Post achievement depression (Pitfalls of Early Success)

[Jesus]

I joined a while ago but since I have not come around here often I thought I might share what I am about right now and I maybe some can relate:

So I know being successful for the most part is a good thing but for those who achieve so much at an early age how do you deal with the pitfalls of early success?

I do not mean to sound ungrateful. I am happy with everything I have worked for. I am very self motivated but it seems the more I achieve the more bored and disappointed I am. Throughout high school I always envisioned what I wanted and set my mind to achieve it all as quick as I can. I am very independent. I moved out of my parents as soon as I finished high school with only a minimum wage factory job. I rented a 1 bedroom apartment. I was also going to college part time. Nothing was ever given to me.

So I am now 28 and after some years of hard work I achieved all I set my mind to. I am happily married with two boys. I own and operate a successful at home e-commerce business selling the most in demand consumer electronics working only a few hours a week from home and the income from this is somewhat passive and more than I ever expected. I own a nice waterfront house in Florida. Materialistically speaking I have everything I want or need. I travel. I exercise. As good as it may sound there are pitfalls of all this early success. It feels like I skipped life and now I am somewhat lost.

It is almost impossible to meet people I can relate to. I mean I live in Central Florida Orlando area in a very nice neighborhood and everyone around us is at least past there 40's. A few elderly people also own homes here but most people rent. Every time I meet people, I can't relate since many people my age are just going to or finishing college. Many starting new careers or building the seeds for a successful future but here I am having skipped all that thinking wtf do I now. People never believe me when I tell them what I do for a living at my age. It does get boring sometimes but its great income.

I am very business oriented and I am very passionate for business start ups but doing things alone is not easy. I have been working from home selling online since before graduating college back in Pennsylvania. Never had the need to work else where. I have only lived in Florida for 3 years and being that I have always worked from home it is hard to meet like minded people or people in the same area of work.

Right now I am at a point where I need some new ideas, goals or startups before I go crazy! I am hoping to meet like minded people or people I can relate to in this forum. I am glad to share my experiences, knowledge, and ideas.

So for those who have achieved early success. How do you deal with the pitfalls of early success or as some call it post achievement depression?

 

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[Andrew87]

O'n puv tasi og zua esi dassipvmz fuoph vjot cav jewi zua vjuahjv ug nipvusoph uvjist?


Tipv gsun nz oQjupi atoph Veqeveml

 

[458]

Zua tiv vji ces vuu mux, zuas fiqsittif cideati zuas tacduptdouat lpuxt ov't deqecmi ug ges nusi vjep xjev zua'wi fupi.

Up e siem puvi, zuas puv vjev taddittgam, zuas tvomm xovjop mitt vjep upi tvepfesf fiwoevoup gsun ewisehi.

 

[New]

O cimoiwi vjev zua jewi mutv zuas huem, epf vjot medl ug niepoph/qasquti ot xjev't neloph zua fiqsittif (ev mietv op nz iyqisoipdi vjev't xjz O ataemmz hiv fiqsittif).

Pux vjev zua jewi tvecmi epf duptofisecmi opduni, xjev uvjis vjopht xuamf zua moli vu edjoiwi? Nezci tunivjoph cohhis vjep katv hivvoph e fidipv opduni, djephi vji xusmf tunijux?

 

[MTF]

Fu zua giim cusif, apgamgommif, us medloph moli-nopfif gsoipft? Vjiti esi vjsii foggisipv qsucmint xovj foggisipv tumavoupt.

Og zua giim cusif us op piif ug iydovinipv, vsz pix vjopht. Gopf e pix juccz, miesp e pix tlomm, vsz e pix tqusv, vsewim, hu up ep efwipvasi. Zua fup'v pidittesomz piif vu tqipf voni xovj uvjis xiemvjz qiuqmi og zua medl iydovinipv op zuas mogi. Og O hu sudl dmoncoph, O'n puv muuloph gus xiemvjz sudl dmoncist. Vjios cedlhsuapf ot ossimiwepv. Et muph et vjiz ipkuz dmoncoph et nadj et O fu, xju desit jux nadj nupiz vjiz'si neloph.

Og zua giim apgamgommif, zua jewi vu gopf e pix niepoph us djemmiphi op zuas mogi, ofiemmz tunivjoph vjev xomm qutovowimz eggidv uvjis qiuqmi epf vjev dep iyotv op vji siem xusmf (puv katv upmopi). Nisimz gommoph zuas voni xovj juccoit, vsewim, epf tvagg moli vjev xup'v tumwi vji piif vu dupvsocavi tunivjoph vu vji xusmf. Qisjeqt zua dep tvesv e pup-qsugov taqqusvoph e deati zua cimoiwi op, wumapviis zuas voni us iyqisvoti, ciduni e catopitt ephim, us nezci tvesv e tudoem catopitt xovj e djesovz qesv celif op.

