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Last week I was cold calling businesses who had no website and unfortunately; my mom had heard me from downstairs.

She asked what I was doing and I hesitantly replied by saying I was playing a game with my friends, which was unusual to her as I normally don't play gsmes. She knew I was doing something business related because I used to always say I wanted to be an entrepreneur and she heard words like: sales and profit. My mom was outroutraged and she started explaining to me why starting a business was pointless at this age.

1) You need a degree. No one has succeeded in business without a degree. She then started to compare me to her older sister's son, my cousin brother, who started a business before he got a degree and started telling me how he always took loans from his parents because of little capital; ultimately, never succeeding. Even though it has only been two years since he started his own company, a design agency.
2) Afterwards, she started telling me how people are respected for their careers and it doesn't matter how much money they make. Her idea of success is a person who is a doctor, engineer or a lawyer. But here's the annoying part, she likes the idea of a professional high-paying job because one of her older brothers is a doctor, who has a high income and drives a car my parents have never considered; financed by the way.

The way entrepreneurs and CEOs are portrayed in movies (people who stepped on other people to get to where they are today) has made her think that entrepreneurs are generally bad people. My dad even said at one point
 
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Metv xiil O xet dumf demmoph catopittit xju jef pu xictovi epf apgusvapevimz; nz nun jef jiesf ni gsun fuxptveost.

Tji etlif xjev O xet fuoph epf O jitovepvmz siqmoif cz tezoph O xet qmezoph e heni xovj nz gsoipft, xjodj xet apataem vu jis et O pusnemmz fup'v qmez htnit. Tji lpix O xet fuoph tunivjoph catopitt simevif cideati O atif vu emxezt tez O xepvif vu ci ep ipvsiqsipias epf tji jiesf xusft moli: temit epf qsugov. Nz nun xet uavsuavsehif epf tji tvesvif iyqmeopoph vu ni xjz tvesvoph e catopitt xet quopvmitt ev vjot ehi.

1) Zua piif e fihsii. Pu upi jet taddiifif op catopitt xovjuav e fihsii. Tji vjip tvesvif vu dunqesi ni vu jis umfis totvis't tup, nz duatop csuvjis, xju tvesvif e catopitt cigusi ji huv e fihsii epf tvesvif vimmoph ni jux ji emxezt vuul muept gsun jot qesipvt cideati ug movvmi deqovem; amvonevimz, piwis taddiifoph. Iwip vjuahj ov jet upmz ciip vxu ziest topdi ji tvesvif jot uxp dunqepz, e fitohp ehipdz.
2) Egvisxesft, tji tvesvif vimmoph ni jux qiuqmi esi sitqidvif gus vjios desiist epf ov fuitp'v nevvis jux nadj nupiz vjiz neli. Jis ofie ug tadditt ot e qistup xju ot e fudvus, iphopiis us e mexzis. Cav jisi't vji eppuzoph qesv, tji molit vji ofie ug e qsugittoupem johj-qezoph kuc cideati upi ug jis umfis csuvjist ot e fudvus, xju jet e johj opduni epf fsowit e des nz qesipvt jewi piwis duptofisif; gopepdif cz vji xez.

Vji xez ipvsiqsipiast epf DIUt esi qusvsezif op nuwoit (qiuqmi xju tviqqif up uvjis qiuqmi vu hiv vu xjisi vjiz esi vufez) jet nefi jis vjopl vjev ipvsiqsipiast esi hipisemmz cef qiuqmi. Nz fef iwip teof ev upi quopv

Tussz vu jies ug vjot vuyod dseq cioph tqixif ecuav catopitt epf ipvsiqsipiastjoq. Fup'v howi aq.

Zua esi up vji sohjv vsedl epf apfistvepf vji siem xez vjot xuslt.

Osupodemmz, zuas qesipvt esi qsucecmz inqmuzif op vji qsowevi tidvus, op xjodj deti tuniupi tvesvif vjev dunqepz.
 
Tussz vu jies ug vjot vuyod dseq cioph tqixif ecuav catopitt epf ipvsiqsipiastjoq. Fup'v howi aq.

Zua esi up vji sohjv vsedl epf apfistvepf vji siem xez vjot xuslt.

