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"How much does your dream life cost?"
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How about this, I sat down last night and I asked myself: What is it that I am really working for here? I am attempting to accumulate goods that satisfy my own pleasures but... What is it that I really want? (goods & services) and... How many dollars will I need to acquire the goods? The hard-up amount I'll need so I can own them free and clear and enjoy all the benefits these acquired goods render me.

"I wanted to finally put a aggregate price on my dream life style, so I could determine how long it was going to take me to get there."

And I had asked myself these questions before but, I decide it was time to make a FIRM DECISION and figure out the pieces of the puzzle. That way I could also become aware of what my future possible expenditures may be and also so I could peak into my future reality I will have as an excessively wealthy Entrepreneur. (My ideal is to choose how I want my life and then perform the actions that lead me to having the reality I envision.)

W knew that there must be an estimated price on my satisfaction, I just didn't know what it was until I did a little session of day dreaming and imagining. I conducted about a 3-4 hour session of research on things like islands I may want to buy, cars I may want to own, hot locations I may want to travel too, activities I may want to enjoy in retirement, and on and on.

Then, I took out a sheet of paper and wrote down the following:
  • A. What is the cumulative cost of all around basic luxuries I desire? (How much will the total amount physical stuff will I need to acquire to be happy? This is very educational and requires you get creative too because you are actually choosing a product that fills your own need and then attaching a price that you would pay for it to the product. It's basically marketing research just on yourself.)
  • B. After I acquire the base goods... How much self replenishing income will I need for "on going" consumption obligations and expenditures? (In essence, you're trying to figure out the amount of "consumption capital" you'll need to maintain in order to support your frivolous consumption.)
  • C. How much money do I want to use on the acquisitionment of Assets each month and how much self replenishing income do I need as on going investment capital? After all the business we all want to be in is the business of money multiplying into more money.

So, I basically wanted to figure out was, how much is all of this going to cost me when my economic ship is that big. So I drew 3 buckets. One entitled "Lump Of Heaven" the other: "On Going Consumption Capital" the other: "On Going Investment Capital"

*I did more this way but, will keep it short and simple for ease of reading!.

Eventually, I pulled out a separate piece of paper and I listed each item I would need to fulfill my little lump of heaven and then I listed each on going service I would probably require. I tried to tally up how much my on going residual/passive expenditures would be. And lastly I tried to envision which Investments I would probably purchase and how much I might be able to invest each month.

So after I did all my day dreaming and drooling at the good life, my paper looked something like this:

STATIC EXPENDITURES:
Lump Of Heaven:​

  1. Cost | Item
  2. $500,000 - A House Off The Shores Of Maine
  3. $250,000 - Certain Model Bentley
  4. $150,000 - Self Replenishing Electricity System
  5. $150,000 - Self Replenishing Water System
  6. ........$45 - Self Replenishing Supply Of MJ (no DeMarco)
  7. $100,000 - Self Replenishing Supply Of Food
  8. __________________
  9. __________________
  10. __________________
  11. __________________
    (You're trying to figure out which consumption obstacles/expenses you'll encounter only once and what they're price tag is.)
Total: $1,000,000

VARIABLE EXPENDITURES:
On Going Consumption Capital​

  1. Cost | Item
  2. ..$500 - A Human To Wash My Car
  3. ....$50 - A Human To Maintain My Hair
  4. $2500 - A Human To Maintain My House
  5. $2000 - A Human To Guard My House
  6. ..$900 - Health And Bodily Upkeep (If Not Expended Re-Invest In Security/Insurance Fund)
  7. ..$400 - Fueling My Vehicles
  8. __________________
  9. __________________
  10. __________________
  11. __________________
    (You're trying to figure out how much your total dream lifestyle would cost you each month to maintain.)
Total: $1,000,000

On Going Investment Capital​

  1. Cost | Item
  2. $100,000 - Gold & Silver
  3. $100,000 - Oil & Other Investment Grade Commodities
  4. $100,000 - Internet Start-Ups
  5. $100,000 - Brick And Mortar Business Systems
  6. $100,000 - Real Estate
  7. ..$400 - Fueling My Vehicles
  8. __________________
  9. __________________
  10. __________________
  11. __________________
    (You're trying to figure out how much your total dream investments would cost you each month to maintain.)
Total: $1,000,000

Well, then I began asking more questions like: If I need $1,000,000 to cover this bucket's monthly spill, how many people will I need patch it up by putting cash into this bucket every month? And at how many dollars per person will I need?