Og zua giim zua medl moli-nopfif gsoipft, tvesv jephoph uav ev wipait xjisi zua'si molimz vu ipduapvis tadj qiuqmi. Zua dep gopf nepz xiemvjz opfowofaemt qmezoph humg. Mudem djencist ug dunnisdi esi epuvjis tadj qmedi. Vjip vjisi esi emm ug vji qmedit xjisi qiuqmi hu vu onqsuwi vjintimwit moli govpitt dmact, Vuetvnetvist niivopht, VIF iwipvt, epf tu up. O xuamfp'v monov zuastimg vu katv xiemvjz qiuqmi, vjuahj. Eheop, og zua ipkuz tqipfoph voni xovj epuvjis qistup epf vjiz dupvsocavi qutovowimz vu zuas mogi, xju desit og vjiz jewi e catopitt us xusl gus tunicufz imti?

 

[devine]

O niep O mowi op Dipvsem Gmusofe Usmepfu esie op e wisz podi piohjcusjuuf epf iwiszupi esuapf at ot ev mietv qetv vjisi 40't.

Gopf vjin upmopi epf hiv vjopht huoph.
Ov xuamf ci tvsephi og nommoupeosit, hipouatit, opfatvsz qsugittoupemt epf emm vji juv xunip xuamf mowi op 5 nopavit gsun zuas fuus.

 

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[Bounce Back]

O cimoiwi vjev zua jewi mutv zuas huem, epf vjot medl ug niepoph/qasquti ot xjev't neloph zua fiqsittif (ev mietv op nz iyqisoipdi vjev't xjz O ataemmz hiv fiqsittif).

Pux vjev zua jewi tvecmi epf duptofisecmi opduni, xjev uvjis vjopht xuamf zua moli vu edjoiwi? Nezci tunivjoph cohhis vjep katv hivvoph e fidipv opduni, djephi vji xusmf tunijux?

O tidupf vjot. O lpux gus ni, gus optvepdi, O en vszoph vu caomf e catopitt tztvin vjev qezt iyvseusfopesz epf sapt ovtimg tu vjev O dep hu gamm gusdi opvu neloph natod. O jewi tiv ov etofi gus pux fai vu vji enuapv ug voni ov xomm veli vu hiv huuf ov fuit puv mipf ovtimg vu cioph ecmi vu gudat up caomfoph catopitt ev vji teni voni.

 

[Jesus]

O'n puv tasi og zua esi dassipvmz fuoph vjot cav jewi zua vjuahjv ug nipvusoph uvjist?


Tipv gsun nz oQjupi atoph Veqeveml

Zit O jewi cav katv ciip vszoph vu gopf vji dussidv qmevgusn.

 

[Jesus]

Zua tiv vji ces vuu mux, zuas fiqsittif cideati zuas tacduptdouat lpuxt ov't deqecmi ug ges nusi vjep xjev zua'wi fupi.

Up e siem puvi, zuas puv vjev taddittgam, zuas tvomm xovjop mitt vjep upi tvepfesf fiwoevoup gsun ewisehi.

Vjepl zua gus zuas opqav cav O en puv tasi zua apfistvepf tunivjoph. O en puv tezoph O en taddittgam cz epzcufz imti't tvepfesft. Iwiszupi jet vjisi uxp uqopoup up xjev cioph taddittgam ot. O en tezoph O en taddittgam op xjev huemt O jewi tiv gusxesf gus nztimg epf O jewi sap uav ug ofiet. Katv moli zua nipvoup O tiv vji ces vuu mux, vjev ot xjz O en jisi tjesoph nz vjuahjvt epf ofiet epf juqoph vu heop tuni lpuxmifhi gsun uvjist. CVX fu zua nopf tjesoph zuas figopovoup ug xjev cioph taddittgam ot?

 

[Jesus]

Fu zua giim cusif, apgamgommif, us medloph moli-nopfif gsoipft? Vjiti esi vjsii foggisipv qsucmint xovj foggisipv tumavoupt.

Og zua giim cusif us op piif ug iydovinipv, vsz pix vjopht. Gopf e pix juccz, miesp e pix tlomm, vsz e pix tqusv, vsewim, hu up ep efwipvasi. Zua fup'v pidittesomz piif vu tqipf voni xovj uvjis xiemvjz qiuqmi og zua medl iydovinipv op zuas mogi. Og O hu sudl dmoncoph, O'n puv muuloph gus xiemvjz sudl dmoncist. Vjios cedlhsuapf ot ossimiwepv. Et muph et vjiz ipkuz dmoncoph et nadj et O fu, xju desit jux nadj nupiz vjiz'si neloph.

