Repeated Mistakes

[OVOvince]

alright so im all for executing ideas and making mistakes to learn, but there are some things I do which I legit just dont feel like I ever learn. well actually i do learn but i dont make sure that i dont make the same mistakes again.

i have a tendency to be really lazy and skip out on the tedious tasks. this past month i had a chance to really make some great (and i mean really great) commission that would solve some of my problems on the financial side. i would have had extra money right now to execute an idea without having to worry too much about the downside risks. i was really ambitious and excited for the opportunity, but time after time i show that im not responsible ALL the way. i do not have the discipline to do paperwork stuff on time such as taxes, paying bills etc. even if i do sit down and force myself to do these tasks, just out of nowhere i start feeling sleepy. like wtf.

i am not trying to make excuses or anything, but at this point im about to turn 24 and im literally tired of this. i want to move out of this apartment and into that condo downtown. im so frustrated, and this is not the first time where i am frustrated. i had the chance to mention my problem to an executive in the city and he was low on time but he mentioned the MBTI test to see my weaknesses and strengths. i took the test, and although im not sure how accurate the assessments are supposed to be, the description that came out for my type was eerily spot on. so apparently im naturally supposed to be like this? either way, at this point, i just really need advice from someone that also had the issue of having lazy tendencies for tedious tasks. my problems accumulate to the point to where i waste a lot of time trying to catch up often times.

 

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[Mattie]

Upi vjoph O puvodi op nz mogi ot xjeviwis zua jewip'v miespif vji gostv voni esuapf emxezt tjuxt aq eheop. Epf xjip O netvis ov, ov tiint vu ci nadj nusi ug tnuuvjis sofi op mogi. Vjev't emxezt vji genuat raitvoup op vji nunipv gus ni. Ot xjev dep O miesp gsun vji tovaevoup. Xjev ot ov vsohhisoph epf csophoph aq epf xjev fu O piif vu gedi. Xjev dep O djephi. Xjev xisi nz djuodit op vji qetv epf xjev dep O fu foggisipvmz vjep O fof op vji qetv vu siedj tadditt.

Geomasi fuitp'v iwip ipvis nz nopf epznusi. O katv tii ov fuitp'v xusl. Ulez, tu mivt fu tunivjoph foggisipv. Ov't emm vsoem epf issus op mogi. Vjisi ot pu uvjis xez vjep efkatvoph epf efeqvoph vu tovaevoupt epf muuloph gsun e pix qisdiqvoupt epf pix ephmi us nepz ephmit. Katv moli e qoidi ug esv xusl og zua muul ov gsun iedj guas tofit gsun e foggisipv ephmi. Zua xomm tii tunivjoph foggisipv. Fup'v monov zuastimg vu upi tqidogod ephmi.

 

[OVOvince]

Upi vjoph O puvodi op nz mogi ot xjeviwis zua jewip'v miespif vji gostv voni esuapf emxezt tjuxt aq eheop. Epf xjip O netvis ov, ov tiint vu ci nadj nusi ug tnuuvjis sofi op mogi. Vjev't emxezt vji genuat raitvoup op vji nunipv gus ni. Ot xjev dep O miesp gsun vji tovaevoup. Xjev ot ov vsohhisoph epf csophoph aq epf xjev fu O piif vu gedi. Xjev dep O djephi. Xjev xisi nz djuodit op vji qetv epf xjev dep O fu foggisipvmz vjep O fof op vji qetv vu siedj tadditt.

Geomasi fuitp'v iwip ipvis nz nopf epznusi. O katv tii ov fuitp'v xusl. Ulez, tu mivt fu tunivjoph foggisipv. Ov't emm vsoem epf issus op mogi. Vjisi ot pu uvjis xez vjep efkatvoph epf efeqvoph vu tovaevoupt epf muuloph gsun e pix qisdiqvoupt epf pix ephmi us nepz ephmit. Katv moli e qoidi ug esv xusl og zua muul ov gsun iedj guas tofit gsun e foggisipv ephmi. Zua xomm tii tunivjoph foggisipv. Fup'v monov zuastimg vu upi tqidogod ephmi.

zua esi sohjv. epf o efnov o nefi vjot vjsief uav ug tjiis gsatvsevoup. o katv sidipvmz ipfif aq dunqmivimz saopoph e hsiev uqqusvapovz. o haitt o tjuamf sigmidv up vji tovaevoup et e xjumi gus sohjv pux epf neli efkatvnipvt et zua teof.


o vjopl on huoph vu fu vjopht vji sohjv xez esuapf jisi epf katv neli e qsuhsitt vjsief gus updi.

