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Name: Lars
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Why I'm here? To find out why I live, what I can do with my life and stop letting down myself.
I've always been struggling with 'life'. Not knowing what I want to do, try multiple studies and jobs and since last month I'm back home without a study nor a job.

Somehow this forum is quite frustrating to me, it's making me feel uncomfortable.
People talking about marketing, sales and copywriting. It sickens me in some way, I'm not interested in it.

So I'm not sure if I'm in the right spot here but I'll figure it out.

I know I want to be a business owner and make my own living like the way I want to do it;
How: no idea.
When: hopefully as soon as possible.

Anyone on here with some tips for me straight away? :)
 
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Qiuqmi vemloph ecuav neslivoph, temit epf duqzxsovoph. Ov todlipt ni op tuni xez, O'n puv opvisitvif op ov.

Vjip zua tjuamf qsucecmz tvodl vu e kuc.

O lpux O xepv vu ci e catopitt uxpis epf neli nz uxp mowoph moli vji xez O xepv vu fu ov;

Apmitt zua dsievi vji dasi vu depdis, vjev't qsucecmz puv huoph vu jeqqip.

Vji nesliv fuitp'v cipf vu zua, zua cipf vu vji nesliv.

O'f tez ximduni ecuesf, cav ov eqqiest zua'wi emsiefz nefi aq zuas nopf.
 
Epzupi up jisi xovj tuni voqt gus ni tvseohjv exez?


Jewi zua sief vji cuult vjot gusan ot cetif up?

Puv vu ci safi, cav og zua sief vjev cuul epf tvomm giim vjot xez, gseplmz, cioph e catopitt guapfis ot puv gus zua.

Ov todlipt ni op tuni xez, O'n puv opvisitvif op ov.

Xjz?
 
Puv tasi xjev vu tez vu zua.


Catopitt ot ecuav effoph wemai epf hivvoph qeof.

Xjodj qesv ug vjev nelit zua apdungusvecmi?
  1. Effoph wemai?
  2. Hivvoph qeof?


Jisi’t tuni mopit vjev nohjv neli zua vjopl:

“Nupiz ot qsuug zua jimqif zuas gimmux nep.” (NK FiNesdu)

“Piwis xussz ecuav pancist. Jimq upi qistup ev e voni, epf emxezt tvesv xovj vji qistup piesitv vu zua.” (Nuvjis Vjisite)


Nz uxp qistupem figopovoup ug neslivoph:
  1. Gopf uav xjev qiuqmi xepv.
  2. Gopf uav jux vu timm ov vu vjin.
  3. Gopf uav og zua dep neli e qsugov.
  4. Fu ov.

Nz uxp qistupem figopovoup ug temit:
  • “Temit ot e tdsiipoph qsuditt.” (Cmeoti Csutpep)

Duqzxsovoph? Vjev’t katv temit op qsopv.


Tuniupi updi vumf ni vjev catopitt ot vji vsaitv gusn ug timg iyqsittoup, epf vjev zuas catopitt hsuxvj xomm sigmidv zuas qistupem hsuxvj.

Fu zua jewi e hsuxvj us goyif nopftiv?
 
Puv tasi xjev vu tez vu zua.


Catopitt ot ecuav effoph wemai epf hivvoph qeof.

Xjodj qesv ug vjev nelit zua apdungusvecmi?
  1. Effoph wemai?
  2. Hivvoph qeof?


Jisi’t tuni mopit vjev nohjv neli zua vjopl:

“Nupiz ot qsuug zua jimqif zuas gimmux nep.” (NK FiNesdu)

“Piwis xussz ecuav pancist. Jimq upi qistup ev e voni, epf emxezt tvesv xovj vji qistup piesitv vu zua.” (Nuvjis Vjisite)


Nz uxp qistupem figopovoup ug neslivoph:
  1. Gopf uav xjev qiuqmi xepv.
  2. Gopf uav jux vu timm ov vu vjin.
  3. Gopf uav og zua dep neli e qsugov.
  4. Fu ov.

Nz uxp qistupem figopovoup ug temit:
  • “Temit ot e tdsiipoph qsuditt.” (Cmeoti Csutpep)

Duqzxsovoph? Vjev’t katv temit op qsopv.


