastlane, Unscripted , entrepreneurship part; I got back to work.
My goal was to first learn a skill that could at least assure me with a source of income. I have chosen web development. The only reason is that I already had a lot of experience in programming. Web development was a pretty flexible skill too, like in freelancing.
So my goal was to:
1) Learn web development
2) Work as a freelancer and make a basic living from it + some capital for what business was about to come
In short, I spent about 6 months learning that skill + one mega project that took an extra 5 months (learned a lot too). The problem is that I couldn't find any work.
I know I action-faked a LOT. Learning that skill first was quite a mistake. Then, I kept getting busy with the "building stuff". Learning, strategizing and so on. However, I had my fair share of action. But again, nothing.
Here's what I did (with real action) after learning that skill:
- Upwork (soo difficult, but got a client. Later realized that you need to confirm you're over 18 with your id)
- Cold emailing / calling (that didn't go well)
- Instagram marketing (only some leads but no clients)
- TikTok marketing
- Self-promotion (some leads again, nothing else)
Looking at it now, I wasn't really solving any problem. I was focused on me and only about how I can sell, market and make money.
I got so frustrated. It felt like a real action and a solid process. But because of some "external forces" (My friends started progressing by making actual money). I felt like an idiot. Spent literally all my time and effort into learning that skill while also learning a lot about entrepreneurship. And after all of this, I still couldn't even make $1.
You probably understand how I felt.
To avoid any more action-faking, got myself a journal where I controlled and specified everything I was doing in a day. It was based on the 3AAA and other principles about progress. Not so complicated. I just used a system where I was putting a Problems List for the day. That problems list specified every problem I had on this journey that had to be adjusted.
After a short time of not knowing what to do, I decided to go back to the basics. Rewatched the video (Which btw is the best and simplest explanation for the Fastlane / making money philosophy. He explained it better than MJ). I started following Andy's posts.
I knew I had to solve problems. I knew I had to help people and change lives. You know, all of these things.
So, based on one of Andy's posts "Who have you helped ?", I got started into helping people on Quora. Got straight to work, and.....................it failed. I responded to 140 questions in total. Literally no one responded back.
Got back to the post, rewatched the video again and again. I had to find a solution. Grasped some new things and kind of understood the problem. I was responding to mostly bots (Quora question generators), not humans.
There are few people on the platform who put reasonable questions about how to fix their problems. And most of them are not in "Motion" (are not taking action). So it's hard to find someone who is, at first, hungry enough to accept a more detailed conversation about how I can help him. It's a question -> response based platform only.
After that, I had fallen again into doing nothing. I got so tired about things not working. The worst part was reminding myself of how much time has passed. How many things I had tried and got faded. About how many times I action-faked with the strategizing and building stuff.
A year ago I was at full speed learning things so fast, both my primary skill and entrepreneurship. Now I feel like I had stepped into the "Real World".
Current Situation
And this is where I'm currently now.
I have to start helping people. I got it. Feed someone and you'll never go hungry. I supposedly action-faked again by just absorbing this concept non-stop. I now know it like the back of my hand.
Just help someone, and everything falls into place. Don't think about what skills I have gotten. Think about them.
Through most of this trip doing "real" stuff, I failed just because I wasn't helping anyone or solving any problem. The last experience with Quora got me a bit confused. I thought I was finally doing the right stuff, even if it felt useless and long-term oriented. But it seems like there were some other things I haven't paid attention to. However, I still consider it as a potential solution.
What's Next
To keep myself committed, I created this intro and I will also make a progress thread. I also hope that your advice guys, will make my life much easier with this. I currently came with another strategy, even more inclined towards helping people and solving problems. Now I'll make sure I'm talking to real humans, and truly helping someone.
We'll see how it goes. Better to spend a lot of time solving problems for free and gaining reputation + experience, instead of thinking about the past and how much I failed.
"Who have you helped ?" and "What problems are you solving ?" are my current quotes.
I want to thank you all for reading this.
Yes, I know it was boring and a me-focused. There are a lot of intro posts in here who sound all similar. "I'm poor, blah blah, I want to make money. I failed. Now I want to start over. blah blah". But this was just my little introduction in here so I can finally look more like part of the family instead of a foreigner
Thank you once again. (Sorry for the grammar mistakes too. I'm getting better at it too, especially by helping people)
I've been a lurker here for some time. Through the past 2 years, I've been consuming a lot of posts, but still haven't produced anything reasonable. After so much action-faking, I realized that now is the best time to commit with a progress thread. My old strategy didn't work, so it's time to change it.
The Past
Most of my life, we were quite poor. My money making journey is one that started about 4 years ago at 14. It was a time when I started to feel some responsibility towards our finances. I really wanted to help my parents. Got tired of hearing "we / I don't have money". Back then, I often tried different things like micro-jobs, online surveys, freelancing, making YouTube content and more.
