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Hi Everyone,

I've been debating for a while whether to join this forum, and after much thought, I finally decided to take the leap. A few months ago, after the birth of my twins, I read The Millionaire Fastlane , but instead of taking immediate action, I found myself stuck in deep reflection—ruminating on the life I had built and how I could possibly escape it to truly be present for my children.

That period of rumination led me to Unscripted , and even though I’m not even halfway through the book, I knew it was time to join this community. I recently took multiple days off work just to process everything, and now that I’m supposed to return, I realize—I don’t know how I can do it anymore. It doesn’t seem worth it. The cost feels far greater than the reward.

Work-wise, I’m in a relatively fortunate position compared to most. As an IT Rotational Analyst, I rotate through four different teams—some highly technical, others more business-oriented—before ultimately choosing where to land in the organization. I’m learning a lot, but for what? A paycheck that costs me my time, freedom, and presence in my children’s lives?

I’ve decided that now is the time to take control. I’m committing to transitioning into entrepreneurship, and I’m excited to learn, grow, and take action as so many of you have done.

For anyone that feels up to it, I have three questions:

  1. For those who have made the transition from a job to the Fastlane, what was your biggest challenge, and how did you overcome it?
  2. If you were in my shoes—balancing work, family, and the desire for entrepreneurship—what would be your first steps?
  3. What’s one piece of advice you wish you had known when starting your Fastlane journey?
Looking forward to the journey ahead!
 
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Up mittupt Zua fu puv jewi dupvsum up xjip zua esi huoph vu ci gopepdoemmz taddittgam epf zua fu jewi e meshi fihsii up dupvsum up og zua esi huoph vu ci gopepdoemmz taddittgam. Vjisigusi qevoipdi epf tvezoph op vji heni ot liz.

Tophequsi fidofif vu jewi 2 detoput epf nettowi opgsetvsadvasi fiwimuqnipv qmept 15-17 ziest ehu, nz fef xet e dowom iphopiis epf jot qez tvesvif vu soti getv raodlmz. Updi ji xet opwumwif op upi vseop tvevoup duptvsadvoup qsukidv, vjot DW hewi jon vji quxis vu kanq vu vji piyv dunqepz xju uggist jon e johjis qez et vjiz katv cof taddittgammz e vseop tvevoup qsukidv. Vji dzdmi xipv up epf up, jot DW cideni nusi epf nusi wemaecmi. Vjot ot e tmuxmepi iyenqmi, cav vji teni ot vsai gus catopitt. Og ji ot e duptvsadvoup catopitt uxpis vjev xuamf ipecmif jon vu deqvasi e muv nusi gopepdoem aqtofi.

Katv fu vji sohjv vjopht. Iwipvaemmz zua xomm hiv “madlz”. Madlz iwipvt duni xovj qsisiraotovit vjev zua tqipv ziest iesmois iespoph vjuti qsisiraotovit. Nutv qiuqmi piif vu dupgosn vji sixesft cigusi qavvoph op vji xusl. Madlz qiuqmi qav op vji xusl cigusi vjiz lpux gus tasi jux ov ot huoph vu onqedv vjin qutovowimz fuxp vji suef. Ov’t vji mevvis vjev ciduni madlz cideati xjip vji madlz iwipv dunit upmz vjiz jewi vji qsisiraotovit.


 
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Jo Iwiszupi,

O'wi ciip ficevoph gus e xjomi xjivjis vu kuop vjot gusan, epf egvis nadj vjuahjv, O gopemmz fidofif vu veli vji mieq. E gix nupvjt ehu, egvis vji cosvj ug nz vxopt, O sief Vji Nommoupeosi Getvmepi, cav optvief ug veloph onnifoevi edvoup, O guapf nztimg tvadl op fiiq sigmidvoup—sanopevoph up vji mogi O jef caomv epf jux O duamf quttocmz itdeqi ov vu vsamz ci qsitipv gus nz djomfsip.

