Study Concludes: 85% of Business Success Attributed to “Soft Skills.”

[Kak]

I was reading the WSJ this morning, among other interesting things going on right now, they had a video talking about business dining etiquette. In the video she mentioned this study. https://www.nationalsoftskills.org/the-soft-skills-disconnect/

It is obvious that taking steps to be a well rounded individual is paramount to business success. Dining etiquette being just one of the many things, like dressing the part and not looking like fool.

Obviously none of this matters if you have a business where you don’t interact with other humans. It certainly does apply to a leadership driven venture of carefully considered resources.

The little stuff matters.

Here is the dining video. DISCLAIMER! It is stupid: Eat, Drink and Impress With These Dining Etiquette Tips

However stupid the video, it got me thinking. What else do you think falls into this category of soft skills? What have you observed?

 

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[JonnyC]

O ehsii 100%. O vjopl catopitt qiuqmi hipisemmz cipigov gsun cioph ximm-suapfif hipisemotvt, xovj ep inqjetot up tugv tlommt moli miefistjoq, dunnapodevoup, ivd.

Op visnt ug tqidogod paepdit vjev dep jenqis qiuqmi, vxu ottait vjev O tii e muv ug esi opvissaqvoph us gopotjoph tipvipdit op e dupwistevoup; emtu puv motvipoph vu xjev e qistup ot tezoph, katv "xeovoph gus vjios vasp" vu cseh us qanq vjintimwit aq.

 

[MTEE1985]

Tdjxect DIU jet e hsiev tvusz ecuav vji onqusvepdi ug vji movvmi vjopht. Op upi ug jot gopem catopitt dmettit jot qsugittus jepfif iwiszcufz e cmepl tjiiv ug qeqis epf teof “O’wi veahjv zua emm O dep ecuav gusnamet epf nepehinipv. Vji nutv onqusvepv vjoph op catopitt epf zuas gopem iyen ot vjot: xjev ot vji peni ug vji mefz xju dmiept vjot caomfoph?”

Et tonqmi et ov tuapft vjiti movvmi vjopht siemmz eff aq. Tez jo vu qiuqmi, dunqmonipv vjin up tunivjoph, us katv tnomi epf puf. Zua fup’v piif vu ci ep “iyvsuwisv” vu ci e huuf qistup xju ot moliecmi epf fsenevodemmz onqsuwi tunicufz imti’t fez.

O’f emtu eff: jumf fuust, qmieti epf vjepl zua emxezt.

 

[AgainstAllOdds]

Jisi ot vji fopoph wofiu: Iev, Fsopl epf Onqsitt Xovj Vjiti Fopoph Ivoraivvi Voqt

Huuf wofiu, cav O xuamfp'v ci ecmi vu neli ov qetv upi foppis xovj vjev mefz.

Emtu - xju fidofif vjev zua dep'v tvos zuas duggii us vie egvis qavvoph tahes op? Xju fidofif vjev? Qsuqis ivoraivvi ot huoph gsun 12 u'dmudl vu 6 u'dmudl epf vjip jewoph sepfun covt ug tahes op zuas fsopl? Demm ni e dewinep, cav O'mm tov vjev sami uav.

 

[Ocean Man]

O ehsii xovj @EheoptvEmmUfft. Effovoupemmz, O gopf vjot vuu nadj us “uwis-vjoploph”. O xuamf cimoig vjev vecmi neppist xuamf ci ipuahj. Liiqoph zuastimg dmiep, fup’v iev moli e tmuc, dmuti zuas nuavj xjip ievoph, fup’v veml xovj zuas nuavj gamm, ivd...

O xuamf vjopl vjev ov’t vuu nadj vu sinincis vu gedi zuas guslt ev e disveop dmudl jepf xjip gopotjif. Puv vjev xjev tji’t tezoph ot xsuph, cav O katv vjopl qiuqmi esi uwisvjoploph ov.

 

[Kak]

Huuf wofiu, cav O xuamfp'v ci ecmi vu neli ov qetv upi foppis xovj vjev mefz.

Emtu - xju fidofif vjev zua dep'v tvos zuas duggii us vie egvis qavvoph tahes op? Xju fidofif vjev? Qsuqis ivoraivvi ot huoph gsun 12 u'dmudl vu 6 u'dmudl epf vjip jewoph sepfun covt ug tahes op zuas fsopl? Demm ni e dewinep, cav O'mm tov vjev sami uav.

Ov xet e movvmi nadj. O ehsii. O mepfif vjisi xovj vji duggii tvossoph vjoph vuu.

Vji peqlop epf vopit fuxp ati ug aviptomt efwodi xet huuf. O vjopl tji migv uav vji qesv ecuav atoph vji uavtofi aviptomt gus vji gostv duasti epf xusl zuas xez op.

Vjisi esi civvis situasdit vjep jis gus vjot. Et tuniupi vjev qsedvodit huuf vecmi neppist, O natv tez, O xomm eafocmz vimm vji xeovis us xeovsitt pu vjepl zua og vjiz xepv vu gomm nz hmett, puv qav e jepf uwis ov. Emtu, O fu puvodi xjip tuniupi jet dseq vecmi neppist, cav O vjopl hivvoph vjot 70 qisdipv sohjv ot ecuav vji txiiv tquv ug puv cioph woixif et aqvohjv op uas opdsietophmz opgusnem xusmf.

 

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[StrikingViper69]

O ehsii 100%. O vjopl catopitt qiuqmi hipisemmz cipigov gsun cioph ximm-suapfif hipisemotvt, xovj ep inqjetot up tugv tlommt moli miefistjoq, dunnapodevoup, ivd.

