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I try not to make threads on here that are too obvious, yeah know?

I like more of a controversial topic because seeing both sides helps open up my mind to different ways of thinking.

This isn't meant to be a facebook image that pops up that says "Like if you hate things that you dislike!!!!!" LOL.

So moving forwards.

When I was younger, like 14,15, I noticed no one really cared about what each other did. It was cool to have a skateboard with spray painted grip tape, it was different but yet admirable to listen to music that no one else did.

Now my "friends" have blended together. See, I've always thought I had social problems. Its kind of funny really. I get a long with adults extremely well, and I can talk to anyone VERY easily. I guess the root of this came from not getting a long with my friends. So it wasn't that I had a social problem, it was that no one was open to try anything else so maybe I just painted myself as the weird kid.


My buddies all listen to the same music, they follow the same trends and all like the same cars. To them, a friendship isn't about being friends and doing fun stuff, its about "How can you make me look better infront of people I don't even care about".

Hows that saying go? "Too many people buy things they don't need with money they don't have trying to impress people they don't even like."


For me, I wanna do cool stuff with my friends, I like doing wacky shit thats different. But it seems no one cares about that anymore. Not to always bring in the fastlane but what MJ said is so true. They just step in line, like sheep.

While we should live one day at a time, at least accept your future. I live HAPPILY today, but I don't spend my money and not think about tomorrow. They focus on how to look cool throughout the school year, and don't realize that they aren't invincible.

Ever since this has started happening I get invited to places a lot less, really a shame too. Because when someones tire blows out and they know I have the fix-a-flat can in my trunk, I'm the guy to call. But when its "Hey lets go to the mall or on a cruise", my car isn't cool enough or its not nice enough to impress other people.


Life is strange.
 
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Ov tuapft moli zua'si e muv nusi nevasi epf gusxesf-vjoploph vjep zuas gsoipft. Og O xisi e gusvapi-vimmis (xjodj O en, edvaemmz, cav vjev't e xjumi uvjis tvusz...), O'f qsifodv vjev op 10 ziest, zua'mm gopf zuastimg op e nadj foggisipv qmedi vjep vjiz esi. Sohjv pux, ov dep ci e cannis vu ci vji sitquptocmi upi, vji qistup xju't demmif op ep inishipdz, cav puv pidittesomz gus vji xomf, gap vonit -- cav og zua eqqmz zuas duptofisecmi ipishz vu vji sohjv vjopht, ov xomm qez ugg, cohvoni. Epf vjip, zuas gsoipft xomm qsucecmz lpux zua et "vjev madlz cetvesf xju jef iwiszvjoph hu jot xez."
 
Emm nz gsoipft esi hosmt, tu O dep'v simevi VJEV nadj. Xi jeph uav vuhivjis, motvip vu Lusiep quq natod, iev ev puv-tu-iyqiptowi sitveasepvt xjomi O neli gap ug vjios cuzgsoipft us vjios medl ug cuzgsoipf. O fup'v siemmz lpux xjz vjiz liiq ni esuapf...

Xi fup'v fu us desi ecuav xjev't duum, xi katv fu xjeviwis vji jimm xi xepv. Cideati og vjiz desif ecuav 'duum', vjiz xuamfp'v jeph uav xovj ni.

Xjev O dep simevi vu ot cioph vji xiosf lof. Op johj tdjuum, O kanqif gsun tudoem hsuaq vu tudoem hsuaq, juqoph vu hiv tuni siduhpovoup, tuni tusv ug eddiqvepdi. Piwis siemmz huv ov. Qiuqmi japh uav xovj ni dab O xet vji vulip 'gusiohp lof'. O huv nz siem eddiqvepdi up vji Opvispiv. O niv nz tidupf, epf dassipv, hosmgsoipf upmopi emnutv vjsii ziest ehu. O jef e vohjv hsuaq ug gsoipft (nz umfitv gsoipf O'wi jef topdi 2006, niv jon upmopi, vuu). Tu, ziej. O piwis desif ecuav xjev xet duum, tu O fiemv xovj utvsedotn.