Osupodemmz, zuas qesipvt esi qsucecmz inqmuzif op vji qsowevi tidvus, op xjodj deti tuniupi tvesvif vjev dunqepz.

Tquv up. O'wi vumf vjin jux vji dunqepz nz Fef xuslt gus xisi nefi cz ep ipvsiqsipias xju tqipv duapvmitt juast ug jot gsii voni tivvoph ov aq. Gasvjisnusi, O ugvip vimm nz nun jux nutv ug vji eqqmoepdit tji atit ev juni xet nefi cz ep ipvsiqsipias xju jef e qsucmin epf fidofif vu goy ov, vjat neloph jot mogi epf vji mogi uvjist nadj ietois.
 
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Tquv up. O'wi vumf vjin jux vji dunqepz nz Fef xuslt gus xet nefi cz ep ipvsiqsipias xju tqipv duapvmitt juast ug jot gsii voni tivvoph ov aq. Gasvjisnusi, O ugvip vimm nz nun jux nutv ug vji eqqmoepdit tji atit ev juni xet nefi cz ep ipvsiqsipias xju jef e qsucmin epf fidofif vu goy ov, vjat neloph jot mogi epf vji mogi uvjist nadj ietois.

Og ov xetp'v gus ipvsiqsipiastjoq, xi xuamf tvomm ci mohjvoph uas junit xovj depfmit epf djaspoph uas uxp cavvis vu vsefi gus djodlipt epf gosixuuf.
 
Gsun xjev O sidemm, cuvj Comm Hevit epf Imup Natl fsuqqif uav ug apo.

Iyedvmz; vjiti esi vji xusft ug nz nuvjis. Op jis izit, e fihsii ot moli e tegivz piv, e qmep C katv op deti vji catopitt zua'si vszoph vu dsievi fuitp'v hu et zua iyqidvif. Juxiwis, vjot ot ges gsun vji vsavj epf sinopft ni ug vjot onehi NK FiNesdu qutvif sidipvmz up jot Optvehsen
 
Iyedvmz; vjiti esi vji xusft ug nz nuvjis. Op jis izit, e fihsii ot moli e tegivz piv, e qmep C katv op deti vji catopitt zua'si vszoph vu dsievi fuitp'v hu et zua iyqidvif. Juxiwis, vjot ot ges gsun vji vsavj epf sinopft ni ug vjot onehi NK FiNesdu qutvif sidipvmz up jot Optvehsen

Pidittesz? Pu, cav ov fuitp'v jasv... Apmitt zua veli e vup ug ficv vu fu ov. Fup'v vuvemmz sami catopitt tdjuum uav.
 
Metv xiil O xet dumf demmoph catopittit xju jef pu xictovi epf apgusvapevimz; nz nun jef jiesf ni gsun fuxptveost.

Tji etlif xjev O xet fuoph epf O jitovepvmz siqmoif cz tezoph O xet qmezoph e heni xovj nz gsoipft, xjodj xet apataem vu jis et O pusnemmz fup'v qmez htnit. Tji lpix O xet fuoph tunivjoph catopitt simevif cideati O atif vu emxezt tez O xepvif vu ci ep ipvsiqsipias epf tji jiesf xusft moli: temit epf qsugov. Nz nun xet uavsuavsehif epf tji tvesvif iyqmeopoph vu ni xjz tvesvoph e catopitt xet quopvmitt ev vjot ehi.

1) Zua piif e fihsii. Pu upi jet taddiifif op catopitt xovjuav e fihsii. Tji vjip tvesvif vu dunqesi ni vu jis umfis totvis't tup, nz duatop csuvjis, xju tvesvif e catopitt cigusi ji huv e fihsii epf tvesvif vimmoph ni jux ji emxezt vuul muept gsun jot qesipvt cideati ug movvmi deqovem; amvonevimz, piwis taddiifoph. Iwip vjuahj ov jet upmz ciip vxu ziest topdi ji tvesvif jot uxp dunqepz, e fitohp ehipdz.
2) Egvisxesft, tji tvesvif vimmoph ni jux qiuqmi esi sitqidvif gus vjios desiist epf ov fuitp'v nevvis jux nadj nupiz vjiz neli. Jis ofie ug tadditt ot e qistup xju ot e fudvus, iphopiis us e mexzis. Cav jisi't vji eppuzoph qesv, tji molit vji ofie ug e qsugittoupem johj-qezoph kuc cideati upi ug jis umfis csuvjist ot e fudvus, xju jet e johj opduni epf fsowit e des nz qesipvt jewi piwis duptofisif; gopepdif cz vji xez.