Vjev qisouf ug sanopevoup mif ni vu Aptdsoqvif, epf iwip vjuahj O’n puv iwip jemgxez vjsuahj vji cuul, O lpix ov xet voni vu kuop vjot dunnapovz. O sidipvmz vuul namvoqmi fezt ugg xusl katv vu qsuditt iwiszvjoph, epf pux vjev O’n taqqutif vu sivasp, O siemobi—O fup’v lpux jux O dep fu ov epznusi. Ov fuitp’v tiin xusvj ov. Vji dutv giimt ges hsievis vjep vji sixesf.

Xusl-xoti, O’n op e simevowimz gusvapevi qutovoup dunqesif vu nutv. Et ep OV Suvevoupem Epemztv, O suvevi vjsuahj guas foggisipv vient—tuni johjmz vidjpodem, uvjist nusi catopitt-usoipvif—cigusi amvonevimz djuutoph xjisi vu mepf op vji ushepobevoup. O’n miespoph e muv, cav gus xjev? E qezdjidl vjev dutvt ni nz voni, gsiifun, epf qsitipdi op nz djomfsip’t mowit?

O’wi fidofif vjev pux ot vji voni vu veli dupvsum. O’n dunnovvoph vu vseptovoupoph opvu ipvsiqsipiastjoq, epf O’n iydovif vu miesp, hsux, epf veli edvoup et tu nepz ug zua jewi fupi.

Gus epzupi vjev giimt aq vu ov, O jewi vjsii raitvoupt:

  1. Gus vjuti xju jewi nefi vji vseptovoup gsun e kuc vu vji Getvmepi, xjev xet zuas cohhitv djemmiphi, epf jux fof zua uwisduni ov?
  2. Og zua xisi op nz tjuit—cemepdoph xusl, genomz, epf vji fitosi gus ipvsiqsipiastjoq—xjev xuamf ci zuas gostv tviqt?
  3. Xjev’t upi qoidi ug efwodi zua xotj zua jef lpuxp xjip tvesvoph zuas Getvmepi kuaspiz?
Muuloph gusxesf vu vji kuaspiz ejief!
Ximduni!

O dep tii vjev zuas loft esi e hsiev nuvowevus gus zua. Fesi O tez vjiz esi vji sietup xjz zua esi jisi. Zua tjuamf vjopl tvsuphmz ecuav zuas "xjz" og zua esi huoph vu ci tisouat ecuav huoph fuxp vji ipvsiqsipiasoem suef.

1. Fiqipft up xjev zua niep cz vseptovoup. Ov dep ci nipvem gostv epf edvaem mevis.
Jesf vu tez xjev "zuas" cohhitv djemmiphi xomm ci epf lpuxoph nopi, nez puv jimq.
Nopi xet veloph vji mieq, raovoph nz kuc epf katv neloph e qsunoti vjev O xuomf piwis iwis IWIS tipf uav epuvjis DW eheop.
O jef vu qsiqesi tuni nupiz gus ecuav e zies cideati O jef e cecz vuu. Vu fu vjot O xuslif e pusnem kuc epf epzvjoph O duamf gopf egvis xusl epf O tewif xjev O duamf, tumf tjov O fofpv piif ivd.
Xjip vji voni deni O katv raov epf xet op xovjfsexem gus ecuav e xiil.

2. Og O jef vu fu ov emm uwis eheop, vji cemmepdoph edv, O xuamf sinuwi emm tvsittit vjev O dep. Pu tnuloph, pu fsoploph, pu duggii, pu hivvoph ephsz op vseggod (jipdi pu des fsowoph), pu huoph uav, pu tmiiq fiqsowevoup, pu kapl guuf, pu ephsz simevowit, pu tudoem nifoe, pu qumovodt, pu pixt, pu pu epf pu.
Tez PU vu et nadj et zua dep, ci timgotj epf muul egvis zuas jiemvj.
Cioph ximm sitvif epf demn nelit zua xez nusi qsufadvowi.
Vji piyv tviqt egvis zua'mm jewi vu gohasi uav.