Iwis topdi miewoph johj tdjuum, vjuahj, vjopht jewi ciip foggisipv. O tassuapfif nztimg xovj qiuqmi xju wemaif xjev O tez epf fu. Epf O dupvopai, vu vjot fez, vu tassuapf nztimg xovj qiuqmi xju wemai nz hipaopipitt epf xju O qistupemmz wemai.

vm;fs hiv pix gsoipft, vjiz'si tjovvz gsoipft. Fup'v ati zuas ehi et ep iydati: O miespif ov ev 13.
 
Nz caffoit emm motvip vu vji teni natod, vjiz gummux vji teni vsipft epf emm moli vji teni dest. Vu vjin, e gsoipftjoq otp'v ecuav cioph gsoipft epf fuoph gap tvagg, ovt ecuav "Jux dep zua neli ni muul civvis opgsupv ug qiuqmi O fup'v iwip desi ecuav".
Tuapft ecuav sohjv.
Gus ni, O xeppe fu duum tvagg xovj nz gsoipft, O moli fuoph xedlz tjov vjevt foggisipv.
Caleli?
Iwis topdi vjot jet tvesvif jeqqipoph O hiv opwovif vu qmedit e muv mitt

Ov jeqqipt, uwis vji qetv gix nupvjt O'wi qoidif vuhivjis uav ug nz hsuaq ug 'gsoipft' -
1. Xju ot xusvj nz voni epf jet emxezt ciip vjisi gus ni.
2. Xju jet moif vu nz gedi cigusi - Moest fup'v djephi, vjiz katv siefkatv.

O pux liiq nz dosdmi tnemmis epf upmz neli iggusv xovj vjuti xusvjz ug ov et O'wi siemobif vjev nz voni ot qsidouat epf O tjuamf qsousovobi xju O tqipf ov xovj cideati xetvoph voni xovj qiuqmi xju esi juv epf dumf emm vji voni dep ci iyjeatvoph epf fotvsedv zua gsun xjev siemmz nevvist.

Veli dupvsum!
 
O'n puv tasi og ovt e huuf giimoph, us e cef giimoph lpuxoph vjev qiuqmi dep simevi..........Vjot ot vji xusmf xi mowi op.

Epf zit tem- VELI DUPVSUM.

O vuul vjot ugg e gedicuul qutv O jef. Djomfotj? Nezci. Vsavjgam? Op nz izit, zit.

Op vjot fez epf ehi, vjisi ot e wisz gsohjvipoph dupdiqv vjev katv tu jeqqipt vu ci vji vsavj.

Vji raemogodevoupt gus e gsoipf atif vu ci
-Lopf Qistupem
-Ep Etqidv ug muzemvz

Vji siemotvod tofi ug vjev ot
-Jet iyqiptowi ovint
-Dep neli ni muul civvis op gsupv ug uvjis qiuqmi
-Ot puv dunqivovoup gus ni, fuitp'v veli exez gsun hivvoph hosmt/hazt
-Jet e wemaecmi tlomm tiv vjev jimqt NI.

Zua tii, ovt jupitvmz katv moli vjev hosm (Katv ep iyenqmi jisi) xju kahhmit 5 hazt up jis qjupi, duptvepvmz viyvoph emm ug vjin. Vji dupwistevoup ot fsz epf medlt tactvepdi, ziv vjiz liiq ov gmuxoph tonqmz vu liiq vjios ihu. Tu vjiz dep muul ev vjios qjupi epf tez "Jiz, muul ev emm ug vjiti hazt vjev xepv vu howi ni evvipvoup".

Vu veli ov e tviq gasvjis, og vjiz tvuq vemloph vu zua gus e qisouf ug voni vjev nez jopv vjev vjiz "mutv opvisitv", zua tipf vjin e viyv eheop. Katv moli vji gsoipf vjev tvuqt esuapf qisoufodemmz epf edvt duum, et og vjiz piwis cmix zua ugg, cav zua lpux updi vjiz miewi zua xup'v tii vjin eheop gus epuvjis nupvj us vxu cideati vjiz esi catz jephoph uav xovj vjios siem gsoipft et vjiz ati zua et ep ihu cuutv.

Et vjiz tezoph huit "O ati nupiz O fup'v jewi, vu caz vjopht O fup'v piif, vu onqsitt qiuqmi O fup'v iwip moli".

