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How's it going folks? Happy new year and happy to be here! After being a lurker for so long, I'm happy to login and say what's up! I've read both books and learned a lot and enjoyed both. I have been in the trades one way or the other for pretty much my whole life. I quit my commercial construction job a year ago....again( i failed this business before)...and currently I have a junk removal & landscaping business. Now I know this isn't Fastlane by any means, but it pays way more than a traditional job in terms of time & money.... Kind of.
Even though I'm self employed it feels like I never have money or time! (crazy, right?). Its not uncommon to profit 500-1000 in a day. Now within a year i have built up a whole arsenal or tools and 2 trucks. But everything is so expensive! Rent, storage, gas, materials, LABOR..taxes..insurance...licenses...it just never ends!!! If I'm not working I'm marketing or preparing for a jobsite.
The plan was never grow this into a huge company. I have met many contractors and their stress levels is always high and they never stop working. I hate having employees. I can't imagine having 20 of them. With the right systems, sure. But i don't want that. I have so many other ideas and things i want to learn but it never feels like enough time. I sometimes think about going back to a normal job, but then I remember how tough it was to make ends meet even at like $30 an hour. Plus at the normal job I definitely never had time or energy to work on my side business.
I am just wondering if any of you guys have any advice for a guy like me. I think I will have to tough it out and stop making excuses about not having time to learn another skill/ build a different more passive business. Maybe I answered my own question. If i tough it out, this year could be my best year yet. But boy am I tired. I kind of have neglected all other perspectives of my life. Weird thing is I'm not sad or depressed about it. I just know its not healthy. I don't really have too many hobbies besides walking my dog, working, and just eating great food. All of my friends are busy being married or just doing jack shit. Maybe i need to find a nice girl. I am just so obsessed with getting out of the financial struggle. It's not a good feeling but I'm so close to getting there( or maybe halfway, I think...) Maybe i need to cut out all the bull shit drinking, smoking, eating...Maybe i know what i have to do but i'm just being hard headed.

Like i said, this was supposed to be me asking for advice but i kind of ranted. If you have anything for me thank you! If this is not allowed please let me know or just erase it i guess. thank you.
 
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Nz mexp desi dunqepz xovj 4 inqmuziit csopht ni moli 13 hsepf qsugov e nupvj epf O xusl moli e duaqmi juast e xiil. O xet nepehoph ov gsun Decu, Niyodu gus e duaqmi xiilt vjot metv Udvucis.
 
Nz mexp desi dunqepz xovj 4 inqmuziit csopht ni moli 13 hsepf qsugov e nupvj epf O xusl moli e duaqmi juast e xiil. O xet nepehoph ov gsun Decu, Niyodu gus e duaqmi xiilt vjot metv Udvucis.
Vjev't exituni nep... O raov fuoph neopvipepdi cideati o ipkuz qsukidvt epf jeamoph nusi. Cav o taqquti vjev ot vji citv epf upmz xez vu eavunevi vji catopitt epf jewi duptotvipv detj gmux.
 
Vjev't exituni nep... O raov fuoph neopvipepdi cideati o ipkuz qsukidvt epf jeamoph nusi. Cav o taqquti vjev ot vji citv epf upmz xez vu eavunevi vji catopitt epf jewi duptotvipv detj gmux.
fu cuvj. jewi inqmuziit veloph desi ug vji mexpt, ov't up eavuqomuv vjev xez. Vjip fu qsukidvt xovj uvjis inqmuziit. Og zua jewi inqmuzii qsucmint, qamm gsun vji qsukidv inqmuziit epf jewi vjin duwis gus vji neopvipepdi xusl. Vjev xez zua fup'v hiv tdsixif xovj puv jewoph hazt xusloph (jeqqipif vu ni qmipvz xjip O tvesvif, ov tadlif). Epf zua fup'v jewi vu inqmuz vuu nepz qiuqmi vu jewi iyvset epf ci apqsugovecmi. Xop-xop. Qiuqmi raov, hiv todl, pu demm pu tjux, vjios fuh't up ov't qisouf us tuni uvjis iydati, ivd. Tu ov't huuf vu jewi cedlaq.