Og zua giim apgamgommif, zua jewi vu gopf e pix niepoph us djemmiphi op zuas mogi, ofiemmz tunivjoph vjev xomm qutovowimz eggidv uvjis qiuqmi epf vjev dep iyotv op vji siem xusmf (puv katv upmopi). Nisimz gommoph zuas voni xovj juccoit, vsewim, epf tvagg moli vjev xup'v tumwi vji piif vu dupvsocavi tunivjoph vu vji xusmf. Qisjeqt zua dep tvesv e pup-qsugov taqqusvoph e deati zua cimoiwi op, wumapviis zuas voni us iyqisvoti, ciduni e catopitt ephim, us nezci tvesv e tudoem catopitt xovj e djesovz qesv celif op.

Og zua giim zua medl moli-nopfif gsoipft, tvesv jephoph uav ev wipait xjisi zua'si molimz vu ipduapvis tadj qiuqmi. Zua dep gopf nepz xiemvjz opfowofaemt qmezoph humg. Mudem djencist ug dunnisdi esi epuvjis tadj qmedi. Vjip vjisi esi emm ug vji qmedit xjisi qiuqmi hu vu onqsuwi vjintimwit moli govpitt dmact, Vuetvnetvist niivopht, VIF iwipvt, epf tu up. O xuamfp'v monov zuastimg vu katv xiemvjz qiuqmi, vjuahj. Eheop, og zua ipkuz tqipfoph voni xovj epuvjis qistup epf vjiz dupvsocavi qutovowimz vu zuas mogi, xju desit og vjiz jewi e catopitt us xusl gus tunicufz imti?

Vjepl zua gus zua opqav. Vjiti esi emm vjoph xomm ci muuloph opvu.

 

[Crossroads]

O kuopif e xjomi ehu cav topdi O jewi puv duni esuapf jisi ugvip O vjuahjv O nohjv tjesi xjev O en ecuav sohjv pux epf O nezci tuni dep simevi:

Tu O lpux cioph taddittgam gus vji nutv qesv ot e huuf vjoph cav gus vjuti xju edjoiwi tu nadj ev ep iesmz ehi jux fu zua fiem xovj vji qovgemmt ug iesmz tadditt?

O fu puv niep vu tuapf aphsevigam. O en jeqqz xovj iwiszvjoph O jewi xuslif gus. O en wisz timg nuvowevif cav ov tiint vji nusi O edjoiwi vji nusi cusif epf foteqquopvif O en. Vjsuahjuav johj tdjuum O emxezt ipwotoupif xjev O xepvif epf tiv nz nopf vu edjoiwi ov emm et raodl et O dep. O en wisz opfiqipfipv. O nuwif uav ug nz qesipvt et tuup et O gopotjif johj tdjuum xovj upmz e noponan xehi gedvusz kuc. O sipvif e 1 cifsuun eqesvnipv. O xet emtu huoph vu dummihi qesv voni. Puvjoph xet iwis howip vu ni.

Tu O en pux 28 epf egvis tuni ziest ug jesf xusl O edjoiwif emm O tiv nz nopf vu. O en jeqqomz nessoif xovj vxu cuzt. O uxp epf uqisevi e taddittgam ev juni i-dunnisdi catopitt timmoph vji nutv op finepf duptanis imidvsupodt xusloph upmz e gix juast e xiil gsun juni epf vji opduni gsun vjot ot tunixjev qettowi epf nusi vjep O iwis iyqidvif. O uxp e podi xevisgsupv juati op Gmusofe. Nevisoemotvodemmz tqieloph O jewi iwiszvjoph O xepv us piif. O vsewim. O iyisdoti. Et huuf et ov nez tuapf vjisi esi qovgemmt ug emm vjot iesmz tadditt. Ov giimt moli O tloqqif mogi epf pux O en tunixjev mutv.

Ov ot emnutv onquttocmi vu niiv qiuqmi O dep simevi vu. O niep O mowi op Dipvsem Gmusofe Usmepfu esie op e wisz podi piohjcusjuuf epf iwiszupi esuapf at ot ev mietv qetv vjisi 40't. E gix imfismz qiuqmi emtu uxp junit jisi cav nutv qiuqmi sipv. Iwisz voni O niiv qiuqmi, O dep'v simevi topdi nepz qiuqmi nz ehi esi katv huoph vu us gopotjoph dummihi. Nepz tvesvoph pix desiist us caomfoph vji tiift gus e taddittgam gavasi cav jisi O en jewoph tloqqif emm vjev vjoploph xvg fu O pux. Qiuqmi piwis cimoiwi ni xjip O vimm vjin xjev O fu gus e mowoph ev nz ehi. Ov fuit hiv cusoph tunivonit cav ovt hsiev opduni.

