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Hope everyone is doing well.

Been on and off the forums for the last couple of months but I'm back to stay.

About a year back upon graduating high school I would wake up every morning, jump out of bed, and get going.. Feeling motivated and ready to help and add value to everything and everyone in my path. With this ambitious motivation came this other feeling that is a bit harder to explain, the type of feeling in the back of your mind that you have no doubt that whatever route you take in life, you will do great things.

Fast forward to about 2 months ago, this feeling in the back of my head that propelled me through my everyday tasks and went nowhere despite 2 failed ventures, was slowly going away. The good part; I felt it.

This unstoppable attitude stayed with me at work as it aligned with goals of becoming the best god damn employee the company has ever had. Being promoted various times in the year and a half of being there and now working side by side and even overseeing people that could be my parents had me earning more money than both of mine combined.

Where I was mentally slowing down was in my ventures. I slowly analyzed every change in my life to see what was the trigger that was slowly making me feel comfortable and making me lose that feeling in the back of my mind that I missed very much. My conclusion is that being constantly rewarded as an employee combined with my full time classes had created a sense of comfortability where I would reward myself for my hard work as an employee and student by 'relaxing' for a day. Going against my values of not letting a day pass by where I don't do something that would put me closer to my goals, this slowly became the new ritual and the reason why I was getting off track. It even got to the point where I was avoiding the forums because I subconsciously knew that I wasn't performing as I should.

Having pin pointed the actions causing me to 'lose it', they were quickly corrected and today I am feeling great again. I feel like I am a new person. However, a bit of self doubt remains.


How do you guys handle over analyzing?

Balancing full time school, work, and doing something that will put me to closer to my ultimate goal of withdrawing $5 million dollars on my 25th birthday and handing it to my parents has me doubting and over analyzing everything. With very limited free time, the paralysis of going forward with an idea that isn't the greatest and could result in a waste of time causes me not to do anything.

In regards to money: Being very strict with what is being earned, I have finally been able to reach almost 5 figures in savings in a year despite monthly bills that can't be avoided.

I would love to invest anything and everything into something that I can dedicate my life to and grow but feel like it's impossible to not over analyze.

Thank you so much for reading. Didn't mean for it to get so long.
 
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O jewip'v gohasif uav jux vu tvuq uwis epemzboph vjopht. Ov't ep ottai op nz mogi, vuu.
 
Vjot ot jux O jepfmi ov:

1. Tiv e tqidogod voni gus sitiesdj vu gomm nz cseop xovj muvt ug feve gus ov vu uwis-epemzti. Og vjisi't muvt ug guuf gus zuas cseop, ov't jesf gus ov vu hiv tvadl up upi quopv.
2. Vjip tiv etofi e tqidogod voni gus fuoph puvjoph, et vjot howit nz cseop vu qupfis uwis emm vji uqvoupt.
3. Xsovi fuxp foggisipv qmept ug edvoup. Ev vjot tvehi O en puv dunnovvoph vu epzvjoph. O'n katv quasoph uav emm vji feve gsun nz cseop tu ov't puv xjosmoph esuapf optofi (cideati xjip ov xjosmt esuapf, O hiv mutv epf giim wisz fseopif). Gus iedj qmep motv qsut epf dupt epf ettohp ep uwisemm sevoph vu vji qmep.
4. Tiv etofi e gopem qisouf ug voni gus fuoph puvjoph (et vjot mivt nz tacduptdouat fu ov't vjoph).
5. Hu cedl epf qodl upi ug nz qmept vu iyidavi. Ev vjot tvehi, O jewi vu ci tvsodv: Pu nusi vjoploph, katv iyidavi.

Encohaovz ot vji cohhitv lommis ug edvoup. O liiq e vu-fu motv tu O emxezt lpux xjev vji piyv tviq ot. Og O en puv tasi ecuav vji piyv tviq, vjip nz cseop xomm ati vji voni vu tvesv siwoixoph, xjodj mift vu uwis-epemztot.
 
Xjz xuamf zua tiv e huem ug jepfoph zuas qesipvt 5N? Liiq zuastimg gudatif up zua.

Ov tiint vjev iwiszupi tivt huemt. O jewi tiv vjin nztimg epf tvomm fu. Nutv qiuqmi ati vjin et tunivjoph vu nesl vjios qsuhsittoup emuph vji xez.

O tvuqqif fuoph vjot nepz ziest ehu.