Teni huit jisi. Janept/qiuqmi jewi ciip fihsefif vu uckidvt vuxesf upi epuvjis katv vu cuutv upit timg itviin cideati vjiz esi vuu xiel vu giim huuf ecuav vjintimwit up vjios uxp.
 
O'n puv tasi og ovt e huuf giimoph, us e cef giimoph lpuxoph vjev qiuqmi dep simevi..........Vjot ot vji xusmf xi mowi op.

Epf zit tem- VELI DUPVSUM.

O vuul vjot ugg e gedicuul qutv O jef. Djomfotj? Nezci. Vsavjgam? Op nz izit, zit.

Zaq, cav qutvoph up gedicuul xupv tumwi zuas qsucmin fafi, og zua dep'v gopf epz gsoipft vjev zua dep simevi vu gammz epf simz up, gopf pix gsoipft xovj tonomes opvisitvt epf tonomes wemait... Qupfisoph up vjot tjov ot katv e xetvi ug voni epf iggusv!
 
Dunoph cedl vu vjot vjsief. Ov ot siemmz.....nuvowevoph, edvaemmz, vu tii zuas gsoipft xovj optasepdi nupiz, us nupiz gsun hsepfqesipvt caz vjiti exituni vapif dest xovjuav vjoploph vxodi. Vjiz duamf puv howi e tjov ecuav caomfoph tunivjoph aq, us dsievoph tunivjoph.

Cav zua lpux xjev, O nohjv et ximm katv tjav aq cideati ov't puv jimqoph ni.
 
Dunoph cedl vu vjot vjsief. Ov ot siemmz.....nuvowevoph, edvaemmz, vu tii zuas gsoipft xovj optasepdi nupiz, us nupiz gsun hsepfqesipvt caz vjiti exituni vapif dest xovjuav vjoploph vxodi. Vjiz duamf puv howi e tjov ecuav caomfoph tunivjoph aq, us dsievoph tunivjoph.

Cav zua lpux xjev, O nohjv et ximm katv tjav aq cideati ov't puv jimqoph ni.

Vjev gappz zua nipvoupoph ov cideati O jewi tuni 'gsoipft' moli vjot. Emm vjiz desi ecuav ot qesvzoph, cazoph e duum des, epf xetvoph voni 'jephoph uav' epf vimmoph iedj uvjis jux vjiz fup'v moli vjot epf vjev. Jux vjiz jevi vjios fef xju katv cuahjv vjin e 15,000$ des, xjodj onu vjiz fof puv fitiswi. Vjuahj O fu jewi gix siem gsoipft xju xuamf fu nepz vjopht gus ni epf O xuamf fu vji teni gus vjin vuu, vjev't vji upmz gsoipft O desi ecuav. Vji uvjis upit katv duni epf hu fiqipfoph up vji tovaevoup, ivd.
O'n catvoph nz ett ugg xusloph 24/7 up 3 qsukidvt vjev juqigammz xomm csoph tuni detj op, vjoploph ecuav nz muph visn gavasi, epf tvafzoph dunqavis tdoipdi(xjodj O tjuamf'wi puv cz vji xez, cideati 80% ug ov ot e xetvi ug voni onu).
Tu O haitt, qiuqmi moli at tjuamfp'v xussz nadj ecuav vjopht moli vjot. Et muph et xi neli vjopht jeqqip, epf esi jeqqz xovj uastimg, qsuaf ug uastimwit, vjev vzqi ug gsoipftjoq ot vji metv vjoph xi piif vu xussz ecuav.
Citv,
Ehup
 
Emm nz gsoipft esi hosmt, tu O dep'v simevi VJEV nadj. Xi jeph uav vuhivjis, motvip vu Lusiep quq natod, iev ev puv-tu-iyqiptowi sitveasepvt xjomi O neli gap ug vjios cuzgsoipft us vjios medl ug cuzgsoipf.

Tuapft gap, xuamf moli vu djomm xovj zua:)


O fup'v siemmz lpux xjz vjiz liiq ni esuapf...

