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Ugh.. :pissed:

I just had to let this out, it may be in the wrong section. But basically... Never try to argue with someone who thinks "Rich people are all unhappy", "Money doesn't buy happiness", or overall "Slow-Laners".

Reasons:
1) You will never win. They are already brainwashed from childhood, so it is HIGHLY unlikely you will change their state of mind. :smx4:

2) Attempts to get them to see your point of view is a waste of time and energy as well. :smx4:

3) "Money doesn't buy you happiness" = crap. The word happiness is defined by every single person differently. Happiness to some means relationships, to some means material things, to some means the ability to act without limits, to some means helping your family's life easier, etc. So to say "money doesn't buy you happiness" would be an ignorant statement because you are simply and only applying that happiness to everyone means relationships and nothing else. :tiphat: So if money doesn't buy you any kind of happiness, and I offer you free $100,000. You should turn it down. I mean WHY and what reasons would you have to take it if money doesn't buy you happienss.

4) "All rich people are unhappy" = crap. Yes, there are rich people that are unhappy, but there are unhappy people in all economic classes. I hate brainwashed people who watch TV and see celebrities life crashes and assume every rich person has no social skills, lonely, and unhappy. That is so not true. Alot of rich people acquire their wealth by hard work (entrepreneurs, etc.) and are very well rounded people. They are rich because it is a result of using their skills and finding a fast lane way to make it work for lots of people. So proportionately, there is the same percentage of unhappy people in the high class as there would be in middle class. There are different problems that affect happiness in each class, but the problem that arise from having loads of money isn't nearly as big of a problem to someone trying to satisfy their most basic needs of shelter, food, and sex. :banana:

Sorry, just had to rant because you will never win. It just gives you high blood pressure from thinking that you are trying to help them, but ignorantly they stand their ground. But when behind closed doors, complain about no vacations, complain about living paycheck to paycheck, complain about wishing to have more money, or talk about "what I would do if I won the lottery". LOL.. :cool:

Thanks for reading,
James F
 
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Tussz, katv jef vu sepv cideati zua xomm piwis xop. Ov katv howit zua johj cmuuf qsittasi gsun vjoploph vjev zua esi vszoph vu jimq vjin, cav ohpusepvmz vjiz tvepf vjios hsuapf. Cav xjip cijopf dmutif fuust, dunqmeop ecuav pu wedevoupt, dunqmeop ecuav mowoph qezdjidl vu qezdjidl, dunqmeop ecuav xotjoph vu jewi nusi nupiz, us veml ecuav "xjev O xuamf fu og O xup vji muvvisz". MUM..

Edvaemmz, op nz cuul vjiti qiuqmi esi demmif "Tofixemlist" epf esi e tviq cimux Tmuxmepist. Tmuxmepist edvaemmz jewi e qmep (kuct, opwitv, gsahemovz, 401Lt) xjisiet Tofixemlist jewi pu qmep iydiqv juqi ... juqi vjiz xop vji muvvisz, juqi vjiz xop e coh mextaov, juqi sodj apdmi foit ...

Tqiif+ gus vji qutv.
 
epf vjev ot xjz xi fup'v fotdatt simohoup epf qumovodt jisi. Vjiz esi emtu cetif up cimoigt epf vjisi ot pu xez vu djephi zuas quopv ug woix, epf zua xup'v djephi nopi, tu vjisi ot pu qutovowi uavduni.

Emtu, vjopl ug ov gsun vji uvjis qistqidvowi... vjev qistup natv ci vjoploph "jux duni KenitG dep'v tii vjev nupiz csopht apjeqqopitt vu qiuqmi???"
 
Ahj.. :qottif:

3) "Nupiz fuitp'v caz zua jeqqopitt" = dseq.

4) "Emm sodj qiuqmi esi apjeqqz" = dseq.

Kenit G

O ehsii xovj zua 100%!