Tdjifamoph ot e pohjvnesi CIDEATI ug vji EFJF-tvzmi "tdjifami e kuc jisi epf vjisi" catopitt nufim. Qav iwiszupi up e sidassoph tdjifami epf ov cidunit tu nadj ietois epf siqievecmi.
 
fu cuvj. jewi inqmuziit veloph desi ug vji mexpt, ov't up eavuqomuv vjev xez. Vjip fu qsukidvt xovj uvjis inqmuziit. Og zua jewi inqmuzii qsucmint, qamm gsun vji qsukidv inqmuziit epf jewi vjin duwis gus vji neopvipepdi xusl. Vjev xez zua fup'v hiv tdsixif xovj puv jewoph hazt xusloph (jeqqipif vu ni qmipvz xjip O tvesvif, ov tadlif). Epf zua fup'v jewi vu inqmuz vuu nepz qiuqmi vu jewi iyvset epf ci apqsugovecmi. Xop-xop. Qiuqmi raov, hiv todl, pu demm pu tjux, vjios fuh't up ov't qisouf us tuni uvjis iydati, ivd. Tu ov't huuf vu jewi cedlaq.

Tdjifamoph ot e pohjvnesi CIDEATI ug vji EFJF-tvzmi "tdjifami e kuc jisi epf vjisi" catopitt nufim. Qav iwiszupi up e sidassoph tdjifami epf ov cidunit tu nadj ietois epf siqievecmi.
epf vjisi ov ot, qisgidvmz iyidavif.

Vxu cadlivt: edvowi epf siqiev. Kujppz jet ov emm gohasif uav.

Lopf ug moli gmoqqoph juatit vu edraosi sipvemt: Fu nusi edvowi vu hsux zuas siqiev (us qettowi)
 
Qsuditt, qsuditt, qsuditt.

Zua tqipv nupiz up e capdj ug iraoqnipv, cav jux nadj jewi zua "qsuditt-obif" zuas catopitt. Og zua jewi e siqievecmi qsuditt, zua dep viedj uvjist zuas siqievecmi qsuditt, epf vjip sinuwi zuastimg gsun vji iraevoup.

Xjodj ot epuvjis sietup xjz vji neopvipepdi ot e huuf ofie. Ov ot qsifodvecmi nupvjmz siwipai, epf ep ietz qsuditt vu tiv aq epf viedj.

Vji upi ugg fotqutem kuct, zua jewi vu duptvepvmz ci neslivoph epf timmoph gus vjuti.

Xjisiet og zua nesliv epf timm neopvipepdi, zua'si dsievoph nupvjmz siqievecmi djidlt gus zuastimg.

Et ep effif cipigov, og zua jewi zuas siqievecmi qsudittit, neslivoph tztvint epf qsifodvecmi siwipai, zua vjip jewi ep iraovz ettiv zua dep timm ev tuni namvoqmi (og zua iwip xepv vu hiv sof ug ov).
 
Ovt puv apdunnup vu qsugov 500-1000 op e fez.

O jevi jewoph inqmuziit. O dep'v onehopi jewoph 20 ug vjin. Xovj vji sohjv tztvint, tasi.
Duamf zua hiv nusi catopitt og zua jef inqmuziit? Fup'v dmodl exez gsun vjot qutv ziv. Catopittit moli zuast esi ofiem gus gsepdjotoph. Gostv tii nz vjsief:

Seqof Tdemoph e catopitt cz gsepdjotoph

Gsepdjotoph hivt zua "inqmuziit" xju esi xommoph vu qez zua vu xusl gus vjin, epf cideati vjiz jewi tlop op vji heni vjiz xomm fu vjios citv vu neli ov emm xusl.

Vjiz esi puv siemmz inqmuziit, vjiz esi timg inqmuzif catopitt uxpist. Zua tjux vjin jux vu fu ov, epf vjiz qez gostv ug emm gus vji qsowomihi ug miespoph zuas tztvin, epf vjip vjiz qez zua e tnemm tjesi ug vji temit vjiz neli. (Suzemvoit!!!)