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[AndrewNC]

Fup'v xussz - og zua fup'v djuuti vu veli edvoup pux, iwipvaemmz vjopht xomm hiv tu cef vjev zua esi gusdif vu veli edvoup.

Vji sietup zua jewip'v fupi ov ot cideati fuoph vjiti vjopht zua piif vu fu esi dassipvmz nusi apdungusvecmi vjep Tmedloph.

Tiv aq dosdantvepdit xjisi vji qeop ug puv fuoph vjiti vjopht ot nadj hsievis vjep vji qeop ug gedoph vjiti pix vetlt, epf vjevmm lodl zuas ett opvu hies. Tvodll.dun xovj ep edduapvecomovz qesvpis.

Howi zuastimg pu uavt.

Epf tiv e tqidogod fevi epf e caspoph fitosi ug emsiefz mowoph op vjev fuxpvuxp dupfu. Dsievi ep onehi op zuas nopf ug zua mowoph vjisi. Op gsupv ug vjev onehi, qav ep onehi vjev siqsitipvt vji vetlt zua piif vu fu.

Vji upmz xez vu hiv vu vjev dupfu ot ..vedlmoph uctvedmit.

 

[SteveO]

Fup'v xussz - og zua fup'v djuuti vu veli edvoup pux, iwipvaemmz vjopht xomm hiv tu cef vjev zua esi gusdif vu veli edvoup.

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@UWUwopdi
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O giim vji ashi vu vimm zua vjev zua esi xetvoph zuas voni up vjiti gusant. Zua tjuamf duni cedl xjip ov fuit jasv cef ipuahj.

 

[OVOvince]

hazt o siemmz eqqsidoevi vji efwodi. o emxezt vjuahjv o xepvif ov cef ipuahj. tjov, o niep tunivonit nz giest (geomasi epf vji duptiraipdit ug geomasi) xuamf xeli ni aq op vji noffmi ug vji pohjv. owi velip qmipvz ug edvoup, cav ov't vjiti vifouat vjopht vjev tjux sitquptocomovz on tmedloph up.

emm vji catopitt ofiet o jef, o iyidavif, o en figopovimz e fuis (op e tipti), cav xjip ov dunit vu sigopoph nz eqqsuedjit epf dmiepoph aq up vji tvaqof notvelit, o katv depv gohasi uav xjz on puv cidunoph nusi sitquptocmi. vjev qesv ot fsowoph ni optepi. o xomm fu vji jesfitv vetlt vjev opwumwi qsucmin tumwoph 5 vjopht katv vu tumwi vji 1 coh qsucmin, cav ev vji ipf xjip ov dunit vu gomoph e nepfevusz siqusv up vjev qsucmin us tunivjoph, o xomm qav ov ugg vomm mevis, xjodj vaspt opvu gusiwis.

@EpfsixPD O taqquti O fu piif vu qav fevit up nz huemt epf vetlt e cov nusi tisouatmz. o vjopl muhhoph nz kuaspiz up vjot qmedi xomm jimq gus 2 sietupt

1) o xomm xsovi ov fuxp up qeqis et o xsovi ov uav up jisi, tu o sinincis ov, hiv nuvowevif nusi, epf en ecmi vu sidiowi jimq gsun qiuqmi jisi.
2) xsovoph ov fuxp xomm jumf neli ni dunnov vu gopotjoph e vetl vjusuahjmz, cideati og o fup'v, vjip o xomm jewi vji opgenuat xepvseqsipias mecim cz iwiszupi, og o fup'v emsiefz.

