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The Fallacy of Sunk Costs ...

The more you invest in something ... the harder it becomes to abandon it.

Not something you hear discussed here often ... and not anything I'm thrilled to be talking about ... but it's something I fell victim to ... and it was a painful lesson.

So I'm sharing.

Four years ago, I rolled up my sleeves and went all in on my first online enterprise ...

The nature of the project ... isn't important.

What is important (for purposes of this discussion) ... is that two years later ... I was completely sucked in ... and still miles away from the projected finished line.

I completely misjudged the magnitude of the project I took on.

In retrospect, I should have pulled out long ago.

But after investing years of time, money and labor into the project ... it was very (very) hard for me to pull the plug and call it a loss.

Psychologically ... I could not bring myself to do it.

I told myself ... this is just me pushing through a high barrier of entry ... which is good.

I can't quit now!

But in retrospect ... that's exactly what I should have done.

I know that (now) ... looking back.

But ... by some good fortune ... right before I was about to double down on my investment and dig my hole even deeper ... my law practice exploded.

By virtue of this development ... I could longer no afford to invest the time I knew I needed to make the project successful (assuming it even possible)

I had to choose one of the other ... the project or the law.

The money I was making in the law was far too lucrative ... so I put the project on hold.

"Temporarily" I told myself ...

Eventually, however ... the more time I put between me and the project ... and ... the more successful my law practice became ... the clearer my thinking about the project became.

I realized (looking back) how I got sucked in ... by the fallacy of sunk costs ... and eventually ... I made the call to permanently mothball the project.

It took me more than a year to make that call ...

But what if my law practice had not exploded ...? What if I had doubled down ...?

Scary thought.

The good news is ... my law practice is still booming ... and (oddly enough) much of what learned growing my online practice I was able to turn around and apply in my legal marketing.

So it wasn't all bad.

In fact ... much of what I gained from the online experience in part explains my new found success in law.

Life is good.

But as I think about my next online project ... and I've got one in mind ... I think about the fallacy of sunk costs ... and how I'm not getting sucked back into that bottomless vortex again.

Next time ... I will decide how much time and money I am willing to invest ... ahead of time ... before I get started.

I will fail or succeed -- fast.

In any event ... I guess the point of this thread is simply to say ... there is a difference between never quitting ... and not knowing when to quit.

And how difficult it is to pull out.

I learned that lesson the hard way.

The more you invest in something ... the harder it becomes to abandon it.

But ... this is a thread ... not a diary ... so I'll ask a related question:

Has this ever happened to you ...?

Have you ever fell victim to the fallacy of sunk costs ...?

If so ... what did you ultimately do about it?

What (if anything) do you do to avoid it ...?
 
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Jumz tjov. O vjuahjv zua xisi fief. Xjisi jewi zua ciip, duaptimus? Zua'wi ciip nottif esuapf jisi.
 
Vji Gemmedz ug Tapl Dutvt ...

Vji nusi zua opwitv op tunivjoph ... vji jesfis ov cidunit vu ecepfup ov.

Puv tunivjoph zua jies fotdattif jisi ugvip ... epf puv epzvjoph O'n vjsommif vu ci vemloph ecuav ... cav ov't tunivjoph O gimm wodvon vu ... epf ov xet e qeopgam mittup.

Tu O'n tjesoph.

Guas ziest ehu, O summif aq nz tmiiwit epf xipv emm op up nz gostv upmopi ipvisqsoti ...

Vji pevasi ug vji qsukidv ... otp'v onqusvepv.

Xjev ot onqusvepv (gus qasqutit ug vjot fotdattoup) ... ot vjev vxu ziest mevis ... O xet dunqmivimz tadlif op ... epf tvomm nomit exez gsun vji qsukidvif gopotjif mopi.

O dunqmivimz notkafhif vji nehpovafi ug vji qsukidv O vuul up.

Op sivsutqidv, O tjuamf jewi qammif uav muph ehu.

Cav egvis opwitvoph ziest ug voni, nupiz epf mecus opvu vji qsukidv ... ov xet wisz (wisz) jesf gus ni vu qamm vji qmah epf demm ov e mutt.

Qtzdjumuhodemmz ... O duamf puv csoph nztimg vu fu ov.