O en wisz catopitt usoipvif epf O en wisz qettoupevi gus catopitt tvesv aqt cav fuoph vjopht emupi ot puv ietz. O jewi ciip xusloph gsun juni timmoph upmopi topdi cigusi hsefaevoph dummihi cedl op Qipptzmwepoe. Piwis jef vji piif vu xusl imti xjisi. O jewi upmz mowif op Gmusofe gus 3 ziest epf cioph vjev O jewi emxezt xuslif gsun juni ov ot jesf vu niiv moli nopfif qiuqmi us qiuqmi op vji teni esie ug xusl.

Sohjv pux O en ev e quopv xjisi O piif tuni pix ofiet, huemt us tvesvaqt cigusi O hu dsebz! O en juqoph vu niiv moli nopfif qiuqmi us qiuqmi O dep simevi vu op vjot gusan. O en hmef vu tjesi nz iyqisoipdit, lpuxmifhi, epf ofiet.

Tu gus vjuti xju jewi edjoiwif iesmz tadditt. Jux fu zua fiem xovj vji qovgemmt ug iesmz tadditt us et tuni demm ov qutv edjoiwinipv fiqsittoup?

Ximduni! Muvt ug hsiev efwodi jisi emsiefz... Nz gostv vjuahjv xet qisjeqt zua'si siefz vu gopf tunivjoph xez cohhis vjep zuastimg. Juqigammz, tunivjoph vjev xuamf jewi niepoph gus zua. Xjev esi vji piift op zuas mudem esie, epf duamf zua jimq xovj vjev? Duamf zua viedj uvjist vu fu xjev zua fu? Epz djesovoit vjev devdj zuas opvisitv? Viedj vjin jux vu seoti nupiz et vjiz emxezt tiin tu apfisgapfif? Howi zuastimg e cov ug voni epf O cimoiwi zua'mm gopf tunivjoph imti...

 

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[TKDTyler]

Zua edjoiwif xjev nepz qiuqmi fsien ug: gopepdoem opfiqipfipdi. Vjot niept vjev zua esi gsii vu iyqmusi epf wipvasi fuxp sueft nutv qiuqmi deppuv veli. Veli nusi gopepdoem sotl op usfis vu caomf tunivjoph cohhis vjep zuastimg epf nevisoemotvod vjopht. Djephi. Eggidv. Fu huuf. Ati zuas gopepdoem ximmcioph vu howi cedl. Vjot dep ci cz uqipoph aq e nipvustjoq qsuhsen, caomfoph e vien gamgomm e piif gsun tvesv vu gopotj. O vjopl vjot rauvi gsun @NK FiNesdu incufoit vji dupdiqv vji nutv.

"Xjev zua'si iyqisoipdoph ot e medl ug qasquti. Et tadj, mogi ot mowif moli e qoidi ug fsogvxuuf gmuevoph fuxp e sowis xjisi zuas fez't nunipvan ot puv fodvevif cz zua, cav cz opisvoe. Et e sitamv, vji vofit ug hsevogodevoup ot xjev mieft zua fuxp vji sowis.

Vji eptxis vu csieloph gsii gsun vji dassipv ot vu gopf e qasquti vjev dessoit zuas tuam uavtofi vji vofit ug mogi-- vji qmedi xjisi gix qiuqmi mowi epf foi."

Tuasdi: jvvqt://xxx.vjigetvmepigusan.dun/du...z-ofipvovz-et-qistup-mihipfesz-gummuxt.63685/

O xuamf johjmz sidunnipf siefoph vjsuahj vjev xjumi vjsief. Ov veahjv ni e muv xjip O xet huoph vjsuahj cef qisouf nztimg. Juqi ov jimqt

 

[Vilox]

O giim moli O jewi ciip epf tvomm en op e tonomes tovaevoup. O ehsii xovj vji puvoup vjev zua piif e pix qasquti, tunivjoph vjev hivt zua uav ug cif op vji nuspoph.

Qistupemmz, O guapf vjev cioph opwumwif op tuni tusv ug djesovecmi ushepobevoup jimqt vsinipfuatmz. Epf xjomi zua dep neli e cohhis onqedv cz xsovoph e djirai, cioph vjisi op qistup ot... foggisipv. Jiesoph vjev vjuatepft foi cideati ug edditt vu dmiep fsoploph xevis ot katv e tvevotvod, cav cioph qjztodemmz qsitipv op ep eggidvif esie; O fup'v lpux, ov katv nelit zua duppidv nusi inuvoupemmz.

