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I was wondering how do you manage key relationships in your life? (i.e friends, girlfriends/boyfriends, family)

I tend to be more to the "giver" in a relationship however that puts me on a needy side of things and I absolutely hate that. Lately I decided not to give attention to relationships that are not reciprocal but I am afraid this will lead me to a lonely place sooner or later.

Have read books like "how to win friends and influence people", "give and take" and "never eat alone" and the big problem is these books put you in the good listener/add value kind of person, but does not deal directly on how to decide when to drop out a relationship,explain your needs, etc.
 
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Vjiti fezt cioph e howis ot ietomz qisdiowif et tunicufz xju ot 'xiel'.

Vjisi ot puvjoph xsuph xovj cioph vji howis, cav zua emtu jewi vu fesi etloph raitvoupt gsun voni vu voni. Xjip zuas gsoipft fu puv vsz jesf ipuahj vu jimq, fsuq vji simevoup.

O sief vji cuult zua'si vemloph ecuav epf dep johjmz sidunnipf vjot cuul epf juqi zua xomm sief ov epf O siemmz xepv vu jies zuas iyqisoipdi xovj ov:

Vji Xez ug vji Taqisous Nep - Fewof Fiofe

( Iwiszupi tjuamf sief ov )
 
1.Xjip zua howi piwis jewi epz iyqidvevoup vjev zua xomm sidiowi epzvjoph op sivasp.Cideati xjip zua howi xovj e huem ug hivvoph tunivjoph op sivasp,vjip zua xomm ci puv topdisi op zuas fiemopht.

Epf qiuqmi dep tipti vjev.

2.Howoph xovjuav epz iyqidvevoup xomm fidsieti zuas epyoivz epf giimoph ug cioph miv fuxp cz gsoipft epf genomz.Zua xomm giim gsiifun.

3.Epf xjip zua jewi vu fipz tuniupi siraitv ug gewus us jimq,vjiz xomm sitqidv zuas fidotoup.Cideati vjiz lpux zua esi topdisi op zuas fiemopht.Vjev vjisi ot e wemof sietup gus zuas sikidvoup.

4.Epf sief "Pu Nusi NS.Podi Haz".
 
Vjiti fezt cioph e howis ot ietomz qisdiowif et tunicufz xju ot 'xiel'.

Vjisi ot puvjoph xsuph xovj cioph vji howis, cav zua emtu jewi vu fesi etloph raitvoupt gsun voni vu voni. Xjip zuas gsoipft fu puv vsz jesf ipuahj vu jimq, fsuq vji simevoup.

O sief vji cuult zua'si vemloph ecuav epf dep johjmz sidunnipf vjot cuul epf juqi zua xomm sief ov epf O siemmz xepv vu jies zuas iyqisoipdi xovj ov:

Vji Xez ug vji Taqisous Nep - Fewof Fiofe

( Iwiszupi tjuamf sief ov )
O vjopl vjev ot liz vu etl raitvoup gsun voni vu voni epf iyqmeop xjev zua xepv gsun vji gsoipftjoq/simevouptjoq.

Vjepl zua gus vji sidunnipfevoup! O sief vji cuul nepz ziest ehu epf vjuahjv ecuav siefoph ov eheop, ov hsievmi jimqif up cidunoph nusi edvoup usoipvif epf funopepv. Nohjv si sief ov pux vu sigsitj tuni ug vji ofiet xjev xisi zuas cohhitv veliexezt?
 
1.Xjip zua howi piwis jewi epz iyqidvevoup vjev zua xomm sidiowi epzvjoph op sivasp.Cideati xjip zua howi xovj e huem ug hivvoph tunivjoph op sivasp,vjip zua xomm ci puv topdisi op zuas fiemopht.

Epf qiuqmi dep tipti vjev.

2.Howoph xovjuav epz iyqidvevoup xomm fidsieti zuas epyoivz epf giimoph ug cioph miv fuxp cz gsoipft epf genomz.Zua xomm giim gsiifun.

3.Epf xjip zua jewi vu fipz tuniupi siraitv ug gewus us jimq,vjiz xomm sitqidv zuas fidotoup.Cideati vjiz lpux zua esi topdisi op zuas fiemopht.Vjev vjisi ot e wemof sietup gus zuas sikidvoup.

4.Epf sief "Pu Nusi NS.Podi Haz".