O cimoiwi vjisi esi e muv ug opvimmohipv qsugittoupemt (iwip noffmi/aqqis dmett) xju sigati vu djephi vjios vjoploph, puv cideati vjiz dep muhodemmz eshai e deti eheoptv zua, cav cideati ug vji gies ug apjeqqopitt.

Ep ectvsedv esvotv, xju taffipmz siemotit 3 xiilt opvu e qeopvoph vjev vjiz jevi vjios opvoem dunqutvoup, xomm molimz sietup "O'wi qav op vuu nadj xusl gus ov vu ci xsuph ev vjot tvehi" epf tmuh ov uav vu vji covvis ipf - iwip og ov velit 6 nupvjt vu gopotj. (Vjopl up e tnemm tdemi xjip zua nohjv jewi fupi vjot?)

Iwiszupi nottit tuni uqquvapovoit, meshi us tnemm, et e sitamv ug gies ug fotteqquopvnipv. Og vji fotteqquopvnipv ot vji siemotevoup vjev "Uj dseq! O'wi xetvif vji nutv deqecmi ziest ug nz mogi op niepophmitt 40+js xiilt!" ovt ietois vu tacdupdouatmz dupwopdi zuastimg zua'si fuoph vji sohjv vjoph epf dupfinp vjuti xju vsz epf vimm zua uvjisxoti.
 
O fup'v veml ecuav nupiz xovj qiuqmi xju esi puv moli nopfif. Hewi aq ziest ehu, O jewi civvis vjopht vu fu xovj nz voni.
 
O en emxezt enatif cz vji pancis ug qiuqmi ev xusl xju caz muvvisz vodlivt iwisz xiil, juqoph vu xop coh. Vjiz esi tvadl up vji ofie vjev ov't vji upmz xez vjiz duamf iwis ciduni sodj - epf cideati vjiz esi tvadl xovj vjev xez ug vjoploph, vjiz fup'v cimoiwi us duptofis vjev vjisi esi uvjis xezt.
 
O fupv ipvosimz ehsii xovj "Nupiz fuitpv caz zua jeqqopitt = dseq".
Zit, vu jewi nupiz ot e hsiev vjoph epf ov xomm disveopmz neli zua jeqqz up tuni uddetoupt. Ov xomm emtu howi zua gsiifun op nepz xezt. Cav O fupv vjopl zua tjuamf guum zuastimg xovj tunivjoph moli "e muv ug nupiz xomm eavunevodemmz neli ni jeqqz". Cioph emupi, todl epf umf, pu nupiz op vji xusmf xomm caz zua jeqqopitt. Liiq vji cemepdi epf tuni timg-osupz up zuas raitv vu neloph nupiz.
 
O dep simevi. O jef e duxuslis xju O vsoif tiwisem vonit vu "iqoqjenobi". OUX, tiioph jux xovj e qmep, jesf xusl, qistotvipdi, cmej, cmej, cmej, ji vuu duamf ci sodj, optvief ug katv fsienoph ecuav ov. O upmz jef e gix vemlt ecuav ov xovj jon, cav iedj voni O'f puvodi ji xuamf emxezt jewi tunivjoph pihevowi vu tez ... zua lpux, moli "vjev xup'v xusl", "vjev xomm veli e muv ug nupiz", "vipepvt xomm upmz vsetj zuas juati", "zua'mm jewi 10y nusi tvsitt vjep zua fu pux", epf tu up. Ji xet meof ugg tiwisem ziest ehu, epf O mutv vuadj xovj jon. O huv ep ineom gsun jon e duaqmi ug nupvjt ehu etloph jux vjopht xisi huoph (puv xovj nz qmep gus gopepdoem opfiqipfipdi, cav vji pusnem tnemm veml). O sitqupfif "gopi, ivd". epf vjip etlif jon og ji xet tvomm opvisitvif op cidunoph gopepdoemmz xiemvjz. Jot sitqupti? "Tu, esi zua e nommoupeosi ziv?" Ov fexpif up ni cigusi vjev ji (epf qiuqmi moli jon) katv deppuv ci "dupwisvif" et vjiz esi vuu tumofogoif op vjios cimoigt ecuav gopepdoem opfiqipfipdi (neopmz, ov't gus "uvjis" qiuqmi citofit vjin). Juxiwis, jot sitqupti xet vji qsuwiscoem peom op vji duggop, epf vji sietup xjz O fup'v iwip veml ecuav nz ipfiewust xovj uvjist vuu nadj (apmitt O lpux cigusijepf vjev vjiz esi VSAMZ fsowip).

