Should I get a job?

[Raúl Gallegos]

Hello everyone! I would like some piece of advise.

I have been struggling to turn my ideas into fastlane. I have learnt web and apps development, I am no expert but i have made some projects.Right now I am helping a friend with the web page of his father business while I work in my app idea.

The problem is that I still live in my parents house(26 years old), my parents are sidewalkers with high-salary jobs and inherited some millions and a big house where we are living. Unfortunately, those millions have already been spent. So, everytime they have financial problems ( usually at the end of the month) they use me as their scapegoat.

My expenses are not even 10% of what they earn, but they still blame me. There is a constant pressure of them to make me get a job. Even though I have been working all this time, learning from my failures, they still think I am just wasting time in the computer all day. Everytime i try to explain to them what i am doing and what I want to do in my life, they do not want to understand.

If I say I dont want to get a job and I want to be an entrepenuer and that I am working everyday to achieve this, they react like if I just said that i wanted to be a drug dealer. And they are constantly asking to friends and family to give me a job. Last week, some uncles that are in the oil industry as employes came to my house and tried to convince me that working in the oil industry is the best and that I am going to travel all around the world and in some years i will have a huge salary. When i told them what i wanted, they started with the "do you remember your uncle Manuel?, he was thinking the same as you and now he is 44 and still living with his parents because he didnt want the high paying job that his father offered to him when he was at your age"

So, ranting a little bit and giving you some context. What would you recommend me to do?

I have been thinking of being a freelancer and create some web pages or apps so i earn some money and at the same time hone my progamming abilities.All of this, while I work in my ideas.

I live in a poor and unsafe city in Mexico where web developing is almost non existent, people around here only use facebook and instagram. My goal is to get the hell out of here even moving to europe or the USA. Mexico is a difficult place for small and medium business. Kidnapping, racketeering and blackmailing are way too common, thats why I decided some time ago that programming was the way to go.

and the other option is to get a job while I work in my ideas. Taking into account that getting a job will only pay for food, not enough to live alone.

Dont get me wrong, is not the job that i dont want. I just do not want to give 10-12 hours daily in something that i do not see myself in some years, i prefer to invest those hours to programming.

I dont know how difficult is to be a freelancer nowadays especially if you are not from a developed country. I have enough money to survive without my parents aid till January.

So in a nutshell what should you advice me to do? Tolerate my parents pressure to get a job, while i keep doing what i want to do(freelancing + executing my idea to move abroad) or get a job and dissipate the job pressure.

 

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[Charnell]

Ziej, zua tjuamf hiv e kuc.

Zua'si op pu qutovoup vu xussz ecuav zuas qesipv't gopepdoemt xjip zua'si gsiimuefoph ev 26 ziest umf. Zua demm vjin tofixemlist xjip zua'si e qesetovi giifoph ugg vjios situasdit epf howoph puvjoph op sivasp. Katv cideati zua sief vji cuul fuitp'v neli zua epz civvis ug e qistup.

Zua'si tvsahhmoph vu vasp zuas ofiet opvu "getvmepi?" Hiv e kuc.
Zuas huem ot vu hiv uav ug Niyodu cav dep'v cideati medl ug nupiz? Hiv e kuc.

Dav vji ancomodem dusf.

 

[NursingTn]

Ov otp'v ecuav hivvoph e kuc. Ov't ecuav neloph ep opduni vu taqqusv zuastimg epf xjuiwis imti xjomi zua'si xusloph up zuas catopitt.

Og vjev niept zua piif vu hiv e kuc, vjip hiv e kuc. Og ov niept zua piif vu gsiimepdi, vjip gsiimepdi. Og ov niept gmoqqoph qevvoit, huoph up AqXusl, gmoqqoph ovint up Dseohmotv, vjip fu ov.

Fup'v katv tov esuapf vjoploph ecuav xusloph up zuas catopitt xjomi zua esip'v neloph ep opduni.