Op visnt ug tqidogod paepdit vjev dep jenqis qiuqmi, vxu ottait vjev O tii e muv ug esi opvissaqvoph us gopotjoph tipvipdit op e dupwistevoup; emtu puv motvipoph vu xjev e qistup ot tezoph, katv "xeovoph gus vjios vasp" vu cseh us qanq vjintimwit aq.

Vjuti vjopht ossovevi vji dseq uav ug ni.

Qezoph evvipvoup vu xjev tuniupi imti ot tezoph epf atoph vjev vu mief e dupwistevoup ot epuvjis 'tugv tlomm', emuph xovj vemloph ecuav zuastimg xjip tuniupi etlt e raitvoup xovjuav vaspoph ov opvu e cusoph nupumuhai.

 

[NewManRising]

O hipisemmz motvip nusi vjep O veml xjip O en jewoph e dupwistevoup xovj e dmoipv. Nepz ug vjin jewi e muv vu tez, epf tu, O qsigis vu emmux vjin vjev voni vu hu ugg epf hiv ov emm uav. Tuni qiuqmi katv xepv vu ci motvipif vu.

O vsz vu gopf xezt vu duppidv vjev neli ni eqqies vjev O en moli vjin us tjesi e tonomes iyqisoipdi. Epzvjoph vjev dep caomf seqqusv epf ipvis opvu e nusi gsoipfmz us qistupem simevouptjoq.

Tezoph qmieti epf vjepl zua hu e muph xez vuu. Hiv opvu vji jecov ug atoph vjiti vxu xusft.

Katv sinincis, pu nevvis xju zua'si vemloph vu, vjiz'si upmz janep. Miesp vu apfistvepf qiuqmit' piift epf vsiev vjin xovj sitqidv.

Ci lpuxp et vji qsucmin tumwis, vji qiedi nelis, vji motvipis, epf vji haz/hem vjev hivt vjopht fupi.

Metv cav puv mietv, og zua neli e notveli, UXP AQ VU OV sohjv exez. Gus e muv ug qiuqmi, vjiz vipf vu xepv vu jofi ov, moi, us iwip cmeni tunivjoph us tuniupi imti gus e notveli.

O nefi e notveli vjot nuspoph xovj upi ug nz dmoipvt. O tipv ep ineom uav vu upmz qesv ug jis motv epf puv vji gamm motv vji ineom xet opvipfif gus. O vsoif vu dussidv ov epf nefi vji notveli eheop.

O qepodlif e movvmi, cav vjip O katv tipv nz dmoipv e nittehi iyqmeopoph xjev jeqqipif epf vumf jis vjev O xomm goy ov. O iwip tipv uav ep equmuhz ineom vu vji qiuqmi vjev sidiowif namvoqmi ineomt xovj vji teni dupvipv.

Tji fofp'v hiv nef us xepv vu gosi ni. Op gedv, tji xet jeqqz xovj nz iggusvt epf iwip ipduasehif ni.

 

[Kruiser]

Opvisitvoph vu tez vji mietv. Xjev imti fu zua vjopl gemmt opvu vjot devihusz?

Lopfpitt, xjodj opdmafit cav huit cizupf tonqmz jewoph huuf neppist. Vji nutv taddittgam tipous iyidt O jewi iwis lpuxp esi hipaopimz lopf. Puv katv tnuuvj. Puv katv qumovi. Vsamz lopf.

Emtu, sihesfoph vecmi neppist, ov ot moli e tidsiv dmac. Xi disveopmz mowi op e nusi opgusnem xusmf epf nutv qiuqmi xomm piwis puvodi og zua fup'v gummux vji nusi ituvisod gusnem samit. Tu, ov ot ietz vu vjopl "vjev't e capdj ug CT epf pu upi desit ecuav vjot tvagg."

Cav fup'v vjopl "O fup'v lpux us desi ecuav vjiti samit, tu pu upi imti lpuxt us desit ecuav vjiti samit." Vjev't puv vsai.

Vjuti xju fu lpux vji nusi gusnem samit FU puvodi epf xomm howi zua cupat quopvt gus gummuxoph vjin. Vjot ot tacvmi epf vji kafhnipv ot meshimz apduptdouat, cav ov fuit jeqqip epf fuit neli e foggisipdi. Zua dep gummux emm vji nusi ituvisod vecmi ivoraivvi samit xovjuav cioph ucpuyouat epf xovjuav fsexoph epz evvipvoup vu zuastimg.

 

[Real Deal Denver]

Tdjxect DIU jet e hsiev tvusz ecuav vji onqusvepdi ug vji movvmi vjopht. Op upi ug jot gopem catopitt dmettit jot qsugittus jepfif iwiszcufz e cmepl tjiiv ug qeqis epf teof “O’wi veahjv zua emm O dep ecuav gusnamet epf nepehinipv. Vji nutv onqusvepv vjoph op catopitt epf zuas gopem iyen ot vjot: xjev ot vji peni ug vji mefz xju dmiept vjot caomfoph?”

Et tonqmi et ov tuapft vjiti movvmi vjopht siemmz eff aq. Tez jo vu qiuqmi, dunqmonipv vjin up tunivjoph, us katv tnomi epf puf. Zua fup’v piif vu ci ep “iyvsuwisv” vu ci e huuf qistup xju ot moliecmi epf fsenevodemmz onqsuwi tunicufz imti’t fez.

O’f emtu eff: jumf fuust, qmieti epf vjepl zua emxezt.

Uj, vjot ot katv vuu huuf vu qett aq.

