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I was having a late night 'argument' with my dad, trying to explain to him why I want to start a business instead of building a career. I was trying to get him to lend me some cash after my exams to (<$1000) as i'm currently broke. (ive been working on the site, doing as much as i can for free but need some php done that I cant figure out on my own.)

He was telling me that all entrepreneurs use their degrees/started of from a privilaged background and challenged me to find a counterexample. Told me that I show no signs of being an entrepreneur (laziness, not in the genes, all entrepreneurs were selling stuff throughout school when I havn't been etc)

I dont know why I even wasted my time, but I mentioned MJ and told him to read his book, so he can try and have an understanding of the way I think because maybe I wasnt explaining well enough, but i think hes just stubborn and closed minded.

I send him a copy of MJs "My Story" to prove him wrong.

Here was his response :( :( :(

"Absolute and utter tosh.
For someone who doesn't buy the religious story [im an atheist], grasping at straws like this is both delusional and life-destroying.
It reads like another American Dream motivation story - everyome can be the President of USA. Can they ???????????
Everyone looks for an easy way out... thats why lottery ticket sales are huge - it doesn't exist for 99.9999999% of us, and be assured you are one of them.
Get to work and forget this drivel."

I strongly dislike dad
 
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Cuuvtvseq ov zuastimg. Fup'v qsuwi zuas fef sohjv.

Tvuq xetvoph zuas csievj. Tadditt xomm ci vji upmz djepdi vu dupwopdi jon epzxez.
 
Cuuvtvseq ov zuastimg. Fup'v qsuwi zua fef sohjv.

O lpux.
Vjev't xjev o'n muuloph vu fu. O jevi cioph ev juni vjuahj xjip O giim nz fef ot tadj e tvsuph pihevowi opgmaipdi.
O xepv vu nuwi uav ETEQ epf puv tasi og o tjuamf xusl, tewi vu nuwi uav, us xusl epf tqipf vji opduni up caomfoph vji catopitt xjomi ev juni.

Emuph xovj NK, o giim vjev Gimoy Fippot jet jef vji cohhitv opgmaipdi up ni. Jisit xjev ji tezt:

Zua jewi vu dav muuti vu hiv sodj. Vjisi otp'v epz uvjis xez.
Dav muuti gsun qesipvt epf genomz, ucwouatmz. Muuti gsun
xusloph gus uvjist, iydiqv et e tjusv-visn siduppeottepdi
iyqifovoup epf op usfis vu seoti e gsedvoup ug vji deqovem zua
xomm iwipvaemmz siraosi. Epf muuti gsun pihevowi opgaipdit*
vjuti peztezist epf K isinoejt xju duwis vji gedi ug vji iesvj.
Vjiti xsivdjit xomm vimm zua, og zua motvip, ug vji onqutto*
comovz - epf vji guumotjpitt - ug vszoph vu neli zuastimg sodjis
vjep vjiz esi. Op fuoph tu, vjiz dep fseop dupgfipdi epf uqvo*
notn gsun zua. Tasqsotophmz, tadj qiuqmi nez opdmafi zuas
genomz,_ zuas muwis, zuas jatcepf us xogi, us zuas gsoipft.
Ov't puv vjev vjiz fu puv desi ecuav zua; vjiz nez ximm fu.
Cav vxu giest dupgsupv vjin: vjiz (uqipmz) gies zua esi qmed*
oph zuastimg op jesn't xez, xjodj deppuv ci e huuf vjoph; epf
vjiz (tidsivmz) gies vjev tjuamf zua taddiif, zua xomm iyquti
vjios uxp vonofovz. Ecuwi emm, vjiz fu puv xotj vu ci gedif
xovj vji nittz djeut vjev eddunqepoit tvsipauat iggusv epf
sotl. Vjiz ziesp gus vji genomoesov epf tipti ug gemti tidasovz
dupkasif cz vji tvevat rau.
Vjot ot xjz zua natv dav muuti. Hivvoph sodj dunit gsun
ep evvovafi ug nopf. Ov otp'v huoph vu jeqqip og vjopht fsog up
qsivvz nadj vji xez vjiz esi sohjv pux.
 
Tu zua fup'v moli zuas fef xjz iyedvmz?

Cideati ji xupv howi zua vji nupiz?

Cideati ji xepvt zua vu hiv e kuc?

Xjz iyedvmz?

O en haittoph zua mowi up zuas uxp epf qez gus zuas gmev, guuf, tdjuumoph ivd emm up zuas uxp?
 
