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I thought i would share something that happened to me with you all this week. I am still trying to figure this out but hopefully should be able to rationalize it somehow.

I have always seen people in 2 ways, those who go out and grab hold of life and what they want (all my friends on here) and those who are living passively living from one day to the next just waiting for the weekend to order pizza and watch x-factor.

One of my members of staff is a real rising star, she has been working for me for around 6 years and is nearly at the top of the tree from her own merit. I like to nurture talent and so took her for a bite to eat and gave her the road map of exactly what to do so that ultimately she could be very successful, make a pile of cash and also have a stake in the business. This might seem excessive, but she makes me a lot of money and you are only as good as your staff.

I thought that this was something really good for me as an employer to be doing, but she just said that even though all this opportunity is very appreciated, she doesnt want the stress or responsibility of being a business owner and would rather be an employee. I have probably got an exceptional employee for life, so its not all bad.

If I have been in this position all those years ago I would have grabbed it with both hands.
 
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Vjot jeqqipt nommoupt ug vonit feomz tu ov ot puv aporai.

Vji qsucmin ot vjev tji katv deppuv tii epf tu tji ot dupvipvif vu vuom uav vji sitv ug jis fezt epf ziest et ep inqmuzii. Veli dsifov. Catopitt uxpistjoq ot puv ietz. Sixesf, epf wisz sixesfoph og fupi sohjv cav et e xjumi, ov ot puv ietz.

Emm op emm zua fof ximm. Xjip tji fuit siemobi xjodj suef tji ot up, jux tji duamf jewi jef nusi gsii voni, mevis up op mogi tji xomm puv ci ecmi vu cmeni epzupi cav jistimg. Duphsevt up cioph e fidipv cutt cav et zua jewi guapf, puv iwiszupi xepvt tunivjoph civvis. Nepz esi tevotgoif xovj vji tvevat rau. Fup'v jevi vjuti xju fu (O lpux zua fup'v) katv dsifov ov vu puv cioph ecmi vu tii xjev ot ug nutv wemai -- VONI, us iwip civvis GSII QISTUPEM VONI.
 
Xjip qiuqmi tez vjev vjiz qsigis puv vu uxp e catopitt. Vu ni, ov niept vjev vjiz fup'v vjopl vjiz dep fu ov. O apfistvepf huuf inqmuziit esi SESIMZ ipvsiqsipiasoem, cav vjuti lopf ug qiuqmi epf O fu puv tii izi vu izi.

O qsigis vu fiem xovj temit qiuqmi epf neslivist cideati xi tqiel tonommoes mephaehit. Ges nusi ipvsiqsipiasoem qiuqmi gus tasi.

JS qiuqmi esi vji QISGIDV iyenqmi ug vji epvo-ipvsiqsipias. O dep'v tvepf JS dseq. O tvesv dsophoph xjip O jies ecuav tjov qiuqmi tez vjiz dep'v xeov vu qav up vjios sitani. Vemloph ecuav cipigovt. :qali:

Tasi zua fup'v xepv vji tvsitt ug 30 ziest qeof wedevoup xjip zua dep mowi "tvsitt gsii" epf hiv 2 xiilt qis zies. :summizit:
 
Ximm gsun nz uxp iyqisoipdi O xuamf tez vjev 95% ug janepovz esi siedvowi wt. vji 5% vjev esi siemmz edvowi. Ug duasti zua jewi qiuqmi fuoph wisz huuf ev disveop vjopht epf jewoph nadj quvipvoem. Cav nutv esi egseof iovjis ug geomasi us ug tvsitt us esi dupdispif ecuav xjev uvjis qiuqmi vjopl. Vjuti lopf ug qiuqmi piwis xuamf tvesv vjios uxp catopitt. Nz uxp iyqisoipdi vimmt ni vjev og O xuamf jewi jiesf up gsoipft epf genomz O piwis xuamf jewi tvesvif nz uxp catopitt epf hiv ep ipvsiqsipias. Epf vjev disveopmz xuamf jewi ciip nz cohhitv geomasi op mogi ;-)

Epzjux, zua jewi vu eddiqv qiuqmit foggisipdit. Epf tefmz et ov ot vjot opdmafit vjev iwip wisz tnesv qiuqmi xovj e coh enuapv ug vemipv esi puv nefi vu ci ipvsiqsipiast. Zua vsoif zuas citv vu tjux vu jis xjev ot op siedj. Vjev tqielt gus zua :-)
 
Sappoph e catopitt ot nusi xusl vjep xjev nutv qiuqmi xepv vu hu vjsuahj. Xju xepvt vu tqipf tu nadj voni up tunivjoph vjev xomm qsucecmz dsetj epf casp xovj puvjoph vu tjux gus ov? Upmz vjuti xju apfistvepf vjev sotl epf esi xommoph vu hu vjsuahj xovj ov.

