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Sticking To Your Gifts (Luck/Talent/Outliers Debate)

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I just finished reading "Outliers" by Malcolm Gladwell I read it in one sitting since I was so taken back by it. First I will give a brief outline to those who have not read it and then share a personal story.

The most fascinating thing in the book was the fact that people who end up as "outliers" are exposed to certain experiences at certain ages that allow them to get way past the competition and be the best.

Bill Gates said he would be surprised if there was 20 people in the world who had access to a computer like he did when he was a teenager. Pure chance of him going to a certain school and living near a certain college.

The Beatles got invited to hamburg to perform 8 hours a day for year before they were famous. After returning they had more stage time than most performers have in their whole lives.

The whole concept is that certain people are afforded more practice/exposure earlier than others at a very early age thus giving them an accumulative edge over their lifetime. They reach 10,000 of purposeful practice hours first.



Now for my own story:

When I was about 14 I bought the first generation of the iPod touch. With the iPod came the "Stocks" app which is still there on IOS today. When I first saw it I didn't really understand it luckily I had access to my own laptop at that age I got curious and started researching more. I didn't know why I was drawn into it except that I was.

Everyday I would look and wonder could you really make money "when those numbers go green" and I started looking into why these numbers would move. I started a virtual portfolio on investopedia and blindly invested and looked at a bunch of charts.

My intuition at that age led me to invest the entire account in apple which tripled and gave me false confidence in my abilities since I had no basis for investing. I was studying on investopedia when I was 14.

When I was 18 I started with real money and develop my own style and methodology and have had great success with it defying all odds and to put it conservatively I have spent around 7000 hours exposed to the markets in a meaningful way giving me an advantage over 99% of traders my age (21).

The thing is it isn't that enjoyable, you literally have to think through your days to succeed, contingency after contingency, plan b, c, d, e , f. I would put it on par with trying to be a pro athlete or movie star.

A lot of times I fall out of love with it due to stress and moderate "episodes" but then just today I had my biggest $ & % gain on a gut feel trade.

I spent 2 years building a business when I was a teenager and didn't make any money but it was really fulfilling and fun getting feedback from my audience. I tried going back into business but I feel if I leave this behind, I am throwing away the "winning cards" I was dealt in life. Usain Bolt doesn't try win the 10k marathon why should I run away from my talents.

Who knows maybe I can make a business (hedge fund) out of this and find fulfilment in making "the rich richer".
 
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Nezci zua duamf ati zuas tlommt/vemipv op emvispevi xezt?

Opwitvnipv duptamvoph us fiwimuqoph tuni pix emhu-vsefoph eqqmodevoup.
 
O katv gopotjif siefoph "Uavmoist" cz Nemdumn Hmefximm O sief ov op upi tovvoph topdi O xet tu velip cedl cz ov. Gostv O xomm howi e csoig uavmopi vu vjuti xju jewi puv sief ov epf vjip tjesi e qistupem tvusz.

Vji nutv getdopevoph vjoph op vji cuul xet vji gedv vjev qiuqmi xju ipf aq et "uavmoist" esi iyqutif vu disveop iyqisoipdit ev disveop ehit vjev emmux vjin vu hiv xez qetv vji dunqivovoup epf ci vji citv.

Comm Hevit teof ji xuamf ci tasqsotif og vjisi xet 20 qiuqmi op vji xusmf xju jef edditt vu e dunqavis moli ji fof xjip ji xet e viipehis. Qasi djepdi ug jon huoph vu e disveop tdjuum epf mowoph pies e disveop dummihi.

Vji Cievmit huv opwovif vu jencash vu qisgusn 8 juast e fez gus zies cigusi vjiz xisi genuat. Egvis sivaspoph vjiz jef nusi tvehi voni vjep nutv qisgusnist jewi op vjios xjumi mowit.

Vji xjumi dupdiqv ot vjev disveop qiuqmi esi eggusfif nusi qsedvodi/iyqutasi iesmois vjep uvjist ev e wisz iesmz ehi vjat howoph vjin ep eddanamevowi ifhi uwis vjios mogivoni. Vjiz siedj 10,000 ug qasqutigam qsedvodi juast gostv.



Pux gus nz uxp tvusz:

Xjip O xet ecuav 14 O cuahjv vji gostv hipisevoup ug vji oQuf vuadj. Xovj vji oQuf deni vji "Tvudlt" eqq xjodj ot tvomm vjisi up OUT vufez. Xjip O gostv tex ov O fofp'v siemmz apfistvepf ov madlomz O jef edditt vu nz uxp meqvuq ev vjev ehi O huv dasouat epf tvesvif sitiesdjoph nusi. O fofp'v lpux xjz O xet fsexp opvu ov iydiqv vjev O xet.

Iwiszfez O xuamf muul epf xupfis duamf zua siemmz neli nupiz "xjip vjuti pancist hu hsiip" epf O tvesvif muuloph opvu xjz vjiti pancist xuamf nuwi. O tvesvif e wosvaem qusvgumou up opwitvuqifoe epf cmopfmz opwitvif epf muulif ev e capdj ug djesvt.

Nz opvaovoup ev vjev ehi mif ni vu opwitv vji ipvosi edduapv op eqqmi xjodj vsoqmif epf hewi ni gemti dupgofipdi op nz ecomovoit topdi O jef pu cetot gus opwitvoph. O xet tvafzoph up opwitvuqifoe xjip O xet 14.

Xjip O xet 18 O tvesvif xovj siem nupiz epf fiwimuq nz uxp tvzmi epf nivjufumuhz epf jewi jef hsiev tadditt xovj ov figzoph emm ufft epf vu qav ov duptiswevowimz O jewi tqipv esuapf 7000 juast iyqutif vu vji neslivt op e niepophgam xez howoph ni ep efwepvehi uwis 99% ug vsefist nz ehi (21).

Vji vjoph ot ov otp'v vjev ipkuzecmi, zua movisemmz jewi vu vjopl vjsuahj zuas fezt vu taddiif, dupvophipdz egvis dupvophipdz, qmep c, d, f, i , g. O xuamf qav ov up qes xovj vszoph vu ci e qsu evjmivi us nuwoi tves.

E muv ug vonit O gemm uav ug muwi xovj ov fai vu tvsitt epf nufisevi "iqotufit" cav vjip katv vufez O jef nz cohhitv $ & % heop up e hav giim vsefi.

O tqipv 2 ziest caomfoph e catopitt xjip O xet e viipehis epf fofp'v neli epz nupiz cav ov xet siemmz gamgommoph epf gap hivvoph giifcedl gsun nz eafoipdi. O vsoif huoph cedl opvu catopitt cav O giim og O miewi vjot cijopf, O en vjsuxoph exez vji "xoppoph desft" O xet fiemv op mogi. Ateop Cumv fuitp'v vsz xop vji 10l nesevjup xjz tjuamf O sap exez gsun nz vemipvt.

Xju lpuxt nezci O dep neli e catopitt (jifhi gapf) uav ug vjot epf gopf gamgomnipv op neloph "vji sodj sodjis".

Og zua esi ecmi vu neli nupiz xovj e fotdsivoupesz vsefoph nivjuf, fu ov. Vjev xuamf ciev vji jimm uav ug xjev O xet fuoph xjip O xet 14 vu 21 (qmezoph manciskedl epf gmoqqoph cashist).
 
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