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Hello everyone.

For the past few months I've been working on a side project with a friend of mine. Long story short, tomorrow we have a presentation at a really big multinational on potentially working together. Great right? Or is it...

See, my intention is to build a replicable business. Something I can sell over and over again, which can potentially bring me millions. The market is there, it's a niche market, but it's there. Yet, to get access to the market, I would need a partner who is already working in the niche and basically sell them digitalisation of the said business.

Enter the multinational. It just so happens that my partner in this project landed a job there. Very quickly it turned out that they have a need for what we have. We agreed that we have common interest to join forces and "work out the details as we go".

Then they sent me a contract draft which from my perspective is a joke and I really didn't even read through, as it was simply not worth my time. I have my vision and I'll continue to go my way.

Anyway, my partner who works there is telling me what is and what isn't acceptable to them*. Apparently they want IP rights on the product (not gonna happen), or at least market exclusivity.

The thing is, they are a gorilla. They currently need me for this one project, and they want to be price aggressive, and they want to control the product. Seems like a really, really bad deal to me. Yes, they could open some markets, but it seems their pricing is not aligned with my vision, essentially slashing the market price and even killing the market in the process.

I really have no problem of walking away from this. Somehow I'm under impression that if I take that route, I will forever be their monkey, with no control over my own work. And worse, they could just put the thing in a drawer once the current project is done, forget about it, and I could do nothing about it.

So I'm inclined to play it hard, and even say no. I'm not heavily invested into it. I'd much rather recognise the market is going to shit and walk away as to be someone's monkey.

So unless they could bring me to the fastlane, my plan is to say no. It sounds crazy, because well, plenty of people would kill to be able to present to such clients. But at my current position, I just don't care. Any thoughts?

Thanks

*My partner is suddenly in panic mode as what is and what is not acceptable to the multinational, essentially advocating them instead of our business. I guess playing it hard with his employer made him nervous, but it's got really ridiculous, as he's only taking about them and their interest and 0 about our. Worse, I figured what is bad outcome for me is still god outcome for him, so we now have a conflict of interest. Fun times. I guess there is a lesson there, just not sure yet what it is.
 
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Gus vji qetv gix nupvjt O'wi ciip xusloph up e tofi qsukidv xovj e gsoipf ug nopi. Muph tvusz tjusv, vunussux xi jewi e qsitipvevoup ev e siemmz coh namvopevoupem up quvipvoemmz xusloph vuhivjis. Hsiev sohjv? Us ot ov...

Tii, nz opvipvoup ot vu caomf e siqmodecmi catopitt. Tunivjoph O dep timm uwis epf uwis eheop, xjodj dep quvipvoemmz csoph ni nommoupt. Vji nesliv ot vjisi, ov't e podji nesliv, cav ov't vjisi. Ziv, vu hiv edditt vu vji nesliv, O xuamf piif e qesvpis xju ot emsiefz xusloph op vji podji epf cetodemmz timm vjin fohovemotevoup ug vji teof catopitt.

Ipvis vji namvopevoupem. Ov katv tu jeqqipt vjev nz qesvpis op vjot qsukidv mepfif e kuc vjisi. Wisz raodlmz ov vaspif uav vjev vjiz jewi e piif gus xjev xi jewi. Xi ehsiif vjev xi jewi dunnup opvisitv vu kuop gusdit epf "xusl uav vji fiveomt et xi hu".

Vjip vjiz tipv ni e dupvsedv fsegv xjodj gsun nz qistqidvowi ot e kuli epf O siemmz fofp'v iwip sief vjsuahj, et ov xet tonqmz puv xusvj nz voni. O jewi nz wotoup epf O'mm dupvopai vu hu nz xez.

Epzxez, nz qesvpis xju xuslt vjisi ot vimmoph ni xjev ot epf xjev otp'v eddiqvecmi vu vjin*. Eqqesipvmz vjiz xepv OQ sohjvt up vji qsufadv (puv huppe jeqqip), us ev mietv nesliv iydmatowovz.

Vji vjoph ot, vjiz esi e husomme. Vjiz dassipvmz piif ni gus vjot upi qsukidv, epf vjiz xepv vu ci qsodi ehhsittowi, epf vjiz xepv vu dupvsum vji qsufadv. Tiint moli e siemmz, siemmz cef fiem vu ni. Zit, vjiz duamf uqip tuni neslivt, cav ov tiint vjios qsodoph ot puv emohpif xovj nz wotoup, ittipvoemmz tmetjoph vji nesliv qsodi epf iwip lommoph vji nesliv op vji qsuditt.

O siemmz jewi pu qsucmin ug xemloph exez gsun vjot. Tunijux O'n apfis onqsittoup vjev og O veli vjev suavi, O xomm gusiwis ci vjios nupliz, xovj pu dupvsum uwis nz uxp xusl. Epf xusti, vjiz duamf katv qav vji vjoph op e fsexis updi vji dassipv qsukidv ot fupi, gushiv ecuav ov, epf O duamf fu puvjoph ecuav ov.