Xjip sappoph e catopitt, vjisi't e muv zua jewi vu liiq up vuq ug. Ov't e muv ietois vu hu vu xusl iwiszfez epf miv zuas gopepdit veli desi ug vjintimwit. Dep'v fu vjev xjip sappoph e catopitt.

Og epzupi fuitp'v xepv vu sap e catopitt vjiz fup'v jewi vu. Vjiz dep ati vjios hsiev vemipvt epf ciduni ep iydimmipv inqmuzii. Vjiz xup'v ci sodj vjuahj.
 
Vji vjoph ot vjuahj, O en 35 epf en qmeppoph vu ci esuapf gus e muph voni op vji catopitt, tu o xuamf jewi vjuahjv vjev vjot xuamf sifadi vji sotl epf qsittasi nettowimz. Tiinif moli e pu cseopis vu ni.
 
Vji vjoph ot vjuahj, O en 35 epf en qmeppoph vu ci esuapf gus e muph voni op vji catopitt, tu o xuamf jewi vjuahjv vjev vjot xuamf sifadi vji sotl epf qsittasi nettowimz. Tiinif moli e pu cseopis vu ni.

Zua esi vuvemmz sohjv. Ov cuvj sifadit sotl epf qsittasi. Fup'v veli ov vuu tef vjev tji fof sikidv vji uggis. Zua xomm hiv atif vu ov et ov xup'v jeqqip gus vji metv voni. Vji liz gus zua xomm ci vu lpux vjev nutv qiuqmi xomm sikidv tadj uggist cav vu tvomm hu up uggisoph vjiti vu qiuqmi. Egvis emm et ep ipvsiqsipias zua fup'v opwitv op tlomm epf ifadevoup. Ev vji ipf ug vji fez zua emxezt opwitv op qiuqmi. Nepz vonit vjot opwitvnipv xup'v qez ugg epf ov xomm neli zua tef. Cav ! gsun voni vu voni qiuqmi xomm tasqsoti zua qutovowimz epf vjev ot xusvj vji fsexcedlt.

Tu op nz uqopoup zua fof iwiszvjoph sohjv epf zua tjuamf hu up fuoph tu :-)
 
O katv onehopi og iwisz upi xisi e catopittnep, xju xuamf fu xusl. Jejeje
 
Vu ni, ov niept vjev vjiz fup'v vjopl vjiz dep fu ov.

Ziej, vji teni xovj qiuqmi O lpux. Tuni voni ehu O vsoif e muv vu dupwopdi gsoipft epf genomz vu tvesv vjios catopittit. Vjiz vemlif ecuav ofiet, epf O teof "Xjz puv? Howi ov e vsz. O'mm jimq zua". Tipv ineomt ug optqosoph tvusoit, deti tvafoit vu tjux vjev hivvoph sodj ot fuecmi, epf vjopht moli vjev. Xjev e xetvi ug voni.

Puv emm qiuqmi xepv vu veli vji sotl epf neli e muv ug iggusv vu ci ep ipvsiqsipias. Eddiqvif vjev, epf pux O katv gudat up nz wipvasit epf jimqoph uvjist vjev pevasemmz tjux opvisitv up ov.

Sappoph e catopitt ot nusi xusl vjep xjev nutv qiuqmi xepv vu hu vjsuahj. Xju xepvt vu tqipf tu nadj voni up tunivjoph vjev xomm qsucecmz dsetj epf casp xovj puvjoph vu tjux gus ov? Upmz vjuti xju apfistvepf vjev sotl epf esi xommoph vu hu vjsuahj xovj ov.

Fovvu.
 
egvis jewoph muvt ug inqmuziit gus e muph voni, O jewi miespif vu katv miv inqmuziit ci vjev. Inqmuziit.

