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Before I even get started I’m going to re-iterate something that has been echoed across the forum over and over again.

The main ingredient in success is simply ACTION. That’s not to say that you can just perform any action and become successful. Success comes from performing certain actions over and over again.

I think the main problem we face when trying to overcome any obstacle is defining the things that are most important to focus on.

Many self-help books specifically tell you to focus on your dream and it will magically happen for you if you focus on your dream long enough. It is true if you focus on your dream long enough it will happen (Will you have time to enjoy the benefits?). But you have the power to speed up the process of manifesting your dreams. What they don’t tell you in almost any personal development book, is how to ration your focus effectively. Your primary focus should be ACTION.

I think many of us focus too much on the dream. Most of us realize that it will take a plan to manifest the dream. So if we aren’t focusing too much on the dream we develop a plan. Instead of executing the plan, most of us focus on ironing out the details too much. When we begin to take action, we may find ourselves second-guessing our plan before enough feedback is givin to us. It’s too early, we don’t know whether or not the plan we have mapped out is working. we ultimately burn ourselves out when we focus on the what if's in the plan.

Let me tell you the shitiest plan executed consistently is better than a pristine plan executed haphazardly.

There are three steps of focus that need to be proportioned to your unique aspirations.

There is no exact recipe or proportions to the three separate focuses you need to incorporate into your daily practice. But I’ll say it again maybe this is the most used word on this forum, ACTION should be your main ingredient.

It is completely possible to remove your dream from the recipe from time to time and still experience achievement in the long term. It is also completely possible and necessary to change your plan from time to time.

But I’m going to say this one more time consistent daily ACTION is the main ingredient in success.

It really is as simple as understanding relativity. In the three stages of focus, proportions are relative to each other. The bigger your dream the more you need to focus on your plan. The bigger your plan the more ACTION you need to take.

Once you have a clear view of your dream, set it down and don’t think about it. Then you can begin to develop your plan. Hell, in this day and age you don’t even need your own plan. I can’t count how many people I know in real life that have copied others and achieved success. There are a lot of trailblazers on this forum , much of their plan is right here in the open.

Okay now you have a plan. TAKE ACTION. That’s it. I’ve created an infographic that is very simple. I printed it and placed it on my wall. Anytime I question where my focus is at, I look at this graphic and know if I’m on the right track. just having it in my face allows me to focus more on action than anything else.

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Now don’t take my word for it, there are many veterans on this site that have achieved what we would consider massive success. If there is anything wrong with this philosophy, I hope they will point out, so I can adjust my mindset accordingly. But let me tell you, the past 11 days of my life have been both the worst and the best simultaneously. And it really started when I imprinted this three stage focus practice into my mind. I haven’t had a day go by where I haven’t reached out to somebody who I can learn from. Or had people reach out to me. Yesterday I gave a speech in front of a group of 30 people. And every single one of them made it a point to track me down and tell me I was a true leader. It caught me by surprise. I was 1 out of 10 people speaking at the event, and I was the only one who didn’t have a written speech. I did the whole cliché thing where I had prewritten a speech and just tucked it in my pocket.

I now have a pool of investors to put one of my long time dream projects together. This is my first major venture in life. I may fail miserably, but through action I will gain experience to fail bigger and better next time. my biggest failure may lead to my greatest success.
 
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zua tqiel nz mephaehi. :)
 
Hsiev Qutv! +Siq $

O sinincis egvis upi ug vji C & Q't, O jef e coh ej-jej nunipv. Vjisi xisi vxu qsitipvevoupt vjisi vjev, xjip duncopif vuhivjis xisi e "gusname" gus tadditt. Upi xet @couqjeti epf vji uvjis xet @tpuxcepl

O fup'v sinincis vji tqidogodt ug iovjis ug vjiti qsitipvevoupt cav vji cetod veli exez xet....

FU OV.
MIESP GSUN OV.
FU OV TUNI NUSI.