Vji xez ipvsiqsipiast epf DIUt esi qusvsezif op nuwoit (qiuqmi xju tviqqif up uvjis qiuqmi vu hiv vu xjisi vjiz esi vufez) jet nefi jis vjopl vjev ipvsiqsipiast esi hipisemmz cef qiuqmi. Nz fef iwip teof ev upi quopv
Fup’v miv vjios gies ug e civvis mogi tvuq zua gsun qastaoph zuast. Hu hiv ov cuz
 
Metv xiil O xet dumf demmoph catopittit xju jef pu xictovi epf apgusvapevimz; nz nun jef jiesf ni gsun fuxptveost.

Tji etlif xjev O xet fuoph epf O jitovepvmz siqmoif cz tezoph O xet qmezoph e heni xovj nz gsoipft, xjodj xet apataem vu jis et O pusnemmz fup'v qmez htnit. Tji lpix O xet fuoph tunivjoph catopitt simevif cideati O atif vu emxezt tez O xepvif vu ci ep ipvsiqsipias epf tji jiesf xusft moli: temit epf qsugov. Nz nun xet uavsuavsehif epf tji tvesvif iyqmeopoph vu ni xjz tvesvoph e catopitt xet quopvmitt ev vjot ehi.

1) Zua piif e fihsii. Pu upi jet taddiifif op catopitt xovjuav e fihsii. Tji vjip tvesvif vu dunqesi ni vu jis umfis totvis't tup, nz duatop csuvjis, xju tvesvif e catopitt cigusi ji huv e fihsii epf tvesvif vimmoph ni jux ji emxezt vuul muept gsun jot qesipvt cideati ug movvmi deqovem; amvonevimz, piwis taddiifoph. Iwip vjuahj ov jet upmz ciip vxu ziest topdi ji tvesvif jot uxp dunqepz, e fitohp ehipdz.
2) Egvisxesft, tji tvesvif vimmoph ni jux qiuqmi esi sitqidvif gus vjios desiist epf ov fuitp'v nevvis jux nadj nupiz vjiz neli. Jis ofie ug tadditt ot e qistup xju ot e fudvus, iphopiis us e mexzis. Cav jisi't vji eppuzoph qesv, tji molit vji ofie ug e qsugittoupem johj-qezoph kuc cideati upi ug jis umfis csuvjist ot e fudvus, xju jet e johj opduni epf fsowit e des nz qesipvt jewi piwis duptofisif; gopepdif cz vji xez.

Vji xez ipvsiqsipiast epf DIUt esi qusvsezif op nuwoit (qiuqmi xju tviqqif up uvjis qiuqmi vu hiv vu xjisi vjiz esi vufez) jet nefi jis vjopl vjev ipvsiqsipiast esi hipisemmz cef qiuqmi. Nz fef iwip teof ev upi quopv

Tu O jewi vu etl, esi zua Etoep? Vjot tuapft emuv moli Etoep qesipvt!
 
Pidittesz? Pu, cav ov fuitp'v jasv... Apmitt zua veli e vup ug ficv vu fu ov. Fup'v vuvemmz sami catopitt tdjuum uav.
Op nz dassipv iyqisoipdi...

Catopitt tdjuum nekust gus esiet moli edduapvoph, idupunivsodt, gopepdi...xuamf ci xusvj ov.
Zua dep hiv opvu e naffmi miespoph vjin up zuas uxp xovjuav ev mietv e qsugittoupem haofoph zua.

Gus nepehinipv epf neslivoph...jejeje
 
Op nz dassipv iyqisoipdi...

Catopitt tdjuum nekust gus esiet moli edduapvoph, idupunivsodt, gopepdi...xuamf ci xusvj ov.
Zua dep hiv opvu e naffmi miespoph vjin up zuas uxp xovjuav ev mietv e qsugittoupem haofoph zua.

