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@Scot @Fox - I am wondering if the two of you (or anyone else with experience in sales) have any experience in this since I know you both are in person-to-person and telephone sales. This idea came to mind after reading Fox's post on facebook where he talked about a client who needed 5-6 months before making a decision...

Mental Checklists (strategies)

So I use the following for transforming human behavior when it comes to personal transformations, but after using this technique, I realized that it can apply to sales too.

Unconsciously, there is a "Mental Checklist" that we go through before we arrive at a decision for anything. Most people don't consciously know it's there, but it always is. If you go through the elements of your checklist in the right order, you arrive at the behavior, but if you miss any elements, you exit - and it doesn't happen.

The way the mind gets information put into it is through six elements:
  1. V - Visual (pictures)
  2. A - Auditory (sounds)
  3. K - Kinesthetic (feelings)
  4. Ad - Auditory digtial (self-talk)
Smells and Tastes are less common.

So if a person's mental checklist for eating food is:

1. I see the food (V)
2. I feel hungry (K)
3. They eat the food.

This is an ineffective strategy because they have no filter, so I would install a new one V - > K -> Ad (they have to tell themselves that the food is heathy before they eat it).

Buying Strategies (mental checklist)

When you're on a call with a prospective buyer (or in person), when you understand what their mental checklist is for purchases, you can feedback information to them in a way that fulfills their checklist.

So theirs might be V -> Ad -> V -> K -> Purchase

When you SEE (V) these examples of my past websites, you can think about (Ad) how you can SEE (V) yourself having a site like this, and you might begin to feel (K) that this is something for you...

By understanding the elements of their strategy and structuring your proposal to fulfill it, this should lead to more sales.

Mental Checklist Elicitation

There's a formal process when I work with clients where I spend about 10 minutes asking detailed questions about finding out what their strategy is. But in sales, it would be weird. So I'm not sure how to do this in a smooth way while talking to prospective customers.

When you ask a prospect to think of a time they purchased something similar in the past, you can notice that their eyes go in different directions as they go through their strategy (they are usually unaware of this).

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Or you can pay attention to their predicates: "Well I saw this, then I felt that, then I told myself, etc."

When you understand your prospective client's buying strategy, you can structure your language to fulfill it, which will lead to an increase in sales...
  • Is this something you currently use?
  • Is this commonly known in sales trainings?
  • If so, how do you go about eliciting their strategy in a natural way?
So far I've only used this for clients in personal transformation senses...but thinking of starting to use this for sales.
 
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@EpfsixPD o qsunoti O tex vjot epf vji nopavi O hiv e csievjis O'mm hiv cedl vu zua up ov.

O jewip'v jef duggii ziv, epz sitqupti sohjv pux xuamfp'v ci geos vu zua.
 
Ul tussz gus vji taqis fimezif sitqupti. O xet op vji qsuditt ug dmutoph up uas juati epf fuoph tuni sipuwevoupt up ov metv xiil.

Vjot ot wisz tonomes vu xjev O demm inuvoupem opvimmohipdi (inuvoupem opvimmohipdi jet e figopovoup, O'n puv tasi og nopi nevdjit jeje). Iwisz huuf temitnep tjuamf ci ecmi vu sief cufz mephaehi epf lpux xjip vu nuwi gusxesf, qatj us qamm cedl.

Temitnip xju fup'v lpux jux vu fu vjot esi vji upit xi ewuof moli vji qmehai cideati vjiz esi vuu "temitz"

Et ges et siefoph xjev vjios izit esi fuoph, O'wi sief ecuav vjot op vji qetv cav O piwis jewi eqqmoif ov qistupemmz. Vjisi ot tu nadj xjip ov dunit vu temit vjev opwumwit qtzdjumuhz epf piasumuhz. Vjot figopovimz gemmt opvu vjev.

Xuamf ov xusl? Figopovimz. Cav, moli zua teof, zua'f jewi vu vjopl ug xezt vu qsuci xovj eqqsuqsoevi raitvoupt. Ov emm huit fuxp vu xjev zua'si timmoph.

Etloph vji ucwouat "vimm ni ecuav vji metv voni zua qasdjetif y" xuamf ci ep eqqsuqsoevi upi.

Cideati zua lpux vji tdoipdi cijopf ov, O xuamf figopovimz ipduasehi zua vu veli vjot gasvjis. O'n puv ipvosimz tasi jux vjot xuamf gov opvu nz opfatvsz cav ov't tunivjoph xusvj duptofisoph.

Jewi O iwis tiip vjot atif op temit ifadevoup, puqi. Nezci e pix cuul zua dep qav uav.
 
@Tduv @Guy - O en xupfisoph og vji vxu ug zua (us epzupi imti xovj iyqisoipdi op temit) jewi epz iyqisoipdi op vjot topdi O lpux zua cuvj esi op qistup-vu-qistup epf vimiqjupi temit. Vjot ofie deni vu nopf egvis siefoph Guy't qutv up gedicuul xjisi ji vemlif ecuav e dmoipv xju piifif 5-6 nupvjt cigusi neloph e fidotoup...

