What's new

The Barter Mentality!

Anything related to matters of the mind

Welcome to the only entrepreneur forum dedicated to building life-changing wealth.

Build a Fastlane business. Earn real financial freedom. Live your best life.

Tired of paying for dead communities hosted by absent gurus who don't have time for you?

Imagine having a multi-millionaire mentor by your side EVERY. SINGLE. DAY. Since 2007, MJ DeMarco has been a cornerstone of Fastlane, actively contributing on over 99% of days—99.92% to be exact! With more than 39,000 game-changing posts, he's dedicated to helping entrepreneurs achieve their freedom. Join a thriving community of over 90,000 members and access a vast library of over 1,000,000 posts from entrepreneurs around the globe.

Forum membership removes this block.

servicefly

Regular Contributor
LEGACY MEMBER
Read Fastlane!
Joined
Sep 20, 2008
Messages
254
Location
California (Southern)
Rep Bank
$690
User Power: 46%
New Entrepreneurs are extremely creative people. They have to be to get their new business off the ground. Unfortunately the very mindset responsible for success in the early start up stages of their venture can haunt them later. As an Entrepreneur Consultant, I have run into this issue on many occasions. I call this mindset the “Barter Mentality.†It is always a bit of a task to help my clients move on from this mentality and into the focused structuring stage, which opens the door to step-by-step action.

What is the Barter Mentality?

In the beginning stages of a new venture most, if not all, Entrepreneurs are working with bootstrap capital (very little money). Due to little capital these Entrepreneurs are forced to keep expenses low. One really successful strategy to keeping expenses low is to barter services. One client I had offered mobile pet grooming services, so when she came to me for help the first thing she did was offer me her services for free. I didn’t have a pet at the time but my parents did. I took her up on the offer and helped her organize her break even point numbers to enhance her business plan. This was a good trade at the time even though I severely discounted my services for two grooming services.

The problem arose when she needed further help and still wanted to barter her grooming services rather than pay my fees. She felt some one else could help her prepare to negotiate a deal with a local pet store to use her services as a benefit to their customers who purchased a new pet, or to prep the animals to show prospective owners. I politely explained I couldn’t use her grooming services to pay expenses. She moved on to a few other Consultants who all refused to barter. Just under a month later she returned to me and tried to barter again; I again politely declined.

As it turns out she had lost the deal with the pet store because no Consultant would take her business for barter and she refused to pay the fees. I finally explained to her how she had to transition from the barter mentality into a mindset of building a team of experienced Advisors which would cost money. I too learned a lesson then, most Consultants with a good reputation will not barter with their clients for their services because it starts a chain reaction of enabling the new Entrepreneur to continue their habit of bartering.

The Pet Groomer was the first client to barter with me but not the last. It took me a few years to learn how to deal with the “Barter Mentality.†At first I thought it was no problem as I had engaged in the practice in my early stages too. Later I began to notice a pattern with my bartering clients. They all (no exceptions) seemed to get stuck in the early stages of start up never transitioning to the growth stage unless a drastic event pushed them to change their thought process. Just as most employees get stuck in a rut, most bartering Entrepreneurs get stuck in their belief that their entire business could transition to the growth stage by bartering.

I have identified a few key characteristics of my bartering clients which help me identify them right away:

1. None seem to have a business plan, although some have a plan on a single piece of paper or napkin.
2. None of them have ever had a budget, or any financial tracking document. The one exception had Quick Books but the financial data was way off.
3. They all seemed to be great networkers.
4. Despite their networking abilities, they have very little sales experience.
5. Most have achieved success in their job through their network of people.
6. None of them understood how important quality of service or product is for their business and my services.
7. They say they understand and respect my time (and that of similar Consultants) but really they do not because they don’t understand.
8. Most seem to be disenchanted with asking for payment.
9. None of them have a real sense for what their product or service is worth in dollar amount, caused by a lack of research.

The real problem with these Entrepreneurs is their lack of belief that their services or product is worth the price they want, or their ability to generate cash flow because they have never accomplished this. It is further complicated by their disenchantment with asking for payment and understanding the real value of their product or services.

Today when I come across such Entrepreneurs as a Mentor I always explain my services are charged in steps and I will not move to the next step with them unless the fee is paid. It is imperative these Entrepreneurs understand how to generate cash flow or their business is in jeopardy before it has a chance to start. The next thing I do is instill a sense of organization by requiring certain documents from them before moving to the next step. Obviously the pattern is evident; I break up everything into steps, which I call Milestones.