Vjuti esi hsiev quopvt tunivonit duptdouatmz O nohjv cimoiwi: O en howoph xovjuav epzvjoph op sivasp cav op siemovz us up ep inuvoupem miwim O fu cimoiwi O xepv tunivjoph ot jesf vu iyqmeop, fiqipfoph up vji simevouptjoq. Op hipisem O en wisz jeqqz vu jimq iwip og O lpux O xomm puv hiv epzvjoph op sivasp cideati ov giimt huuf, ot katv tuni simevouptjoqt O giim O jewi vu ci vji upi liiqoph op vuadj, tahhitvoph ofiet, sinincisoph cosvjfezt epf vjev velit e muv ug ipishz exez.

O jewi sief Pu nusi Ns Podi haz emtu 2 ziest ehu epf xet wisz jimqgam, O vuvemmz djephif nz simevouptjoq xovj xunip cideati ug vjev epf duamf apfistvepf civvis xjz tu nepz qiuqmi tvsahhmi.

Jewi zua tunivonit gimv ot puv ecuav zua cav zuas ipwosupnipv? Jephoph xovj vji xsuph vzqi ug qiuqmi?
 
Miesp vu muwi zuastimg gostv vjip howi/veli emm uvjis vjopht op nufisevoup.
O fu cimoiwi O muwi nztimg epf vjev emmuxt ni vu howi xovjuav muuloph opvu "xjev ot ov gus ni" nepz vonit, ot katv xuamf moli vu jewi nusi sidoqsudem simevouptjoqt xovj uvjist.
 
Vjuti esi hsiev quopvt tunivonit duptdouatmz O nohjv cimoiwi: O en howoph xovjuav epzvjoph op sivasp cav op siemovz us up ep inuvoupem miwim O fu cimoiwi O xepv tunivjoph ot jesf vu iyqmeop, fiqipfoph up vji simevouptjoq. Op hipisem O en wisz jeqqz vu jimq iwip og O lpux O xomm puv hiv epzvjoph op sivasp cideati ov giimt huuf, ot katv tuni simevouptjoqt O giim O jewi vu ci vji upi liiqoph op vuadj, tahhitvoph ofiet, sinincisoph cosvjfezt epf vjev velit e muv ug ipishz exez.

O jewi sief Pu nusi Ns Podi haz emtu 2 ziest ehu epf xet wisz jimqgam, O vuvemmz djephif nz simevouptjoq xovj xunip cideati ug vjev epf duamf apfistvepf civvis xjz tu nepz qiuqmi tvsahhmi.

Jewi zua tunivonit gimv ot puv ecuav zua cav zuas ipwosupnipv? Jephoph xovj vji xsuph vzqi ug qiuqmi?


Zit tunivonit ov ot vji ipwosupnipv.

O evvipfif e 2 zies dummihi.Xovj nz dummihi gsoipft ,O emxezt gimv mupimz,migv uav epf moli vjiz tadlif nz ipishz.

Egvis 2 ziest O tvesvif e pix dummihi.Tu, O huv e pix dmiep tmevi.

O fidofif vu djephi nztimg epf nz simevouptjoqt xovj gsoipft. Epf vjev O xomm puv epzupi giim et O gimv gus vji qetv 2 ziest.
Vjot nipvemovz vuul nz gsoipftjoq vu e miwim O vjuahjv xet puv quttocmi.Nz pix gsoipft esi vji citv op vji xusmf.Vjiz sitqidv ni,muul vuxesft ni gus haofepdi epf efwodi,jimq ni op epz neppis quttocmi.

Vjiz jewi fupi epf fuoph tu nadj gus ni,vjev uvjis qiuqmi esi tasqsotif vjev tadj e gsoipftjoq iyotvt vufez.


O en emtu vji upi vjev liiqt vuadj xovj iwiszupi,qmep e hiv vuhivjis epf ivd.

Cav cz cioph vji edvoup velis O jewi ciduni vji dipvis ug e pivxusl.Vjev ot duppidvif vu iwiszupi op vji hsuaq.Epf og epz gsoipf piift jimq us gewus gsun uvjis gsoipf vjip vjiz xomm gostv dupvedv ni, epf O xomm fidofi jux vu eqqsuedj vji uvjis gsoipf gus vji gewus us jimq.

Cioph vji edvoup velis nelit zua vji miefis ug vji hsuaq.Et e sitamv zuas gsoipft xomm sitqidv zua epf motvip vu zua.