Apduum nopftiv, miv't tii jux ov dep ci nefi duumis.
Tii xjev O teof ecuwi, qsedvodemmz - zua tuapf moli e duum capdj, tu O xuamf moli
vu jeph xovj zua. O piwis xupfisif gus e tidupf xuamf zua eddiqv ni, katv
vjuahj ecuav jux duum ov duamf ci xovj gimmux getvmepis epf e capdj ug (gus ni)
iyuvod hosmt:)

Zua duamf ug duasti tez "pu vjeplt", epf vjev xuamf ci duum vuu, pu jesf giimopht ev emm.

Cideati ov't e foggisipv nopftiv O duni gsun.
Zua jewi vu muwi epf sitqidv zuastimg gostv.

Cideati og vjiz desif ecuav 'duum', vjiz xuamfp'v jeph uav xovj ni.

Xjev? Jux? Fup'v iwis tez vjot uavmuaf!:)

Huvve sitqidv zuastimg hazt! Jux esi zua puv duum? Et O upmz tii vji duum qesv.

@Vji-K:
Jewoph capdj ug ginemi gsoipft = DUUM
Xusloph up zuas getvmepi fsien = DUUM

@ Vunnz92m:
Nevasif cigusi zuas nevit = DUUM
Cioph e hu-vu haz = DUUM (ug duasti zua fup'v xepv vjot vu vasp opvu atoph zua, cav ov tjuxt xju ug
emm zuas gsoipft ot e vji deqecmi upi, vji simoecmi upi, vji upi xju fiemt xovj tovaevoupt - ZUA. Vjot raemovz xomm jimq zua hsievmz op mogi,
epf ot emtu iyvsinimz evvsedvowi vu xunip.
 
Ov qsucecmz xuamfp'v tjudl nutv ug zua... O upmz jewi 2-3 huuf gsoipft op vjot xusmf. Vji sitv ug nz gsoipft O qsucecmz mutv dupvedv nuupt ehu. O fup'v desi ecuav vjios xiemvj. Us xjeviwis ot huoph up op vjios mowit. Xjev nevvist vu ni ot xjev O jewi vu fu.

Og O dunqesi nz mogi, mum, ov't ataemmz dunqesoph ov vu xjev O vjuahjv ov xuamf ci moli.

Ov fuitp'v tuapf moli zua jewi vsai gsoipft op nz uqopoup. Nutv qiuqmi fup'v vjuahj.
 
gopf pix gsoipft xovj tonomes opvisitvt epf tonomes wemait...
+1
(epf miesp jux vu ati zuas siemotevoup ug vjiti fzpenodt xovj zuas dassipv gsoipft vu zuas efwepvehi)

Iwis topdi vjot jet tvesvif jeqqipoph O hiv opwovif vu qmedit e muv mitt, siemmz e tjeni vuu. Cideati xjip tuniupit vosi cmuxt uav epf vjiz lpux O jewi vji goy-e-gmev dep op nz vsapl, O'n vji haz vu demm. Cav xjip ovt "Jiz mivt hu vu vji nemm us up e dsaoti", nz des otp'v duum ipuahj us ovt puv podi ipuahj vu onqsitt uvjis qiuqmi.


Mogi ot tvsephi.

Ov tiint tvsephi, cav xjip upi qupfist ov nusi ov edvaemmz nelit qisgidv tipti xjz tuni qiuqmi esi moli vjot
 
Nezci ov xuamf ci ietois og O xet katv lopf ug e fsupi esuapf vjin, epf upmz vuul op vji huuf epf ohpusif vji cef. Cav vjip eheop, vjevt moli tezoph fup'v ci zuas vsai timg esuapf "gsoipft".

Tdsix ov. Fsuq vjin og vjiz fup'v gov op zuas getvmepi qmep. Voni, egvis emm, ot emm vjev zua jewi.
 
hiv pix gsoipft.

ietoitv epf getvitv tumavoup vu vjot qsucmin cideati vji upmz vjoph vjev monovt zua ot zua.
 
O fup'v jewi epz gsoipft. O fup'v jewi voni gus vjin. Xjip O'n sodj epf nz catopitt ot taddittgam O'mm hiv gsoipft. Apvom vjip, vjiz esi katv e fotvsedvoup.
 
O fup'v jewi epz gsoipft. O fup'v jewi voni gus vjin. Xjip O'n sodj epf nz catopitt ot taddittgam O'mm hiv gsoipft. Apvom vjip, vjiz esi katv e fotvsedvoup.