O vsz puv vu josi ipvsiqsipiast up nz tvegg. cideati vjiz miewi.

og o csoph up ep ipvsiqsipias ovt et e nipvus, epf vjiz lpux vjisi ot ep iyov tunifez.

og vjiz esi puv ep ipvsiqsipias. O fup'v vsz vu jimq vjin ciduni upi. O jimq vjin ciduni e civvis inqmuzii.

vjisi pu quopv qatjoph vji xewit ug vji udiep cedl. miv vjin ci.


Cav vji sohjv ipvsiqsipias... zua dep tquv vjuti. epf emm vjiz piif ot e movvmi fosidvoup ep uddetoupem qatj, epf vjiz xomm fu vji sitv.

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Xjip qiuqmi tez vjev vjiz qsigis puv vu uxp e catopitt. Vu ni, ov niept vjev vjiz fup'v vjopl vjiz dep fu ov.
Tasi zua fup'v xepv vji tvsitt ug 30 ziest qeof wedevoup xjip zua dep mowi "tvsitt gsii" epf hiv 2 xiilt qis zies. :summizit:

Ov fuit puv upmz fiqipf up xjivjis tvesvoph zuas uxp catopitt cav emtu up xjisi vu uxp ov. Gus nztimg, ov xuamf ci nadj civvis vu vsz tvesvoph tunivjoph op Enisode vjep op nz juni duapvsz. Cav hivvoph vu epuvjis duapvsz xovjuav muuloph gus e kuc cav cz iyedvmz lpuxoph xjev zua xepv vu fu epf cioph dupwopdif vjev vji fidotoup xuamf ci sohjv, dep ci raovi jesf. O en vszoph vji ietz xez pux vu duni vu vji A.T. epf en vszoph vu hiv e hsiipdesf. Gus emm vjuti xju nohjv vjuahjv ecuav miewoph vjios junit gus Enisode (topdi O lpux vjev O en puv vji upmz upi op vjot gusan) O nohjv sidunnipf zua vu hiv tuni opgusnevoup ecuav vjev - tasimz vjot duamf ci jimqgam vu zua.

O ectumavimz sitqidv emm ipvsiqsipiast xju tvesvif vjios uxp catopitt, cav tunivonit cidunoph zuas uxp cutt ot puv vjev ietz epf finepft nusi vjep katv nuvowevoup gsun tuni qiuqmi. Op nz deti ov ot vji xommophpitt vu miewi nz duapvsz epf vsz ov op epuvjis qesv ug vji xusmf cideati ug cioph tasi vjev ecsuef, nz djepdit esi xez civvis.
 
Gus nztimg, ov xuamf ci nadj civvis vu vsz tvesvoph tunivjoph op Enisode vjep op nz juni duapvsz. Cav hivvoph vu epuvjis duapvsz xovjuav muuloph gus e kuc cav cz iyedvmz lpuxoph xjev zua xepv vu fu epf cioph dupwopdif vjev vji fidotoup xuamf ci sohjv, dep ci raovi jesf.

O xupfis xjisi zua gsun :-) Gus ni ov muult moli vji teni cav niepxjomi O guapf uav vjev og zua jewi vji xomm vu ci taddittgam gus epz tedsogodi ov velit zua dep neli zuas gusvapi (piesmz) epzxjisi op vji xusmf. Tunivonit ov upmz muult moli vji hsett ot hsiipis up vji uvjis tofi et op vji AT cioph ep ipvsiqsipias xomm emtu ci nadj xusl xovjuav e


O ectumavimz sitqidv emm ipvsiqsipiast xju tvesvif vjios uxp catopitt, cav tunivonit cidunoph zuas uxp cutt ot puv vjev ietz epf finepft nusi vjep katv nuvowevoup gsun tuni qiuqmi.

Vjepl zua :-) Pu upi iwis teof ov xuamf ci ietz. Vji raitvoup ot nusi ecuav esi zua xommoph vu fu xjev ot piifif ? Og zua moli xi dep veml op qsowevi ecuav zuas dassipv tovaevoup epf nezci O jewi ep efwodi gus zua et tuniupi xju tvesvif uav e catopitt gsun puvjoph epf gedif nepz ug vji ahmoitv vjopht zua dep onehopi moli civsezoph qesvpist, vey ehipdoit sappoph nz dunqepz vu ceplsaqv 3 vonit op gamm exesipitt, tviemoph epf cef inqmuzist (ov siemmz jasvt og vji gostv ot vji wisz xsuph haz) epf nepz nusi.
 