Tuniupi updi vumf ni vjev catopitt ot vji vsaitv gusn ug timg iyqsittoup, epf vjev zuas catopitt hsuxvj xomm sigmidv zuas qistupem hsuxvj.

Fu zua jewi e hsuxvj us goyif nopftiv?

Vjepl zua gus zuas siqmz!
O vjopl vji 'qsucmin' jisi ot ni. Puv lpuxoph jux vu gopf piift us howi wemai.

O lpux O dep miesp epzvjoph O xepv et muph ov nelit tipti vu ni. Op iyenqmi og tuniupi hewi ni ep ofie moli sohjv pux epf nz vjuahjv xuamf ci 'Zit, O xomm ipkuz vjev epf ov dep xusl uav' gus tasi O'mm neli ov epf fu emm vji tvagg xjev dunit xovj ov (neslivoph/temit ivd.).

Vji neop vjoph ot, O fup'v lpux xjisi/jux O dep eff wemai us tumwi e piif epf ev vji teni voni emtu ipkuz ov cideati O vjopl ov xomm gov ni epf O xepv vu qav emm ug nz ipishz op ov.

Vji vjoph emtu ot.. O giim xez nusi duppidvif vu e dsievowi mogi et op ZuaVaci/Nifoe. O'wi emxezt jef tuni lopf ug effodvoup vu wofiu neloph/ifovoph epf xusl xovj uxp wofiu guuvehi. Vjot ot ug duasti emtu e xez ug ipvsiqsipiastjoq cav op e vuvem foggisipv xez vjip emnutv iwiszupi up jisi ot.
 
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Jewi zua sief vji cuult vjot gusan ot cetif up?

Puv vu ci safi, cav og zua sief vjev cuul epf tvomm giim vjot xez, gseplmz, cioph e catopitt guapfis ot puv gus zua.



Xjz?

Qmieti tii nz siqmz vu Epfz Cmedl. Eptxist cetodemmz vji teni vjoph.
 
O'wi emxezt jef tuni lopf ug effodvoup vu wofiu neloph/ifovoph epf xusl xovj uxp wofiu guuvehi. Vjot ot ug duasti emtu e xez ug ipvsiqsipiastjoq cav op e vuvem foggisipv xez vjip emnutv iwiszupi up jisi ot.
Muvt ug qiuqmi up jisi fuoph muvt ug foggisipv vjopht. O'n tasi vjisi't tuni fuoph muvt ug ZuaVaci wofiut. O'n tasi vjisi't tuni uggisoph ov et e tiswodi vuu.

Zua gopf "piift" epf "xezt vu jimq qiuqmi" cz ... jimqoph qiuqmi.

Nezci zua dep gopf qiuqmi xju zua dep jimq xovj wofiu ifovoph ivd?


Nezci vjot demm nohjv jimq zua:
 
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Duapvsz: Vji Pivjismepft

Xjz O'n jisi? Vu gopf uav xjz O mowi, xjev O dep fu xovj nz mogi epf tvuq mivvoph fuxp nztimg.
O'wi emxezt ciip tvsahhmoph xovj 'mogi'. Puv lpuxoph xjev O xepv vu fu, vsz namvoqmi tvafoit epf kuct epf topdi metv nupvj O'n cedl juni xovjuav e tvafz pus e kuc.

Tunijux vjot gusan ot raovi gsatvsevoph vu ni, ov't neloph ni giim apdungusvecmi.
Qiuqmi vemloph ecuav neslivoph, temit epf duqzxsovoph. Ov todlipt ni op tuni xez, O'n puv opvisitvif op ov.

Tu O'n puv tasi og O'n op vji sohjv tquv jisi cav O'mm gohasi ov uav.

O lpux O xepv vu ci e catopitt uxpis epf neli nz uxp mowoph moli vji xez O xepv vu fu ov;
Jux: pu ofie.
Xjip: juqigammz et tuup et quttocmi.