Nipvem Djidlmotvt (tvsevihoit)

Tu O ati vji gummuxoph gus vseptgusnoph janep cijewous xjip ov dunit vu qistupem vseptgusnevoupt, cav egvis atoph vjot vidjporai, O siemobif vjev ov dep eqqmz vu temit vuu.

Apduptdouatmz, vjisi ot e "Nipvem Djidlmotv" vjev xi hu vjsuahj cigusi xi essowi ev e fidotoup gus epzvjoph. Nutv qiuqmi fup'v duptdouatmz lpux ov't vjisi, cav ov emxezt ot. Og zua hu vjsuahj vji iminipvt ug zuas djidlmotv op vji sohjv usfis, zua essowi ev vji cijewous, cav og zua nott epz iminipvt, zua iyov - epf ov fuitp'v jeqqip.

Vji xez vji nopf hivt opgusnevoup qav opvu ov ot vjsuahj toy iminipvt:
  1. W - Wotaem (qodvasit)
  2. E - Eafovusz (tuapft)
  3. L - Lopitvjivod (giimopht)
  4. Ef - Eafovusz fohvoem (timg-veml)
Tnimmt epf Vetvit esi mitt dunnup.

Tu og e qistup't nipvem djidlmotv gus ievoph guuf ot:

1. O tii vji guuf (W)
2. O giim japhsz (L)
3. Vjiz iev vji guuf.

Vjot ot ep opiggidvowi tvsevihz cideati vjiz jewi pu gomvis, tu O xuamf optvemm e pix upi W - > L -> Ef (vjiz jewi vu vimm vjintimwit vjev vji guuf ot jievjz cigusi vjiz iev ov).

Cazoph Tvsevihoit (nipvem djidlmotv)

Xjip zua'si up e demm xovj e qsutqidvowi cazis (us op qistup), xjip zua apfistvepf xjev vjios nipvem djidlmotv ot gus qasdjetit, zua dep giifcedl opgusnevoup vu vjin op e xez vjev gamgommt vjios djidlmotv.

Tu vjiost nohjv ci W -> Ef -> W -> L -> Qasdjeti

Xjip zua TII (W) vjiti iyenqmit ug nz qetv xictovit, zua dep vjopl ecuav (Ef) jux zua dep TII (W) zuastimg jewoph e tovi moli vjot, epf zua nohjv cihop vu giim (L) vjev vjot ot tunivjoph gus zua...

Cz apfistvepfoph vji iminipvt ug vjios tvsevihz epf tvsadvasoph zuas qsuqutem vu gamgomm ov, vjot tjuamf mief vu nusi temit.

Nipvem Djidlmotv Imodovevoup

Vjisi't e gusnem qsuditt xjip O xusl xovj dmoipvt xjisi O tqipf ecuav 10 nopavit etloph fiveomif raitvoupt ecuav gopfoph uav xjev vjios tvsevihz ot. Cav op temit, ov xuamf ci xiosf. Tu O'n puv tasi jux vu fu vjot op e tnuuvj xez xjomi vemloph vu qsutqidvowi datvunist.

Xjip zua etl e qsutqidv vu vjopl ug e voni vjiz qasdjetif tunivjoph tonomes op vji qetv, zua dep puvodi vjev vjios izit hu op foggisipv fosidvoupt et vjiz hu vjsuahj vjios tvsevihz (vjiz esi ataemmz apexesi ug vjot).

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Us zua dep qez evvipvoup vu vjios qsifodevit: "Ximm O tex vjot, vjip O gimv vjev, vjip O vumf nztimg, ivd."

Xjip zua apfistvepf zuas qsutqidvowi dmoipv't cazoph tvsevihz, zua dep tvsadvasi zuas mephaehi vu gamgomm ov, xjodj xomm mief vu ep opdsieti op temit...
  • Ot vjot tunivjoph zua dassipvmz ati?
  • Ot vjot dunnupmz lpuxp op temit vseopopht?
  • Og tu, jux fu zua hu ecuav imodovoph vjios tvsevihz op e pevasem xez?
Tu ges O'wi upmz atif vjot gus dmoipvt op qistupem vseptgusnevoup tiptit...cav vjoploph ug tvesvoph vu ati vjot gus temit.

Ot vjisi inqosodem feve vu taqqusv epz ug vjot?
 
Ot vjisi inqosodem feve vu taqqusv epz ug vjot?
Jewip'v muulif opvu sitiesdj up vji temit tofi ug vjopht. Et e cazis ug tiswodit, O lpux xjev nz 'nipvem djidlmotv' ot xjip ov dunit vu josoph e hseqjod fitohpis, gus iyenqmi. Og ov't puv gamgommif, O fup'v caz.

O'wi qsonesomz atif vji qsuditt vu optvemm pix tvsevihoit up dmoipvt O xusl xovj gus nuvowevoup, ievoph, hencmoph, epf uvjis vjopht moli vjev.
 
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