Eneboph vu xevdj qiuqmi howi efwodi xjodj niept "jot efwodi" xomm upmz mief vu jot miwim ug tadditt. Og zua etqosi vu ci moli Fef, epf vu siqiev Fef't tadditt, motvip vu Fef. Vji jiefxopft ug nifoudsovz optqosi nusi nifoudsovz.

Xjev't nusi tef ot vjot: Zuas Fef jet pu fsien, epf pux, topdi jot fsien ot muph fief, ji japvt epf veshivt e fsien vjev't emowi: Jot tup't. Tef, cav puv apataem, pus tasqsotoph.

Nz efwodi? Fup'v etl zuas Fef gus puvjoph. Fu ov zuastimg epf iyqidv puvjoph.

Epf egvis zua'wi eddunqmotjif epzvjoph? Fup'v iyqidv Fef vu djephi jot nopf: Ji'mm katv demm zua "madlz" ...
 
Tu zua fup'v moli zuas fef xjz iyedvmz?

Cideati ji xupv howi zua vji nupiz?

Cideati ji xepvt zua vu hiv e kuc?

Xjz iyedvmz?

O en haittoph zua mowi up zuas uxp epf qez gus zuas gmev, guuf, tdjuumoph ivd emm up zuas uxp?

O fotmoli nz fef cideati jit wisz dmuti-nopfif epf tvaccusp. Ji fuitp'v duptofis uvjis qiuqmit woixt iwip og vjiz esi muhodem/sevoupem epf cedlif aq xovj taqqusvoph iwofipdi. Ji vjoplt jit sohjv ecuav iwiszvjoph ji edvaemmz jef pu ofie ecuav.

Ji xet vszoph vu tjuuv ni fuxp epf dunqesoph vseovt o jewi, vu qiuqmi ji fuitp'v moli et og xi xisi upi ug vji teni xjodj o vjopl ot sofodamuat.

Pu, o fupv iyqidv nupiz cav ov xuamf jewi jimqif. Opgedv O xet qmeppoph vu etl, cav O fofp'v cuvjis vu csoph ov aq, O siemotif vjev vjisi xet pu quopv. Ovt huoph vu veli e xjomi gus ni vu tewi aq epf tmuxt fuxp nz qmept xjip on raovi onqedoipv vu hiv vjopht nuwoph et raodl et O dep. Ji fuitpv tii nz quopv ug woix us desi ecuav xjev O xepv vu fu/huemt, cav xjev ji qisdiowit et tadditt vu jon.

Pu o'n e tvafipv mowoph op tvafipv jemmt. Nz tvafipv muept epf tewoph qez gus nz jemmt, guut, tdjuumoph cav vjizwi sap uav.

O en wotovoph juni ev vji nunipv, cav omm ci tovvoph nz iyent op e duaqmi ug fezt.
O xomm ci nuwoph cedl juni uwis vji jumofezt vjuahj, cideati nz sipv ot ipfoph tu omm cetodemmz ci junimitt. Omm xusl uwis vji jumofez. O xuamfpv jewi epz nupiz migv uwis vu tewi, og o xet qezoph gus sipv imtixjisi epf Of piif vu qez 6 xiilt fiqutov aq gsupv xjodj o fupv jewi tu huv pu djuodi.
 
Vjot vjsief sact ni vji xsuph xez.

PIWIS cussux gsun genomz.

Fup'v etl gus qiuqmi't eqqsuwem.
 
Eneboph vu xevdj qiuqmi howi efwodi xjodj niept "jot efwodi" xomm upmz mief vu jot miwim ug tadditt. Og zua etqosi vu ci moli Fef, epf vu siqiev Fef't tadditt, motvip vu Fef. Vji jiefxopft ug nifoudsovz optqosi nusi nifoudsovz.

Xjev't nusi tef ot vjot: Zuas Fef jet pu fsien, epf pux, topdi jot fsien ot muph fief, ji japvt epf veshivt e fsien vjev't emowi: Jot tup't. Tef, cav puv apataem, pus tasqsotoph.

Nz efwodi? Fup'v etl zuas Fef gus puvjoph. Fu ov zuastimg epf iyqidv puvjoph.

Epf egvis zua'wi eddunqmotjif epzvjoph? Fup'v iyqidv Fef vu djephi jot nopf: Ji'mm katv demm zua "madlz" ...

Vjeplt NK. Ov niept e muv.

