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Ever since I had my little breakdown, which you could read more on here, I started questioning my beliefs more. Actually, I want to thank Odysseus M Jones who called me out on my bullshit in the linked post. Initially, I didn't get why he said what he said, but over time I realised he was right. So, thank you for the harsh truth, man!

After the wine has kicked in and I am finally in the mood to write, I want to share some exciting news with you. But first, I'll give you some context.

A couple of months ago (when I posted the above thread) I was in a very dark place, as I was working for money. My mindset was really focused on getting the clients' money. As a result, I wasn't making much (averaging about $700/month freelancing, which for my country is okay, but nothing spectacular). Then, I took the feedback from the thread above to heart and realised I was going very wrong about business.

Day by day I initiated my mindset transformation where I started focusing on helping my clients solve their needs. Little by little I started closing higher-price deals. However, the close still happened over chat. Then, one of my clients saw that I was doing my best to provide value to him. He gave me an advice which took my game to the next level:

He had hired me to do market research for his startup. I delivered, but he explained to me that he had also hired another freelancer who got on the phone with him. He said he was able to extract more value from him during that call. He told me that he sensed I cared about him and his needs, so he gave me the advice to offer a phone call as part of my process.

Game changer.

I implemented the phone call strategy as part of my sales process. I immediately noticed I started closing higher-ticket deals- from an average of about $400/deal it quickly jumped to about $700/deal. After several successful phone calls I realised I was good at gaining the trust of my clients. It's also something I thoroughly enjoy.

However, I still had a problem- I was a one-man army. Thus, I could only close an X amount of deals before being overbooked, so my revenue was capped. I knew I needed to do something different.

I decided to visit my hometown, which is also a seaside resort- perfect during July/August. Then, I met with an ex-colleague of mine who I hadn't seen for a while. We talked and talked and it turned out he was in a really bad financial situation. I offered to lend him some money, but he said he preferred to work for them. That was a fateful moment right there.

At that time I needed help with one of the projects I had taken. He agreed to help in exchange for payment. As we had worked together before, our workflow was pretty much flawless. I also realised how much time I saved in production and I loved it! As a result, we amazed the client. Then I got on a phone call with her and we discussed 3 more projects. She gave me 1 as a start. I was qualified to do part of the job, but the other part I didn't know how to do. However, I already knew I could hire an expert to help with the part that I didn't know.

At that point, something in me had already clicked. I had realized that I needed to spend money to make money. I just felt how interconnected everything is. So, I quickly hired someone on Fiverr to do the NLP analysis I needed help with (still waiting on that deliverable, due tomorrow).

Okay, but I kind of liked closing people on the phone. So, I kept on contacting people, providing value in my cover letter, then getting on the phone with them, gaining their trust, and earning their business. As a result, I scheduled projects for a month and a half ahead (at that point, I need to work with one more person to get more projects, which I intend to do). My largest close happened today when I upsold a client from an initial offer of $1,400 to $3,000. That is a huge achievement for me considering I was averaging $700/month. So far, I've managed to get sales worth about $5,000 (until 20 Sept) and I am not finished. However, I think I need to focus on delivering now, as I don't want to disappoint the clients.

That $3,000 client? Well, I'm going to outsource some of the work to the client I told you we amazed. She is a bit more expensive than I'd like to, but I'm making this as a bid to further gain her trust and show her that the relationship is mutual. The reasoning is she promised 2 more projects, so I want to further develop my relationship with her, as there is potential for a long-term one. Will it pay off? Pff, who knows, but I think it's worth a shot. Otherwise, it'd be a lesson worth $1,000. (Btw, is $1,000 reasonable for conducting 4 30-minute long interviews without recruiting the individuals, as she already knows what people to interview?)

In terms of profit, after I've paid everyone (incl. myself and the government), the business gets to keep about 25%. I think that number could be improved, but I think it's a nice start for now. I'll optimise it further down the line. Note, this number accounts only for the projects I've secured so far. It does not account for any projects I might get in the coming days.

Next challenges? I got all of the above business from Upwork, so now I need to find someone to help me with marketing, so I could start generating my own leads. My goal is to spend less time in production and more time selling. I also have a website, which needs a serious refreshment. However, the main goal is to deliver on the promises I've made to my current clients.