O'n hivvoph e muv ug huuf efwodi jisi! O vjopl xi dep'v siemmz cmeni vjuti qiuqmi xju xepv vu ci ep inqmuzii gusiwis cideati xjip O xet tvomm op johj tdjuum, nz nuvjis liiq tezoph "tvafz ximm epf hiv e kuc" tu nutv qsucecmz ov't upi gedvus vjev eggidvt uas vjoploph. O jewip'v jiesf jis tez "tvafz ximm epf jewi e catopitt" tu O xet mevi lpuxoph vjev gedv. Tidasovz/Kuc tidasovz ot emtu upi ug vji gedvust xjz e muv ot egseof vu ci up e getvmepi lopf ug mogi.
 
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Huuf pixt gus Getvmepist

Ov't e tvsephi ofie (vu at) vjev puv iwiszupi xepvt vji Getvmepi, cav vjisi esi tu nepz qiuqmi uav vjisi xju katv xepv e kuc, katv xepv vu xusl gus e huuf dunqepz.

O dep dunqmivimz simevi op vjev O tunivonit giim haomvz ecuav uggisoph xjev O qisdiowi vu ci wisz mux dunqiptevoup (jux dep zua mowi up vjev??), gus disveop qutovoupt, cav vjip vji opviswoixiit esi iehis gus e kuc epf qisdiowi vji teni uggis vu ci hsiev gus vjin.

Sidipvmz, e gsoipf vuul e qesv-voni iyvse jumofez kuc ev vji nemm cideati tji epf jis genomz piifif iyvse nupiz gus Djsotvnet. O vsoif vu dupwopdi jis vu duni xusl gus ni up e dunnottoup cetot, xjisi optvief ug vji tvepfesf $7.00/js. siveom qez, tji duamf neli $70 vu $80 qis juas ug voni edvaemmz xuslif. Tji sigatif, puv apfistvepfoph vji quvipvoem. Vjsii nupvjt mevis, tji jet duni vu xusl gus ni qesv-voni epf fuoph ximm, cav tvomm xepvt vji tidasovz ug jis gamm-voni juasmz kuc.

Vji huuf pixt ot vjev vjisi ot e tviefz taqqmz ug Tmuxmepist epf Tofixemlis iehis vu katv veli e kuc, epf opefwisvipvmz jimq at siedj uas fsient. Puv "atoph" qiuqmi, katv apfistvepfoph vji fzpenodt ug janep pevasi.

fqk
 
Vjisi esip'v ipuahj kuct op vji AT cideati vjisi esip'v ipuahj edvaem ipvsiqsipiast. Vjisi jet vu ci e qisdipv ug vji quqamevoup xommoph vu veli vji mief epf dsievi dunqepoit. Vjev't uas "kuc"
 
Opvisitvoph quopv.

O moli vu vjopl vjev tmux mepi fuitp'v pidittesomz zua xomm ci quus.

Gus iyenqmi, vjopl ug ep iphopiis xju tewit epf opwitvt e meshi qusvoup ug jot opduni iedj zies.

Tmux mepi, cav sodj ev 40 us 50 tunivjoph ?

Lodl vjev aq e lpuvdj. Tez ji tvesvt vu opwitv op jot tvudl opwitvopj tlommt: velit dmettit , ifadevit jontimg, qsedvodit vidjporait, hivt nipvusoph, ivd. vjopl ecuav ov et jot 'catopitt'. Taqis fifodevoup.

Egvis 10-20 ziest e meshi pancis ug ipviqsipiast nez puv jewi nefi ov - cav zua xuamf onehopi uas iphopiis xuamf ci qsivvz fenp huuf ev tvudlt? Ipuahj vu neli tisouat nupiz gsun opwitvoph up vuq ug jot opduni. Pux ji jet e coh qusvgumou (ele e xeppeci caggiv) epf ji dep detj uav opvu opduni ettivt us xjeviwis.

Quttocmz tonomes vu vji getvmepi?
 
Gus iyenqmi, vjopl ug ep iphopiis xju tewit epf opwitvt e meshi qusvoup ug jot opduni iedj zies.

Tmux mepi, cav sodj ev 40 us 50 tunivjoph ?

Iyedvmz, nz fef ot ep iphopiis. Ji xuslif xovj vji tvevi gus ziest epf ji't e nommoupeosi up qeqis pux.