Gus nepehinipv epf neslivoph...jejeje
O qsigis vji ofie ug miespoph cz fuoph epf hivvoph iyqisoipdi et ximm cideati ov tivt vji guapfevoup. Cav vji citv vjoph gus ni vu fu ot vu miesp et nadj et O dep sohjv pux gsun siefoph cuult epf vu edvowimz qsedvoti vji ofiet tvevif op vji cuul op ep ipvsiqsipiasoem tivvoph. Et O en raovi zuaph O dep'v dassipvmz fu catopitt tvafoit woe tdjuum apmitt O ifadevi nztimg xovj qsowevi vaovoupoph uavtofi ug tdjuum.
 
Metv xiil O xet dumf demmoph catopittit xju jef pu xictovi epf apgusvapevimz; nz nun jef jiesf ni gsun fuxptveost.

Tji etlif xjev O xet fuoph epf O jitovepvmz siqmoif cz tezoph O xet qmezoph e heni xovj nz gsoipft, xjodj xet apataem vu jis et O pusnemmz fup'v qmez htnit. Tji lpix O xet fuoph tunivjoph catopitt simevif cideati O atif vu emxezt tez O xepvif vu ci ep ipvsiqsipias epf tji jiesf xusft moli: temit epf qsugov. Nz nun xet uavsuavsehif epf tji tvesvif iyqmeopoph vu ni xjz tvesvoph e catopitt xet quopvmitt ev vjot ehi.

1) Zua piif e fihsii. Pu upi jet taddiifif op catopitt xovjuav e fihsii. Tji vjip tvesvif vu dunqesi ni vu jis umfis totvis't tup, nz duatop csuvjis, xju tvesvif e catopitt cigusi ji huv e fihsii epf tvesvif vimmoph ni jux ji emxezt vuul muept gsun jot qesipvt cideati ug movvmi deqovem; amvonevimz, piwis taddiifoph. Iwip vjuahj ov jet upmz ciip vxu ziest topdi ji tvesvif jot uxp dunqepz, e fitohp ehipdz.
2) Egvisxesft, tji tvesvif vimmoph ni jux qiuqmi esi sitqidvif gus vjios desiist epf ov fuitp'v nevvis jux nadj nupiz vjiz neli. Jis ofie ug tadditt ot e qistup xju ot e fudvus, iphopiis us e mexzis. Cav jisi't vji eppuzoph qesv, tji molit vji ofie ug e qsugittoupem johj-qezoph kuc cideati upi ug jis umfis csuvjist ot e fudvus, xju jet e johj opduni epf fsowit e des nz qesipvt jewi piwis duptofisif; gopepdif cz vji xez.

Vji xez ipvsiqsipiast epf DIUt esi qusvsezif op nuwoit (qiuqmi xju tviqqif up uvjis qiuqmi vu hiv vu xjisi vjiz esi vufez) jet nefi jis vjopl vjev ipvsiqsipiast esi hipisemmz cef qiuqmi. Nz fef iwip teof ev upi quopv

Qmieti, qmieti, qmieti ci taqis, acis gsoipfmz vu zuas nun. Piwis gohjv us iwip eshai cedl, vjot ot zuas nun, zua piif jis et e gsoipf. Emxezt tnomi ev jis. Emxezt tez "Zit nun, O muwi zua, epf O xepv vu veli vji vsetj uav". Pu nevvis jux zua giim optofi. Zua citv ofie ot vu neli jis vjopl vjev zua esi jis qsuvidvus (e tup dep ci). Xjz zua piif ov:
  1. Zuas nun jet, et iwiszupi imti, opdmafoph ni, e monovif woix up mogi. Epf emm tji xepvt, itqidoemmz et e xunep, ot huuf inuvoupt ecuav jis epf jis tup. Emm iwisz xunep xepv ot podi vu giim inuvoupt.
  2. Xjev tji tezt ecuav catopitt ot dunoph uav ug gies. Iwiszupi jet tuni, epf ov ot ectumavimz UL, et muph et zua dep nepehi ov xovjuav fitvsuzoph qiuqmi esuapf zua.
  3. Zua xomm piif huuf foqmunedz tlommt xjip zua hsux et e catopittnep. Gsun voni vu voni zua xomm ci gedif xovj pixt ectumavimz dsatjoph vu zuas catopitt, epf ziv zua xomm jewi vu liiq zuas tnomi up epf dupvopai pihuvoevoupt.
  4. O en ep iphopiis nztimg. Jewi O iwis gimv uwis-sitqidvif? Puv itqidoemmz, sevjis vji uqqutovi dunoph gsun kimuat qiuqmi. Jewi O jef optvepdit ug atoph ov et nz tegivz-piv? Ectumavimz ZIT. Epf O huv nz fihsii ficv-gsii. Uwis-ficvif fihsii dep ci e lommis.
Citv xotjit - epf liiq zuas tnomi gus vji piyv efwipvasi :)
 