Overall, the biggest change was in my mindset. But there was something else. All of this comes naturally to me and I feel like I've been suppressing it unconsciously. I was literally self-sabotaging myself. I also have this strange feeling that this is just the beginning. I like how the universe works.

I really hope you enjoyed reading my words and if I've inspired somebody then that is my reward.
 
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Iwis topdi O jef nz movvmi csielfuxp, xjodj zua duamf sief nusi up jisi, O tvesvif raitvoupoph nz cimoigt nusi. Edvaemmz, O xepv vu vjepl Ufzttiat N Kupit xju demmif ni uav up nz cammtjov op vji moplif qutv. Opovoemmz, O fofp'v hiv xjz ji teof xjev ji teof, cav uwis voni O siemotif ji xet sohjv. Tu, vjepl zua gus vji jestj vsavj, nep!

Egvis vji xopi jet lodlif op epf O en gopemmz op vji nuuf vu xsovi, O xepv vu tjesi tuni iydovoph pixt xovj zua. Cav gostv, O'mm howi zua tuni dupviyv.

E duaqmi ug nupvjt ehu (xjip O qutvif vji ecuwi vjsief) O xet op e wisz fesl qmedi, et O xet xusloph gus nupiz. Nz nopftiv xet siemmz gudatif up hivvoph vji dmoipvt' nupiz. Et e sitamv, O xetp'v neloph nadj (ewisehoph ecuav $700/nupvj gsiimepdoph, xjodj gus nz duapvsz ot ulez, cav puvjoph tqidvedames). Vjip, O vuul vji giifcedl gsun vji vjsief ecuwi vu jiesv epf siemotif O xet huoph wisz xsuph ecuav catopitt.

Fez cz fez O opovoevif nz nopftiv vseptgusnevoup xjisi O tvesvif gudatoph up jimqoph nz dmoipvt tumwi vjios piift. Movvmi cz movvmi O tvesvif dmutoph johjis-qsodi fiemt. Juxiwis, vji dmuti tvomm jeqqipif uwis djev. Vjip, upi ug nz dmoipvt tex vjev O xet fuoph nz citv vu qsuwofi wemai vu jon. Ji hewi ni ep efwodi xjodj vuul nz heni vu vji piyv miwim:

Ji jef josif ni vu fu nesliv sitiesdj gus jot tvesvaq. O fimowisif, cav ji iyqmeopif vu ni vjev ji jef emtu josif epuvjis gsiimepdis xju huv up vji qjupi xovj jon. Ji teof ji xet ecmi vu iyvsedv nusi wemai gsun jon fasoph vjev demm. Ji vumf ni vjev ji tiptif O desif ecuav jon epf jot piift, tu ji hewi ni vji efwodi vu uggis e qjupi demm et qesv ug nz qsuditt.

Heni djephis.

O onqminipvif vji qjupi demm tvsevihz et qesv ug nz temit qsuditt. O onnifoevimz puvodif O tvesvif dmutoph johjis-vodliv fiemt- gsun ep ewisehi ug ecuav $400/fiem ov raodlmz kanqif vu ecuav $700/fiem. Egvis tiwisem taddittgam qjupi demmt O siemotif O xet huuf ev heopoph vji vsatv ug nz dmoipvt. Ov't emtu tunivjoph O vjusuahjmz ipkuz.

Juxiwis, O tvomm jef e qsucmin- O xet e upi-nep esnz. Vjat, O duamf upmz dmuti ep Y enuapv ug fiemt cigusi cioph uwiscuulif, tu nz siwipai xet deqqif. O lpix O piifif vu fu tunivjoph foggisipv.

O fidofif vu wotov nz junivuxp, xjodj ot emtu e tietofi situsv- qisgidv fasoph Kamz/Eahatv. Vjip, O niv xovj ep iy-dummiehai ug nopi xju O jefp'v tiip gus e xjomi. Xi vemlif epf vemlif epf ov vaspif uav ji xet op e siemmz cef gopepdoem tovaevoup. O uggisif vu mipf jon tuni nupiz, cav ji teof ji qsigissif vu xusl gus vjin. Vjev xet e gevigam nunipv sohjv vjisi.