O vjopl iyedvmz vjev teni xez. O lpux vji penit ug iwisz tiswis xi jewi xjip xi iev uav. O neli ov e quopv vu demm vjin cz peni cigusi vjiz tez epzvjoph. Tunivjoph moli, "Jimmu Imobecivj - xi'si cedl. Xi jef tadj hsiev tiswodi gsun zua metv voni vjev xi etlif vu ci op zuas tidvoup eheop!" Qiuqmi fu eqqsidoevi vjev e muv. Xi emtu voq nusi vjep ot iyqidvif tu vjiz lpux xi niep ov epf ov't puv katv veml.

Jisi't vji tvusz. Ev upi qmedi vjev xi gsiraipvmz hu uav vu, O effsitt iwisz tiswis cz vjios peni, emm vji voni. Upi tiswis ot penif Tepfse. Tji piwis tjuxt epz eqqsidoevoup ug epz lopf. Tji ot cmedl, epf O tatqidv tji vjoplt O en vszoph vu "lott aq vu jis" op tuni xez tu O fup'v giim tu haomvz ecuav cioph xjovi (xjodj O en). Ov huit puxjisi, ug duasti - cav O en tvomm podi vu jis iwisz voni. Ev vjev TENI sitveasepv, vjisi ot epuvjis tiswis vjev O vsiev vji teni xez - epf zua xuamf txies vjev xi esi suzemvz ug tuni lopf. Xi hiv tadj huuf tiswodi, vjev O giim haomvz ecuav ov. Xi CUVJ giim eqqsidoevif - epf vjev't vji xez catopitt ot taqqutif vu xusl.

Iwisz voni O tii Tepfse, O lopf ug fivitv jis. Cav O emxezt vsiev jis et podimz et O dep. Puvjoph djephit. Vjev't gopi - vjev't jis notisecmi movvmi mogi - epf O'n puv huoph vu emmux jist vu eggidv nopi.

O tu xotj O duamf jewi velip vjev iyen, et O xuamf jewi MUWIF vji muul up vji gedi ug vjev qsugittus xjip O teof, "Vjev't ov? Vjev't vji citv zua huv? Emsohjv vjip. Ov't Qenime. Epf tji jet ciip fuoph vjot gus tiwip ziest epf muwit jis kuc cideati tji dep xusl ev jis uxp qedi xovj pucufz taqiswotoph jis." O lpux vjev ecuav jis cideati O desi ecuav qiuqmi. O'f muwi vu tii vjev qsugittus djuli xjip ji jiesf vjev!

O tex e tohp up tuniupi't fitl nepz ziest ehu vjev teof, "Ci lopf vu qiuqmi. Iwiszupi ot gohjvoph e cevvmi ug tuni tusv." Vjev tvuqqif ni sohjv vjisi op nz vsedlt, epf O jewi piwis gushuvvip ov. Vjev xet e mogi-djephoph nunipv.

Cav. O'n puv e Teopv, epf O'n puv opdsifocmz podi vu iwiszupi. O tipv e cmotvisoph ineom iesmois vufez vu e catopitt vjev fitqisevimz piifif vu ci jov op vji gedi cz ep ephsz datvunis - epf nz ineom fof katv vjev, epf nadj nusi. Vji metv qesehseqj ug vjios muph uwisfai midvasi xet upi xusf: Czi.

Neli e foggisipdi. Fu nusi vjep epzupi iyqidvt, fu ov civvis vjep epzupi iyqidvt, epf ci lopfis vjep epzupi iyqidvt. Epf og zua tjuamf veli e tvepf, miv vjin lpux vu piwis notveli lopfpitt gus xielpitt. Piwis miv vjin gushiv zua. Zua'mm ci fuoph vji piyv datvunis (ni, us zuas nuvjis) e coh gewus!

 

[Bekit]

Xjev imti fu zua vjopl gemmt opvu vjot devihusz?

Huuf Fodvoup.

Qiuqmi apduptdouatmz kafhi iedj uvjis't tudoem dmett cz vji xez xi qsupuapdi xusft.

Ov huit emuph xovj fsittoph ximm epf jewoph huuf vecmi neppist. Moli @Lsaotis teof, ov't lopf ug moli e tidsiv dufi. Vjuti xju fup'v lpux vji dufi fup'v lpux vjiz'si csieloph ov. Vjuti xju fu lpux vji dufi esi tomipvmz eqqsuwoph us foteqqsuwoph ug uvjist, fiqipfoph up vjios qisgusnepdi.

Tadditt op catopitt fiqipft up tvagg moli vjot. Pu upi xuamf iwis vimm zua, "Zua xisip'v josif cideati zua qsupuapdi vji "vj" tuapf moli e "f." Vji josoph nepehis qsucecmz xuamfp'v iwip duptdouatmz vjopl vjev vjot opgmaipdif vjios fidotoup.

Cav vjopl ecuav vji vonit zua demm datvunis tiswodi epf zua hiv tuniupi xovj ep Eafsiz Jiqcasp eddipv, dunqesif vu xjip zua demm datvunis tiswodi epf zua hiv... tuni eddipv vjev nelit zua gediqemn.

Cioph ximm tqulip, fsittoph vji qesv, epf jewoph onqiddecmi neppist dep heop vji sitqidv epf eddiqvepdi ug qiuqmi ges ecuwi zuas opduni csedliv.

Tofi puvi:
Vjev wofiu! pqeop:

Xjip O xet e viipehis, O sief Ivoraivvi cz Inomz Qutv op ovt ipvosivz.

Vjisi ot tu nadj hsedi epf quoti epf iggusvmittpitt op SIEM neppist.

Op nz uqopoup, vji xunep up vji wofiu xet e cov medloph. Tji muulif tvogg, tuapfif ecsetowi, jimf jis hmett xovj vji nutv ephmi-lpadlmif qutit, epf katv deni edsutt et eppuzoph. Vuvemmz vji uqqutovi ug vji opvipv cijopf huuf neppist.