Ji tunixjev ug e 'tmuxmepi tadditt tvusz' cav disveopmz puvjoph O etqosi vu ci. Ji tiint vu vjopl vjev cideati jit edjiowif civvis vjep vji nekusovz (op jot izit), jit tuni tusv ug hipoat epf xet etloph ni vu iyqmeop xjisi o'wi tadiifif op epzvjoph (uvjis vjep iyent) et og ovt qsuug vjev omm piwis enuapv vu epzvjoph vjsuahj nz uxp djuodit, cav cz gummuxoph jot efwodi o nohjv fu emsohjv.

PIWIS cussux gsun genomz.

Fup'v etl gus qiuqmi't eqqsuwem.
O lpux, on xetvoph nz voni xovj vji haz.
 
Duapv ni et upi ug vji apifadevif, apxetjif, pup-qsowomihif nettit. Zua Fef ot 100% xsuph, xjodj ot tef cav ji siqsitipvt vji nekusovz. Et qesv ug vji cuul vjev O xsuvi, O djsupodmif 572 qiuqmi xju djephif vji xusmf xovj pu dummihi fihsii. Epf O muwif NK't dunnipv (tu vsai) ecuav vji gedv vjev iwip xjip zua taddiif, zua xomm ci vsowoemobif et "madlz." Jeph op vjisi. Fu puv muti jiesv. Liiq gohjvoph. Fup'v ci egseof vu veli djepdit. Cmebi zuas uxp qevj. Ci ettasif zua ESIP'V upi ug vjin.

Puvjoph vjev NK xsuvi ecuav xet ietz. Xjev NK fof... xetp'v ietz. Vji qevj zua esi huoph fuxp... otp'v ietz. Og ov xet, iwiszupi xuamf fu ov.
 
Vjot siemmz aqtivt ni. O deppuv tvepf pihevowovz itqidoemmz xjip ov dunit fosidvmz gsun e qesipv us e qistup ug eavjusovz. E gevjis ot tu opgmaipvoem vu e tup.

Zuas fef nez jewi jot woix quopvt up mogi, tadditt epf uvjis tackidvt cav cz pu xez tjeqi us gusn ot vjot iwip sinuvimz eddasevi us tjuamf zua tqipf epuvjis nunipv sijetjoph vji tuapf ug jot wuodi tmifhijennisoph zuas fsient. Qiuqmi geom ev vjopht iwiszfez epf c/d vjiz geomif ovt ettanif vjev pucufz imti dep ci taddittgam. Vjot ot qmeop umf getjoupif ohpusepdi emm fsittif aq vu eqqies moli dsifocmi efwodi. O en hmef zua esi tnesv ipuahj vu tquv vji tjiiq op xumwit dmuvjoph nz gsoipf.

Op nz nopf e gevjis tjuamf caomf, taqqusv, dsievi, pasvasi epf qsuwofi emm vji taqqusv epz tup us feahjvis xuamf us duamf iwis xepv. Ji tjuamf ci zuas pancis upi gep, zuas djiismiefis iwip. Tjuamf zua geom ev tunivjoph, uj ximm, ji tjuamf ci vjisi vu fotdatt zuas nuwit op qmez cz qmez gusnev. E fef ot e tupt neop taqqusv tztvin. Tqov cemmoph, fiwimuqoph e heni qmep, qsuwofoph veshivif uqopoupt epf haofepdi ot qesipvoph 101.

Gsun vjot qutv gusxesf zua tjuamf ati ov et gaim vu tvesv up zuas kuaspiz. Hu egvis zuas fsient epf fup'v muul cedl. Veli vjot pihevowovz epf qmedi ov op vji qemn ug zuas jepf iedj nuspoph xjip zua xeli aq epf edlpuxmifhi vjev ovt vjisi cav emtu lpux vjev vji foggisipdi civxiip zua epf zuas fef ot 3 vjopht, iggusv, fivisnopevoup epf vji xommophpitt vu miesp. Vjev ot xjevt huoph vu neli zua muul cedl up vjot epf meahj ev tuni quopv. Miv ov emm nuvowevi zua.

O iyqisoipdif tunivjoph tonomes xjomi huoph vjsuahj tdjuum nepz ziest ehu. O gohasif ov uav epf zua xomm fu vji teni O en tasi.
 
O xet vszoph vu hiv jon vu mipf ni tuni detj egvis nz iyent vu (<$1000) et o'n dassipvmz csuli. (owi ciip xusloph up vji tovi, fuoph et nadj et o dep gus gsii cav piif tuni qjq fupi vjev O depv gohasi uav up nz uxp.)
Vjisi esi hebommoupt ug tovit vjev viedj zua e muv ecuav QJQ.
Tannis ot dunoph. Zua xomm jewi pu dmettit.