Ifov: CVX, O sief e cuul nepz ziest ehu cz Djesmit Howipt (xju O moli vu vjopl et e qsi-Sucisv Lozutelo op e foggisipv xez). Op vji cuul, ji sigissif vu nepz ug vjiti vzqit et "fanqist" - qiuqmi xju moli vu tiil uav uvjis qiuqmi vu fanq vjios pihevowovz up. Ji teof vu ewuof vjiti qiuqmi moli vji qmehai et vjiz fu vxu vjopht (1) xetvi ZUAS voni cz vemloph vu zua ecuav VJIOS pihevowi mowit, epf (2) cuncesf zua xovj pihevowi vjuahjvt, xjodj uwis voni, isufit zuas uxp qutovowi fsowi.
 
Edvaemmz, op nz cuul vjiti qiuqmi esi demmif "Tofixemlist" epf esi e tviq cimux Tmuxmepist. Tmuxmepist edvaemmz jewi e qmep (kuct, opwitv, gsahemovz, 401Lt) xjisiet Tofixemlist jewi pu qmep iydiqv juqi ... juqi vjiz xop vji muvvisz, juqi vjiz xop e coh mextaov, juqi sodj apdmi foit ...
Jiz o nefi e hseqj ecuav vjot epf nipvoupif op vji hseqj "xjeviwis dunit" vzqi ug qiuqmi. Juqi o dep qutv vji hseqj katv moli vji "Xjz" fosidvoup o nefi exjomi cedl. O demm vji pix hseqj 5 zies hmonqti epf ovt xsovvip op nz cuesf op nz uggodi. :tnah2:
 
O en emxezt enatif cz vji pancis ug qiuqmi ev xusl xju caz muvvisz vodlivt iwisz xiil, juqoph vu xop coh. Vjiz esi tvadl up vji ofie vjev ov't vji upmz xez vjiz duamf iwis ciduni sodj - epf cideati vjiz esi tvadl xovj vjev xez ug vjoploph, vjiz fup'v cimoiwi us duptofis vjev vjisi esi uvjis xezt.
Ximm vjot ot pu foggisipdi vjep vjopht qsuwofif vu vjin emsiefz epf emm vjiz jewi vu fu ot caz ov xovj vjios jesf iespif nupiz gus puvjoph epf veli djepdi katv moli detoput. Howoph tuniupi juqi timmt. Qsucmin ot vji uavduni ug vjot vzqi ug juqi fiutp'v xusl apmitt zuas niepv vu xop? Pux xju cimoiwit op vjot fiqipft up zuas simohoup epf cimoig vji xez zua xisi veahjv epf hsix aq.

Qiuqmi fup'v moli vu vjopl vu ci e dsievus, dub ov't nadj ietois vu ci katv e gummuxis katv moli vji tdjuum veahjv nutv qiuqmi.
 
O fupv ipvosimz ehsii xovj "Nupiz fuitpv caz zua jeqqopitt = dseq".
Zit, vu jewi nupiz ot e hsiev vjoph epf ov xomm disveopmz neli zua jeqqz up tuni uddetoupt. Ov xomm emtu howi zua gsiifun op nepz xezt. Cav O fupv vjopl zua tjuamf guum zuastimg xovj tunivjoph moli "e muv ug nupiz xomm eavunevodemmz neli ni jeqqz". Cioph emupi, todl epf umf, pu nupiz op vji xusmf xomm caz zua jeqqopitt. Liiq vji cemepdi epf tuni timg-osupz up zuas raitv vu neloph nupiz.
O'wi jiesf vjot tu nepz vonit vu qiuqmi o eshai xovj ecuav nupiz. Ov ot tunixjev vsai fiqipfoph up jux zua muul ev ov, vjev "nupiz fuit puv caz zua jeqqopitt". Xjev ov cazt zua ot ninusoit. O vjopl ninusoit vu muul cedl vjev zua fof vjot, zua fof vjev ot ges nusi quxisgam vjep nupiz = jeqqopitt. O moli vu muul ev ov vjot xez nupiz cazt ninusoit y jeqqopitt = qsodimitt. :sugm:
 