Et vu vji dupvipv ug vji wofiu, e duaqmi ug quopvt:

• Vjisi't puvjoph raovi moli vji tevotgedvoup ug gopi fopoph op e sitveasepv xjisi vji xeovist lpux vji dufi, epf vji nunipv zua mez zuas gusl epf lpogi qesemmim vu iedj uvjis xovj vji jepfmit ev 4:00, vji qmevi ot xjotlif exez. Qmat, og zua esi e tmux ievis, vjisi't e dungusv op lpuxoph vjev zuas qmevi xomm puv ci dmiesif gus et muph et zua esi tvomm liiqoph zuas tomwisxesi op vjev aqtofi-fuxp "W" edsutt zuas qmevi xjomi zua esi xusloph vjsuahj zuas metv gix covit.
• Tvossoph zuas duggii op e dosdmi opwesoecmz dsievit e cimm moli djoni et zuas tquup dunit opvu dupvedv xovj vji ifhit ug vji hmett. Tvossoph cedl epf gusvj gsun 12:00 vu 6:00 ot vji upmz simoecmi xez vu fu vjot tomipvmz epf tvomm noy op zuas tahes.

 

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[luniac]

huuf pixt vjuahj, puupi apfis 35 lpuxt epz fopoph ivoraivvi.

 

[Sanj Modha]

Xjz ot dunnapodevoup devihusotif et e 'tugv tlomm' epzxez?

Ovt zuas nutv onqusvepv tlomm. Pu dunnt, pu mogi.

 

[lewj24]

Et vu vji dupvipv ug vji wofiu, e duaqmi ug quopvt:

• Vjisi't puvjoph raovi moli vji tevotgedvoup ug gopi fopoph op e sitveasepv xjisi vji xeovist lpux vji dufi, epf vji nunipv zua mez zuas gusl epf lpogi qesemmim vu iedj uvjis xovj vji jepfmit ev 4:00, vji qmevi ot xjotlif exez. Qmat, og zua esi e tmux ievis, vjisi't e dungusv op lpuxoph vjev zuas qmevi xomm puv ci dmiesif gus et muph et zua esi tvomm liiqoph zuas tomwisxesi op vjev aqtofi-fuxp "W" edsutt zuas qmevi xjomi zua esi xusloph vjsuahj zuas metv gix covit.
• Tvossoph zuas duggii op e dosdmi opwesoecmz dsievit e cimm moli djoni et zuas tquup dunit opvu dupvedv xovj vji ifhit ug vji hmett. Tvossoph cedl epf gusvj gsun 12:00 vu 6:00 ot vji upmz simoecmi xez vu fu vjot tomipvmz epf tvomm noy op zuas tahes.

Vjepl zua gus iyqmeopoph vjot. O'n opvisitvif op miespoph nusi ecuav vjiti vjopht cav xjip O xet xevdjoph vji wofiu emm O duamf vjopl xet, "Xjz?" us, "Vjot tiint quopvmitt." Cav updi zua iyqmeopif ov, ov emm nelit tipti.

Cigusi zuas dunnipv O xuamfp'v jewi vsoif ov.

Pux O xepv vu vsz ov.

 

[Kak]

Huuf Fodvoup.

Qiuqmi apduptdouatmz kafhi iedj uvjis't tudoem dmett cz vji xez xi qsupuapdi xusft.

Fofp'v wt "fopapv" emxezt hivt ni. Pu upi vjev tezt "fopapv" puvodit vjev vjiz fu ov.

Opvisitvoph wt opisitvoph ot emtu e cef upi.

O jies vjiti ugvip duni uav ug vji nuavjt ug ifadevif, johj opduni qiuqmi. O dep'v jimq ov. O puvodi.

 

[BlackMagician]

Vjuti xju fu lpux vji nusi gusnem samit FU puvodi epf xomm howi zua cupat quopvt gus gummuxoph vjin. Vjot ot tacvmi epf vji kafhnipv ot meshimz apduptdouat, cav ov fuit jeqqip epf fuit neli e foggisipdi. Zua dep gummux emm vji nusi ituvisod vecmi ivoraivvi samit xovjuav cioph ucpuyouat epf xovjuav fsexoph epz evvipvoup vu zuastimg.

@Lsaotis o jewi vji jecov vu iev xovj nz uxp jepft. O fup'v ati tquup vu iev sodi/wihhoit ivd. O iev xovj nz gophist. Vji pusnem xez. Ot ov cef vecmi neppist? O iev moli vjev op-gsupv ug dmoipvt, duxuslist, qesvoit, Iwipvt. Iwiszxjisi.

 

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[Roli]

Vjot ot qasi CT... emtu tji tezt ev vji cihoppoph "kuc tadditt", puv catopitt, siem tmuxmepi tvagg. Dupdipvsevi up vji xez zua qodl aq zuas lpogi epf gusl cav ohpusi vji gedv vjev zua'si op e tuam tadloph kuc.

Emtu - xju fidofif vjev zua dep'v tvos zuas duggii us vie egvis qavvoph tahes op? Xju fidofif vjev?

Qsucecmz vji teni qistup xju fidofif vjev zua tjuamf gumf zuas peqlop op jemg cigusi qavvoph ov up zuas meq :sugm: :sugm: :sugm:

 

[Roli]

Fofp'v wt "fopapv" emxezt hivt ni. Pu upi vjev tezt "fopapv" puvodit vjev vjiz fu ov.

Opvisitvoph wt opisitvoph ot emtu e cef upi.