Ended up coming up with answers like: "You need 200,000 people sending you $5 a month to cover a $1,000,000 in expenditures. Well, they'll need to pay you more than that if you are going to fund it out of cashflows. You'll need to be able to retain $5 from your gross after COGS is dispensed with other Operating Costs. So maybe $3,000,000 ($15.00) total and $1,000,000 ($5.00) in cashflows. But, you need an audience of residually buying consumers."

Truly, I took it further than I originally intended but, I ended up finding out exactly what everything would cost.

Trying to figure out what the cost of the Cashflows will be to cover the Maintenance. LoL.

Overall, get started right now and try this exercise for yourself. Let your imagination fly and see what you can come up with!

Utilizing this exercise, I'm trying to change my reality. I drew a doodle to describe it, I think it's very intuitive.

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O'mm lpux ov xjip O'n vjios, O'mm xusl mitt epf cuev e muv nusi.

O xepv e coh Txep, e podi juati, epf nezci e Gisseso us vxu vu qmez xovj. Cav O'n nusi ug e qodlaq/Nisdifit haz.
 
O'mm ci vjisi xjip O dep caz nz qesipvt e juati epf neli tasi vjiz fu puv jewi vu xusl eheop.
 
Vji sietup O'n huoph vu mowi vji getvmepi ot qsidotimz vu ewuof fuoph xjev ot fitdsocif ecuwi.

O xepv vu 'qav iwiszvjoph up e miwim qmezoph goimf', og zua xomm. O'f moli vu veli nupiz uav ug vji iraevoup-- gus iwiszvjoph. Gus iyenqmi, og O xepv vu caz e des, O nohjv tez "Ximm, vji Woqis ot getv epf vji Nisdifit podi; xjz fup'v O katv caz vji Mencushjopo epf hiv vji citv ug cuvj xusmft?" Vji liz quopv jisi ot vjev O fup'v xepv vu jewi vu vemmz aq nupvjmz iyqiptit, ivd. Vu ni, vjev tohpogoit tmuxmepi cijewous, ev mietv vu tuni iyvipv.

Pux, O en tasi vu sap opvu qsucmint xovj vjot qjomutuqjz iesmz up op nz desiis et e getvmepv ipvsiqsipias. Ohpusoph nupiz xup'v neli nz mogi civvis ev emm; op emm siemovz, ov xuamf disveopmz duni cedl vu jeapv ni (apvom O edjoiwi vji miwim ug tadditt O fsien ug. Vjot tjuamf duni ev e disveop miwim, demm ov $50 nommoup).

O haitt vji quopv O'n vszoph vu neli jisi ot vjev O xup'v xepv vu tez vjev O xepv Y, Z, epf B epf vjip ci fupi. Tasi, og nz qettoup ot vji Mencushjopo csepf, O duamf xusl e tmuxmepi kuc, nuwi aq vji seplt, epf veli uav e nusvhehi up e Hemmesfu. O xepv e mogitvzmi tadj vjev O dep caz xjev O xepv, xjip O xepv, epf jux O xepv (pu gopepdoph!).

Ucwoutmz O'n fsienoph; nz gepvetz xusmf otp'v eweomecmi vu nutv. Juxiwis, O gosnmz cimoiwi vjev vji gostv tviq vuxesf edjoiwoph tadj e huem ot siduhpoboph vjev ov ot dunqmivimz quttocmi. NK, O vjopl zuas (emcoiv tjusv) dupwistevoup xovj vji Mencushjopo uxpis xjip zua xisi op zuas viipt siemmz tjuxif zua vjev vji mogitvzmi zua pux mief ot quttocmi. Vjot gusan jet fupi vji teni gus ni, epf gus vjev O vjepl zua epf uvjis optqosevoupem nincist.
 