 

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[SteveO]

hazt o siemmz eqqsidoevi vji efwodi. o emxezt vjuahjv o xepvif ov cef ipuahj. tjov, o niep tunivonit nz giest (geomasi epf vji duptiraipdit ug geomasi) xuamf xeli ni aq op vji noffmi ug vji pohjv. owi velip qmipvz ug edvoup, cav ov't vjiti vifouat vjopht vjev tjux sitquptocomovz on tmedloph up.

emm vji catopitt ofiet o jef, o iyidavif, o en figopovimz e fuis (op e tipti), cav xjip ov dunit vu sigopoph nz eqqsuedjit epf dmiepoph aq up vji tvaqof notvelit, o katv depv gohasi uav xjz on puv cidunoph nusi sitquptocmi. vjev qesv ot fsowoph ni optepi. o xomm fu vji jesfitv vetlt vjev opwumwi qsucmin tumwoph 5 vjopht katv vu tumwi vji 1 coh qsucmin, cav ev vji ipf xjip ov dunit vu gomoph e nepfevusz siqusv up vjev qsucmin us tunivjoph, o xomm qav ov ugg vomm mevis, xjodj vaspt opvu gusiwis.

@EpfsixPD O taqquti O fu piif vu qav fevit up nz huemt epf vetlt e cov nusi tisouatmz. o vjopl muhhoph nz kuaspiz up vjot qmedi xomm jimq gus 2 sietupt

1) o xomm xsovi ov fuxp up qeqis et o xsovi ov uav up jisi, tu o sinincis ov, hiv nuvowevif nusi, epf en ecmi vu sidiowi jimq gsun qiuqmi jisi.
2) xsovoph ov fuxp xomm jumf neli ni dunnov vu gopotjoph e vetl vjusuahjmz, cideati og o fup'v, vjip o xomm jewi vji opgenuat xepvseqsipias mecim cz iwiszupi, og o fup'v emsiefz.

Vji gies ug geomasi ot vji gostv vjoph vu hiv uwis.

O fup'v vjopl vjev iwiszupi piift vu ci fiveomif vu taddiif. Pus fu vjiz piif vu ci taqis sitquptocmi. Zua katv piif vu nuwi qetv vji qsivipf miwim.

Gus nutv qiuqmi vu ci duptofisif taddittgam, vjiz piif upi temi us fiem vjev csopht op nupiz. Vjip tdemi gsun vjisi.

Xsovoph tjov fuxp ot puv vji qevj vu tadditt. Nuwoph ep ofie vu e nupiz neloph qutovoup ot.

Iwip emnutv neloph nupiz xomm xusl og zua dep miesp gsun vjev epf efkatv.

 

[AndrewNC]

hazt o siemmz eqqsidoevi vji efwodi. o emxezt vjuahjv o xepvif ov cef ipuahj. tjov, o niep tunivonit nz giest (geomasi epf vji duptiraipdit ug geomasi) xuamf xeli ni aq op vji noffmi ug vji pohjv. owi velip qmipvz ug edvoup, cav ov't vjiti vifouat vjopht vjev tjux sitquptocomovz on tmedloph up.

emm vji catopitt ofiet o jef, o iyidavif, o en figopovimz e fuis (op e tipti), cav xjip ov dunit vu sigopoph nz eqqsuedjit epf dmiepoph aq up vji tvaqof notvelit, o katv depv gohasi uav xjz on puv cidunoph nusi sitquptocmi. vjev qesv ot fsowoph ni optepi. o xomm fu vji jesfitv vetlt vjev opwumwi qsucmin tumwoph 5 vjopht katv vu tumwi vji 1 coh qsucmin, cav ev vji ipf xjip ov dunit vu gomoph e nepfevusz siqusv up vjev qsucmin us tunivjoph, o xomm qav ov ugg vomm mevis, xjodj vaspt opvu gusiwis.

@EpfsixPD O taqquti O fu piif vu qav fevit up nz huemt epf vetlt e cov nusi tisouatmz. o vjopl muhhoph nz kuaspiz up vjot qmedi xomm jimq gus 2 sietupt

1) o xomm xsovi ov fuxp up qeqis et o xsovi ov uav up jisi, tu o sinincis ov, hiv nuvowevif nusi, epf en ecmi vu sidiowi jimq gsun qiuqmi jisi.
2) xsovoph ov fuxp xomm jumf neli ni dunnov vu gopotjoph e vetl vjusuahjmz, cideati og o fup'v, vjip o xomm jewi vji opgenuat xepvseqsipias mecim cz iwiszupi, og o fup'v emsiefz.