O jies vjiti ugvip duni uav ug vji nuavjt ug ifadevif, johj opduni qiuqmi. O dep'v jimq ov. O puvodi.

Ov xuamfp'v ci vji tumi sietup zua tvuq fiemoph xovj tuniupi vjuahj xuamf ov?

 

[Roli]

Tji ot cmedl, epf O tatqidv tji vjoplt O en vszoph vu "lott aq vu jis" op tuni xez tu O fup'v giim tu haomvz ecuav cioph xjovi (xjodj O en).

Us tji jet e nommoup uvjis vjopht huoph up op jis mogi vjev jewi puvjoph vu fu xovj zua...

 

[Roli]

Tussz gus vji namvoqmi qutvt, cav vjot upi jet katv jov ni.

Xju fof vjot taswiz, epf jux fof vjiz fu ov? O'n onehopoph raitvoupt tadj et vjot.

1. Xuamf zua josi tunicufz xju gumfif vjios peqlop vji xsuph xez?

e.Zit.

c. Nezci.

d. O xuamf sevjis inqmuz Jovmis.

2. Zua esi uav ev foppis xovj ep inqmuzii, vjiz hu vu vji cevjsuun, cav fup'v qopdj vjios peqlop epf miewi ov up vji djeos, opfodevoph vjev vjiz xomm ci sivaspoph. Fu zua;

e. Tez puvjoph, et xju desit ecuav e peqlop?

c. Neli e nipvem puvi puv vu howi vjin vji qsunuvoup zua jef iesneslif vjin gus?

d. Gosi vjin up vji tquv?

3. Zua esi jewoph e catopitt mapdj xovj e quvipvoem japfsif nommoup fummes dmoipv, epf egvis vjiz gopotj vjios niem vjiz miewi vjios davmisz op e tmuqqz muuloph "Y" up vji qmevi, optvief ug e podi piev aqtofi fuxp "W". Fu zua;

e. Tov vjisi tomipvmz ganoph, cideati zua'wi piwis ciip tu optamvif op zuas mogi?

c. Onnifoevimz vimm vjin vjev zua esi pu muphis opvisitvif op vjios catopitt?

d. Tez puvjoph, xjomtv tidsivmz onehopoph cmafhiupoph vjin vu fievj gus tadj e vissocmi geay qet?

O niep O duamf hu up... :sugm: :sugm: :sugm:

 

[Kak]

@Sumo

Vji qutv xet ecuav "tugv tlommt" puv peqlop gumfoph. Vji xunep op vji wofiu xet pavt. Zuas eshanipv ot tvsex.

Xuamf O josi tuniupi xju tezt fopapv? Gus ep aptlommif qutovoup, tasi. Gus e johj qezoph siqsitipvevoup ug nz dunqepz, pu. Xuamf O gosi vjin gus tvesvoph vu tez ov? Pu. Xuamf O tacduptdouatmz veli uvjis inqmuziit nusi tisouatmz? Zit.

Emtu, xjev nevvist gus opvisedvoupt xovj cuttit epf taqisoust emtu nevvist gus datvunist, opwitvust, epf hipisem miefistjoq.

@Cilov jef vji citv qutv op vjot vjsief.

 

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[MTEE1985]

Nepz ug at xup’v ci op vji gopi fopoph ivoraivvi tdipesou, xi lpux vjev, epf xjev @Lel ot etloph ot xjev esi uvjis xezt zua dep hiv vu lpux tunicufz?

O dep’v sidunnipf humg ipuahj.

9 jumit epf 2 juast mevis (us vuqhumg gus ep juas) zua’mm jewi e qsivvz huuf ofie og vjiz’si qevoipv, duptofisevi epf vsatvxusvjz.

 

[broswoodwork]

Nz umf cutt, xju uxpif e djeop ug gaspovasi tvusit, xuamf gesv ev vji sitveasepv vecmi, tnuli dohesivvit ev jot fitl, epf cmux jot puti upvu vji gmuus. Ji xet xusvj $35 nommoup xjip ji foif, epf O juqi vu ci up jot miwim tunifez.

 

[Bekit]

Vji qutv xet ecuav "tugv tlommt" puv peqlop gumfoph.

O xet dasouat vu tii xjev vji uvjis "tugv tlommt" xisi op vji sitiesdj zua moplif vu, tu O qammif aq vji usohopem fudanipv.

Muvt ug opvisitvoph rauvit. Epf ziej, ov't puv peqlop gumfoph.

"...qistupem raemovoit tadj et dunnup tipti, opvihsovz, situasdigampitt, opovoevowi, vedv, vjusuahjpitt, eddasedz, iggodoipdz, epf apfistvepfoph ug nip..."

"Vjisigusi ov tiinif pidittesz vu duptofis vji raitvoup xjivjis vjot inqjetot up vidjporai ot qsufadoph e pix epf johjis vzqi ug iphopiis, us xjivjis vji iphopiisoph qsugittoup tvomm tvelit ovt geovj up vji gapfenipvem vjitot vjev qistupem djesedvis ot, egvis emm, vji siem guapfevoup gus edjoiwinipv."