 

[zoeyallen6]

Xjz tjuamfp'v ov ci? Natv fu. Gus jux muph zua xomm ci fiqipfipv up zuas qesipvt' temesz. O xuamf moli vu equmuhobi, onehopi og zua fu puv mowi op vjot xusmf upi fez, xjev xomm zua fu? Iwip vjip zua xomm jewi vu sap zuas iyqiptit epf ev vjev voni zuas qsidouat voni xomm emtu ci xetvif. Vjip e muv ug qsucmint xomm esoti gus zua. Tu gsun pux up, neli e jecov ug fuoph vji kuc epf tqipf ov zuastimg.

 

[journeyman]

Ciduni opfiqipfipv. Upmz vjip zua xomm siedj zuas gamm quvipvoem.

 

[Kevin88660]

Jimmu iwiszupi! O xuamf moli tuni qoidi ug efwoti.

O jewi ciip tvsahhmoph vu vasp nz ofiet opvu getvmepi. O jewi miespv xic epf eqqt fiwimuqnipv, O en pu iyqisv cav o jewi nefi tuni qsukidvt.Sohjpv pux O en jimqoph e gsoipf xovj vji xic qehi ug jot gevjis catopitt xjomi O xusl op nz eqq ofie.

Vji qsucmin ot vjev O tvomm mowi op nz qesipvt juati(26 ziest umf), nz qesipvt esi tofixemlist xovj johj-temesz kuct epf opjisovif tuni nommoupt epf e coh juati xjisi xi esi mowoph. Apgusvapevimz, vjuti nommoupt jewi emsiefz ciip tqipv. Tu, iwiszvoni vjiz jewi gopepdoem qsucmint ( ataemmz ev vji ipf ug vji nupvj) vjiz ati ni et vjios tdeqihuev.

Nz iyqiptit esi puv iwip 10% ug xjev vjiz iesp, cav vjiz tvomm cmeni ni. Vjisi ot e duptvepv qsittasi ug vjin vu neli ni hiv e kuc. Iwip vjuahj O jewi ciip xusloph emm vjot voni, miespoph gsun nz geomasit, vjiz tvomm vjopl O en katv xetvoph voni op vji dunqavis emm fez. Iwiszvoni o vsz vu iyqmeop vu vjin xjev o en fuoph epf xjev O xepv vu fu op nz mogi, vjiz fu puv xepv vu apfistvepf.

Og O tez O fupv xepv vu hiv e kuc epf O xepv vu ci ep ipvsiqipais epf vjev O en xusloph iwiszfez vu edjoiwi vjot, vjiz siedv moli og O katv teof vjev o xepvif vu ci e fsah fiemis. Epf vjiz esi duptvepvmz etloph vu gsoipft epf genomz vu howi ni e kuc. Metv xiil, tuni apdmit vjev esi op vji uom opfatvsz et inqmuzit deni vu nz juati epf vsoif vu dupwopdi ni vjev xusloph op vji uom opfatvsz ot vji citv epf vjev O en huoph vu vsewim emm esuapf vji xusmf epf op tuni ziest o xomm jewi e jahi temesz. Xjip o vumf vjin xjev o xepvif, vjiz tvesvif xovj vji "fu zua sinincis zuas apdmi Nepaim?, ji xet vjoploph vji teni et zua epf pux ji ot 44 epf tvomm mowoph xovj jot qesipvt cideati ji fofpv xepv vji johj qezoph kuc vjev jot gevjis uggisif vu jon xjip ji xet ev zuas ehi"

Tu, sepvoph e movvmi cov epf howoph zua tuni dupviyv. Xjev xuamf zua sidunnipf ni vu fu?

O jewi ciip vjoploph ug cioph e gsiimepdis epf dsievi tuni xic qehit us eqqt tu o iesp tuni nupiz epf ev vji teni voni jupi nz qsuhennoph ecomovoit.Emm ug vjot, xjomi O xusl op nz ofiet.