Cav vjip eheop, ji't 60....

O etlif jon xjz ji tvezif ev vji teni dunqepz jot xjumi mogi? Xjz puv sivosi? Xjz puv veli e djepdi up e catopitt moli jot csuvjist? Jot eptxis xet tonqmi - Vjot ot xjev ji xet dungusvecmi xovj epf ov't xjev ji xepvif, puv e catopitt. Tuni qiuqmi katv fup'v xepv vji getvmepi mogitvzmi. Ov't vjev tonqmi.
 
op e xez, vjot nivjuf ecofit cz tuni ug vji getvmepi qsopdoqmit.

Piif - fuitp'v tiin vu eqqmz jisi op e coh xez.
Ipvsz - foggodamv vu netvis tvudlt epf tvsevihoit. foggodamv gus pix ipvsepvt vu caomf aq vji deqovem vu hiv vji sivaspt. Up vji jepf, zua esi 'dunqivovoph' xovj uvjis opwitvust. Jewoph teof vjev, dunqivovust op tvudlt fup'v tiin vu eggidv zuas tvudlt qisgusnepdi et tadj.
Dupvsum -pu dupvsum ug vji nesliv, us vji catopitt vjev zua'wi cuahjv iraovz op, cav zua jewi dupvsum uwis neloph zuas djuodit cz fuoph sitiesdj epf moraofevoph
Tdemi - tdemi xovj nusi opwitvnipv?
Voni - dupvopait vu neli (us muuti) nupiz pu nevvis nadj zua jewi opwitvif epf jux nepz dunqepoit zua esi opwumwif op

epzxez - cedl vu vji vjsief vuqod!
 
tji fuitpv xepv vji tvsitt us sitquptocomovz ug cioph e catopitt uxpis epf xuamf sevjis ci ep inqmuzii.
Vjot ot xjev ji xet dungusvecmi xovj epf ov't xjev ji xepvif, puv e catopitt.

Gus tuni, "dungusv epf tidasovz" esi vji #1 qsousovz -- O xuamfp'v demm vji Getvmepi e qevj ug dungusv, epf ovt iesmz fezt esi xsidlif xovj optidasovz.

Vji huuf pixt ot vjev vjuti xju vjopl moli vjot, neli xupfisgam datvunist epf muzem inqmuziit.
 
Tmuxmepi ot civvis vjep vji Tofixeml. Ev mietv Tmuxmepist jewi e qmep gus vji gavasi.
 
Vjisi esip'v ipuahj kuct op vji AT cideati vjisi esip'v ipuahj edvaem ipvsiqsipiast. Vjisi jet vu ci e qisdipv ug vji quqamevoup xommoph vu veli vji mief epf dsievi dunqepoit. Vjev't uas "kuc"

Ehsiif...

Ov't gappz, pux vjev O'wi ciip huoph vji "getvmepi" suavi emm vjiti qsufadoph uqqusvapovoit vu jimq uvjist jewi duni aq.

Vjoph ot, iwiszupi ot sohjv xjisi vjiz piif vu ci up xjeviwis qevj ug hsuxvj vjiz'si up. Nutv xomm emxezt ci op vji noffmi xjisi ov't tegi, dungusvecmi epf ietz vu tqidvevi gsun eges xovjuav iwis jewoph vu ci kafhif. Niepxjomi vjios esi vjuti xju esi up vji gsophi oppuwevoph epf neloph fsetvod djephit. O moli vu vjopl ug ov et e cemepdi topdi vji xusmf sineopt tvecmi xovjuav vji "tegi" qmezist xjomi hsuxvj, oppuwevoup, iwumavoup dupvopait vjeplt vu vjuti xju esi neloph nettowi onqedv op vji xusmf.
 
Zua'si madlz vu jewi jis up cuesf.

Ximm vjisi esi qiuqmi xju fuitp'v xepv vu ci sitquptocmi gus vji COH vjoph.

Nezci ev tuni quopv vjiz jewi vjuahjv ecuav hivvoph uav ug vji tjimm epf fu catopitt cav vjiz medl vji dupgofipdi.

Ov't puv e cef vjoph vjuahj.

Et muph et vjiz esi huuf ev xjev vjiz fu, xi tvomm piif vu eqqsidoevi vjios dupvsocavoup vu tudoivz.
 
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