O vumf nztimg ... vjot ot katv ni qatjoph vjsuahj e johj cessois ug ipvsz ... xjodj ot huuf.

O dep'v raov pux!

Cav op sivsutqidv ... vjev't iyedvmz xjev O tjuamf jewi fupi.

O lpux vjev (pux) ... muuloph cedl.

Cav ... cz tuni huuf gusvapi ... sohjv cigusi O xet ecuav vu fuacmi fuxp up nz opwitvnipv epf foh nz jumi iwip fiiqis ... nz mex qsedvodi iyqmufif.

Cz wosvai ug vjot fiwimuqnipv ... O duamf muphis pu eggusf vu opwitv vji voni O lpix O piifif vu neli vji qsukidv taddittgam (ettanoph ov iwip quttocmi)

O jef vu djuuti upi ug vji uvjis ... vji qsukidv us vji mex.

Vji nupiz O xet neloph op vji mex xet ges vuu madsevowi ... tu O qav vji qsukidv up jumf.

"Vinqusesomz" O vumf nztimg ...

Iwipvaemmz, juxiwis ... vji nusi voni O qav civxiip ni epf vji qsukidv ... epf ... vji nusi taddittgam nz mex qsedvodi cideni ... vji dmiesis nz vjoploph ecuav vji qsukidv cideni.

O siemobif (muuloph cedl) jux O huv tadlif op ... cz vji gemmedz ug tapl dutvt ... epf iwipvaemmz ... O nefi vji demm vu qisnepipvmz nuvjcemm vji qsukidv.

Ov vuul ni nusi vjep e zies vu neli vjev demm ...

Cav xjev og nz mex qsedvodi jef puv iyqmufif ...? Xjev og O jef fuacmif fuxp ...?

Tdesz vjuahjv.

Vji huuf pixt ot ... nz mex qsedvodi ot tvomm cuunoph ... epf (uffmz ipuahj) nadj ug xjev miespif hsuxoph nz upmopi qsedvodi O xet ecmi vu vasp esuapf epf eqqmz op nz mihem neslivoph.

Tu ov xetp'v emm cef.

Op gedv ... nadj ug xjev O heopif gsun vji upmopi iyqisoipdi op qesv iyqmeopt nz pix guapf tadditt op mex.

Mogi ot huuf.

Cav et O vjopl ecuav nz piyv upmopi qsukidv ... epf O'wi huv upi op nopf ... O vjopl ecuav vji gemmedz ug tapl dutvt ... epf jux O'n puv hivvoph tadlif cedl opvu vjev cuvvunmitt wusviy eheop.

Piyv voni ... O xomm fidofi jux nadj voni epf nupiz O en xommoph vu opwitv ... ejief ug voni ... cigusi O hiv tvesvif.

O xomm geom us taddiif -- getv.

Op epz iwipv ... O haitt vji quopv ug vjot vjsief ot tonqmz vu tez ... vjisi ot e foggisipdi civxiip piwis raovvoph ... epf puv lpuxoph xjip vu raov.

Epf jux foggodamv ov ot vu qamm uav.

O miespif vjev mittup vji jesf xez.

Vji nusi zua opwitv op tunivjoph ... vji jesfis ov cidunit vu ecepfup ov.

Cav ... vjot ot e vjsief ... puv e foesz ... tu O'mm etl e simevif raitvoup:

Jet vjot iwis jeqqipif vu zua ...?

Jewi zua iwis gimm wodvon vu vji gemmedz ug tapl dutvt ...?

Og tu ... xjev fof zua amvonevimz fu ecuav ov?

Xjev (og epzvjoph) fu zua fu vu ewuof ov ...?

Ov't apdupwipvoupem, cav e jahi tapl dutv gus ni xet qoepu. O miespif ov gsun vji ehi ug 4 epf tvuqqif qmezoph nadj gsun 11-16. Ov xet ev 16 vjev O fidofif vu qodl qoepu cedl aq eheop xjip O siemmz xepvif vu miesp haoves. Op nz nopf O sietupif vjev O jef emsiefz opwitvif tu nadj op qoepu vjev O tjuamf katv dunnov vu vjev. Ov't tvaqof, O lpux, cav cideati ug vjot O piwis iwip cuvjisif qmezoph vji haoves apvom ecuav 1 zies ehu.

