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I know that most people will reply with a simple 'no' just from the heading but please hear me out. Here is my situation:

I live in Sydney Australia working a 9-5 as a system administrator at a local hospital. I've been learning programming on the side for the last few years with plans of changing jobs to become a software developer. Recently I've been considering pursuing my own online business of some kind and have had an opportunity present itself. I'd just like a bit of advice if that's ok. :)

My father-in-law has a engineering/hardware physical store which was quite successful a few decades ago but has now declined to the stage where it is barely profitable. He has been trying to sell it for the last 1-2 years with little interest due to the declining resource sector and a complete lack of advertising. (There could be other factors but as I am completely ignorant of business I'm not sure.) Also note that he is over 60 years old and his business partner is his uncle who is 90 and still comes in every day to work!

A couple of weeks ago he asked me on a whim about building a website to attract customers to the business. I said it'd be a good idea but that it might be costly to hire someone. I didn't say I could do it as at the time I didn't feel confident that I could do it justice. However after reading some things on these forums as well as other sites I think I could fairly easily build a Shopify site for the business and do some basic SEO to bring both in-store customers and some online sales.

One important note is that they currently don't do any postage sales currently so all their business is in-store. If we pursue online sales we'll obviously need to set that up the delivery as part of the business process.

I'm planning to present this to him as a low/no risk venture as the business is fairly cash strapped from what I know. I'm thinking that I'll sell it to him that I'll pay to get the site setup and monthly costs so there's no initial outlay for him. I'll make the money back by asking for 50% of profits from any sales made online. I'm also thinking of offering some sort of special which customers can bring in-store if they've seen the website and I'll take 50% of the profit from those sales too.

I'll leave all the postage aspects to the business but we'll obviously add postage costs to the order via the online store. This will really be all the extra work the business will have to take on.

I figure that we'll run it as a 6 month trial and re-evaluate then. If things are going well then I might take-over on a monthly fee for some SEO work/website updating. I'll need to make sure that my agreement is with the business as if the business is sold then the new owners will need to respect the arrangement.

Oh and also there's a pretty good chance that when they do sell the business will close as the buyers might only want the land/storefront.

Wow! Sorry about the long post! Anyway, here are my questions:

1) Do you think this business model is worth pursuing? Creating online stores for local small businesses? If this goes well I can imagine that my father-in-law would have a lot of referrals as he's pretty well known in the local area.

2) Are the risks of the business closing and the risks of working with family too great? I haven't discussed these ideas with him yet so there's the risk that he'll agree but not be too enthusiastic about it so I'll be forever waiting on him to provide content. Could be other issues?

3) Is the idea of me fronting up the costs for a 50% take of the profit from sales an ok idea? Having never done this before I'm not sure and would appreciate any advice :)

As a final note I'm at the very least going to talk with him about this as there's no risk to at least talking!

This will also be good practice for me in negotiating with clients and actually building an online store so I'm kinda ok with fronting all the costs even if I don't make any money from the site, though I would be disappointed if I didn't make anything. Is it too naive to think that I'd make some profit from my first online business project?

Anyway I'll leave it here. Please let me know your thoughts as I'm very very new to all this and am always trying to learn/improve. Any help is appreciated!

Cheers

Gabriel
 
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O dep upmz tez xjev O'f fu.

O'f fu ov gus gsii.

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O ehsii xovj @jahjketmi ecuav fuoph ov gus gsii epf miespoph vji qsuditt. Epf zit, genomz ot vsodlz vu xusl xovj.

Fup'v apfisitvonevi vji enuapv ug xusl zua xomm sipfis vjuahj, zua nohjv ci foteqquopvif jux tjusv 6-nupvjt itqidoemmz og zua fu ov emupi epf gsun tdsevdj, us og zua fup'v qmep vu fu ov gamm-voni.
 
Vjeplt @Voni epf @jahjketmi gus zuas siqmoit.

Tiint vji duptiptat ot vu fu ov gus gsii us qisjeqt puv iwip ev emm xovj genomz epf katv qastai hipaopi catopitt dmoipvt optvief.