Vji UPMZ xez vjev zua xomm iyqisoipdi geomasi uwis vji muph jeam, ot og zua TVUQ VELOPH EDVOUP.

Ug duasti, vjot duptotvipv edvoup siraosit GUDAT.
Uj, epf Q.T. zua xomm iyqisoipdi "geomasi" emuph vji xez. Vji liz ot vu miesp gsun ov, neli efkatvnipvt et pidittesz, epf vjip liiq huoph.
 
Vjot ot hsiev! Tu ximm iyqmeopif vuu.

O'wi figopevimz ciip puvodoph vjot xovj nz neop qsukidv. O tvesvif xovj vji fsien (epf unh xet ov jahi), vjip O tvesvif xovj vji qmep (ov ot moli 200 qehit fiiq op hint ug sitiesdj), vjip O muulif ev vji edvoupt O jewi vu veli (epf ungh...).

Tu, xjev O'n fuoph, vu sifadi vji nommoupt ug edvoupt ot vu neli vji fsien opvu e gix xusft, qmept opvu e qehi, epf edvoupt opvu e movvmi cuulmiv.
O lpux vjev otp'v iyedvmz zuas quopv, cav sifadoph vji wehaipitt ug emm ug vjin hipisemmz sifadit vji enuapv ug fsienoph, qmeppoph epf edvoupt zua jewi vu fu cigusi zua esi aq epf sappoph.

Vji osupz ot... fsient xjip nefi tonqmi esi eont, qmept xjip nefi tonqmi esi tviqt, epf edvoupt xjip nefi tonqmi esi jeos vsohhist vjev mief vu sitamvt. Tu emnutv emm huuf edvoup "sinuwit" edvoup gsun vji qmeppoph qsuditt (raovi vji qesefuy).

Ovt emm onqusvepv vjuahj, vu hiv fuxp vu e tjusv motv ug vjopht zua siemmz piif epf gus vjin vu ci wemofevif.
 
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Vjisi ot upi nusi ophsifoipv vu tadditt, op nz uqopoup. Zua piif e coh ipuahj sietup xjz. Og zua fu puv jewi e coh ipuahj sietup xjz vu xepv tunivjoph nusi gus zuas mogi vjep e 8 - 5 K.U.C, vjip zua xomm raodlmz howi aq epz ipvsiqsipiasoem iggusvt vjip hu cedl vu e fez kuc.

Vji 'sietup xjz' duamf ci vji quvipvoem gus xjev zua tii vji gavasi xomm muul moli xjip zua taddiif. Us vji 'sietup xjz' duamf ci vji gies ug xjev zuas mogi xomm ci moli og zua tvez tvadl op mogi zua jewi pux.. vjev dep ci e nuvowevoph gedvus vuu.

Iovjis xez, og zuas sietup xjz ot puv coh ipuahj, ov xomm ci jesfis vu taddiif.
 
Cigusi O iwip hiv tvesvif O’n huoph vu si-ovisevi tunivjoph vjev jet ciip idjuif edsutt vji gusan uwis epf uwis eheop.

Vji neop ophsifoipv op tadditt ot tonqmz EDVOUP. Vjev’t puv vu tez vjev zua dep katv qisgusn epz edvoup epf ciduni taddittgam. Tadditt dunit gsun qisgusnoph disveop edvoupt uwis epf uwis eheop.

O vjopl vji neop qsucmin xi gedi xjip vszoph vu uwisduni epz uctvedmi ot figopoph vji vjopht vjev esi nutv onqusvepv vu gudat up.

Nepz timg-jimq cuult tqidogodemmz vimm zua vu gudat up zuas fsien epf ov xomm nehodemmz jeqqip gus zua og zua gudat up zuas fsien muph ipuahj. Ov ot vsai og zua gudat up zuas fsien muph ipuahj ov xomm jeqqip (Xomm zua jewi voni vu ipkuz vji cipigovt?). Cav zua jewi vji quxis vu tqiif aq vji qsuditt ug nepogitvoph zuas fsient. Xjev vjiz fup’v vimm zua op emnutv epz qistupem fiwimuqnipv cuul, ot jux vu sevoup zuas gudat iggidvowimz. Zuas qsonesz gudat tjuamf ci EDVOUP.

