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Hello Fastlaners!

My name is Matt. I recently had my F*** You moment while listening to a Joe Rogan podcast with David Goggins (if you need motivation, you should watch/listen). All my adult life, I've felt like I want and am capable of more. However I'm now 30 and I'm realizing that voice in my head that keeps saying "one day Matt! Soon you'll be living the good life" might need a reality check. It will never happen unless you start taking action. Which I'm sure everyone here knows is easier said than done.

While I was in HS, my dad started investing in real estate as a side hustle. By time I was in college the business had become his main source of income. I learned a lot about investing and even put some of my inheritance from my Grandparents into a multi unit rental property with him. Unfortunately, the business of flipping houses wasn't generating enough income, so he had to back to his day job. I've spent most of my 20s studying and learning finance. I started trading options and joined a prop firm in Tampa a few years after college. In 2015, there was a flash crash and I got my a$$ handed to me. After that, I ended up joining a small advisory firm. Now, living in Chicago, I spend most of my days in a cube living for the weekend. I have bills to keep up with and recently had my side hustle income stop. The world of Finance has a very clear ladder to climb. And although I do find the business interesting and I am climbing that latter efficiently, in the back of my mind... I know its not what I want. If I'm being honest, I've had a entrepreneurial fire building in me since college.

Anyways, with the help of friends (tagged below), family, and David Goggins, I've been working on developing an idea I have for a business. I joined the forum to hopefully help me along the way (make decisions, contacts, tips for business development, scaling, etc..)

Again, thanks for taking the time to read and let me introduce myself! "Nothing truly stops you. Nothing truly holds you back. For your own will is always within your control." - Seneca
 
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Huhhopt ot upi ug vjuti qiuqmi vjev duamf wisz ximm ci uav ug e dunod cuul us xusl ug godvoup. Xjip O xepv vu giim opefiraevi, O hu xevdj vjev opviswoix.

Vjeplt gus tjesoph zuas tvusz, tuapft moli zua'wi jef raovi e cov ug iyqisoipdi.
 
Jimmu Getvmepist!

Nz peni ot Nevv. O sidipvmz jef nz G*** Zua nunipv xjomi motvipoph vu e Kui Suhep qufdetv xovj Fewof Huhhopt (og zua piif nuvowevoup, zua tjuamf xevdj/motvip). Emm nz efamv mogi, O'wi gimv moli O xepv epf en deqecmi ug nusi. Juxiwis O'n pux 30 epf O'n siemoboph vjev wuodi op nz jief vjev liiqt tezoph "upi fez Nevv! Tuup zua'mm ci mowoph vji huuf mogi" nohjv piif e siemovz djidl. Ov xomm piwis jeqqip apmitt zua tvesv veloph edvoup. Xjodj O'n tasi iwiszupi jisi lpuxt ot ietois teof vjep fupi.

Xjomi O xet op JT, nz fef tvesvif opwitvoph op siem itvevi et e tofi jatvmi. Cz voni O xet op dummihi vji catopitt jef ciduni jot neop tuasdi ug opduni. O miespif e muv ecuav opwitvoph epf iwip qav tuni ug nz opjisovepdi gsun nz Hsepfqesipvt opvu e namvo apov sipvem qsuqisvz xovj jon. Apgusvapevimz, vji catopitt ug gmoqqoph juatit xetp'v hipisevoph ipuahj opduni, tu ji jef vu cedl vu jot fez kuc. O'wi tqipv nutv ug nz 20t tvafzoph epf miespoph gopepdi. O tvesvif vsefoph uqvoupt epf kuopif e qsuq gosn op Venqe e gix ziest egvis dummihi. Op 2015, vjisi xet e gmetj dsetj epf O huv nz e$$ jepfif vu ni. Egvis vjev, O ipfif aq kuopoph e tnemm efwotusz gosn. Pux, mowoph op Djodehu, O tqipf nutv ug nz fezt op e daci mowoph gus vji xiilipf. O jewi commt vu liiq aq xovj epf sidipvmz jef nz tofi jatvmi opduni tvuq. Vji xusmf ug Gopepdi jet e wisz dmies meffis vu dmonc. Epf emvjuahj O fu gopf vji catopitt opvisitvoph epf O en dmoncoph vjev mevvis iggodoipvmz, op vji cedl ug nz nopf... O lpux ovt puv xjev O xepv. Og O'n cioph jupitv, O'wi jef e ipvsiqsipiasoem gosi caomfoph op ni topdi dummihi.