About 2 years ago, it got me so hard. I tried YouTube, freelancing, some other things too, and it got me down again. I started to dream a lot about a rich lifestyle. Where I was a millionaire and I didn't have to care about any other problems anymore. After that fail, I had no idea of what to do next, so I just started to search for a solution online (Reddit, Youtube, Twitter). Yes, tons of gurus, but that exaggerated and unrealistic promises never caught me.
After a lot of searching, I discovered MJ's books through James Jani's video about "The Untold Truth About Money". That concept felt so cool for me. It was like the best solution I could have possibly gotten. It got me thinking.
So after reading the books and getting familiar with everything in the Fastlane, Unscripted , entrepreneurship part; I got back to work.
My goal was to first learn a skill that could at least assure me with a source of income. I have chosen web development. The only reason is that I already had a lot of experience in programming. Web development was a pretty flexible skill too, like in freelancing.
So my goal was to:
1) Learn web development
2) Work as a freelancer and make a basic living from it + some capital for what business was about to come
In short, I spent about 6 months learning that skill + one mega project that took an extra 5 months (learned a lot too). The problem is that I couldn't find any work.
I know I action-faked a LOT. Learning that skill first was quite a mistake. Then, I kept getting busy with the "building stuff". Learning, strategizing and so on. However, I had my fair share of action. But again, nothing.
Here's what I did (with real action) after learning that skill:
- Upwork (soo difficult, but got a client. Later realized that you need to confirm you're over 18 with your id)
- Cold emailing / calling (that didn't go well)
- Instagram marketing (only some leads but no clients)
- TikTok marketing
- Self-promotion (some leads again, nothing else)
Looking at it now, I wasn't really solving any problem. I was focused on me and only about how I can sell, market and make money.
I got so frustrated. It felt like a real action and a solid process. But because of some "external forces" (My friends started progressing by making actual money). I felt like an idiot. Spent literally all my time and effort into learning that skill while also learning a lot about entrepreneurship. And after all of this, I still couldn't even make $1.
You probably understand how I felt.
To avoid any more action-faking, got myself a journal where I controlled and specified everything I was doing in a day. It was based on the 3AAA and other principles about progress. Not so complicated. I just used a system where I was putting a Problems List for the day. That problems list specified every problem I had on this journey that had to be adjusted.
After a short time of not knowing what to do, I decided to go back to the basics. Rewatched the video (Which btw is the best and simplest explanation for the Fastlane / making money philosophy. He explained it better than MJ). I started following Andy's posts.
I knew I had to solve problems. I knew I had to help people and change lives. You know, all of these things.
So, based on one of Andy's posts "Who have you helped ?", I got started into helping people on Quora. Got straight to work, and.....................it failed. I responded to 140 questions in total. Literally no one responded back.
Got back to the post, rewatched the video again and again. I had to find a solution. Grasped some new things and kind of understood the problem. I was responding to mostly bots (Quora question generators), not humans.
There are few people on the platform who put reasonable questions about how to fix their problems. And most of them are not in "Motion" (are not taking action). So it's hard to find someone who is, at first, hungry enough to accept a more detailed conversation about how I can help him. It's a question -> response based platform only.
After that, I had fallen again into doing nothing. I got so tired about things not working. The worst part was reminding myself of how much time has passed. How many things I had tried and got faded. About how many times I action-faked with the strategizing and building stuff.
A year ago I was at full speed learning things so fast, both my primary skill and entrepreneurship. Now I feel like I had stepped into the "Real World".
Current Situation
And this is where I'm currently now.
I have to start helping people. I got it. Feed someone and you'll never go hungry. I supposedly action-faked again by just absorbing this concept non-stop. I now know it like the back of my hand.
Just help someone, and everything falls into place. Don't think about what skills I have gotten. Think about them.
Through most of this trip doing "real" stuff, I failed just because I wasn't helping anyone or solving any problem. The last experience with Quora got me a bit confused. I thought I was finally doing the right stuff, even if it felt useless and long-term oriented. But it seems like there were some other things I haven't paid attention to. However, I still consider it as a potential solution.
What's Next
To keep myself committed, I created this intro and I will also make a progress thread. I also hope that your advice guys, will make my life much easier with this. I currently came with another strategy, even more inclined towards helping people and solving problems. Now I'll make sure I'm talking to real humans, and truly helping someone.
We'll see how it goes. Better to spend a lot of time solving problems for free and gaining reputation + experience, instead of thinking about the past and how much I failed.
"Who have you helped ?" and "What problems are you solving ?" are my current quotes.
I want to thank you all for reading this.
Yes, I know it was boring and a me-focused. There are a lot of intro posts in here who sound all similar. "I'm poor, blah blah, I want to make money. I failed. Now I want to start over. blah blah". But this was just my little introduction in here so I can finally look more like part of the family instead of a foreigner
Thank you once again. (Sorry for the grammar mistakes too. I'm getting better at it too, especially by helping people)
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