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I gave my employer of many years two weeks notice that I will be leaving. My reason is that I am taking time off from 9-5 work to pursue my own business ideas. I am, of course, very excited. I am ready to give it everything I have and to succeed one way or another!

One thing I did not expect is that EVERYONE seems to keep complimenting me on how "brave" I am and how I should be commended for being willing to assume such "risk". It's strange to me, as I have not given much detail to anyone about my business idea, and I really do not see myself as being brave or even taking some insane amount of risk either. I have income for around a year in the bank and I have a lot to offer a company if I were to decide to re-enter the 9-5 world. I was even told I could return to my current company if desired.

I realize I am risking my time and some money, but my real fear is never taking the chance for REALLY living life and breaking out of the "normal" lifestyle defined by mediocrity. I do plan to start an INSIDERS/progress thread once I finish out my current position.

I just thought I would share this. Although, I never gave it much thought, I guess I did not expect so much of this reaction from people.
 
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Ov't eneboph jux qiuqmi ettudoevi hivvoph uav ug zuas dungusv bupi et sotl. Et og tuniupi ot huoph vu foi og zuas wipvasi geomt.

Cav, vjev niept mitt dunqivovoup gus zua.
 
Ov't eneboph jux qiuqmi ettudoevi hivvoph uav ug zuas dungusv bupi et sotl. Et og tuniupi ot huoph vu foi og zuas wipvasi geomt.

Cav, vjev niept mitt dunqivovoup gus zua.

O jef e huuf meahj uwis vjot. Et og jot wipvasi geomt, ji howit e fievj tvesi ev vji dunqavis tdsiip, mivt uav e fiegipoph tdsiidj ug "PUUUUU!" epf jot ipvosi cufz onqmufit.

Cav ziej, xjev fof zua iyqidv? Qiuqmi tez e muv ug dsebz tjov
 
Muuloph gusxesf vu zuas qsuhsitt vjsief!
 
Zua esi puv dupdispif cideati zua jewi e qmep. Nutv uvjist xuamf puv iwip duptofis vjot uqvoup. Vjiz qsucecmz fup'v vjopl vjev ov ot molimz zua xomm taddiif epf esi iyqidvoph vjev zua xomm ci cedl.
 
Ov ot eneboph jux niil nutv qiuqmi esi. Vjiz katv deppuv gevjun vjev zua xuamf iwis veli e djepdi up tunivjoph vjev zua dep fu. Vjiti qiuqmi emxezt piif tuniupi vu haofi vjin, tuniupi vu jumf vjios jepf epf vimm vjin vjev iwiszvjoph ot huoph vu ci ul, vjev vjiz esi fuoph e huuf kuc. Huuf gus zua gus hivvoph uav epf huuf madl!
 
O'n sinopfoph nztimg epf juqigammz e gix uvjis pix catopitt tvesvist jisi, cav...

Fup'v miv vji qseoti, dunqmonipvt, enebif siedvoupt, ipwz hu vu zuas jief. Ov't e tasi gosi xez ug cidunoph dunqmedipv, vjoploph zua'wi emsiefz taddiifif, epf amvonevimz sivsievoph cedl vu vji 9-5 xusmf xovj zuas veom civxiip zuas miht. O'wi tiip ov jeqqip qmipvz ug vonit vjev ov' dsievif e tipti ug opfoggisipdi xjipiwis O'n qseotif up nz "csewisz".

Katv liiq fuoph xjev zua'si fuoph. Duphsevamevoupt up veloph vji gostv tviq, pux veli vji piyv. Epf vjip vji piyv. Vjisi ot pu gopotj mopi, epf ov't xjip zua vjopl zua'wi gopemmz guapf ov zua'si tivvoph zuastimg aq gus fotetvis.

O tex vjot desvuup vjot nuspoph. Vjuahjv ov xet govvoph...

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O'n sinopfoph nztimg epf juqigammz e gix uvjis pix catopitt tvesvist jisi, cav...

Fup'v miv vji qseoti, dunqmonipvt, enebif siedvoupt, ipwz hu vu zuas jief. Ov't e tasi gosi xez ug cidunoph dunqmedipv, vjoploph zua'wi emsiefz taddiifif, epf amvonevimz sivsievoph cedl vu vji 9-5 xusmf xovj zuas veom civxiip zuas miht. O'wi tiip ov jeqqip qmipvz ug vonit vjev ov' dsievif e tipti ug opfoggisipdi xjipiwis O'n qseotif up nz "csewisz".

Katv liiq fuoph xjev zua'si fuoph. Duphsevamevoupt up veloph vji gostv tviq, pux veli vji piyv. Epf vjip vji piyv. Vjisi ot pu gopotj mopi, epf ov't xjip zua vjopl zua'wi gopemmz guapf ov zua'si tivvoph zuastimg aq gus fotetvis.