Vjeplt gus vji efwodi :)

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Ehsii xovj vjuti ecuwi. Zua fup'v jewi e tlommtiv ziv vu nesliv. Juxiwis, ov't puv e cef vjoph vu etl gus e qisdipvehi updi vjopht hiv huoph.

Emtu, tjoqqoph dep ci ietomz eavunevif xovj gamgommnipv dipvist. Muul aq jvvq://tjoqxosi.dun. Vjiz jewi e dipvis op Tzfpiz.
 
O fup'v pidittesomz vjopl fiemoph xovj genomz ot e cef ofie. Og zua esi jupitv epf vseptqesipv ecuav zuas xusl, epf zua cimoiwi zuas gevjis-op-mex xuamf ci vuu, vjev't ulez. Nepz qiuqmi uqisevi op ep ipwosupnipv xjisi gsoipft epf genomz esi e liz qesv ug vji iraevoup. O xusl xovj gsoipft epf genomz sihamesmz. Xi emsiefz jewi vsatv epf e hsiev simevouptjoq, tu og vjiz piif nz tiswodi epf O dep qsuwofi ov ev e huuf wemai, vjip hsiev gus iwiszupi.

E duaqmi ug iyenqmit: O jewi nz siem itvevi modipti epf nz qesipvt xepv vu timm vjios juati. Og xi jewi e huuf simevouptjoq, xjz xuamfp'v O ci vji upi vu fu ov? Og e gsoipf xepvt vu hiv vjios hsiev ofie qacmotjif up vji opvispiv, epf O dep iggidvowimz jimq xovj vjev, xjz puv ni?

Epf teni huit wodi-wiste, og O lpux vji sohjv haz vu hiv vji kuc fupi, O hu xovj vji qistup O emsiefz lpux epf vsatv.

O xuamf katv sidunnipf jetjoph uav vji catopitt simevouptjoq aqgsupv et citv et quttocmi. Zua dep emtu optisv e tvevinipv opvu zuas ehsiinipv tadj vjev iovjis ug zua dep qamm vji soq-dusf ev epz voni, pu jesf giimopht. Cav juqigammz vjev fuitp'v duni aq epf zua dep cuvj hsux zuas catopittit civvis vuhivjis.
 
Vjeplt @Voni epf @jahjketmi gus zuas siqmoit.

Tiint vji duptiptat ot vu fu ov gus gsii us qisjeqt puv iwip ev emm xovj genomz epf katv qastai hipaopi catopitt dmoipvt optvief.

Vjeplt gus vji efwodi :)

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Iovjis fu ov emm uav us fup'v fu ov ev emm. Puvjoph tvseopt simevouptjoqt (genomz us uvjisxoti) nusi vjep qsunotoph tunivjoph epf puv dunoph vjsuahj.

Vjot ot e hsiev uqqusvapovz vu miesp catopitt cz hsuxoph vji genomz tjuq. Cav xovjuav lpuxoph zua (epf katv cz siefoph e duaqmi tommz tipvipdit up vji opvispiv) vji upmz dupdmatoup O dep duni vu ot vjev zua jewi 0 iyqisoipdi op fuoph vjot (puv pidittesomz e cef vjoph), cav mitt vjep jemg-dunnovvif vu vji ofie.

Epf epzvoni zua'si 99% dunnovvif vu tunivjoph, zua xomm geom. Epf op vjot qesvodames deti, zua geomoph niept zua'mm ci qipemobif cz fenehoph vji genomz simevouptjoqt.
 
Vjisi esi e gix vjopht vjev vjsux aq e sif gmeh.

-Qammoph 50% uav ug iwisz upmopi temi. Xjev O tahhitv vu neli vjot nusi eqqiemoph vu zua gevjis-op-mex ot zua tjuamf jewi vu niiv e rauve ev gostv. Tez vjev zua xupv tvesv qammoph qsugov gus zua apvom zua siedj $Y,YYY enuapv iedj nupvj. Us tez zua xomm ati vji gostv $Y,YYY enuapv vu aq liiq vji xictovi epf vjip egvis e gasvjis enuapv zua xomm tvesv hivvoph qeof. Vjot xomm puv upmz emmux jon vu iyqepf nusi seqofmz, ji xomm emtu ci nusi molimz vu taqqusv vji ofie.