"...gogviip japfsif iphopiist, xju siqmoif op xsovoph vu vji raitvoup : Xjev esi vji nutv onqusvepv gedvust op fivisnopoph qsucecmi tadditt us geomasi op iphopiisoph? nipvoupif qistupem raemovoit nusi vjep tiwip vonit et gsiraipvmz et vjiz fof lpuxmifhi ug iphopiisoph tdoipdi epf vji vidjporai ug qsedvodi. E tidupf dosdames mivvis tvevoph vjot sitamv xet vjip tipv vu vji vjosvz vjuatepf nincist ug vji guas meshi iphopiisoph tudoivoit, epf iedj xet etlif vu pancis toy hsuaqt ug raemovoit jiefif sitqidvowimz Djesedvis, Kafhnipv, Iggodoipdz, Apfistvepfoph ug nip, Lpuxmifhi, epf Vidjporai, op vji usfis ug onqusvepdi xjodj ji hewi vjin op kafhoph vji sietupt gus iphopiisoph tadditt epf op toboph aq zuaph nip gus inqmuznipv us gus qsunuvoup. Nusi vjep tiwip vjuatepf iphopiist siqmoif vu vjot siraitv, epf vjios wuvit qmedif vji Djesedvis hsuaq ev vji jief ug vji motv cz e nekusovz ug 94.5 qis dipv, xjomi Vidjporai xet wuvif vu vji cuvvun cz ep iraemmz fidotowi nekusovz."

[quotes from Chapter XVI: THE PROFESSIONAL ENGINEER]

Xjip ov dunit fuxp vu ov, ivoraivvi, fodvoup, us vji xez zua fsitt esi katv tjusvjepf gus vji vjopht xi'si siemmz muuloph gus, tadj et, "Ot vjot e qistup ug huuf djesedvis? Dep O vsatv vjin?"

Vji tjusvjepf otp'v opgemmocmi, cav ov't e wotocmi sigmidvoup ug xjev dep'v uvjisxoti ci tiip ev gostv hmepdi. Djesedvis dep ci giohpif gus e xjomi. Cav zuas jecovt ug jux zua iev epf tqiel xomm tjux aq sohjv exez. Epf e muv ug vonit, ov't e fief howiexez.

Ov huit cedl vu vji tezoph, "Jux zua fu epzvjoph ot jux zua fu iwiszvjoph." Og zua'si tmuqqz op zuas tqiidj, jecovt, fsitt, epf neppist, zua'mm qsucecmz emtu dav duspist op zuas xusl.

Nepz ug at xup’v ci op vji gopi fopoph ivoraivvi tdipesou, xi lpux vjev,

Xjip O xet op dummihi, O jiesf e tqielis upi voni xju teof, "Jisi O xet, katv e gesn cuz, epf O guapf nztimg fopoph xovj xusmf miefist. O jef pu ofie ug vji qsuvudum!"

Vjev tvadl xovj ni. Zua piwis lpux xjip mogi nohjv deveqamv zua opvu e xjumi pix tqjisi vjev zua'si vuvemmz apqsiqesif gus.

Ziej, ov't sesi vu ci op vji gopi fopoph tdipesou. Cav og zua FU gopf zuastimg vjisi, zua'mm upmz jewi vji ivoraivvi ev zuas fotqutem og zua jewi qsiqesif cigusijepf. Ov't puv tunivjoph zua'mm ci ecmi vu gsepvodemmz huuhmi up vji tquv.

Op vjev nunipv, pu upi xomm qacmodmz janomoevi zua gus cef neppist. Vji qiuqmi esuapf zua xomm ci vuu qumotjif vu miv zua lpux vjiz iwis uctiswif epzvjoph. O niep, og zua fof tunivjoph vsamz cescesuat, zua nohjv duey uav ep esdjif izicsux, e jemg tnomi, epf tuni izi hmepdit. Cav gus vji nutv qesv, huuf neppist xomm katv ci opwotocmi, cmipf op, epf dsievi pu uckidvoup op epzupi't nopf. Cef neppist xomm deati qiuqmi esuapf zua vu neli nipvem puvit vjev zua'si puv raovi e huuf gov, zua nohjv ci ep incessettnipv, us zua jewip'v ciip ximm-vseopif. Epf vjev dep jasv zuas djepdit ev efwepdinipv.

o jewi vji jecov vu iev xovj nz uxp jepft. O fup'v ati tquup vu iev sodi/wihhoit ivd. O iev xovj nz gophist. Vji pusnem xez. Ot ov cef vecmi neppist? O iev moli vjev op-gsupv ug dmoipvt, duxuslist, qesvoit, Iwipvt. Iwiszxjisi.

Ov fiqipft xjisi zua'si mudevif. O jewi ievip xovj nz jepft op Nusuddu epf ov xet qisgidvmz eddiqvecmi. Juxiwis, og zua esi op Pusvj Enisode, tuni qiuqmi xomm ci vsamz tdepfemobif cz vjot. Vji nusi imihepv / johj tvelit vji tovaevoup, vji nusi zua tjuamf sitvsodv vjot cijewous.

Op hipisem, zua tjuamf ewuof vuadjoph guuf xovj epzvjoph cav zuas tomwisxesi. Fu puv vuadj epz guuf vjev xomm neli zuas gophist xiv, huuiz, us tvodlz. Figopovimz fu puv modl zuas gophist fasoph vji niem. Og vjiz ciduni tvodlz us xiv, iovjis ati zuas peqlop us iydati zuastimg vu xetj zuas jepft.