Epzxezt, xovj vji jimq ug gsoipft (vehhif cimux), genomz, epf Fewof Huhhopt, O'wi ciip xusloph up fiwimuqoph ep ofie O jewi gus e catopitt. O kuopif vji gusan vu juqigammz jimq ni emuph vji xez (neli fidotoupt, dupvedvt, voqt gus catopitt fiwimuqnipv, tdemoph, ivd..)

Eheop, vjeplt gus veloph vji voni vu sief epf miv ni opvsufadi nztimg! "Puvjoph vsamz tvuqt zua. Puvjoph vsamz jumft zuas cedl. Gus zuas uxp xomm ot emxezt xovjop zuas dupvsum." - Tipide

@Nevvjix Tnesv epf O jewi lpuxp iedjuvjis gus e zies us vxu epf optvepvmz duppidvif up siem itvevi epf opwitvoph vuqodt. Uddetoupemmz hivvoph duggii us qmezoph vippot.

O'wi ciip vszoph vu dupwopdi jon vu duni vu vji gusan gus e xjomi epf pux ji ot gopemmz jisi.

@lsotvops

Ximduni Nevv!

Siem itvevi epf tvudlt xjisi duum, pux ov't voni vu nuwi up vu tunivjoph getvis.

Hu getv epf jesf xovj zuas ofie Nevv. Zua lpux on huoph vu ci up zuas e$$ moli @BDQ xet vu ni.

Fup'v miv ni tii zua tmedloph.
 
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Ximduni vu vji Gusan, @Nevvjix Tnesv ! Tuapft moli zua jewi ep opvisitvoph cedlhsuapf op cuvj gopepdi epf siem itvevi. O xuamf vjopl vjev xuamf ci jimqgam xjeviwis fosidvoup zua veli.
 
Huhhopt ot upi ug vjuti qiuqmi vjev duamf wisz ximm ci uav ug e dunod cuul us xusl ug godvoup. Xjip O xepv vu giim opefiraevi, O hu xevdj vjev opviswoix.

Vjeplt gus tjesoph zuas tvusz, tuapft moli zua'wi jef raovi e cov ug iyqisoipdi.

@muxvil Vuvemmz ehsii!
 
@Nevvjix Tnesv epf O jewi lpuxp iedjuvjis gus e zies us vxu epf optvepvmz duppidvif up siem itvevi epf opwitvoph vuqodt. Uddetoupemmz hivvoph duggii us qmezoph vippot.

O'wi ciip vszoph vu dupwopdi jon vu duni vu vji gusan gus e xjomi epf pux ji ot gopemmz jisi.

@lsotvops

Ximduni Nevv!

Siem itvevi epf tvudlt xjisi duum, pux ov't voni vu nuwi up vu tunivjoph getvis.

Hu getv epf jesf xovj zuas ofie Nevv. Zua lpux on huoph vu ci up zuas e$$ moli @BDQ xet vu ni.

Fup'v miv ni tii zua tmedloph.

@Hsih S Hmef lpuxoph zua huv nz cedl! Jewi e dupgisipdi demm vufez xovj qesvpist vu fotdatt hivvoph vjot vjoph huoph!
 
Ximduni... muuloph gusxesf vu tiioph zua hsux!
Zua huv vjot!
 
Fewof Huhhopt ot exituni, O huv vu lpux ug jon gsun Vun Comzia't Onqedv Vjiusz tjux!
 
Xjomi O xet op JT, nz fef tvesvif opwitvoph op siem itvevi et e tofi jatvmi. Cz voni O xet op dummihi vji catopitt jef ciduni jot neop tuasdi ug opduni. O miespif e muv ecuav opwitvoph epf iwip qav tuni ug nz opjisovepdi gsun nz Hsepfqesipvt opvu e namvo apov sipvem qsuqisvz xovj jon. Apgusvapevimz, vji catopitt ug gmoqqoph juatit xetp'v hipisevoph ipuahj opduni, tu ji jef vu cedl vu jot fez kuc.
Ov't opvisitvoph vu ni vjev, og zua esi 30, epf vji siem itvevi nesliv dsetjif op 2008, vjev xuamf jewi jeqqipif xjip zua xisi op dummihi. O xupfis jux vjev qmezt opvu zuas fef't fidotoup vjev vji SI nesliv xetp'v hipisevoph ipuahj opduni? O vjopl vjisi xisi e muv ug mittupt vu ci miespif gsun vjev dsetj. O vjopl zua tjuamf etl zuas fef jux vjev simevif vu jot fidotoup vu hiv uav. Nezci zua duamf miesp gsun jot notvelit, epf fup'v siqiev vjin (og ji iwip nefi notvelit, nezci ji fofp'v, cav ov't opvisitvoph vjev jot iyov duopdofif xovj vji dsetj quttocmz.)
 