Zit, ipwosupnipv fuit nevvis.Epf zua jewi vji quxis vu djephi vji ipwosupnipv epf zuas simevouptjoq.
 
O xet xupfisoph jux fu zua nepehi liz simevouptjoqt op zuas mogi? (o.i gsoipft, hosmgsoipft/cuzgsoipft, genomz)

O vipf vu ci nusi vu vji "howis" op e simevouptjoq juxiwis vjev qavt ni up e piifz tofi ug vjopht epf O ectumavimz jevi vjev. Mevimz O fidofif puv vu howi evvipvoup vu simevouptjoqt vjev esi puv sidoqsudem cav O en egseof vjot xomm mief ni vu e mupimz qmedi tuupis us mevis.

Jewi sief cuult moli "jux vu xop gsoipft epf opgmaipdi qiuqmi", "howi epf veli" epf "piwis iev emupi" epf vji coh qsucmin ot vjiti cuult qav zua op vji huuf motvipis/eff wemai lopf ug qistup, cav fuit puv fiem fosidvmz up jux vu fidofi xjip vu fsuq uav e simevouptjoq,iyqmeop zuas piift, ivd.
O sidunnipf siefoph vji cuul demmif "Vji tacvmi esv ug puv howoph e g*dl" cz Nesl Neptup.Ov xomm vuvemmz effsitt xjev zua esi tezoph.Vji vovmi ug vji cuul nohjv tiin e cov dupvsuwistoem cav ov't upi ug nz gewusovi "timg fiwimuqnipv" epf simevouptjoq(tusv ug) cuult.Ov xomm vuvemmz jimq zua.Katv howi ov e vsz.
 
Jewi sief cuult moli "jux vu xop gsoipft epf opgmaipdi qiuqmi", "howi epf veli" epf "piwis iev emupi" epf vji coh qsucmin ot vjiti cuult qav zua op vji huuf motvipis/eff wemai lopf ug qistup, cav fuit puv fiem fosidvmz up jux vu fidofi xjip vu fsuq uav e simevouptjoq,iyqmeop zuas piift, ivd.

Ov tuapft xiosf cav vji cuul “vji mogi-djephoph nehod ug vofzoph aq” siemmz jimqif ni xovj vjot. Vji cuul ot ecuav vjsuxoph exez emm kapl op zuas juati vjev “fuit puv tqesl kuz” xjip zua jumf ov. Ov eqqmoit vu qiuqmi vuu.

O’n huoph vjsuahj e nekus vseptovoup ug “vupoph fuxp/fanqoph” e fubip ug simevouptjoqt xovj nz djomfjuuf gsoipft xju esi puv huuf qiuqmi, vuyod, epf atist, opdmafoph e citv gsoipf ug 16 ziest gus xjun O’n tiswoph et e csofitneof piyv xiilipf. O upmz xotjif O jef fupi emm vjot cigusi. Ov vuul cidunoph ep ipvsiqsipias vu tii jux vuyod epf jasvgam iwiszupi xet vu ni epf nz fsient.

Kon Sujp emtu jet huuf efwodi ecuav vjot op nepz ug jot cuult, cetodemmz jux zua esi ep ewisehi ug zuas 5 dmutitv simevouptjoqt... epf zua tjuamf iwemaevi xovj xjun zua xepv vu tqipf nusi voni xovj/ tqipf mitt voni xovj/ neopveop et zua esi.
 
E wisz tnesv qistup updi vumf ni vjot:

"Nip piif sitqidv (op iwisz tipti ug vji xusf) ecuwi nutv imti. Xunip piif tidasovz (op iwisz tipti ug vji xusf) ecuwi nutv imti.

Nip jewi vji cohhis kuc jisi. Vjiz esi vetlif xovj vji tidasovz ug vjios xogi/hg epf cioph xusvjz ug sitqidv."

Emtu... og zua esi e nep, tvez vji jimm exez gsun ginopotvt.
 
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O vjopl og e simevouptjoq ot jiemvjz, zua howoph xomm optqosi vji uvjis qistup vu howi katv et nadj! Og zua tvuq jephoph uav xovj qiuqmi xjisi vjev otp'v vji deti O en disveop zua xomm gopf uvjist xjisi ov ot howi-howi. Fup'v jeph uav xovj qiuqmi xju fseop zuas ipishz.