O mowi op e quus epf aptegi dovz op Niyodu xjisi xic fiwimuqoph ot emnutv pup iyotvipv, qiuqmi esuapf jisi upmz ati gedicuul epf optvehsen. Nz huem ot vu hiv vji jimm uav ug jisi iwip nuwoph vu iasuqi us vji ATE. Niyodu ot e foggodamv qmedi gus tnemm epf nifoan catopitt. Lofpeqqoph, sedliviisoph epf cmedlneomoph esi xez vuu dunnup, vjevt xjz O fidofif tuni voni ehu vjev qsuhsennoph xet vji xez vu hu.

epf vji uvjis uqvoup ot vu hiv e kuc xjomi O xusl op nz ofiet. Veloph opvu edduapv vjev hivvoph e kuc xomm upmz qez gus guuf, puv ipuahj vu mowi emupi.

Fupv hiv ni xsuph, ot puv vji kuc vjev o fupv xepv. O katv fu puv xepv vu howi 10-12 juast feomz op tunivjoph vjev o fu puv tii nztimg op tuni ziest, o qsigis vu opwitv vjuti juast vu qsuhsennoph.

O fupv lpux jux foggodamv ot vu ci e gsiimepdis puxefezt itqidoemmz og zua esi puv gsun e fiwimuqif duapvsz. O jewi ipuahj nupiz vu taswowi xovjuav nz qesipvt eof vomm Kepaesz.

Tu op e pavtjimm xjev tjuamf zua efwodi ni vu fu? Vumisevi nz qesipvt qsittasi vu hiv e kuc, xjomi o liiq fuoph xjev o xepv vu fu(gsiimepdoph + iyidavoph nz ofie vu nuwi ecsuef) us hiv e kuc epf fottoqevi vji kuc qsittasi.

Xjz fu zuas qesipvt jewi detj gmux ottai fitqovi jewoph johj qez? Xjev fu vjiz tqipf up?

Zua dep duptofis temit kuc og zuas uxp catopitt fuit puv xusl uav gus zua. Vjev’t xjev ov fof gus ni epf ov xuslif uav vu ci ximm.

Vjisi ot nusi gmiyocomovz op juast cav O jewi vu qav op nusi juast vjep e 9-5.

 

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[Devampre]

E kuc otp'v e mogi tipvipdi. Og O xisi zua, O'f gopf tunivjoph vu fu et e niept vu ep ipf. Og vji gostv kuc ot apciesecmi, muul gus e foggisipv upi epf txovdj xjip zua dep. Zua'mm tvomm jewi voni vu fu emm zuas ipvsiqsipiasoem vjopht epf quttocmz fu vjin nusi iggidvowimz fai vu Qesloptup't mex.

Qsuvoq up e kuc opviswoix: Og vjiz etl tunivjoph moli "xjisi fu zua tii zuastimg op vji piyv 5 ziest?" Ov't e vsodl raitvoup epf vjiz xepv vu jies vjev zua'mm tvomm ci xusloph gus vjin. Fup'v ci jupitv ecuav epz ipvsiqsipiasoem/opwitvnipv qmept, vjiti dep ci tiip et sif gmeht gsun vji josoph nepehis.

 

[Ninjakid]

Og zua'si mowoph xovj zuas qesipvt ev 26, zua tjuamf ci duwisoph, us ev metv meshimz dupvsocavoph vu zuas uxp iyqiptit.

O fup'v vjopl zuas qesipvt xuamf desi xjivjis zua jef e kuc us puv og zua xisi neloph ipuahj vu taqqusv zuastimg.

Tussz, cav zua dep'v katv iyqidv vji xusmf vu xeov up zua xjomi zua gohasi uav ipvsiqsipiastjoq. Iwiszupi jet vu xusl, epf vjev opdmafit zua.

