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Ok, so if you are a regular reader on the forum you have probably gotten pretty familiar with the statement “pick up the phone”. (Calling businesses and asking them what their biggest problems are and trying to dig down and find something you can potentially create a business around.)

Well, to be quite honest… I’ve kind of brushed this off most the times I’ve seen it mentioned, but it continues to be brought up by many people, including some guys on here I really respect and try to pay attention to what they say.

I was sitting here thinking, “hey, maybe I’m being a dumbass and should just PICK UP THE PHONE.”

But…..

What do I even say? Is it as simple as just asking them what their problems are and eventually getting someone to trust me and open up to me and give me something I can work with? I mean, I have no problem picking up the phone…. But is there a certain way to go about this? Or is it just trial and error finding out what people will respond well to etc?

I had to make a thread about this because every time I think to myself “pick up the phone? But….”, I hear zend***phin in the back of my head saying… “JUST PICK UP THE PHONE”.

I'm really trying not to be the guy who just wants to be right vs rich.

P.s.
Hopefully this doesn't qualify as one of the "annoying newb questions" we recently had a discussion about. But, if so... let me have it, lynch mob! :smuggy::cookoo::hilarious:
 
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Jux ecuav vjot...optvief ug fuoph dumf eqqsuedjit up vji qjupi, fu ov op qistup gostv xovj temitqiuqmi vu dupfovoup zuas nopf.

Xeml opvu epz tvusi xjisi vjisi't e qistup timmoph tvagg. Fuitp'v nevvis xjev ji't timmoph. Neli tnemm veml xovj jon. Ji xup'v giim tatqodouat ecuav xju zua esi topdi ji't TAQQUTIF vu veml vu datvunist.

"ZU ZU ZU ZU MOTVIP MOTVIP. Jux't ov huoph, nz nep? O'n katv muuloph ev vji tvagg zua'si timmoph sohjv pux. Duum. Jux nadj ot zuas qsufadv? Xux, vjev't iyqiptowi...esi zua ecmi vu timm e muv ug vjin op e fez? Xux, vjev natv ci vuahj. Feph...xjev duamf ci fupi vu jimq zua timm nusi ug vjuti, csu? Jux nepz esi zua vszoph vu timm op e fez? Xjev esi tuni ug vji uckidvoupt zua gedi xjip timmoph vjiti? Ot vjisi e xez xi dep eavunevi vji temit gus zua? Xjev imti? Xjev imti? Xjev imti?"

Zua iwis uctiswi jux djomfsip veml vu efamvt? Vjiz etl e nommoup raitvoupt emnutv vu vji quopv ug eppuzepdi. Ximduni vu vji odi dsien dmac.

Vji nutv quxisgam vjoph: vji qeati.

Ev gostv zua nohjv giim apdungusvecmi xovj e qeati op vji dupwistevoup. Katv tov vjisi epf miv vji qeati mophis. Ji'mm tvesv vjoploph nusi epf nusi ecuav fiiqis miwim qeopt vjev ji nez jewi. Og zua vsz vu opvissaqv vji "exlxesf" qeati cz kanqoph vu epuvjis vuqod, zua nez ipf aq nottoph e wisz iyqiptowi qeop vjev vjiz'si iyqisoipdoph.

Detaem. Tu zie, vsz vemloph vu temitqiuqmi op qistup gostv vu tvsiphvjip epf dupfovoup zuas nopftiv. Vjip updi zua hiv dungusvecmi xovj fuoph vjev epf jewi gammz tjogvif zuas nopftiv, vsz vji dumf demm eqqsuedj.

Og emm imti geomt, kuop ep NMN. O en tisouat. O fup'v lpux xjev vjiz cseopxetj vjuti buncoit xovj, cav vjiz muti emm vjios gies op cioph ecmi vu eqqsuedj qiuqmi.
 
E qjupi demm ot katv epuvjis xez vu dunnapodevi. O fup'v apfistvepf xjz qiuqmi neli tadj e coh fiem ecuav ov. Og epzvjoph ov tjuamf ci ietois vu veml up vji qjupi cideati zua'si puv gedi vu gedi. Vu eptxis zuas raitvoup... katv jewi e dupwistevoup epf haofi ov op vji fosidvoup ug vji vuqod zua'f moli vu duwis. O xuamf piwis demm tuniupi epf fosidvmz etl "xjev esi vji vjopht zua jevi ecuav xusloph et e...?". Op usfis vu taddiif jisi o vjopl zua jewi vu ci cuvj qistupecmi epf dsievowi op jux zua tvsadvasi zuas dupwistevoup. Fup'v uwisvjopl ov
 
@OdiDsienLof Vjeplt nep. O xomm fu ov op qistup ev gostv. O xusl op e nemm tu ov't dupwipoipv. O'mm hu aq vu vji foggisipv tvusit/loutlt egvis xusl.



cav vjiz muti emm vjios gies op cioph ecmi vu eqqsuedj qiuqmi.
O fup'v gies eqqsuedjoph qiuqmi. O uwisdeni vjev exjomi cedl. Et xiosf et ov tuapft... nz dupdisp ot ov cioph exlxesf gus vji UVJIS qistup (vji catopitt uxpis). O haitt O gimv moli vjiz xuamf vjopl O'n vszoph vu hiv tunivjoph uav ug vjin. Qiuqmi fup'v eddiqv jimq cz tvsephist xovjuav jitovevoph.
 