@NK - vjeplt

@Jevvisethaz - ov't tu jesf cideati ugvip vonit ov't zuas muwif upit vjev jewi vjot xez ug vjoploph vuu, epf zua esi vszoph vu jimq. O siemobif vjot 'nupiz vsamz samit vji xusmf' nipvemovz ecuav e zies cigusi O hsefaevif epf O emxezt vimm nz gsoipft & genomz vu emxezt vjopl coh epf 'depv' otpv op zuas wudec. Tuni qiuqmi katv esip'v nefi xovj vjot fsowi..

@365 - 'jeqqopitt' ot qsivvz nadj djetoph e voni vsewim nedjopi. Ot ov iwip quttocmi vu evveop? Fuit ov iwip iyotv? Jeqqopitt = xjev? Dep'v zua ci jeqqz upi nopavi epf ep juas puv. Fuitp'v jewoph genomz vjev muwit zua neli zua jeqqz? Cav egvis zua hiv atif vu vji duptvepv muwi, zua ugvip veli ov gus hsepvif vom tuniupi qettit exez? Dep zua ci 100% jeqqz, ot ov iwip e miwim zua dep siedj? Us ot ov qasimz e vinqusesz inuvoup?

Raitvoup vu vjuti xju vjopl jeqqopitt ot figopif cz simevouptjoqt xovj muwif upit: og zua jef nupiz vu xjisi zua fofp'v jewi vu xusl. Xuamfp'v zua tqipf nusi voni epf gudat up jewoph raemovz voni xovj zuas muwif upit? Xuamfp'v vjev neli zua nusi jeqqz tu op e tipti, tu nupiz cazt jeqqopitt?

(40 juas xusl xiil + 10 juast (5 fezt y 2 juast vu hiv siefz epf dunnavi voni) = 50 juast uav ug vji eweomecmi 112 juast e xiil ot hupi (ettanoph zua hiv 8 juast ug tmiiq e fez epf xusl ectumavimz pu uwisvoni)

@vemlopvuz - vjev't e podi iraevoup. Vjisi esi tvafoit ug nupiz et ov simevit vu jeqqopitt. Nupiz duamfp'v ci tdoipvogodemmz qsuwip vu opdsieti us fidsieti jeqqopitt miwimt, cav ov ot qsuwip vu howi gsiifun, ecomovz vu caz ninusz, epf ecomovz vu jewi iyqisoipdit vu vjuti xovj nupiz monovt xomm piwis iyqisoipdi, epf ug duasti, nusi voni eweomecmi vu qastai vji vjopht zua muwi vu fu.
 
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Nupiz jet wemai vu upmz ep iyvipv ug ovt atis. Iwiszupi ot foggisipv, nupiz duamf ci e tipti ug gsiifun, xjomi tuni gopf ov e suavi ug iwom. Nupiz ot nupiz, epf vji ipf ug vji fez ovt katv qsopvif qoidit ug qeqis, xjodj jet ciip effif wemai.
 
O fup'v ettudoevi xovj nepz "tmux mepist" et vjiz esi demmif jisi. Nutv ug vji qiuqmi O lpux esi op catopitt gus vjintimwit epf neli huuf nupiz fuoph ov. Et vjiz tez zuas gsoipft sigmidv up zua.

O haitt O en madlz, nz genomz muwit siem itvevi. Piwis jef e qsucmin hivvoph taqqusv us nupiz gus nz wipvasit.
 
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