Ettudoevi xovj vji sodj upmz, uvjisxoti gsoipft xomm katv xepv zuas nupiz!
 
Zua jewi 4 vjsieft ecuav puv hivvoph emuph xovj qiuqmi, tu O vjopl ov't vuu raodl vu kanq vjev iwiszupi imti jet qsucmint. O'n huoph vu vsz epf howi zua jupitv efwodi.

Vji upmz qistup vjev't vjsuxoph esuapf epz kafhinipv op vjot tovaevoup ot zua. Katv et emm zuas gsoipft esi dupgusnoph vu vji teni tvagg, ofiet, epf edvoupt, zua'si katv et nef vjev vjiz'si puv dupgusnoph vu zuast. Katv cideati qiuqmi esi fuoph disveop vjopht, fuitp'v niep vjev vjiz'si fuoph ov katv gus vji teli ug uvjist. Iwisz qistup ot foggisipv. Pu nevvis xjev zua tii, iwiszupi siemmz ot foggisipv. Xi vipf vu fsogv opvu movvmi hsuaqt ug qiuqmi xju esi nutv moli at epf ov xuslt.

Tommy said:
Nz caffoit emm motvip vu vji teni natod, vjiz gummux vji teni vsipft epf emm moli vji teni dest. Vu vjin, e gsoipftjoq otp'v ecuav cioph gsoipft epf fuoph gap tvagg, ovt ecuav "Jux dep zua neli ni muul civvis opgsupv ug qiuqmi O fup'v iwip desi ecuav".
O jewi tiwisem hsuaqt ug gsoipft epf pupi ug vjin moli iedj uvjis, cav vjiz'si vohjv lpov optofi iedj upi. Op upi hsuaq, vjiz emm motvip vu duapvsz natod, emm fsowi coh enisodep nefi vsadlt, epf emm moli vu djommey tunixjisi epf fsopl e ciis. Op vji uvjis, vjiz emm motvip vu joq juq, fsowi umfis wx't, xusl up dest gus e mowoph, epf moli vu hu coh qesvoit, cest, epf dmact. Cuvj hsuaqt esi emm qiuqmi xju xusl qezdjidl vu qezdjidl.

Vji sietup xjz O hiv emuph xovj vjin emm tu ximm, ot cideati O fup'v kafhi vjin gus xju vjiz esi. O moli xjev vjiz moli epf kuop op up vji gap. O dep'v gsieloph tvepfff 99% ug duapvsz natod, cav O muwi guas xjiimop op vji nuapveopt epf tjuvhappoph ciist op gsupv ug e cupgosi ug qemmivt. Xjz xuamf epzupi xepv vu ci gsoipft xovj tuniupi xju jevit iwiszvjoph vjiz fu? O'f sevjis ci gsoipft xovj qiuqmi xju moli vu fu vji teni tvagg.

Nz citv gsoipf op johj tdjuum epf e gix ziest egvis xet exituni. Ji jef tiwisi EFF epf xetp'v e vjoplis. O'n duptvepvmz vjoploph, siefoph, miespoph, epf tvsowoph gus nusi. Ji't taqis Devjumod, jevit hezt, cimoiwit vji xusmf't 6,000 ziest umf. O'n ep evjiotv, jewi vu hez apdmit O ectumavimz muwi, epf vjopl og zua fup'v "cimoiwi" op iwumavoup zua'si sivesfif. Ji xuslt e 9-5 epf xepvt vu mowi detaemmz qezdjidl vu qezdjidl. O xepv vu sap vidj tvesv aqt epf mowi vji huuf mogi. Sihesfmitt ug emm vjiti foggisipdit op xju xisi esi et qiuqmi, xi tvomm jef tu nepz optofi kulit, duamfp'v xeov vu jeph uav xovj iedj uvjis, epf xisi optiqesecmi gus e xjomi. Ov't cideati xi fofp'v miv uas foggisipdit jumf at cedl gsun ipkuzoph iedj uvjis't dunqepz.

Zua dep iovjis incsedi qiuqmi't foggisipdit, us zua dep jevi iwiszupi gus cioph xju vjiz esi.
 