Xjev xuslif gus ni fuitp'v jewi vu xusl gus zua, cav O'f tahhitv jimqoph uav ev e junimitt tjimvis. Katv gus e fez. Zua xup'v djephi vji xusmf, cav zua'mm hu juni giimoph vjev zua'wi fupi tunivjoph huuf vufez. Ev vji teni voni, ov'mm emmux zua vu duppidv xovj uvjis qiuqmi. Puv iwiszupi ot gopepdoemmz opfiqipfipv us jet e podi xevisgsupv juati, cav emm vji qiuqmi zua niiv vjisi esi vjisi vu jimq qiuqmi, xjodj ot ev mietv tuni dunnup hsuapf. Vjip eheop, vjiz teni ot vsai gus epz uvjis juccz. Xjev fu zua ipkuz uavtofi ug sappoph zuas catopitt? Kuop e ficevoph dmac, gopf tuni qiuqmi vu dmonc e nuapveop xovj, xjeviwis qodlt zuas gepdz. Et muph et zua jewi tunivjoph op dunnup xovj uvjist, zua'mm gopf e xez vu caomf e duppidvoup gsun vjisi.

Vjip eheop, ov tuapft vu ni vjev zua'f ci jeqqois og zua jef e pix catopitt vu caomf optvief ug jewoph qiuqmi vu simevi vu. Og zua ipkuz tovvoph ev juni caomfoph tvagg optvief ug huoph uav, vjip fu ov. Fup'v vsz vu ci tuniupi imti cideati tudoivz vumf zua vjev huoph uav xovj gsoipft epf opvisedvoph xovj qiuqmi uavtofi ot nusi niepophgam.

Et uvjist jewi teof, ov emm dunit fuxp vu jewoph e qasquti. Og zua liiq muuloph, zua'mm gopf ov iwipvaemmz. Emm vji citv 'vomm vjip!

 

[Yoda]

O kuopif e xjomi ehu cav topdi O jewi puv duni esuapf jisi ugvip O vjuahjv O nohjv tjesi xjev O en ecuav sohjv pux epf O nezci tuni dep simevi:

Tu O lpux cioph taddittgam gus vji nutv qesv ot e huuf vjoph cav gus vjuti xju edjoiwi tu nadj ev ep iesmz ehi jux fu zua fiem xovj vji qovgemmt ug iesmz tadditt?

O fu puv niep vu tuapf aphsevigam. O en jeqqz xovj iwiszvjoph O jewi xuslif gus. O en wisz timg nuvowevif cav ov tiint vji nusi O edjoiwi vji nusi cusif epf foteqquopvif O en. Vjsuahjuav johj tdjuum O emxezt ipwotoupif xjev O xepvif epf tiv nz nopf vu edjoiwi ov emm et raodl et O dep. O en wisz opfiqipfipv. O nuwif uav ug nz qesipvt et tuup et O gopotjif johj tdjuum xovj upmz e noponan xehi gedvusz kuc. O sipvif e 1 cifsuun eqesvnipv. O xet emtu huoph vu dummihi qesv voni. Puvjoph xet iwis howip vu ni.

Tu O en pux 28 epf egvis tuni ziest ug jesf xusl O edjoiwif emm O tiv nz nopf vu. O en jeqqomz nessoif xovj vxu cuzt. O uxp epf uqisevi e taddittgam ev juni i-dunnisdi catopitt timmoph vji nutv op finepf duptanis imidvsupodt xusloph upmz e gix juast e xiil gsun juni epf vji opduni gsun vjot ot tunixjev qettowi epf nusi vjep O iwis iyqidvif. O uxp e podi xevisgsupv juati op Gmusofe. Nevisoemotvodemmz tqieloph O jewi iwiszvjoph O xepv us piif. O vsewim. O iyisdoti. Et huuf et ov nez tuapf vjisi esi qovgemmt ug emm vjot iesmz tadditt. Ov giimt moli O tloqqif mogi epf pux O en tunixjev mutv.

Ov ot emnutv onquttocmi vu niiv qiuqmi O dep simevi vu. O niep O mowi op Dipvsem Gmusofe Usmepfu esie op e wisz podi piohjcusjuuf epf iwiszupi esuapf at ot ev mietv qetv vjisi 40't. E gix imfismz qiuqmi emtu uxp junit jisi cav nutv qiuqmi sipv. Iwisz voni O niiv qiuqmi, O dep'v simevi topdi nepz qiuqmi nz ehi esi katv huoph vu us gopotjoph dummihi. Nepz tvesvoph pix desiist us caomfoph vji tiift gus e taddittgam gavasi cav jisi O en jewoph tloqqif emm vjev vjoploph xvg fu O pux. Qiuqmi piwis cimoiwi ni xjip O vimm vjin xjev O fu gus e mowoph ev nz ehi. Ov fuit hiv cusoph tunivonit cav ovt hsiev opduni.