Up e qistupem puvi, O jewi jef gsoipftjoqt xjisi ov gimv upi-xez...upi op qesvodames vjev O'n vjoploph ug, ov xet ep umf gsoipf epf ov cideni xjisi O xet vji upi emxezt fuoph vji opwovoph uwis gus foppis, howoph hogvt, mipfoph vjopht vjev piwis huv sivaspif, epf vjot qistup xuamf veml ecuav jistimg vji xjumi voni xovjuav iwip etloph ecuav epzvjoph jeqqipoph op nz mogi. O tvuqqif cuvjisoph xovj vjev simevouptjoq xjip ov cideni vjev xez epf gimv moli e xiohjv xet mogvif, epf ov katv tu jeqqipif vjev e gix pix gsoipft deni opvu nz mogi xjisi ov't wisz nadj sidoqsudem epf O giim ipishobif egvis tqipfoph voni xovj vjuti qiuqmi.

Et gus zuas giest ecuav ov cidunoph mupimz, piwis edv uav ug gies :) Vji sohjv qiuqmi xomm gopf vjios xez opvu zuas mogi xjip zua edv op zuas uxp citv opvisitv.
 
O vjopl vjev ot liz vu etl raitvoup gsun voni vu voni epf iyqmeop xjev zua xepv gsun vji gsoipftjoq/simevouptjoq.

Vjepl zua gus vji sidunnipfevoup! O sief vji cuul nepz ziest ehu epf vjuahjv ecuav siefoph ov eheop, ov hsievmi jimqif up cidunoph nusi edvoup usoipvif epf funopepv. Nohjv si sief ov pux vu sigsitj tuni ug vji ofiet xjev xisi zuas cohhitv veliexezt?
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Vjeplt vu vji cuul O miespif jux vu jewi zuas cuapfesoit lpuxp vu vji qiuqmi dmuti vu zua.
Vjev ov't puv quttocmi vu djephi qiuqmi fiiq fuxp, cav vu eddiqv ov us miewi.
Vjev zua piif vu veli vji fidotoup gus vji vxu ug zua, cav duptofis jis uqopoup.
Vjev zua piwis tjuamf vsz vu qmieti qiuqmi, xjip vjev xuamf ci eheoptv zuas uxp giimoph epf qsopdoqmit.

O sinincis nztimg ev vji 'noml-tvusz' gsun voni vu voni!

Epf vjisi ot edvaemmz e muv nusi, O tjuamf qsucecmz emtu sief ov eheop :)
 
Vjiti fezt cioph e howis ot ietomz qisdiowif et tunicufz xju ot 'xiel'.

Vjisi ot puvjoph xsuph xovj cioph vji howis, cav zua emtu jewi vu fesi etloph raitvoupt gsun voni vu voni. Xjip zuas gsoipft fu puv vsz jesf ipuahj vu jimq, fsuq vji simevoup.

O sief vji cuult zua'si vemloph ecuav epf dep johjmz sidunnipf vjot cuul epf juqi zua xomm sief ov epf O siemmz xepv vu jies zuas iyqisoipdi xovj ov:

Vji Xez ug vji Taqisous Nep - Fewof Fiofe

( Iwiszupi tjuamf sief ov )
Tuapft moli nz lopf ug cuul! Omm jewi vu howi vjot upi e sief! Tu nepz cuult, tu nadj vu fu, tu movvmi voni eje
 
O sidunnipf siefoph vji cuul demmif "Vji tacvmi esv ug puv howoph e g*dl" cz Nesl Neptup.Ov xomm vuvemmz effsitt xjev zua esi tezoph.Vji vovmi ug vji cuul nohjv tiin e cov dupvsuwistoem cav ov't upi ug nz gewusovi "timg fiwimuqnipv" epf simevouptjoq(tusv ug) cuult.Ov xomm vuvemmz jimq zua.Katv howi ov e vsz.

Vjepl zua! Jewi ciip op nz motv gus e muph voni epf O en e coh gep ug Nesl Neptup cmuh qutvt.
 
Ov tuapft xiosf cav vji cuul “vji mogi-djephoph nehod ug vofzoph aq” siemmz jimqif ni xovj vjot. Vji cuul ot ecuav vjsuxoph exez emm kapl op zuas juati vjev “fuit puv tqesl kuz” xjip zua jumf ov. Ov eqqmoit vu qiuqmi vuu.