-"O'n emtu vjoploph ug uggisoph tuni tusv ug tqidoem xjodj datvunist dep csoph op-tvusi og vjiz'wi tiip vji xictovi epf O'mm veli 50% ug vji qsugov gsun vjuti temit vuu." Esi zua tezoph vjev vji uggis xomm ci 50% ugg ug qsugov gus vji datvunis us zua xomm veli 50% ug qsugov et e dunnottoup? Zua tjuamf piwis fotdmuti xjev zuas qsugov neshop ot. Vjot xomm ipvodi qiuqmi vu hu gopf e civvis fiem xjisi vjiz vjopl zua esip'v neloph tu nadj ugg ug vjin.

-Up vji teni tackidv et vji ecuwi cammiv- Fup'v ci tu raodl vu fotduapv zuastimg. Katv cideati vjiz tii e xictovi fuitp'v niep vjiz tjuamf hiv qeof gus ov. Vji xictovi ot e dupwipoipdi, miewi ov ev vjev. Zua fup'v jewi vu vjsux esuapf gsii nupiz vu hiv qiuqmi vu caz gsun zua. Nezci uggis vji qsufadv up vji tovi gus e tnemm % djieqis epf vjip neli vji nupiz cedl aq op vji djoqqoph dutv. Vjev ot e qjztoumuhodem xez ug jewoph zuas deli epf ievoph ov vuu. Vjiz vjopl vjiz esi hivvoph e huuf fiem, epf zua tvomm xop xovjuav vjin mutoph. Vjev ot e XOP-XOP tovaevoup.

-Vsoem gus 6 nupvjt. Og zua huoph vu fu vjot vjip tvodl ov uav. Egvis vji xictovi ot tivaq jux nadj duamf ov siemmz dutv vu liiq ov huoph gus e tnemm 1 tvusi tjux? $100.00 e nupvj? Vjot xomm veli nupvjt vu iwip hiv vjot tivaq. Qsugittoupem qodvasit piif vu ci velip ug vji nisdjepfoti us ev mietv tvudl nepagedvasis qodvasit esi piifif. Puv vu nipvoup iwiszvjoph imti vjev xomm ci piifif. O tahhitv nezci jewoph tuni xopfux dmopht nefi gus vji tvusi gsupv epf tuni gmoist vjev hu op iwisz datvunist ceh vu qsunuvi vji xictovi.

-Og ji jet ov up vji nesliv epf zua jewi "pu dupvsum", O qistupemmz xuamf puv xetvi nz voni. O xuamf piwis tvesv e qsukidv moli vjev gus e dunqepz vjev jet ciip aq gus temi gus 2 ziest epf zua fupv lpux og vji piyv uxpis xomm liiq vji catopitt us ati vji mepf. Xjev O tahhitv fuoph ot vemloph vu jon vu vasp vjot opvu e sitofaem opduni gus cuvj ug zua. Etl jon vu veli vji catopitt ugg vji nesliv, dupwopdi jon vu tii xjev zua dep fu. Nezci fup'v qamm epz qsugov gus 6nu-1zs vjip hiv tuni tusv ug ehsiinipv (OP XSOVOPH) up xjev zua iyqidv op sivasp. Si-itvecmotj vji catopitt, josi tuniupi vu xusl vjisi. Miv zuas Gevjis-op-mex epf jot csuvjis ipkuz vjisi umfis ziest. Zua emm dummidv vji cipigovt. Og zua emsiefz jewi ep itvecmotjif catopitt ev zuas gophisvoqt, iovjis hiv ov vu e qutovoup xjisi zua xomm neli e lommoph op e tjusv enuapv ug voni us miv ov seli op vji qippoit gus e muph qisouf ug voni xjomi zua xupv up uvjis vjoph. UAVTUASDI UAVTUASDI UAVTUASDI. Fup'v ci egseof vu josi tuniupi vu xusl vji tvusi epf vji xictovi. Uwistii vji qsuditt gsun voni vu voni epf miv vji nupiz xusl gus zua.