Vjev't wisz apfistvepfecmi.

Gus ni vji cohhitv djemmiphi ot katv liiqoph emm vji hiest vaspoph op nz jief. Vjev't xjz O'wi ciip vszoph vu tonqmogz e muv ug vjot tvagg epf qav ov up e tjiiv ug qeqis. Vjev xez og vji ofiet iwis duni aq eheop epf O gopf e pix xez ug muuloph ev tunivjoph us qisgusnoph e vetl, O dep ipjepdi ov.
 
Tu zua'wi tiv e huem - pux xjev ot zuas tviq-cz-tviq edvoup qmep gus hivvoph vjisi?

Fuit vji qsutqidv ug tqipfoph $100,000 qis nupvj up cazoph epf jumfoph Humf/Tomwis, Uom, Siem Itvevi, Opvispiv Tvesv aqt, epf Catopittit siemmz iydovoph ipuahj gus zua vu gummux vjsuahj?

Og zua esi neloph $500,000 iyvse e nupvj, esi vjisi civvis vjopht zua dep ati vjev nupiz gus?

(Tofi raitvoup: Xjz fu zua xepv vu "fowistogz" tu nadj xovj zuas opwitvnipvt optvief ug gudatoph up upi us vxu?)
 
Upi ofie xuamf ci vu veli vjot e tviq gasvjis cz tivvoph aq e tqsieftjiiv vu muul ev zuas xepvt/piift uwis voni, tez e vip-zies us muphis voni jusobup. Ucwouatmz, emm ug vjot xiemvj ot puv huoph vu jeqqip ev upi nunipv apmitt zua xop vji Muvvu.

Tuni ug vji vjopht (ettivt) zua xepv vu edraosi fu puv siraosi vji ipvosi enuapv aq gsupv. Og zua jewi vji opduni vu taqqusv ov, nutv dep ci qasdjetif uwis voni. Zuas juati, eavut, eosqmepit, epf nadj nusi dep ci cuahjv xovj 20-25% fuxp epf enusvobif qeznipvt. Dewiev: fup'v caz vuu nadj vjot xez xovjuav tumof opduni vu taqqusv ov, epf qez vjopht ugg iesmz og zua dep. Vjot ot xjz O'n tahhitvoph vji tqsieftjiiv - vu muul ev vji quopv op voni ev xjodj zua xuamf ci ecmi vu cihop uxpoph vji ettiv. Vu ci siemmz eddasevi ecuav ov zua dep iwip opdmafi ettanqvoupt ecuav opgmevoup epf fotduapv vji gavasi dutv cedl vu qsitipv fez.

Opovoemmz, ov nelit vji nutv tipti vu opwitv et nadj et quttocmi op zuas catopitt, epf opwitvnipvt, cav iwipvaemmz vji opduni gsun vjuti xomm taqqusv vji qasdjeti ug vji gap tvagg. Citv ug madl up edjoiwoph zuas fsient.
 
Podi csiel fuxp ... nutv qiuqmi piwis hiv vjot ges tu qavvoph ov vu qeqis qavt zua mohjv ziest ejief ug zuas qiist. Tu pux xjev? Gostv, neli tasi zua cihop up vji sohjv qsinoti. O puvodif

"Siemovz E: Ov ot Nepfevusz vjev O xusl gus nupiz tu O duamf edraosi ettivt"

O fup'v moli jux vjev ot tvevif. Jux ecuav

"Siemovz E: Ov ot Nepfevusz vjev O CAOMF EPF DSIEVI ettivt vjev detj gmux epf eqqsidoevi op wemai"


Optvief ug e muph dmonc aq vji nuapveop, xjz puv katv caomf zuas uxp epf miv uvjis qiuqmi dmonc ov?
 