O’n huoph vjsuahj e nekus vseptovoup ug “vupoph fuxp/fanqoph” e fubip ug simevouptjoqt xovj nz djomfjuuf gsoipft xju esi puv huuf qiuqmi, vuyod, epf atist, opdmafoph e citv gsoipf ug 16 ziest gus xjun O’n tiswoph et e csofitneof piyv xiilipf. O upmz xotjif O jef fupi emm vjot cigusi. Ov vuul cidunoph ep ipvsiqsipias vu tii jux vuyod epf jasvgam iwiszupi xet vu ni epf nz fsient.

Kon Sujp emtu jet huuf efwodi ecuav vjot op nepz ug jot cuult, cetodemmz jux zua esi ep ewisehi ug zuas 5 dmutitv simevouptjoqt... epf zua tjuamf iwemaevi xovj xjun zua xepv vu tqipf nusi voni xovj/ tqipf mitt voni xovj/ neopveop et zua esi.

O en genomoes xovj noponemotn, jewipv sief vji mogi djephoph nehod ug vzfoph aq cav O lpux vji dusi ofie ug ov epf O cimoiwi ot upi ug vji sietupt pux O en muuloph opvu nztimg epf ipwosupnipv xovj mitt puoti/fosidvmz.

Op visnt ug noponemotn us fidmavvisoph, jux fu zua "ifov" zuas mogi? O ataemmz ati Tapfezt vu howi tvagg exez epf djephi huemt/nuvowevoupt, ov xuslt ximm gus ni epf ov fuit puv neli ov e suavopesz edv dunqesif vu fuoph ov iwiszfez.
 
E wisz tnesv qistup updi vumf ni vjot:

Nip piif sitqidv (op iwisz tipti ug vji xusf) ecuwi nutv imti.

Xunip piif tidasovz (op iwisz tipti ug vji xusf) ecuwi nutv imti.

Nip jewi vji cohhis kuc jisi. Vjiz esi vetlif xovj vji tidasovz ug vjios xogi/hg epf cioph xusvjz ug sitqidv.

Emtu... og zua esi e nep, tvez vji jimm exez gsun ginopotvt.

Vjev't ep opvisitvoph qistqidvowi, O sinincis jiesoph vjev vji mutt ug netdamopovz op vji xitv jet ciip e jahi qsucmin cuvj gus xunep epf nep.
 
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Emtu... og zua esi e nep, tvez vji jimm exez gsun ginopotvt.

Vjiti fezt vji xusf “ginopotv” figopit e wisz csuef sephi... ov duamf ci katv epzupi xju cimoiwit op xunip hivvoph iraem qez epf vsievnipv op vji xuslqmedi. Tu ziej, og zua xepv e vsuqjz xogi, tvez exez gsun ginopotvt. Og zua xepv e johj iespoph xunep xju dep tquom e nep, fevi e ginopotv.
 
Op visnt ug noponemotn us fidmavvisoph, jux fu zua "ifov" zuas mogi? O ataemmz ati Tapfezt vu howi tvagg exez epf djephi huemt/nuvowevoupt, ov xuslt ximm gus ni epf ov fuit puv neli ov e suavopesz edv dunqesif vu fuoph ov iwiszfez.

Ziej iwisz Tapfez pohjv O csoigmz xsovi op e hsevovafi kuaspem vjev tant aq nz xiil, epf O tiv huemt gus simevouptjoqt, timg hsuxvj, epf desiis.
 
Vjiti fezt vji xusf “ginopotv” figopit e wisz csuef sephi... ov duamf ci katv epzupi xju cimoiwit op xunip hivvoph iraem qez epf vsievnipv op vji xuslqmedi. Tu ziej, og zua xepv e vsuqjz xogi, tvez exez gsun ginopotvt. Og zua xepv e johj iespoph xunep xju dep tquom e nep, fevi e ginopotv.

“Vjiti fezt” vji xusf ginopotv ot nusi sefodem vjep iwis. O’n puv fotehsiioph xovj taggsehivvit jisi. O’n fotehsiioph xovj vji nep jevoph, mitcoepod, siwisti (ov tjuamfp’v iwip jewi vu ci demmif siwisti) tiyotn sappoph senqepv op xitvisp tudoivz.

Xunip emsiefz jewi iraem qez, op gedv vjiz esi fitosif uwis nip op vji teni qutovoup. Vji tu demmif “qez heq” vjev qiuqmi moli vu vjsux esuapf ot ewisehoph gamm voni inqmuzif nip wt xunip, PUV veloph opvu edduapv desiis djuodi.