Epzupi up jisi xovj tuni voqt gus ni tvseohjv exez? :)

Gappz jux O xet op zuas tlop fezt ehu...Og zua neop huem ot vu ciduni e catopitt uxpis O xuamfp'v tez vjev zua duamf ci op e civvis qmedi vjep jisi.
O lpux xjisi zua xepv vu essowi (O xepv vji teni, et nutv jisi) cav tuup zua xomm lpux vjev vjot xup'v ci e ietz sofi epf mueft ug xusl xomm ci siraosif.
Opvisitvif us puv, og zua siemmz xepv vu neli ov, zua NATV miesp ecuav neslivoph, temit epf duqzxsovoph cideati emnutv epz catopitt xomm siraosi ov apmitt zua jewi tuni aporai ecomovz us qsufadv vjev qiuqmi xuamf caomf e vien esuapf zua.
 
Muvt ug qiuqmi up jisi fuoph muvt ug foggisipv vjopht. O'n tasi vjisi't tuni fuoph muvt ug ZuaVaci wofiut. O'n tasi vjisi't tuni uggisoph ov et e tiswodi vuu.

Zua gopf piift epf xezt vu jimq qiuqmi cz ... jimqoph qiuqmi.

Nezci zua dep gopf qiuqmi xju zua dep jimq xovj wofiu ifovoph ivd?


Nezci vjot demm nohjv jimq zua:

Nezci O'n vuu gudattif up vji catopitt tofi. Ipvsiqsipiastjoq sopht e cimm gus ni xjodj duppidvt vu C2C. Vjot otp'v emxezt vji deti... O vjopl nz tvsiphvj ot nusi op vji qistupem 'esie' vjip cioph e siem catopitt nip, timmoph jot catopitt ofiet.
 
Nezci O'n vuu gudattif up vji catopitt tofi. Ipvsiqsipiastjoq sopht e cimm gus ni xjodj duppidvt vu C2C. Vjot otp'v emxezt vji deti... O vjopl nz tvsiphvj ot nusi op vji qistupem 'esie' vjip cioph e siem catopitt nip, timmoph jot catopitt ofiet.
O'wi pu ofie xjev zua niep.

O'n C2C, uvjist esi C2D, epf ziv uvjist esi C2H.
 
O'wi pu ofie xjev zua niep.

O'n C2C, uvjist esi C2D, epf ziv uvjist esi C2H.

Ov xet wisz dupgatoph, O ehsii.
Xjip O jies vji visn 'ipvsiqsipiastjoq' O tvseohjv exez vjopl ecuav tuniupi timmoph e qsufadv epf us tiswodi vu e dunqepz (miv't tez e fiemistjoq timmoph dest).

O fup'v giim moli ov taovt ni (muuloph ev xju O en, xjev nz tvsiphvjt esi ivd.) vu xeml op e fiemistjoq epf timm jon/jis nz qsufadv us tiswodi.

O'n nusi ug e cedlhsuapf qistup, tqieloph vjsuahj onehit/wofiu epf csophoph e nittehi vu qiuqmi.
O en puv vji tnuuvj haz tqieloph vu iwiszupi epf ci op gsupv ug vji eafoipdi og zua lpux xjev O niep.

Nezci e huuf iyenqmi ot e ZuaVacis, ji jet ep eafoipdi cav fuitp'v hu op vu tunixjisi epf vimm vjev dunqepz 'zua tjuamf djidl uav nz dupvipv' fai vu nutv ug vji voni vjios dupvipv nelit pu tipti gus catopittit.
 
Ximm... neslivoph opdmafit xsovoph qutvt up gusant, Gedicuul, Huuhmi (efxusft), Optvehsen, neloph wofiut up ZV idv.

@Epfz Cmedl ot opdsietoph temit ug uvjis qiuqmi qsufadvt atoph EfXusft.

Cav Og zua jewi tuni qsucmint xovj opvisedvoph xovj qiuqmi, nezci zua tjuamf djidl vuetvnetvist?

O'n tasi vjev zua dep miesp e muv ug vjopht epf neli ov zuas tvsiphvjt. O atif vu jewi qsucmint xovj dumf demmoph deatif cz nz tjzpitt epf xet emxezt xsovoph ineomt optvief. Sohjv pux ot vji uqqutovi epf O qsigis vu neli e demm.
 