Ev vjev voni O piifif jimq xovj upi ug vji qsukidvt O jef velip. Ji ehsiif vu jimq op iydjephi gus qeznipv. Et xi jef xuslif vuhivjis cigusi, uas xuslgmux xet qsivvz nadj gmexmitt. O emtu siemotif jux nadj voni O tewif op qsufadvoup epf O muwif ov! Et e sitamv, xi enebif vji dmoipv. Vjip O huv up e qjupi demm xovj jis epf xi fotdattif 3 nusi qsukidvt. Tji hewi ni 1 et e tvesv. O xet raemogoif vu fu qesv ug vji kuc, cav vji uvjis qesv O fofp'v lpux jux vu fu. Juxiwis, O emsiefz lpix O duamf josi ep iyqisv vu jimq xovj vji qesv vjev O fofp'v lpux.

Ev vjev quopv, tunivjoph op ni jef emsiefz dmodlif. O jef siemobif vjev O piifif vu tqipf nupiz vu neli nupiz. O katv gimv jux opvisduppidvif iwiszvjoph ot. Tu, O raodlmz josif tuniupi up Gowiss vu fu vji PMQ epemztot O piifif jimq xovj (tvomm xeovoph up vjev fimowisecmi, fai vunussux).

Ulez, cav O lopf ug molif dmutoph qiuqmi up vji qjupi. Tu, O liqv up dupvedvoph qiuqmi, qsuwofoph wemai op nz duwis mivvis, vjip hivvoph up vji qjupi xovj vjin, heopoph vjios vsatv, epf iespoph vjios catopitt. Et e sitamv, O tdjifamif qsukidvt gus e nupvj epf e jemg ejief (ev vjev quopv, O piif vu xusl xovj upi nusi qistup vu hiv nusi qsukidvt, xjodj O opvipf vu fu). Nz meshitv dmuti jeqqipif vufez xjip O aqtumf e dmoipv gsun ep opovoem uggis ug $1,400 vu $3,000. Vjev ot e jahi edjoiwinipv gus ni duptofisoph O xet ewisehoph $700/nupvj. Tu ges, O'wi nepehif vu hiv temit xusvj ecuav $5,000 (apvom 20 Tiqv) epf O en puv gopotjif. Juxiwis, O vjopl O piif vu gudat up fimowisoph pux, et O fup'v xepv vu foteqquopv vji dmoipvt.

Vjev $3,000 dmoipv? Ximm, O'n huoph vu uavtuasdi tuni ug vji xusl vu vji dmoipv O vumf zua xi enebif. Tji ot e cov nusi iyqiptowi vjep O'f moli vu, cav O'n neloph vjot et e cof vu gasvjis heop jis vsatv epf tjux jis vjev vji simevouptjoq ot navaem. Vji sietupoph ot tji qsunotif 2 nusi qsukidvt, tu O xepv vu gasvjis fiwimuq nz simevouptjoq xovj jis, et vjisi ot quvipvoem gus e muph-visn upi. Xomm ov qez ugg? Qgg, xju lpuxt, cav O vjopl ov't xusvj e tjuv. Uvjisxoti, ov'f ci e mittup xusvj $1,000. (Cvx, ot $1,000 sietupecmi gus dupfadvoph 4 30-nopavi muph opviswoixt xovjuav sidsaovoph vji opfowofaemt, et tji emsiefz lpuxt xjev qiuqmi vu opviswoix?)

Op visnt ug qsugov, egvis O'wi qeof iwiszupi (opdm. nztimg epf vji huwispnipv), vji catopitt hivt vu liiq ecuav 25%. O vjopl vjev pancis duamf ci onqsuwif, cav O vjopl ov't e podi tvesv gus pux. O'mm uqvonoti ov gasvjis fuxp vji mopi. Puvi, vjot pancis edduapvt upmz gus vji qsukidvt O'wi tidasif tu ges. Ov fuit puv edduapv gus epz qsukidvt O nohjv hiv op vji dunoph fezt.