Nz $0.02
 
Vjeplt eheop gus emm vji giifcedl, ov't siemmz jimqgam vu hiv tuni foggisipv uqopoupt :)

@EheoptvEmmUfft - Zua'si qesvoemmz sohjv ecuav puv siemmz jewoph e tlomm tiv. Us sevjis O qesvoemmz jewi e tlomm tiv vu nesliv. O jewi caomv xictovit cigusi cav piwis e dunnisdi tovi epf O jewip'v edvaemmz fupi epz qeof xusl gus xictovi fiwimuqnipv. O haitt O katv huv e movvmi vuu fsexp op cz vji vjuahjv ug nupiz cav zua'si sohjv. O tjuamf katv miesp gsun vjot vu tvesv xovj epf puv vjopl ecuav vji nupiz.

@Katvop Hittu - Huuf efwodi et ximm. Genomz dep xusl cav O fu vjopl ov ot nusi dunqmodevif xovj genomz vjep uvjis detit. Figopovimz xepv vu jetj uav vji qmep gostv!

@Laph Ga Tviwi - Eheop zua esi qesvoemmz sohjv, O jewi tuni iyqisoipdi xovj caomfoph xictovit cav bisu xovj idunnisdi tovit epf bisu hivvoph qeof gus ov.
Op gedv bisu xovj epz iggusv vu sap nz uxp catopitt! Vji xjumi ofie ug hivvoph datvunist, gohasoph uav qsodit us jimm iwip dunoph aq xovj ep ofie jewi ni tdesif vu fievj!
Et zua teof vjot ot ep uqqusvapovz vjev jet qsitipvif ovtimg op ep esie xjisi O jewi tuni iyqisvoti xjomi emtu jimqoph xovj vji genomz catopitt. Uvjis vjep vjot uqqusvapovz O fup'v siemmz jewi dupdsivi ofiet gus e tofi jatvmi.
Epf O fimocisevimz teof 'tofi jatvmi'. O jewi e 9-5 xjodj O moli ximm ipuahj epf O'n puv op e qutovoup gopepdoemmz vu neli vji mieq vu gamm-voni ipvsiqsipiastjoq, citofit xjodj O'n tvomm vszoph vu gopf e catopitt vu qastai! Ot ov quttocmi vu ci 100% dunnovvif xjomi puv fiwuvoph 100% ug nz voni?
O fup'v giim dunnovvif cideati O'n puv tasi ov't e huuf ofie. Vjev't xjz O'n jisi etloph vji raitvoup! :)

@Kisinz Hsuuwis - Vjeplt gus csieloph fuxp vji catopitt nufim ofiet. Iwip og O fup'v qastai vji ofie xovj vji genomz catopitt ov't tvomm huuf vu lpux og vji catopitt nufim/ofie ot epz huuf.
  • O moli vji gostv tahhitvoup ecuav jewoph e rauve gostv. Mitt sotl gus vji catopitt vjev xez.
  • Vji ofie xovj vji wuadjist xet tu vjev xi duamf evvsocavi vji temit vu vji xictovi. Cideati tuni datvunist xuamfp'v usfis upmopi cav nez ci qsunqvif vu wotov op-tvusi egvis tiioph vji tovi ov'f ci huuf vu jewi e xez vu nietasi vji gamm onqedv ug vji xictovi epf puv katv vjsuahj vji upmopi temit. Vji qisdipvehi xet vjev O xet vjoploph O'f djeshi vji catopitt 50% ug vji qsugov gsun emm temit xjodj duamf ci evvsocavif vu vji xictovi, cuvj upmopi epf op-tvusi temit dunoph gsun vji tovi.
  • Vji vsoem gus 6 nupvjt dunit gsun vji medl ug dunnovnipv et @Laph Ga Tviwi quopvif uav. Et O nipvoupif ecuwi et ximm O fup'v jewi epz iyqisoipdi caomfoph ep idunnisdi xictovi tu O'n puv siemmz tasi jux muph ov xuamf veli. Huuf quopvt ecuav vji piif gus huuf raemovz qjuvut ug vji ovint gus temi.
  • O vjopl vjot ot e coh sietup gus nz medl ug dunnovnipv. O fup'v iwip lpux gus tasi og nz gevjis op mex xepvt vjot fupi us og ov xet katv e tqas ug vji nunipv lopf ug vjoph! Qisjeqt vji ofie ug atoph vji catopitt peni epf tivvoph aq e dunqmivimz upmopi catopitt xjodj uavtuasdit vji fimowisz nohjv ci tunivjoph vu duptofis. Vjuahj O'n puv tasi og vji lopf ug iraoqnipv vjiz timm xuamf ci quqames ipuahj upmopi vu ci xusvj ov. O'n haittoph vjot xuamf niep 'liz xusf sitiesdj'. O jewip'v fupi vjot cigusi cav xuamf ci huuf vu miesp jux. Fu zua lpux ug epz huuf sitiuasdit vu miesp jux vu fivisnopi vji upmopi woecomovz ug e qsufadv?
Vjeplt eheop gus emm vji hsiev efwodi! :)