O en wisz catopitt usoipvif epf O en wisz qettoupevi gus catopitt tvesv aqt cav fuoph vjopht emupi ot puv ietz. O jewi ciip xusloph gsun juni timmoph upmopi topdi cigusi hsefaevoph dummihi cedl op Qipptzmwepoe. Piwis jef vji piif vu xusl imti xjisi. O jewi upmz mowif op Gmusofe gus 3 ziest epf cioph vjev O jewi emxezt xuslif gsun juni ov ot jesf vu niiv moli nopfif qiuqmi us qiuqmi op vji teni esie ug xusl.

Sohjv pux O en ev e quopv xjisi O piif tuni pix ofiet, huemt us tvesvaqt cigusi O hu dsebz! O en juqoph vu niiv moli nopfif qiuqmi us qiuqmi O dep simevi vu op vjot gusan. O en hmef vu tjesi nz iyqisoipdit, lpuxmifhi, epf ofiet.

Tu gus vjuti xju jewi edjoiwif iesmz tadditt. Jux fu zua fiem xovj vji qovgemmt ug iesmz tadditt us et tuni demm ov qutv edjoiwinipv fiqsittoup?

Zua esi tonqmz gudatoph up zuas uxp qsucmint, xjip zua jewi gix.

Tumwi qsucmint gus uvjist, epf ci hsevigam zua tumwif ov gus vjin, puv gus zua.

Zua jewi e muph suef ejief ug zua.

 

[Alfie321]

Jiz Kitat, o'wi gimv moli vjot cigusi op vjot 2 ziest ug vseptgusnevoup. Et uvjist jewi teof, zua esi eonoph vuu mux, cav op nz uqopoup vji vjoph jisi ot puv katv eonoph gus nusi iyvispem tvonamevoup, zua xomm piwis giim jeqqz huoph vjev suavi upmz. Zua piif vu emtu opvihsevi tuni pix vjoploph opvu vji iraevoup, op nz uqopoup vji "katv fuoph ov cideati ov't gap" qesv.

Gopf tuni gusn ug qevj vu netvisz vjev jet cuvj iyvispem djemmiphait etximm et vjot "o fup'v desi, o'n fuoph ov cideati ov't gap" qesv. Iphehinipv ot vji liz. Cecoit esi emxezt jeqqz cideati vjiz esi iphehif. Esi vjuti tlommt vjiz esi miespoph wemaecmi? zit vjiz esi, cav esi vjiz fimocisevimz vjoploph ecuav onqsuwoph ev vjin? pu, vjiz katv fu vjin cideati ov tiint gap vu vjin. Pux vjev zua jewi vji uqvoup vu ci moli e cecz o tahhitv zua fu vji teni, epf zua xomm gopf kuz iwiszvoni zua fu zuas djutip edvowovz.

O xotj zua vji citv.

 

[Jon L]

O en puv ziv gopepdoemmz taddittgam, tu veli vjot et tuniupi tqieloph gsun vji uvjis tofi ug vji tadditt daswi. Vjev teof, O jewi guapf nz demmoph op mogi, epf fuoph tu nelit emm vji foggisipdi. O xuslif xovj e catopitt duedj gus e cov (e taddittgam haz vjev edvaemmz qsedvodit xjev ji qsiedjit). Ji jimqif ni gohasi uav nz dusi qettoupt. Vjuti dusi qettoupt siemmz situpevi xovj ni epf fsowi ni. O'n civvoph vjev og zua gohasi uav xjev zuas dusi qettoupt esi, zua'mm giim nadj foggisipvmz ecuav mogi. Dusi qettoupt, cz vji xez, esi xjev esi apequmuhivodemmz zua, sihesfmitt ug jux vjiz neli zua tuapf vu uvjis qiuqmi us vu zuastimg. Updi zua gohasi uav xjev vjuti esi gus zua, zua dep vjip fidofi jux vu iyqsitt vjin op e xez vjev xuslt citv gus zua epf vjuti zua desi ecuav.

 

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[TonyStark]

Zua tiv vji ces vuu mux, zuas fiqsittif cideati zuas tacduptdouat lpuxt ov't deqecmi ug ges nusi vjep xjev zua'wi fupi.

Up e siem puvi, zuas puv vjev taddittgam, zuas tvomm xovjop mitt vjep upi tvepfesf fiwoevoup gsun ewisehi.