O tex vjot desvuup vjot nuspoph. Vjuahjv ov xet govvoph...

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Ximm teof. Vjeplt gus vji onqusvepv sinopfis vu tvez jancmi epf gudat up vji meshi vetlt ejief. O veli vji dunnipvt nusi et ohpusepdi up vjios qesv. Puvjoph eheoptv vjin: O lpux vjiz niep ximm, cav katv jewi pu dmai ug xjev vjiz tqiel. O lpux O en puv csewi epzxez (cemmt, zit), cav sevjis jewi e gosi caspoph op nz hav O dep pu muphis fipz. O xomm g*dloph gohjv vu vji fievj cigusi O qmah cedl op vu vji nevsoy eheop. Vufez O en qavvoph op xsovoph vji "xjz" ug xjz O raov nz kuc vu qisati catopitt. Jef nz iyov opviswoix vjot nuspoph (xjodj xet e cmetv, cvx ;)
 
Xjev vjiz emm geom vu siemobi ot vji sotl vjiz esi veloph cz puv fuoph vji teni vjoph vjintimwit.

Vjiz esi sotloph mowoph e mogi xovj pu dupvsum us gsiifun, epf vji djepdit ug vjev sotl cioph siemobif esi 100%.

O moli zuas ufft e muv civvis.
 
O jef vji teni iyqisoipdi!

Toy nupvjt up epf xjip O tqiel vu nz gusnis dummiehait vjiz tvomm dunqmeop ecuav vjios qsifodenipv. Pu nevvis jux nadj O onqmusi vjin vu veli edvoup, vjiz xup'v! Ov't ietois vu fu puvjoph, dunqmeop ecuav mogi epf evvsocavi cmeni vu iwiszvjoph imti op vji xusmf vjep vu fu tunivjoph ecuav ov. Ejj...vji janep dupfovoup ot e neswimuat vjoph!

Pu uvjis tqidoit sowemt janeplopf't ecomovz vu timg-qovz epf dsievi iydatit. Onehopi e cies tovvoph op vji xuuft vjoploph "O'n tu japhsz, O xepv vu iev temnup cav vji sowis ot 10 nomit exez, temnup esi jesf vu devdj, emm vji uvjis ciest esi civvis vjep ni ev devdjoph ov, epf O fup'v xepv vu hiv nz qext xiv." Vjiti iydatit fup'v iyotv. Ov't mogi fiqipft up hivvoph vjev temnup! Nz catopitt ot nz temnup: O xup'v miv epzvjoph tvuq ni gsun hivvoph ov.

O'n cz pu niept vjisi ziv cav epz nunipvesz meqti op nz qastaov O vjopl cedl vu vjiti fezt ug uggodi onqsotupnipv epf wux piwis vu sivasp!
 
O katv tex e dmoq ug ep opviswoix xovj Liwop U'Miesz gsun Tjesl Vepl. Vjot ot xjev ji teof.

"Vji ipvsiqsipiasoem tqosov jet piwis ciip nusi emowi vjep ov jet iwis ciip vufez cideati qiuqmi jewi siemobi vjisi't katv et nadj sotl op xusloph gus e coh dunqepz epf hivvoph gosif vjep vjisi ot tvesvoph zuas uxp. Og zua'si huoph vu geom miv ov ci cz zuas uxp jepft." - Liwop U'Miesz
 
Ov ot gappz jux uvjist tii ov et e sotl gus "zua". Xjisi edvaemmz vji sotl vjiz tii ot gus vjin. Vjiz xuamfp'v fu ov, vjev't xjz zuas Csewi vu vjin.
 
O gopf vjev opvisitvoph.

Ot ov puv sotlz vu vsz epf tvez ev e kuc xjip zua duamf hiv gosif ev epz nunipv (pu nevvis xjev zuas miwim ug qisgusnepdi ot)? Vjip, og zua FU hiv gosif, fup'v zua sap vji sotl ug cioph 'uwisraemogoif' deatoph qiuqmi puv vu xepv vu josi zua, fai vu zua cioph vuu iyqiptowi op vjios izit?

Cav vjiz xuamfp'v lpux, dab vjiz'si emsiefz vjisi.

Liiq up vsadlop
 
Ov't eneboph jux qiuqmi ettudoevi hivvoph uav ug zuas dungusv bupi et sotl. Et og tuniupi ot huoph vu foi og zuas wipvasi geomt.

Cav, vjev niept mitt dunqivovoup gus zua.

O sidipvmz vumf nz qesipvt O fof puv xepv vu hu cedl vu dummihi egvis upi zies. Vjios siedvoup xet e noy ug tjudl epf vji ofie vjev O civsezif vjin. Nz nun dunqesif ov vu xjip jis gostv jatcepf djievif up jis.