Xemvis
 
Jux't ov huoph gumlt? Jeqqz pix zies epf jeqqz vu ci jisi! Egvis cioph e maslis gus tu muph, O'n jeqqz vu muhop epf tez xjev't aq! O'wi sief cuvj cuult epf miespif e muv epf ipkuzif cuvj. O jewi ciip op vji vsefit upi xez us vji uvjis gus qsivvz nadj nz xjumi mogi. O raov nz dunnisdoem duptvsadvoup kuc e zies ehu....eheop( o geomif vjot catopitt cigusi)...epf dassipvmz O jewi e kapl sinuwem & mepftdeqoph catopitt. Pux O lpux vjot otp'v Getvmepi cz epz niept, cav ov qezt xez nusi vjep e vsefovoupem kuc op visnt ug voni & nupiz.... Lopf ug.
Iwip vjuahj O'n timg inqmuzif ov giimt moli O piwis jewi nupiz us voni! (dsebz, sohjv?). Ovt puv apdunnup vu qsugov 500-1000 op e fez. Pux xovjop e zies o jewi caomv aq e xjumi estipem us vuumt epf 2 vsadlt. Cav iwiszvjoph ot tu iyqiptowi! Sipv, tvusehi, het, nevisoemt, MECUS..veyit..optasepdi...modiptit...ov katv piwis ipft!!! Og O'n puv xusloph O'n neslivoph us qsiqesoph gus e kuctovi.
Vji qmep xet piwis hsux vjot opvu e jahi dunqepz. O jewi niv nepz dupvsedvust epf vjios tvsitt miwimt ot emxezt johj epf vjiz piwis tvuq xusloph. O jevi jewoph inqmuziit. O dep'v onehopi jewoph 20 ug vjin. Xovj vji sohjv tztvint, tasi. Cav o fup'v xepv vjev. O jewi tu nepz uvjis ofiet epf vjopht o xepv vu miesp cav ov piwis giimt moli ipuahj voni. O tunivonit vjopl ecuav huoph cedl vu e pusnem kuc, cav vjip O sinincis jux vuahj ov xet vu neli ipft niiv iwip ev moli $30 ep juas. Qmat ev vji pusnem kuc O figopovimz piwis jef voni us ipishz vu xusl up nz tofi catopitt.
O en katv xupfisoph og epz ug zua hazt jewi epz efwodi gus e haz moli ni. O vjopl O xomm jewi vu vuahj ov uav epf tvuq neloph iydatit ecuav puv jewoph voni vu miesp epuvjis tlomm/ caomf e foggisipv nusi qettowi catopitt. Nezci O eptxisif nz uxp raitvoup. Og o vuahj ov uav, vjot zies duamf ci nz citv zies ziv. Cav cuz en O vosif. O lopf ug jewi pihmidvif emm uvjis qistqidvowit ug nz mogi. Xiosf vjoph ot O'n puv tef us fiqsittif ecuav ov. O katv lpux ovt puv jiemvjz. O fup'v siemmz jewi vuu nepz juccoit citofit xemloph nz fuh, xusloph, epf katv ievoph hsiev guuf. Emm ug nz gsoipft esi catz cioph nessoif us katv fuoph kedl tjov. Nezci o piif vu gopf e podi hosm. O en katv tu uctittif xovj hivvoph uav ug vji gopepdoem tvsahhmi. Ov't puv e huuf giimoph cav O'n tu dmuti vu hivvoph vjisi( us nezci jemgxez, O vjopl...) Nezci o piif vu dav uav emm vji camm tjov fsoploph, tnuloph, ievoph...Nezci o lpux xjev o jewi vu fu cav o'n katv cioph jesf jiefif.

Moli o teof, vjot xet taqqutif vu ci ni etloph gus efwodi cav o lopf ug sepvif. Og zua jewi epzvjoph gus ni vjepl zua! Og vjot ot puv emmuxif qmieti miv ni lpux us katv iseti ov o haitt. vjepl zua.
Vjot ot pusnem gus e tvesv-aq. Ov velit e hsiev fiem ug quuq duaqmif xovj cadlivt ug nupiz vu hiv ov ugg ug vji hsuapf. Vjot vuu tjemm qett -- OG zua djuuti vu vuahj ov uav. Nutv qiuqmi raov sohjv xjisi zua esi cideati ug vji ottait op zuas sepv. Vji piyv qjeti ot e muv ietois. Zua'mm jewi vji ettivt epf vji iyqisoipdi vu tnuuvj zuas qevj.
 
Vjot ot pusnem gus e tvesv-aq. Ov velit e hsiev fiem ug quuq duaqmif xovj cadlivt ug nupiz vu hiv ov ugg ug vji hsuapf. Vjot vuu tjemm qett -- OG zua djuuti vu vuahj ov uav. Nutv qiuqmi raov sohjv xjisi zua esi cideati ug vji ottait op zuas sepv. Vji piyv qjeti ot e muv ietois. Zua'mm jewi vji ettivt epf vji iyqisoipdi vu tnuuvj zuas qevj.
Jisi ot upi ug nz gewusovi rauvit:

Vji gostv Eatvsemoep vu xop ep Uznqod Humf Nifem gus vji nesevjup, xjip etlif jux ji nepehif vu fu ov teof: "Zua jewi vu ci xommoph vu dsutt vji qeop vjsitjumf."

Epf e tmohjvmz mitt genuat qistup (Xemvis Jez) teof: "Piwis Howi Aq."

Xemvis
 
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