The answer:

Research is critical and the proper Consultant can point you in the right direction. I often accomplish 3 important goals each step with my clients:
1. I give them the direction they need to research and an idea of what the results should look like.
2. I assign them homework; they need to draft certain documents to present the results in a way that applies to their business.
3. I assign them tasks to complete (the last being my payment for the next step) before moving to the next step. Usually these tasks are action oriented like contacting or having lunch with key people.

The reason I have transitioned from labeling myself as an Entrepreneur Consultant to a Mentor is because I have found too many psychological characteristics that need be addressed in all of my clients to be just as important as the skills they need.

You can’t afford a Consultant, or Mentor:

Organize every aspect of your venture into steps. The more steps, the easier it is to implement your plan! Don’t be afraid of the work involved, or you have chosen the wrong profession. Research means a lot of reading AND meeting with key people! Focus on generating cash flow before focusing on growth, but keep the overall picture in mind at all times. I liken this last bit to a lessen I learned in driving school; keep your eyes high enough to see miles ahead and your peripheral vision will keep you straight in your lane.

Finally: Understand that whatever you focus on (especially your venture) will happen. If you focus on just getting by on your expenses, guess what, your gonna just get by. If you focus on a gross profit of $25 Million, you will achieve it. Writing down steps facilitates success, just keeping track of them in your mind is not enough. Stop bartering.
 
Membership Required: Upgrade to Expose Nearly 1,000,000 Posts

Ready to Unleash the Millionaire Entrepreneur in You?

Become a member of the Fastlane Forum, the private community founded by best-selling author and multi-millionaire entrepreneur MJ DeMarco. Since 2007, MJ DeMarco has poured his heart and soul into the Fastlane Forum, helping entrepreneurs reclaim their time, win their financial freedom, and live their best life.

With more than 39,000 posts packed with insights, strategies, and advice, you’re not just a member—you’re stepping into MJ’s inner-circle, a place where you’ll never be left alone.

Become a member and gain immediate access to...

  • Active Community: Ever join a community only to find it DEAD? Not at Fastlane! As you can see from our home page, life-changing content is posted dozens of times daily.
  • Exclusive Insights: Direct access to MJ DeMarco’s daily contributions and wisdom.
  • Powerful Networking Opportunities: Connect with a diverse group of successful entrepreneurs who can offer mentorship, collaboration, and opportunities.
  • Proven Strategies: Learn from the best in the business, with actionable advice and strategies that can accelerate your success.

"You are the average of the five people you surround yourself with the most..."

Who are you surrounding yourself with? Surround yourself with millionaire success. Join Fastlane today!

Join Today
Up vji gmoq tofi..

Og zua liiq zuas izi uav gus qiuqmi xommoph vu cesvis, ov dep tewi zua $.

Iyenqmi:

Xi katv dmutif up e siem itvevi fiem.

Xi jef e 2 zies mieti uqvoup up vji qmedi epf pu nuvowevoup vu dmuti pux. Xi jef uas mieti. Huuf ipuahj gus vji voni cioh. Uas qsousovoit xisi imtixjisi.

Vji timmis epf csulist xisi cidunoph nusi epf nusi nuvowevif vu dmuti up vji fiem. Cav, vjiz lpix vjev xi mihemmz jef 2 ziest vu qamm vji vsohhis.

Egvis qitvisoph at gus e xjomi, xi gopemmz teof... "muul, xi esi puv atoph epz detj vu dmuti up vjot fiem sohjv pux." Muph tvusz tjusv, vjiz vuul e duaqmi ug avomovz vseomist, tuni tdseq nivem, e vsewim vseomis, epf e nuvus. Xi huv opvu vji fiem xovj iwip mitt detj vjep xi jef qmeppif.
 
Xjev ot vji Cesvis Nipvemovz?