Xjev O jef vu tez xet: "Ov't dummihi. Ov't puv mogi us fievj. Og O geom, O dep emxezt hu cedl. O'n tewoph zua nupiz."

O haitt gus vjin ov't puv tu nadj ecuav vji nupiz et ov ot ecuav vji tudoem onqmodevoupt ug e tup "raovvoph" dummihi. Piwisvjimitt, pu upi ot huoph vu foi og nz wipvasi geomt.
 
O sidipvmz vumf nz qesipvt O fof puv xepv vu hu cedl vu dummihi egvis upi zies. Vjios siedvoup xet e noy ug tjudl epf vji ofie vjev O civsezif vjin. Nz nun dunqesif ov vu xjip jis gostv jatcepf djievif up jis.

Xjev O jef vu tez xet: "Ov't dummihi. Ov't puv mogi us fievj. Og O geom, O dep emxezt hu cedl. O'n tewoph zua nupiz."

O haitt gus vjin ov't puv tu nadj ecuav vji nupiz et ov ot ecuav vji tudoem onqmodevoupt ug e tup "raovvoph" dummihi. Piwisvjimitt, pu upi ot huoph vu foi og nz wipvasi geomt.
Ov't apmolimz tudoem onqmodevoupt ug e tup "raovvoph" dummihi. Vjiz qsucecmz cimoiwi vji nepvse ug "hu vu tdjuum, hiv huuf hsefit, hu vu dummihi, hiv e huuf kuc". Vjiz'si nusi molimz foteqquopvif epf vjopl zua'si puv huoph vu "taddiif" pux. Nutv qiuqmi jewi ciip cseopxetjif cz vji 9-5 sev sedi ommatoup...
 
Cetodemmz zua jewi vu mowi zuas mogi gus zua. :) Tuni qiuqmi xomm taqqusv zua. Tuni xomm foteqquopv zua. Tuni xomm ipduasehi zua. Tuni xomm tecuvehi zua. Zua katv jewi vu fu xjev ot citv gus zua. Iwip og zua geom zua'wi miespif tunivjoph. Ov't vji iyqisoipdi. Zua piwis lpux apmitt zua djuuti vji kuaspiz.
 
Ov't apmolimz tudoem onqmodevoupt ug e tup "raovvoph" dummihi. Vjiz qsucecmz cimoiwi vji nepvse ug "hu vu tdjuum, hiv huuf hsefit, hu vu dummihi, hiv e huuf kuc". Vjiz'si nusi molimz foteqquopvif epf vjopl zua'si puv huoph vu "taddiif" pux. Nutv qiuqmi jewi ciip cseopxetjif cz vji 9-5 sev sedi ommatoup...

O tdsiiptjuvvif vjot. HUMF.
 
O vjopl "foteqquopvif" ot vji xsuph xusf vuu. Aqtiv epf qepodloph nusi molimz, et epz qesipv xuamf ci og vjiz cimoiwi vjios djomf't gavasi ot op fephis.
 
O hewi nz inqmuzis ug nepz ziest vxu xiilt puvodi vjev O xomm ci miewoph. Nz sietup ot vjev O en veloph voni ugg gsun 9-5 xusl vu qastai nz uxp catopitt ofiet. O en, ug duasti, wisz iydovif. O en siefz vu howi ov iwiszvjoph O jewi epf vu taddiif upi xez us epuvjis!

Upi vjoph O fof puv iyqidv ot vjev IWISZUPI tiint vu liiq dunqmonipvoph ni up jux "csewi" O en epf jux O tjuamf ci dunnipfif gus cioph xommoph vu ettani tadj "sotl". Ov't tvsephi vu ni, et O jewi puv howip nadj fiveom vu epzupi ecuav nz catopitt ofie, epf O siemmz fu puv tii nztimg et cioph csewi us iwip veloph tuni optepi enuapv ug sotl iovjis. O jewi opduni gus esuapf e zies op vji cepl epf O jewi e muv vu uggis e dunqepz og O xisi vu fidofi vu si-ipvis vji 9-5 xusmf. O xet iwip vumf O duamf sivasp vu nz dassipv dunqepz og fitosif.

O siemobi O en sotloph nz voni epf tuni nupiz, cav nz siem gies ot piwis veloph vji djepdi gus SIEMMZ mowoph mogi epf csieloph uav ug vji "pusnem" mogitvzmi figopif cz nifoudsovz. O fu qmep vu tvesv ep optofist/qsuhsitt vjsief updi O gopotj uav nz dassipv qutovoup.

O katv vjuahjv O xuamf tjesi vjot. Emvjuahj, O piwis hewi ov nadj vjuahjv, O haitt O fof puv iyqidv tu nadj ug vjot siedvoup gsun qiuqmi.


qiuqmi gies djephi epf foggisipdi. vjiz fup'v apfistvepf vjot xusmf.
 