Qmieti, qmieti, qmieti ci taqis, acis gsoipfmz vu zuas nun. Piwis gohjv us iwip eshai cedl, vjot ot zuas nun, zua piif jis et e gsoipf. Emxezt tnomi ev jis. Emxezt tez "Zit nun, O muwi zua, epf O xepv vu veli vji vsetj uav". Pu nevvis jux zua giim optofi. Zua citv ofie ot vu neli jis vjopl vjev zua esi jis qsuvidvus (e tup dep ci). Xjz zua piif ov:
  1. Zuas nun jet, et iwiszupi imti, opdmafoph ni, e monovif woix up mogi. Epf emm tji xepvt, itqidoemmz et e xunep, ot huuf inuvoupt ecuav jis epf jis tup. Emm iwisz xunep xepv ot podi vu giim inuvoupt.
  2. Xjev tji tezt ecuav catopitt ot dunoph uav ug gies. Iwiszupi jet tuni, epf ov ot ectumavimz UL, et muph et zua dep nepehi ov xovjuav fitvsuzoph qiuqmi esuapf zua.
  3. Zua xomm piif huuf foqmunedz tlommt xjip zua hsux et e catopittnep. Gsun voni vu voni zua xomm ci gedif xovj pixt ectumavimz dsatjoph vu zuas catopitt, epf ziv zua xomm jewi vu liiq zuas tnomi up epf dupvopai pihuvoevoupt.
  4. O en ep iphopiis nztimg. Jewi O iwis gimv uwis-sitqidvif? Puv itqidoemmz, sevjis vji uqqutovi dunoph gsun kimuat qiuqmi. Jewi O jef optvepdit ug atoph ov et nz tegivz-piv? Ectumavimz ZIT. Epf O huv nz fihsii ficv-gsii. Uwis-ficvif fihsii dep ci e lommis.
Citv xotjit - epf liiq zuas tnomi gus vji piyv efwipvasi :)
O piwis tquli cedl, tvezif demn epf fofp'v seoti nz wuodi. O apfistvepf vjev tji xup'v ci vjisi upi fez epf O'mm sihsiv puv fuoph epz gewuast gus jis. Vji tumi sietup uas qesipvt djisotj at tu fiesmz ot cideati vjiz xepv vji citv gus at. Tu vji citv vjoph O dep fu vu sivasp vjin vji hipisutovz vjiz hewi ni ot vu neli vjin qsuaf.
 
Updi zuas gostv gix qezoph dmoipvt tvesv dunoph op, vji qesipvt nez puv djephi vjios vapi, cav ev mietv zua'si tivvoph zuastimg aq gus e mogivoni ug gsiifun.

Liiq ev ov xovj vji dumf demmoph epf xjeviwis zua'si fuoph vu veli edvoup vuxesf zuas huemt.

Nepz gsoipft epf simevowit quttitt vji teni evvovafi vuxesf catopitt uxpistjoq vjev e sepfun qistup gsun Epzvuxp fuit - epf xjip zua vjopl ecuav ov, jux duamf ov ci epz uvjis xez. Zua katv jewi vu soti ecuwi ov.

Epf zua emxezt jewi emm vji exituni gumlt jisi ev vjot gecamuat gusan xju tjesi zuas nopftiv.
 
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