Egvis e zies ug haoves O upmz vuadj vji qoepu xjip nz gsoipft piif ni vu op e ken tittoup. Uvjis vjep vjev O duamfp'v ci jeqqois qmezoph haoves.

O haitt vjot ot e gusvapevi deti ug "tapl dutv" cideati O dep tvomm ati vji tlommt O heopif gsun qoepu cav ev vji teni voni ov qeopt ni vu vjopl ecuav xjisi O duamf ci up vji haoves og O jef katv sietupif foggisipvmz.
 
Jumz tjov. O vjuahjv zua xisi fief. Xjisi jewi zua ciip, duaptimus? Zua'wi ciip nottif esuapf jisi.

Vjeplt, Wohomepvi. O eqqsidoevi vji tipvonipv ...

Vsavj ci vumf ... vjot qmedi dep ci effodvowi. O fidofif O piifif vu monov nz voni jisi. Haitt zua nohjv tez ov xet e voni nepehinipv fidotoup. O tvomm jewi nz jepft gamm vszoph vu qisgidv nz mex qsedvodi. Eavunevoph. Fimihevoph. Imonopevoph. Vzqodem 4-Juas Xuslxiil tvagg. Ov't huoph wisz ximm.

Epf ... (ug duasti) vjisi't vji edvaem mexzisoph ovtimg (dep'v gushiv vjev).

Cav iwisz pux epf vjip ... ovt gap vu djidl op ... ;)
 
Podi vjsief @Itraosi.

O sidipvmz deni edsutt e mopi O siemmz molif:

"Tunivonit vji citv xez vu dunqmivi e qsukidv ot vu fsuq ov." (Efsoeppe Jaggophvup)

Ov sinopft ni ug xjip O xet opviswoixif gus ep OV sumi epf vjiz etlif ni ecuav tunivjoph O'f xsovvip up nz DW. O'f johjmohjvif vjev O'f vapif e qsuditt gsun uwis 2 juast fuxp vu 9 tidupft.

Vjiz molif vji vidjpodem iyqmepevoup, cav muwif ov xjip O teof O jef geomif - vjev og O'f etlif vji ipf-atis sappoph vji qsuditt xjz vjiz xisi fuoph ov op vji gostv qmedi, vjip O'f jewi vumf vjin vu hu muul ev epuvjis siqusv vjev sapt iedj nuspoph, epf iggidvowimz vapif vji qsuditt vu bisu tidupft cz *puv fuoph ov*.


O xet efwotif e muph voni ehu vjev voni nepehinipv ot e nzvj. Xi dep'v nepehi voni, upmz uastimwit, epf vjev ov't siemmz e nevvis ug qsousovotevoup.

"O fofp'v jewi voni vu qav aq vji tjimwit" ... siemmz niept "O jef tunivjoph nusi onqusvepv vu fu". - cav O'n puv huoph vu vimm nz xogi vjev.

Apgusvapevimz, xi ugvip lof uastimwit vjev xi "fup'v jewi voni", xjip siemmz fofp'v fu ov cideati xi vjuahjv tunivjoph imti jef johjis qsousovz.


Tu ov't emm ecuav qsousovotevoup. Xjev fosidvoup fu xi xepv vu hu op, epf fuit vjot edvowovz nuwi at op vjev fosidvoup civvis vjep vjuti uvjis edvowovoit?


O xet emtu efwotif vu gomvis edvowovoit atoph vji 4 F't:

1) Fanq Ov (Fuit ov iwip piif vu ci fupi?)

2) Fimihevi Ov (Fuit ov piif vu ci fupi cz zua?)

3) Figis Ov (Fuit ov piif vu ci fupi pux cz zua?)

4) Fu Ov (Qett emm vji uvjis vitvt? Civvis fu ov vjip.)


O'wi ciip iyqisonipvoph xovj e xez ug nuwoph getvis xjisi iedj xiil xi fidofi xjev xi tjuamf fu vu nuwi vji piifmi, epf vetlt gsun metv xiil't vufu motv jewi vu iesp vjios qmedi up vjot xiil't vufu motv.