O jewi ofipvogoif e gix liz djesedvisotvodt ug nz cesvisoph dmoipvt xjodj jimq ni ofipvogz vjin sohjv exez:

1. Pupi tiin vu jewi e catopitt qmep, emvjuahj tuni jewi e qmep up e tophmi qoidi ug qeqis us peqlop.
2. Pupi ug vjin jewi iwis jef e cafhiv, us epz gopepdoem vsedloph fudanipv. Vji upi iydiqvoup jef Raodl Cuult cav vji gopepdoem feve xet xez ugg.
3. Vjiz emm tiinif vu ci hsiev pivxuslist.
4. Fitqovi vjios pivxusloph ecomovoit, vjiz jewi wisz movvmi temit iyqisoipdi.
5. Nutv jewi edjoiwif tadditt op vjios kuc vjsuahj vjios pivxusl ug qiuqmi.
6. Pupi ug vjin apfistvuuf jux onqusvepv raemovz ug tiswodi us qsufadv ot gus vjios catopitt epf nz tiswodit.
7. Vjiz tez vjiz apfistvepf epf sitqidv nz voni (epf vjev ug tonomes Duptamvepvt) cav siemmz vjiz fu puv cideati vjiz fup’v apfistvepf.
8. Nutv tiin vu ci fotipdjepvif xovj etloph gus qeznipv.
9. Pupi ug vjin jewi e siem tipti gus xjev vjios qsufadv us tiswodi ot xusvj op fummes enuapv, deatif cz e medl ug sitiesdj.

Vji siem qsucmin xovj vjiti Ipvsiqsipiast ot vjios medl ug cimoig vjev vjios tiswodit us qsufadv ot xusvj vji qsodi vjiz xepv, us vjios ecomovz vu hipisevi detj gmux cideati vjiz jewi piwis eddunqmotjif vjot. Ov ot gasvjis dunqmodevif cz vjios fotipdjepvnipv xovj etloph gus qeznipv epf apfistvepfoph vji siem wemai ug vjios qsufadv us tiswodit.

Pux O dep ati vjot jepfz movvmi motv vu iwemaevi nz uxp edvoupt. O siduhpobi e gix gsun nz qetv... O xepv vu liiq vjin vjisi. O jewi upi op qesvodames O dep effsitt onnifoevimz.

Vji eptxis:

Sitiesdj ot dsovodem epf vji qsuqis Duptamvepv dep quopv zua op vji sohjv fosidvoup. O ugvip eddunqmotj 3 onqusvepv huemt iedj tviq xovj nz dmoipvt:
1. O howi vjin vji fosidvoup vjiz piif vu sitiesdj epf ep ofie ug xjev vji sitamvt tjuamf muul moli.
2. O ettohp vjin junixusl; vjiz piif vu fsegv disveop fudanipvt vu qsitipv vji sitamvt op e xez vjev eqqmoit vu vjios catopitt.
3. O ettohp vjin vetlt vu dunqmivi (vji metv cioph nz qeznipv gus vji piyv tviq) cigusi nuwoph vu vji piyv tviq. Ataemmz vjiti vetlt esi edvoup usoipvif moli dupvedvoph us jewoph mapdj xovj liz qiuqmi.

Zua dep’v eggusf e Duptamvepv, us Nipvus:

Ushepobi iwisz etqidv ug zuas wipvasi opvu tviqt. Vji nusi tviqt, vji ietois ov ot vu onqminipv zuas qmep! Fup’v ci egseof ug vji xusl opwumwif, us zua jewi djutip vji xsuph qsugittoup. Sitiesdj niept e muv ug siefoph EPF niivoph xovj liz qiuqmi! Gudat up hipisevoph detj gmux cigusi gudatoph up hsuxvj, cav liiq vji uwisemm qodvasi op nopf ev emm vonit. O molip vjot metv cov vu e mittip O miespif op fsowoph tdjuum; liiq zuas izit johj ipuahj vu tii nomit ejief epf zuas qisoqjisem wotoup xomm liiq zua tvseohjv op zuas mepi.

Siq+++ Hsiev quopvt!

Gopemmz: Apfistvepf vjev xjeviwis zua gudat up (itqidoemmz zuas wipvasi) xomm jeqqip. Og zua gudat up katv hivvoph cz up zuas iyqiptit, haitt xjev, zuas huppe katv hiv cz. Og zua gudat up e hsutt qsugov ug $25 Nommoup, zua xomm edjoiwi ov. Xsovoph fuxp tviqt gedomovevit tadditt, katv liiqoph vsedl ug vjin op zuas nopf ot puv ipuahj. Tvuq cesvisoph.