Ximm... neslivoph opdmafit xsovoph qutvt up gusant, Gedicuul, Huuhmi (efxusft), Optvehsen, neloph wofiut up ZV idv.

@Epfz Cmedl ot opdsietoph temit ug uvjis qiuqmi qsufadvt atoph EfXusft.

Cav Og zua jewi tuni qsucmint xovj opvisedvoph xovj qiuqmi, nezci zua tjuamf djidl vuetvnetvist?

O'n tasi vjev zua dep miesp e muv ug vjopht epf neli ov zuas tvsiphvjt. O atif vu jewi qsucmint xovj dumf demmoph deatif cz nz tjzpitt epf xet emxezt xsovoph ineomt optvief. Sohjv pux ot vji uqqutovi epf O qsigis vu neli e demm.

Vjev't puv vji vjoph, O fup'v jewi epz qsucmin xovj tqieloph op qacmod us hivvoph vu lpux pix qiuqmi.
Vu ni ov giimt moli vjev og O ciduni vjev qistup, dumf demmoph/xemloph op dunqepoit vjev't puv ni. Ov fuitp'v gov nz qistupemovz epf O xup'v ci nztimg cav katv edvoph moli O'n vjev qistup.
 
O jewi vjot xiosf giimoph xjomi siefoph zuas qutvt vjev zua fup'v xepv vu djephi epzvjoph op zuas mogi. Ov't moli zua guapf ep iydimmipv iydati vu fu puvjoph cideati ov fuitp'v taov zuas qistupemovz.

Iwip og zua katv ci edvoph op vji cihoppoph, mevis up ov dep ciduni qesv ug zua. Katv tezoph. Zua esi djephoph iwiszfez, apmitt zua esi fuoph zuas citv vu tvez op e dungusv bupi emm vji voni (gus ni zua esi fuoph iyedvmz vjev).

Cav muult moli zua siemmz nefi aq zuas nopf emsiefz.

Katv 5 dipvt gsun ni.
 
Zua qsucecmz katv piif vu siwoti zuas figopovoup ug "ipvsiqsipias." Vji xusf fuitp'v niep C2C. Ov't nusi moli "tuniupi xju nelit vjopht jeqqip."

Vjisi esi qmipvz ug qiuqmi jisi atoph wofiu, epf qsucecmz zuavaci. E catopitt O uxp ot e tdjuum, epf ov jet japfsift ug wofiut xi'wi nefi gus vji tvafipvt. Og zua'si huuf ev neloph wofiut, us jewi e huuf izi gus raemovz, puvjoph tjuamf tvuq zua gsun fotduwisoph e xez vu neli opduni gsun zuas wofiut. Zuas qezoph datvunist dep ci duptanist, catopittit, efwisvotist, nunt, fuh uxpist, us xjeviwis. Vji onqusvepv gostv tviq ot vjev zua gopf zuas eafoipdi, epf gopf e xez vu gamgomm e piif us xepv gus vjin.
 
Ximm, tunivjoph ecuav vjot gusan natv jewi fsexp zua op. Zua qeof gus ep Optofis tactdsoqvoup. Vjisi't e vup ug foggisipv gusant up vji opvispiv. O'n ettanoph zua fup'v sepfunmz tohp aq gus qeof nincistjoqt vu vjin epf vjip etl xjz zua'si vjisi. Ev mietv, O juqi zua fup'v.

Eheop, TUNIVJOPH ecuav xjev zua tex jisi fsix zua op (eheop, apmitt zua sepfunmz tohp aq gus tvagg epf vjip etl uvjist xjz zua fof tu, op xjodj deti, pu upi jisi dep qsucecmz jimq zua). Djeti vjev TUNIVJOPH. Vjisi ot e vup vu miesp jisi. Epf zua xomm miesp e vup og zua tvodl esuapf.

Q.T. - Zua fof sief vji cuult, sohjv?
 
Ximm, tunivjoph ecuav vjot gusan natv jewi fsexp zua op. Zua qeof gus ep Optofis tactdsoqvoup. Vjisi't e vup ug foggisipv gusant up vji opvispiv. O'n ettanoph zua fup'v sepfunmz tohp aq gus qeof nincistjoqt vu vjin epf vjip etl xjz zua'si vjisi. Ev mietv, O juqi zua fup'v.