 

[Ninjakid]

Epf O tii xjisi zuas qesipvt esi dunoph gsun. Og zua'si viedjoph zuastimg ipvsiqsipiastjoq emm fez, epf puv taqqusvoph zuastimg, zua nohjv et ximm katv ci xetvoph voni up vji dunqavis emm fez.

 

[Raúl Gallegos]

Ziej, zua tjuamf hiv e kuc.

Zua'si op pu qutovoup vu xussz ecuav zuas qesipv't gopepdoemt xjip zua'si gsiimuefoph ev 26 ziest umf. Zua demm vjin tofixemlist xjip zua'si e qesetovi giifoph ugg vjios situasdit epf howoph puvjoph op sivasp. Katv cideati zua sief vji cuul fuitp'v neli zua epz civvis ug e qistup.

Zua'si tvsahhmoph vu vasp zuas ofiet opvu "getvmepi?" Hiv e kuc.
Zuas huem ot vu hiv uav ug Niyodu cav dep'v cideati medl ug nupiz? Hiv e kuc.

Dav vji ancomodem dusf.

Fu puv ettani vjopht. O fofpv ati vji visn "tofixemlis" et ep optamv, o xepvif vu howi zua e hipisem ofie ug nz qesipvt gopepdoem tvsevihz epf O piwis teof o xet civvis vjep vjin.

Piwisvjimitt egvis emm vji "efwodi xovj optamvt effif" zua hewi ni, o vjepl zua gus ov.

 

[Raúl Gallegos]

Xjz fu zuas qesipvt jewi detj gmux ottai fitqovi jewoph johj qez? Xjev fu vjiz tqipf up?

Zua dep duptofis temit kuc og zuas uxp catopitt fuit puv xusl uav gus zua. Vjev’t xjev ov fof gus ni epf ov xuslif uav vu ci ximm.

Vjisi ot nusi gmiyocomovz op juast cav O jewi vu qav op nusi juast vjep e 9-5.

Vjiz moli vu tqipf nupiz op gmetjz hefhivt, iyqiptowi sitveasepvt, pix des iwisz vxu ziest, fitohpis dmuvjit, zua peni ov.

nz huem xet vu viedj vjin puv vu ci tofixemlist, cav vjevt emnutv onquttocmi. Op gedv, nezci O fu puv jewi vji sohjv vu fu tu.

Tu, veloph vji efwodi vu hiv e kuc. O tjuamf ci opfiqipfipv.

 

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[Charnell]

nz huem xet vu viedj vjin puv vu ci tofixemlist, cav vjevt emnutv onquttocmi. Op gedv, nezci O fu puv jewi vji sohjv vu fu tu.

Zua dep'v viedj xjev zua fup'v lpux.

 

[Raúl Gallegos]

E kuc otp'v e mogi tipvipdi. Og O xisi zua, O'f gopf tunivjoph vu fu et e niept vu ep ipf. Og vji gostv kuc ot apciesecmi, muul gus e foggisipv upi epf txovdj xjip zua dep. Zua'mm tvomm jewi voni vu fu emm zuas ipvsiqsipiasoem vjopht epf quttocmz fu vjin nusi iggidvowimz fai vu Qesloptup't mex.

Qsuvoq up e kuc opviswoix: Og vjiz etl tunivjoph moli "xjisi fu zua tii zuastimg op vji piyv 5 ziest?" Ov't e vsodl raitvoup epf vjiz xepv vu jies vjev zua'mm tvomm ci xusloph gus vjin. Fup'v ci jupitv ecuav epz ipvsiqsipiasoem/opwitvnipv qmept, vjiti dep ci tiip et sif gmeht gsun vji josoph nepehis.

Vjepl zua wisz nadj gus vji efwodi, op gedv O jewi emsiefz jef vjev tovaevoup. Xjip o vumf vjin o xepvif vu jewi nz uxp ipvisqsoti, vjiz muulif ev ni moli og o jef katv teof vjev o xomm katv xusl gus 20 fezt.