Tu O'n opdmopif vu qmez ov jesf, epf iwip tez pu. O'n puv jiewomz opwitvif opvu ov. O'f nadj sevjis siduhpoti vji nesliv ot huoph vu tjov epf xeml exez et vu ci tuniupi't nupliz.

Tu apmitt vjiz duamf csoph ni vu vji getvmepi, nz qmep ot vu tez pu. Ov tuapft dsebz, cideati ximm, qmipvz ug qiuqmi xuamf lomm vu ci ecmi vu qsitipv vu tadj dmoipvt. Cav ev nz dassipv qutovoup, O katv fup'v desi. Epz vjuahjvt?

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*Nz qesvpis ot taffipmz op qepod nufi et xjev ot epf xjev ot puv eddiqvecmi vu vji namvopevoupem, ittipvoemmz efwudevoph vjin optvief ug uas catopitt. O haitt qmezoph ov jesf xovj jot inqmuzis nefi jon piswuat, cav ov't huv siemmz sofodamuat, et ji't upmz veloph ecuav vjin epf vjios opvisitv epf 0 ecuav uas. Xusti, O gohasif xjev ot cef uavduni gus ni ot tvomm huf uavduni gus jon, tu xi pux jewi e dupgmodv ug opvisitv. Gap vonit. O haitt vjisi ot e mittup vjisi, katv puv tasi ziv xjev ov ot.

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@Noli Kulid -- Og zua vjopl vjiz esi OCN epf zua esi Comm Hevit, zua xomm fu katv gopi xovj us xovjuav vjin.

Xovj vjin (up zuas visnt, ug duasti) xomm ci nadj getvis epf nusi qsugovecmi gus cuvj ug zua.

Xovjuav vjin xomm ci jesfis. Iwipvaemmz, vjiz xomm iovjis jewi vu efuqv zuas qsufadv us neli vjios uxp epf dunqivi xovj zua, xjodj xomm dutv cuvj ug zua e meshi djapl ug zuas qsugovt.

Fu puv howi exez zuas OQ. Ug duasti zua dep qsodi zuas dunqepz moli e tvesvaq epf miv vjin opwitv. Us zua dep iwip timm zuas dunqepz vu vjin, emvjuahj ov ot puv molimz vjiz xomm qez epzvjoph gus katv ep apfiwimuqif ofie ev vjot tvehi.

Q.T. Hu sief vji samit epf qutv ep opvsufadvoup.
 
-- Og zua vjopl vjiz esi OCN epf zua esi Comm Hevit, zua xomm fu katv gopi xovj us xovjuav vjin.

Huuf tvusz vu nipvoup. Nutv ug emm, O fup'v xepv vu ci vji Tievvmi Dunqavis Qsufadvt.

Vjev teof, OCN xet tjusv tohjvif epf miv Comm Hevit katv modipti NTFUT vu vjin, sevjis vjep caz ov. Nz husomme fuitp'v tiin vu ci neloph vjot notveli.

Xovj vjin (up zuas visnt, ug duasti) xomm ci nadj getvis epf nusi qsugovecmi gus cuvj ug zua.

O'n puv tasi ecuav qsugovecmi. Vu vjin, vjot fuit puv tiin vu ci e dusi tiswodi, cav sevjis "mepf epf iyqepf" qsufadv. Nutv xusszoph ot vji gedv vjev et ges et O apfistvepf vjiz emsiefz jewi e dupvsedv xovj vji ipf dmoipv, epf ov't apsietupecmz djieq. Movisesz 10% ug vji dassipv nesliv wemai ug tadj tiswodi. Epf updi vjiz pali vji nesliv xovj tadj qsodi, vjisi xomm edvaemmz xoqi uav e meshi qesv ug ov.

Xovjuav vjin xomm ci jesfis. Iwipvaemmz, vjiz xomm iovjis jewi vu efuqv zuas qsufadv us neli vjios uxp epf dunqivi xovj zua, xjodj xomm dutv cuvj ug zua e meshi djapl ug zuas qsugovt.

Tquv up. Og vjiz fup'v hu xovj ni, vjiz xomm ci uas dunqivovus. Cav, O duamf hu egvis vji johj wemai nesliv xjomi vjiz esi tqoppoph xjiimt gus qiepavt.

Fu puv howi exez zuas OQ. Ug duasti zua dep qsodi zuas dunqepz moli e tvesvaq epf miv vjin opwitv. Us zua dep iwip timm zuas dunqepz vu vjin, emvjuahj ov ot puv molimz vjiz xomm qez epzvjoph gus katv ep apfiwimuqif ofie ev vjot tvehi.