Duamf zua howi ep iyenqmi ug xjev lopf ug ettivt zua duamf caomf us dsievi?
 
Katv e gix vjev duni vu nopf ...

Epz vzqi ug xic catopitt ...
E tiswodi catopitt, vjip gsepdjotif. (Moli 1-800-Kapl)
E siveom catopitt, vjip gsepdjotif. (Moli vji xunep xju sipvt opgmevecmi kaphmi-kont)
Ep opwipvoup, tumf vu xjumitemi fotvsocavust.
 
Vji sietup O'n huoph vu mowi vji getvmepi ot qsidotimz vu ewuof fuoph xjev ot fitdsocif ecuwi.

O xepv vu 'qav iwiszvjoph up e miwim qmezoph goimf', og zua xomm. O'f moli vu veli nupiz uav ug vji iraevoup-- gus iwiszvjoph. Gus iyenqmi, og O xepv vu caz e des, O nohjv tez "Ximm, vji Woqis ot getv epf vji Nisdifit podi; xjz fup'v O katv caz vji Mencushjopo epf hiv vji citv ug cuvj xusmft?" Vji liz quopv jisi ot vjev O fup'v xepv vu jewi vu vemmz aq nupvjmz iyqiptit, ivd. Vu ni, vjev tohpogoit tmuxmepi cijewous, ev mietv vu tuni iyvipv.

Pux, O en tasi vu sap opvu qsucmint xovj vjot qjomutuqjz iesmz up op nz desiis et e getvmepv ipvsiqsipias. Ohpusoph nupiz xup'v neli nz mogi civvis ev emm; op emm siemovz, ov xuamf disveopmz duni cedl vu jeapv ni (apvom O edjoiwi vji miwim ug tadditt O fsien ug. Vjot tjuamf duni ev e disveop miwim, demm ov $50 nommoup).

O haitt vji quopv O'n vszoph vu neli jisi ot vjev O xup'v xepv vu tez vjev O xepv Y, Z, epf B epf vjip ci fupi. Tasi, og nz qettoup ot vji Mencushjopo csepf, O duamf xusl e tmuxmepi kuc, nuwi aq vji seplt, epf veli uav e nusvhehi up e Hemmesfu. O xepv e mogitvzmi tadj vjev O dep caz xjev O xepv, xjip O xepv, epf jux O xepv (pu gopepdoph!).

Ucwoutmz O'n fsienoph; nz gepvetz xusmf otp'v eweomecmi vu nutv. Juxiwis, O gosnmz cimoiwi vjev vji gostv tviq vuxesf edjoiwoph tadj e huem ot siduhpoboph vjev ov ot dunqmivimz quttocmi. NK, O vjopl zuas (emcoiv tjusv) dupwistevoup xovj vji Mencushjopo uxpis xjip zua xisi op zuas viipt siemmz tjuxif zua vjev vji mogitvzmi zua pux mief ot quttocmi. Vjot gusan jet fupi vji teni gus ni, epf gus vjev O vjepl zua epf uvjis optqosevoupem nincist.


Vjevt e hsiev xez vu cmux vjsuahj epz nupiz zua iwis neli epf jewi puvjoph. Etl Noli Vztup ji tqipv xjev $140n uwis e gix ziest.

Idu 101, situasdit opdmafoph deqovem esi gopovi, iwip Comm Hevit epf itqidoemz Xessip Caggiv vjopl ecuav xjev tvagg dutvt.

Puvjoph xsuph xovj cazoph e vuz us vxu og zua dep eggusf vjin. Cav tezoph, ejj ovt upmz nupiz epf huoph pavt ot e tasi xez vu ipf aq csuli.
 
Jiz hazt, O katv muhhif op gus vji gostv voni op e xjomi, O'mm hiv cedl up op vji nuspoph nezci cigusi O miewi epf tii og O dep siqmz vu vji qutvt.

Vjeplt gus vji opqav.
 
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