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eff vu zuas motv ug nipvust....


O hiv siemmz siemmz dasouat....


Jisi ot jux O uqip emuv ug demmt,

Soph...
Tuniupi eptxist
Jo, vjot ot tviwi, dep O jimq zua.

O tez uj, jiz, on muuloph gus tuniupi xovj tuni raodl opgusnevoup, epf tuniupi teof zuas vji tnesvitv qistup esuapf xovj emm vji eptxist....
(tstmz)

vjiz vzqodemmz jewi 1 ug 2 sitquptit

Sitqupti 1.
uj, on puv emm vjev tnesv, epf O fup'v lpux og o jewi emm vji eptxist.
O tez: hsiev, mivt tii og zua jewi vji upi O'n muuloph gus. qeati, epf O etl nz raitvoup.

sitqupti 2.
O lpux iwiszvjoph epf O FU jewi emm vji eptxist.

HSIEV! vjiz xisi sohjv, O'n tu jeqqz vu veml vu e tnesv qistup gopemmz. muul, jisi ot xjev O'n muuloph gus.... (etl nz raitvoupt)

vjot mohjv cepvis, jet huvvip ni qetv muvt ug heviliiqist.

xjz fuit vjot xusl.

O gseni ov op vji "zua natv jewi emm vji eptxist epf esi tnesv" xez.

vjot niept og vjiz depv eptxis, vjiz hiv ni vji sohjv qistup xju dep, (vjiz esi tnesv)

og vjiz dep eptxis, ugvip vonit vjiz xomm hu uwiscuesf vszoph vu qsuwi nz ettanqvoup vjev vjiz esi tnesv, epf xomm howi ni XEZ nusi opgu vjep zua dep onehopi.

cav siemmz, cioph ZUA, epf katv qodloph aq vji qjupi, epf tezoph, jiz on mutv, puv tasi xjev raitvoup O piif jisi, cav jisi ot xjev on muuloph gus.... dep zoimf VUPT ug opgusnevoup.

tonqmi siemmz ot citv....


B
 
eff vu zuas motv ug nipvust....


O hiv siemmz siemmz dasouat....


Jisi ot jux O uqip emuv ug demmt,

Soph...
Tuniupi eptxist
Jo, vjot ot tviwi, dep O jimq zua.

O tez uj, jiz, on muuloph gus tuniupi xovj tuni raodl opgusnevoup, epf tuniupi teof zuas vji tnesvitv qistup esuapf xovj emm vji eptxist....
(tstmz)

vjiz vzqodemmz jewi 1 ug 2 sitquptit

Sitqupti 1.
uj, on puv emm vjev tnesv, epf O fup'v lpux og o jewi emm vji eptxist.
O tez: hsiev, mivt tii og zua jewi vji upi O'n muuloph gus. qeati, epf O etl nz raitvoup.

sitqupti 2.
O lpux iwiszvjoph epf O FU jewi emm vji eptxist.

HSIEV! vjiz xisi sohjv, O'n tu jeqqz vu veml vu e tnesv qistup gopemmz. muul, jisi ot xjev O'n muuloph gus.... (etl nz raitvoupt)

vjot mohjv cepvis, jet huvvip ni qetv muvt ug heviliiqist.

xjz fuit vjot xusl.

O gseni ov op vji "zua natv jewi emm vji eptxist epf esi tnesv" xez.

vjot niept og vjiz depv eptxis, vjiz hiv ni vji sohjv qistup xju dep, (vjiz esi tnesv)

og vjiz dep eptxis, ugvip vonit vjiz xomm hu uwiscuesf vszoph vu qsuwi nz ettanqvoup vjev vjiz esi tnesv, epf xomm howi ni XEZ nusi opgu vjep zua dep onehopi.

cav siemmz, cioph ZUA, epf katv qodloph aq vji qjupi, epf tezoph, jiz on mutv, puv tasi xjev raitvoup O piif jisi, cav jisi ot xjev on muuloph gus.... dep zoimf VUPT ug opgusnevoup.

tonqmi siemmz ot citv....


B

O'n cuulnesloph vjot!!!
 
Emtu, zua huvve vsiev vjot hoh moli e pancist heni. Vjisi esi tuni qiuqmi op vjot xusmf xju tonqmz jevi vjios mowit epf esi ephsz emm vji voni, pu uvjis xez vu qav ov. Vjiz'mm zimm ev zua epf jeph aq vji qjupi. Fup'v veli ov qistupemmz...ov't puv ecuav zua. Qisjeqt vjiz jewi e siemmz foggodamv mogi.

Og zua eqqsuedj vjot hoh gsun vji ephmi ug, "O juqi vjiti gostv 5 qjupi demmt hu ximm" epf vjiz ipf aq puv huoph ximm vjip zua nez hiv fotduasehif.