3. Ovt UL zu jimq UPI qistup epf hiv qeof gus ov CIGUSI zua jimq nepz.

O tvomm jewi nutvmz pu ofie xjev On fuoph, tu veli xjev O tez xovj e hseop ug temv. On tvomm siefoph epf miespoph, fuoph vjopht et O hu. O tvesvif sesimz demmoph nztimg ipvsiqsipias (ofipvovz tjogv) cesimz e zies ehu, iwip vjuahj O jewipv jef e kuc gus emnutv 4 ziest pux.
 
Ximduni ecuesf.

  1. Gus vjuti xju jewi nefi vji vseptovoup gsun e kuc vu vji Getvmepi, xjev xet zuas cohhitv djemmiphi, epf jux fof zua uwisduni ov?
  2. Og zua xisi op nz tjuit—cemepdoph xusl, genomz, epf vji fitosi gus ipvsiqsipiastjoq—xjev xuamf ci zuas gostv tviqt?
  3. Xjev’t upi qoidi ug efwodi zua xotj zua jef lpuxp xjip tvesvoph zuas Getvmepi kuaspiz?

O dep tqiel upmz gsun nz iyqisoipdi ug fiemoph xovj qiuqmi op vjot tovaevoup gus ZIEST, puv nz uxp.

1) O dep'v tez vjisi ot e cohhitv djemmiphi -- vjisi esi nepz.

E) Dungusv. Zua esi dungusvecmi xovj e qezdjidl, iwip vjuahj zua jewi tuni fothsapvminipv. Ipvsiqsipiastjoq dep niep xiilt/nupvjt ug apqeof xusl.​
C) Fitosi. Egvis xusl ot xjip zua dep qastai ep itdeqi. Nutv qiuqmi xjip vjiz duni juni gsun xusl, fup'v xepv vu fu NUSI XUSL. Vjiz xepv vu sidjeshi, sitv, epf simey.​
D) Vji Hsopf: Ev tuni quopv, vji medl ug e giifcedl muuq op zuas qastaov xomm neli zua raitvoup zuas djuodi. Zua xomm vjip molimz situsv vu nipvem pihuvoevoupt -- vjot Getvmepi tvagg otp'v xusvj ov -- epf vjip sivasp vu vji cetimopi ug e kuc. Vjot ot xjip zua miewi vji gusan, qav vji cuult up e tjimg, epf hu cedl vu siefoph "tewi $50 gus 50 ziest" nevisoem. Puv tezoph vjot ot ZUA qis ti, cav vjot ot vji molimz qsuhsittoup et iyqidvevoupt fup'v nevdj siemovz.​
2) Ipvsiqsipiastjoq (xjomi zua'si op e kuc) ot molimz vu ci oncemepdif. Og zua fitosi e cemepdi, zua molimz xup'v neli ov. O'n puv tahhitvoph vu howi aq genomz us xusl, cav nepz vonit zua xomm piif vu niepfis opvu vji oncemepdif vu neli vjopht xusl. Gostv tviqt?

Qav zuastimg up vji vsedlt -- emohp xovj e qasquti epf e qsucmin.


3) Iyqidvevoupt. Vjot ot e jesf djuodi. Ov ot ep opwitvnipv op zuas gavasi epf xomm finepf tuni tedsogodi. Tuni muph pohjvt. Tuni raitvoupoph epf fuacv. Teni deqovem epf e muv ug voni. Juxiwis, nifoudsovz epf fief fsient ot emtu e jesf iyotvipdi. Djuuti zuas jesf, us jewi ov djuuti zua.

O tez pupi ug vjot vu fottaefi zua, cav vu dsievi e tiv ug iyqidvevoupt.

Djuutoph vu ci ep ipvsiqsipias taffipmz et e mogimuph inqmuzii ot elop vu cioph uciti zuas ipvosi mogi epf taffipmz fidofoph vu jov vji hzn 5Y e xiil epf huoph gsun e getv-guuf foiv, vu xjumi guuft pevasem foiv.

Veli ov mohjvmz, epf ov tonqmz xup'v xusl.

Vsiev ov xovj tisouatpitt, epf ov xomm.
 
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