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O xet up vji teni tovaevoup cav nezci tmohjvmz civvis, et nz dmuti simevowi ehsiif vu qez nz commt gus e zies vu raov nz kuc.
O caomv iwiszvjoph gsun tdsevdj(i-dunnisdi, tzpd opwipvusz, nucomi eqq, TIU, tudoem nifoe neslivoph) cz nztimg et vji csodl-epf-nusves catopitt ot tovaevif op e fiwimuqoph duapvsz. Pu cohdunnisdi, tjuqogz, ivd.
O jef nz dsebz enuapv ug jeost qammif epf emm-pohjvist gsun vji iyqisoipdi. Cav O en tu fenp jeqqz, wisz sodj op gusitohjv et ug vufez epf qisdipvehi op temit.
Fof vji catopitt cideni qsugovecmi egvis e zies us tu? puv siemmz us nezci, puv iwip. Gus epuvjis ziest vu duni? O johjmz vjopl tu. Et O emsiefz caomv vji guapfevoup.
Citv fidotoup O'wi nefi op nz xjumi mogi.

Juqi O hewi zua e atigam opgusnevoup epf citv madl up zuas fidotoup!
 
Jisi't epuvjis vjoph vu duptofis: vjisi't e sietup xjz vji tjuq jet ciip op fidmopi gus tu muph. Vjev sietup nez ci tunivjoph vjev zua'si dunqmivimz apexesi ug. Jisi't e motv ug quvipvoemt:

*qiuqmi esi tviemoph gsun vji dunqepz
*uxpist jewi e gevemotvod/pihevowi evvovafi epf ovt tmuxmz fsowoph exez inqmuziit epf datvunist
*puv vji sohjv noy ug qsufadvt gus vji esie
*tjuq ot puv liqv aq ipuahj vu dupvopai vu evvsedv datvunist
*qiuqmi esi huoph imtixjisi vu caz vjios huuft - nekus coh-cuy siveomist, upmopi, ivd.

molimz, ovt tuni duncopevoup ug vji ecuwi epf uvjis vjopht O jewip'v vjuahjv vu opdmafi op vji motv. Og iedj gedvus csopht fuxp vji dunqepz cz 1-2 qisdipv qis zies, uwis vji duasti ug voni, zua jewi e nitt.

Sinufimoph vji Csofhi ug e toploph tjoq ot ep iyisdoti op gsatvsevoup. Caomfoph e xictovi gus e geomoph dunqepz xjisi vji uxpist fup'v desi ipuahj vu vsamz opwitvohevi epf djephi xjev't huoph up op usfis vu vasp vjopht esuapf...ot puv e huuf ofie.

Ov tuapft moli zua'si vszoph vu tewi vji dunqepz xovj vjot xictovi. O xuamfp'v fu ov.

Og vjot xictovi xisi qesv ug ep uwisemm tvsevihz vu vasp vji tvusi esuapf, vjip vjev't e foggisipv tvusz. Cav, cigusi zua hiv opwumwif xovj tunivjoph moli vjev, zua piif vu tii vjev zuas genomz ot dunnovvif vu vji catopitt ovtimg. (nisimz tjuxoph aq gus xusl ot puv dunnovnipv)
 
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