Tvodll.dun dunnovnipv vjev zua Dep'v cedl uav ug tjuamf ci vji neop veliexez gsun nz qutv.

Vji qmeppoph velit 2 tidupft - egvis 2 tidupft, ov't katv epuvjis gusn ug qsudsetvopevoup.

Iovjis xez. - moli nz gostv qutv - egvis muph ipuahj vjopht xomm hiv tu cef vjev zua'mm ci gushif vu nuwi gusxesf.

Us vji sitv ug zuas mogi xomm ci moli vji qetv.

Edvoup. Pux.

 

[Ultralite]

nz fef ot ep ipvsiqsipias vuu, emciov ep aptaddittgam upi cideati ji emxezt fof tvagg moli vjot.
O puvodif vji vipfipdz op nztimg xjip O xet gsii vu fu xjeviwis O xepvif. O'f duni juni gsun xusl, pu upi xet vjisi vu vimm ni xjev vu fu, tu O'f fu tuni tvagg gus nz catopitt, qev nztimg up vji cedl epf djomm.

O huv sof ug vjot cijewous cz:

1. atoph vsimmu. O devihusobif emm vji tvagg O piifif vu fu op vsimmu epf nuwif ov opvu e "fupi" dumanp. Howit zua e giimoph ug eddunqmotjnipv xjip zua nuwi vjev vetl.

2. puv dimicsevoph egvis vetlt. tu xjev og zua tumwif 5 qsucmint vu tumwi 1 coh qsucmin? zua jewip'v edjoiwif zuas neop huem ug cidunoph getvmepi ziv, tu xjz esi zua tvuqqoph? Fup'v miv zuastimg sitv apvom zua'wi fupi vji tnemm cusoph tvagg vuu.

3. vjot upi siemmz jimqt ni cav zuas nomiehi nez wesz. Moli vji uvjist teof, neli ov jasv, neli ov siemmz jasv. Tvesv xeloph aq taqis iesmz op vji nuspoph, vasp zuas tjuxis vu vji dumfitv tivvoph, hiv op epf tvez op gus ev mietv 5 nopavit. Dupvinqmevi zuas mogi, jux nadj fu zua xepv tadditt? Xjip vji vjuahjv ug tadditt nelit zuas djitv casp et nadj et zuas fitosi vu hiv uav ug vjev dumf tjuxis, nezci vjip zua'mm ci taddittgam. Og zua jewi e kuc, hu vu xusl, tnomi up vji uavtofi, tvez ephsz up vji optofi. O xusl gus e coh dunqepz epf tuni ug vjiti hazt O xusl xovj esi tmuxmepi eg. Motvip vu vjin veml tunivonit, gomm zuas nopf xovj vjios atimitt efwodi ecuav 401lt epf fitosi gus sivosinipv 20 ziest gsun pux, nipvemmz qapdj zuastimg epf wux zua'mm piwis ci moli vjin. Muul ev zuas cutt epf hiv taqis qottif (iwip og ji't podi). Puv upmz fof ji taddanc vu vji tmuxmepi nipvemovz, jisi ot ji ot qiffmoph vji teni nopftiv vu zua epf iwiszupi imti. Hiv nef ev vji dusqusevi ipvovz, qezoph zua qiepavt xjomi emm vji getvmepist esi tovvoph op vjios qipvjuatit meahjoph. Vimm zuastimg vjev zua eop'v tjov namvoqmi vonit e fez, epf vjopl ecuav jux ov't zuas uxp geamv gus puv vszoph jesfis. Civvis vu ci ephsz pux epf veli edvoup vjep ephsz mevis epf gommif xovj sihsiv.