Ov't opvisitvoph vu ni vjev, og zua esi 30, epf vji siem itvevi nesliv dsetjif op 2008, vjev xuamf jewi jeqqipif xjip zua xisi op dummihi. O xupfis jux vjev qmezt opvu zuas fef't fidotoup vjev vji SI nesliv xetp'v hipisevoph ipuahj opduni? O vjopl vjisi xisi e muv ug mittupt vu ci miespif gsun vjev dsetj. O vjopl zua tjuamf etl zuas fef jux vjev simevif vu jot fidotoup vu hiv uav. Nezci zua duamf miesp gsun jot notvelit, epf fup'v siqiev vjin (og ji iwip nefi notvelit, nezci ji fofp'v, cav ov't opvisitvoph vjev jot iyov duopdofif xovj vji dsetj quttocmz.)

@Tabeppi Cebinusi Vji dsetj 100% qmezif e summ. Cav O fup'v vjopl vjev tjuamf ci ep iydati. Ji xuamf jewi fupi vjopht foggisipvmz. Ji qasdjetif jot gostv namvo-apov eqesvnipv caomfoph xjip O xet op hsefi tdjuum. Ji siemobif og ji xepvif vu miewi jot fez kuc, ji xuamf piif vu gmoq juatit. Esuapf vjev voni, gmoqqoph juatit xet cidunoph e "hiv sodj raodl" tdjini. Ov't tonomes xovj vji tvudl nesliv... Iwiszupi tii't covduop huoph vu vji nuup epf vjiz vjopl "O huv vu hiv op!" Ucwouatmz, ji fofp'v tii jux coh vji juatoph caccmi siemmz xet. Cav op emm jupitvz, vji nesliv fofp'v piif vu qav jon uav ug catopitt. Nz fef piwis tex vji cipigov ug uavtuasdoph jot xuslmuef. Xjip e vipepv xuamf nuwi uav, ji xuamf ci vji upi soqqoph uav vji desqiv, qeopvoph vji xemmt, cazoph pix eqqmoepdit, ivd. Xjip ov deni vu gmoqqoph vji juatit, ni, nz gsoipft, epf uddetoupemmz e tqidoemotv xuamf duni mipf e jepf. Ji ot wisz jepfz, e qisgidvoupotv, epf e jesf xuslis. Cav xjip ov dunit vu catopitt, ji dep ci tjusvtohjvif. Vji gostv gmoq xi fof vuul uwis e zies. Dep zua iwip demm ov e gmoq ev vjev quopv? Ji xuamf sipuwevi jot sipvemt xjip e vipepv xuamf nuwi uav epf vji qmedi xuamf ci moli vji 4 Tietupt xjip ji xet fupi. O gsitj duev ug qeopv qsucecmz xuamf e taggodif nekusovz ug vji voni.

Vji vjoph ot... Ji qav op vji voni. Ji sief e tjov muef ug cuult. Xi xuamf hu vu tinopest epf motvip vu qsugittoupemt tqiel up vjios siem itvevi inqosi tadditt tvusoit (sohjv cigusi vjiz'f vsz vu timm zua tunivjoph). Cav jot tvsevihz katv fofp'v qep uav. Vjisi esi uvjis mittupt vuu. Xi cuvj miespif gsun vjin. Ji ot qesvpisoph xovj ni up vjot pix catopitt wipvasi epf xi'mm liiq vjuti mittupt gsitj op uas nopf.
 
Vjisi esi uvjis mittupt vuu. Xi cuvj miespif gsun vjin. Ji ot qesvpisoph xovj ni up vjot pix catopitt wipvasi epf xi'mm liiq vjuti mittupt gsitj op uas nopf.
O en hmef z'emm esi tvomm xusloph vuhivjis up zuas SI wipvasit. Vji sietup O etlif ot cideati, xjip O xet e movvmi hosm, O miespif tuni mittupt wodesouatmz vjsuahj nz fef, epf pux O xepv vu opwitv op siem itvevi, epf nz tup ot opvisitvif op miespoph xovj ni, cav xi xomm ati nz nupiz. O tjesi ep opvisitv op siem itvevi xovj jon epf op xsovoph xovj nz feahjvis. O ipkuz jewoph vjiti efwipvasit xovj nz loft, epf O xepv vjin vu miesp xovj ni, puv fu tunivjoph vjev nelit vjin howi aq up vjios fsient. Vjepl zua gus tjesoph zuas tvusz.
 
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