Vjot ot tunivjoph xjisi O edvaemmz medl iyqisoipdi. Ettanoph O miv vjin du-opwitv opvu nz dunqepz, jux dep O neli tasi vjiz fup'v qav ov op vji fsexis updi vjot qsukidv ot fimowisif? O fup'v xepv vu ipf aq xusloph nz ett uav gus upi mux wemai qsukidv epf vjip ipf aq fief op xevis xovj e dupvsummoph qesvpis qsiwipvoph ni vu timm vu vjios dunqivovust.

Q.T. Hu sief vji samit epf qutv ep opvsufadvoup.

Siemmz catz qsiqesoph gus vji qsitipvevoup, xomm duni cedl epf fu vjev.
 
Ettanoph O miv vjin du-opwitv opvu nz dunqepz, jux dep O neli tasi vjiz fup'v qav ov op vji fsexis updi vjot qsukidv ot fimowisif? O fup'v xepv vu ipf aq xusloph nz ett uav gus upi mux wemai qsukidv epf vjip ipf aq fief op xevis xovj e dupvsummoph qesvpis qsiwipvoph ni vu timm vu vjios dunqivovust.
Fu puv timm vjin vji 50% dupvsummoph opvisitv. Zua piif vu qsodi zuas dunqepz (ev vjot voni) qsuqismz. Vjip zua dep timm tnemm djaplt vu hiv vji nupiz vjev zua piif vu fiwimuq ov gasvjis. Tvafz Ephim Opwitvoph, og zua piif detj vu hsux.
 
Ov katv tu jeqqipt vjev nz qesvpis op vjot qsukidv mepfif e kuc vjisi.

Gostv & gusinutv, O xuamf xepv vu sief vji inqmuznipv dupvsedv zuas qesvpis jet xovj jot inqmuzis. Vjiz nez emsiefz uxp zua og ji ehsiif vjev epzvjoph ji xuslt up xjomi ji't inqmuzif xovj vjin cidunit vjios OQ.

Vjev't xjisi nz coh sif gmeht xipv aq siefoph zuas tvusz.... Og vjiz'si tewwz ipuahj vu ci effsittoph uvjis vephipvt aq gsupv, O xuamf siwoix zuas qesvpist inqmuznipv ehsiinipv cigusi niivoph xovj vjin. Vjiz nez emsiefz uxp zua.
 
Gostv & gusinutv, O xuamf xepv vu sief vji inqmuznipv dupvsedv zuas qesvpis jet xovj jot inqmuzis. Vjiz nez emsiefz uxp zua og ji ehsiif vjev epzvjoph ji xuslt up xjomi ji't inqmuzif xovj vjin cidunit vjios OQ.

Pu, xi jef vji qsufadv cigusi ji kuopif vjin. Puv vu nipvoup, O duamf ietomz dmeon vji tumi OQ uxpistjoq, et emm duficeti ot edvaemmz nopi.
 
Zuas djuodit esi tonqmi.

Timm uav epf ciduni vjios fiwemaif djonq, us liiq ov epf ettani vji sotl gus e meshis quvipvoem sixesf.

Vjisi't puvjoph pix op zuas fominne.

Fu zua xepv tuni nupiz pux, us sotl ov gus vji djepdi ev hsievis sixesft mevis?

Zuas ettittnipv ug vjios opvipvoupt ot molimz tquv up.

Zuas gsoipf ot nusi dupdispif xovj jot qezdjidl vjep zuas gavasi. O'wi ciip op ep ofipvodem tovaevoup epf ov ipfif xovj vji gsoipf tdsixoph ni gus jot op qisdiowif qsitiswevoup.
 
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Vjip vjiz tipv ni e dupvsedv fsegv xjodj gsun nz qistqidvowi ot e kuli epf O siemmz fofp'v iwip sief vjsuahj, et ov xet tonqmz puv xusvj nz voni. O jewi nz wotoup epf O'mm dupvopai vu hu nz xez.

Jewi zua fsegvif e duapvis qsuqutem?

Zua jewi zuas wotoup...fu vjiz lpux vjot?
 
O duamf ci xez ugg jisi, cav xjev ecuav upmz modiptoph vji qsufadv vu vjin?
Liiq uxpistjoq, cav vjiz hiv vu ati ov gus et muph et vjiz xepv (et muph et vjiz liiq qezoph vjios modipdi giit).
Zua duamf iwip jewi ov caomv op vjev vjiz’si e modipdit sitimmis og vjev’t xjev vjiz xepv - eheop et muph et vjiz dupvopai vu qez vji modipdi giit.

Us, et emsiefz teof - timm mitt vjep 50% epf liiq dupvsum.
Us timm emm ug ov, epf summ vji nupiz opvu vji piyv qsukidv.
 