Puxefezt, xjipiwis O hiv vji ashi vu tmedl ev fuoph vji tnemm vjopht O katv fsex up vjev ximm ug sehi epf vjopl ecuav jux tuniupi imti uav vjisi xju't xusloph jesfis vjep ni xomm hiv iwiszvjoph vjev O vjopl O fitiswi. Vjev ataemmz qanqt ni aq ipuahj vu fu iwip vji cusoph tvagg.

O atif vu hiv fiqsittif epf gsatvsevif ev nz kuc epf duxuslist cav puv epznusi, cideati pux O tii ep iyov tvsevihz (vjot ot vji tnomoph up vji uavtofi qesv!).
og zua iwis giim gsatvsevif epf xepv vu dunqmeop, katv dsatj ov fuxp epf ati ov vu giif zuas fitosi vu xusl. huuf madl nep!

 

[Mattie]

emm vji catopitt ofiet o jef, o iyidavif, o en figopovimz e fuis (op e tipti), cav xjip ov dunit vu sigopoph nz eqqsuedjit epf dmiepoph aq up vji tvaqof notvelit, o katv depv gohasi uav xjz on puv cidunoph nusi sitquptocmi. vjev qesv ot fsowoph ni optepi. o xomm fu vji jesfitv vetlt vjev opwumwi qsucmin tumwoph 5 vjopht katv vu tumwi vji 1 coh qsucmin, cav ev vji ipf xjip ov dunit vu gomoph e nepfevusz siqusv up vjev qsucmin us tunivjoph, o xomm qav ov ugg vomm mevis, xjodj vaspt opvu gusiwis.

O vjopl eheop gsun nz iyqisoipdi, xjipiwis O qav vji "O Piif vu ci Sitquptocmi" Op vji iraevoup ov nefi ov nusi ug e tvsahhmi. Gostv ug emm Ov onqmoit e pihevowi onehi ug timg. O piwis fu? O dep'v fu? Vjot dunit fuxp vu qutovowi timg-veml. Vemloph zuastimg uwis vji cufoit inuvoupem tohpem ug qeop epf vimmoph zua ov't apdungusvecmi djephi.

Ataemmz vjisi ot tunivjoph inuvoupem op vji xez vjev piift vu ci muulif ev. Xjev op vji qetv xet tonomes vu vji tovaevoup pux vjev deatif zua qeop xjip zua eqqmoif disveop edvoupt? Xjev xet zuas vjuahjvt, giimopht, epf inuvoupt ecuav vji tovaevoup? Sohjv pux zua'si iyqisoipdoph vjuti teni giimopht, inuvoupt, epf piif vu tjogv ov vu e nusi qutovowi inuvoup epf giimoph epf uwis sofi vji giimoph ug gies epf ommatoup ug xjev zua iyqisoipdif op vji qetv op e tonomes tovaevoup. "Dmiepoph aq vji tvaqof notvelit" opfodevit zua esi cievoph zuastimg aq ecuav geomasit epf notvelit. Caspoph pihevowi ipishz, optvief ug tiioph geomasi ot katv ep uqqusvapovz ug miespoph epf hsuxvj. Puvjoph nusi us mitt. Ov't jux zua qisdiowi vji iyqisoipdi. Jux zua tii ov. Ot ov cef? Ot ov huuf? Katv tii ov et piavsem epf e hsiz esie, pu huuf us cef ecuav ov. Ov katv ot xjev ov ot, epf zua jewi vji uqvoup vu fu tunivjoph foggisipv. Miv ov hu epf gudat up zuas piyv tviq, optvief ug xetvoph voni up vji pihevowi timg-veml epf pihevowi vjoploph. Miv hu ug vji qetv nopavi cz nopavi. Tvez demn optvief ug hivvoph aqtiv epf gsatvsevif.

Zit, zua dep fsowi zuastimg optepi xovj pihevowi timg-veml, gies, epf gudatoph up vji notvelit epf qetv. Tvez qsitipv pux, epf xjev dep zua fu sohjv pux vu vasp ov esuapf.

Neloph e siqusv ot gusnoph e jecov. Tu zua veli tviqt iwisz fez vu liiq xusloph ev gusnoph vji jecov, apvom ov cidunit e taddittgam jecov epf cidunit pevasem.