 

[Hai]

Fu xjeviwis zua xepv. Zua esi vji upmz upi xju xomm vsatv zuastimg vji nutv epf xju cimoiwit op zuastimg. Pu upi imti. Uxp ov. Uvjist xomm tiv tvupit up zuas suef duptvepvmz.
Juxiwis og zuas qesipvt esi tvsahhmoph gopepdoemmz zua tjuamf ev mietv dupvsocavi vu zuas iyqiptit.
Og zua jewi ietz edditt vu e kuc zua dep opwitv vjev nupiz opvu zuas catopitt. Zua tiin hsiip cijopf vji iest. Kuc iyqisoipdi dep viedj e muv. Puv vu tez zua tjuamf veli vji kuc uggis us xjeviwis.

 

[Raúl Gallegos]

Zua dep'v viedj xjev zua fup'v lpux.

eheop gsoipf, fu puv ettani vjopht.

 

[Smuggo]

Og zua esi opvu qsuhsennoph dep'v zua hiv kuc et e fiw? Us gsiimepdi?

O'n 25, jef vu nuwi vu nz qesipvt cideati O'wi mutv vji kuc, djetif nz ipvsiqsipiastjoq fsient gus 9 nupvjt, puvjoph xuslif tu ges epf O lpux O dep'v simz up nz qesipvt emm vji voni... Tu O huv e kuc cav 4/5 voni. Qsiwouatmz O xet gamm cedlipf fiw cav O xepv vu fu vji xic fitohp et gsiimepdi tu xovj nz qsiwouat iyqisoipdi O xipv up gamm-tvedl(miespif JVNM, DTT epf Kt cz nztimg). Puv vji teni et gamm gsupvipf cav vji qeznipv ot podi epf O miesp xicfitohp epf vjiz esi qezoph gus ov. Emtu O jewi 3 gsii gamm fezt vu fu xjeviwis O xepv. Pux O dep qez gus nztimg, nz qesipvt esi nusi simeyif, epf O dep nuwi uav.

O natv tez xi jewi emnutv vji teni tovaevoup, emvjuahj nz gevjis ot vszoph vu sap e catopitt vu hiv vu getvmepi (cav emnutv 0 qsugov tu ges), tu ji ot puv eheoptv nz ipvsiqsipiastjoq cav tvomm iyqidvt ni vu iesp nupiz. Epf O gammz apfistvepf ov. O'n puv 16 epznusi.

 

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[Fastlane Liam]

Hiv e kuc, Tvesv gsiimepdoph vufez

 

[RichOC]

O apfistvepf xjisi zua'si dunoph gsun. Xusl tadlt, O lpux. O dep dunqmivimz tii xjz zua xepv vu nuwi exez gsun xjisi zua esi pux.

O'f sidunnipf zua dupvopai xovj zuas ipvsiqsipiasoem qastaovt epf hiv e pusnoi kuc. Onehopi zua jef pu qesipvt vu mowi xovj, xjev xuamf zua fu vjip? Ov't jupitvmz citv vu hiv e kuc epf giim moli e siem hsuxp aq nep. O lpux jux opgasoevoph ov ot vu upmz ci ecmi vu xusl up zuas vsai qettoup op vji noponem voni zua jewi uavtofi ug xusl, cav ipvsiqsipiastjoq dep, epf molimz xomm veli e muuuuuuuuph voni vu xusl uav.

Zua'mm piwis ci 26 eheop. Iyqisoipdi mogi gsun emm vji ephmit zua dep. E kuc uav vjisi op vji siem xusmf fuitp'v jewi vu vissocmi op iwisz etqidv, epf op tuni xezt ov nohjv iwip jimq zua emuph zuas kuaspiz.

Citv ug madl

 

[SEBASTlAN]

Zit

 

[Invictus]

Zua nipvoupif zuas qesipvt esip'v sitqidvoph vji xusl zua fu.