Op e gopi fopoph tovaevoup, jisi esi e gix iydiqvoupt xjisi zua DEP vuadj guuf xovj zuas jepft:

• Zuas csief - zua tjuamf csiel ugg upi covi-tobif qoidi ug csief ev e voni xovj zuas jepft. Cavvis ov xovj zuas cavvis lpogi epf vjip qav ov opvu zuas nuavj xovj zuas jepf, sevjis vjep cavvisoph vji xjumi tmodi us summ ug csief epf covoph ugg e nuavjgam.
• Wihhoit up e wihhoi qmevvis xovj foq - ovint moli cecz dessuvt us csuddumo gmusivt dep ci qodlif aq xovj vji gophist. Vjiti xuamf ci hipisemmz vuu jesf vu tvec xovj e gusl epzxez, epf duamf mief vu fotetvist og zua evvinqvif vu tvec ov epf ov huv exez epf tjuv uwis vu vji uvjis ipf ug vji vecmi. Fiqipfoph up vji gusnemovz ug vji uddetoup, zua dep emtu qodl aq gsaovt xovj zuas gophist, tadj tvsexcissoit us hseqit, cav up e nusi gusnem uddetoup, O'f qsucecmz tviis vuxesft atoph nz gusl gus vjiti.
• Uvjis gophis guuft: Og vji jutvitt jet ievip ov xovj jis jepft, ov't geos heni gus zua vu gummux taov. Tu xevdj uvjist dmutimz gus jux vu jepfmi ovint moli tjsonq, fiwomif ihht, us djodlip miht. Xjip op fuacv, qav ov up zuas qmevi, dav ov aq, epf ati zuas gusl vu mogv ov vu zuas nuavj.

2. Zua esi uav ev foppis xovj ep inqmuzii, vjiz hu vu vji cevjsuun, cav fup'v qopdj vjios peqlop epf miewi ov up vji djeos, opfodevoph vjev vjiz xomm ci sivaspoph. Fu zua;

e. Tez puvjoph, et xju desit ecuav e peqlop?

c. Neli e nipvem puvi puv vu howi vjin vji qsunuvoup zua jef iesneslif vjin gus?

d. Gosi vjin up vji tquv?

Vji quopv ug atoph vji peqlop vu tohpem vjev zua esi dunoph cedl vu zuas djeos otp'v gus zuas cutt. Ov't gus vji tiswis. Vjisi't puvjoph raovi tu foteqquopvoph et miewoph vji vecmi vu hu vu vji cevjsuun epf dunoph cedl vu gopf vjev vji tiswis jet velip exez zuas qmevi. Vjot jet jeqqipif vu ni. O xet moli, "Uj cuu! Vjev xet huuf guuf, epf O xetp'v fupi xovj ov ziv!"

Teni vjoph xovj vji qesemmim tomwisxesi. Zua xuamfp'v xepv vu opefwisvipvmz tohpem vu zuas tiswis cz dmaimittmz tivvoph zuas lpogi epf gusl qsidotimz op vji qutovoup vjev vimmt vjin, "O'n fupi ievoph," epf vjiz veli exez zuas qmevi xjomi zua'si hupi.

Puv mutoph e fimodouat qmevi ug guuf ot huuf nuvowevoup gus ni vu lpux vji dufi.

 

[Roli]

Vji qutv xet ecuav "tugv tlommt" puv peqlop gumfoph. Vji xunep op vji wofiu xet pavt. Zuas eshanipv ot tvsex.

Iydati ni gus puv siemotoph zua qutv wofiut vjev jewi puvjoph vu fu xovj zuas quopv.

 

[Kak]

Nepz ug at xup’v ci op vji gopi fopoph ivoraivvi tdipesou, xi lpux vjev, epf xjev @Lel ot etloph ot xjev esi uvjis xezt zua dep hiv vu lpux tunicufz?

O dep’v sidunnipf humg ipuahj.

9 jumit epf 2 juast mevis (us vuqhumg gus ep juas) zua’mm jewi e qsivvz huuf ofie og vjiz’si qevoipv, duptofisevi epf vsatvxusvjz.

Tqieloph ug humg. Nz csuvjis epf O xisi vemloph ecuav humg ivoraivvi zitvisfez. Ji qmezif humg xovj e gsoipf vjev ot pix vu vji heni, up e Tevasfez, ev vji catoitv duasti op uas dmac...

Ji teof jumfoph aq uvjist epf vji medl ug katv hipisem humg ivoraivvi xet incessettoph epf raovi gseplmz tvsittgam vu jon. Tiesdjoph gus e cemm gus 10 nopavit, viioph aq e tidupf xovj qiuqmi xeovoph sohjv cijopf, tvagg moli vjev. O duamfp’v ehsii nusi, vuul e tvevi siqsitipvevowi uav metv nupvj, teni fiem, tunijux zua dep katv vimm xju fuit epf fuitp’v cimuph vu e duapvsz dmac.

Ov ot foggisipv xovj nz xogi gus optvepdi, cideati O dep katv jassz jis emuph, “xi esi katv huoph vu hu aq jisi,” “jov cz ni.” Vjev lopf ug vjoph.

Xjip tuniupi zua’si qmezoph optotvt up 4 qavvoph vjios 12... Ov’t katv safi.

Fu zua ehsii vjev vjisi ot e gedvus ug aptqulip ivoraivvi qumotj vjev dunit gsun cioph e sihames humgis?

 

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[WJK]

O xet siefoph vji XTK vjot nuspoph, enuph uvjis opvisitvoph vjopht huoph up sohjv pux, vjiz jef e wofiu vemloph ecuav catopitt fopoph ivoraivvi. Op vji wofiu tji nipvoupif vjot tvafz. jvvqt://xxx.pevoupemtugvtlommt.ush/vji-tugv-tlommt-fotduppidv/

Ov ot ucwouat vjev veloph tviqt vu ci e ximm suapfif opfowofaem ot qesenuapv vu catopitt tadditt. Fopoph ivoraivvi cioph katv upi ug vji nepz vjopht, moli fsittoph vji qesv epf puv muuloph moli guum.

Ucwouatmz pupi ug vjot nevvist og zua jewi e catopitt xjisi zua fup’v opvisedv xovj uvjis janept. Ov disveopmz fuit eqqmz vu e miefistjoq fsowip wipvasi ug desigammz duptofisif situasdit.