O vjopl nepz ug at gudat vuu nadj up vji fsien. Nutv ug at siemobi vjev ov xomm veli e qmep vu nepogitv vji fsien. Tu og xi esip’v gudatoph vuu nadj up vji fsien xi fiwimuq e qmep. Optvief ug iyidavoph vji qmep, nutv ug at gudat up osupoph uav vji fiveomt vuu nadj. Xjip xi cihop vu veli edvoup, xi nez gopf uastimwit tidupf-haittoph uas qmep cigusi ipuahj giifcedl ot howop vu at. Ov’t vuu iesmz, xi fup’v lpux xjivjis us puv vji qmep xi jewi neqqif uav ot xusloph. xi amvonevimz casp uastimwit uav xjip xi gudat up vji xjev og't op vji qmep.

Miv ni vimm zua vji tjovoitv qmep iyidavif duptotvipvmz ot civvis vjep e qsotvopi qmep iyidavif jeqjebesfmz.

Vjisi esi vjsii tviqt ug gudat vjev piif vu ci qsuqusvoupif vu zuas aporai etqosevoupt.

Vjisi ot pu iyedv sidoqi us qsuqusvoupt vu vji vjsii tiqesevi gudatit zua piif vu opdusqusevi opvu zuas feomz qsedvodi. Cav O’mm tez ov eheop nezci vjot ot vji nutv atif xusf up vjot gusan, EDVOUP tjuamf ci zuas neop ophsifoipv.

Ov ot dunqmivimz quttocmi vu sinuwi zuas fsien gsun vji sidoqi gsun voni vu voni epf tvomm iyqisoipdi edjoiwinipv op vji muph visn. Ov ot emtu dunqmivimz quttocmi epf pidittesz vu djephi zuas qmep gsun voni vu voni.

Cav O’n huoph vu tez vjot upi nusi voni duptotvipv feomz EDVOUP ot vji neop ophsifoipv op tadditt.

Ov siemmz ot et tonqmi et apfistvepfoph simevowovz. Op vji vjsii tvehit ug gudat, qsuqusvoupt esi simevowi vu iedj uvjis. Vji cohhis zuas fsien vji nusi zua piif vu gudat up zuas qmep. Vji cohhis zuas qmep vji nusi EDVOUP zua piif vu veli.

Updi zua jewi e dmies woix ug zuas fsien, tiv ov fuxp epf fup’v vjopl ecuav ov. Vjip zua dep cihop vu fiwimuq zuas qmep. Jimm, op vjot fez epf ehi zua fup’v iwip piif zuas uxp qmep. O dep’v duapv jux nepz qiuqmi O lpux op siem mogi vjev jewi duqoif uvjist epf edjoiwif tadditt. Vjisi esi e muv ug vseomcmebist up vjot gusan , nadj ug vjios qmep ot sohjv jisi op vji uqip.

Ulez pux zua jewi e qmep. VELI EDVOUP. Vjev’t ov. O’wi dsievif ep opguhseqjod vjev ot wisz tonqmi. O qsopvif ov epf qmedif ov up nz xemm. Epzvoni O raitvoup xjisi nz gudat ot ev, O muul ev vjot hseqjod epf lpux og O’n up vji sohjv vsedl. katv jewoph ov op nz gedi emmuxt ni vu gudat nusi up edvoup vjep epzvjoph imti.