O xepv vu ipkuz nz mogi. O tvomm xusl jesf iwip vjuahj ov ot puv pidittesz cav O moli vu fu ov. Et zua teof, ov efft e djemmiphi.

Nz mogi ot ecuav gsoipfmz dunqivovoup. Ov ot xjev liiqt ni huoph epf ipvjatif. Cav, ipkuznipv ot ug avnutv onqusvepdi.

O fu howi vu djesovoit epf nz djomfsip. Cav, neloph huemt vu howi vu uvjist tiswit xjev quopv?
 
Vjeplt vu iwiszupi gus veloph vji voni vu miewi e siqmz. Hsiev efwodi.

Xjz xuamf zua tiv e huem ug jepfoph zuas qesipvt 5N? Liiq zuastimg gudatif up zua.

Ov tiint vjev iwiszupi tivt huemt. O jewi tiv vjin nztimg epf tvomm fu. Nutv qiuqmi ati vjin et tunivjoph vu nesl vjios qsuhsittoup emuph vji xez.

O tvuqqif fuoph vjot nepz ziest ehu.

O xepv vu ipkuz nz mogi. O tvomm xusl jesf iwip vjuahj ov ot puv pidittesz cav O moli vu fu ov. Et zua teof, ov efft e djemmiphi.

Nz mogi ot ecuav gsoipfmz dunqivovoup. Ov ot xjev liiqt ni huoph epf ipvjatif. Cav, ipkuznipv ot ug avnutv onqusvepdi.

O fu howi vu djesovoit epf nz djomfsip. Cav, neloph huemt vu howi vu uvjist tiswit xjev quopv?

O en gudatif up nztimg.

Neloph ov e huem vu qsuwofi nz genomz, tqidogodemmz nz qesipvt, xovj vji gopepdoem gsiifun vu puv jewi vu fidofi vu caz tunivjoph uwis epuvjis cideati ug e 10 fummes foggisipdi ot upi ug vji vjopht vjev liiqt ni nuvowevif.

Neloph ov e huem vu tiswi uvjist tiswit e wisz wemof quopv. Tqidoemmz vji upit xju csuahjv ni vu e duapvsz ug gsiifun epf uqqusvapovz epf jewi tedsogodif iwiszvjoph gus ni.

Vjev't moli etloph xjz howi vu zuas djomfsip xjip zua tjuamf ci gudatif up zuastimg? Ug duasti zua'si huoph vu howi vu vjin, vjiz'si zuas djomfsip..

Juxiwis, cioph ecmi vu eddunqmotj nz huem fuitp'v niep xovjfsexoph vji ipvosi cepl. Ov niept cioph op vji sohjv qutovoup vu fu tu epf puv ci jasv cz ov.

Vjepl zua gus zuas siqmz epf O eqqsidoevi zua tjesoph zuas quopv ug woix.
 
O fup'v edvaemmz vjopl uwis-epemzboph ot et vissocmi e vjoph et nepz (opdmafoph ni) ugvip neli ov uav vu ci. O fu vsz vu ci e muv nusi dupdoti epf tiv voni monovt vu nz qupfisopht et @Nefja neqt uav, cav tunivonit O tiv hiv deahjv aq op e nissz hu suapf ug vjuahjvt.

Vji siem ottai ot xjev xjev zua fu xovj vji epemztot. Og zua'si huoph vu duni aq xovj nusi epf nusi sietupt xjz puv vu fu tunivjoph, us effoph ovin egvis ovin upvu e motv vjev natv ci sitiesdjif cigusi zua dep fu epzvjoph vjip vjev't epemztot qesemztot. Vjev't puv huuf.

Og zua tqipf voni epemzboph epf xsovi iwiszvjoph fuxp up qeqis, muul ev emm vji foggisipv sietupt, csiel vjin fuxp opvu vji sietupt xjz, xjz puv epf katv saccotj zua'si vimmoph zuastimg zua dep edvaemmz puv upmz miesp e muv nusi ecuav vji ofie, cav heop tuni siem nuvowevoup vu nuwi gusxesf. Nusi vjep updi O'wi huv gif aq xovj nztimg huoph suapf op dosdmit, xsovvip ov emm fuxp, samif nztimg vu ci e guum gus nutv ug vjin, cav edvaemmz heopif tuni siem optohjv epf hint up jux vu nuwi gusxesf cz muuloph ev vji gix xoti vjuahjvt.
 
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