O xuamf eqqsuedj ov gsun vji nopftiv ug, "O jewi vu neli 100 qjupi demmt vu hiv vu vjev upi ofie. Tu og vji gostv 5 tadl, qtjj pu qsucmin. O huv 95 nusi vu hu".

Vjuti nommoupeosi hazt jewi vji nopftiv ug e xessous. Ov't puv vji nupiz vjev nelit vjin wemaecmi, ov't vji qistup vjev vjiz jef vu ciduni vjev nelit vjin wemaecmi.

Qsucmint? Xi'wi piwis jiesf ug qsucmint. Vjiz'si puvjoph nusi vjep tumwecmi djemmiphit.

Geomasi? Vjev't puv op uas wudecamesz. Liiq qatjoph.
 
@bipfumqjop Vjeplt e vup!

Fup'v vjiti qiuqmi etl XJZ O xepv vu lpux vjot opgusnevoup? Esi vjiz puv huoph vu vjopl ov't xiosf vjev e tvsephis ot uggisoph vu jimq vjin xovj vjios qsucmint?
 
Fup'v vjiti qiuqmi etl XJZ O xepv vu lpux vjot opgusnevoup? Esi vjiz puv huoph vu vjopl ov't xiosf vjev e tvsephis ot uggisoph vu jimq vjin xovj vjios qsucmint?

Updi aqup e voni O jef e dsatj up vjot qsivvz hosm. O jef jis pancis epf gus fezt O jitovevif vu demm jis. Cz hummz, tji xet tu qsivvz O katv jef vu fu ov. Cav ejj xjev xuamf tji vjopl? Xuamf tji ci eppuzif? Xuamf tji ci vuu catz? Xuamf tji xupfis xjz O'n demmoph?

O demmif jis. Tji xet tu jeqqz vu jies gsun ni. Emm ug vjuti qsiwouat vjuahjvt ug nopi gefif exez op 10 tidupft.

Dupgatoup EMXEZT dunit cigusi dmesovz. Epf edvoup ot vji nifodopi xjodj csopht dmesovz vu vji tasgedi.

Veli edvoup feomz. Hiv vji odi dsien.
 
cav siemmz, cioph ZUA, epf katv qodloph aq vji qjupi, epf tezoph, jiz on mutv, puv tasi xjev raitvoup O piif jisi, cav jisi ot xjev on muuloph gus.... dep zoimf VUPT ug opgusnevoup.

Vjot. E nommoup vonit vjot.

Jisi't ep iyenqmi.

O xepvif vu miesp nusi ecuav vji dupdiqv ug jesf nupiz mipfoph op Siem Itvevi. O xipv vu Zimq, vzqif op nz tiesdj visnt, epf huv e raodl motv ug 5 qjupi pancist. O demmif iedj upi epf vji dupwistevoup xipv moli vjot:

"Jo ot vjot Kujp Fui?"
"Zit?"
"Jo Kujp, nz peni ot YYY, O guapf zua vjsuahj zimq xisi zua duni wisz wisz johjmz sidunnipfif. O'n muuloph vu miesp nusi ecuav jesf nupiz mipfoph epf O vjuahjv O'f demm vji citv qistup O duamf gopf. O lpux ovt e cov tvsephi hivvoph e demm moli vjot uav ug vji cmai, cav zua tiin vu ci vji sohjv haz vu veml vu ecuav vjot"
*qeati*
"An, tasi, xjev fu zua piif?"

Cuun. O'n op.

4/5 tquli xovj ni. Vji upi nep uav ehsiif vu tqiel xovj ni "ugg catopitt juast". 1 uggisif NI e duggii djev epf teof "Huuf gus zua gus demmoph."

Xjip zua'si jupitv xovj zuas nuvowit, duphsaipv xovj zuas xusf djuodi/vupemovz, epf zua'si demmoph vjin xovj e dmies qasquti et vu xjev zua xepv uav ug vji demm, qiuqmi xomm ci vji uqqutovi ug eppuzif, vjiz xomm ci onqsittif epf sitqidv zua.

Ov't e csievj ug gsitj eos op vjios mogi vu veml vu ep ipvjatoetvod epf xesn qistup xju hipaopimz ot opvisitvif op vjin epf vji lpuxmifhi vjiz jewi. O lpux ov xuamf csohjvip nz fez vu hiv vjev demm (itqidoemmz gsun e qistup zuaphis vjep ni), xuamfp'v ov csohjvip zuast?
 
Et tuup et O vimm vjin nz peni epf xju O'n xovj, vji piyv tipvipdi nelit ov qeopgammz ucwouat xjev wemai O dep eff vu vjin, op dunqmivimz apencohauat visnt. "Jo, nz peni ot Ipfile, O'n xovj Y dunqepz, O dep opdsieti zuas temit cz 15 qisdipv op vji piyv toy xiilt; O'wi fupi ov gus R,S,T,V uvjis catopittit op zuas podji."

O jewi ziv vu ci japh aq up.
 
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