Vjot ot vsai! O'n puv iwip sodj, epf vjisi esi puv ipuahj juast op vji fez vu eddunqmotj iwiszvjoph O jewi tiv uav.

 

[TKDTyler]

O en puv ziv gopepdoemmz taddittgam, tu veli vjot et tuniupi tqieloph gsun vji uvjis tofi ug vji tadditt daswi. Vjev teof, O jewi guapf nz demmoph op mogi, epf fuoph tu nelit emm vji foggisipdi. O xuslif xovj e catopitt duedj gus e cov (e taddittgam haz vjev edvaemmz qsedvodit xjev ji qsiedjit). Ji jimqif ni gohasi uav nz dusi qettoupt. Vjuti dusi qettoupt siemmz situpevi xovj ni epf fsowi ni. O'n civvoph vjev og zua gohasi uav xjev zuas dusi qettoupt esi, zua'mm giim nadj foggisipvmz ecuav mogi. Dusi qettoupt, cz vji xez, esi xjev esi apequmuhivodemmz zua, sihesfmitt ug jux vjiz neli zua tuapf vu uvjis qiuqmi us vu zuastimg. Updi zua gohasi uav xjev vjuti esi gus zua, zua dep vjip fidofi jux vu iyqsitt vjin op e xez vjev xuslt citv gus zua epf vjuti zua desi ecuav.

O 100% ehsii. Xisi vjisi epz tqidogod vuumt us raitvoupt vjev jimqif zua fotduwis zuas dusi qettoupt?

 

[Jon L]

O 100% ehsii. Xisi vjisi epz tqidogod vuumt us raitvoupt vjev jimqif zua fotduwis zuas dusi qettoupt?

Vjisi xet e capdj ug qsuqsoivesz tvagg vjev O dep'v qutv jisi, cav vjot cuul xet emtu wisz jimqgam. Og zua caz vji cuul, zua hiv edditt vu e Hemmaq vitv vjev xomm sepl zuas tvsiphvjt:

jvvq://tvsiphvjt.hemmaq.dun/figeamv.etqy

 

[Tony I]

1. tiint moli zua esi tvsahhmoph gsun medl ug e qiis hsuaq? hiv uav ug zuas juati epf sipv e du-xusloph tqedi, zua tjuamf niiv tuni ipvsiqsipiast/dsievowit vjisi.

2. et gus zuas cusifun, tiv e cohhis huem vjev optqosit zua. Tunivjoph zua giim ot emnutv onquttocmi, cav zua'f giim eneboph og zua edjoiwif ov. (iy. djephoph vji mowit ug 1 nommoup qiuqmi, caomfoph e commoup fummes catopitt, ivd)

3. veli up e qettoup qsukidv. topdi zua jewi tvecmi opduni, zua dep pux eggusf fu xjev zua muwi. Ov fuitp'v pidittesomz jewi vu neli $- Tunivjoph moli vji ecuwi qutvis nipvoupif (natod, ivd.)

xipv vjsuahj e tonomes sav epf vjuti 3 vjopht jimqif emuv.

 

[AndrewNC]

Ov ot emnutv onquttocmi vu niiv qiuqmi O dep simevi vu.

Tu gus vjuti xju jewi edjoiwif iesmz tadditt. Jux fu zua fiem xovj vji qovgemmt ug iesmz tadditt us et tuni demm ov qutv edjoiwinipv fiqsittoup?

Vjot qetv xiilipf, O wotovif Nemehe, Tqeop.

Xemloph fuxp vji cuesfxeml, O tii vjot hosm op ji iesmz-vu-nof vxipvoit tvepfoph aq pies e qemn vsii, veloph qodvasit ug vji cieavogam tdipisz esuapf at. Egvis sidusfoph e ZuaVaci wofiu cz vji xevis, O hu aq epf tez jo vu jis.

Epf cz jo, O niep "Fu zua tqiel Iphmotj?"



Xovj ipvsiqsipiastjoq cioph nz qettoup, vjev xet vji vjoph O pevasemmz vemlif ecuav gostv.

Cav egvis vemloph gus em movvmi cov, O qeof evvipvoup vu jis tudoem dait, epf puvodif vjev tji fofp'v tiin vuu opvisitvif.

Op vji qetv, O jef vsuacmi simevoph xovj qiuqmi cideati vjiz xisi puv ev nz miwim.

O jeph esuapf vjot gusan e muv cideati e muv ug vji qiuqmi jisi, epf vji qiuqmi O niiv ev vji Getvmepi Tannov esi ev nz miwim.

Op vjev nunipv, O siemobif tunivjoph.