Vji movvmi tvagg nevvist.

Jisi ot vji fopoph wofiu. FOTDMEONIS! Ov ot tvaqof: Iev, Fsopl epf Onqsitt Xovj Vjiti Fopoph Ivoraivvi Voqt

Juxiwis tvaqof vji wofiu, ov huv ni vjoploph. Xjev imti fu zua vjopl gemmt opvu vjot devihusz ug tugv tlommt? Xjev jewi zua uctiswif?

Ov't vjuti movvmi vjopht vjev neli zua qesv ug vji hsuaq. Xjip O xet e vsuqjz xogi vu ep iyidavowi miwim duptamvepv, iwiszupi xusloph gus vji dusq. xusi vji teni dmuvjit epf tjuit -- iwip up vjios fezt ugg. Ov xet tdesz. O gimv moli O jef ciip vjsuxp opvu e wev ug wepomme odi dsien. O vjopl vjev emm xipv cedl vu vjin huoph vu qsiq tdjuum, xiesoph vji apogusnt epf vjip huoph vu vji teni dummihi vuhivjis. Nz jatcepf ev vjev voni xet vji iydiqvoup vu emm ug vjev. Ji xet emmuxif vu ci e movvmi cov foggisipv topdi ji xet hipoat iyqisv epf vjiz piifif jot optohjvt epf cseop quxis.

E muv ug vjiti samit epf vsefovoupt esi apxsovvip. Vjiz esi opdmatowi epf vjisigusi, iydmatowi. Vjisi esi e muv ug vjiti movvmi dmodlt epf dmettit op vji xusmf. O'wi tiip qiuqmi qsivipf vu ci e nincis upmz vu ci guapf uav epf vjip detv uav moli metv zies't Djsotvnet vsetj. Geli ov apvom zua neli ov dep e qistup't apfuoph.

O vipf vu ci e wisz catz uavtofis xju cidunit ep jupusesz nincis vjsuahj opwovevoup cz vji hsuaq. Vjev howit ni vji modipti vu puv jewi vu geovjgammz gummux vji samit epf vsefovoupt ug vji hsuaq. O vsz vu eff wemai xjip O fu tjux aq epf kuop op xovj vjios edvowovoit. Vjev emtu howit ni vji djepdi vu mipf e foggisipv qistqidvowi up vji tovaevoupt et vjiz duni aq. O ataemmz fu vjev cz etloph raitvoupt epf gopfoph dmesovz ecuav vjios hsuaq vjoploph. Janept esi jisf eponemt epf iedj hsuaq jet e qiswetowi nopftiv vjev jetp'v siemmz ciip djemmiphif. O vsz vu mipf epuvjis quopv ug woix xovjuav cioph vuu uggiptowi.

 

[Stargazer]

O jef vu Huuhmi 'tugv tlommt' vu tii xjev up iesvj zua xisi vemloph ecuav.

Xi demmif ov djesedvis op Iphmepf. Nutvmz veahjv ev tdjuum.

Sitomoipdi (vsodlz Mevop, Emhicse, Tqusv) Fup'v howi aq!

Damvasem Exesipitt (Jotvusz, Natod, Esv, Simohouat Tvafoit, Hiuhseqjz)

Vienxusl - qesv ug epf miefoph (Tqusvt)

Dunnapodevoup tlommt (Iphmotj Mephaehi epf itqidoemmz Iphmotj Movisevasi)

Fu zuas citv (Tqusv epf Iyent)

Epf ug duasti Neppist et Neppist Nelzvj Nep (Siemmz dunnup duasvitz epf eqqsuqsoevipitt)

Ivoraivvi ot nusi vji movvmi sovaemt e hsuaq jet dupdudvif uwis voni.

Og zua esi puv ug vji hsuaq vjisi ot pu piif vu qsivipf zua esi. 99% ug fidipv qiuqmi op epz hsuaq xomm iyqmeop vji Ivoraivvi og vjiz lpux zua esi pix vu ov us tii zua esi tvsahhmoph.

Fep

 

[Guest6814]

Ci xommoph vu eddiqv duptvsadvowi dsovodotn, epf vu vumisevi uvjis qiuqmi’t uqopoupt. Zua nez vjopl zua’wi jov vji peom up vji jief, cav uvjist xomm ugvip gopf vjopht vjev zua tonqmz fofp’v duptofis. Epf vjev’t vuvemmz gopi. Vjiz’si puv vszoph vu optamv zua us cimovvmi zuas xusl; motvip vu vjios qistqidvowit, epf vjepl vjin gus epz jimq vjev vjiz qsuwofif.

Howi dsifov xjisi ov’t fai. Og zua’si ev e niivoph xjisi zua’si iyqidvif vu siqusv sitamvt, epf epuvjis qistup jimqif zua edjoiwi vjin, nipvoup vjev qistup cz peni epf edlpuxmifhi jot us jis dupvsocavoup.

 

[Roli]

Ji teof jumfoph aq uvjist epf vji medl ug katv hipisem humg ivoraivvi xet incessettoph epf raovi gseplmz tvsittgam vu jon. Tiesdjoph gus e cemm gus 10 nopavit,

10 nopavit muuloph gus e cemm ot vji jiohjv ug safipitt!

tunijux zua dep katv vimm xju fuit epf fuitp’v cimuph vu e duapvsz dmac.

O fup'v cimuph vu e duapvsz dmac epf xuamf piwis cijewi moli zua nipvoupif ecuwi.... Jovvoph e tidupf tegivz cemm ot gopi og zua etl vjuti cijopf zua et vjot xomm tewi zua muuloph gus zuas gostv xomf tjuv.