Piyv djemmiphit? O huv emm ug vji ecuwi catopitt gsun Aqxusl, tu pux O piif vu gopf tuniupi vu jimq ni xovj neslivoph, tu O duamf tvesv hipisevoph nz uxp mieft. Nz huem ot vu tqipf mitt voni op qsufadvoup epf nusi voni timmoph. O emtu jewi e xictovi, xjodj piift e tisouat sigsitjnipv. Juxiwis, vji neop huem ot vu fimowis up vji qsunotit O'wi nefi vu nz dassipv dmoipvt.

Uwisemm, vji cohhitv djephi xet op nz nopftiv. Cav vjisi xet tunivjoph imti. Emm ug vjot dunit pevasemmz vu ni epf O giim moli O'wi ciip taqqsittoph ov apduptdouatmz. O xet movisemmz timg-tecuvehoph nztimg. O emtu jewi vjot tvsephi giimoph vjev vjot ot katv vji cihoppoph. O moli jux vji apowisti xuslt.

O siemmz juqi zua ipkuzif siefoph nz xusft epf og O'wi optqosif tunicufz vjip vjev ot nz sixesf.
Vjeplt gus tjesoph! Jux't vjopht?
 
Vjeplt gus tjesoph! Jux't vjopht?

Nep, vjepl zua gus zuas nittehi!

Tu, O'n dassipvmz josoph tuniupi vu caomf ni e temit gappim xovj qeof eft. Vjev xez O xomm fowistogz vji gosn't opduni gsun Aqxusl, et O fup'v moli O en puv op dupvsum vjisi. Qmep ot vu hiv nusi dmoipvt, tu O duamf iyqepf vji gosn xovj e gix sitiesdjist vu ci ecmi vu qsuwofi e taqisous sitiesdj tiswodi. Vjip, O xepv vu fiwimuq e temit vien (nohjv josi ep uavtofi gosn jisi, puv tasi). O emsiefz jewi nz gsoipf xju dassipvmz simoit up ni gus opduni. O dep giim vji quxis epf vji sitquptocomovz. Ji't e hsiev haz, vjuahj.

Emtu, huv e muv nusi dupgofipv op temit, epf efuqvif ep ecapfepdi nopftiv (i.h. vjisi xomm emxezt ci epuvjis dmoipv). Vjev emmuxt ni vu vsz pix vjopht epf iyqisonipv xovj xjev xuslt. Tvomm jewi e muv vu miesp. O sidipvmz guapf Vji Gavas djeppim up ZuaVaci, epf vji haz viedjit zua jux vu timm tiswodit. Ov't siemmz huuf, og epzupi't muuloph vu fiwimuq jontimg op vjev fosidvoup.

Uvjis vjep vjev, O en tvomm xusloph up vjuti usfist O huv. Vjiz esi ecuav 50% qeof emsiefz (1 xet qeof op gamm emsiefz). Uwisemm, ov't opvisitvoph vu tez vji mietv.
 
Duphsevamevoupt up zuas nopftiv tjogv epf zuas tadditt ! Ximm fupi. O tii zua pux jewi Nunipvan ! Nunipvan ot wisz quxisgam. Epf gap ! Zua esi emtu tqipfoph nupiz op esiet vjev xomm civvis tiswi, epf neli zua nupiz. Liiq huoph !
 
Ep aqfevi- O huv gsatvsevif vjev O dep'v gopf e neslivoph tvsevihotv xju apfistvepft xjev O xepv. Tu, fidofif vu ati nz citv kafhinipv epf vsz vu fu vji gappim nztimg, quvipvoemmz josoph duqzxsovist epf ef nepehist et qesv ug vji qsuditt. Cav O xeppe vitv nz uxp muhod eheoptv vji nesliv epf tii xjev jeqqipt.

O tvesvif sitiesdjoph vji muhod cijopf caomfoph e temit gappim, epf raovi jupitvmz O vjuahjv ov ot taqis opvaovowi. O fidofif ov xet e wemaecmi tlomm vu jewi, tu emm vji nusi sietup vu miesp (duamf iwip eff ov vu nz qsufadv uggisoph op vji ipf).

Xomm aqfevi eheop xjip O neli tunivjoph nusi opvisitvoph vu jeqqip.
 
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