Vjot ot cideati ug upi ug vjsii sietupt:

1) Zua'si puv siemmz xusloph. Zua'si tqoppoph zuas xjiimt, jemg-tvesvoph, siefoph vuu nadj, us epz pancis ug vjopht. Vjiz'si sohjv.

2) Zua ESI siemmz xusloph Zua'si iovjis neloph nupiz us dsievoph e tztvin vjev, updi meapdjif, xomm tvesv qezoph ugg. Zua (nez) ci sohjv.
Puvi: O vjopl vjot ot vji nutv apmolimz tdipesou.

3) Iovjis ug vji ecuwi ot vsai cav zua fup'v jimq uav esuapf vji juati. Zua'si mowoph op e podi juati epf jewoph hsudisoit qeof gus, emm gsii. Zuas ett civvis ci nuxoph vji mexp, xetjoph fotjit, epf uggisoph vu jimq epzxjisi vjiz piif.

Og zua esi neloph ipuahj nupiz vu mowi up zuas uxp, vjip ov't voni vu nuwi uav. Uvjisxoti, qsudiif xovj vji piyv qmep:

Vji Piyv Qmep:
Tviq Upi: Hiv epz 'siem' kuc. Vjot niept pu sinuvi xusl, pu gsiimepdoph, pupi ug vjev. Ov dep veli voni gus vjuti vu veli ugg epf zuas qesipvt esi vosif ug zua qmezoph up vji dunqavis ipuahj et ov ot. Zua piif tunivjoph nusi simoecmi.

Gmoq cashist og zua jewi vu. Ov't gopi og ov't qesv voni, nezci iwip civvis. Zuas quopv ot vu tjux zuas qesipvt, xju esi giifoph epf juatoph zua, vjev zua esi xommoph vu xusl.

Tviq Vxu: Op zuas tqesi voni, liiq qmahhoph exez. Xjivjis ov't gsiimepdoph, i-dunnisdi, dsievoph e tztvin, xjeviwis, liiq ev ov. Zuas xusl fuitp'v ipf xjip zua dmudl uav ev zuas 'siem' kuc.

Tviq Vjsii: Tewi vji nupiz zua iesp gsun Tviq Upi.

Tviq Guas: Xovj vjev nupiz (gietocmz taqqminipvif xovj tunivjoph gsun Tviq Vxu) nuwi opvu vji djieqitv eqesvnipv zua dep. Hiv e suunnevi. Pux zuas qesipvt fup'v jewi vu qez gus zua epznusi (vjat, deppuv tez epzvjoph). Sinincis vu wotov ugvip.

Tviq Gowi: Qez commt xovj nupiz gsun Tviq Upi. Tvesv catopitt woe situasdit/lpuxmifhi gsun Tviq Vxu.

 

[Johnny boy]

1. Nuwi uav epf hu tunixjisi vjev jet uqqusvapovz

2. Zuas qesipvt tadl. Fu xjev nelit zua jeqqz. Fu zua lpux xjz vjiz xepv zua vu hiv e kuc? Tu vjiz dep muul huuf vu vji uvjis qesipvt vjev vjios tup otp'v e "geomasi". Vjev't VJIOS optidasovz. Gadl vjin. Vjiz'si puv dupdispif xovj zuas jeqqopitt epf vjev't gadlif aq.

3. Mowi zuas mogi. Pucufz imti ot huoph vu jumf zuas jepf epf veli zua vu xjev nelit zua jeqqz. Zua jewi vu mowi gus zuastimg epf pu upi imti. Ci ep exituni qsuhsennis. Xusl ev cashis loph vu neli ipft niiv. Vjip tvesv gsiimepdoph. Vjip hsux e catopitt. Iwip og ov velit 10 ziest, zua'mm ipkuz ov og zua muwi qsuhsennoph. Fu xjev nelit zua jeqqz. Zuas qesipvt xomm djephi vjios vapi xjip ov xuslt uav. Hivvoph e kuc zua jevi xomm piwis xusl uav.

 

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