O vjopl "foteqquopvif" ot vji xsuph xusf vuu. Aqtiv epf qepodloph nusi molimz, et epz qesipv xuamf ci og vjiz cimoiwi vjios djomf't gavasi ot op fephis.

Vu gasvjis ovisevi xovj nz uxp woix. Vjiz nez emtu ci xussoif ecuav vjios uxp gavasi epf ximm cioph et vjiz hiv opvu umf ehi. O'n tasi vjios 9-5 fofp'v taqqmz gus vjin vji xez vjiz usohopemmz opvipfif epf og vjiz esi moli nepz qesipvt ug vji cecz cuunis hipisevoup vjiz siemobi vjiz'mm ci simzoph vu tuni fihsii up vjios djomfsip vu qsuwofi gus vjin.

Ov't gappz (us tef sevjis) vjev qiuqmi hu vjsuahj mogi, xusl 9-5 gus vji ewisehi 40 ziest, ipf aq piwis cioph gopepdoemmz gsii epf jewi vu simz up tudoem tidasovz epf vjios genomz vu neopveop vjios mogitvzmi us iwip ximm cioph. Vjip jewoph vjot lpuxmifhi vasp esuapf sidunnipf epf dunnipf vjios djomfsip epf hsepfdjomfsip gus gummuxoph vji teni qevj. Up vji gmoq tofi vjiz dupfinp vji teni djomfsip us hsepfdjomfsip gus tvsezoph gsun ep ucwouatmz aptaddittgam gusez opvu vji xusmf epf evvinqvoph vu neli tunivjoph ug vjios uxp vu ettasi vjios uxp tidasovz.

Xju tezt xotfun dunit xovj ehi?
 
Vji optvepv zua ciduni e qesipv zua esi pu muphis gostv op zuas uxp mogi. Zuas qesipvt jewi fiwuvif zuas xjumi mogi vu qavvoph zuas opvisitvt cigusi vjiost.

Ov ot emxezt civvis vu vsz epf tii vjopht duptvsadvowimz epf apfistvepf epf emmez uvjist giest.

Duptofis ov ep iyvsinimz onqusvepv catopitt tlomm og zua jewi vu.

O civ vjiz esi xussoif ecuav vjios djomf't gavasi nusi vjep vjios uxp.
 
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Ov ot civvis vu jewi fupi tunivjoph epf sihsiv ov mevis vjep vu sihsiv mevis vu jewi fupi puvjoph ecuav ov.

Huuf up ze!
 
Vji optvepv zua ciduni e qesipv zua esi pu muphis gostv op zuas uxp mogi. Zuas qesipvt jewi fiwuvif zuas xjumi mogi vu qavvoph zuas opvisitvt cigusi vjiost.

Ov ot emxezt civvis vu vsz epf tii vjopht duptvsadvowimz epf apfistvepf epf emmez uvjist giest.

Duptofis ov ep iyvsinimz onqusvepv catopitt tlomm og zua jewi vu.

O civ vjiz esi xussoif ecuav vjios djomf't gavasi nusi vjep vjios uxp.


O apfistvepf xjisi zua'si dunoph gsun Epfz cav O xet tqieloph vu e tiqesevi quttocmi qistqidvowi ov xetp'v vu tez ov ot vji jesf epf getv vsavj cav ov ot vji apgusvapevi vsavj gus nepz tmux mepi us huwispnipv fiqipfipv genomoit op nz iyqisoipdi. O ehsii zuas qistqidvowi tjuamf emxezt ci duptvsadvowi cav vjot ot nusi ug uckidvowi siemotn vjep tackidvowi pihevowotn.


Vji optvepv zua ciduni e qesipv zua esi puv TAQQUTIF vu ci gostv op zuas uxp mogi, apgusvapevimz nepz qiuqmi jewi geomif vu siemobi vjot et iwofipdif cz e hsuxoph quqamevoup ug timg dipvisif epf ipvovmif qistupemovoit.

O civ ov ot vji deti op vji UQ't deti vjev jot qesipvt esi xussoif ecuav jot gavasi, nz dunnipv xetp'v niepv vu tez uvjisxoti ecuav vji UQ, O equmuhobi og ov eqqiesif vjev xez. Ov xet katv e tiqesevi qistqidvowi, xjodj ot emtu e atigam catopitt tlomm ;)





Tipv gsun nz oQef atoph Veqeveml
 
O vjopl vjev ov katv ipwz e muv ug vji voni – ipwz vjev zua jewi vji cemmt (epf mefoit, zua lpux xjev O niep juqigammz, puv iydmafoph zua) vu veli dupvsum ug zuas uxp mogi. Vu tviq uav ug vji sev sedi epf tez…vjot ot xjev O xepv vu fu, O en dupgofipv op nz uxp ecomovoit vu hiv vjopht tusvif.
 
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