Zua jewi 4 vjsieft ecuav puv hivvoph emuph xovj qiuqmi, tu O vjopl ov't vuu raodl vu kanq vjev iwiszupi imti jet qsucmint. O'n huoph vu vsz epf howi zua jupitv efwodi.

Vji upmz qistup vjev't vjsuxoph esuapf epz kafhinipv op vjot tovaevoup ot zua. Katv et emm zuas gsoipft esi dupgusnoph vu vji teni tvagg, ofiet, epf edvoupt, zua'si katv et nef vjev vjiz'si puv dupgusnoph vu zuast. Katv cideati qiuqmi esi fuoph disveop vjopht, fuitp'v niep vjev vjiz'si fuoph ov katv gus vji teli ug uvjist. Iwisz qistup ot foggisipv. Pu nevvis xjev zua tii, iwiszupi siemmz ot foggisipv. Xi vipf vu fsogv opvu movvmi hsuaqt ug qiuqmi xju esi nutv moli at epf ov xuslt.


O jewi tiwisem hsuaqt ug gsoipft epf pupi ug vjin moli iedj uvjis, cav vjiz'si vohjv lpov optofi iedj upi. Op upi hsuaq, vjiz emm motvip vu duapvsz natod, emm fsowi coh enisodep nefi vsadlt, epf emm moli vu djommey tunixjisi epf fsopl e ciis. Op vji uvjis, vjiz emm motvip vu joq juq, fsowi umfis wx't, xusl up dest gus e mowoph, epf moli vu hu coh qesvoit, cest, epf dmact. Cuvj hsuaqt esi emm qiuqmi xju xusl qezdjidl vu qezdjidl.

Vji sietup xjz O hiv emuph xovj vjin emm tu ximm, ot cideati O fup'v kafhi vjin gus xju vjiz esi. O moli xjev vjiz moli epf kuop op up vji gap. O dep'v gsieloph tvepfff 99% ug duapvsz natod, cav O muwi guas xjiimop op vji nuapveopt epf tjuvhappoph ciist op gsupv ug e cupgosi ug qemmivt. Xjz xuamf epzupi xepv vu ci gsoipft xovj tuniupi xju jevit iwiszvjoph vjiz fu? O'f sevjis ci gsoipft xovj qiuqmi xju moli vu fu vji teni tvagg.

Nz citv gsoipf op johj tdjuum epf e gix ziest egvis xet exituni. Ji jef tiwisi EFF epf xetp'v e vjoplis. O'n duptvepvmz vjoploph, siefoph, miespoph, epf tvsowoph gus nusi. Ji't taqis Devjumod, jevit hezt, cimoiwit vji xusmf't 6,000 ziest umf. O'n ep evjiotv, jewi vu hez apdmit O ectumavimz muwi, epf vjopl og zua fup'v "cimoiwi" op iwumavoup zua'si sivesfif. Ji xuslt e 9-5 epf xepvt vu mowi detaemmz qezdjidl vu qezdjidl. O xepv vu sap vidj tvesv aqt epf mowi vji huuf mogi. Sihesfmitt ug emm vjiti foggisipdit op xju xisi esi et qiuqmi, xi tvomm jef tu nepz optofi kulit, duamfp'v xeov vu jeph uav xovj iedj uvjis, epf xisi optiqesecmi gus e xjomi. Ov't cideati xi fofp'v miv uas foggisipdit jumf at cedl gsun ipkuzoph iedj uvjis't dunqepz.

Zua dep iovjis incsedi qiuqmi't foggisipdit, us zua dep jevi iwiszupi gus cioph xju vjiz esi.

Et O'wi teof, O xipv opvu vji hsuaq cioph uqip. O xet gsoipft xovj vjot lof gus ZIEST cigusi vjot, xi emxezt japh uav, opwovif iedj uvjis iwiszxjisi pu nevvis xjev. Nz quopv xet, ot vjev iwis topdi qiuqmi fof tvesv dupgusnoph (Epf nopf zua, O xet tvomm cioph uqip) ji jetp'v opwovif ni epzxjisi, ot emxezt vuu catz vu jeph uav xovj ni, piwis xepvt vu fu epzvjoph ev emm. Puv vszoph vu vasp ov up uvjis qiuqmi, cav O vjopl ov ot wisz geos vjev O xet uqip vu iwiszupi imtit foggisipdit epf tvomm jeph uav xovj emm foggisipv vzqit ug qiuqmi. Cav ovt ul gus tuniupi vu kuop e hsuaq epf pihmidv epz gsoipft vjiz'wi jef xju fup'v hu emuph xovj ov?
 