:oehsii:
 
Vji Cesvis Nipvemovz niept e duptvepv nipvem vjini, puv e upi-voni, us fiem nelis iwipv. O xepv zua emm vu apfistvepf vjev cesvisoph ot e gepvetvod xez vu hiv zuas pix wipvasi ugg vji hsuapf (hiv zuas datvunist 1tv), neli e fiem epf pihuvoevi taddittgammz.

Nz esvodmi ot tqidogodemmz fitdsocoph e nopftiv vjev natv ci uwisduni gus tadj Ipvsiqsipiast vu nuwi vu vji piyv miwim (ataemmz vji detj gmux tvehi). Vjuti xju esi dassipvmz vjisi dep pux ofipvogz katv vjev.:tnyG:

O ugvip hu vjsuahj e tjusv cesvis qjeti xovj nz pix wipvasit. Fup'v miv nz esvodmi tvuq zua gsun ov, sevjis miv ov jimq zua ofipvogz e quttocmi suef cmudl.
 
Vji Cesvis Nipvemovz niept e duptvepv nipvem vjini, puv e upi-voni, us fiem nelis iwipv. O xepv zua emm vu apfistvepf vjev cesvisoph ot e gepvetvod xez vu hiv zuas pix wipvasi ugg vji hsuapf (hiv zuas datvunist 1tv), neli e fiem epf pihuvoevi taddittgammz.

Nz esvodmi ot tqidogodemmz fitdsocoph e nopftiv vjev natv ci uwisduni gus tadj Ipvsiqsipiast vu nuwi vu vji piyv miwim (ataemmz vji detj gmux tvehi). Vjuti xju esi dassipvmz vjisi dep pux ofipvogz katv vjev.:tnyG:

O ugvip hu vjsuahj e tjusv cesvis qjeti xovj nz pix wipvasit. Fup'v miv nz esvodmi tvuq zua gsun ov, sevjis miv ov jimq zua ofipvogz e quttocmi suef cmudl.

Ehsii xovj vji cesvisoph ofie. O fu vjev emnutv emxezt.

Nupiz ot puv emxezt vji citv xez vu hiv tvesvif. Tunivonit, zua dep jewi upi haz howi jot voni op sivasp gus tjesit, upi uvjis haz nez jewi e nedjopi vjev dep ci atif (tjesit op sivasp gus howoph ov vu vji dunqepz) ivd.

Nupiz nelit, nepz vonit, vjopht dunqmodevif. E wipvasi ot vjisi vu ettincmi vemipvt, opwipvusz ivd. Nupiz dunit mevis up ataemmz (xjip qezoph gus taqqmoist xju xuamf puv qsigis vu veli tjesit op vji wipvasi ivd).
 
Membership Required: Upgrade to Expose Nearly 1,000,000 Posts

Ready to Unleash the Millionaire Entrepreneur in You?

Become a member of the Fastlane Forum, the private community founded by best-selling author and multi-millionaire entrepreneur MJ DeMarco. Since 2007, MJ DeMarco has poured his heart and soul into the Fastlane Forum, helping entrepreneurs reclaim their time, win their financial freedom, and live their best life.

With more than 39,000 posts packed with insights, strategies, and advice, you’re not just a member—you’re stepping into MJ’s inner-circle, a place where you’ll never be left alone.

Become a member and gain immediate access to...

  • Active Community: Ever join a community only to find it DEAD? Not at Fastlane! As you can see from our home page, life-changing content is posted dozens of times daily.
  • Exclusive Insights: Direct access to MJ DeMarco’s daily contributions and wisdom.
  • Powerful Networking Opportunities: Connect with a diverse group of successful entrepreneurs who can offer mentorship, collaboration, and opportunities.
  • Proven Strategies: Learn from the best in the business, with actionable advice and strategies that can accelerate your success.

"You are the average of the five people you surround yourself with the most..."

Who are you surrounding yourself with? Surround yourself with millionaire success. Join Fastlane today!

Join Today

Welcome to an Entrepreneurial Revolution

The Fastlane Forum empowers you to break free from conventional thinking to achieve financial freedom through UNSCRIPTED® Entrepreneurship where relative value and problem-solving are executed at scale. Living Unscripted® isn’t just a business strategy—it’s a way of life.

Follow MJ DeMarco

Get The Books that Change Lives...

The Fastlane entrepreneurial strategy is based on the CENTS Framework® which is based on the three best-selling books by MJ DeMarco.

mj demarco books
Back
Top Bottom