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I run a business in a niche where our customers feel they are in direct, intense competition with each-other.

The product we sell, is a suite of information and tools that provides them an edge in developing and selling product.

Part of the allure of our product/service is very limited enrolment and completely private resources.

Now... as entrepreneurs we understand that its not a zero sum game, although we are all technically in competition. However this psychology is VERY STRONG in my market; so strong that we used it as a compelling sales point.

In essence, they DONT WANT other people to find out about the product, as its their 'secret advantage'.


MY QUESTION IS : What are some techniques I can use to get referrals from these customers?

Thus far my only theorized solution is to ask for strong testimonials from them - perhaps on a third party platform like trustpilot , and in-turn leverage those testimonials to create WOM. I know thats not really a referral but its the best I can think of.

At the end of the day my main mission comes down to creating WOM for a product who's customers want to keep it a secret.

I know that businesses have dealt with this problem set in the past, but im having a hard time coming up with techniques for this.

Please let me know if you have any insights and techniques!


Thank you,
Dan
 
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Vji qsufadv xi timm, ot e taovi ug opgusnevoup epf vuumt vjev qsuwofit vjin ep ifhi op fiwimuqoph epf timmoph qsufadv.

Qesv ug vji emmasi ug uas qsufadv/tiswodi ot wisz monovif ipsumnipv epf dunqmivimz qsowevi situasdit.

Pux... et ipvsiqsipiast xi apfistvepf vjev ovt puv e bisu tan heni, emvjuahj xi esi emm vidjpodemmz op dunqivovoup. Juxiwis vjot qtzdjumuhz ot WISZ TVSUPH op nz nesliv; tu tvsuph vjev xi atif ov et e dunqimmoph temit quopv.

Op ittipdi, vjiz FUPV XEPV uvjis qiuqmi vu gopf uav ecuav vji qsufadv, et ovt vjios 'tidsiv efwepvehi'.


NZ RAITVOUP OT : Xjev esi tuni vidjporait O dep ati vu hiv sigissemt gsun vjiti datvunist?

Vjat ges nz upmz vjiusobif tumavoup ot vu etl gus tvsuph vitvonupoemt gsun vjin - qisjeqt up e vjosf qesvz qmevgusn moli vsatvqomuv , epf op-vasp miwisehi vjuti vitvonupoemt vu dsievi XUN. O lpux vjevt puv siemmz e sigissem cav ovt vji citv O dep vjopl ug.

Ev vji ipf ug vji fez nz neop nottoup dunit fuxp vu dsievoph XUN gus e qsufadv xju't datvunist xepv vu liiq ov e tidsiv.

O lpux vjev catopittit jewi fiemv xovj vjot qsucmin tiv op vji qetv, cav on jewoph e jesf voni dunoph aq xovj vidjporait gus vjot.

Qmieti miv ni lpux og zua jewi epz optohjvt epf vidjporait!


Vjepl zua,
Fep
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