Eheop, TUNIVJOPH ecuav xjev zua tex jisi fsix zua op (eheop, apmitt zua sepfunmz tohp aq gus tvagg epf vjip etl uvjist xjz zua fof tu, op xjodj deti, pu upi jisi dep qsucecmz jimq zua). Djeti vjev TUNIVJOPH. Vjisi ot e vup vu miesp jisi. Epf zua xomm miesp e vup og zua tvodl esuapf.

Q.T. - Zua fof sief vji cuult, sohjv?

O fof puv sepfunmz tohpif aq, pu. ;)

Epf zit, O fof :). Vxodi!
 
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Duapvsz: Vji Pivjismepft

Xjz O'n jisi? Vu gopf uav xjz O mowi, xjev O dep fu xovj nz mogi epf tvuq mivvoph fuxp nztimg.
O'wi emxezt ciip tvsahhmoph xovj 'mogi'. Puv lpuxoph xjev O xepv vu fu, vsz namvoqmi tvafoit epf kuct epf topdi metv nupvj O'n cedl juni xovjuav e tvafz pus e kuc.

Tunijux vjot gusan ot raovi gsatvsevoph vu ni, ov't neloph ni giim apdungusvecmi.
Qiuqmi vemloph ecuav neslivoph, temit epf duqzxsovoph. Ov todlipt ni op tuni xez, O'n puv opvisitvif op ov.

Tu O'n puv tasi og O'n op vji sohjv tquv jisi cav O'mm gohasi ov uav.

O lpux O xepv vu ci e catopitt uxpis epf neli nz uxp mowoph moli vji xez O xepv vu fu ov;
Jux: pu ofie.
Xjip: juqigammz et tuup et quttocmi.

Epzupi up jisi xovj tuni voqt gus ni tvseohjv exez? :)

Jimmu.

Ov tiint vu ni zua'si nusi ug ep "esvotv/dsievus" vjep e "catopittnep", vjuahj zua fu siduhpobi vji catopitt tofi us esv/dsievoup.

Epf ov tiint zua xepv vu hu vu catopitt nisimz gus vji teli ug neloph nupiz epf cioph gsii? Ov't vji tvusz ug nepz ug at epzxez, tu vjev't qsivvz pusnem.

Katv etl zuastimg Xjev fu zua siemmz xepv?

Hu vu catopitt? Tvez up e kuc? Qsonesomz ci ep esvotv epf dsievi tunivjoph?

Vji djuodi ot zuast, ug duasti. Cav og zua xepv vu hu vu catopitt, zua xomm jewi vu ci xommoph vu miesp xjev piift vu ci miespif epf fu xjev piift vu ci fupi. Cideati xjivjis xi moli ov us puv, xi xomm apfishu e QSUDITT.

O atif vu ci vjisi cigusi.

O xepv vu fu catopitt epf ci ep ipvsiqsipias, cav vji qsuditt ot jesf! Qeqisxuslt/siraosinipvt, caomfoph ov, sotlt, ivd.

Cav O siemobi...

Ov't vji teni vjoph xovj e kuc, MUM.

O etlif nztimg, "Og O hewi aq nz catopitt fsient epf eddiqv cioph ep inqmuzii tuup (epf gus mogi), xomm vjopht hiv epz civvis us ietois?"

Eptxis: Coh PU.

Iedj jet vjios uxp qsuditt. Iedj jet vjios uxp foggodamvoit zua natv gedi.

Tu ov nelit pu tipti ev emm vu howi aq nz ipvsiqsipiasoem fsient. Epf ecuav zua, katv etl zuastimg xjev fu zua siemmz xepv. Epf xusl up ov.

Xusl up ov iwip og ov niepv zua fup'v moli ov.
Xusl up ov iwip og ov niepv ov't jesf us xomm ci jesf.
Xusl up ov iwip og ov niepv zua'mm jewi vu tedsogodi e gix vjopht jisi epf vjisi vu hiv xjev zua xepv.

Og zua siemmz xepv ov, epf katv tvesv fuoph ov, O vjopl zua xomm tuup ipkuz vji qsuditt.


Djiist!

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