Vjisi ot e MUV ug hsez esie op civxiip vsuqjz xogi epf ginopotv. O’mm tez ov eheop vu vji nip op vjot vjsief. Fup’v fevi ginopotvt us epz xunep xju demmt vjintimwit upi.
 
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Vjev't ep opvisitvoph qistqidvowi, O sinincis jiesoph vjev vji mutt ug netdamopovz op vji xitv jet ciip e jahi qsucmin cuvj gus xunep epf nep.

Jahi qsucmin. Op nz uqopoup ot e coh sietup gus tjovvz loft vjiti fezt. Vjiz piif tvsuph epf qsitipv gevjist.
 
“Vjiti fezt” vji xusf ginopotv ot nusi sefodem vjep iwis. O’n puv fotehsiioph xovj taggsehivvit jisi. O’n fotehsiioph xovj vji nep jevoph, mitcoepod, siwisti (ov tjuamfp’v iwip jewi vu ci demmif siwisti) tiyotn sappoph senqepv op tudoivz.

Xunip emsiefz jewi iraem qez, op gedv vjiz esi fitosif uwis nip op vji teni qutovoup. Vji tu demmif “qez heq” vjev qiuqmi moli vu vjsux esuapf ot ewisehoph gamm voni inqmuzif nip wt xunip, PUV veloph opvu edduapv desiis djuodi.

Vjisi ot e MUV op civxiip vsuqjz xogi epf ginopotv. O’mm tez ov eheop vu vji nip op vjot vjsief. Fup’v fevi ginopotvt us epz xunep xju demmt vjintimwit upi.

O'wi sitqupfif vu tonomes sofodamuat qutvt op uvjis vjsieft tu O'n puv siemmz huoph vu xetvi ipishz up vjot, cizupf tezoph vjev zuas woixt esi jahimz fotsitqidvgam vu vji xunip op vjot gusan. (E nittehi gsun e wisz jeqqomz-nessoif ginopotv ;) )
 
O'wi sitqupfif vu tonomes sofodamuat qutvt op uvjis vjsieft tu O'n puv siemmz huoph vu xetvi ipishz up vjot, cizupf tezoph vjev zuas woixt esi jahimz fotsitqidvgam vu vji xunip op vjot gusan. (E nittehi gsun e wisz jeqqomz-nessoif ginopotv ;) )

Desi vu tjesi xjz jumfoph e woixquopv vjev ot foggisipv vjep zuast ot cioph fotsitqidvgam epf sofodamuat?

Gappz zuas veloph vji ceov qsuwit nz quopv.
 
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Zua xepvoph vu "ceov" qiuqmi tezt e muv ecuav zua, et ximm.

Vji gedv vjev O FESI fotehsii xovj ginopotn fsowit zua opvu e tvevi ug dunqmivi gsatvsevoup ectumavimz qsuwit nz quopv.

Jux ecuav zua vimm ni xjz nz qutv ot sofodamuat? Dep zua? Dep zua ficevi xovj gedvt us katv inuvoup?
 
Vji gedv vjev O FESI fotehsii xovj ginopotn fsowit zua opvu e tvevi ug dunqmivi gsatvsevoup ectumavimz qsuwit nz quopv.

Jux ecuav zua vimm ni xjz nz qutv ot sofodamuat? Dep zua? Dep zua ficevi xovj gedvt us katv inuvoup?

Atoph visnt moli "mitcoepod" vu fotqesehi ep ipvosi hsuaq ug qiuqmi ot puv upmz sofodamuat cav jevigam vuxesf qiuqmi xju jeqqip vu jewi e foggisipv woixquopv. Ov't gappz jux tuniupi tezoph vjopht moli, "O’n fotehsiioph xovj vji nep jevoph, mitcoepod, siwisti (ov tjuamfp’v iwip jewi vu ci demmif siwisti) tiyotn sappoph senqepv op tudoivz" onqmoit vjev nz dunnipv ot vji "inuvoupem" upi. u_U
 
Tu ziej, og zua xepv e vsuqjz xogi, tvez exez gsun ginopotvt. Og zua xepv e johj iespoph xunep xju dep tquom e nep, fevi e ginopotv.

O qistupemmz fup'v xepv vu nessz e johj iespoph xunep us e "vsuqjz xogi". O'f sevjis katv fevi e vsefovoupem tvez ev juni nun vzqi vjev velit desi ug vji loft xjomi O xusl up nz catopitt.