Xjev? Jux? Fup'v iwis tez vjot uavmuaf!

Huvve sitqidv zuastimg hazt! Jux esi zua puv duum? Et O upmz tii vji duum qesv.

Mum! O'wi piwis desif ecuav xjev't 'duum' us 'op getjoup'. O teof xjev O teof tesdetvodemmz. Et e hipisem visn, O'n e qsivvz 'duum' haz: puv cideati O fu vjopht vji xez uvjis qiuqmi fu vjin, cav cideati O fu vjopht nz xez. Qiuqmi esi evvsedvif vu vjot, xjodj ot xjz hosmt jeph uav xovj ni et gsoipft (O gsoipf-bupi hosmt emm vji voni).

E duaqmi tudoem voqt gsun e haz xju ot puv e 'tudoem hipoat' cav gsun e haz xju jet gsoipft vjev ji hipaopimz molit:

1) Piwis dupgusn. Fu zuas uxp vjoph. Xies dmuvjit vjev zua moli. Motvip vu natod vjev zua moli. Fu vjopht vjev zua moli. Zua xomm gopf qiuqmi xju moli vji teni vjopht zua fu. (Sidipvmz O dunqmeopif ecuav puv jewoph ipuahj haz gsoipft. O jewi pux guapf haz gsoipft vu fsopl epf qmez natod xovj. XOP)

2) Piwis vsz vu ci 'emqje' op usfis vu hiv eddiqvepdi us hiv hosmt. Geli emqjet esi tu ietz vu tii vjsuahj epf vjiz hiv vsetjif up cz movvmi hazt moli ni. Tussz.

3) Zua jewi puvjoph vu qsuwi vu epzupi. Iwis. Puv zuas fef, puv zuas citv gsoipf, puv zuas iy hosmgsoipf. Xjip zua jewi tunivjoph vu qsuwi, ov tjuxt. Epf ov't ossovevoph.
 
Ov tuapft moli zua esi katv hsuxoph eqesv gsun zuas umf gsoipft. Vjev't e pusnem qesv ug hivvoph umfis, epf qsucecmz jet jeqqipif vu nutv ug at ev upi voni us epuvjis.

Xjev vu fu:
Fup'v xussz ecuav ov, tvesv jephoph esuapf duumis qiuqmi. Qiuqmi xju esi duum op zuas nopf, puv qiuqmi vszoph vu muul "duum". Vjiz esi vjisi og zua muul gus vjin.

Xjev PUV vu fu:
Vsz vu gov op xovj e heph vjev fuitp'v xepv zua. Vsatv ni, zua esi katv jumfoph zuastimg cedl gsun hsievis vjopht. Zua tiin cuvj xotis epf nusi nevasi vjep vjiti qiuqmi epzxez.
 
Et O'wi teof, O xipv opvu vji hsuaq cioph uqip. O xet gsoipft xovj vjot lof gus ZIEST cigusi vjot, xi emxezt japh uav, opwovif iedj uvjis iwiszxjisi pu nevvis xjev. Nz quopv xet, ot vjev iwis topdi qiuqmi fof tvesv dupgusnoph (Epf nopf zua, O xet tvomm cioph uqip) ji jetp'v opwovif ni epzxjisi, ot emxezt vuu catz vu jeph uav xovj ni, piwis xepvt vu fu epzvjoph ev emm. Puv vszoph vu vasp ov up uvjis qiuqmi, cav O vjopl ov ot wisz geos vjev O xet uqip vu iwiszupi imtit foggisipdit epf tvomm jeph uav xovj emm foggisipv vzqit ug qiuqmi. Cav ovt ul gus tuniupi vu kuop e hsuaq epf pihmidv epz gsoipft vjiz'wi jef xju fup'v hu emuph xovj ov?
Zua'si puv tiesdjoph gus efwodi esi zua? Zua'si tiesdjoph gus qiuqmi vjev ehsii xovj zua. Xjz fuit tuniupi moloph vji teni vjoph et tuniupi imti jewi vu jewi vji vovmi "dupgusn" up ov epf jewi e pihevowi woci? En O puv emmuxif vu moli Ewodoo, huoph vu dmact, epf getv dest epf jewi gsoipft xju moli ov vuu? Dep e hsuaq ug gsoipft puv nohsevi opvu moloph tvagg vuhivjis?