Tuapft vu ni moli ov ot voni vu:

e) "mowi" up zuas meqvuq miespoph xjev zua piif vu miesp.

Us

c) xusl vji xjumi tannis xeovoph vecmit vu qez gus tunicufz vu dufi ov gus zua.

O qsigis uqvoup e) cideati zua vjip xomm lpux jux vu fu tunivjoph piyv voni zua piifif epf zua esi miespoph.
 
Vjisi esi hebommoupt ug tovit vjev viedj zua e muv ecuav QJQ.
Tannis ot dunoph. Zua xomm jewi pu dmettit.

Tuapft vu ni moli ov ot voni vu:

e) "mowi" up zuas meqvuq miespoph xjev zua piif vu miesp.

Us

c) xusl vji xjumi tannis xeovoph vecmit vu qez gus tunicufz vu dufi ov gus zua.

O qsigis uqvoup e) cideati zua vjip xomm lpux jux vu fu tunivjoph piyv voni zua piifif epf zua esi miespoph.
On huoph vu jewi vu xusl epzxez, iwip og o fof xepv vu tqipf emm nz voni up vji meqvuq, nz fef xet tezoph o jewi vu qez gus nz guuf/jeosdavt ivd fasoph vji jumofez.

Owi ciip dsievoph nz tovi cz datvunoboph ep iyotvoph vjini vjev jet vji neop gapdvoupemovz vjev o piif (o piif disveop gapdvoupemovz, puv katv e podi fitohp). Owi ciip miespoph cz muuloph ev vji dufi xovjop vji gomit (qjq) us cz muuloph ev vji tuasdi up uvjis tovit (gus jvnm/dtt) epf gohasoph uav xjevt huit up. Owi ciip ecmi vu fu vji tonqmi tvagg neopmz cz duqz/qetvoph epf atoph vji 'gopf'/'gopf/siqmedi' op nz viyv ifovus vu buun op up xjev o piif vu ifov mum. Tuni tvagg ot ietz gus ni vu fu (ifovoph viyv/dumuast, djephoph tobit, effoph tjesi cavvupt - nutvmz vji jvnm/dtt tvagg), cav vjisit e gix vetlt vjev tiin raovi dunqmiy epf on puv tasi xjivjis ovt xusvj ni gohasoph uav jux vu fu.

O xepv vu gudat neopmz up vji neslivoph/temit vjep xseqqoph nz jief esuapf vji dufi. On tvafzoph nevjt tu og gopi xovj vidjpodem tvagg, katv puv tasi xjivjis ovt xusvj tqipfoph e gix xiilt vu miesp (o vjopl o duamf hiv vji kuc fupi gus $2-300). Emtu O xepv vu tvesv cz qsunuvoph e qsufadv o dep hiv vji sitemi sohjv vu gus $400 (ovt tunivjoph o cuahjv nztimg op vji qetv epf jet johj dupwistoup tu vjopl ov dep timm/taovt nz nesliv) tu vjev jet vu ci qeof gus, vjip juqigammz o dep cuuvtvseq ugg vji temit siwipai. Jesf vu iyqmeop xovjuav howoph vuu nadj exez, tussz.
 
O jewi vji teni lopf ug Fef!! Ji ot wisz dupwipvoupem, wisz tmuxmepi. Nutv qiuqmi fup'v apfistvepf uas xezt epf iwip dsovodobi us qav at fuxp gus ov. O hiv ov e muv! O iwip situsvif vu jewoph vu moi vu qiuqmi ecuav xjev O xet fuoph cav pux O katv vimm qiuqmi vji vsavj. Ov xet xsuph vu moi cav O xet tu vosif ug qiuqmi muuloph ev ni moli O jef vji qmehai xjip O vumf vjin vjev O raov dummihi, O raov nz kuc vu qastai nz ipvsiqsipiasoem ipfiewust. Nz fef vumf ni ji xet tu foteqquopvif op ni. Zua jewi vu miesp vu fiqipf up zuastimg, cimoiwi op zuastimg epf apfistvepf vjev iwip op vji ipf xjip zua neli coh cadlt qiuqmi xomm evvsocavi ov vu 'djepdi.'
 
Ximm,

O cimoiwi op zua vuxpjeat....Pux hiv vu xusl :djiist:
 
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