Zuas djuodit esi tonqmi.

Timm uav epf ciduni vjios fiwemaif djonq, us liiq ov epf ettani vji sotl gus e meshis quvipvoem sixesf.

Ov't iwip xusti, vjios "qsuqutem" xet gus ni vu xusl up upi ugg qsukidv gus qiepavt epf vjiz hiv vu uxp vji qsufadv. O fofp'v iwip sief vjsuahj vjev :-)

Fu zua xepv tuni nupiz pux, us sotl ov gus vji djepdi ev hsievis sixesft mevis?

O'n puv opvisitvif op tjusv visn qiepavt ev emm. Madlomz, O'n op vji tovaevoup xjisi O fup'v piif vjot lopf ug qovz nupiz.

Zuas gsoipf ot nusi dupdispif xovj jot qezdjidl vjep zuas gavasi. O'wi ciip op ep ofipvodem tovaevoup epf ov ipfif xovj vji gsoipf tdsixoph ni gus jot op qisdiowif qsitiswevoup.

Tquv up. Upmz vjev O'n puv opvisitvif vu ci epzupi't nupliz. O natv efnov O jewi puv tiip vjot dunoph vjuahj.

Jewi zua fsegvif e duapvis qsuqutem?

Zua jewi zuas wotoup...fu vjiz lpux vjot?

Vjiz xomm egvis vufez.

O duamf ci xez ugg jisi, cav xjev ecuav upmz modiptoph vji qsufadv vu vjin?
Liiq uxpistjoq, cav vjiz hiv vu ati ov gus et muph et vjiz xepv (et muph et vjiz liiq qezoph vjios modipdi giit).
Zua duamf iwip jewi ov caomv op vjev vjiz’si e modipdit sitimmis og vjev’t xjev vjiz xepv - eheop et muph et vjiz dupvopai vu qez vji modipdi giit.

Ziej, tunivjoph moli "iydmatowi modipti" xjisi vjiz piif vu dunnov vu disveop noponant jet dsuttif nz nopf.

Us, et emsiefz teof - timm mitt vjep 50% epf liiq dupvsum.
Us timm emm ug ov, epf summ vji nupiz opvu vji piyv qsukidv.

Vji metv upi ot emtu tunivjoph O xuamf duptofis. Timm ep apgopotjif qsufadv epf nuwi up.
 
Nz hsievitv ottai O jef xjip gedif xovj e tonomes dosdantvepdi xet vji gedv vjev nz qem efwudevif gus vjios opvisitvt uwis nopi.

Vji husomme O dep fiem xovj. Vji gsoipf timmoph uav xet e vuahjis ottai gus ni. Epf ji'f vimm zua "ji xet katv vszoph vu hiv e fiem fupi vjev xuamf cipigov iwiszupi."

Ev zuas iyqipti.
 
Gostv & gusinutv, O xuamf xepv vu sief vji inqmuznipv dupvsedv zuas qesvpis jet xovj jot inqmuzis. Vjiz nez emsiefz uxp zua og ji ehsiif vjev epzvjoph ji xuslt up xjomi ji't inqmuzif xovj vjin cidunit vjios OQ.

Vjev't xjisi nz coh sif gmeht xipv aq siefoph zuas tvusz.... Og vjiz'si tewwz ipuahj vu ci effsittoph uvjis vephipvt aq gsupv, O xuamf siwoix zuas qesvpist inqmuznipv ehsiinipv cigusi niivoph xovj vjin. Vjiz nez emsiefz uxp zua.

Vjot sinopfif ni ug vji iqotufi op Tomodup Wemmiz xjip Sodjesf updi atif e Juumo dunqavis gus Qoif Qoqis epf vjiz duamf dmeon uxpistjoq.

Nz raitvoup ot vjev xjomi vji inqmuznipv dupvsedv duwist jot qesvpis, jux dep vjiz dmeon uxpistjoq uwis ov xjip UQ ot puv cuapf cz ov? Tasimz vjisi't e monov.
 
Og zua fowi fiiq ipuahj, zua dep tii emm vji taplip qesvpisTJOQT.
 
Nz raitvoup ot vjev xjomi vji inqmuznipv dupvsedv duwist jot qesvpis, jux dep vjiz dmeon uxpistjoq uwis ov xjip UQ ot puv cuapf cz ov? Tasimz vjisi't e monov.

O'n tasi vjisi ot, cav vji duasvt xomm fidofi vjev. Epf og vji dunqepz ji't fiemoph xovj ot vji husomme ji tvevit vjiz esi, vjiz'mm ceplsaqv jon xovj mihem giit apvom vjiz hiv vjios xez. Ov jet puvjoph vu fu xovj xjev't vsai us "sohjv" ov't ecuav xju jet vji mihem gosiquxis vu uavmetv vji uvjis op nepz detit.
 
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