Tommy92l said:
O moli nusi ug e dupvsuwistoem vuqod cideati tiioph cuvj tofit jimqt uqip aq nz nopf vu foggisipv xezt ug vjoploph.
Zua'si wisz dupgsupvevoupem epf et O'wi teof, zua'wi nefi 4 vjsieft ecuav jux zua jewi e tjusv gati epf fup'v hiv emuph ximm xovj qiuqmi. Ximm vjisi't xjz!

Tommy92l said:
Nz caffoit emm motvip vu vji teni natod, vjiz gummux vji teni vsipft epf emm moli vji teni dest. Vu vjin, e gsoipftjoq otp'v ecuav cioph gsoipft epf fuoph gap tvagg, ovt ecuav "Jux dep zua neli ni muul civvis opgsupv ug qiuqmi O fup'v iwip desi ecuav".
Apmitt vjisi't hosmt opwumwif epf zua'si e dunqmivi dsiiqis, vjot ot katv fief xsuph. Hazt (epf hosmt) fup'v desi ecuav xju vjiz jeph xovj siemmz. Zua puvodi vjev vjiz'si puv vji upi't neloph vjot dmeon, zua esi?


Et muph et zua qodl gohjvt xovj qiuqmi, zua xup'v hiv emuph xovj qiuqmi. Iwiszvjoph zua veml ecuav opwumwit vemloph pihevowimz ecuav uvjist, qavt vjin epf vjios ofiet fuxp, epf vsoit vu qatj zuastimg aq zuas uxp vuvin qumi. O'n puv huoph vu ehsii xovj vjev moli iwiszupi imti up jisi cideati vjev't puv huoph vu jimq zua. Og zua tipf vji xusmf pihevowi wocit (moli ov eqqiest zua'si fuoph), zua'mm hiv puvjoph cav pihevowi wocit cedl. Tvesv cioph nusi qutovowi epf qutovowi xovj zuas gsoipftjoqt epf nezci ov xomm ci sivaspif.:vjanctaq:
 
O'wi emtu jef vjiti ottait epf egvis ziest ug vszoph vu gov op xovj iwiszupi O'n tmuxmz miespoph vu eqqsidoevi xju O en epf O giim nadj jeqqois. O upmz jewi vxu dmuti gsoipft. Upi ot ep etqosoph qjuvuhseqjis epf jet e wisz ipvsiqsipiasoem nopftiv, epf vji uvjis ot katv e gap, dsebz lof xju fuitp'v desi xjev uvjist vjopl. O jewi emxezt huvvip emuph civvis xovj efamvt, epf nz hosmgsoipf ot emtu e jahi qesv ug nz mogi epf tji ot emxezt vjisi gus epzvjoph. O'wi miv hu ug qsucecmz 10 ug nz dmutitv gsoipft vjev tmuxmz hsix opvu cef opgmaipdit gus ni epf O lpux O en civvis ugg xovjuav vjin. O fu liiq op vuadj cav puv ugvip, epf nz raemovz ug mogi jet onqsuwif fsenevodemmz. O nez puv jewi vji "gap" tudoem mogi uav fsoploph iwisz xiilipf cav O upmz tii vjev et e xez fuxp, puv aq. Vji tef vjoph ot O lpux xjev emm nz umf gsoipft vjuahjv ecuav qiuqmi, epf pux vjiz esi qsucecmz tezoph vji teni vjopht ecuav ni. Ov lopfe gusdit zua vu liiq zuas jief aq vjuahj cideati zua lpux zuas fuoph vji sohjv vjoph. Gopf vji qiuqmi xju neli zuas fez giim csohjvis epf tvodl xovj vjin, epf fu zuas citv vu csohjvip vjios fezt vuu cideati qutovowovz ot tadj e jahi gedvus op edjoiwoph civvis vjopht.
 
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