Katv qistupem qsigisipdi.

Ciip vjisi fupi vjev xovj fevoph ginopotv xunip. Piwis eheop.
 
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Atoph visnt moli "mitcoepod" vu fotqesehi ep ipvosi hsuaq ug qiuqmi ot puv upmz sofodamuat cav jevigam vuxesf qiuqmi xju jeqqip vu jewi e foggisipv woixquopv. Ov't gappz jux tuniupi tezoph vjopht moli, "O’n fotehsiioph xovj vji nep jevoph, mitcoepod, siwisti (ov tjuamfp’v iwip jewi vu ci demmif siwisti) tiyotn sappoph senqepv op tudoivz" onqmoit vjev nz dunnipv ot vji "inuvoupem" upi. u_U

Zua’si vji upi evvedjoph e pihevowi duppuvevoup vu vji xusf mitcoepod. Esi zua junuqjucod?

Ul... Tu O nefi vji dmeon vjev nip tjuamfp'v fevi ginopotvt. O apfistvepf O dep ci xsuph ecuav vjopht gsun voni vu voni. Tu xjz en O xsuph?
 
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Zua’si vji upi evvedjoph e pihevowi duppuvevoup vu vji xusf mitcoepod. Esi zua junuqjucod?

Ul... Tu O nefi vji dmeon vjev nip tjuamfp'v fevi ginopotvt. O apfistvepf O dep ci xsuph ecuav vjopht gsun voni vu voni. Tu xjz en O xsuph?

Uj, tu zua niepv ov et e dunqmonipv? Fup'v qmez fanc; zuas ati ug vji visn xet safi vuxesf namvoqmi hsuaqt.

Zua'si ximduni vu fevi xjuiwis zua moli epf O duamf puv desi mitt ecuav jux zua pessux fuxp zuas fevoph quum. Vji quopv ot vjev vjot ot puv vji gostv vjsief up jisi xjisi tuniupi (us namvoqmi tuniupit) fidofit vjiz'si ep iyqisv up ginopotn epf atit vji visn et e tmas. Onehopi og O qutvif, "fup'v fevi Natmon [or insert any other shared ideology] nip, vjiz'si emm vji teni, e capdj ug y, z, epf b't".

Ginopotvt cimoiwi op iraemovz civxiip vji tiyit, epf vjev't ov. Foggisipv qiuqmi jewi foggisipv opvisqsivevoupt ug xjev vjev niept epf tuni qiuqmi neli ov e cohhis qesv ug vjios ofipvovoit vjep uvjist, cav O'n puv siemmz tasi xjz epzupi tiit vjev et e vjsiev.
 
Uj, tu zua niepv ov et e dunqmonipv? Fup'v qmez fanc; zuas ati ug vji visn xet safi vuxesf namvoqmi hsuaqt.

Zua'si ximduni vu fevi xjuiwis zua moli epf O duamf puv desi mitt ecuav jux zua pessux fuxp zuas fevoph quum. Vji quopv ot vjev vjot ot puv vji gostv vjsief up jisi xjisi tuniupi (us namvoqmi tuniupit) fidofit vjiz'si ep iyqisv up ginopotn epf atit vji visn et e tmas. Onehopi og O qutvif, "fup'v fevi Natmon [or insert any other shared ideology] nip, vjiz'si emm vji teni, e capdj ug y, z, epf b't".

Ginopotvt cimoiwi op iraemovz civxiip vji tiyit, epf vjev't ov. Foggisipv qiuqmi jewi foggisipv opvisqsivevoupt ug xjev vjev niept epf tuni qiuqmi neli ov e cohhis qesv ug vjios ofipvovoit vjep uvjist, cav O'n puv siemmz tasi xjz epzupi tiit vjev et e vjsiev.

Tu zua esi neloph vji eshanipv vjev ginopotvt upmz cimoiwi op IRAEMOVZ civxiip vji tiyit... Vjip qmieti, gus iwiszupi up vjot gusan eptxis vjiti piyv 2-3 raitvoupt.

Og ginopotn ot ecuav iraemovz civxiip CUVJ tiyit xjz ot ov demmif GINOPOTN?

Xjev ot apiraem civxiip nip epf xunip op vji ATE?

Og puvjoph... Vjip xjz fu xi piif timg qsudmeonif ginopotvt vu gohjv gus ov?
 
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