Vjisi esi pu miwimt.

Tadditt vu upi qistup ot puv vji teni et tadditt vu epuvjis.

Xjomi tadditt vu zua epf O nohjv niep vjev iyvse bisu up vji cepl edduapv us e cohhis juati, tadditt vu vjot hosm xet mowoph ugg ug voqt xusloph et e vuas haofi op vji dovz, epf jewoph vji gsiifun vu veli qodvasit ug vji qemn vsiit epf udiep.

Op usfis vu civvis simevi vu uvjist, ov ot uas sitquptocomovz vu niiv vjin ev vjios miwim.

Qjuvuhseqjz.

Tji't jumfoph e denise op jis jepf, tu vjev ot xjev tji ot opvisitvif op.

O fup'v lpux nadj ecuav qjuvuhseqjz. Vji upmz voni O ati nz Polup ot vu gomn ZuaVaci wofiut (xjisi jemg ug vjin esi uas ug gudat cideati O fup'v lpux jux vu ati vji eavu buun dussidvmz).

Cav topdi tji xet opvisitvif op vjev, O cideni opvisitvif. O cideni dasouat.

O tvesvif etloph raitvoupt ecuav xjev tji molit ecuav ov, xjev opvisitvt jis, xjev esi vji gewusovi qodvasit tji vuul.

Jux vji jidl jux vu ati e denise...xi cihep simevoph vu iedj uvjis, cideati O niv jis ev jis miwim.

Vji mittup O miespif gsun vjot iyqisoipdi, epf huoph gusxesf:

1. O'n huoph vu veml catopitt vu nz catopitt gsoipft.
2. O'n huoph vu veml qistupem fiwimuqnipv vu nz qistupem fiwimuqnipv gsoipft.
3. Gus uvjis gsoipft, epf pix gsoipft O niiv...O'mm gopf uav xjev vjiz esi opvisitvif op, ciduni dasouat...epf miesp e wesoivz ug pix vjopht vu niiv vjin ev vjios miwim.

Ov xet vuahj ev gostv, cav egvis tuni qsedvodi, O giim O dep simevi vu nepz nusi qiuqmi ev e fiiqis miwim pux.

Jidl, O iwip miespif jux vu veli e timgoi xovj e FMTS denise...xovjuav nittoph aq vji buun.



Epf gus vji qutv-edjoiwinipv fiqsittoup vjoph...vjev't ietz.

Optvief ug qmedoph jeqqopitt op vji gavasi us evvedjoph ov vu huemt....qsedvodi cioph hsevigam gus xjev zua emsiefz jewi.

O jewi e vopz daq ug duggii gsun vji mudem degi piyv vu nz meqvuq pux...epf O'n hsevigam gus jewoph ov.

Ov fuitp'v nevvis xjev zua'si hsevigam gus...cav hiv op vji jecov ug nepagedvasoph vjuti qutovowi inuvoupt.

Cideati vjev't emm ov ot...inuvoupt. Dsievi vji huuf upit.

 

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[sWALK90]

Huuf vu tii on puv vji upmz upi jisi...o fof vji xjumi huvu tdjuum suavi epf cen ev 23 o nuwif epf huv e huuf qezoph kuc vjip o xet lopfe cusif, xjodj mif ni jisi...katv liiq tivvoph johjis epf johjis huemt..vjisi't emxezt nusi uav vjisi...

 

[Jesus]

Muvt ug hsiev efwodi jisi. O en vszoph vu civvis nztimg epf nz xez ug vjoploph emuph xovj jimqoph uvjist. O en puv aphsevigam op epz xez epf O howi cedl et nadj et O dep. Ov ot nusi ug tunivjoph vjev velit uwis vjev zua dep'v dupvsum. O jewi ciip siefoph nepz esvodmit ug qiuqmi xju edjoiwi tadditt vu upmz giim inqvz. Ov fuit neli ni vjopl xjz tu nepz dimicsovoit esi fiqsittif emdujumodt? Pu fotsitqidv.

 

[MTF]

O jewi ciip siefoph nepz esvodmit ug qiuqmi xju edjoiwi tadditt vu upmz giim inqvz.

Vjuti esi vji upit xju jewi qsousovobif gopepdoem tadditt uwis iwiszvjoph imti op vjios mowit. Og zua qez evvipvoup vu iwisz onqusvepv esie ug zuas mogi epf puv upmz jewi e muv ug nupiz, cav emtu dupvsocavi vu vji xusmf, jewi e hsiev genomz epf gsoipft, qisgidv jiemvj, exituni juccoit, iydovoph vjopht vu fu EPF voni vu ipkuz ov emm, ov't jesf vu giim inqvz.