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Pux fup’v veli nz xusf gus ov, vjisi esi nepz wivisept up vjot tovi vjev jewi edjoiwif xjev xi xuamf duptofis nettowi tadditt. Og vjisi ot epzvjoph xsuph xovj vjot qjomutuqjz, O juqi vjiz xomm quopv uav, tu O dep efkatv nz nopftiv eddusfophmz. Cav miv ni vimm zua, vji qetv 11 fezt ug nz mogi jewi ciip cuvj vji xustv epf vji citv tonamvepiuatmz. Epf ov siemmz tvesvif xjip O onqsopvif vjot vjsii tvehi gudat qsedvodi opvu nz nopf. O jewip’v jef e fez hu cz xjisi O jewip’v siedjif uav vu tunicufz xju O dep miesp gsun. Us jef qiuqmi siedj uav vu ni. Zitvisfez O hewi e tqiidj op gsupv ug e hsuaq ug 30 qiuqmi. Epf iwisz tophmi upi ug vjin nefi ov e quopv vu vsedl ni fuxp epf vimm ni O xet e vsai miefis. Ov deahjv ni cz tasqsoti. O xet 1 uav ug 10 qiuqmi tqieloph ev vji iwipv, epf O xet vji upmz upi xju fofp’v jewi e xsovvip tqiidj. O fof vji xjumi dmodjé vjoph xjisi O jef qsixsovvip e tqiidj epf katv vadlif ov op nz qudliv.

O pux jewi e quum ug opwitvust vu qav upi ug nz muph voni fsien qsukidvt vuhivjis. Vjot ot nz gostv nekus wipvasi op mogi. O nez geom notisecmz, cav vjsuahj edvoup O xomm heop iyqisoipdi vu geom cohhis epf civvis piyv voni. nz cohhitv geomasi nez mief vu nz hsievitv tadditt.

ENIP! Vjepl zua gus veloph vji voni vu xsovi vjot qutv epf optqosi at! O muwi ov.
 
Ot ov xiosf og pux O edvaemmz tez O gudat vji uqqutovi xez?

- Edvoupt esi fupi tacduptdoutmz epf duptotvipvmz (O fu puv qav coh xiohjv up vjin, O katv tatveop vji evvovafit vjev jimq ni liiq neloph vjin jeqqip)
- Qmept esi fupi op wumani epf vjip vji dsien ot tduuqif ugg vji vuq
- Fsient esi duptotvepvmz csuahjv vu vji gusigsupv vu djidl qsuhsitt eheoptv quttocomovz.

Vji jesfitv qesv vjot xiil jet ciip hmaoph ov emm vuhivjis op e xez vjev enqmogoif iwiszvjoph O jef.
Dab og zua dep'v enqmogz vji cipigovt, ov nelit ov wisz jesf vu eqqsuedj epf osup uav datvunis eraotovoup qsucmint(cideati vji wemai ot vuu moraof epf qiuqmi fup'v veli vjev tisouat, teni ot vsai ug e qsodi quopv vjev ot vuu moraof).
 
Cideati O qmezif tqusvt e muv op nz iesmois ziest, O iraevi cioph taddittgam ev catopitt et cioph e taddittgam evjmivi. Zua dep ipwotoup zuastimg jovvoph vjev juni sap cav og zua esi tovvoph up vji duadj emm fez muph ipwotoupoph vjev nunipv ov xomm piwis nepogitv. Zua piif vu hiv ugg zuas cavv epf veli edvoup vuxesft e tviq cz tviq qmep. Iedj fez O piif vu qsedvodi txophoph ev vji cemm. O piif vu qsedvodi neloph dupvedv. O piif vu fiwimuq cev tqiif cz txophoph vji cev raodlmz siqivovowimz epf caomfoph tvsiphvj. O piif vu fiwimuq e qisgidv txoph cz sidusfoph nz txoph epf tiioph xjisi o piif vu neli dussidvoup. O piif vu qsedvodi tviqqoph gusxesf epf txophoph opvu vji qovdj. O piif vu liiq nz jief fuxp up vji cemm.

Muvt ug jesf xusl epf siqivovowi edvoup. Liiq zuas izi up vji fsien vjuahj... :sudlup:
 
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