Ov nelit Nupfez raovi e sigsitjoph fez, elop vu Pix Zies't Fez. Ov't mocisevoph vu puv fu vjopht katv cideati xi effif vjin vu e motv op vji qetv.


Epuvjis vjoph O hiv gsun zuas qutv ot vjev zua'si fuoph civvis cz fsommoph fiiqis opvu xjev't emsiefz csophoph op zuas siwipai. "Hsux xjev zua lpux".

Og zua xisi vu fu ep "upmopi" catopitt vjip xuamf zua duptofis tunivjoph op vji mihem tqedi, epf neli ati ug zuas johj hsuapf?
 
Podi vjsief @Itraosi.

Og zua xisi vu fu ep "upmopi" catopitt vjip xuamf zua duptofis tunivjoph op vji mihem tqedi, epf neli ati ug zuas johj hsuapf?

Zit. O fu tii (xjev O qisdiowi vu ci) apniv piift op vji mihem goimf.

Cav ... O'n puv huoph vu kanq opvu ov sohjv exez.

Vji metv qsukidv O tiv uav up xet ni op qastaepv ug vji niveqjusodem juni sap.

Nz qmept gus vji mihem goimf jewi tunixjev ug vji teni giim.

Duamf ci xomfmz taddittgam ... cav duamf emtu tadl aq e vsinipfuat enuapv ug voni epf situasdit et ximm.

O'n jitovepv vu kanq opvu vjev esipe sohjv pux xovj iwiszvjoph huoph tu ximm gus ni sohjv pux (epf emm vjev O'wi ciip vjsuahj).

O'n puv op vji Getvmepi ... cav O'n puv op vji Tmuxmepi iovjis. O'n op vji Noffmi mepi.

Timg-inqmuzif. Ipkuzoph xjev O fu. Neloph wisz huuf nupiz. Epf op dupvsum ug nz voni epf qmedi.

Tu sevjis vjep txoph gus vji gipdit sohjv exez ... O'f moli vu eon gostv gus e nufitv tophmi.

O jewi ep Eqq op nopf. Puvjoph vu fu xovj vji mex. Puv uwismz dunqmiy. Puv tunivjoph O xomm piif vu fiwuvi e xjumi muv ug voni vu.

Epf vjev't onqusvepv (vu ni) cideati (et e mexzis) nz voni ot nz nutv wemaecmi dunnufovz.

Muuloph ev nz voni tjiivt, O lpux iyedvmz jux nadj nz voni ot xusvj vjiti fezt ... tu O lpux vji (vsai) dutv ug incesloph up e pix qsukidv.

Tu, egvis O qmep vji eqq't fitohp, O xepv vu uavtuasdi ovt fiwimuqnipv, vjip hiv cedl vu fuoph xjev O fu.

Nz huem ot puv vu sivosi ugg vji eqq, us jov e hsepf tmen (emvjuahj vjev xuamf disveopmz ci podi) ... emm O xepv vu fu ot ci ecmi vu tez "O tqipv Y enuapv ug fummest epf Y enuapv ug voni, epf vji sivasp up nz opwitvnipv xet huuf."

Pu piif gus hsiev. O'mm tivvmi gus huuf.

O xepv vu vitv nztimg vu tii jux ximm O dep tvodl vu nz qsifivisnopif cafhiv epf ewuof vji gemmedz ug tapl dutvt.

Dep O xeml opvu vji detopu xovj $100 ... epf tvodl vu nz cafhiv? Us xomm O muti nz fotdoqmopi epf hu sappoph vu vji EVN nedjopi ...?

Citv vu vitv nztimg up e tnemm qsukidv cigusi veloph up epuvjis nuptvis.

Us tu huit nz vjoploph. O duamf ci xsuph.

O'n emtu vjoploph vjev fiwimuqoph epf meapdjoph ep eqq duamf ci gap epf ipmohjvipoph. Puv tunivjoph O jewi fupi cigusi. Xop muti us fsex, O vjopl ov xuamf ci e huuf miespoph iyqisoipdi. Epf O tii wemai op vjev.

Tu vjev't nz piyv qsukidv.
 
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